What does the Bible say about adultery?

The Bible treats adultery as more than a private failure: it strikes at an institution God set up at creation and later fenced with one of the ten commandments. From Exodus to the letters, the same sin is traced from the outward act back to the desire that produces it, and forward to the ruin it leaves behind.

The Seventh Commandment

The plain command "You shall not commit adultery" (Exodus 20:14) is read by commentators as covering far more than one narrow act.

The seventh commandment safeguards the purity of human life. "Adultery" here has the widest sense, covering what are considered to be lesser forms of this sin between the sexes. The history of peoples shows those who have widely practised this evil have degraded themselves both physically and mentally, and out of it spring a host of other ills.

F. B. Hole

What the command protects is not a social convention but something God has cared for from the start, and which the New Testament uses as an image.

Marriage is something into which two persons enter for life, and ever since creation it has enjoyed God's special care. According to the New Testament it is a picture of the relationship between Christ and His assembly, marked by divine love and human devotion.

Truth & Testimony

The Look Before the Act

In Matthew 5:27-28 Jesus quotes the commandment and then goes behind it, to the lustful look. Commentators deny that this is a softening or a mere spiritualising of the law.

Here, the Lord points to the human heart and shows that adultery has its source there… He reveals for the first time something which had to become clear by experience to every honest Israelite, namely, that everyone who tried to keep the commandment, "You shall not commit adultery," had within themselves those very lusts which led to the actions forbidden by God, and had not the strength to overcome them.

Arend Remmers

This is why self-discipline alone is not an answer to the problem.

Although the wicked deed may be checked by will-power alone, the sinful desire fills the heart beforehand. And divine holiness uncovers the secret source of inward evil… We should habitually govern our words and our deeds, but who can govern the imagination of the heart which God beholds?

William J. Hocking

Proverbs: the Cost

Proverbs 5-7 warns a young man repeatedly, using pictures of fire and of a trap. Proverbs 6:32 says the adulterer destroys himself.

Two similes are now used to illustrate the extreme folly of giving in to adultery. First, it is like taking fire into one's bosom… If one steals food when he is starving, people do not despise him for this, yet he must restore sevenfold when found out. In other words, only for a small infraction such as this, justice demands punishment. Therefore, what of the deeply serious guilt of adultery? One who falls into this is destitute of understanding: he destroys his own soul.

L. M. Grant

The counsel is distance, not willpower: "Remove your way far from her, and do not go near the door of her house" (Proverbs 5:8).

The special warning is withdrawal, not coming near the door of her house; living away in another scene of thought and being where will does not go in the path of lust, nor lust have occasion to seize hold of the will.

J. N. Darby

Divorce and the Bond

Asked whether a man may divorce his wife for any cause, Jesus went back past Moses to Genesis (Matthew 19:3-9).

It was God's institution that when a man left father and mother and took a wife they were no more two persons but one flesh, and the bond was indissoluble. In the case of sin against the relationship it was not really an exception, for then the one man and one woman had ceased to be one flesh by man's will coming in: the bond was broken by sin.

J. A. Trench

Forgiven, Yet Under Consequences

David's sin with Bathsheba (2 Samuel 11-12) is the Bible's longest case study. He was pardoned when he confessed, but told the sword would never leave his house.

While God could, and did, pardon His servant, on his confession of his guilt, He did not step in (as He seldom does) to shelter him from the consequences of his sin on earth. Grace can righteously restore a fallen saint, but God's government is unchanging in its laws and principles… The anointed king had thus become the guiltiest sinner in his kingdom.

The Christian's Friend

Grace to the Guilty

When accusers dragged a woman caught in adultery before Jesus (John 8), He neither excused the sin nor executed the law.

There is not the least sign of levity in dealing with her evil. The Lord simply brings out the fact that her accusers retreat from the light which convicted their conscience, when the law had utterly failed to reach it; and as they could not condemn her, because they were sinners no less truly than herself, so He would not.

William Kelly

Paul lists adulterers among those who will not inherit the kingdom of God — and then says the Corinthians had been such people.

How real and great is the depravity of man left to himself and Satan! How real and still greater is the delivering grace of God in the name of the Lord Jesus and by His own Spirit!

William Kelly

Adultery of the Heart Toward God

James 4:4 addresses believers as adulterers for another kind of unfaithfulness.

The world is marked by the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes and the pride of life. It has shown its enmity to God by rejecting and crucifying the Son of God. For one professing faith in the Lord Jesus to enter into friendship with the world that has crucified the Son of God is to commit spiritual adultery.

Hamilton Smith

Summary

- Bond — Marriage is God's own institution from creation, and the seventh commandment fences it; the New Testament makes it a picture of Christ and His people.

- Heart — Jesus traces the act back to its source: the lustful look is already adultery, which exposes that no one has the strength to keep the command from inside.

- Distance — Proverbs' remedy is not resolve but withdrawal: stay away from the door, because the fire always burns the one who carries it.

- Consequence — David was pardoned on confession, yet the sword never left his house; grace restores, but God's government still runs its course.

- Grace — Neither the accusers' law nor their stones could touch the woman's conscience as Christ's light did, and adulterers stand among those Paul says were washed, sanctified and justified.

Reviewed by Orion on August 21, 2026