What is a spiritual leader?

Answered from the commentary of Leslie M. Grant, Frederick W. Grant, Hamilton Smith and 17 others

A spiritual leader is a guide among God's people who watches over their souls and serves them. He is not a lord placed over them. The overseer or elder "cares for the state of the assembly, and watches over its spiritual interests", and his work is to "oversee". That work is to shepherd the flock of God, which means feeding it and also guarding, guiding and caring for it in every way it needs (Acts 20:28; 1 Peter 5:2). "Leading" is itself named among the services given to the saints (Romans 12:8). The leader is one who "by his wisdom and experience, is fitted to guide the people of God," and he is not necessarily a teacher or preacher.

What fits a man for this is moral weight, not eminent gift. He must be blameless, the husband of one wife, sober, hospitable and apt to teach. He must not be given to wine or be a lover of money. He must rule his own house well and must not be a novice, "lest being lifted up with pride he fall" (1 Timothy 3:1-7). "Apt to teach" does not require the gift of a teacher. It means being able to use the word to help souls and to convince gainsayers.

True leaders speak the word of God and live it. Their manner of life matches their doctrine, so that whoever notices them is turned to Christ. They watch for souls as those who must give account to the Lord, though the account is of their own conduct toward the saints, not of the saints' souls (Hebrews 13:17).

The spirit of such rule is service: "he rules best who serves best." The real head of the people is the one at their feet serving them, as Christ was among His own "as He that serveth". The flock is God's, not the leader's. He is therefore not to lord it over it as his own possession, but to be an example to it (1 Peter 5:3). Whoever covets having saints look up to him is a "bramble," like Diotrephes, who loved the pre-eminence. Over all under-shepherds stands Christ, the Chief Shepherd, who now cares for His flock from on high through those He provides.

In the apostles' day elders were appointed by apostles or their delegates, never chosen by the assembly. Since no such authority remains, formal appointment is no longer possible. Even so, men who have the qualities and do the work of elders are to be recognised, esteemed very highly in love, and submitted to.

Most of these authors treat eldership as a governmental office distinct from gift. Others speak as well of rulers raised up by Christ's gift who are leaders without any official status. The leaders of Hebrews 13 are held to be "not official" but recognised through their ministry of the word.

All agree on one limit: obedience to leaders is owed when they act "in the Lord" and bring His word, but it never supersedes obedience to God, for "we ought to obey God rather than men".

Verses: 1 Timothy 3:1, 1 Timothy 3:2, 1 Timothy 3:3, 1 Timothy 3:4, 1 Timothy 3:5, 1 Timothy 3:6, 1 Timothy 3:7, Titus 1:5, Titus 1:6, Titus 1:7, Titus 1:8, Titus 1:9, 1 Peter 5:1, 1 Peter 5:2, 1 Peter 5:3, 1 Peter 5:4, Mark 10:42, Mark 10:43, Mark 10:44, Mark 10:45, Matthew 20:25, Matthew 20:26, Matthew 20:27, Matthew 20:28, John 13:12, John 13:13, John 13:14, John 13:15, Acts 20:28, Hebrews 13:7, Hebrews 13:17, 1 Timothy 4:12, 2 Timothy 2:2, 2 Timothy 2:24, 2 Timothy 2:25, 2 Timothy 4:2, James 3:1, John 10:11, John 10:14, John 21:15, John 21:16, John 21:17, Ezekiel 34:2, Ezekiel 34:3, Ezekiel 34:4, Jeremiah 3:15, Micah 6:8, 1 Corinthians 11:1, Philippians 2:3, Philippians 2:4, Philippians 2:5, Philippians 2:6, Philippians 2:7, Exodus 18:21, Luke 22:25, Luke 22:26, Luke 22:27, Matthew 23:11, Matthew 23:12, Romans 12:8, 1 Thessalonians 5:12, 1 Thessalonians 5:13, Ephesians 4:11, Ephesians 4:12, Psalms 78:72, 2 Samuel 23:3, 2 Samuel 23:4, Proverbs 11:14, Galatians 6:1, 1 Thessalonians 2:7, 1 Thessalonians 2:8, Matthew 15:14, 1 Timothy 5:17

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Hamilton SmithThe Epistle to the Romans

(6) Leading. It is not a little striking that leading is placed among the services that have been given to the saints. The leader is not necessarily gifted to teach or preach, nor, on the other hand, is the teacher and preacher necessarily a leader. The leader is one who, by his wisdom and experience, is fitted to guide the people of God. He is to exercise his gift with the diligence that uses thought and care in his guidance.

