Why did Lot offer up his daughters to be gang raped? Why did God allow Lot's daughters to later have sex with their father?

Answered from the commentary of William Kelly, F. B. Hole, L. M. Grant and 3 others

Lot offered his daughters in a shameful attempt to protect his guests, choosing what he thought the lesser of two evils because he had lost the simplicity of faith and had sunk low through Sodom’s corruption; his offer was far from commendable, and he had no right to make it. The daughters later schemed to have children by their father, carrying into the cave what they had learned in Sodom, while Lot became so drunk that he did not know what he was doing. God allowed this shameful outcome, and the authors describe it as the sorrowful fruit of Lot’s and his daughters’ sin, a lasting reproach that brought forth Moab and Ammon.

Verses: Genesis 19:4, Genesis 19:5, Genesis 19:6, Genesis 19:7, Genesis 19:8, Genesis 19:30, Genesis 19:31, Genesis 19:32, Genesis 19:33, Genesis 19:34, Genesis 19:35, Genesis 19:36, Genesis 19:37, Genesis 19:38, Genesis 18:20, Genesis 18:21, Genesis 18:22, Genesis 18:23, Genesis 18:24, Genesis 18:25, Genesis 18:26, Genesis 18:27, Genesis 18:28, Genesis 18:29, Genesis 18:30, Genesis 18:31, Genesis 18:32, Genesis 18:33

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William KellyAbram

"And there came two angels to Sodom at even; and Lot sat in the gate of Sodom: and Lot seeing them, rose up to meet them; and he bowed himself with his face toward the ground; And he said, Behold now, my lords, turn in, I pray you, into your servant's house, and tarry all night, and wash your feet, and ye shall rise up early, and go your ways. And they said, Nay; but we will abide in the street all night. And he pressed upon them greatly; and they turned into him, and entered into his house; and he made them a feast, and did bake unleavened bread, and they did eat." (Gen. 19:1-3.) Jehovah no longer deigns to accompany His messengers, nor visits Lot, like Abraham. He would have been ashamed to be called the God of Lot, who "sat in the gate of Sodom," instead of running to meet them "from the tent door," like his kinsman pilgrim. Yet was much in common: no less courtesy, perhaps, but a little hospitality. Nevertheless, we see a certain shrinking on the part of the angels, as we have already noticed the absence of Jehovah. Not even He, much less they, said Abraham Nay, or proposed to stay without. To Lot, even though it was, they decline his proffered shelter, and propose to abide in the street all night. At length they yield to his pressure, enter his house, and accept of his unleavened bread.

Their visit gives occasion to the open and unnatural depravity of the inhabitants, "both old and young, all the people from every quarter" (ver. 4). They foam out their shame shamelessly (ver 5). Lot goes forth to plead for his guests, to remonstrate with his fellow-townsmen (alas! he calls them "brethren"), and offer his two daughters (ver. 6 8). For he has lost the simplicity of faith, and, instead of looking only to the Lord in this scene of difficulty and danger and surrounding wickedness, he chooses in worldly wisdom what he conceived the lesser of two evils. Could we expect better from a righteous Lot which "sat in the gate of Sodom?" "And they said, Stand back. And they said again, This one fellow came in to sojourn, and he will needs be a judge: now will we deal worse with thee than with them. And they pressed sore upon the man, even Lot, and came near to break the door" (ver. 9).

L. M. GrantGenesis. Section 1 of 2, (Gen 1-25)

But their visit was rudely interrupted by many men of Sodom, both young and old, boldly demanding that the two men who came to Lot's home should come out and be subjected to the horror of homosexual relations (vv. 4-5).

Lot's concern for his guests was commendable. He even went outside, closing the door after him, to plead for the two men who had come under the shelter of his roof (vv. 6-8). But his offer to sacrifice his daughters was far from commendable. How could he offer his virgin daughters to men of such vile character? Indeed, he had no right to offer them to anybody, for children are not actually the property of their parents, and besides, they were already engaged to be married (v. 14). As to the two men, he says the reason they had come to Lot's home was for protection. How different were Abraham's words in Gen. 18:5, who realized that his visitors had come to have their hearts comforted by Abraham's fellowship. We may be sure that the two angels would not have allowed Lot to give his daughters to the men of the city.

