then let my wife grind for another, and let others bow down on her.
In this chapter Job speaks under oath, listing sins he has not committed and the punishment he would accept if he lied. Verse 10 is the penalty clause: if another man's wife enticed him, let him lose his own wife.
An oath, not a boast
Chapter 31 is Job's closing defence. Its force lies in its form. Job does not just deny the charges; he denies them under oath.
F. B. HoleAfter these sorrowful complaints, Job closed his long speech, as we see in Job 31. He ended with a series of strong declarations that almost amount to oaths. His friends had accused him of definite sins and wrongdoing. As to these things his conscience was clear, though, as we have seen, he admitted he was not pure in the sight of God. So he strongly affirmed that he had not committed the kinds of evil they alleged or hinted at.
A subject nobody had raised
The sin behind verse 10 is one his friends never charged him with. Job raises it himself.
Samuel RidoutJob opens this sevenfold protest of purity and integrity. He dwells on a side of his character and conduct that even his friends had not openly challenged. They had hinted at general wickedness — turning away from God, violent dealings with the needy and others. But they had never touched the subject of personal purity.
What the oath costs him
This oath costs Job something. He puts his own household on the line.
Samuel RidoutIn all this he was pure — willing to have his own home violated if this were not so. Here we get a glimpse of his family life, as holy as that of Isaac, Joseph, and the purest of the patriarchs.
Punishment shaped like the crime
Job's self-curses match the sins they answer. What the sin would take from another, he asks to lose himself.
William KellyMen might draw their conclusions from appearances. Job could still ask God to weigh him in a just balance, and to see whether he had used deceit or turned aside from the way. If he had, then let another reap the results of his labour. And let punishment reach even his own wife for such consuming evil on his part.
Another writer notes how settled Job's mind was about this sin:
Leslie M. GrantAgain, he insists. Suppose a woman had enticed his heart. Suppose he had taken the first step in going to his neighbour's house with evil motives. Then let his wife leave him and choose another. "For," he says, "that would be wickedness, deserving of judgment. For that would be a fire that consumes to destruction, and would root out all my increase" (vv. 11-12). He had no doubt about the wickedness of such things, even though many careless people today think otherwise.
Guarded at the eyes
Job could swear to verse 10 because of the promise he made in verse 1. He stopped this sin at the door, not at the deed.
Samuel RidoutJob had shut his eyes, the way into the heart, by a settled purpose — a "covenant" against even a look at what might stir up passion. In the Sermon on the Mount our Lord showed that real purity must lie in the heart. It is not just a matter of outward restraint (Matt. 5:27-28)… "How can I do this great wickedness and sin against God?" said Joseph when the temptress came at him (Gen. 39:9). In an hour of spiritual sloth, David had let his eyes wander, and had fallen (2 Sam. 11:2).
Job lived long before God gave the law. That makes this inward standard remarkable.
F. B. HoleThis chapter shows that before God gave the law, a high standard of morality was still found among God-fearing men. That standard looked not only at the outward act but also at the inward motive behind the act.
The flaw in a true defence
Job's claims may be true, but there is still something wrong with the speech.
Samuel RidoutBut we must take note of the self-righteousness that moved Job to speak of himself like this. He was putting himself on display rather than giving glory to God. No doubt at bottom he was a man of genuine piety, but it is no glory to set out one's own glory.
Summary
- Oath — Verse 10 is not a wish but a penalty Job accepts on himself. The chapter is a series of declarations "almost amounting to oaths."
- Offence — The sin in view is adultery with a neighbour's wife. His friends never brought that charge; Job raises it himself.
- Payment — The punishment fits the crime: take another man's wife, and lose your own. Job was willing to see his own home violated if he were guilty.
- Prevention — He could swear to this because he made a covenant with his eyes. He shut the door to the heart, and he did it long before God gave the law.
- Problem — The standard is high and the conscience clear. Yet Job is displaying himself instead of glorifying God, and he admitted he was not pure in God's sight.