What happens when women say yes to God?

Answered from the commentary of The Christian's Friend, J. Wilson Smith, J. N. Darby and 16 others

When a woman says yes to God, she becomes the vessel of His purpose and is called blessed, not for anything in herself but because she believed His word, which He then performs. Mary's answer, "Behold the handmaid of the Lord; be it unto me according to thy word" (Luke 1:38), placed her absolutely in God's hands as His honoured vessel. She took the place of a submissive, even passive, instrument, and that place of subjection was her glory through God's favour. Faith of this kind never makes itself the object. It looks up and wants no better guarantee than "Thy word". So she was met with the assurance, "blessed is she that believed: for there shall be a performance of those things which were told her from the Lord" (Luke 1:45). Her yielding brought an unspeakable calm, the calm of a soul at rest in the will of God. God's intervention humbled her instead of lifting her up, because He came so near that she was hidden from herself. Her yes was not without cost. She knew the consequences, became an object of suspicion even to Joseph, and was told that a sword would pierce her own soul. Yet faith counts on God to guide and sustain whatever the trial, and she would find ample sustenance in the company of her Son. Her praise and her fellowship with Elizabeth followed, for wherever grace is apprehended, worship breaks forth.

The same pattern runs through the other women. Ruth's firm decision for Naomi's God was "the happy decision of faith, and God blessed her." He led her on to redemption and into the royal line of David and of Christ, results beyond her highest thoughts. Hannah gave back the son she had asked for, and God answered far beyond her thought. He gave her three sons and two daughters besides, doing more for her than she had asked. Rahab, who took God's side at the risk of her life, was saved with her household and made a mother in the royal line. Esther, ready to perish for her people, showed a faith that measured up to Mordecai's. Lydia's opened heart became an opened house and the beginning of the Lord's work in Philippi. The ground the authors give is that God uses the humblest instrument wherever He finds faith that in feebleness will trust Him. They also hold this blessing within bounds. Mary remained a needy sinner who needed a Saviour, the object of blessing and not its giver. The Lord Himself said, "rather blessed are they that hear the word of God and keep it," a blessedness open to every one of His people. Mary's acceptance is therefore the example for everyone who receives God's testimony and bows to it.

Verses: Luke 1:38, Luke 1:45, Luke 1:46, Luke 1:47, Luke 1:48, Luke 1:49, Ruth 1:16, Ruth 1:17, Ruth 2:12, Ruth 4:13, Ruth 4:14, Ruth 4:15, Ruth 4:16, Ruth 4:17, Esther 4:14, Esther 4:15, Esther 4:16, 1 Samuel 1:27, 1 Samuel 1:28, 1 Samuel 2:21, Joshua 2:9, Joshua 2:10, Joshua 2:11, Joshua 6:25, Hebrews 11:31, James 2:25, Hebrews 11:11, Hebrews 11:23, Exodus 1:17, Exodus 1:20, Exodus 1:21, Judges 4:4, Judges 4:5, Judges 4:6, Judges 4:7, Judges 4:8, Judges 4:9, Judges 5:7, 1 Samuel 25:32, 1 Samuel 25:33, 1 Kings 17:15, 1 Kings 17:16, John 4:28, John 4:29, John 4:39, Luke 10:39, Luke 10:40, Luke 10:41, Luke 10:42, Mark 14:6, Mark 14:7, Mark 14:8, Mark 14:9, Luke 8:1, Luke 8:2, Luke 8:3, John 20:16, John 20:17, John 20:18, Acts 16:14, Acts 16:15, Romans 16:1, Romans 16:2, Proverbs 31:30

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What the commentators say

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Edward DennettThe Three Marys

And not only had Mary now learnt that with God nothing was or would be impossible, but also, made willing by divine grace, she offered herself, surely only in the power of the Holy Ghost, for the accomplishment of His blessed will, and without any reservation. In all the range of scripture there is no instance of a more exalted faith nor of a more complete submission. She could not be blind to the possible consequences in this world; and indeed we learn from Matthew that she became the object of suspicion and exercise even to Joseph. But faith never reasons and is never perplexed; it simply counts upon God, in the confidence that if He call to any service, or to walk in any path, He will both guide and sustain, whatever the trial or persecution involved. The calm of a soul which reposes in the will of God is unspeakable, and this was the inheritance of Mary at this moment. The favour bestowed upon her was infinite, and not less was the grace which enabled her to accept it with a meek and quiet spirit. In this respect, too, as well as in that of her being the chosen vessel for the birth of Jesus, all generations will call her blessed.

