What does the Bible say about second chances?

Answered from the commentary of G. C. Willis, Edward Dennett, Morrish Bible Dictionary and 21 others

The Bible's answer is **restoration**: when God's own people fail, His grace gives them a second opportunity, even to take up again the very service they once refused or betrayed. When Jonah fled, the word of the Lord came unto him the second time, because God will not set His purpose aside on account of His servant's failure. Then He patiently taught Jonah what he needed and sent him again on the same message he had refused. Peter had denied his Lord three times. Christ restored him publicly in John 21:15-17, and put into his hands what He loved best, His lambs and sheep, at the very moment people would have said "never trust Peter again." Mark deserted the work, yet Paul later wrote that he was "profitable to me for the ministry". As one writer puts it, "in nature a breakdown is irreparable, not so where grace prevails." God does more than take the fallen back. He loves to bring the one who has failed into a better condition than he had known before, as with Peter.

The same grace meets the returning sinner in the prodigal son. The father runs to him and kisses him before a word is spoken, and he receives him not as a hired servant but as a son, with the best robe and the ring. This rests on God's character: His compassions fail not; they are new every morning. The way back is confession: "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us".

Yet restoration is not a light thing. The Lord searches out the root of the failure as well as the failure itself, and believers are warned not to trespass upon the grace that restores, because repeated sinning and repenting blunts the conscience.

Believers are to show the same grace to one another. Christ's "until seventy times seven" means that forgiveness of a brother who sins against us has no limit, after the pattern of God's forgiveness of us. Several writers add that this forgiveness is given when the offender repents (Luke 17:3-4). So the church at Corinth was urged to forgive and comfort the repentant man it had put away.

There are limits, however. God's long-suffering has a limit. The barren fig tree was spared "this year also" and then cut down (Luke 13:6-9). The present "day of salvation" will close, after which salvation is preached no more. For the apostate who deliberately renounces Christ after enjoying every privilege of the gospel, it is "impossible ... to renew them again unto repentance". The authors agree that this describes a mere professor, not a true believer who falls into sin, and that the true believer will be restored.

Verses: Luke 17:3, Luke 17:4, 2 Corinthians 6:2, Hebrews 6:4, Hebrews 6:5, Hebrews 6:6, Jonah 3:1, Jonah 3:2, Lamentations 3:22, Lamentations 3:23, John 21:15, John 21:16, John 21:17, 1 John 1:9, 2 Corinthians 5:17, Joel 2:25, Micah 7:18, Micah 7:19, Psalms 103:8, Psalms 103:9, Psalms 103:10, Psalms 103:11, Psalms 103:12, Isaiah 1:18, Isaiah 43:18, Isaiah 43:19, Luke 15:11, Luke 15:12, Luke 15:13, Luke 15:14, Luke 15:15, Luke 15:16, Luke 15:17, Luke 15:18, Luke 15:19, Luke 15:20, Luke 15:21, Luke 15:22, Luke 15:23, Luke 15:24, John 8:10, John 8:11, Luke 22:31, Luke 22:32, Luke 13:6, Luke 13:7, Luke 13:8, Luke 13:9, 2 Timothy 4:11, Acts 15:37, Acts 15:38, Acts 15:39, Philemon 1:10, Philemon 1:11, Philippians 3:13, Philippians 3:14, Matthew 18:21, Matthew 18:22, 2 Peter 3:9, Proverbs 24:16, Psalms 51:10, Psalms 51:11, Psalms 51:12, Ezekiel 18:21, Ezekiel 18:22, Ezekiel 18:23, Ezekiel 36:26, Luke 23:42, Luke 23:43, Romans 5:20, 1 Timothy 1:15, 1 Timothy 1:16, Jeremiah 18:4, Hosea 14:4, Isaiah 55:7, Acts 3:19, Romans 8:1, Judges 16:28, Judges 16:29, Judges 16:30

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What the commentators say

The passages the answer is drawn from, the most direct first, with the words that bear on the question marked.

G. C. WillisJonah

For us, who perhaps also have turned aside from some service that has been given to us, we may find in the first verse of the third of Jonah, a rich mine of comfort. Even suppose the mercy of God had delivered His failing servant from the awful death that threatened him, who could expect that the Lord would give to him a second opportunity to carry out this service, which he had once been privileged to have the opportunity of doing for Him. Such is the grace of God. Not only did the Lord save His servant from death, but He patiently taught him the lessons that he needed, and then saved and pardoned and equipped more fully than before through these new lessons, once more the Lord sent him on the very message that he had formerly refused.

