giving thanks at all times for all things to him [who is] God and [the] Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ,
The apostle has just told the Ephesians not to get drunk on wine but to be filled with the Spirit. This verse names one mark of that life, and it raises a hard question: how can anyone thank God always, and for everything, when some of it hurts?
Thanksgiving flows from being filled with the Spirit
The chapter has just set wine against the Spirit. That contrast reaches down to where a believer's joy comes from.
The world's joy expresses itself in a physical way; it is mere natural excitement, such as that caused by wine. The believer's is to be the opposite of this. It is not the lift given by natural causes, but the deeper delight ministered by the Spirit of God. It is one thing to be indwelt by the Spirit, and another to be filled with the Spirit. All believers are indwelt; but how few, sadly, are filled!
A direction for the heart, not a law to obey
The command can sound like pressure. One writer says that misses its tone.
This is not a mere duty. I need not say we cannot deny the duty part. But it is clear the Holy Spirit assumes the saints will feel and understand this: it directs the heart rather than demanding something from it... Our hearts are naturally so legal that we tend to turn the words of our God to us into a law we must bend to. That happens even with the knowledge of God we have. Instead we should see that this is the good portion God has given us. Thanksgiving always for all things is then the natural expression of the heart taught by the Holy Spirit.
Other commentators press the duty side:
Thanksgiving is not optional on our part. The apostle declares that it is "the will of God in Christ Jesus" that we should "give thanks in all circumstances."
"For everything" reaches as far as the trial
The phrase reaches further than thanking God for what we do. It reaches what He allows to happen to us.
It is not giving thanks in everything that we do. It is more. No matter what God does, or permits to be done, I am entitled by faith to receive it as a blessing to my soul. So I give thanks for it. Whatever the trial may be — disappointment, scorn, distraction, the thousand influences that come from an evil world — I am not to thank Him for these. I thank Him for the blessing that God designs for me through them.
"Always" leaves no situation out
Only someone sure of what he has been given can talk this way.
A man must know he has a good portion who can rejoice always in all things, who can give thanks always for all things. The natural man cannot receive such a word as this... God seems to say in this passage, My child, you will never be in any circumstances, or in any position, in which you have no cause to give thanks... This giving of thanks is not one or two links of a chain, then broken off; no, it is continuous and unbroken and lasting.
Christ Himself is the pattern
The Lord Himself did this at the worst moment of His rejection.
He could and did give thanks in the hour of deepest trial. In Matthew 11 and Luke 10 we see Him rejected by men... The dark shadows of the cross were already falling across His path. Then we read: "At that time" — mark it well. At that time, when all was darkest and He had unspeakable anguish ahead, "Jesus rejoiced" and said, "I thank you, Father." Oh, for grace to imitate Him in this — not only in subjection to the will of God, but in receiving the heaviest trials from the Father's hand, knowing that all is for eventual blessing.
Job is the opposite case. One writer traces his failure to one thing:
He was occupied with circumstances, and not with the God of circumstances.
The Giver matters more than the gift
Thanks here rests on something already done. What arrives does not set its level.
Redemption has set the believer in a position of eternal obligation to the God of grace... Everything, then, is to be acknowledged thankfully. The thing received, whether good or bad, matters less than the hand that gives it... Notice the deliberate precision in the language of this verse. Its many-sided purpose is to keep us from falling below the true level of spiritual worship when we give thanks.
What a thankful spirit produces
Thanksgiving does not stay private. It changes how believers treat each other.
This constantly thankful spirit will have both a preserving and a fruitful effect. It will make submission to one another in the fear of God simpler for us. So we will recognise God as being in control, rather than the will of man dominating.
Summary
- Source — Thanksgiving here is not willpower. It is what a heart filled with the Spirit does naturally, in place of the world's borrowed excitement.
- Freedom — The words direct the heart; they do not squeeze thanks out of it. Yet other writers stress it is also God's declared will.
- Reach — "For everything" includes the trial. You thank God not for the pain, but for the blessing He is designing through it.
- Ground — Thanks go to the Father, through the name of the Lord Jesus Christ. The precision keeps our praise at the level of worship, valuing the Giver above the gift.
- Result — A thankful heart lives above circumstances, not inside them. It yields to others, because it treats God as the One in control.