What does the Bible say about miscarriage?
Answered from the commentary of Edward Dennett, L. M. Grant, Leslie M. Grant and 13 others
Under the law, the Bible treats a miscarriage caused by violence as a wrong to be answered before the judges. In Exodus 21:22-25, if men strive and hurt a woman with child so that "her fruit depart from her," the one responsible must pay what the husband lays on him and the judges determine. If further harm comes to the woman, the penalty matches the injury: "eye for eye, tooth for tooth". The authors read these enactments as showing the tenderness of God in protecting the bodies of His people, together with the strict, exact justice that marks law as distinct from grace. The Bible also speaks of miscarriage within God's government of Israel. To an obedient people He promised that nothing would "cast their young, nor be barren" in the land (Exodus 23:26, Deuteronomy 7:14). To idolatrous Ephraim He threatened "a miscarrying womb and dry breasts" (Hosea 9:14). Those promises, however, were conditional ones given to Israel under law, not to the church. Godly people today may suffer such afflictions without any disobedience on their part. It is a grave mistake to treat every trial as punishment for some particular sin, because God's dealings are preventive as well as corrective.
Elsewhere the "untimely birth" serves as a figure. In Psalm 58:8 it pictures judgment on the wicked, who are cut off with no future. In Ecclesiastes 6:3-5 it is called better off, having "rest," than a man who lives long without good. Job's wish that he had been "as infants which never saw light" (Job 3:16) is judged an eclipse of faith that blurs the future, not sound doctrine. Against such darkness, Scripture shows God's eye resting on the unborn child while it is still being formed. Every member is written in His book before it exists (Psalm 139:13-16), and He knew Jeremiah before He formed him in the womb (Jeremiah 1:5). The comfort these authors give bereaved parents rests on Matthew 18:10-14: it is not the Father's will that one of these little ones should perish, and so all who die in infancy are saved. They are saved not because they are innocent but because the Son of Man came to save what was lost. Their bodies die because of Adam's sin, and their souls are saved by the death of Jesus. So the bereaved may say with David, "I shall go to him, but he shall not return to me" (2 Samuel 12:23). Grief for a lost child is allowed, since Christ Himself wept. Yet the babe has no loss, and the Lord uses the sorrow to draw the parents' hearts nearer to Himself.
Verses: Exodus 21:24, Exodus 21:25, Deuteronomy 7:14, Hosea 9:14, Matthew 18:10, Matthew 18:11, Matthew 18:12, Matthew 18:13, Matthew 18:14, Psalms 139:13, Psalms 139:14, Psalms 139:15, Psalms 139:16, Jeremiah 1:5, 2 Samuel 12:22, 2 Samuel 12:23, Job 3:16, Ecclesiastes 6:3, Ecclesiastes 6:4, Ecclesiastes 6:5, Psalms 58:8, Exodus 23:26, Genesis 25:21, Genesis 25:22, Genesis 25:23, Luke 1:41, Luke 1:42, Luke 1:43, Luke 1:44, Exodus 21:22, Exodus 21:23, Psalms 34:18, Psalms 147:3, Matthew 5:4, Revelation 21:4, Isaiah 49:15, Job 1:21, Romans 8:18, Romans 8:28, 2 Corinthians 1:3, 2 Corinthians 1:4, Matthew 19:14, Psalms 127:3, Isaiah 44:24, Job 31:15, Psalms 22:10, Jeremiah 31:15, Romans 12:15, John 11:35, Psalms 56:8
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What the commentators say
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One striking his servant and causing death would incur the death penalty himself, yet if the servant continued even only a day or two before dying, the penalty would not be effective. The only explanation given for this is, “for he is his money” (v. 21).
If through physical striving a woman is caused an abortion, the person responsible must pay some recompense, as the woman's husband demands, or as was to be determined by a judge. If however there were bad results for the woman, the guilty party would be held responsible for this, and the judgment would be commensurate with the injury, — “eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot, burning for burning, wound for wound, stripe for stripe” (vv. 24-25). Of course, to literally pluck out one's eye because he had blinded another's eye, would not help the injured party. But he is entitled to a fair recompense.
