For then it would be heavier than the sand of the sea; therefore my words have been rash.
Job 6:3 · ESVView all translations

Job does not defend his angry words to Eliphaz. He asks his friends to weigh his pain first, and to judge his outburst against that load.

The Plea for Honest Scales

Job's request is also a charge against his friends. The verse finishes the wish he starts in verse 2: weigh my grief. They judged his outburst without ever weighing what lay behind it.

Job's answer is in chapter 6. "Oh that my grief were thoroughly weighed" — that is just where they were wrong. They only looked at the surface. "And my calamity laid in the balances together." No, they had no proper balances. They were all one-sided. "For now it would be heavier than the sand of the sea" — and so it was — "therefore my words are swallowed up." They were all confused. He admits his language was not what it ought to be. Inward suffering and desperate pain pressed him so hard that his words were quite confused. They were not quietly spoken, but swallowed up in the violence of his emotion.

William Kelly

What "Rash" Means

Older translations end the verse with words "swallowed up." The ESV says "rash." One writer prefers "rash," and explains what drives such words out of a man.

Eliphaz had reproached Job for giving in to despair. Job asks him only to weigh his misery. Weighed, it would prove as heavy as the sand of the sea — an image used elsewhere for great numbers. That is why his words are "rash" — which is probably the better rendering. Who can hold back reckless words when the arrows of the Almighty pierce him and His terrors overshadow him?

Samuel Ridout

Past the Raiders to God

Job does not blame the raiders, the storm or the disease. He traces his trouble to God Himself. One writer calls that instinct right, as far as it goes.

Job's godliness made him own that God not only must be, but was, concerned in all these calamities; and he was right so far. Job did not blame the Sheba or the Chaldeans, the lightning, the hurricane, or the disease. He looked far beyond these second causes. He was right to bring God into the trouble. But he was wrong, as we find at the end. He either supposed that nothing in his soul needed correcting, or that God could be anything other than gracious while faithful, and long-suffering while righteous. He left out the power of evil and of Satan, which God permits but also measures. And he did not hold on, as he ought, to this: God allows His own to suffer in a special way in this world, and He does it in love.

William Kelly

Whose Arrows?

Commentators differ on how far Job read his own case rightly. One writer points to the friends' misused truth, and to a different hand behind the arrows.

Satan used this misapplied truth in the speeches of Job's friends. Chapter 6 shows that it gave Job a terrible shaking. He said, "For the arrows of the Almighty are in me; my spirit drinks their poison; the terrors of God are arrayed against me." This was a great mistake. They were the arrows of Satan. God was not against Job. If Job had but known it, God was for him.

C Stanley

The Allowance the Friends Never Made

Job does not pretend his words were careful. He admits they were rash — and still expects his friends to see why.

He knew Eliphaz had not truly weighed Job's grief. If he had, he would have shown more compassion for the poor sufferer (vv.2-3). Job says, "Therefore my words have been rash." He had spoken as a man in deepest anguish. Out of that anguish he had concluded that God was not just in letting an upright man suffer like this. Of course it is rash to say such a thing. But Job's friends should have seen his condition. It almost forced the wrong words out of his mouth. Could they not make some allowance for this?

Leslie M. Grant

Summary

- Weigh first. Job asks for scales before verdicts. His friends "only looked at the surface" and judged his outburst without the burden behind it.

- Weight explains speech. The words are rash because the load is crushing. A man pierced by arrows does not speak calmly.

- Weight traced to God. Job looked past raiders, storm and disease to God's hand, and that instinct was right as far as it went.

- Weight misread. He got the conclusion wrong. He left out Satan's power, which God permits and limits, and forgot that God lets His own suffer in love. One writer goes further: the arrows were Satan's, and God was for Job.

- Weight unshared. Job owns that his words were rash, and a friend should still make allowance. Real compassion weighs the grief before it judges the words.

Reviewed by Orion on September 11, 2026