Song of Solomon 8:4–5

Song of Solomon 8:4 · Darby

I charge you, daughters of Jerusalem, ... Why should ye stir up, why awake [my] love, till he please?

This charge to the daughters of Jerusalem sounds here for the third and last time. Two questions follow: who is the sleeper who must not be woken, and why does this appeal keep coming back?

A Repeated Charge, Not a Random Refrain

One writer treats the repetition as the answer to those who read the Song as a loose bundle of poems.

This charge occurs several times in the song. I think it is the perfect answer to those who suppose the song is just many little songs put together with no particular order. Not so. There is perfect order, and not only continuity but progress. You will find this charge three times: in chapter 2, in chapter 3, and again in the last chapter, chapter 8. So the order is clearly designed.

Modernised from William KellyOriginal wording

Each Charge Leads to a Coming

The three charges do not all work the same way. Each one leads to a coming, and the comings advance.

We looked at this charge in our meditations on Song 2:7. The same charge occurs in Song 8:4. Each time it appears, the coming of the Lord follows at once. In chapter 2:7 it is the revelation of Himself... In Song 3:5 it is the Messiah coming in royal procession, as the true Solomon, crowned King of Israel by the heart of the nation... In chapter 8:4 we see the bride leaving the wilderness united to Him. This is marked progress.

Modernised from Andrew MillerOriginal wording

Who Is the Sleeper?

The ESV says love should not be stirred "until it pleases". Older wording reads "till he please", and commentators differ over who is meant. One traces the Hebrew and concludes it is the Bridegroom who rests.

Here, in chapters 3:5 and 8:4, the word is not the one used in verse 2 and elsewhere, but ha-havah (the love). If it were ray-ah (love, or companion), the word would have to be "she". But the feminine form of the verb depends on ahavah, so the sense must decide the question. I am disposed to think the English version right. The beloved One rests in His love.

Modernised from J. N. DarbyOriginal wording

Others read the same clause the opposite way, taking the sleeper to be the bride held safe in His arms.

Or it could read "until she pleases". It seems more likely that the spouse is the one resting in peace in her bridegroom's embrace, while He watches in love so that nothing disturbs her.

Modernised from Assembly WritersOriginal wording

He Rests in His Love

The bride's wish is that nothing disturbs the One she loves. The same writer links that wish to what the Lord says about Jerusalem.

She draws attention to her desire that nothing should disturb Him — that He should rest in that love which He designed for her. It is a sweet and wonderful thought that the Lord means to rest in His love for Jerusalem... And about whom does He use that expression? Not about us, but about Jerusalem. You will find this clearly enough in Zephaniah 3.

Modernised from William KellyOriginal wording

The Rest He Wants Her to Keep

One writer reads chapter 8 as a summary of the whole book. In it, the charge voices the Beloved's own wish for her.

Chapter 8 stands by itself, and seems to me to sum up the principles of the whole book. ... The loved one shows her deep affection, and the Beloved wants her to rest in His love and enjoy it as long as she will, with nothing to disturb her.

Modernised from J. N. DarbyOriginal wording

Leaning — the Difference from Last Time

After the charge comes a picture of dependence. One writer sets it against an earlier journey through the same desert.

After a final charge to the daughters of Jerusalem, there is a fresh vision of the bride coming up out of the wilderness leaning upon her beloved. Long ago the people came up out of it too, and God showed wonders of goodness and power. But it was all in vain. They did not lean on Jehovah or His Christ, but on self and law. For sinful people — and that is what they were — self and law can only mean death and condemnation. Far different will it be when the generation to come emerges from it leaning upon the beloved.

Modernised from William KellyOriginal wording

Guarding What Is Easily Broken

One writer, on this charge earlier in the Song, points to the roes and hinds. They startle at the faintest sound, and he makes that the measure of our own watchfulness.

The roes and the hinds are the most easily startled creatures in the field. Their hearing is so sharp that a distant sound of danger will alarm them. We should all be that sensitive to the faintest approach of anything that would interfere with our walk and communion with the Lord. We should be just as alert to anything that would turn us aside from practical holiness and complete devotion to the Lord Jesus Christ.

Modernised from Andrew MillerOriginal wording

Summary

- Rest He takes. The Lord means to rest in His love, and Zephaniah 3 shows Him saying that about Jerusalem.

- Rest He wants for her. Chapter 8 sums up the whole book. The Beloved wants her to enjoy His love undisturbed, as long as she will.

- Rest disputed. The Hebrew does not name the sleeper. Some read the Beloved resting in His love; others read the bride asleep in His embrace.

- Rest that moves. A coming follows each of the three charges. After this last one, the bride leaves the wilderness united to Him.

