Surely now God has worn me out; he has made desolate all my company.
Job's friends keep telling him that his suffering proves his guilt. Here he turns from them and speaks of the hand he believes is behind it all. That raises the hardest question in the book. When a sufferer says God has worn him out, is that faith speaking, or bitterness?
Worn Out, and Left Without Help
The two halves of the verse describe one exhaustion and one emptiness. One writer reads the "company" as the very men sitting in front of him — present, but useless.
Leslie M. GrantWhether Job spoke or remained silent, he found no relief. He feels that God has worn him out by leaving all his company — his friends — empty of any help. So Job shrivelled up.
Why the Friends Made It Worse
Their arguments had one effect. They turned Job's attention onto himself.
The Bible TreasuryUnless we look into our own hearts, we can barely imagine how these accusations tore at Job. They turned him in the wrong direction. They made him look at himself. He could not deny that he was suffering. Yet, measuring himself against other men, he could not see that he had done anything to bring such great affliction on himself. His friends kept pressing him on one point only: that God's dealings always match what a man has done. So, they said, since Job suffered this much, he must have been wicked beyond measure.
The Piety Hidden in the Complaint
Job could have laid his ruin on human attackers or on circumstances. He does not. One commentator finds real faith in that refusal.
William KellyHe does not blame his ruin on the Chaldeans or any other secondary cause. He does not explain it away as the work of circumstances. He saw God's hand in it. But he never entered into God's mind about the trial, still less into His love. That is exactly why the whole thing was such a riddle to his soul. He holds fast to his integrity. He is fully sure that there was nothing of what they imagined against him — no dreadful secret, no crushing sin that God was punishing in this way.
Where the Complaint Goes Wrong
Tracing the trouble to God is one thing. Making God the villain is another. Job crosses that line, and it brings him no relief. The writer quotes the verse from an older translation, where Job speaks straight to God.
Samuel RidoutJob turns to God, where he should have found deep comfort. Instead he charges Him with being the cause of his misery and suffering. His complaint and his hot words give him no relief. "You have made desolate all my company," or household. He counts his wasted body as proof of the anger of God, tearing him like a wild animal! Job really does not weigh his words. He sees only bitter suffering with no cause behind it, and he will not or cannot trust God in the dark. This is Job's great error. Tied to it is his insistence on his own righteousness, as if he deserved credit for it.
God Allowed It, the Enemy Did It
Commentators differ on how much blame Job lays at God's door. One reads the "He" of the next lines as a gentle way of saying God permitted it, while the hand at work was the devil's.
William KellyHe does not say it was God. I think it goes too far to suppose he means that. But he does mean that God allowed it. So he softens it and simply says "He." It was God allowing the devil — his enemy — to do it. Otherwise his words here would clash terribly with everything else he says.
Another takes Job's words at face value. He sets Job beside the one Sufferer who met the same cruelty and never spoke this way.
Arno Clemens GaebeleinAnd now he charges God with being responsible for it all… Verse 10 stands out. "They have opened their mouths wide at me; they have struck me on the cheek in contempt; they gather together against me." The same was done to another Sufferer, the Lord Jesus Christ. But He did not complain. He did not dishonour God as Job did; He glorified Him. It is worth setting these two sufferers side by side. The contrast brings out the perfection and loveliness of our Saviour.
The Lesson for Any Sufferer
This verse shows what happens when a believer is sure God is behind the trouble but cannot see His love in it.
William KellyBecause of the fiery trial Job was going through, he speaks as if God were dealing harshly with him. He speaks as if God had somehow become his enemy. So he breaks out in bitterness, which is what such a thought always produces. The state of the soul must always depend on how a person looks at God, or fails to look at Him.
Summary
- Worn out. Job is worn out in body and left without help. The friends who should have carried him have no comfort to give.
- Wrongly turned. Their one argument was that great suffering proves great sin. It turned Job's eyes onto himself and deepened the wound.
- Rightly traced. He refuses to blame attackers or circumstances. He puts the whole trial in God's hand, and that much is real faith.
- Wrongly read. He finds God's hand but not God's love, so he treats Him as an enemy. That is his great error, made worse by insisting on his own record.
- Rightly seen. How a soul fares in trouble depends on how it looks at God. Christ met the same cruelty and honoured God through it.