What does the Bible say about contentment?
Answered from the commentary of Leslie M. Grant, William Kelly, F. B. Hole and 14 others
Contentment is not natural to the human heart and has to be learned. Self-seeking comes naturally, so even Paul, who could write Philippians 4:11 from a Roman prison, had not always known it; he had learned it. He did not learn it as theory. He learned it by passing through the most adverse circumstances with Christ filling his heart, so that abasement or abundance, fulness or hunger, were all the same to him, because Christ was the same. This was not Stoic indifference or native strength of character. It was "independence of circumstances which finds its strength in simple and absolute dependence upon God": "Independent of men, but very dependent on God". Its secret is the one he names: "I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me" (Philippians 4:13), because he had found Christ sufficient in every circumstance. Learning "how to abound" is in some respects the more severe test, since prosperity can make a believer careless and self-confident and make him forget God. Accordingly, "godliness with contentment is great gain" (1 Timothy 6:6), and godliness must come first as the root of contentment. Contentment by itself would be "but a heathen sentiment," the hard, self-complacent contentment of the Stoics. True contentment is the fruit of knowing God's love and trusting His will as good. It accepts from the hand of God what He allots and does not make it its great object to rise higher.
The measure is plain: "having food and raiment let us be therewith content" (1 Timothy 6:8), since we brought nothing into the world and can carry nothing out. Few of us come up to this standard, though the Apostle did. The ground of contentment is not that our circumstances leave nothing to wish for. It is the promise "I will never leave thee nor forsake thee" (Hebrews 13:5-6). We are satisfied in the midst of circumstances, not with them, because the One we thirst for is always present. The opposite of contentment is covetousness. At its root, covetousness is simply dissatisfaction with what we already have and the desire for more, and Scripture calls it idolatry. Riches themselves are not condemned. The danger lies in the purpose of heart to be rich and in the love of money, which is a root of every evil; through it some have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many sorrows (1 Timothy 6:9-10). Murmuring is likewise judged severely. It was Israel's chief sin in the wilderness, because it meant they did not believe God was fit to be trusted, and every murmur is at bottom unbelief toward God. The cure is not grasping but being filled with Christ, for if He fills the heart there is no room for covetous desire. Two qualifications remain. Contentment with our lot is not settling down content with present attainment in the things of God. And full satisfaction lies beyond contentment: it will be ours only when we are with the Lord and like Him.
Verses: 1 Timothy 6:8, Hebrews 13:6, 1 Timothy 6:9, 1 Timothy 6:10, Philippians 4:11, Philippians 4:12, Philippians 4:13, 1 Timothy 6:6, Hebrews 13:5, Matthew 6:25, Matthew 6:26, Matthew 6:27, Matthew 6:28, Matthew 6:29, Matthew 6:30, Matthew 6:31, Matthew 6:32, Matthew 6:33, Matthew 6:34, Proverbs 30:8, Proverbs 30:9, Ecclesiastes 5:10, Psalms 23:1, Luke 3:14, Proverbs 15:16, Proverbs 16:8, Psalms 37:16, Ecclesiastes 4:6, 2 Corinthians 12:9, 2 Corinthians 12:10, Luke 12:15, Exodus 20:17, Psalms 73:25, Psalms 73:26, Proverbs 14:30, Philippians 4:6, Philippians 4:7, Matthew 6:19, Matthew 6:20, Matthew 6:21, Ecclesiastes 2:24, Ecclesiastes 3:12, Ecclesiastes 3:13, Proverbs 17:1, Psalms 16:5, Psalms 16:6, Psalms 131:1, Psalms 131:2
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What the commentators say
The passages the answer is drawn from, the most direct first, with the words that bear on the question marked.
"Not that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, to be content." It was not his benefiting that so rejoiced his heart, but rather their affection for Christ, which he knew would bear fruit to their account. Wondrous it is to think of Paul's thorough contentment even in a Roman prison. He considered that he needed little indeed. Let us remark however, that this was not his natural character, but that he had "learned" to be content, doubtless through most trying experience and with unfeigned confidence in the Living God. Self-seeking is natural to the human heart: contentment therefore must be learned.
"I know both how to be abased, and I know how to abound: everywhere and in all things I am instructed both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need." Let us note his emphasis on the word "how." For it is all too possible to be abased and to take it in a wrong spirit. Not so with the apostle: "how to be abased" implies a cheerful acceptance of God's will in it. On the other hand, "how to abound" is in some respects a more severe test for many of us, for this implies a proper and godly use, according to the will of God, of those things in which He has made us to abound. We must also observe another expression here: "I am instructed." In measure like his Master, his "ear was opened to hear as the learner" (Isa.50:4). He was not self-taught in his contentment with whatever circumstances: God had taught him, and the instruction was welcome to his soul.
