What does the Bible say about the power of words?
Answered from the commentary of F. B. Hole, Hamilton Smith, Arno Clemens Gaebelein and 13 others
The Bible treats the tongue as a little member that is nonetheless an instrument of very great things, for good or for evil. In James 3:2-8, the bit in a horse's mouth and the small rudder of a great ship show that whoever controls the tongue can govern the whole body. Yet a little fire kindles a great forest, and the tongue's small size only makes its capacity for mischief more vivid, beyond reckoning or measure. Left unrestrained it is "a fire, a world of iniquity," defiling the whole body and setting on fire the course of nature. It is "set on fire of hell," because the devil has enslaved it for his ends and struck the spark that fires the whole train of evil. No man can tame it, and it is "full of deadly poison". Only Christ, and the power of the Spirit filling the heart with His grace, can bridle it. Even then no believer should think he has tamed it, so it needs constant guarding.
Its power comes from the heart, since "out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh" (Matthew 12:34). Words are therefore the index of the heart, showing a man as much as his conduct does. This is why words carry such weight. For every idle word men speak they shall give account in the day of judgment, and "by thy words thou shalt be justified, and by thy words thou shalt be condemned" (Matthew 12:36-37). Several authors hold that the believer is taken off the ground of judgment because Christ was judged in his stead. They add that this is the very reason he judges himself day by day rather than speaking idle words. One instead places believers before the judgment seat of Christ for rewards, where their words will be approved or disapproved. In the same way, a man who seems religious but does not bridle his tongue deceives himself, and his religion is vain (James 1:26).
The same power works for good. "Death and life are in the power of the tongue" (Proverbs 18:21): evil words bring evil results, while words of life and love are a power for good. "A wholesome tongue is a tree of life," a tongue kept in control and used for good purposes. "A soft answer turns away wrath" (Proverbs 15:1), and a soft tongue is more potent than it appears, for in time it breaks the bone of stiff resistance (Proverbs 25:15). "A word fitly spoken," a single word given at the proper time to meet a particular need, is like apples of gold in pictures of silver (Proverbs 25:11).
So believers are to let no corrupt communication proceed out of their mouth, but only what is good for edifying and ministers grace to the hearers (Ephesians 4:29). If their words do not edify, they are injurious. Their speech is to be always with grace yet seasoned with salt (Colossians 4:6), after the pattern of Christ, into whose lips grace was poured. Opposite to this, the words of a talebearer are as wounds that go down into the innermost parts. Speaking evil of others is doing the devil's own work.
Above all stands the power of God's own word. "The worlds were framed by the word of God" (Hebrews 11:3), and "He spake, and it was done" (Psalm 33:9). From the first chapter of the Bible that word is seen to be powerful, never failing of its effect. Every word God speaks to His people brings with it the power to do what He commands.
Verses: James 3:3, James 3:4, Proverbs 25:15, Psalms 33:9, Proverbs 18:21, James 3:5, James 3:6, James 3:7, James 3:8, James 3:9, James 3:10, Matthew 12:36, Matthew 12:37, Proverbs 12:18, Proverbs 15:1, Proverbs 15:4, Ephesians 4:29, Colossians 4:6, Proverbs 16:24, Proverbs 25:11, Matthew 12:34, Luke 6:45, Proverbs 10:19, Proverbs 21:23, Proverbs 13:3, James 1:19, James 1:26, James 3:2, Psalms 141:3, Psalms 19:14, Proverbs 12:25, Proverbs 15:23, Proverbs 16:23, Proverbs 17:27, Proverbs 17:28, Proverbs 18:4, Proverbs 26:22, Proverbs 11:9, Proverbs 11:11, Proverbs 10:11, Proverbs 10:20, Proverbs 10:21, Matthew 15:11, Matthew 15:18, Proverbs 12:14, Proverbs 18:20, Isaiah 50:4, 1 Peter 3:10, Psalms 34:13, Ecclesiastes 10:12, Proverbs 29:20, Genesis 1:3, Hebrews 11:3, Psalms 33:6, Hebrews 4:12, Isaiah 55:11, John 1:1, Hebrews 1:3, Proverbs 6:16, Proverbs 6:17, Proverbs 6:18, Proverbs 6:19, Psalms 39:1, Ephesians 5:4, Colossians 3:8
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"Death and life are in the power of the tongue; and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof" (verse 21). The Epistle of James (chapter 3) speaks in the same manner of the power of the tongue and its misuse. Evil words will bring evil results. But the tongue speaking the words of life and love, as given in the gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ, is a power for good, the power of life--and oh! what shall the harvest be in that day!
