What does the Bible say about cursing?
Scripture treats cursing as more than a bad habit of speech: it is a window into the heart, a test of consistency, and a matter God says He hears. The passages run from the law's ban on reviling God and rulers, through James on the tongue, to Christ's command to bless the people who hurt you.
The mouth as the outlet of the heart
Paul's indictment of the whole human race in Romans 3 gathers up lines from the Psalms, and one of them is about speech. One writer notes who exactly is being described there.
W. W. FeredayIn Romans 3 we have God's indictment of man, presented as a string of quotations from the Prophets and the Psalms. Among them we find these terrible words from Psalm 10: "Their mouth is full of curses and bitterness." If the heart did not contain these evils the mouth could never give them out. So here we have an insight into the human heart. Notice too that this awful quotation comes in the apostle's description of religious Jews, not in his account of the nations outside. It is possible, then, to sing God's praises on Sunday and be guilty of cursing and bitterness towards men on Monday.
The inconsistency James exposes
James 3:9-10 puts blessing and cursing side by side and calls the mix impossible. The reason given is what the person being cursed actually is — and what the person cursing has received.
William KellyThe great principle is plain beyond all question: no inconsistency could be worse than to use the tongue now in blessing the Supreme, now in cursing men who are made in God's likeness. We are the objects of His loving purposes, born of Him by the word of truth, and we should be the last to curse anyone, since we are blessed only through mercy. It is not that fallen men have any moral worth of their own, as we above all should know from our own humbling experience. So we at least should never forget that they were brought into being in God's likeness.
Bless and do not curse
Romans 12:14 turns the matter around: the Christian is not only to stop cursing but to bless the people persecuting him. That, one commentator argues, is not something the natural heart can produce.
Andrew Miller"Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse them." The apostle now brings the Christian into an entirely new line of practical Christianity. His whole life and ways are to be marked by blessing, not cursing. This command carries us far beyond the power of nature. To have this spirit, and to practise this command, is to be a heaven-born child of God.
When you are the one being cursed
David, driven from Jerusalem, was pelted with stones and abuse by Shimei, and his soldier offered to end it. His refusal is held up as a model.
Leslie M. GrantDavid's response is one that every believer should take deeply to heart. He refuses the suggestion outright, because he sees beyond Shimei and realises that God had told him to curse David. Of course Shimei's bitter attitude did not have God's approval, but God had not stopped him from cursing, and David knew he deserved cursing, even though Shimei was going beyond what was even true.
Careless oaths and reverence
James 5:12 forbids swearing by heaven, earth or any other oath. Substitute words that dodge God's name are included, and the standard is the coming judgment.
William KellyAs sin with the tongue is condemned throughout, so here in particular the lack of reverence. The oaths in question refer to created things rather than to God, and they may look like care for His name by putting other forms in its place; but who gives men the right to use anything of the sort in daily conversation? He is the Judge, who has assured us that "on the day of judgment people will give account for every careless word they speak"; "for by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned."
Cursing those in authority
Exodus 22:28 reaches past private quarrels to public figures, and Paul himself was pulled up by it when he spoke sharply to the high priest.
Edward DennettRespect for the authorities set over us is also commanded: "You shall not revile God, nor curse a ruler of your people." The word "gods" here is clearly used of authorities, or judges. The apostle Paul quotes this scripture when standing before Ananias and the council. So the path of God's people, as far as kings, governors and magistrates are concerned, is extremely simple. To every authority, of whatever kind, they owe respect and obedience as long as it does not clash with what is due to God.
The habit nobody thinks serious
Casual swearing is usually defended as harmless. One tract answers that God lists it in company nobody would choose.
C. StanleyIs swearing not terrible even in this world? It is linked with lying. Why does that young man swear? He knows his word will not be trusted without a profane oath. James says, "But above all, my brothers, do not swear, either by heaven or by earth or by any other oath, but let your yes be yes and your no be no, so that you may not fall under condemnation." Do you ask, what condemnation? The very same as the liar, the thief, the murderer, the adulterer… Oh, sin-convicted swearer, or liar, murderer, or adulterer, there is mercy yet — mercy yet for you.
Summary
- Source. Cursing is never only a mouth problem; the words come out because the evil is already in the heart.
- Inconsistency. The same tongue that blesses God curses people made in God's likeness — and a person blessed by pure mercy should be the last to do it.
- Reversal. The Christian standard is not restraint but blessing those who persecute, which lies beyond what nature can manage.
- Receiving it. When cursed unjustly, David refused revenge and bowed to God's hand — the response commended to every believer.
- Account. Careless oaths and substitute words are still irreverence, and every careless word will be answered for — yet for the convicted swearer there is mercy still.