What does the Bible say about expectations?

Answered from the commentary of Edward Dennett, Arno Clemens Gaebelein, C. H. Mackintosh and 15 others

Scripture teaches that the believer's expectation is to be from God alone: "My soul, wait thou only upon God; for my expectation is from Him" (Psalm 62:5). Nothing good is to be expected from the flesh, because in it good is totally absent; when that lesson is learned, all expectations of good will centre in God, and then there is no disappointment. Expecting anything from man is likewise vain, for "Cursed be the man that trusts in man… Blessed is the man that trusts in the Lord, and whose hope the Lord is" (Jeremiah 17:5-8). It is better to trust in the Lord than to put confidence in princes. Toward God, though, expectation should be large, since He "is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think" (Ephesians 3:20). He will never say, "You expect too much"; it is the joy of His loving heart to answer the very largest expectations of faith. To doubt His ability is an insult to God, and unbelief is the great hindrance. Prayer therefore holds dependence, confidence and expectation together, watching for the answer in faith. That confidence rests on His Word and His will: requests that serve His interests and glory, and not our own lusts, may be made with great assurance. When the answer is delayed, the soul must persevere, for God often keeps His people waiting long, and those waiting years are not wasted. "Hope deferred maketh the heart sick" (Proverbs 13:12), and the cure is to leave everything in His hands, for He is never too late.

Disappointment among believers comes from cherishing expectations that the Word of God does not warrant. These grow from a partial view of Scripture, as with the disciples going to Emmaus, who expected the glory without the sufferings. There can be no disappointment without expectation. So the believer is not to expect an easy life or earthly prosperity, as the faithful Israelite once could. The plain word is that "we must through much tribulation enter into the kingdom of God" (Acts 14:22), and suffering should not surprise us. Instead, contentment is to be learned in whatever state one is in, since true satisfaction is not found in present circumstances. Plans for the future are also to be held under the Lord's will, saying "If the Lord will, we shall live, and do this or that" (James 4:13-15), because planning with God left out is self-confidence and boasting. The believer's proper expectation is "that blessed hope" of Christ's coming (Titus 2:13). Unlike natural hope, it is sure, because God cannot change His mind, fail, or die. It is to be held as a constant, present expectation, and holding it detaches the heart from the world. By contrast, the expectation of the wicked perishes, while the hope of the one who fears the Lord shall not be cut off.

Verses: Jeremiah 17:5, Jeremiah 17:6, Jeremiah 17:7, Jeremiah 17:8, Ephesians 3:20, Acts 14:22, Proverbs 16:9, Proverbs 19:21, James 4:13, James 4:14, James 4:15, Psalms 62:5, Proverbs 10:28, Proverbs 13:12, Proverbs 23:18, Proverbs 24:14, Jeremiah 29:11, Romans 8:24, Romans 8:25, Romans 5:3, Romans 5:4, Romans 5:5, Romans 15:13, Psalms 37:4, Psalms 37:5, Psalms 39:7, Isaiah 40:31, Isaiah 55:8, Isaiah 55:9, Proverbs 3:5, Proverbs 3:6, Lamentations 3:25, Lamentations 3:26, Micah 7:7, Philippians 1:20, Hebrews 11:1, Hebrews 10:23, 1 Peter 1:13, Titus 2:13, Romans 8:19, Matthew 6:34, Philippians 4:6, Philippians 4:7, Philippians 4:11, Philippians 4:12, Philippians 4:13, 1 Timothy 6:6, 1 Timothy 6:7, 1 Timothy 6:8, Hebrews 13:5, Luke 6:35, Luke 12:48, Ecclesiastes 9:11, Proverbs 27:1, Psalms 42:5, Psalms 130:5, 1 Corinthians 4:2, Colossians 3:23, Colossians 3:24, Galatians 6:4, Galatians 6:5, Romans 12:3

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C. H. MackintoshDeuteronomy 1 - 3, Section 1 of 6

And just so is it with the Lord's people, now. There is no limit to the blessing which we might enjoy, could we only count more fully upon God. "All things are possible to him that believes." Our God will never say, "You have drawn too largely; you expect too much." Impossible. It is the joy of His loving heart to answer the very largest expectations of faith.

F. B. HoleDisappointment and its Cure

Here let us observe two facts: First, that disappointment amongst believers is caused by their cherishing mistaken expectations not warranted by the Word of God. Second, that such unwarranted expectations are entertained by believers because they base them upon a partial view of Scripture rather than "ALL that the prophets have spoken."

F. B. HoleLuke

Not a few believers may be found today who have drifted off into the world in rather similar fashion. They too have drifted because disappointed, and they are disappointed because of entertaining unwarranted expectations. The expectations may have been centred in Christian work, and the conquests of the Gospel, or in some particular group or body of believers with whom they were linked, or perhaps in themselves and their own personal sanctity and power. However, things have not happened as they expected, and they are in the depths of dejection.

F. B. HoleSalvation and Satisfaction

Most of us know that in our flesh there is a great deal of evil. But if that were all there might still be a little bit of good, and upon that little bit we might base certain expectations. But the truth is that in the flesh good is totally absent. The fairest thing it produces is vitiated by selfishness and sin. If we have really learned its character, we shall have no expectation of sweet water ever proceeding from that fountain, nothing but bitter. With that lesson well-learned, all our expectations of good will centre in God. And we shall not then be disappointed.

