How can we prevent our young people from losing faith?

Answered from the commentary of The Christian's Friend, The Bible Treasury, William J. Hocking and 15 others

We can help young people keep faith by teaching them the Scriptures from childhood, and continuing to nourish them with the word as they grow, so that they know more than the forgiveness of sins and are led on in the knowledge of Christ. The word gives them food for growth and a safeguard against error; it must be joined with prayer and personal communion with the Lord, since reading without prayer can leave the soul barren, and prayer without the word can lead it astray. Older believers should care for the young, speak in ways they can understand, set a faithful example, and help them walk in the truth; conversion is an introduction to that life, not the end of instruction. Young people should share in the fellowship and teaching of the whole assembly, and be encouraged to serve alongside older believers, rather than being left to a separate Christian life at their own level.

They should also be warned plainly about the world’s attractions and helped to set their hearts on Christ, for even those who have overcome the wicked one may be ensnared by the world. Parents should teach the faith diligently and live it before their children, while giving them their time and care; training alone cannot replace a child’s personal and living faith in the Lord. When young believers face danger or discouragement, they need the company and encouragement of other Christians, since Christians are not meant to be self-sustaining. The passages differ on whether a true believer can finally perish: some say God preserves believers, while others stress the danger of falling away and the need to continue in faith. They agree that believers need warnings, watchfulness, and continued growth in grace and in the knowledge of Christ.

Verses: Deuteronomy 6:6, Deuteronomy 6:7, Psalms 78:4, Psalms 78:5, Psalms 78:6, Psalms 78:7, Proverbs 22:6, Matthew 18:6, Matthew 28:19, Matthew 28:20, Luke 8:13, John 15:4, John 15:5, John 15:6, Romans 10:17, Ephesians 6:4, Colossians 2:6, Colossians 2:7, Colossians 2:8, 2 Timothy 1:5, 2 Timothy 3:14, 2 Timothy 3:15, Hebrews 3:12, Hebrews 3:13, Hebrews 3:14, Hebrews 10:23, Hebrews 10:24, Hebrews 10:25, James 1:5, James 1:6, James 1:7, James 1:8, 1 Peter 3:15

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The Christian's FriendSuited Ministry

Here then we have divine wisdom to guide us in teaching "babes." They must be nourished with the word of God; they must be fortified against danger by the revelations and warnings which it provides; and they must have a whole Christ — Christ in all that He is in Himself, in all that He is to God, and in all that He is to them, unfolded — that they may grow thereby up to salvation. This is a very different thing from occupying them with questions and controversies instead of Christ; and it may be added, that the maintenance of simplicity in the manner of instruction is entirely consistent with leading souls on in the knowledge of their portion in Christ, as well as of the dangers of their path. We hesitate not to say, that the falling away of so many young converts, and the yielding of many more to the influences of the world, may be traced back, in many instances, to our failure in supplying them with suited food. Knowing scarcely anything beyond the forgiveness of sins, they have little interest in the Scriptures, and thus the means of their growth and safety are neglected.

Edward DennettSuited Ministry

Here then we have divine wisdom to guide us in teaching "babes." They must be nourished with the word of God; they must be fortified against danger by the revelations and warnings which it provides; and they must have a whole Christ — Christ in all that He is in Himself, in all that He is to God, and in all that He is to them, unfolded — that they may grow thereby up to salvation. This is a very different thing from occupying them with questions and controversies instead of Christ; and it may be added, that the maintenance of simplicity in the manner of instruction is entirely consistent with leading souls on in the knowledge of their portion in Christ, as well as of the dangers of their path. We hesitate not to say, that the falling away of so many young converts, and the yielding of many more to the influences of the world, may be traced back, in many instances, to our failure in supplying them with suited food. Knowing scarcely anything beyond the forgiveness of sins, they have little interest in the Scriptures, and thus the means of their growth and safety are neglected.

