You shall dwell with us, and the land shall be open to you. Dwell and trade in it, and get property in it.”
Hamor answers the wrong done to Dinah with a business offer. Settle here, trade here, buy land here, and let our families marry. It sounds generous, but Jacob was only ever meant to be passing through.
The Friendliest Possible Terms
Nothing in Hamor's approach is hostile. He comes pleading, and his son offers to pay anything asked.
William KellyShechem earnestly sought marriage at any price. His father went to Jacob, pleading hard for his son's fixed desire to have Dinah as wife. He offered the readiest terms of peace between the peoples, and Shechem urged for himself.
Jacob's One Wrong Step
Hamor is not inviting a stranger. Jacob had already bought ground there and built himself a house.
William KellyOne wrong step away from our true position before the Lord leads to many a sin, scandal, and sorrow. So we find here, as the consequence of Jacob's buying the land of the Hivite and building himself a house. His stay at Succoth and Shechem covers some ten years. He has to be unsettled to get him back to his pilgrim place. But the way was painful for all, and a deep shame, humiliation and fear for Jacob.
One writer traces Dinah's wandering back to her father's choice of a house over a tent.
G. C. WillisJacob seems to have grown tired of the pilgrim path, and gave in to the temptation to settle down and build a home. And what was the fruit of this action? His daughter Dinah goes out to see the daughters of the land. Her father had settled down in the world instead of being a heavenly pilgrim passing through it. What could be more natural than that his daughter should want to be friends with the world? We all know the sad, shameful result. Who would have guessed that swapping a tent for a house could produce such bitter fruit?
The Real Proposal: No Difference
Behind the trade and the property, Hamor asks for one people. One writer hears the same voice in the world today.
G. C. WillisHamor also promised to give Jacob many things. He suggested they might be one people, live in the land and trade, and marry together. Just like the world of today — they want Christians to be one with them, no difference. Christians, be careful! The Lord says, "Go out from their midst, and be separate from them" (2 Cor. 6:17). The world says, "We may be one." The Lord says, "Let everyone who names the name of the Lord depart from iniquity" (2 Tim. 2:19).
The Town's Own Price
When Hamor takes the plan home, he sells it to his neighbours on profit.
L. M. GrantAll no doubt recognised that circumcision had a religious meaning. They would not be in the least suspicious of any hidden design against them. Besides, the wealth of Jacob's family would be a welcome addition to the area, and everyone would benefit from them (vv. 20-23). These were persuasive arguments, and the men of the city fully agreed, so that all of them were circumcised.
Deceit for an Answer
Jacob's sons did not accept the offer and did not refuse it. They used circumcision as bait.
William KellyThen Jacob's sons stepped in with the deceitful condition of circumcision for every male. They had not the smallest thought or wish of inviting the Shechemites into the covenant. It was the basest treachery, meant to trap and massacre them. Jacob had nothing to do with the cruel secret. Their pride and revenge ignored God as they ignored their father.
The Cost, and God's Answer to It
The invitation to live and trade among them ended with those same neighbours loathing Jacob.
F. B. HoleSo the shameful story of Genesis 34 caused Jacob to "stink to the inhabitants of the land." That was a dreadful position for him, since he was the only man in the land who truly knew God. It also brought judgment on the two who drove the violence. It is interesting that in later days the tribe of Levi acted in such a way as to gain a special blessing. So we are allowed to see how God can turn what was at first a curse into a blessing. The word had been, "I will divide them in Jacob and scatter them in Israel" (49:7). They were divided — but by Levi being called to special service and scattered through all the tribes. The first verse of Genesis 35 shows us how God stepped in when things had reached this sorry state. He called Jacob back to the place where God first made Himself known to him. There he was to live, and there his altar was to be.
Summary
- Settle — Jacob bought land and built a house where he should have stayed a pilgrim. One wrong step opened the door to the rest.
- Invite — the world's offer arrives dressed as kindness: live here, trade here, own here, and marry among us.
- Merge — the real request is that there be no difference. Scripture's call is to come out and be separate.
- Profit — the townsmen had their own reason to say yes: Jacob's wealth.
- Reap — deceit answered deceit, and the land came to loathe Jacob. Yet God later turned even the curse on Levi into blessing.