The Christian's FriendScripture Note

The misconception which has grown out of these scriptures springs from an error in translation. It is not those "that have the rule over you," for this would imply the office of elders, but it is rather "your leaders," or those "who have the lead among you." There is a great difference between these two things: in the former case it would be an ecclesiastical office, before the ruin and confusion had set in, as, for example, like that indicated in Paul's direction to Titus, "Appoint elders in every city"; in the latter it describes such as those who, through spiritual power and divine gift in the ministry of the word, are qualified for the guidance and help of the saints; those who, through their devoted service and ministry, are marked out by the Lord and acknowledged by the saints as leaders. There is no such thing in Scripture as any taking the place of lead, or regarding themselves as leaders because they superintend, or care for, the business of the assembly. The characteristics of the leaders here given support the above conclusions. Remember, says the apostle, those who have the rule over you (your leaders), who have spoken unto you the word of God, whose faith follow, considering the end of their conversation, or, more accurately, "considering the issue of their conversation, imitate their faith." These things, then, distinguished their leaders; they had ministered the word of God, they had lived such devoted lives, believing upon Him who is the same yesterday, today, and for ever, that, now they had passed away, the apostle could call upon the saints to treasure up their memory, and to imitate their faith. These were their past leaders, who had kept the faith until death; in verse 17 they are the living leaders. Another feature of leadership, enhancing its solemn character, is here given: "They watch for your souls as they that must give account," etc. They were thus devoted to the Lord in caring for the spiritual welfare of the saints, and were to remember at the same time that in this service they were responsible to the Lord alone, and that to Him they would have to render account (not for the souls of the saints, but for their ministry) before His judgment-seat. How solemn a thing it is, then, to be in the place of a leader! And in this connection it may be recalled that in the seven churches the angels of the churches (and these include all who lead and all who teach) are held responsible for the state of the churches. There is one thing more: the saints are to obey those who are true leaders, and to submit themselves. Is it asked if this is carried out in practice? In some cases undoubtedly so, and where scriptural leaders are found, and where ready obedience and submission to them is rendered, there order and blessing will be seen; but where man and man's will, independency, prevail, there envying and strife will be produced, with their bitter fruits of confusion and every evil work.

T. B. BainesThe Church of God

The character and functions of these officers may be gathered from their names. The name "elder" implies age and gravity, and that of "bishop" or overseer indicates that they were to "take care of the Church of God," exercising godly authority and supervision over the younger and less established members. It is easy to see how all the qualifications enumerated are such as would adapt a person for these functions. They are qualifications for rule. Bishops or elders must be irreproachable in character, watchful over those under their charge, of a gravity which ensures respect, peaceable and patient, above suspicion of sordid motives, of proved capacity for the exercise of authority, of an age and experience which would prevent them being puffed up with the distinction, and of good report for conduct among those outside. They were, moreover, to be "apt to teach," not necessarily as public expounders of the truth, but "holding fast the faithful word," that they might "be able by sound doctrine both to exhort and to convince the gainsayers" (Titus 1:9).

Samuel RidoutLecture 6

Who, then, is to rule over them? If those who are bearing fruit for God will not be rulers over His people, who really is to be the ruler? Ah, the lesson, dear friends, of government, is the lesson of service, and he rules best who serves best. He is really, practically, a head of the people, who is at their feet serving them; the ones who bring them the precious fruits of God's grace, the olive, the fig, the vine, these are the ones, and the only ones, by their service, who rule or lead the saints of God.

An Outline of Sound WordsMeditations on the Song of Deborah

The true leader is not only watchful of his own manner of life, so as to be an example for those he seeks to lead, but he watches over the souls of the saints, conscious that he walks and labours under the eye of God, and that he will have to give account to God at the judgment seat. Such are not concerned with their own interests: they seek the advancement of the things of Christ, and therefore care for those who are His.

Norman AndersonThoughts on the Epistle to the Hebrews

Then we are exhorted, "Remember your leaders … imitate their faith." Do not imitate their methods, but do imitate their faith. What made them useful in their service; what constituted them leaders worth following, was their faith in God and their unreserved obedience to the Word of God. Consider the issue of their manner of life, they ever pointed to Christ. Their lives were coloured by their communion with Him. Whoever noticed them turned to Christ, just as did those two disciples who heard John Baptist speak, "they followed Jesus."