Speaking of want or privation leads the Apostle to give us a wonderful insight into the way in which he faced his sufferings and imprisonment. These tragic circumstances had become to him a fountain of practical instruction, for he had learned to be content. To be content in present circumstances, no matter what they be, was not natural to Paul any more than it is to us. But he had learned it. And learned it, not as a matter of theory, but in experimental fashion by passing through the most adverse circumstances, with his heart full of Christ, as we see in chapter 3. Hence he was able to face changes of the most violent sort. Abasement or abounding, fulness or hunger, abounding or acute privation, all was the same to Paul, for Christ was the same, and all Paul's resources and joys were in Him.
Men who thus dispute show themselves to have corrupt minds and to be destitute of the truth, and that which underlies their proud thoughts is the idea that personal gain is the real end of godliness — that a man is only godly for what he can get out of it. If that is their idea then of course they would not advocate a slave rendering such service as is enjoined in verse 2, since any gain from that would accrue to his master and not to himself. The truth is that not gain but God is the end of godliness, though as the Apostle so strikingly adds, "godliness with contentment is great gain." To walk as in the presence of the living God with a simple trust in His goodness and with contentment of heart is very great gain of a spiritual sort.
We have to recognize that we are but life tenants of all that we possess. We entered the world with nothing; we go out with nothing. God may indeed give us much for our enjoyment but on the other hand we should be contented with just the necessaries of life — food and raiment. This sets a high standard before us; one that but few of us come up to, though the Apostle himself did. The exhortation of verse 8 is much needed by us all in these days.
No doubt, Lot thought he was doing well for himself and his family, when he moved to Sodom; but the sequel shows how entirely he erred; and it also sounds in our ears a voice of deepest solemnity — a voice telling us to beware how we yield to the incipient workings of a worldly spirit. "Be content with such things as ye have." Why? Is it because you are so well off in the world? Because you have all that your poor rambling hearts would seek after? Because there is not so much as a single chink in your circumstances, through which vain desire might make its escape? Is this to be the ground of our contentment? By no means. What then? "For he has said, I will never leave thee nor forsake thee." Blessed portion! Had Lot been content therewith, he never would have sought the well watered plains of Sodom.
The world is full of unsatisfied desire, which leads to covetousness. The word to us is, "Let your conversation be without covetousness: and be content with such things as ye have" (Heb. 13:5). "Satisfied with your present circumstances" (N. Tr.). Are our present circumstances then so very desirable; are they just what they should be? They are the very reverse of that. They are so undesirable that a clean sweep will be made of them immediately this age closes. Why then are we to be satisfied with them? Because as Hebrews 12 has shown, they are appointed of God to act as chastening and discipline for us, and also because He has said, "I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee." That is it. We may be satisfied in the midst of present circumstances because there is guaranteed to us the abiding presence of the One for whom we thirst.
So also when the tax-gatherers came to be baptized, instead of dismissing them contemptuously as a mere Jew would have done, he answers their question, "Master what should we do? And he said to them, Take no more [money] than what is appointed to you." Notoriously they were extortioners, their rapacity was proverbial; they plundered the people of whom they were the official tax-gatherers. The soldiers similarly "asked him, saying, And we, what should we do? And he said to them, Oppress no one, nor accuse falsely; and be content with your pay."74a It is clear that here we are warned against violence and corruption, the two great features of men left to themselves. But, besides, contentedness with their pay is pressed upon them. It is remarkable how much the spirit of contentment has to do not only with the happiness of a soul but with its holiness. There is scarcely another thing that so tends to disturb our relationship with God and man as discontent. It makes an individual ripe for any evil. It helps, on a great scale, to the revolutions of nations and other social ruptures. On a smaller scale, it subverts the equilibrium of families and the right attitude of individuals as nothing else can. So we read of "unthankful, unholy" classed together by the Spirit of God. We also find unthankfulness mentioned as leading into idolatry. The Gentiles not only did not glorify God as God, but they were unthankful, and they fell into all kinds of moral depravity. There is nothing more important than to cherish a thankfulness of heart, sanctifying the Lord God in our hearts, having confidence in His goodness, and also in the certainty that He has given to ourselves individually exactly the thing that is best for us. But the only way to be thus content, whatever may be our lot, is to look at God as dealing with us in Christ for eternity.