Israel was to give absolutely no recognition to the idols of these nations, nor compromise by following their example in anything (v. 24), but rather reject and break down the pillars thy considered sacred. This was essential if they were to really serve the Lord, and He would bless them in their daily life, preserving them too from sickness. Their women would not suffer miscarriages, nor be barren (v. 26).
"G. K." If memory serves us, we have, on a former occasion, referred to the question of the salvation of all who die in infancy. Here is our authority, "Take heed that ye despise not one of these little ones; for I say to you, that in heaven their angels do always behold the face of my Father which is in heaven. For the Son of man is come to save that which is lost." The body of the infant dies because of Adam's sin; the soul of the infant is saved by the death of Jesus.
I sympathise with you, dear brother, in the loss of your children. I was told of it. It is a sorrowful blow for the heart of the parents - that one can understand, and I believe not less sensibly on the part of those who are not, according to the measure of the Spirit of Christ. He felt, in a manner a little different it is true, the death of Lazarus, more than those who took part at it. But all this belongs to that which is down here, where everything is passing and everything is changing. But He is all the time our God. He wept, but He raised. He sympathises with us, but He has introduced the power of good, of God Himself, in the midst of evil. For us, we have to wait for the result, but it is none the less sure. I in nowise doubt that all children that die are with Him; and it is there we find that which abides, that which is perfect, that which is all of Him. We wait, but He also waits to have us. We wait with longing, but He who shall come will come, and will not tarry. We have need of patience, that after having done the will of God we may inherit the effect of the promise. I trust that Mrs.-'s heart rests in the Lord in this sorrow. It is comforting to do so; His grace is perfect. …
To remove this sentence, therefore, all David's fasting and prayer are ineffectual. The king mourns but submits, and to the question of his servants as to his change of conduct on hearing of the child's death he answers by showing that it was not mere natural grief that had actuated him, nor would he fret against the Lord by useless sorrow. The child had gone whither David himself would follow, and where he would find him: in this certainly he expresses the comfort that remains for him of meeting in eternity the babe of a few days' existence upon earth.
Here it is the Father's will which He has come to carry out, and it is not the Father's will that one of these little ones should perish. How sweet and perfect an assurance! It is only the contrary will of man that hinders his salvation: on God's part there can be no contrary one: "As I live, saith the Lord, I have no pleasure in the death of him that dieth." Thus the little ones removed from us by death we may trust confidently to the divine love which waits on them. Our assurance as to them is rooted in the unchangeableness of the divine nature.
I do earnestly pray that this sorrow may be blessed to you and to all your dear children, that they may see how near death is, but the Lord still nearer. Assure dear M. how truly I sympathise with him. A father's sorrow, though of another character, is not less deep than a mother's. You must expect that, as time passes on, the present feeling of loss will diminish, and in a certain sense pass away too. Not that the affectionate remembrance of your poor little babe will be at all gone; but its character will be changed, and your living children and daily occupations will make it less absorbing. This is natural, and in one sense right. Living duties have their place, which cannot be rightly yielded to absorbing affections. What I would earnestly recommend to you is, to profit of the moments when the impression and present effect of it is strong; to place yourself before God, and reap all the fruit of His dispensations and tender grace. It is a time when He searches and manifests His love to the heart at the same time. May you grow much by this - surely to a mother's heart - painful occurrence.
The loss of a child. Faith will teach you to kiss a striking Lord; and so acknowledge the sovereignty of God (in the death of a child) to be above the power of us mortal men, who may pluck up a flower in the bud and not be blamed for it. If our dear Lord pluck up one of His roses, and pull down sour and green fruit before harvest, who can challenge Him? For He sendeth us to His world, as men to a market, wherein some stay many hours, and eat and drink, and buy and sell, and pass through the fair, till they be weary; and such are those who live long, and get a heavy fill of this life. And others again come slipping in to the morning market, and do neither sit nor stand, nor buy nor sell, but look about them a little, and pass presently home again; and these are infants and young ones, who end their short market in the morning, and get but a short view of the fair. Our Lord, who has numbered man's months, and set him bounds that he cannot pass, has written the length of our market, and it is easier to complain of the decree than to change it.