Hamilton SmithThree Women

To nature it might appear that Ruth was acting with the utmost folly. She gives up her home, her kindred, and her country; and identifies herself with a broken-down old woman, to go to a Land she has never seen and a people of whom she has no personal knowledge. To reason and sight this seems madness, even as to-day it may appear great folly to identify oneself with the poor, and foolish, and weak things of this world, and to leave the great religious world, to share the reproach of Christ outside the camp. But "it doth not yet appear what we shall be." Only faith that looks on to the glorious end can take such a path. The start that Ruth made in company with an aged, lonely, and desolate woman was only the beginning of the story: in the end she will appear as the Bride of the mighty Boaz: and yet more wonderful her name shall be for ever enshrined in the genealogy of our Lord. In the light of her after history, who will say that she made a mistake when she threw in her lot with the aged Naomi? Orpah, who chose the world and its ease, passes into oblivion; Ruth who turned her back on the world passes on to honour and glory.

J. Wilson Smith“The Horn of Salvation”

To Mary the whole thing was supernatural. She could but say, in a faith that gives her a character as a true-hearted and dependent saint, “Behold the handmaid of the Lord, be it unto me according to Thy word” (v. 38); and the angel departed from her. She thus absolutely places herself in the hands of God to be His honoured vessel for the incarnation, and coming in flesh of “that holy thing,” “Son of the Highest” and “Son of God.”

H. L. Rossier1 Samuel

Now she is full of thanksgiving. It is not enough for her that she has found joy and rest after anguish. What will she return to God for such a great blessing? She will render what she promised Him in verse 11: the complete consecration of her son, a true separation for Him. When her request is answered by the gift of Samuel, she does not withdraw her offer: “that he may appear before Jehovah, and there abide forever.” This humble wife of Elkanah the Levite brings a costly sacrifice to the Lord — ”three bullocks, and one ephah of flour, and a flask of wine” — but one that is nothing in comparison to the gift of Samuel. She parts with her only son, given her by God Himself, from him whom she had “asked of God,” thus showing that for her God was more precious than this son whom she had so desired.

F. A. HughesCommital

The further chapters in this book shew the wonderful blessings and privileges into which Ruth was brought, culminating in her being brought into the line from which David sprang; and she is found in "the book of the generation of Jesus Christ," as recorded in Matthew 1:5. What a portion was thus opened to her consequent upon her sincere and definite committal to the people of God! The blessings and privileges available to us in our day are inexhaustible, but they are enjoyed as we are found in the path of full committal.

A. J. PollockHannah’s Devotedness

Thus did Hannah put the Lord before herself, and His interests before her own At the same time there is a tender appreciation of the sacrifice that Hannah made. Jehovah did not allow her home to remain practically childless, as it would have been when little Samuel was devoted to the service of the Lord. Three sons and two daughters were given to Hannah to reward her for her devotedness. Her home resounded with the innocent prattle of children, and the mother’s heart was comforted, though no child or children could quite fill the place that Samuel had.

It is deeply interesting to see that dear child left with faith so unwavering in the hands of Eli and where his wretched sons might have influenced him for evil. But Hannah commits Samuel to the care of the Lord, and the Lord takes care of him. “And Samuel grew, and the Lord was with him, and did let none of his words fall to the ground. And all Israel, from Dan even to Beersheba, knew that Samuel was established to be a prophet of the Lord.” What joy this must have been to the heart of Hannah!—not the empty pride of having a distinguished son, but the deep thankfulness of one who cared for Jehovah’s interests before her own.

Arno Clemens GaebeleinThe Book Of Esther

Verses 15-17. She responded to this eloquent appeal; her believing heart had laid hold on the suggestion of her uncle. The Jews are to be gathered together in Shushan, she requests, for three days and three nights, neither to eat nor to drink. She would do the same with her maidens. "And so will I go in unto the king, which is not according to the law, and if I perish, I perish."