But the apostle goes on more fully into this question of the tongue. "If any offend not in word, he is a perfect man, able to bridle also the whole body." And yet how easily we let our tongues run on! In fact, the place that the apostle gives the tongue is that which governs the whole body. The bit in the horse's mouth is a small thing in itself, and yet the whole body is turned by it. The ships, in the midst of violent winds that act upon them, yet are turned about by a very small rudder, according to the direction that the helmsman gives. So, we may think little of the tongue, although it is the very thing by which we boast so much, but, verily, "How much wood can be kindled by how small a fire!" And here he breaks out into a description of it which is startling in its vehemence. "The tongue is a fire. The world of iniquity among our members is the tongue, which defileth the whole body, and setteth on fire the course of nature, and is set on fire of hell." Of course, he is speaking of it as unrestrained by the fear of God, or unguided by the power of the Spirit. How much might we speak of the wonderful power of the tongue on the other side! What a ministry of comfort and blessing is in it! But the best gifts are in their perversion just as fruitful for evil as they are good when used aright. The sweetest ties, the most precious relationships that God has instituted amongst men, are just in the same proportion fruitful for evil in their perversion. Nevertheless there is, no doubt, a special need for such a warning as this with regard to the tongue. How apt we are to be careless about it! How apt we are to release it somewhat from the control that we ought to exercise over it! How soon, if it escapes from such control, it does the damage which we know a little fire may! How much further evil may a little evil in it — mere unguarded words, as we say — excite in others! It is an untamable evil, says the apostle; that is, of course, naturally. We have always to govern it, saints as we may be. The liberty which is truly ours does not extend, as we know, to a liberty with regard to that body which is still unredeemed, which is dead because of sin; and among Christians, where is there, in fact, any source of evil, and so readily allowed to manifest itself, as the tongue? "It is a restless evil," says the apostle, always seeking expression, yet "full of death-bringing poison." "We bless the Lord on the one hand, and curse men on the other; men whom God has made in His own likeness. Blessing and cursing come out of the same mouth. How thorough an inconsistency, as the apostle urges! In nature you do not find such things. The fountain does not send forth sweet and bitter water out of the same opening; nor a fig tree yield olives; nor a vine, figs; nor can that which is salt produce sweet water. Nature itself in this way rebukes one who was meant to be the lord of nature, as the image of Him who is the Governor over all. He has, alas, yielded himself to the government of another, and thus he has lost the power of government, largely, over nature, but above all over himself. The child of God away from God displays in full reality the power of the fall, and, as the apostle urges here, the tongue is an eminent example of this.
The tongue therefore is regarded in scripture as a mighty instrument which a man may wield for good or ill among his fellows. Speech is the great means for the publication of the thought which arises in the heart and of the dissemination of its purifying or defiling influences among others. The mouth is the medium whereby man may worship God or blaspheme His holy name. So James says, "Therewith bless we God, even the Father, and therewith curse we men who are made after the similitude of God. Out of the same mouth proceeds blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not so to be" (James 3:9-10). Hence, he that rules his spirit is mightier than he who takes a city, and "whoso keeps his mouth and his tongue keeps his soul from troubles" (Prow. 16:32; Prov. 21:23). But who can bring a clean thing out of an unclean? The seriousness of this problem James teaches when he says, "The tongue can no man tame; it is an unruly member," and, further, "So is the tongue among our members that it defiles the whole body" (James 3:6, 8). In the sense of this guilty contagiousness, Isaiah confessed that he was a man of unclean lips, and accordingly it was upon his mouth that the coal of cleansing was laid (Isa. 6:7).
Clearly, it is in agreement with the whole tenor of the word of God, that in the matter of guilty uncleanness, the functions of the mouth in speaking are of greater moral importance than those for eating, for "meat will not commend us to God: neither if we eat [things offered to idols] are we the better: neither, if we eat not are we the worse" (1 Cor. 8:8), but for "every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account in the day of judgment" (Matt. 12:36).
