What does it mean to be spiritually lost?

Answered from the commentary of W. T. P. Wolston, Frank Binford Hole, F. B. Hole and 9 others

To be spiritually lost is to be away from God and alienated from Him in heart and mind, without peace with Him or eternal life. It is a present condition of the unsaved, not only something that begins at death: sin has separated man from God, and left him guilty and under judgment. It is also a state of spiritual death: alive to sin and the world, but dead toward God, without understanding or desire for Him. In this condition there is neither power nor desire in oneself for recovery; left to oneself, one cannot return to God or remedy the ruin. The passages speak of this as the condition of every unsaved person, though sins differ in degree.

This lost state calls for the Saviour, who came to seek and to save the lost; salvation rests on His work, not on human effort. To receive that salvation is to acknowledge one’s true condition before God and trust in Christ; repentance and faith belong together, though their outward expression may differ. The lost are not beyond hope while the call of grace remains open: Christ seeks and saves, and the passages describe the saved as found and brought home by Him.

Verses: Luke 19:10, Matthew 18:11, Luke 15:4, Luke 15:5, Luke 15:6, Luke 15:7, Luke 15:8, Luke 15:9, Luke 15:10, Luke 15:11, Luke 15:12, Luke 15:13, Luke 15:14, Luke 15:15, Luke 15:16, Luke 15:17, Luke 15:18, Luke 15:19, Luke 15:20, Luke 15:21, Luke 15:22, Luke 15:23, Luke 15:24, Luke 15:25, Luke 15:26, Luke 15:27, Luke 15:28, Luke 15:29, Luke 15:30, Luke 15:31, Luke 15:32, Matthew 9:12, Matthew 9:13, Luke 5:31, Luke 5:32, John 3:18, John 3:19, John 3:20, John 8:24, Romans 3:23, Romans 6:23, Ephesians 2:1, Ephesians 2:2, Ephesians 2:3, Ephesians 2:4, Ephesians 2:5, 2 Corinthians 4:3, 2 Corinthians 4:4, Colossians 1:13, Colossians 1:14, 1 Peter 2:25, Isaiah 53:6, Proverbs 14:12, Isaiah 59:1, Isaiah 59:2, Psalms 119:176, Jeremiah 50:6, Ezekiel 34:16, John 10:10, John 10:27, John 10:28, John 10:29, John 10:30, Romans 10:9, Romans 10:10, Romans 10:11, Romans 10:12, Romans 10:13, Acts 3:19, 2 Peter 3:9, John 14:6, 1 Timothy 2:3, 1 Timothy 2:4, 1 Timothy 2:5, 1 Timothy 2:6, Titus 3:3, Titus 3:4, Titus 3:5, Titus 3:6, Titus 3:7

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What the commentators say

The passages the answer is drawn from, the most direct first, with the words that bear on the question marked.

J. N. DarbyGrace and Glory

Let us see what that character of "lost" is. There were the two things; I was guilty before God (not merely lost, though "lost" goes a great deal further), and besides that, there was the state I was in. "Guilty" refers to judgment; but when I say "I am lost," I speak of my present state. My carnal mind is enmity against God, so "they that are in the flesh cannot please God." I am "guilty" by reason of what I have done; but I am "lost" by reason of the state I am in. I am not in the earthly paradise in which Adam was, nor am I in the heavenly paradise where God is. Where am I? Totally away from God. It is not in the first moment of that awakening we learn the extent of this - that it is all over with me (not that God cannot take me out of that place). You must make the tree good, as well as its fruit. It is not merely that I have done wrong - the fruit - by which I am "guilty" - but the tree is bad. God is holy, and I am unholy; so I never can be with Him - though, of course, grace comes in - but that was our condition.

James BoydThe Glad Tidings of God and the Mystery of the Gospel

THE SEPARATION THAT EXISTS BETWEEN MAN AND GOD was brought in by sin. The love and the confidence that were natural to him in his innocent state were displaced by the fear and distrust that took possession of his heart in consequence of the transgression of which he was guilty; and that fear and distrust of his Maker dominate and shape the lives of every one of his descendants. And it is not that wholesome and reverential fear that has its congenial habitation in the heart of every intelligent being who is in right relations with God, but it is that terror that is born of the sin of which his conscience tells him he is guilty, and which prevents him from looking at God in any other light than that of a merciless Judge, and this is so wrought upon by his viperous enemy, the devil, that even the overtures of his Creator’s unfathomable grace are utterly disbelieved and refused.