Let us join with the Psalmist, and each of us call upon our soul to wait in silence, or rest peacefully, upon God alone, basing all our expectations on Him. Then He only, to the exclusion of all else, will prove Himself to be all that we need — our Rock, our Salvation, our High Fortress. Each of us will then be able to say with the full assurance of faith, "I shall not be moved." The soul that finds all its expectation, as well as its salvation, in God is in an impregnable position. All that is then needed is indicated in verse 8 — to trust in Him at all times, to pour out the heart before Him in every emergency, and He proves Himself to be a Refuge.

F. B. HoleThe Perfect Day

And now I have a question to ask. Why should we twentieth-century Christians expect that the path should be different for us? Is it our prescriptive right to be carried to heaven on downy beds of ease, amid sunshine and flowers, whilst all others sail through stormy seas of trial and persecution? Is it for us to feel shocked and scandalised if difficulties seem to dog our footsteps? By no means. It is just what we should expect. It is as true today as nineteen centuries ago that "we must through much tribulation enter into the kingdom of God" (Acts 14:22). We may not get the tribulation in the form of outward persecution from the world. Still we get it within the bosom of the professing church, if not from without.

Other AuthorsH. P. Barker

The servant of Christ will not lead the converts to expect an easy life. Material blessings, such as those promised in connection with the future Kingdom (e.g., in Ps. 112:1) are not guaranteed to Christians. Paul, while he was at Thessalonica, told them that we must suffer tribulation (3:4). Christians have their present "great tribulation" as surely as Israel will have "the time of Jacob's trouble" in the future.

George C. WillisThe Old Testament

These men had been born many years before the deliverance from Egypt came, and though their parents would seem to have been godly people, whose hope was truly in God, yet they had a long wait, and no doubt many of them passed off the scene, before the expected deliverance appeared. And there is a deeply important lesson for us in this wait. We are by nature so impatient. It is so hard for us to wait. Our expectation is in God, and if it is His will, He will bring it to pass; but often He permits us to wait long before turning our expectation into reality. What an encouragement to pray on, and to hope on. Jacob could say, "I will not let Thee go except Thou bless me." (Genesis 32:26); and in Hosea 12:4 the Spirit of God gives us His comment on this act. "Yea, he had power over the angel, and prevailed; he wept, and made supplication unto him." We so easily grow weary of the waiting and "let go". The urgency of the desire passes away from us, as it did with Moses; and when at last the command comes to go and do the very thing he had tried to do forty years before, he all but refuses. But those forty years had not been wasted years, and now he goes in the strength of the Lord, whereas before he was going in his own strength. And we will find that the weary years of waiting have not been wasted years, but rather that God has taught us lessons in this waiting time, that could not have been learned in any other way.

C. H. MackintoshDeuteronomy 1 - 3, Section 1 of 6

Reader, is it not so? Are we not constantly prone to forsake the Fountain of living waters, and hew out for ourselves broken cisterns which can hold no water? And yet we speak of living by faith! We profess to be looking only to the living God for the supply of our need, whatever that need may be, when, in point of fact, we are sitting beside some creature stream, and looking for something there. Need we wonder if we are disappointed? How could it possibly be otherwise? Our God will not have us dependent upon ought or anyone but Himself. He has, in manifold places in His word, given us His judgement as to the true character and sure result of all creature confidence. Take the following most solemn assurance from the prophet Jeremiah, "Cursed be the man that trusts in man, and makes flesh his arm, and whose heart departs from the Lord. For he shall be like the heath in the desert, and shall not see when good comes; but shall inhabit the parched places in the wilderness, in a salt land and not inhabited."

William KellyProverbs

Next we are told of the blight created by disappointment, and the cheer given by receiving what the heart sought. "Hope deferred makes the heart sick; but [when] desire comes, it is a tree of life." Some may have proved both experiences, and know how true it is. But we do well in the things of this life to judge our thoughts and desires before God by His Word, and ever to say in truth, "Thy will be done."

F. B. HoleDisappointment and its Cure

Many other such sorrowful complaints could be instanced, but one and all they would only illustrate, as do those quoted above, the disastrous effects of cherishing expectations not warranted by Scripture as a whole.

Verses

  • Jeremiah 17:5–85Thus saith Jehovah Cursed is the man that confideth in man, and maketh flesh his arm, and whose heart departeth from Jehovah. 6And he shall be like the heath in the desert, and shall not see when good cometh; but he shall inhabit the parched places in the wilderness, a salt land and not inhabited. 7Blessed is the man that confideth in Jehovah, and whose confidence Jehovah is. 8For he shall be like a tree planted by the waters, and that spreadeth out its roots by the stream, and he shall not see when heat cometh, but his leaf shall be green; and in the year of drought he shall not be careful, neither shall he cease to yield fruit.
  • Ephesians 3:20But to him that is able to do far exceedingly above all which we ask or think, according to the power which works in us,
  • Acts 14:22establishing the souls of the disciples, exhorting them to abide in the faith, and that through many tribulations we must enter into the kingdom of God.
  • Proverbs 16:9The heart of man deviseth his way, but Jehovah directeth his steps.
  • Proverbs 19:21Many are the thoughts in a man's heart, but the counsel of Jehovah, that doth stand.