I cannot but think that the unspeakable grace of God shown to him again in this re-commission, must have touched the heart of Jonah. I cannot but think that many times the thought must have gone through his mind, amidst his deep repentance, "Oh, how gladly would I show the reality of my repentance by once again having the opportunity to go on the message that I once refused." Mark, the failing servant, became the profitable servant: and Jonah the disobedient servant, became the obedient one. The Master in both cases received them back, and once again gave to them the opportunity of continuing in that service that they had once refused. I cannot but think that most of the servants of the same blessed Master today may take comfort and hope and encouragement from these two failing servants we have been considering.

The message is very much the same. Before it had been, "Arise, go to Nineveh, that great city, and cry against it; for their wickedness is come up before Me." Now the message is, "Arise, go unto Nineveh, that great city, and preach unto it the preaching that I bid thee."

William Kelly2 Timothy

Luke, then, was the only companion of the apostle. He had been his fellow-labourer during much of his ministry; he abides with him before his death. But, not content with this, the apostle desires Timothy to take up Mark on his way and bring him along with himself, for he adds with exceeding grace, "he is to me useful for ministry." We know how greatly grieved Paul had been with Mark's desertion in early days, and how it had led even to a breach with Barnabas (Acts 15:37-40). But this was long blotted out by the healing goodness of God. And already the apostle had joined Mark with himself as one of the few fellow-workers unto the kingdom of God which had been a comfort to him; as in the same Epistle to the Colossians he alludes to charges they had received to welcome him if he came to them (Col. 4:10-11). But now he goes farther and reinstates him in personal nearness of service to himself, the very thing in which he had originally failed. In nature a breakdown is irreparable, not so where grace prevails; for "we are more than conquerors through Him that loved us" (Rom. 8:37).

Samuel RidoutAmalek Spared

It is, however, like the long-suffering of God not to visit the full consequences of one's wrong-doing upon him at once, and to grant, if it may be, a space for repentance and an opportunity for one to retrieve himself, if his former error has been a 'slip rather than the habit of his mind. God is not unrighteous, to confound one's being overtaken in a fault with the expression of what is his radical character. It will be found, in the day when He will judge the secrets of men, that amplest opportunity was given for men to recover themselves from any course of evil upon which they had set out. Indeed, the history of the people of God gives many illustrations of this recovering mercy.

The Bible TreasuryWhat the Spirit says to the churches

We cannot measure the patience of the Lord, nor can we ever predict of Him that He has exhausted the resources of His grace in His dealings with men. When He announces that the day of grace is to have an end, or that it has run to its close and judgment must take its place, then is the occasion for the obedience of faith in us, and we can but bow and own that it is right that it should be so. But He has shown us in His dealings with men that it is His prerogative (while maintaining all the time a perfect balance between right and wrong, good and evil, so that men dare not presume upon His grace with impunity, still when men have completely failed and broken down in faithfulness to Him) to place them anew in circumstances in which it is possible for them to walk in obedience to His revealed will, even though this is done in view of the actual failure which has taken place, and which has to all appearance rendered it impossible for His mind to be carried out.

W. T. P. WolstonThe Lord Jesus' Forty Days

Here, in plain language, you have Peter restored in the most beautiful way publicly. Restoration of a brother publicly is, alas! a very rare thing in this day. How beautifully the Lord put this man right first with Himself, and then with his brethren. There is one thing the Lord greatly desires for each of us, that we should be right with Himself and also with our brethren. So in the presence of them all, He manifestly says, "I trust that man absolutely, for I put into his hands the objects of My tenderest love and solicitude — My lambs and My sheep to feed by his ministry." By the threefold commission here given to His servant the Lord shows how profoundly He can trust him. When Peter trusted himself he failed. When he had the springs of self-confidence broken, that was the moment Christ could trust him. And here in the presence of his brethren he is beautifully and publicly restored to the Lord's confidence.