"The belly" has a bad name in both Old Testament and New; but not always, as John 7:38 conclusively proves. And so it may be here, where it seems employed in its twofold application for the innermost affections, good or evil. The mouth indicates the heart, as the Lord tells us both of the good man and of the wicked. Out of its abundance the mouth speaks. Here it is the other side — a man's inwards satisfied with the fruit of his mouth, with the increase of his lips. How weighty then our every word if we bring in God! But if this satisfies man, the child of God can be satisfied with nothing less than God's Word and grace. Hence too are life and death said to be in the power of the tongue, and so the issues in both good and evil. All Scripture declares it; all experience confirms and illustrates it.
Even so the tongue is a little member. Yet it is an instrument of very great things either for good or evil. If men's tongues are used for the proclamation of the Glad Tidings, why then their very feet upon the mountains are beautiful! Alas, as the tongue is ordinarily used among men it is rightly declared by James to be "a fire, a world of iniquity." Small as it is, it boasts great things. It may be like a little spark of fire, but how many a ruinous conflagration has been started by a little spark!
The Apostle had first alluded to the danger of the tongue in James 1:26. In James 2 he contrasts the works of faith with the mere use of the tongue in saying that one has faith. In the chapter before us he uses the very strongest language as to it in verses 6 and 8. Yet who, that knows the fearful havoc that the tongue has caused, will say that his language is too strong? What mischief has been caused amongst Christian people by the rash and foolish and wicked use of the tongue. When we read, "so is the tongue among our members, that it defiles the whole body," the context indicates that James was referring to the human body, yet it would be equally true if we read it as referring to the church which is the body of Christ and of which we are all members. More defilement has been brought into the church of God by it than by anything else.
Then again there is not only the direct mischief of the tongue, but think of the indirect mischief! The whole course of nature may be set on fire by it. Every instinct and faculty of man may be roused. The deepest and basest passions stirred into action. And when the tongue is thus used we may be quite sure that the tongue itself was originally set on fire of hell. It has been enslaved by the devil to be used for his ends. It was he who struck the spark which by means of the tongue has fired the whole train of evil.
Secondly, as to the tongue, that influential member so fruitful in good, so fruitful in evil — the instrument whereby we can either give forth accents of soft and soothing sympathy or words of bitter sarcasm and burning indignation. How deeply important is the grace of self-control in its application to such a member! Mischief, which years cannot repair, may be done by the tongue in a moment. Words which we would give the world to recall, may be uttered by the tongue in an unguarded moment. Hear what the inspired apostle says on this subject: “If any man offend not in word, the same is a perfect man and able also to bridle the whole body. Behold, we put bits in the horses' mouths, that they may obey us; and we turn about their whole body. Behold also the ships, which though they be so great and are driven of fierce winds, yet are they turned about with a very small helm, whithersoever the governor lists. Even so the tongue is a little member and boasts great things. Behold, how great a matter a little fire kindles! And the tongue is a fire, a world of iniquity: so is the tongue among our members, that it defiles the whole body and sets on fire the course of nature; and it is set on fire of hell. For every kind of beasts, and of birds, and of serpents, and of things in the sea is tamed, and has been tamed of mankind. But the tongue can no man tame; it is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison” (James 3:2-8).
Who then can control the tongue? “No man” can do it, but Christ can, and we have only to look to Him in simple faith. This implies both the sense of our own utter helplessness and His all-sufficiency. It is utterly impossible that we could control the tongue. As well might we attempt to stem the ocean's tide, the mountain torrent or the Alpine avalanche. How often, when suffering under the effects of some blunder of the tongue, have we resolved to command that unruly member somewhat better next time, but our resolution proved to be like the morning cloud that passes away, and we had only to retire and weep over our lamentable failure in the matter of self-control. Why was this? Simply because we undertook the matter in our own strength or at least without a sufficiently deep consciousness of our own weakness. This is the cause of constant failure. We must cling to Christ as a babe clings to its mother. Not that our clinging is of any value; still we must cling. Thus alone can we successfully bridle the tongue. Let us remember at all times the solemn searching words of the same apostle James, “If any one (man, woman or child) among you seem to be religious and bridles not his tongue, but deceives his own heart, this man's religion is vain” (James 1:26). These are wholesome words for a day like the present when there are so many unruly tongues abroad. May we have grace to attend to these words! May their holy influence appear in our ways!
