Where has your beloved gone, O most beautiful among women? Where has your beloved turned, that we may seek him with you?
Chapter five ends with the bride describing the one she loves at length. Now her listeners answer with a question of their own. They want to know where He has gone, and they want to go with her. Commentators read her story as a picture of our own love for Christ. Her praise has done something to them, and something to her.
Two Questions That Revive Love
The women of Jerusalem had already asked what made her beloved different from any other. Now they ask a second thing, and one commentator ties the pair together as the path back from a cold heart.
Hamilton SmithThe lovely description of the Bridegroom raises a further question in the minds of the daughters of Jerusalem. They had asked, "What is your beloved more than another beloved?" Now they ask, "Where has your beloved gone?" The full revival of the bride's affections lies in the answer to these two questions. If our love to Christ has grown cold, let us simply answer the two questions, "Who is He?" and "Where is He?" Then, as we occupy ourselves with Him again, the glow of His love will warm our cold hearts.
Praise That Pulls Others After Him
The women do not praise her feelings. They ask for directions.
Edward DennettFirst, the effect of the bride's testimony. The daughters of Jerusalem now long to seek the Beloved with the bride. John the Baptist, with a heart full of admiration, looked at Jesus as He walked and said, "Behold, the Lamb of God!" That drew his disciples away after the One their master had testified about. In the same way, the bride's testimony drew her companions to the Beloved, and they could not resist. Nothing affects souls like the witness of an overflowing heart in the power of the Holy Spirit.
The same point is put as a practical rule for anyone who wants to commend Christ to others:
Jeffrey BrettHow true it is that the best way to attract others to Christ is to be able to show them that He means everything to us. If they can see that our hearts are full of His beauties and glories, then what we say about Him will be more effective.
The Name She Is Called
They call her the most beautiful among women. That name is the Bridegroom's own, heard from Him earlier in the Song, and it does not shift with her performance.
Hamilton SmithHere for the first time we hear the Bridegroom's voice. He calls the bride the "most beautiful among women." She may be black in her own eyes, hated and persecuted by others, but in His sight she is the "most beautiful among women." Nothing will change Christ's estimate of His people. Neither the failure of the saints, nor the slander of the world, will alter His appreciation of His own. He always sees them in all the value of His own work, and according to the purposes of His grace.
A Reproof Hidden In A Compliment
There is an edge in the question. The women assume the Bridegroom must have wandered off. A woman who speaks like that could never have left Him.
Andrew MillerNotice that the daughters of Jerusalem naturally conclude it must have been the Bridegroom who left His bride, not the bride who had left her Bridegroom. They heard her speak of Him in such glowing terms that they could not imagine her ever wandering from Him. He is so loved, so admired, so good, so appreciated. Surely her eye could never stop gazing on Him. Her heart could never stop delighting in Him, and she could never, never grow tired of Him. So they ask, "Where has your beloved gone? … Where has your beloved turned, that we may seek him with you?" What a sharp, cutting reproof, though an indirect one! And how keenly her now sensitive heart must have felt it. But in praising her Lord, she condemned herself.
The Cure For A Dull Soul
Her trouble began with self-occupation. The way out was not more self-examination but a different subject.
Andrew MillerWhen the soul is wholly taken up with Christ, the results are rich and varied. To lose sight of self and have Him as our one object brings immediate, certain blessing. When Christians slip into a low, dull state of soul, what will bring them out of it fastest and best? Being filled and taken up with Christ for themselves, and speaking of Him to others. The experience of the spouse is a beautiful illustration of this truth. Her failure, no doubt, was thinking and caring about herself: self-occupation and self-indulgence. But the daughters of Jerusalem challenged her to say how her Beloved was better than others. That question led her to think and speak of Him alone. As she went on, her own soul was the first thing to be fully and happily restored. She was lifted to a level of communion she had never reached before.
Summary
- Cause — Self-occupation dulled her. Being taken up with Christ restored her. The cure for a cold heart is a new subject, not more inspection of self.
- Gift — She is still called the most beautiful among women. Failure and slander do not change Christ's estimate of His own.
- Reproof — Their assumption that He must have left her exposed the truth that she had left Him. Praising Him condemned her.
- Questions — Two questions carry the revival: who He is, and where He is. Answer both, and cold love warms again.
- Result — Her overflowing witness made strangers want to seek Him with her. Nothing affects souls like the witness of a heart full of Christ.