What does it mean that Jesus loves the little children?
The scene of children being brought to Jesus is recorded in all three Synoptic Gospels (Matthew 19:13-15, Mark 10:13-16, Luke 18:15-17), and the teaching about children in Matthew 18 deepens the theme further. Together they reveal something profound about the heart of God, the nature of the kingdom, and what it means to come before Christ.
The Heart of Christ Toward the Helpless
When parents brought their little ones to Jesus, the disciples rebuked them — surely, they thought, the Master had more important things to attend to. But Jesus was indignant. Mark's Gospel especially draws out this deep displeasure. William Kelly writes on Mark 10:13-16:
indignantOur Evangelist specially marks the deep displeasure of the Lord. And no wonder! Indeed, it was part of His perfectness. For it was not only that they betrayed their own Rabbi-like self-importance, which makes much of ceremony, much also of knowledge, and overlooks the power of grace and the manifestation of Divine affections; but, besides, they took His place, falsified Him and the God of all grace that sent Him, and the essential character of that kingdom which He was about to establish. Suffer not little children, babes, to come to Him! Hinder them! Why, not only of such is the kingdom of God, but whosoever shall not receive the kingdom of God as a babe shall not enter therein. Such is the Lord's solemn sentence. To be nothing for Jesus to receive is just the condition of entrance.
Nothing Too Great for Us, Nothing Too Little for God
Commenting on Matthew 19, Kelly draws out a striking principle — grace stoops where human dignity would not:
Parents, and the disciples, like the Pharisees, were shown that grace, just because it is the expression of what God is to a ruined world, takes notice of what man in his own imaginary dignity might count altogether petty. With God, as nothing is impossible, so no one, small or great, is despised: all is seen and put in its just place; and grace, which rebukes creature pride, can afford to deal divinely with the smallest as with the greatest.
And further:
mattintIf there be a privilege more manifest than another which has dawned on us, it is what we have found by and in Jesus, that now we can say nothing is too great for us, nothing too little for God.
Love Not Restrained by Human Reason
Kelly's notes on Matthew 18-19 reflect on what this scene reveals of Christ Himself — His infinite dignity paired with His tender love:
And now children are brought unto Him — little ones, apt to be despised. What in this world so helpless and dependent as a babe? … The disciples thought it an annoyance or a liberty, and rebuked them. But Jesus said, "Suffer little children, and forbid them not, to come unto Me; for of such is the kingdom of heaven." So completely were all the demands of love met even where the desire seemed ever so unseasonable. For why should the Lord of heaven and earth occupy Himself with putting His hands upon little ones? But love is not restrained by human reason, and the unworthy thoughts of the disciples were set aside, who thought babes unworthy of His notice. Ah! how little they knew Him, long as they had been with Him. Was it not worthy of Him so to bless the very least in man's eyes?
He continues with a striking thought about the value of a soul:
Before His glory there is not so much difference between a world and a worm. The world is a mere cipher, if God measures by Himself. But then, the feeblest may be the object of His deepest love and care. Our Lord looked at these babes, oh, with what interest! They are the objects of the Father's love, for whom He gave His Son, and whom the Son came to save. Each had a soul: and what was its value?
And then the rebuke to the disciples:
the feeblest may be the object of His deepest love and care"Suffer little children, and forbid them not, to come unto Me; for of such is the kingdom of heaven." A withering word for pride. Were the disciples "of such" at that moment, or at least in that act?
Children: An Inheritance from Jehovah
George McBroom also brings out the Lord's tender care, connecting it both to their place in creation and to His mission:
George McBroomHere again the disciples are at fault much in the same way though perhaps in a lesser degree than the Pharisees, and here again the moral beauty and holy refinement of the Man Christ Jesus shines out. Children are an inheritance from Jehovah (Psalm 127). This is indeed a touching scene; the stern disciples like many others today seemed to have no room for the little ones, but they did not know the heart of their Master. Are we not all children? Surely we would admit that the distance between the child and the man is small compared to the infinite distance between man and the Lord Jesus. He took them up in His arms as He had done before, and said "Suffer little children, and forbid them not to come unto Me: for of such is the kingdom of heaven." … We little understand how the Lord Jesus could appreciate human nature in its uncorrupted state.
McBroom notes the deeper significance of the "little child" character in Matthew 18:
None can enter into it save by the door of repentance and the becoming as a little child, and to be great in it, this condition of heart must be maintained. This is moral greatness … The first feature of the subjects of the Kingdom is that of a little child; simple, confiding and unsophisticated. This strikes at the root of self-importance and a vindictive spirit.
And on the Father's special care:
simple, confiding and unsophisticated"See that ye do not despise one of these little ones, for I say unto you that their angels in the heavens continually behold the face of My Father who is in the heavens. For the Son of Man has come to save that which was lost." There is something exceedingly blessed here: His coming and the Father's favour shown to children. Not, to seek and save as in another passage, but to save, tells that though not having wandered away they have inherited fallen nature and must be saved. They have a place of special favour with the Father: their salvation brought Him, the Son of Man here.
Putting It Together
That Jesus loves the little children means several intertwined things:
1. It reveals the heart of God. Before His glory, a world and a worm are not so different — and so the feeblest creature may be the object of His deepest love. The disciples wanted to send the children away; Jesus was indignant. His love is not restrained by what human reason considers important.
2. It defines the kingdom. "Of such is the kingdom of heaven" is not mere sentiment — it is a solemn declaration that the childlike spirit of simple trust and dependence, not self-importance or achievement, is the only door into God's kingdom. If you do not receive it as a little child, you shall not enter at all.
3. It shows His mission. The Son of Man came to save that which was lost — and children, though they have not wandered as adults have, have inherited a fallen nature and need the same Saviour. Their angels behold the Father's face; their salvation is the very reason He came.
4. It rebukes pride. The scene is "a withering word for pride." The disciples, in turning children away, were falsifying the very character of the God who sent Jesus and the kingdom He was establishing. Every form of self-importance, religious or otherwise, is reproved by the sight of the Lord of heaven and earth taking little ones into His arms and blessing them.