W. W. FeredayJonah

When Jonah set out for Nineveh "according to the word of Jehovah," it is to be feared that there was some uneasiness in his mind as to the real object of his mission. Jehovah's new charge was vague: "preach to it the preaching that I bid thee." When he was first commissioned, the word was, "Arise, go to Nineveh that great city, and cry against it; for their wickedness is come up before Me." This was pure denunciation, which might reasonably be expected to be followed by judgement. But nothing of this is suggested in the new charge, and when Jonah arrived in Nineveh, he was told to cry, "Yet forty days and Nineveh shall be overthrown" (Jonah 2:1-4). Here we detect the grace of the divine heart. Time was granted for repentance. Alas, this did not suit the Galilean prophet! Patience and grace for erring Israel — yes, but not for Gentiles! When shall we learn that God has no pleasure in the death of him that dies, whatever his nationality may be? (Ezek. 18:32).

William KellyAmos

No doubt grace can and does act in the case of a Christian now, even where he might have slipped seriously aside, but where there followed deep and thorough repentance, and the sense of forgiveness which the Spirit grants. This would become the last starting point, so to speak, and grace if it went back beyond it would use it for good. Not only is He faithful and just to forgive and cleanse, but He loves to bring him who has failed when restored into a better condition than he had ever known before. Witness Simon Peter at the end of the Gospels and the beginning of the Acts. And so it will be with Israel in a future day. But self-judgment, wherever it is thorough, wherever there is a vindication of God against one's own sin, always brings one in the measure of the repentance into a corresponding measure of depth in God's grace never possessed before. There are few things more common than to see a person converted in what may be called a superficial manner. Where this is the case, there is commonly a falling into open failure of one kind or another, sometimes a shameful break-down, by which the man really becomes nothing less than a bag of broken bones, thoroughly brought to nought in his own eyes. After this, when grace has lifted him up, he will be incomparably humbler and will have a more grateful as well as chastened sense of what God is than he had when first converted. Hence, although it be a shame to him that he required such a humiliating process, it is the triumph of divine grace to use his folly for putting him that is restored into a better condition than before he went astray.

Frank Binford HoleBacksliding

This is to "fall away" indeed! To fall from the profession of Christianity right away until the depth of apostasy is reached. This is backsliding in its most aggravated form, so aggravated as to be possible only to an unconverted person and to be worthy of the most tremendous and unsparing judgment. It is IMPOSSIBLE to renew such to repentance. Their doom is irrevocably fixed.

W. W. FeredayEternal Punishment

God will not proclaim these glad tidings for ever. Even His long-suffering has a limit. "Behold, now is the accepted time; behold, now is the day of salvation" (2 Cor. 6:2). "To-day, if you will hear His voice, harden not your hearts" (Heb. 3:7-8). Let no man be mistaken in this great matter. Salvation is proclaimed earnestly to all while in this world; when the border-line is passed, salvation's amazing story of divine love and grace is heard no more.

Edward DennettThe Book of Jonah

The moment Jonah was delivered "the word of the Lord came unto him the second time, saying, Arise, go unto Nineveh, that great city, and preach unto it the preaching that I bid thee;" for if the Lord pursued His servant with His storm anal tempest, and cast him into the deep, in the midst of the seas, it was for restoration as well as correction, and to put the prophet into a right condition of soul to be the vessel of the divine will. Accordingly he did not now attempt to flee, but he arose and went to Nineveh, according to the word of the Lord. It is always so in the Lord's dealings with His people. If we turn back from the path which He marks out for us, we surely must encounter the chastenings of His hand, and the object of His dealings is never accomplished until we are brought face to face again with the path from which we declined, and made willing, by grace surely, to enter upon it. It is on the principle enunciated by the psalmist — "Before I was afflicted I went astray, but now I have kept thy word."

Verses

  • Luke 17:3–43Take heed to yourselves if thy brother should sin, rebuke him; and if he should repent, forgive him. 4And if he should sin against thee seven times in the day, and seven times should return to thee, saying, I repent, thou shalt forgive him.
  • 2 Corinthians 6:2(for he says, I have listened to thee in an accepted time, and I have helped thee in a day of salvation behold, now [is the] well-accepted time; behold, now [the] day of salvation)
  • Hebrews 6:4–64For it is impossible to renew again to repentance those once enlightened, and who have tasted of the heavenly gift, and have been made partakers of [the] Holy Spirit, 5and have tasted the good word of God, and [the] works of power of [the] age to come, 6and have fallen away, crucifying for themselves [as they do] the Son of God, and making a show of [him].
  • Jonah 3:1–21And the word of Jehovah came unto Jonah the second time, saying, 2Arise, go to Nineveh, the great city, and preach unto it the preaching that I shall bid thee.