How can I overcome the fear of death?

Answered from the commentary of H. H. Snell, W. T. Turpin, Samuel Ridout and 7 others

The fear of death is removed by looking to the Lord Jesus and believing that He died for your sins and rose again. His death took away the sting of sin and judgment, and His resurrection broke death’s power; for the believer, death is no longer the king of terrors, but a servant that opens the way to be with Christ. So rest in Christ’s finished work, and look to Him alive: He has the keys of death, and He will raise those who have died and change those who are alive when He comes.

Most speak of the believer’s fear of death as gone; some distinguish this from the bodily fear of dying, and say that grace for that hour will come when it is needed. Through the valley, the Lord is with His own, and His presence, rod and staff comfort them.

Verses: Hebrews 2:14, Hebrews 2:15, 1 Corinthians 15:54, 1 Corinthians 15:55, 1 Corinthians 15:56, 1 Corinthians 15:57, John 11:25, John 11:26, Romans 8:38, Romans 8:39, Psalms 23:4, Psalms 34:4, Psalms 56:3, Psalms 56:4, 2 Timothy 1:7, Philippians 1:21, Philippians 1:22, Philippians 1:23, 1 Thessalonians 4:13, 1 Thessalonians 4:14, 1 Thessalonians 4:15, 1 Thessalonians 4:16, 1 Thessalonians 4:17, 1 Thessalonians 4:18, Revelation 21:4

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H. H. SnellStreams of Refreshing from the Fountain of Life

Liberty from the Fear of Death. Man trembles at death; his bones shake, the joints of his back are loosed, and his countenance becomes ghastly, when he sees death enter the room, and feels its chilly grasp. There is only one thing that enables the soul to triumph in death; it is knowing that Christ died for our sins, and that He who is now in the glory is our life. It is only beholding Christ who was on the cross that will enable any one to say, that death is but the opening of the golden gates that admit him into the celestial glory. Nothing can remove the fear of death, and enable us to meet it with composure and peace, but the sheltering power of the blood of the Lamb, the blessed knowledge that we have passed from death unto life, and the assurance, that though the mortal body may fall asleep in Jesus, death can have no claim upon us, because Jesus hath borne death and judgment instead of us. So that the true language of faith is, "O death, where is thy sting? O grave, where is thy victory? The sting of death is sin, and the strength of sin is the law; but thanks be to God, who giveth us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ." Thus we have liberty from the fear of death.

H. H. SnellStreams of Refreshing from the Fountain of Life

Fear of death is removed when the soul looks only and simply to the Lord Jesus, and believes that He has died in his stead, and suffered for his sins on the cross. The believer thus knows, that whatever changes may take place, his life is hid with Christ in God, and though he may sleep in Jesus, yet he shall never see death. This fills the languishing spirit with consolation and peace, as well as strength for the service of God, and running the heavenly race.

W. T. TurpinThe Resurrection

Am I speaking to a soul here who has doubts, or fears, or misgiving? Have you a doubt? I know very well that people say, I am thinking of the Lord Jesus Christ on the cross. My beloved brother or sister, let me tell you this, if You talk about looking to the Lord Jesus Christ on the cross, you are looking at Him where He is not. There is no such thing as the Lord Jesus Christ on the cross; how can you see Him where He is not? If you say to me, I look back by faith, I understand that, that is plain enough, I look back by faith and remember that He was on the cross, but you could not look back by faith and see Him on the cross, though you can look back by faith to see what He bore, and what He was and endured on the cross. Do you want to see Him? You must look up to see Him alive. He was dead, He is alive, He is risen. I see Him in His new place as man, victorious, triumphant man, the whole power of death and of Satan broken, the whole power of the enemy dashed in pieces by that magnificent victory of His; every hostile power put down, every enemy that had triumphed, triumphed over by Him in His death and in His resurrection. What fear can you have now? What are you afraid of? I am speaking perhaps to a trembling believer to-night, to some one who is not established in the truth of the gospel, who says, I am afraid of death. Oh, beloved friends, look here. He was the death of death, "that through death he might destroy him that had the power of death, that is the devil, and deliver them who through fear of death were all their lifetime subject to bondage." Death has been vanquished; death has lost its sting; death has been spoiled of its victory, its power is broken, you need not be afraid of death. Sin? He came to bear away His people's sins; He bore them. Thank God, however feeble you may be, you belong to Christ, and I can tell you every one of your sins were laid by God on that blessed One on the cross. Perhaps you have sung the hymn, "I lay my sins on Jesus."

