On my bed by night I sought him whom my soul loves; I sought him, but found him not.
The bride lies awake in the dark, reaching for the one person she wants, and comes up empty. Commentators see here a believer who has lost the sense of Christ's nearness, and also Israel searching for her Messiah.
Night Is Measured by His Absence
The night here is not a date on a calendar. It is the state of a heart that the King stirred and then left waiting.
Hamilton SmithHe had shown himself through the lattice. He had opened up to his bride the vision of another and brighter world — a world of sunshine and song. He had called her to get up and come to that good land beyond the mountains and the hills. Then, having awakened her affections, he had withdrawn to his own place, and the bride is left behind in the night. She has heard of the day and looks forward to the daybreak, but she is still in the night. The presence of the King will bring the day, just as his absence makes the night.
Love Awake, Joy Gone
Her affections are alive and her conscience is awake, yet she has no joy. One writer traces this to a single cause.
Andrew MillerThe conscience is awake — the affections are lively: "I sought him whom my soul loves." Yet there is no joy — she is in trouble... A lively conscience — ardent affections, yet in darkness! There can only be one cause for such a state of soul — the eye does not rest on the Beloved Himself. There may seem to be other causes, but this is the real one... She has rest as to salvation; "my bed" — a resting place: though for a moment, it is "night" with the soul.
Even Good Things Can Take His Place
The eye does not have to wander to something shameful to do the damage.
Andrew MillerIt matters little, for the purpose of the enemy, what the eye rests on, so long as he can get it off Christ. It may rest on the best of things: the work of the Lord, our fellow believers, love for one another, the fellowship of the saints. But even these things, good as they are, will lead to failure. That happens when any one of them becomes the ruling object of the heart in place of the Person of Christ.
Seeking Without Leaving the Bed
She seeks the right person and still finds nothing. Where she looks from explains why.
Hamilton SmithThough she sought the Bridegroom she has to admit, more than once, "I found him not." Why is this? Is she not seeking the right person? Indeed she is, but at first she seeks him in a wrong way. She says, "On my bed, I sought him." She sought him, but at the same time she sought to keep her ease... How many of us would like to have Christ if we could spare the flesh. The love of Christ would drive us to follow after Christ, but the love of ease holds us back.
A Person, Not a Place
What she wants is not a place or a time.
Hamilton SmithShe is not seeking the daybreak, the time of singing, or the land of song. It is a person, himself, that she longs to see. In her eyes he is fairer than the fairest land, and better than all the blessings he brings. When love is awakened, Christ alone can satisfy the heart of the Christian. As homesick saints we welcome the thought that soon the last tear will be wiped away... but as lovesick saints we want "Jesus Himself." ... The heavenly city, with its walls of jasper, its gates of pearl and its streets of gold, would be no heaven without Christ.
Who Withdrew
Commentators differ on why He is not found. Hamilton Smith pictures the Bridegroom withdrawing to his own place. Andrew Miller puts the movement on her side.
Andrew MillerThe soul, I admit, may feel when in darkness as if He had withdrawn Himself and was gone. But in such a case it is the soul that has withdrawn itself from Him; not the Lord that has withdrawn Himself from it... The Lord is always the same. He does not change. When there is a change in our communion — in our enjoyment of Christ — it lies entirely with ourselves.
Israel's Long Night
The chapter also fits a nation, not only a single heart.
J. N. DarbyIn Canticles 3 we have another attitude, another state of heart. She is alone and in darkness. She seeks her Beloved, but does not find Him. There is affection, but no joy... The chapter confirms the application to Israel. In her solitary state she seeks the Messiah, and, after asking those who watched, soon found Him whom her soul loved.
Summary
- Night — His presence makes the day; His absence makes the night.
- Cause — a live conscience and warm affections can still sit in darkness. The one cause is an eye that no longer rests on Christ Himself.
- Rival — even service and fellowship end in failure when they rule the heart in place of Christ.
- Bed — she seeks the right Person in the wrong way, from her own comfort. Love for Christ pulls her forward; love of ease holds her back.
- Person — she wants Him, not the daybreak or the land. Heaven would be no heaven without Christ. Israel's night ends the same way, when she finds her Messiah.