Leslie M. GrantComments on the Book of Genesis

But their visit was rudely interrupted by many men of Sodom, both young and old, boldly demanding that the two men who came to Lot's home should come out and be subjected to the horror of homosexual relations (vs.4-5).

Lot's concern for his guests was commendable. He even went outside, closing the door after him, to plead for the two men who had come under the shelter of his roof (vs.6-8). but his offer to sacrifice his daughters was far from commendable. How could he offer his virgin daughters to men of such vile character? Indeed, he had no right to offer them to anybody, for children are not actually the property of their parents, and besides, they were already engaged to be married (v.14). As to the two men, he says the reason they had come to Lot's home was for protection. How different were Abraham's words in ch.18:5, who realized that his visitors had come to have their hearts comforted by Abraham's fellowship. We may be sure that the two angels would not have allowed Lot to give his daughters to the men of the city.

F. B. HoleGenesis

He had preserved however patriarchal politeness and hospitality, as we see in verses 1-3. He too entertained angels unawares, but with a very different result as compared with Abraham. As night came on his house was beseiged by godless men, bent on monstrous evil. Lot's attempt to pacify them by the sacrifice of his two unmarried daughters shows how low in his own mind he himself had sunk by reason of Sodom's contamination. Lot's position as judge now counted for nothing, indeed they flung it back at him as though he had been a mere usurper of the office. If he had flattered himself that he could exercise an influence for good, he was now undeceived.

As the contest reached a climax the angels intervened and took charge of the situation. Blinded by angelic power the evildoers were baffled for that night, preliminary to their destruction on the morrow. Having disposed of them, the angels plainly told Lot that Sodom was to be destroyed, and he was given opportunity to get out together with his family and all that he had. In this a full answer was given to the intercession of Abraham earlier that day. The contrast between Abraham interceding as a friend with God on the heights, and Lot, defiled and impotent in the worldly cities of the plain, may well be thoughtfully considered, and sink into all our hearts.

J. N. DarbyGenesis

We have here the wretched picture, not only of the grossest wickedness, but of the moral consequence to the saint of getting into such a place; think of Lot saying "my brethren," and offering his daughters. Where sin is not a horror, there is companionship and friendliness.

Hamilton SmithAbraham

Further we see that Lot, being a true believer, recognizes the heavenly visitors, treats them with due reverence, seeks to honour them, and shelter them from the insults of the men of the world. Alas! only to find that he has no power to restrain their wickedness. In his extremity he is even prepared to sink to the vile expedient of abandoning his two daughters to their lust in order to quell the disturbance. His efforts only arouse the anger of the men of Sodom. They tell him to "stand back." They argue that this man, who came into their midst as an alien, now takes upon himself to act as their judge. With these threatening words they press sore upon Lot who is only saved from the violence of the mob by the providential action of the angels.

An Outline of Sound WordsLove not the World

The hospitality offered to the angels was no doubt, in part, because Lot knew only too well what manner of men the Sodomites were. Angels had no need of human protection, and they were most reluctant to accept the proffered hospitality. (There was no such reluctance when Abraham entertained the heavenly guests; but Abraham was not linked with sinners as Lot was). God's messengers had not come to be entertained in the doomed city; they came to inflict divine judgment; their entry into his house, and their eating of his repast, were the expressions of God's merciful dealings with him on account of the intercession of Abraham, who had prayed, "Wilt thou also destroy the righteous with the wicked?"

The presence of the angels fully exposed at Lot's very door the wickedness of Sodom, and but magnified the guilt of "both old and young, all the people from every quarter," and what could Lot say in mitigation of such unbridled lust? Lot might plead with the sinners to refrain from the gross evil meditated in their wicked hearts, and propose a lesser evil to spare, as he thought, the guests he had brought within the shelter of his house, but he could not plead with the angels to spare the men of Sodom; nothing but divine judgment could meet the evil. The shameless proposal made by Lot to his fellow citizens manifested how powerless was the man who sat in Sodom's gate to restrain their corrupt and lawless ways. If he had ever thought to improve the inhabitants of Sodom by his influence and counsel, this moment must surely have brought to his poor deluded heart the realisation that his life for them had been wasted, and that all his efforts were futile.

