And he said to her, “Give me your son.” And he took him from her arms and carried him up into the upper chamber where he lodged, and laid him on his own bed.
The widow's only son is dead. Elijah answers her grief with three words and an action. He takes the boy from her arms and carries him up to the room where he was staying. What does God mean to teach in that room?
"Give me your son"
Elijah could face down a king without flinching. Here he shows another side.
W. W. FeredayThis stern man could face an angry king and a wicked nation, and announce God's judgement. Yet he felt deeply for this poor woman. He had come to know her, and her heart was now very sore. The prophet spoke to Jehovah twice... we note that both in verses 20 and 21 the Holy Spirit says "he cried to Jehovah." We should never skip over this word "cried" when we read Scripture, because it expresses intense longing.
The prophet's own bed
Elijah lays the boy where he himself slept. What happens next is contact — living man on dead child.
Leslie M. GrantElijah took the boy and laid him on his own bed. Then he prayed earnestly to the Lord and stretched himself on the child three times. Direct contact with the one who had life resulted in life coming back to the child. The three times speaks of resurrection. So it is only by direct contact with the Lord Jesus raised from the dead that we find the blessing of resurrection life... So the widow learned that God was able not only to save from dying, but to restore life after death.
Why the child had to die
A jar of flour that never ran out had already kept her alive. God had more to teach her.
H. L. RossierIt is not enough to know that death waits for us and will catch up with us. We also need to feel the real power death has over us as sinners. The widow needed this experience to learn the full extent of the power of grace. How, if her son had not died, would she have been able to know the power of resurrection that delivers from death?
Others read the death as God pressing a claim. She had given up her last handful of flour. Now the claim reaches further.
C. H. MackintoshWhenever we let anything block our path of simple obedience and devotion to Christ — parent or child, husband or wife, brother or sister — we can be sure that thing will be taken away. This widow had given her son a higher place in her thoughts than the Lord's prophet. So the son was taken from her, to teach her this: not only "the handful of meal" but also her dearest treasure on earth must be kept under the Lord's control and ready for Him.
Elijah's own lesson
The room upstairs taught Elijah as much as the widow. He does not act at once. He goes through something first.
The Bible TreasuryThe widow's son dies, and Elijah, though not without resource, goes through deep soul exercise before he takes hold of the grace that is in God to meet the need... Now he is led into the deepest of all mysteries — resurrection from among the dead. He had seen death stopped and its terrors eased. But now he meets sorrow at its depth, for a widow losing her only son, her last link to earth, is the sharpest picture of human grief. And God uses him to show His power and grace in overcoming death and bringing in new life.
A picture of Christ
Elijah does not stand back from the trouble. He goes down into it.
H. L. RossierThis whole scene speaks to us of Christ. Elijah is a picture of Him. In sympathy he entered into all the consequences of man's sin. Just as Christ wept at the tomb of Lazarus, Elijah "cried to Jehovah and said, Jehovah, my God, have You also brought evil upon the widow with whom I sojourn, by slaying her son?" Then he brought the dead child to life again, taking his place.
The mother's verdict
The mother gets her son back alive. Her verdict names two things — the man, and his message.
H. L. RossierShe had learned two things by the resurrection of her son: First, that God had come to manifest Himself here below in a man — "You are a man of God"... Before, God had shown Himself to her as the One who met her needs. Now He gives new life, resurrection life, in the very place where death came in through man's "iniquity". The second thing is that through resurrection she gained the assurance that the word of the Lord in Elijah's mouth was the truth. Resurrection proves that the word of grace is true.
Summary
- Given. "Give me your son" is the turning point. The prophet who thundered at a king now cries out to God over a dead child.
- Carried. He carries the boy up to his own room and his own bed — direct contact with the one who has life is what brings life back.
- Emptied. The flour jar taught her that God provides. Only losing her son could teach her death's real power over sinners, and how far grace reaches past it.
- Claimed. Commentators differ on why the child died. Was it to teach her the power of resurrection, or to claim her dearest treasure and not just her last meal?
- Proved. Resurrection is what settled both questions for her: this is a man of God, and the word in his mouth is truth.