- Rest that leans. The old generation crossed the desert leaning on self and law, and gained nothing. The bride comes up out of it leaning on her Beloved. Guard that rest as alertly as a deer listens for danger.

Song of Solomon 8:5 · Darby

Who is this that cometh up from the wilderness, Leaning upon her beloved? I awoke thee under the apple-tree There thy mother brought thee forth; There she brought thee forth [that] bore thee.

The Song has asked before who is coming up from the wilderness, but now the watchers see two figures — a bride walking out of the desert, held up by the one she loves. The verse then looks back to an apple tree, where He first awakened her.

The question of the onlookers

Hamilton Smith traces the bride's path to this point.

The bride comes out of the wilderness leaning upon the arm of her Beloved, and the daughters of Jerusalem ask, "Who is this?" In the fourth song the bride had sought and found the Bridegroom. In the fifth song she had held sweet and secret communion with Him. But now, at last, she stands before the whole world in His company, and in dependence upon Him. The wilderness wanderings lie behind her; the glory shines before her.

Modernised from Hamilton SmithOriginal wording

What is new since chapter 3

The same question opens Song 3:6. Kelly asks what has changed.

Is He now only "like columns of smoke, perfumed with myrrh and frankincense, with all the fragrant powders of a merchant" (Song 3:6)? No. There is another object. It is now "Who is that coming up from the wilderness, leaning on her beloved?" Here we see that it is not now the Bridegroom. She has a vision of herself — of herself united to the Bridegroom. Before, it was more His coming to her, or for her.

Modernised from William KellyOriginal wording

Two exits from the wilderness

Israel had come up out of the wilderness once before. Kelly finds the difference in what the people leaned on.

Long ago the people had come up out of it, and God showed wonders of goodness and power. But it was all in vain. They did not lean on the Lord or His Christ. They leaned on self and law, and for sinful man — which is what they were — that can only mean death and condemnation. It will be far different when the generation to come comes out of the wilderness leaning upon the beloved. What brings about so great a change? "Under the apple tree I awakened you. There your mother was in labor with you." Christ is meant by that tree. It is His to awaken her from her long sleep and give her the life that alone lives to God.

Modernised from William KellyOriginal wording

The meaning of "leaning"

Leaning is not something the bride achieves. Hamilton Smith shows what stands in our way.

We wander and fall, but grace brings us up out of our wanderings leaning upon Christ, just as the bride leans on her beloved. We fall, like Peter, because we lean on our own love for Christ. In tender grace He lifts us up and brings us to lean on His great love for us... Pride makes it hard to own our nothingness and His fulness, our weakness and His strength, and so to find all our resources in Him... "Leaning" is weakness clinging to strength. John leaned on Jesus' breast (John 13:23), and that is leaning on the love of One in whom all fulness dwells.

Modernised from Hamilton SmithOriginal wording

Another writer turns this into a test we can apply to our own past.

Look back over our past life. In every time of failure, straying or defeat, we were not leaning upon Him. The secret of all failure in the Christian's life can be traced to this. He has never failed anyone who leans upon Him.

Modernised from The Song of SolomonOriginal wording

Awakened under the apple tree

The second half of the verse looks back to her beginning.

Christ is the apple tree, and grace is our mother. We owe our very existence as Christians to the sovereign grace of God... We are born again through His grace that has worked in our hearts in connection with Christ. No sinner can ever be saved until he flees to Christ for refuge. "There she who bore you was in labor." There under His shadow grace brought us forth and made us new creatures in Christ Jesus.

Modernised from The Song of SolomonOriginal wording

The debt is not the bride's alone.

Now the bride depends happily on the Bridegroom's love. She must never forget that she owes the Beloved every blessing she has, from the moment she was brought forth in weakness... Take a wandering believer brought back to fellowship and open service. Take wandering Israel brought back to glory on earth. Take a ruined and scattered church shown in perfect heavenly glory. All will owe their position to the sovereign grace of the Lord that awakened us, brought us out of our degradation, and joined us to Himself.

Modernised from Hamilton SmithOriginal wording

Summary

- Awakened — the journey starts under the apple tree. Christ is that tree, and no sinner is saved until he flees to Him for refuge.

- Leaning — leaning is weakness clinging to strength. Pride must go before we own our nothingness and His fulness.

- Contrast — the first generation came up from the wilderness leaning on self and law, and it was all in vain. The change is in who carries the weight.

- Displayed — after seeking, finding and secret fellowship, the world now sees her with Him, leaning on Him.

- Debt — restored believer, restored Israel, church in glory: grace awakened each one and gave it its place.