The Christian's FriendThe Elect Lady

The aged apostle had been filled with joy in that he had found the elect lady's children walking in truth, "as we have received a commandment from the Father." It was not enough for the beloved disciple, the one whom Jesus loved, that these souls were converted. What made him rejoice greatly was, that, having been converted, their lives were governed by the truth. Conversion is indeed an unspeakable mercy, but it is not everything. It is the introduction to a new sphere, in which Christ may be glorified in walk and ways. In order to this the truth must be apprehended, and hence the need of systematic instruction for young believers after they have been brought to the knowledge of Christ as their Saviour. The Lord Himself showed His solicitude for the lambs, as well as for the sheep, in His charge to Peter after his restoration. And the only safeguards for the babes in the family of God, as is taught in the first epistle, in the presence of seductive errors, are the Spirit and the word of God. Let those, then, who are older in the divine life, ever seek to help the younger to be found walking in the truth.

Truth & TestimonyVolume 3 - 7

Now I would like to make a reference to an important feature of the things we are speaking about and that is that it is almost certain that many young Christians will say, “All this is perhaps all very well but it is beyond us.” Now I would like to say that there is a terrible danger here. I think that no one who knows me would accuse me of lack of sympathy with work amongst young people and seeking to instruct them in the things of God and reach them. But there is a terrible danger, not only in the meetings but everywhere, that young people are being encouraged to grow up with the idea that they can live their own fellowship and their own Christianity and that there is a special kind for them. Consequently, they churn over things at their own level and never get outside it, and they never will realise what lies ahead unless that outlook is replaced. By all means, let the young people gather together but let them never forget how the disciples continued with one accord, steadfastly, in all the functions of the assembly! You can add what you like to that but never let anyone think that the real functions of the assembly, the teaching of the apostles, as well as the breaking of bread and prayers, can be displaced. All the children of God of whatever age group should meet together like this and then bit by bit they will grow up into what really does lie ahead in growth in the Christian life, whereas if they spend all their time churning over together they will never get outside their own level. At the same time, of course, we who are older should do all that we possibly can to consider them and to help them and to speak in ways that they can all understand. Above all we should present them the humility and the meekness and the longsuffering with which we are enjoined to strive to keep the unity of the Spirit.

J. S. BlackburnThe Revelation of the Father

Now I would like to make a reference to an important feature of the things we are speaking about and that is that it is almost certain that many young Christians will say, "All this is perhaps all very well but it is beyond us." Now I would like to say that there is a terrible danger here. I think that no one who knows me would accuse me of lack of sympathy with work amongst young people and seeking to instruct them in the things of God and reach them. But there is a terrible danger, not only in the meetings but everywhere, that young people are being encouraged to grow up with the idea that they can live their own fellowship and their own Christianity and that there is a special kind for them. Consequently, they churn over things at their own level and never get outside it, and they never will realise what lies ahead unless that outlook is replaced. By all means, let the young people gather together but let them never forget how the disciples continued with one accord, steadfastly, in all the functions of the assembly! You can add what you like to that but never let anyone think that the real functions of the assembly, the teaching of the apostles, as well as the breaking of bread and prayers, can be displaced. All the children of God of whatever age group should meet together like this and then bit by bit they will grow up into what really does lie ahead in growth in the Christian life, whereas if they spend all their time churning over together they will never get outside their own level. At the same time, of course, we who are older should do all that we possibly can to consider them and to help them and to speak in ways that they can all understand. Above all we should present them the humility and the meekness and the longsuffering with which we are enjoined to strive to keep the unity of the Spirit.

W. T. P. WolstonFrom Egypt to Canaan

In thus speaking, I am thinking of the lambs of Christ's flock, — those who have just started. I wish the older ones would think a little about them. Suppose we were to try to help them — we old ones, I mean now. Go and give them what will help their souls. Not dry stuff, — advanced theological or ecclesiastical dogma — that they cannot swallow. Feed them on the milk of the Word. "Feed my lambs" is a sweet word of the Chief Shepherd, and to do so is lovely work. I want to get all you dear young people to see that you belong to the Lord, absolutely and irrevocably. You receive the forgiveness of your sins, and sanctification at the same time. In plain language, beloved young convert, you are among the saints — you are one of them. Do not go about talking of what you feel. Faith, not feelings, regulates your position. Having faith, you are in the family of God, and have not only your sins forgiven, but you have an "inheritance among them that are sanctified." Wonderful words. How are we sanctified? By faith that is in Jesus.