Ah, no, you could not lay your sins on Jesus, God laid them on Him, God who knew them, the God against whom you had sinned, the God upon whose holy, righteous character those sins were an outrage, God laid all your sins, my dear trembling brother or sister, on that blessed One, and He rose again triumphant without them. God as God forsook Him as man on the cross when He bore them, but He is triumphant without your sins. What a comfort! Thank God, my sins are all gone; death is passed. I remember when I was afraid of death myself. I knew I should not go to hell, I knew my sins were forgiven, but I was afraid of death. I did not like to look at a corpse; I could not bear to come into the presence of death; death made me tremble; I was afraid of it, though I was not afraid of hell. Why? Because I had not seen the magnificent triumph of Christ over death. Now, thank God, you can see it, and you can rejoice in it. You can take up the song of victory. You can put your foot down on this unalterable platform that has been secured through His death and by His resurrection, and you can say, under the shadow of Christ's victory, that victory won by Himself alone, but for us, you can lift your voice and say, "O death, where is thy sting? O grave, where is thy victory?" That is what I read in the resurrection of the Lord Jesus Christ.

G. V. WigramGleanings, Volume 2

Death is not the king of terrors to believers. He that had the power of death is nullified new to those who believe in Jesus. Through carelessness of walk some may say that they do fear death; they accredit the power of the enemy so as to sanction in themselves a certain degree of fear of it. If I look back before I was converted it was not the thought of death but of the great white throne, the judgment after death, that I shrank from. There is such a thing as a physical fear of death. It may be given of God for the protection of the body, to make people take care of themselves; but believers on their death-bed have no fear; the Lord has been with them, and they have desired earnestly to be absent from the body and present with the Lord. I have never known anyone who, walked closely with the Lord Jesus who feared death. I have known some who have said "If I were to meet death in my present strength I am not able to bear it." But will not Christ be faithful to His promise, "when thou passest through the valley of the shadow of death, I will be with thee, my rod and my staff they shall comfort thee?"

Edward DennettUnsearchable Riches

The Psalmist now waxes more bold. He has told us what Jehovah is, and what He does. This gives him confidence, and he is consequently able to say, "Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for Thou art with me; Thy rod and Thy staff they comfort me" (Ps. 23:4). The valley of the shadow of death is not so much passing through death, as the character of our pathway through this scene. We are passing through a judged world. Death hangs over it like a pall; and hence to the believer, who enters into God's thoughts about it, it is the valley of the shadow of death. But what is his antidote against fear? It is that "Thou art with me." This indeed is the source of all our security and blessing — the Lord is with us. And being with us, we have His rod and His staff to comfort us — His rod to direct, and His staff to support. Do we sufficiently enter into this? Is it as constantly present to our souls as it should be — that the Lord is with us? and that His rod and His staff comfort us? The scene may be never so dark and desolate, and we may be never so weak and weary, but we have boundless resources in the One who is our Shepherd — His own presence to cheer our souls, and His rod and His staff to guide in perplexity, and to support in weakness. Blessed be His name!

C. E. StuartHebrews

How great can be that fear many can tell. How real the deliverance Stephen (Acts 7:59) and Paul attest (Phil. 1:23; 2 Tim. 1:10, 2:11, 4:6-8). And the Lord, knowing what that power is, and knowing that it might terrify His saints so as to make them turn aside from the path of testimony for God, tells all in Rev. 1:18 that He is the living One; alive for evermore, and has the keys of death (which claims the body) as well as of Hades, where the unclothed are. If then Christians die, they depart to be with Christ, and their resurrection to everlasting bliss is assured. The sting of death, which is sin, is removed for them (1 Cor. 15:56) by the death of Christ on their behalf. The terror of death should be dissipated by the remembrance of the Lord's victory over the enemy.

