Not even for his father or for his mother, for brother or sister, if they die, shall he make himself unclean, because his separation to God is on his head.
The law of the Nazarite reaches its sharpest point here. A man under this vow could not attend even the funeral of his own father or mother. The reason is not coldness. Something of God rested on his head, and it governed everything else.
The Crown on the Head
Why does the verse speak of the head? One writer explains, using an older translation of the words:
Michael HardtIn our chapter we find the interesting statement: "The consecration of his God is upon his head." Here the different lines of thought come together and the connection becomes clear. Because the Nazarite separated himself to God and consecrated himself to Him, he let his hair grow. In God's sight that hair became a sign of his consecration — a crown. This is all the more remarkable, since long hair by itself would have been a dishonour for a male Nazarite (1 Cor. 11:14).
A New Question to Ask
Once that consecration rested on a man, it reset the whole basis on which he judged what he could and could not do.
C. H. MackintoshOnce the consecration of God rested on a person's head, that great and important fact became the standard and test of all morality. It placed him on wholly new and unusual ground. He now had to look at everything from a new point of view. He was no longer to ask what was fitting for a man, but what was fitting for a Nazarite. So if his dearest friend lay dead beside him, he was not to touch him.
Why a Corpse Defiles
Death is not just a sad accident here. It is the proof that sin is in man. That is what the Nazarite had to keep clear of, whatever it cost him:
H. L. RossierThe third thing has to do with what belongs to man since the fall and is part of his very being: sin, proved by its consequence, death. This was what the Nazarite had to avoid at all cost. He must not weigh even the strongest ties, those of the family, when it was a question of setting himself apart for the service of God. How little we understand this! Many Christians say: "Let me first go and bury my father." Others say: "I cannot, my relatives would not allow it." Such are not Nazarites.
Not a Licence for Hard-heartedness
The verse is not a rebuke of family love. These ties come from God and are good. The danger is letting them take a place that is not theirs.
C. H. MackintoshThe ties of nature are right enough, and truly of God in their proper place. But if they are not kept in their place, they are sure to hinder true devotedness… Was ever a son's love so tender as the love that glowed in the heart of the Man Christ Jesus? Was ever obedience to parents so perfect as His? Yet when service made its claims, and the integrity of true Nazariteship had to be held, He could say, "Woman, what does this have to do with me?" And again, "Who is my mother?" Only the true and perfect Servant knew how to adjust conflicting claims and keep each in its place.
Christ the Complete Nazarite
This law also paints a picture of Christ. He gave up the rights that belonged to Him as man, to serve God's glory alone.
J. N. DarbyChrist made Himself a Nazarite. He did not take His place as a man, or His rights as Son of man. For the glory of God He made Himself completely subject, and He submitted to all that that glory required. He identified Himself with the godly few among the sinful people whom He had loved, and became a stranger to His mother's children… He separated Himself from all the links of human life to devote Himself to the glory and service of God, and to obedience to Him.
What Defilement Costs — and What It Cannot Cost
What does defilement cost? One writer names the loss:
The Christian's FriendAnything that brings us into contact with sin has its effect on our Nazariteship. We lose the power that comes with communion with God, and the special presence of the Spirit with us — however much of that power God had given us. Sadly, we lose the time that went before too; we must begin again. It is great grace that God does not take away all privilege of serving Him… let us always remember that we are under grace.
That loss is real, but be clear about what it touches. It breaks communion, not eternal life:
C. H. MackintoshChristianity has two great links. They are closely connected, but they are quite distinct: the link of eternal life, and the link of personal communion. Nothing can ever break the first. The weight of a feather can break the second in a moment.
Summary
- Crown. His uncut hair was, in God's sight, the sign of his consecration — a crown showing that God's claim rested on his head.
- Standard. That crown changed the question he asked. Not "what suits a man?" but "what suits a Nazarite?" — even with a friend lying dead beside him.
- Death. A dead body defiled him, because death is the proof of sin. Not even the closest family tie could override that.
- Balance. Family love comes from God and is good in its place. Only Christ, the complete Nazarite, kept every claim in its right order.
- Cost. Defilement never breaks eternal life. It breaks communion in a moment, and the days already served count for nothing — so the Nazarite begins again under grace.