Hence the Lord pronounces them a generation of vipers. "The tree is known by his fruit." It was a bad tree, and no good fruit would He expect from it. "O generation of vipers," He adds, "how can ye, being evil, speak good things? For out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh. A good man out of the good treasure of the heart bringeth forth good things: and an evil man out of the evil treasure bringeth forth evil things. But I say unto you, That every idle word (that is, I suppose, everything betraying contempt for God) that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment. For by thy words thou shalt be justified, and by thy words thou shalt be condemned" (vers. 34-37). What God insists upon is testimony to Jesus. These idle words betray the heart's rejection of Jesus, and slight the Holy Ghost's testimony to Him. "By thy words thou shalt be justified, and by thy words thou shalt be condemned." It is with the mouth that confession is made unto salvation; and the words that leave out Jesus prove that the heart prefers its sin to Him. The words of the mouth evidence the state of the heart. They are the outward expression of the feelings, and they show a man in one way as much as his conduct does in another. If the heart is evil, the words are evil, the conduct is evil: all therefore comes into judgment.
"By long forbearing is a prince persuaded, and a soft tongue breaketh the bone." If the servant of the Lord is not to strive, he is to "be gentle unto all men, apt to teach, patient, in meekness instructing those that oppose themselves" (2 Tim. 2:24, 25).
Faithfulness does not mean a peremptory declaration of the truth; but involves dealing wisely with souls by the giving of the truth needed by the soul at the time. It does not look for immediate results, but trusts God for eventual fruit. It acts with becoming restraint and forbearance, and is not discouraged by many rebuffs and setbacks. Happy indeed is that man who has learned how to rightly use his tongue! True enough, it may seem to accomplish nothing with some souls, but if one is a "prince," possessing the dignity of a child of the King, a proper presentation of the Word of God to him will have its real effect, in time. A soft tongue is more potent than it appears: in time it will break the bone, the strength of stiff resistance.
Note those words, "And God said." As we travel through the chapter we shall find they occur ten times. "The worlds were framed by the word of God," as Hebrews 11:3 has told us; or we may adopt the words of Psalm 33:9, "He spake, and it was done; He commanded, and it stood fast." How significant in this connection is the opening of John's Gospel, "In the beginning was the Word;" that is, He was pre-existent to the first beginnings of creation. Moreover He "was with God, and … was God … All things were made by Him." So it was the Word, who later, "was made flesh, and dwelt among us," that uttered the words of power that created and made all things. Hence creation contains very definite word as to the power and wisdom and glory of God, though the revelation falls far short of that which reached us when the Word became flesh.
It is marvellous grace on the part of God that He should put His words into our mouths; but it is also a challenging matter. Peter refers to men speaking as "oracles of God"; and Isaiah says, "My word shall not return unto Me void". It does not say our word; it is God's own Word. We may be assured that if God has put His Word into our lips, and His Word is spoken, there will be results for His glory and for the blessing of the saints, for God has said it "shall not return unto Me void".
Verses
- James 3:2–102For we all often offend. If any one offend not in word, he [is] a perfect man, able to bridle the whole body too. 3Behold, we put the bits in the mouths of the horses, that they may obey us, and we turn round their whole bodies. 4Behold also the ships, which are so great, and driven by violent winds, are turned about by a very small rudder, wherever the pleasure of the helmsman will. 5Thus also the tongue is a little member, and boasts great things. See how little a fire, how large a wood it kindles! 6and the tongue [is] fire, the world of unrighteousness; the tongue is set in our members, the defiler of the whole body, and which sets fire to the course of nature, and is set on fire of hell. 7For every species both of beasts and of birds, both of creeping things and of sea animals, is tamed and has been tamed by the human species; 8but the tongue can no one among men tame; [it is] an unsettled evil, full of death-bringing poison. 9Therewith bless we the Lord and Father, and therewith curse we men made after [the] likeness of God. 10Out of the same mouth goes forth blessing and cursing. It is not right, my brethren, that these things should be thus.