What does it mean to honor God?
Scripture speaks of honouring God as something God notices and answers: "those who honor me I will honor, and those who despise me shall be lightly esteemed" (1 Samuel 2:30). But what actually counts as honour in His eyes — and how does it show up in an ordinary life, with its money, its body, and its daily choices?
Honour Begins with the Son
Commentators are clear that God has fixed one route to His own honour, and it runs through Christ.
William KellyTo honor Him is to honor the Father, who refuses to be honored any other way. And no wonder; for it is to Him that His God and Father is indebted for being morally glorified in a world that had departed from Him and done Him great wrong — not only among the nations, empty and dark and proud, but among His own people, guiltier and prouder still. Then and there the Lord Jesus vindicated Him, not only in emptying Himself and becoming man, but in humbling Himself when man and being obedient to death — yes, the death of the cross.
Faith Honours Him More Than Duty
There are different kinds of obedience, and they do not all carry the same weight with God.
F G PattersonObedience to the law owns God's authority. The obedience of love is the soul's service of gratitude to Him who loves us. The first may honour His authority; the obedience of love may express the devotion of a heart to Him. But nothing can honour God like the "obedience of faith." It accepts the fact that He has revealed Himself as a Saviour.
Honour with What You Own
Proverbs ties honour to possessions: "Honor the LORD with your wealth and with the firstfruits of all your produce." One writer draws out how that works when no fixed percentage is commanded.
L M GrantWhatever our possessions are, our first thought should be how to honor the Lord in the use of them. For all that we have comes from Him... though we are not commanded (as Israel was) to give one-tenth of our income to God, yet we are encouraged in 1 Corinthians 16:2, "on the first day of the week let each one of you lay something aside, storing up as he may prosper." No exact amount is even suggested, but "as he may prosper" leaves this to the individual's faith.
Honour with Your Body
The claim reaches the physical self, on the ground that the believer was purchased.
F. B. HoleHow can I treat my body as if it were exclusively my own? We are not our own. We are Another's, spirit and soul and body. So "glorify God in your body" is the word for us. The whole idea of the unconverted person is to gratify and glorify themselves in and through their bodies. Let it be ours to gratify and glorify God.
Honour Costs Company
Honour is not only what you give Him; it shapes what you refuse.
J. N. DarbyI then understand what the holiness of God is, His rights over my heart, the incompatibility of His nature with evil... that Christ must be honoured at all costs; that only what is like Him honours Him; that His nature and His rights over me are the only rule of my life. What separates me to Him, and according to what He is, separates me by that very fact from evil. One cannot walk with those who dishonour Him and at the same time honour Him in one's own walk.
Honour Is Lost by Grabbing at It
Moses was told to speak to the rock and give Israel water — a public honour. He said instead, "must we bring water for you out of this rock?"
The Christian's FriendHe always delights to honour His saints in the eyes of others; but then they must not seek their own honour. He will honour His servants; but the moment we step out of the servant's place to take what we judge to be a higher one, He humbles us... No sooner do we assume to be anything than we get out of the servant's place.
What God Gives Back — and What He Doesn't
God's promise to honour those who honour Him is real, but one writer carefully limits what it guarantees.
The Christian's FriendHe has said, "Those who honour Me I will honour," and this is proved true even where the honour offered may not come from a renewed soul... For example, if God is honoured in a household, if His name is called on there, He will in His government on earth bless that household; and in the same way when the affairs of daily life and business are conducted with the recognition of His name. But this is not salvation; it is temporal mercies according to the principles of God's government.
Summary
- Honour starts at the Son. The Father will not be honoured by any other route; Christ glorified Him where the world had wronged Him.
- Honour rises by faith. Law-keeping owns His authority and love shows devotion, but nothing honours Him like trusting Him as Saviour.
- Honour reaches your wallet and your body. First thought for possessions, and a body treated as bought and not your own.
- Honour costs you company. You cannot walk with those who dishonour Him and honour Him in your own walk at the same time.
- Honour returns — but stay a servant. He honours those who honour Him, even with earthly mercies; grab at the honour yourself and He humbles you instead.