As a lily among brambles, so is my love among the young women.
The bride has just called herself a modest flower, and the King now answers her. He agrees, but He adds one word — "thorns," which the ESV renders "brambles" — and that word changes everything.
The Bridegroom's Answer
Readers have long argued over who is speaking in these opening lines. One writer settles it from verse 2:
Andrew MillerMany good and learned men have thought that in the first verse we have the voice of the Bridegroom, not of the bride. But surely in the second verse the Bridegroom owns the speaker in the first verse to be His loved one. Everyone agrees that this second verse is the voice of the Beloved. In the first verse, we have no doubt, the bride is the speaker. In the joy of communion she is acknowledging what He in His grace has made her. All her beauty in His sight, and the affections of her heart for Himself, are His own creation.
Her Own Words, Enlarged
He does more than agree. He takes her own words and makes more of them than she did:
J. T. MawsonBut hear the answer that this great lover gives to his chosen bride. He takes up her own words, but he adds to them. He adorns them and makes them glow with his love. He uses them as the opportunity to show her the great proof of his great love for her. So he increases her confidence in him, and enlarges her affection for him.
The Thorns Around the Lily
The thorns are not scenery. They are what the lily has to grow among — and they are also what the Bridegroom Himself had to pass through:
Hamilton SmithShe is the lily. But in the valley where the lily grows there are thorns, and they serve as a background to bring out the beauty of the lily. In the dark valley of this world there are those who have none of the beauty of Christ upon them. They are thorns for the burning, thorns that would only wound Him. But there are also His own, those in whom Christ can delight, the excellent of the earth, lilies among the thorns. They are Christ's sanctified ones, and He has put His beauty upon them. Their dreary surroundings show off their excellences all the more. To have His lily, Christ had to descend into the valley of the thorns; yes, He must wear the thorns to win His bride.
What It Cost to Pick the Flower
A traveller's observation about this flower turns the picture into something personal:
J. T. MawsonDr. Thompson, in his book The Land and the Book, says of this lily: "Our flower likes the valleys best, but it grows on the mountains too. It grows among thorns, and I have sadly torn my hands getting it out of them." Suppose we can say, "I am the lily of the valleys." Suppose we know that we are this to Christ. His answer is, "Yes, but the lily among the thorns." He would have us remember that it cost Him something to secure us for Himself. How torn He was in getting us out of the tangled thorns in which we grew! He showed His hands and His side to His disciples when He came to them in resurrection.
Once Thorns, Now Lilies
The lily has no history of its own to boast about. It used to be part of the thicket:
The Bible TreasuryHear what the Bridegroom says of the earthly bride: "As the lily among thorns" — the gorgeous lily growing in the thorn thickets of Palestine — "so is my love among the daughters." We are taught about the thorn: how it came in, and what its end will be. We were all thorns once. We can take these words for ourselves and say that His grace has transformed us into the lily. Clothed in Christ, the believing soul has that fragrance and beauty before Him. God is the One who does this; it is not the result of their scheming and toil.
Why He Leaves You There
Why does He leave a delicate flower in such a place? The answer is not rescue from the setting, but purpose in it:
VariousPerhaps you say, "If I were only in different surroundings! My surroundings are so difficult." Well, that is just what we get here: a lily among thorns. Why does Christ leave His lily among the sharp thorns? That certainly is no suitable place for a delicate lily, you say. But He leaves it there because that is just where He wants it to be. There it sheds its sweet fragrance all around, in gentle grace and spotless purity.
The Larger Picture
The same scene has a future for Israel in it:
J. N. DarbyThe bride takes her place, and the bridegroom owns only her. She is the lily, the rest thorns. Jerusalem and Israel are restored under the Messiah, delight in Him, and are sheltered under Him.
Summary
- Thorn — every lily was once part of the thicket; the change is His grace, not our effort.
- Torn — He came down into the valley of thorns and wore them Himself to lift the lily out.
- Owned — He takes her modest words about herself, confirms them, and enlarges them with His love.
- Placed — the thorns are a dark background that shows off the beauty He gave her. He leaves her there on purpose.
- Fragrant — He does not call her out of hard surroundings. He calls her to shed that fragrance right where she is.