Two words describe the natural condition of fallen man, and they are dead and lost. Alive—fully alive—to this godless world, to its pleasures, to its pride, to its lust, to its vices, and to everything that will minister a momentary gratification to his insatiable desires; but dead to God by the enmity of his apostate condition, and by the darkness in which he has found his God-forsaken home; but a darkness that is loved, because he thinks it hides from view the deeds of which he feels he ought to be ashamed.

And lost, because in him there is neither power nor desire for recovery. He can invent no remedy for his fallen condition. He is sin’s servant, and his lusts like a whirlwind carry him away in the path of destruction. He can neither retrace his footsteps nor moderate the rapidity of his headlong career. Therefore he will banish the thought of God from his mind altogether, for every such thought only increases his misery.

J. N. DarbyThe Christian not of the world

As dead in sins, we are totally away from God. Do not we know it, beloved friends? Take the most respectable, decent man in the world — the things of Christ have no interest for him — he is dead towards God; he may be intelligent, honest, etc., but you never get Christ in his heart. It was just the same with ourselves. It is not a question of reprobate criminals, but we were dead.

F. B. HoleEphesians

Such were we, whether Jew or Gentile. At one and the same moment we were dead in trespasses and sins and yet active in all kinds of evil. Very much alive to everything wrong, yet wholly dead to God. Being dead towards God we were without any point of recovery in ourselves: our only hope lay in Him. Hence the great words with which verse 4 opens, "But God —"

Samuel RidoutLecture 20

In order to know man's sinful condition, we do not need to know what is the record of his life. The proof of sin in man is that he is at home outside of God's presence, and absolutely unhappy in that presence — a proof that includes all men. We need not lay specific transgressions to men's charge. God, who knows the heart, alone can do that and He knows there is plenty in every man's life that, when the records are opened, will show much actual transgression. But that man is at a distance from God, none can dispute: the thought of God, as the psalmist says, gives him trouble. This is where God must find a man if He finds him at all. The apostle speaks of it in that way. To saints in the assembly at Ephesus who had been Gentiles, he says: "Ye were … strangers from the covenants of promise, having no hope, and without God in the world." How did the creature become a stranger to the Creator? There can be but one answer: Sin has come in and brought in alienation and distance from the God of goodness and love. But, thank God, it is just there that His grace begins.

F. B. HoleQuickening

Our state is set forth in Ephesians 2:1, as "dead in trespasses and sins." The next verse remarkably enough goes on to speak of walking in those trespasses and sins; but that is because the death there spoken of is death towards God. Those who are dead Godward are very much alive to "the course of this world," and "the prince of the power of the air," who operates in the "children of disobedience." To be dead towards God is entirely consistent with being alive towards the world and the devil: indeed the one springs out of the other.

J. N. DarbyA Reading on Galatians 2:19-21

There are two distinct things in which the Ephesians' starting.point is completely different from Romans. The starting.point in Romans is man's responsibility: he is guilty, all the world is guilty. There are proofs of sin both in Jew and Gentile; man is looked at as alive in sins. In Ephesians he is dead in them; a different thought altogether. Alive in sin in Romans, but, for that very reason, dead towards God - not a movement in his heart towards God. After a man is dead he neither speaks, nor moves, nor feels. I want to be dead to sin, and alive to God, and then everything changes. The point is to get sins and sin dealt with; the fruit cleared away, and the tree dead; and this is fully brought out in Romans: "Propitiation through faith in his blood;" and then, "Reckon ye yourselves dead to sin."

A. J. PollockPractical Papers

How serious is spiritual death. Many speak ignorantly of a Divine spark in every man that only needs to be fanned into a flame, but the Bible speaks of the sinner as “DEAD in trespasses and sins” (Eph. 2:1), of “being alienated from the life of God” (Eph. 4:18), and presses even upon a religious man like Nicodemus the necessity of the new birth, even as the Apostle Paul speaks of the believers being quickened with Christ. Doubtless the latter is a more advanced thought than the former, but evidently both lie in the domain of God’s sovereignty, for a man can no more produce his second and spiritual birth than the first and natural birth, and no man can quicken himself. The power of producing life lies alone with God.

W. W. FeredayFaith and its Foundations

Certainly, there is not a soul who does not need forgiveness, though we do at times fall in with some of the ninety-and-nine just persons who judge that they have no need of repentance. But they are deceiving themselves. The wise man's words are all too true: "There is not a just man upon earth that does good and sins not" (Eccles. 7:20). The summing up of the Apostle is even more conclusive: "There is no difference, for all have sinned and come short of the glory of God" (Rom. 3:23). Such comprehensive language leaves no door of escape for any; the whole human family is brought thereby under the judgement of God. Moreover, from such a condition none can extricate themselves; no amount of human effort, as amendment of life, almsgiving, etc., can possibly purge away a single sin.

