Now when Job's three friends heard of all this evil that had come upon him, they came each from his own place, Eliphaz the Temanite, Bildad the Shuhite, and Zophar the Naamathite. They made an appointment together to come to show him sympathy and comfort him.
Job has lost his children, his wealth and his health, and now three friends leave their homes to reach him. Their arrival looks like help at last, yet commentators read it as the start of a second, deeper stage of his trial.
Men who came from far
The verse names each friend by his district, and both the names and the districts carry meaning:
Samuel RidoutThey came from districts noted for men of wisdom: "Is wisdom no more in Teman? Has counsel perished from the prudent? Has their wisdom vanished?" (Jer. 49:7). The "men of the East" had the same reputation. They seem to have been men of personal piety; at least they had a knowledge of the true God and of righteousness. Eliphaz has been defined as "God is strength," and by others, "God is fine gold." Both meanings suggest at least the greatness and supremacy of God. His country, Teman, means "the south," the country lying under the sun, open to the light. But while the south country is open to the light, it tends to be dry and arid. Light without life can never help.
That they had to arrange a meeting point tells us something about the length of Job's suffering:
William KellyThe trouble must have gone on for a long time. We should not think Job's trial lasted only a few days. God set its limit, but that limit need not have been short. His terrible disease came after he lost his property, his family, everything here below. News of it reached friends who lived far away, and so they had to arrange to come together. This alone supposes the lapse of some time.
Genuine affection, not pretence
Whatever went wrong later, their coming was sincere. They arrived when nobody else would:
J. G. BellettEliphaz, Bildad, and Zophar were real friends and brothers, though they proved to be only "miserable comforters." They came to Job when everyone else had deserted him. Children mocked him. Young men pushed his feet away. His relatives failed him, his close friends forgot him, and his servants gave him no answer. Even his wife refused him, though he pleaded with her for their children's sake. They were true-hearted friends. They said they would go and comfort their suffering brother. And they did go.
A test the adversary could not reach
Their arrival opens something the earlier disasters did not.
William KellyGod was soon pleased to bring out what was in his heart in a way man could not expect. He used godly friends to bring to the surface what the adversary had completely failed to reach or see. Their very presence drew out impatience even from the patient Job. God proves our weakness at the very point where we are strongest. In Christ alone we stand.
Their presence alone was enough:
C. H. MackintoshIt does not appear that the friends had spoken a single sentence. They sat in total silence, with torn garments and covered with dust, gazing on a grief too deep for them to reach. It was Job himself who first broke the silence.
Three kinds of human wisdom
One writer sums up the three men:
George DavisonEliphaz the Temanite used his eyes. Bildad the Shuhite used his ears. Zophar the Naamathite used his brain. But all this wisdom was hopeless, dear friends, when it faced this divine problem surrounding this wonderful man Job.
Why the comfort failed
Sympathy was not what they lacked. They had no grasp of how God deals with a soul:
J. N. DarbyWhat had his friends done for him during the sifting he was passing through? He had good reason to say, "Miserable comforters are you all." They did not truly understand God's character, so they could not understand His dealings with a soul. They had no proper sense of sin. So they did not know that if God is to deal in blessing with man, it must be wholly on the ground of grace. They did not know how to meet his case. They said many true things, but not one of them was the right thing for Job's case, because they did not understand him.
Yet their failure was not wasted. It emptied Job of every human resource:
The Bible TreasuryThey might have helped if his case were an ordinary one. But here was a man of outstanding righteousness, stripped of every earthly possession in a way never seen before, and their tongues were silent. They did not understand God's ways with His own people at all. Their false and unworthy suggestions made Job feel how completely unable they were to help him, and threw him back on God Himself. So in the end he said, "I had heard of you by the hearing of the ear, but now my eye sees you" (Job 42:5).
Summary
- Real friends. They came from far away, when his family, servants and wife had all turned away. Their love was real, even though their comfort failed.
- Real trial. Their arrival started a test the adversary's attacks never reached. Job's strong point was patience, and that is where God proved his weakness.
- Real silence. They had not spoken a word when Job broke down. Their presence alone stirred what lay hidden in him.
- Real ignorance. Eyes, ears and brain could not touch Job's problem. They knew neither God's character nor the ground of grace.
- Real outcome. Their failure drove Job off every human support and onto God. Hearing about God became seeing Him.