Samuel RidoutLecture 2

Here we have the deliverance of Christ's people through His death from all the power of Satan. Satan had the judicial power of death. That he got through man in Eden deliberately taking his word instead of God's. "The woman was deceived, being in the transgression," and the man deliberately, with eyes open, accepted all the consequences of being under the serpent's rule. "Therefore as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin," Satan became, in that way, the prince and god of this world, and had the power of death. Thus death was the judicial infliction of God upon man, and Satan was connected with it in such a way that Scripture says he had the power, or authority, of death. Satan in that way was the executioner of God's judgment upon man. And how he has used his authority! How he has held the fear of death over people's heads! How he has driven them frantic with terror, made them suffer, turned their religion into superstition, made them commit incredible acts of cruelty through the fear of death! Satan is master of man's religion, and you will find that most of it is dictated by the fear of death.

But now Christ has come, and has delivered from the fear of death. How? By dying Himself he has become the destroyer of death, has taken away its sting and fear, and thus delivered all those who were subject to bondage through fear of death. For the believer the fear of death is now gone; it is really only sleep. Could you lie down quietly with the assurance that you would never wake again, and pass into eternity? Has the work of Christ so effectually removed every fear of death from you that you could do that? That is what He came for.

C. KnappStaff and Sceptre

There is a passage in the second of Hebrews that ought always to be read in connection with this subject. It says: "Forasmuch, then, as the children are partakers of flesh and blood, He also Himself likewise took part of the same; that through death He might destroy [annul] him that had the power of death, that is, the devil; and deliver them who through fear of death were all their lifetime subject to bondage" (vers. 14, 15). There you have the work of Christ, and Satan's utter overthrow. He "destroyed" the devil, or annulled him, as it is in Greek. His power is gone, as far as Christians are concerned. And now, by this accomplished work, they are entitled to deliverance from all fear of death. It was all accomplished for us at the cross. With joy we sing: "His be 'the Victor's name,' Who fought the fight alone; Triumphant saints no honor claim, His conquest was their own."

An Outline of Sound WordsDeliverance from the Fear of Death

Now that the power of death has been broken, the devil can no longer hold in fear the saints of God. It was to deliver His own that the Lord Jesus became Man, and this great result, among the many more has been accomplished by the death and resurrection of Jesus. Instead of fearing death, the Christian can face it with calmness and confidence, knowing that it is but the entry into Christ’s presence in the paradise of God.

An Outline of Sound WordsThe Purpose of God

Through His death, Jesus has abolished death, not only taking its sting away, but taking all its power from it. Death has been vanquished, and the evidence is found in the Risen Christ. Death is not yet destroyed; that is coming, but being overcome, and robbed of its power, it has no terror for the Christian. God would never have allowed death to come into this world had He not resources to meet it, and to defeat it. We cannot understand all the deep mysteries connected with God allowing sin to enter this world, but this we do know, that in God's purpose there was the resource in Christ to deal with it for His glory, and to deliver His own from its power.

Verses

  • Hebrews 2:14–1514Since therefore the children partake of blood and flesh, he also, in like manner, took part in the same, that through death he might annul him who has the might of death, that is, the devil; 15and might set free all those who through fear of death through the whole of their life were subject to bondage.
  • 1 Corinthians 15:54–5754But when this corruptible shall have put on incorruptibility, and this mortal shall have put on immortality, then shall come to pass the word written Death has been swallowed up in victory. 55Where, O death, [is] thy sting? where, O death, thy victory? 56Now the sting of death [is] sin, and the power of sin the law; 57but thanks to God, who gives us the victory by our Lord Jesus Christ.
  • John 11:25–2625Jesus said to her, I am the resurrection and the life he that believes on me, though he have died, shall live; 26and every one who lives and believes on me shall never die. Believest thou this?