To those who lead; speak the Word of God and with all your speaking live it. Yours is a privileged position but a solemnly responsible one too. To "rule" is to lead in the way that is right. In this you follow your Lord for He leads in the way of righteousness (see Psalm 23 and Proverbs 8). To lead in the way is to exemplify in your practical life those things which you enjoin upon your brethren. How sad if, stumbled by your example, they despise your precept. Rather give them cause to value your doctrine through the appreciation your practical obedience engenders.

Samuel RidoutAmalek Spared

Saul being now fully established as king, he must meet the responsibilities connected with his high office. It has been from time immemorial the bane of kings that they have used their position for themselves, their own ease or selfish ambition, rather than for serving the people. The principle, "He that is greatest among you shall be servant of all," seems to have a twofold meaning; primarily, perhaps, to show that any thought of self-importance only makes it necessary for one to be abased; but, on the other hand, the best proof of a spirit of rule, in a scene where the beloved sheep of Christ are subjected to all kinds of assaults, is to serve them; so He, the true King, could say in the fullest way, "I am among you as He that serveth."

The Bible TreasuryPaul, a Servant of Jesus Christ

And this is the Lord's own preventative against exaltation in any church office: if it be not used in service, the person loses his reward. "We preach not ourselves, but Christ Jesus the Lord and ourselves your servants for Jesus' sake." It is this which distinguishes authority exercised in the church from that which is exercised in the world. "Ye know that the princes of the Gentiles exercise dominion over them, and they that are great exercise authority upon them, but it shall not be so among you; but whosoever will be great among you, let him be your servant, even as the Son of man came not to be ministered unto, but to minister, and to give His life a ransom for many." The world's officer has all the insignia of present power about him, and demands to be acknowledged, and is to be acknowledged, as having power — the source of his authority is visible, and the exercise of it manifest to the eye. On the other hand the source of authority in the church is invisible; it is from above, from the ascended Jesus, and its exercise is in real spiritual control and guidance; and the great object is that the person who is the channel by which it is exercised, should so lose his prominence, that Jesus and not the man himself should be exalted. And thus it is exercised in service to Him.

William KellyEpistles of Paul (Pt. 3). - Introductory

While giving then evangelists and teachers their place, we should also value those who in a simpler and less obtrusive way are devoting themselves day by day to strengthen the links of affection, and to repress the sources of disorder which, as we all know, continually spring up in Christian assemblies. Now these are the persons that were of old by competent authority appointed elders or overseers, as it is said here, "the overseer must be blameless, as God's steward, not self-willed, not soon angry, not given to wine, not a striker not given to filthy lucre; but a lover of hospitality, a lover of good men, sober, just, holy, temperate; holding fast the faithful word as he hath been taught, that he may be able by sound doctrine both to exhort and to convince the gainsayers." And if we see men of such ways and endowments labouring now, surely they are to be respected and acknowledged as the men who have the qualities and do the work of elders, though from circumstances their formal appointment is no longer possible.

F. B. HoleJohn

The under shepherds who served after Peter's departure soon forgot that the lambs and sheep belonged to the Lord. The word to Peter was not "Feed your sheep," but "My sheep," and that makes all the difference. It is noticeable further that the Lord spoke once of shepherding and twice of feeding. That is where the emphasis lies. Shepherding means a certain amount of authoritative handling and directing, and there are not a few who love wielding authority, even in the church of God. To be a dispenser of spiritual food is another matter and a far deeper one. He who can give spiritual food will not have much difficulty in exercising some measure of spiritual control.

Verses

  • 1 Timothy 3:1–71The word [is] faithful if any one aspires to exercise oversight, he desires a good work. 2The overseer then must be irreproachable, husband of one wife, sober, discreet, decorous, hospitable, apt to teach; 3not given to excesses from wine, not a striker, but mild, not addicted to contention, not fond of money, 4conducting his own house well, having [his] children in subjection with all gravity; 5(but if one does not know how to conduct his own house, how shall he take care of the assembly of God?) 6not a novice, that he may not, being inflated, fall into [the] fault of the devil. 7But it is necessary that he should have also a good testimony from those without, that he may fall not into reproach and [the] snare of the devil.
  • Titus 1:5–95For this cause I left thee in Crete, that thou mightest go on to set right what remained [unordered], and establish elders in each city, as I had ordered thee 6if any one be free from all charge [against him], husband of one wife, having believing children not accused of excess or unruly. 7For the overseer must be free from all charge [against him] as God's steward; not headstrong, not passionate, not disorderly through wine, not a striker, not seeking gain by base means; 8but hospitable, a lover of goodness, discreet, just, pious, temperate, 9clinging to the faithful word according to the doctrine taught, that he may be able both to encourage with sound teaching and refute gainsayers.