Then comes the call, "Let your course of life be free of avarice, contented with things present. For he hath said, I will in no wise leave thee, no, nor at all forsake thee; so that we say confidently, Jehovah [is] my helper, [and] I will not fear: what shall man do to me?" (verses 5, 6.) Avarice, sordid and unworthy of moral men, is peculiarly beneath those called to follow Christ in faith and love, with their eyes opened to their better and enduring substance where Christ is. Discontent with things is natural to unbelievers. It is good and due that we confide in His word to one, although no less meant for all His own. The vulgar text falls far below the impressive promise and challenge the O.T. furnished: and God as a Father only gives it more force.
Verse 6 gives the precious positive side of this matter. If the two things are present, godliness and contentment, this is a great gain. Contentment alone could not be this, for it would then be that in which the flesh would glory; but godliness must come first, and be the root cause of contentment. Paul was himself a true example of this. Compare Philippians 4:11-13. If Christ is truly the Object of the soul, will this not produce a contented spirit? And it is a most pertinent reminder for us that in entering the world we had nothing, and in leaving it we shall take nothing. Why then grasp all that we can, as though it is this upon which we depend? How many are like the apostle Paul in this matter, honestly content with the simple necessities of life? This should be no small exercise to our souls, and specially in a civilization that today places great emphasis on material comforts and luxuries. How subtle a snare this becomes to any of us who may be attracted by it!
The true course is that which is urged later by the apostle in 1 Cor. 7:29-31: "But this I say, brethren, the time that remaineth is shortened; in order that both they that have wives be as though they had none; and they that weep as weeping not; and they that rejoice as rejoicing not, and they that buy as not possessing; and they that use this world as not using it to the full; for the fashion of this world passeth away." We are but pilgrims and strangers, passing through a world to which we no longer belong; we are of the Father, His gift to Christ, Whose witnesses we are now called to be, as we wait for His coming to be with Him and to share the glorious inheritance along with Him. It is His will to assign us our lot meanwhile; and piety would own with thankfulness His disposal of us, whether as a test of our subjection of heart or as a sphere of serving Him from day to day. For there is nothing right for our souls where He has not His place. It is not enough that there be "contentment." This alone would be but a heathen sentiment; as in fact not a few pagan authors have expressed it prettily, though (it is to be feared) it was rather what they could see to become man than what they really made good in their daily conversation. The Stoics who most affected such language were hard rather than happy men. Even had they succeeded in practice, how far short of Christ was their self-complacent contentment!
"Not that I-speak on-account-of want, for I-have-learned in whatever-(circumstances) I-am, to-be-content." (Literally, to-be-self-sufficing, as a country that needs no imports, but supplies everything it requires). (Phil. 4:11).
Paul would not want them to think he was speaking from covetousness, or suggesting that he had been suffering because they had not sent sooner unto his need, as though he hoped they might send further gifts. For it is not easy to write of such matters: on the one hand to express the deep gratitude that is in the heart, and at the same time avoid any suggestion of covetousness. These verses are a very beautiful example of the Lord's own way to write such a letter.
The Apostle continues by telling us a lesson he had learned: — contentment in all circumstances. It did not come to him naturally: but needed learning: and it is a lesson we all of us need to learn: the lesson of being content, yet independent of men. I have heard one say: "So you are an independent missionary?" And I have heard the reply: "Independent of men, but very dependent on God". And if we depend truly on Him, we are content with whatever He may send: whether it be want or whether it be abundance. Let us remember, "Jehovah … said … I am El Shaddai," — the God who is sufficient.' (Gen. 17:1, Literal). It is a very blessed lesson, but one we are very slow to learn: for it is so easy to lean on the visible, rather than on the Invisible. This is the only place in the New Testament where we find this word, 'self-sufficing.'
Verses
- 1 Timothy 6:8–108But having sustenance and covering, we will be content with these. 9But those who desire to be rich fall into temptation and a snare, and many unwise and hurtful lusts, which plunge men into destruction and ruin. 10For the love of money is [the] root of every evil; which some having aspired after, have wandered from the faith, and pierced themselves with many sorrows.
- Hebrews 13:5–65[Let your] conversation [be] without love of money, satisfied with [your] present circumstances; for he has said, I will not leave thee, neither will I forsake thee. 6So that, taking courage, we may say, The Lord [is] my helper, and I will not be afraid what will man do unto me?
- Philippians 4:11–1311Not that I speak as regards privation, for as to me I have learnt in those circumstances in which I am, to be satisfied in myself. 12I know both how to be abased and I know how to abound. In everything and in all things I am initiated both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer privation. 13I have strength for all things in him that gives me power.