Leslie M. GrantA Family Torn To Shreds

Lot saved nothing of his possessions from Sodom. He is like the Christian who has nothing to show for his life on earth. He became so frightened at the terrible destruction of Sodom that he took his daughters to the mountains where they lived in a cave.

Even there, the repulsive character of Sodom's wickedness comes out in his daughters. He was so depleted in moral strength that he allowed his daughters to give him liquor to drink until he was totally drunk; and in this state he had children by both of his daughters, without being conscious of his having had sexual relations with them. Thus the moral corruption of Sodom had invaded his whole family, and left a trail of shame and ruin.

Leslie M. GrantComments on the Book of Genesis

Lot had pled to go to Zoar, but after Sodom's destruction he became afraid to remain in Zoar, and took the angels' previous advice to flee to the mountains. Abraham walked generally by faith, but Lot had not learned such a lesson: he was moved at this time by fear. He found a cave in which he lived with his daughters. How deeply impoverished he had become! Lot's history is a warning indeed to every child of God, that friendship with the world will lead, not necessarily to material poverty, but always to spiritual poverty.

The scheming of Lot's daughters to have children by their father is a sad comment on what they had learned in Sodom (vs.31-32). Also, Lot had so sunk down in unconcern about the honor of the Lord that he would allow himself to become so drunk as to not realize what he was doing. Nor was this only once, but a second time on the following night (vs.34-35). We may wonder even at the survival of the children, but the first became the father of the Moabite nation, the second the father of the Ammonites, both of them proving to be troublesome enemies of Israel.

L. M. GrantGenesis. Section 1 of 2, (Gen 1-25)

Lot had pled to go to Zoar, but after Sodom's destruction he became afraid to remain in Zoar, and took the angels' previous advice to flee to the mountains. Abraham walked generally by faith, but Lot had not learned such a lesson: he was moved at this time by fear. He found a cave in which he lived with his daughters. How deeply impoverished he had become! Lot's history is a warning indeed to every child of God, that friendship with the world will lead, not necessarily to material poverty, but always to spiritual poverty.

The scheming of Lot's daughters to have children by their father is a sad comment on what they had learned in Sodom (vv. 31-32) Also, Lot had so sunk down in unconcern about the honor of the Lord that he would allow himself to become so drunk as to not realize what he was doing. Nor was this only once, but a second time on the following night (vv. 34-35). We may wonder even at the survival of the children, but the first became the father of the Moabite nation, the second the father of the Ammonites, both of them proving to be troublesome enemies of Israel.

Verses

  • Genesis 19:4–84Before they lay down, the men of the city, the men of Sodom, surrounded the house, from the youngest to the oldest — all the people from every quarter. 5And they called to Lot, and said to him, Where are the men that have come in to thee to-night? bring them out to us that we may know them. 6And Lot went out to them to the entrance, and shut the door after him, 7and said, I pray you, my brethren, do not wickedly! 8Behold now, I have two daughters who have not known a man let me now bring them out to you; and do to them as is good in your sight only, to these men do nothing; for therefore have they come under the shadow of my roof.
  • Genesis 19:30–3830And Lot went up from Zoar, and dwelt in the mountain, and his two daughters with him; for he feared to dwell in Zoar. And he dwelt in a cave, he and his two daughters. 31And the first-born said to the younger, Our father is old, and there is not a man in the land to come in to us after the manner of all the earth 32come, let us give our father wine to drink, and let us lie with him, that we may preserve seed alive of our father. 33And they gave their father wine to drink that night. And the first-born went in, and lay with her father, and he did not know of her lying down, nor of her rising. 34And it came to pass on the next day that the first-born said to the younger, Lo, I lay last night with my father let us give him wine to drink to-night also, and go thou in, lie with him, that we may preserve seed alive of our father. 35And they gave their father wine to drink that night also. And the younger arose, and lay with him; and he did not know of her lying down, nor of her rising. 36And both the daughters of Lot were with child by their father. 37And the first-born bore a son, and called his name Moab the same is the father of the Moabites to this day. 38And the younger, she also bore a son, and called his name Ben-ammi; the same is the father of the children of Ammon to this day.