Samuel RidoutThe Limits of Discipline

The young believer is exposed to special dangers in three directions: from the flesh within, from the world about, and from Satan, who is constantly seeking to make use of the flesh and the world to seduce the soul from the simplicity as to Christ. The very instincts of love will lead us to look after and care for the lambs of the flock. Indeed, these have been entrusted to us, and we may ask if one reason why more are not added to the companies of the saints gathered to the Lord's name may not be found in the lack of the exercise of that love which will care for them.

The Christian's FriendCounsels For the Young

There was never a time when more manifest dangers beset the path of the young than at the present moment; and this is true both in respect of young believers and of the children of Christian parents. Through every avenue by which their hearts may be reached, Satan is ever seeking to pour in his allurements. As the god of this world he appeals to their eyes, their ears - to all their senses, in fact - to seduce them, if possible, to walk in his ways. Through the cultivation of the fine arts, and from the education of the tastes of the people, temptations abound on every hand. This cannot fail to impress the most careless beholder. Even the pictorial embellishments which cover the hoardings of our streets are instrumentalities for the insinuation or suggestion of evil things, and thus for calling forth the flesh into activity. In view of these patent dangers, it becomes a question whether Christian teachers and parents are sufficiently careful to provide the antidotes which are to be found in the Word of God - first, in warning the young of the perils which surround their path, and then in ministering to them that which alone can satisfy their hearts, and draw them after our blessed Lord and Saviour in the path of devoted discipleship.

A. T. SchofieldPlain Papers for Young Believers

Herein lies the chief danger for the young Christian. Up to this time he has taken all that his parents have told him for granted. He has steadily attended the well-known church, chapel, meeting, or Sunday School, where he first learned the value of the blood of Christ; and, shielded in a comfortable home from temptation, he has caught, hitherto, but stray glimpses of the sea of wickedness without. But now comes the time when his principles are to be tested. He is sent away to a strange city, he lives in lodgings, he is thrown among a set of godless, careless, and often immoral young men; he is surrounded on every side with new and strange temptations. Oh, how many dear bright young believers have made shipwreck of their faith on these fatal rocks which are met with on first sailing out of the harbor of home! The first month at a time like this, very often has a great influence on a young man's life for years to come.

Ernst-August BremickerLet the Children Come to Me

How do we bring them to Him? There are two main elements. The first is that we set them a good example. Generally speaking, children take notice of our actions much more than our words. If they see us following the Lord Jesus and living in daily communion with Him, we create the right preconditions for them to do the same. If instead they realise the opposite is true, and see us living self-centred and hypocritical lives, we hinder them from coming to the Lord Jesus. The second main element is that we start as early as possible to talk to them about Him, and to pray and sing with them. This is the best seed we can sow in their hearts and it is ever more necessary in this age.

Verses

  • Deuteronomy 6:6–76And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thy heart; 7and thou shalt impress them on thy sons, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thy house, and when thou goest on the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up.
  • Psalms 78:4–74We will not hide [them] from their sons, shewing forth to the generation to come the praises of Jehovah, and his strength, and his marvellous works which he hath done. 5For he established a testimony in Jacob, and appointed a law in Israel, which he commanded our fathers, that they should make them known to their children; 6That the generation to come might know [them], the children that should be born; that they might rise up and tell [them] to their children, 7And that they might set their hope in God, and not forget the works of God, but observe his commandments;
  • Proverbs 22:6Train up the child according to the tenor of his way, and when he is old he will not depart from it.
  • Matthew 18:6But whosoever shall offend one of these little ones who believe in me, it were profitable for him that a great millstone had been hanged upon his neck and he be sunk in the depths of the sea.