The Christian's FriendExpository Papers on Romans 1 - 3

It does not, I think, mean here that there is no difference in degrees of wickedness, or that God makes no distinction between men; for we read in Rev. 20 12, "The dead were judged … according to their works," and in Luke 12:47-48 we have the same thing; but that there is no difference in the sight of God between the Jew and the Gentile for the simple reason that "all have sinned," and "all" do "come short of the glory of God." See how this sentence cuts at the root of all human pride and self-righteousness. First of all God says "all have sinned." How easily, and with what indifference, do people use the language of Scripture! How common to hear people say, "Yes, of course we are all sinners," as if it was a matter of course, and it did not make much difference whether we were or not. But have you ever thought, dear reader, what God says is the consequence of being a sinner? He says, in Rom. 6:23, "The wages of sin is death." And what then? "After this the judgment." (Heb. 9:27.) And after the judgment? "The lake of fire." (Rev. 20:15.) And then? Eternity. But not only have all sinned but notice the expression, "all do come short of the glory of God;" not "have come short," but "do come short," is the correct way of reading it. What a standard God gives! God does not say, "You have come short of what you ought to be." Most would own that; but He says, "You have come short of my glory."

Verses

  • Luke 19:10for the Son of man has come to seek and to save that which is lost.
  • Matthew 18:11For the Son of man has come to save that which was lost.
  • Luke 15:4–324What man of you having a hundred sheep, and having lost one of them, does not leave the ninety and nine in the wilderness and go after that which is lost, until he find it? 5and having found it, he lays it upon his own shoulders, rejoicing; 6and being come to the house, calls together the friends and the neighbours, saying to them, Rejoice with me, for I have found my lost sheep. 7I say unto you, that thus there shall be joy in heaven for one repenting sinner, [more] than for ninety and nine righteous who have no need of repentance. 8Or, what woman having ten drachmas, if she lose one drachma, does not light a lamp and sweep the house and seek carefully till she find it? 9and having found it she calls together the friends and neighbours, saying, Rejoice with me, for I have found the drachma which I had lost. 10Thus, I say unto you, there is joy before the angels of God for one repenting sinner. 11And he said, A certain man had two sons; 12and the younger of them said to his father, Father, give to me the share of the property that falls [to me]. And he divided to them what he was possessed of. 13And after not many days the younger son gathering all together went away into a country a long way off, and there dissipated his property, living in debauchery. 14But when he had spent all there arose a violent famine throughout that country, and he began to be in want. 15And he went and joined himself to one of the citizens of that country, and he sent him into his fields to feed swine. 16And he longed to fill his belly with the husks which the swine were eating; and no one gave to him. 17And coming to himself, he said, How many hired servants of my father's have abundance of bread, and I perish here by famine. 18I will rise up and go to my father, and I will say to him, Father, I have sinned against heaven and before thee; 19I am no longer worthy to be called thy son make me as one of thy hired servants. 20And he rose up and went to his own father. But while he was yet a long way off, his father saw him, and was moved with compassion, and ran, and fell upon his neck, and covered him with kisses. 21And the son said to him, Father, I have sinned against heaven and before thee; I am no longer worthy to be called thy son. 22But the father said to his bondmen, Bring out the best robe and clothe him in [it], and put a ring on his hand and sandals on his feet; 23and bring the fatted calf and kill it, and let us eat and make merry 24for this my son was dead and has come to life, was lost and has been found. And they began to make merry. 25And his elder son was in the field; and as, coming [up], he drew nigh to the house, he heard music and dancing. 26And having called one of the servants, he inquired what these things might be. 27And he said to him, Thy brother is come, and thy father has killed the fatted calf because he has received him safe and well. 28But he became angry and would not go in. And his father went out and besought him. 29But he answering said to his father, Behold, so many years I serve thee, and never have I transgressed a commandment of thine; and to me hast thou never given a kid that I might make merry with my friends 30but when this thy son, who has devoured thy substance with harlots, is come, thou hast killed for him the fatted calf. 31But he said to him, Child, thou art ever with me, and all that is mine is thine. 32But it was right to make merry and rejoice, because this thy brother was dead and has come to life again, and was lost and has been found.