“How long will you torment me and break me in pieces with words?
Job has just heard the harshest speech yet from Bildad, one of his three friends, and his reply opens with a protest against the men in front of him. Can words alone crush a suffering person, and what went wrong in friends who came to help?
Nothing but words
Job names the weapon used on him: words.
William KellyThis was the worst of the speeches so far, and under God's hand Job is led far out of and beyond himself… "How long," Job answered, "will you torment me and break me in pieces with words?" — for he felt that in their reproaches there was no weight, nothing but words.
Accusation without evidence
Empty words still landed. They cut into Job's soul, and they aimed at a sin nobody could name.
Leslie M. GrantJob did not lose his temper at Bildad's unjust accusations. Still, he shows here that his friends' reproaches have struck deep into his soul. His appeal is simple: the best he can say of their words is that they are unfair. Ten times they had reproached him. Should they not be ashamed that they had wronged him? They accused him of evil without knowing of any evil in him. So if he had gone wrong, only he knew it. They were only making thrusts in the dark.
Commentators say the count is not plain arithmetic.
Samuel Ridout"Ten times" — a number that means completeness — they had heaped reproaches on him. They shocked him with unjust charges they were not ashamed to make.
Why correct answers gave no comfort
The friends were not fools. Much of what they said was true.
J. N. DarbyJob had not learnt what his own righteousness was worth. He had not learnt how God shows a soul its real state. Neither Job nor his friends understood God's way of grace — how God could ride over the sin by meeting it in grace. Job's friends could philosophise. They could state plenty of truths. But what comfort was that to a broken heart?
All three friends shared one fixed idea about suffering.
Samuel RidoutTheir principle is that all suffering is punishment, not teaching. It rests on God's justice, not on His love — though the two are always joined in all His ways. Such a principle cannot tell the suffering of the righteous apart from the suffering of the wicked.
A warning for anyone visiting the afflicted
The verse holds up a mirror to anyone who visits the grieving.
The Bible TreasuryThese answers do not always come from plain cruelty, as you might think. Usually they come from nothing worse than flippancy, a hard heart, and self-sufficiency. "My dear brothers," as Cromwell used to say, "I beg you to consider that it is possible you may be wrong." And consider this too. Whether you are wrong or not, such explanations will most likely fill the sufferer with anger. They will also bring down a rebuke from God on the Zophars, Bildads and Eliphazes who torment His stricken servants with their shallow opinions.
Where the crushed spirit ends up
This protest opens a chapter that ends in famous words of faith.
Samuel RidoutHowever much Bildad's cruel language pained him, Job's reply shows not the slightest sense of the guilt they had laid at his door… And yet it is wonderful to see this poor crushed spirit rise from the dust in those words of faith and hope: "I know that my Redeemer lives."
The patient man's impatience
Job is not a flawless sufferer here. Commentators read his breakdown as the book's real point.
William KellyHe takes it all as from God, without knowing what had taken place in heaven. He had to pass through the deepest trouble. But the man who would become a byword for patience broke out in total impatience… that a man so famous for his patience should fail under trial! Ah, in Christ there is the contrast. This is where people go so wrong: they make Job a picture of Christ. No, he is an example of failure — a man born of God who fails. We want Christ, and cannot do without Christ. That is the true moral of the Book of Job.
Summary
- Words wound. Their reproaches had no weight, yet they still broke Job in pieces. Empty words are not harmless words.
- Words without evidence. Ten times they charged him with an evil no one could name. Commentators call these thrusts in the dark, and read "ten times" as a full count.
- Words without grace. They could state true things and still bring nothing to a broken heart. They held that all suffering is punishment.
- Words to avoid. Confident explanations of someone else's grief come from flippancy and self-sufficiency. They leave the sufferer angrier, not helped.
- Words that rise. Out of this crushed protest comes "I know that my Redeemer lives." Job's own loss of patience shows how much we need Christ.