Oh that my grief were thoroughly weighed, and all my calamity laid in the balances!
Eliphaz has just blamed Job for giving in to despair. Job's answer is not an argument. It is one plea: weigh my misery on honest scales before you judge it.
No one had yet taken the measure of what fell on Job.
Samuel RidoutEliphaz had reproached Job for giving in to despair. But Job asks him only to weigh his misery. It would be found as heavy as the sand of the sea — an image used elsewhere for great numbers. That is why his words are "rash" — which is probably the better translation. Who can hold back hasty words when the arrows of the Almighty pierce him and His terrors hang over him?
Job aims the scale image at the three men in front of him. They reached a verdict without weighing anything.
William Kelly"Oh that my vexation were weighed" — that is exactly where they were wrong. They only looked at the surface — "and all my calamity laid in the balances!" No, they had no proper balances. They were all one-sided.
(Kelly quoted an older translation here: "Oh that my grief were thoroughly weighed... and my calamity laid in the balances together.") Because no one weighed his grief, no one pitied him.
Leslie M. GrantHe knew Eliphaz had not weighed Job's grief properly. If he had, he would have had more compassion for the poor sufferer (vv.2-3). Job says, "Therefore my words have been rash." He had spoken as a man in deepest anguish. So he had concluded that God was not just in allowing such suffering to an upright man. Of course it is rash to say such a thing, but his friends should have seen that his condition all but forced the wrong words out of his mouth. Could they not make some allowance for this?
Notice who Job holds responsible for the weight on the scale.
William KellyJob's piety made him admit that God not only must be, but was, involved in all these calamities; and he was right so far. Job did not lay the blame on the men of Sheba or the Chaldeans, the lightning, the hurricane, or the disease, but looked far beyond the secondary instruments. He was right to bring God into the trouble. But he was wrong, as we shall find at the end. He supposed either that there was nothing in his soul to correct, or that God could be anything other to him than gracious while faithful, and patient while righteous.
The heaviest weight on Job's scale was not his losses or his sores. It was his belief that God had turned against him.
Samuel RidoutHere we have the part of his suffering that was probably worse than the physical side. What gave his grief its sharp edge was the sense that God's wrath was on him. He felt the dreadful poison of His anger consuming him. We know this was a mistake. God was chastening His poor servant, and that was another proof of His love. But he did not know it, and we should not be harsh with one who felt that the Lord was dealing bitterly with him.
Another writer names the real source of those arrows.
C StanleySatan used this misuse of truth in the speeches of Job's friends. Chapter 6 shows that it gave Job a terrible shaking… He felt the arrows of the Almighty inside him, their poison drinking up his spirit, and the terrors of God lined up against him. This was a great mistake. They were the arrows of Satan. God was not against Job. If Job had only known it, God was for him.
The plea sounds reasonable. But it turns Job from his sorrow to defending himself.
The Bible TreasurySo Job is now (Job 6, Job 7) taken up not so much with his misery as with his right to complain and answer back the suggestions of his friend. He is taken up with defending himself. At the same time he is only more convinced that his days are empty. What lessons of anguish one has to learn before one sees the wisdom of giving up self! How the soul is tormented by one suggestion after another. These could never reach or trouble it except for the amount of self that is there.
- Weigh — Job asks for fair measurement, not pity. Put my calamity on the scale, he says, before you name its cause.
- One-sided — the friends had no proper balances. They judged by the surface. Because they never weighed his grief, they showed him no compassion.
- Rash — Job admits that pain forced rash words out of him. His friends should have made allowance for that.
- Right and wrong — Job looked past raiders and weather to God's hand, and there he was right. He was wrong to think God could be anything but gracious to him.
- Heavier than he knew — the worst weight was his belief that God had aimed those arrows and terrors at him. Commentators call this his mistake: God was for him, not against him.
For now it would be heavier than the sand of the seas; therefore my words are vehement.
Job does not defend his angry words to Eliphaz. He asks his friends to weigh his pain first, and to judge his outburst against that load.
Job's request is also a charge against his friends. The verse finishes the wish he starts in verse 2: weigh my grief. They judged his outburst without ever weighing what lay behind it.
William KellyJob's answer is in chapter 6. "Oh that my grief were thoroughly weighed" — that is just where they were wrong. They only looked at the surface. "And my calamity laid in the balances together." No, they had no proper balances. They were all one-sided. "For now it would be heavier than the sand of the sea" — and so it was — "therefore my words are swallowed up." They were all confused. He admits his language was not what it ought to be. Inward suffering and desperate pain pressed him so hard that his words were quite confused. They were not quietly spoken, but swallowed up in the violence of his emotion.
Older translations end the verse with words "swallowed up." The ESV says "rash." One writer prefers "rash," and explains what drives such words out of a man.
Samuel RidoutEliphaz had reproached Job for giving in to despair. Job asks him only to weigh his misery. Weighed, it would prove as heavy as the sand of the sea — an image used elsewhere for great numbers. That is why his words are "rash" — which is probably the better rendering. Who can hold back reckless words when the arrows of the Almighty pierce him and His terrors overshadow him?
Job does not blame the raiders, the storm or the disease. He traces his trouble to God Himself. One writer calls that instinct right, as far as it goes.
William KellyJob's godliness made him own that God not only must be, but was, concerned in all these calamities; and he was right so far. Job did not blame the Sheba or the Chaldeans, the lightning, the hurricane, or the disease. He looked far beyond these second causes. He was right to bring God into the trouble. But he was wrong, as we find at the end. He either supposed that nothing in his soul needed correcting, or that God could be anything other than gracious while faithful, and long-suffering while righteous. He left out the power of evil and of Satan, which God permits but also measures. And he did not hold on, as he ought, to this: God allows His own to suffer in a special way in this world, and He does it in love.
Commentators differ on how far Job read his own case rightly. One writer points to the friends' misused truth, and to a different hand behind the arrows.
C StanleySatan used this misapplied truth in the speeches of Job's friends. Chapter 6 shows that it gave Job a terrible shaking. He said, "For the arrows of the Almighty are in me; my spirit drinks their poison; the terrors of God are arrayed against me." This was a great mistake. They were the arrows of Satan. God was not against Job. If Job had but known it, God was for him.
Job does not pretend his words were careful. He admits they were rash — and still expects his friends to see why.
Leslie M. GrantHe knew Eliphaz had not truly weighed Job's grief. If he had, he would have shown more compassion for the poor sufferer (vv.2-3). Job says, "Therefore my words have been rash." He had spoken as a man in deepest anguish. Out of that anguish he had concluded that God was not just in letting an upright man suffer like this. Of course it is rash to say such a thing. But Job's friends should have seen his condition. It almost forced the wrong words out of his mouth. Could they not make some allowance for this?
- Weigh first. Job asks for scales before verdicts. His friends "only looked at the surface" and judged his outburst without the burden behind it.
- Weight explains speech. The words are rash because the load is crushing. A man pierced by arrows does not speak calmly.
- Weight traced to God. Job looked past raiders, storm and disease to God's hand, and that instinct was right as far as it went.
- Weight misread. He got the conclusion wrong. He left out Satan's power, which God permits and limits, and forgot that God lets His own suffer in love. One writer goes further: the arrows were Satan's, and God was for Job.
- Weight unshared. Job owns that his words were rash, and a friend should still make allowance. Real compassion weighs the grief before it judges the words.