Thus bitterly does he deprecate the day of his birth and all connected with it. Indeed there had never been a child of Adam or a believer so visited as Job; and as yet he knew not the end, that the Lord is exceeding pitiful, and of tender mercy. He was in the depth of his trial aggravated by the silence of his friends, soon to augment it yet more by the drawn swords of their increasingly expressed suspicion. And so he asks, in the anguish of his soul, why, if such was to be his lot living, did he not die from the womb? Why should he have been so tenderly cared for to encounter at length such agony? Why did he not share the quiet of the grave with earth's grandees, who were spending life in building monuments that decay themselves, or cramming their houses with silver and gold they must leave behind; unless he had been as a still-born babe that never saw light, and thus be where the wicked trouble no more, and the weary are at rest, and the captives repose together, with no taskmaster's voice, small and great alike there, and the slave free from his master?
Verses 1-2. The first evil the wise searcher sees as a discouraging contradiction is, that God giveth a man riches, wealth, and honor so that he does not lack in anything whatever. But God does not give him the power to enjoy it, a stranger instead eats thereof. This makes impossible what he stated in the closing verses of the preceding chapter. The cherished desires of man have found no fulfilment. And if he has seen this evil, so do we still see it also. Where then is "the good and comely" of chapter 5:18? This is vanity and it is an evil disease, he confesseth.
Verses 3-9. But here is more of life's bitterness. If one should beget a hundred children and live to a very ripe old age, so old he becomes that it seems as if there is to be no burial for him at all, yet his soul is not filled with good--what then? "I say that an untimely birth is better than he, for it cometh in vanity and departeth in darkness, and the name thereof is covered with darkness; moreover it has not seen the sun nor known it; this hath rest rather than the other: yea, though he live a thousand years twice told, and yet enjoy no good; do not all go to one place?" It is a sad, sorrowful picture, yet every word of it is true as to man's existence. With all his long life and all it brings, riches and power, his soul has not the fill it needs, that which satisfies. His life ends at last and then there is the one place--the region of the unknown, the Sheol, where they all go. And about that one place there is no light; it is felt existence after death but of what nature? All is darkness! Better, far better off, is the untimely birth.
In verse 7 he comes back again to the labor that man does. It is for the mouth, yet it does not satisfy--the appetite is not filled. The hunger returns, and man must labor to satisfy it and yet it is never filled. The fool and the wise make the same experience. The wise has no advantage over the fool; and the poor man who has something to eat in sight is far better off than the rich, whose desires wander, seeking that which gratifies. Vanity and vexation of spirit! We may all sum it up in a brief sentence: Man under the sun, whatever he does, all his labors, all his riches, all his seeking for good, all his achievements cannot satisfy him, it cannot give that which the soul of man craves and needs. Nor can it ever be discovered by the searcher, the wise man, the philosopher, the scientist. What man needs is not anything "under the sun" but that which is "from above the sun."
Verses
- Exodus 21:22–2522And if men strive together, and strike a woman with child, so that she be delivered, and no mischief happen, he shall in any case be fined, according as the woman's husband shall impose on him, and shall give it as the judges estimate. 23But if mischief happen, then thou shalt give life for life, 24eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot, 25branding for branding, wound for wound, stripe for stripe.
- Deuteronomy 7:14Thou shalt be blessed above all the peoples; there shall not be male or female barren with thee, or with thy cattle;
- Hosea 9:14Give them, Jehovah — what wilt thou give? — give them a miscarrying womb and dry breasts.
- Matthew 18:10–1410See that ye do not despise one of these little ones; for I say unto you that their angels in [the] heavens continually behold the face of my Father who is in [the] heavens. 11For the Son of man has come to save that which was lost. 12What think ye? If a certain man should have a hundred sheep, and one of them be gone astray, does he not, leaving the ninety and nine on the mountains, go and seek the one that has gone astray? 13And if it should come to pass that he find it, verily I say unto you, he rejoices more because of it than because of the ninety and nine not gone astray. 14So it is not the will of your Father who is in [the] heavens that one of these little ones should perish.