Fasting in the Old Testament is always the symbolic form of prayer; it cannot be disassociated from prayer. In giving this command she expressed her dependence on God and put Him first before attempting to go in to the king. And then her noble word--If I perish, I perish. Her faith measured up to Mordecai's expectation. She is ready to sacrifice herself in order to save her people. How it reminds us of Him who did more than say, "If I perish, I perish," who gave Himself and took upon Himself the curse of the law. And Mordecai did according to all that Esther had commanded him.

J. N. DarbyNotes on the Gospel of Luke

39 The angel then tells Mary of the blessing God had bestowed upon Elizabeth. The wonderful intervention of God had rendered Mary humble instead of lifting her up: she had seen God and not herself in what had happened. Self was hidden from her because God had been brought so near, and she bows to His holy will. "Be it unto me according to thy word."

Edward DennettThe Three Marys

Joseph and the Child's mother marvelled at those things which were spoken of Him, as well they might, for here we only know in part; it is only gradually we acquire and come into the power of the truth we profess to acknowledge. Two things follow. To be associated with Christ in this world brings both blessing and sorrow, and this is here exemplified in Mary. Simeon had "blessed" God, and now he blessed them — Joseph and Mary; and then, addressing Mary, he said, "Behold, this Child is set for the fall and rising again of many in Israel; and for a sign which shall be spoken against; (yea, a sword shall pierce through thine own soul also); that the thoughts of many hearts may be revealed." God thus in tender grace, through His servant Simeon, prepared Mary for her Child's path of sorrow and rejection. And who can doubt that it was chiefly when she stood by the cross of Jesus, and beheld His sorrow, that the sword pierced through her own soul also? How merciful it is in the ways of God that it is only gradually we approach our sorrows, and that we find when they come upon us that they are "lustred with his love"! Mary would never forget these words, but "pondering them in her heart," she would be constantly laying them out before God in her meditations and prayers. But if through her life she had to live under the shadow of the cross, she would find, we may be assured, ample compensation and sustenance in the company of her Son. There would be much she could not understand, but she would certainly rest in the knowledge that Jesus, Jehovah the Saviour, was with her, and hence that, in all the earth, there was no one endowed with such an unspeakable privilege and blessing. For His sake, and from love to Him, she would be enabled to survey the future, and to leave it all in the hands of Him who had chosen her for the path.

Edward DennettExodus part 1, Ex. 1 - 24

The rest of the chapter (vv. 15-22) is taken up with a description of another attempt to enfeeble, and in time to destroy, the children of Israel. But again there is the activity of another on their behalf. Pharaoh was an absolute king, and none of his subjects dared to oppose his will; but even these feeble women are sustained in their disobedience, because they judged it their first duty to fear God. The mightiest monarch in the world is powerless as against God, and equally so against those who are identified with God and His people. Hence Shiphrah and Puah "did not as the king of Egypt commanded" (v. 17), and God dealt well with them, and because they feared God, He made them houses. (vv. 17-21.) "If God be for us, who can be against us (Rom. 8:31.) We may therefore learn, first, the utter impotence of the enemy to frustrate the purposes of God; secondly, the invincibility of those who are connected with His purposes; thirdly, how the fear of God can lift the feeblest and humblest above the fear of man; and then, last of all, how grateful to the heart of God is every sign of fidelity to Him in the midst of a scene where Satan reigns, as the god of this world, and oppresses and seeks to destroy His people.

Verses

  • Luke 1:38And Mary said, Behold the bondmaid of [the] Lord; be it to me according to thy word. And the angel departed from her.
  • Luke 1:45–4945And blessed [is] she that has believed, for there shall be a fulfilment of the things spoken to her from [the] Lord. 46And Mary said, My soul magnifies the Lord, 47and my spirit has rejoiced in God my Saviour. 48For he has looked upon the low estate of his bondmaid; for behold, from henceforth all generations shall call me blessed. 49For the Mighty One has done to me great things, and holy [is] his name;
  • Ruth 1:16–1716And Ruth said, Do not intreat me to leave thee, to return from [following] after thee; for whither thou goest I will go, and where thou lodgest I will lodge thy people shall be my people, and thy God my God; 17where thou diest will I die, and there will I be buried. Jehovah do so to me, and more also, if aught but death part me and thee!