And he kissed all his brothers and wept upon them. After that his brothers talked with him.
Joseph has just told his brothers who he is. The men who sold him into slavery now stand in front of the ruler of Egypt. What he does next is not a speech but an embrace — and the silence breaks.
The Kiss as Proof of Forgiveness
In that part of the world a kiss carried a settled meaning.
C KnappIn the East, a kiss is a sign of forgiveness. When these sons of Jacob felt Joseph's kiss on their cheeks, each one knew in his heart that he was forgiven. And the result is communion. "After that his brothers talked with him." How beautiful! And do you, forgiven soul, talk much with Jesus?
No One Left Out
One writer sees two things in it: love that will not keep its distance, and the word "all."
J T MawsonHis love cannot endure any distance; He wants His loved ones near to Him. The story of Joseph and his brothers illustrates it. He said to his brothers, "Come near to me." In the same way the Lord stretches out His hands to us as His brothers. He says, "Come near to Me." When they came near, Joseph kissed all his brothers and wept over them. He had no favourites. He treated them all alike.
Tears That Gave Him Away
Nothing in the brothers uncovered who Joseph was.
F. B. HoleThe brothers did not work out who he was by any insight or cleverness of their own. They knew him only because Joseph revealed himself to them. At His second coming Christ will appear in His glory. Then Israel will recognize Him and cry, "My God, we know you" (Hosea 8:2). And Joseph revealed himself out of love for them. That love was so real that he could not hold back any longer, and it moved him to tears.
Why They Could Speak at Last
One writer lists what had to go before they could speak.
Hamilton SmithFear is gone, grief is eased, cares are banished. Now love can flow without hindrance — "He kissed all his brothers"; "and after that his brothers talked with him" (v. 15). Their eyes have seen his glories. His gracious words have delighted their ears. His love has warmed their hearts. And in that warmth of love they are free to talk with him. No shadow remains to hinder the communion of love between Joseph and his brothers. Perfect love casts out fear. The story also tells us the way Christ takes with us: He teaches us the evil of our hearts, and then dispels all fear by making Himself known in the love of His heart.
Talking With Him, Not Only About Him
They talked with him — not just about him. One writer builds on that difference, starting from a line in the Psalms. Older translations there read "talk"; the ESV reads "tell."
J T MawsonWe read in the Psalms, "Let us talk of all His wondrous works." And that is indeed a privilege, a privilege within the reach of all who know Him. Notice that it does not say, "Let us preach." If it did, we might feel the call was beyond us. But it says let us talk — talk about Him, as a child talks of his father, saying to his playmates, "I wish you knew my father, he is the best in all the world." Yet here it is not talking about Him, but talking with Him. He appreciates our talk about Him; but if we only talk about Him and neglect to talk with Him, we rob Him of what His love prizes so highly.
From Communion to Commission
Closeness is not the end of the story. One writer sees the next step already in view.
Hamilton SmithJoseph's love has brought his brothers into sweet communion with himself. Now we are to learn that the intimacies of love prepare for the service of love. Those whom Joseph has won for himself he will enlist in his service. His brothers shall become his witnesses.
Two Ways to Read the Scene
Writers here read the chapter on two levels at once, and one of them says so directly.
C KnappHow intensely interesting it becomes to the heart when seen to be a prophetic picture of the repentance of the future Jewish remnant and their once despised and rejected Messiah. This would be the primary application of the narrative. But, I believe, a secondary application may be made of it. It is not merely typical; it is illustrative as well.
A Meeting Still to Come
One writer reads the scene as a picture of a day still ahead for Israel.
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Here we have the full and unhindered expression of Joseph's love. In response, the repentance of his brothers reached its proper depth. So it will be in the coming time. God's earlier dealings with the children of Israel will produce a certain measure of conviction in their hearts. But the mourning comes when, according to Zechariah 12:10, "they look on me, on him whom they have pierced." Then "they shall mourn for him, as one mourns for an only child."
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Summary
- Kiss — the kiss was the recognised sign of forgiveness; feeling it on their cheeks, each brother knew his own guilt was cleared.
- All — every brother got the same kiss; Joseph had no favourites and treated them all alike.
- Tears — they never recognised him by their own insight; the truth came out because his love could not stay hidden any longer.
- Talk — fear removed, they speak at last; and the writers press the difference between talking about the Lord and talking with Him.
- Task — the closeness comes first, the commission second: those he has won for himself, he then sends out as his witnesses.