fulfil my joy, that ye may think the same thing, having the same love, joined in soul, thinking one thing;
Paul writes from prison to Christians who had just sent him help. Instead of only thanking them, he asks for one thing more: unity that goes deeper than a truce.
The letter overflows with gladness. That makes Paul's appeal surprising: something is still missing.
"Fill full my joy!" Was the apostle's joy, then, not full? There is probably no book in the Bible so filled with joy as Philippians. The apostle seems to be flowing over with joy; what is it, then, that keeps his joy from being full? We get the answer in a series of four conditions of soul. First: "when you mind the same thing." Then, and not till then, will the apostle's joy be full. Notice how many times we find this word "mind". I think ten times in this letter. How often our mind runs in the wrong direction. While we look at our own things, or seek our own things, we will never mind the same thing.
The tone matters as much as the appeal. Paul had heard bad news about the Philippians, yet he had also just received their kindness.
How gently and graciously the apostle speaks! The Philippians had thought of him in prison. He had heard of disputing among them. Euodia and Syntyche were not of the same mind. But he cannot rebuke them sharply when he had just received their kindness. "Fulfil my joy" — if you want to make me perfectly happy, you will think alike, "having the same love, being of one accord, of one mind." It is a rebuke, but a very gentle one. The spirit in which he writes is very beautiful.
The four phrases are not repetition. Each one supplies what the one before cannot guarantee.
First of all they were to be likeminded. It is clearly a great thing when believers all think alike. But we must also weigh the spirit behind their thinking. If that spirit is wrong, thinking alike will not keep quarrels away. So he adds, "having the same love." Only love can produce the next thing he speaks of, "being of one accord," or, more literally, "joined in soul." That in turn leads to all minding one thing.
Hatred can bind people together as tightly as love. So where does the right bond come from?
We know more about being "joined in soul" through having the same hate. We have seen the Pharisees, the Sadducees and the Herodians — all bitter enemies — sharing the same hate against Christ, and so joined in soul. I think it was Mr Darby who said, "Devotedness to Jesus is the strongest bond between human hearts." Oh, Lord Jesus, give Your poor saints more of this devotedness to You! Devotedness formed by love to Jesus. Devotedness caused by the love of Jesus. This is the devotedness that brings the "same love". So may we be joined in soul to each other.
So how could the Philippians become more likeminded?
How could they be more likeminded? If the mind were set upon one thing, they would all have the same mind. God has one object for His saints, and that object is Christ. For Paul, every aim and every duty came second to Him. As he says in the next chapter, "one thing I do." So here he wanted to produce this one, common mind in the Philippian believers.
Does this verse demand that Christians hold identical views on everything?
Many scriptures press home the Lord's desire that we should be of one mind, or likeminded. Of course this does not mean that everyone must think alike on every subject. But suppose we all let that self-forgetting mind be in us which was also in Christ Jesus. What perfect harmony would result! Shall we put it to the test?
This unity is not manufactured by effort alone.
This is the normal effect of the power of the Spirit, where He is ungrieved in us. He produces this unity among Christians, where self can have no place.
- One appeal. Paul does not order them to agree. He asks them to fill up a joy that is otherwise not full.
- One love. Thinking alike is not enough if the spirit behind it is wrong. So Paul asks next for "the same love."
- One soul. Devotedness to Jesus knits souls together. It is the strongest bond between human hearts — the opposite of the shared hatred that once united His enemies.
- One object. God has one object for His saints, and that object is Christ; minds set on one thing end up being of one mind.
- One result. Where self has no place and we do not grieve the Spirit, He produces this unity — and Paul's joy is full.
[let] nothing [be] in the spirit of strife or vain glory, but, in lowliness of mind, each esteeming the other as more excellent than themselves;
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regarding not each his own [qualities], but each those of others also.
Verse 4 follows the call to count others better than yourself. It asks a plain question: what is your eye fixed on, and does that view have room for anyone else?
The verb Paul uses is stronger than a casual glance. One writer traces it to the idea of a target set up to aim at.
Now we come to two other appeals that also hit most of us very hard: "Not each having the eye on the interests of themselves, but each on the interests of others also." The Authorised Version reads: "Look not every man on his own things," and so on. The word translated "look" does have that meaning. But it is not the ordinary word for "look." It comes from a word meaning a mark on which to fix the eye. In chapter 3 of this letter we get the same word translated "mark" (v. 14).
The word behind "things" is left open in the original, and translators have filled it in differently.
In the Greek Testament there is no word for "interests" in either place. There is only the article "the," in the plural. We have to fill in what the Spirit means us to understand, and that may have a very wide application. The Authorised Version uses "things." Mr. Darby uses "qualities," or, in a note, "advantages." I take "interests" to mean the things that interest us.
Read as "qualities," the verse shows how to obey the command just before it: count others better than yourself.
The next statement in verse 4 does mean that. It could be rendered, "Look not every man on his own qualities, but every man also on the qualities of others." If we fixed our eyes on the spiritual qualities of a person — Christ shining out in that vessel — it would then become fairly easy to esteem another as better than oneself.
Paul does not ban all care for our own things. He adds the things of others to the view. What we live for decides how wide that view is.
Empty pride lies at the root of a large part of the strife and division that is distracting Christians, even those who are otherwise spiritually minded. The opposite of empty pride is that lowliness of mind that leads us to esteem others better than ourselves. Lowliness of mind also leads to that largeness of mind that verse 4 points to. If I am self-centred, aiming only at my own interests and glory, I consider only my own things. If instead I am Christ-centred, aiming at His interests and glory, I look also on the things of others. And if the things of others are really more for Christ's glory than my things are, I shall look more on the things of others than on my own.
One habit in us quietly reverses the verse: we prize whatever we happen to be good at.
We all know that we tend to value the qualities we have ourselves and to look down on the qualities of others. That is our nature left unjudged. Where the power of love is at work, it works in quite the opposite direction. We would be aware of how weak and unworthy we are, and how little use we make of what God gives us. And we would value what we see in another that we do not have ourselves.
Writers are honest that this care is not common, even among Christians.
Verse 4 takes us a step further. It asks for a very real concern for the well-being of others — a happy mark of Christianity in a world that is so selfish. We cannot suppose, however, that all Christians really practise this virtue.
The call goes deeper than modest words about ourselves.
The Apostle does not speak merely of the "lowly word," which a person can use even to magnify self. He speaks of the lowly mind, which forgets self altogether and thinks only of others and their good.
Christ has already lived that mind out in front of us.
Man's motto is, "Mind yourself." His selfishness shows the uncleanness of his nature. Jesus was not like this, for "He did not please Himself." He went about doing good. His heart was set on blessing others… So the teaching of the Holy Spirit is, "Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others."
- Aim. "Look" is not a glance but a target word — the same word translated "mark" in chapter 3. Ask what your eye is fixed on.
- Also. Paul does not cancel your own things; he adds the things of others to the same view.
- Qualities. Read "things" as qualities or advantages. Look for Christ shining in another person, and counting them better than yourself stops being a strain.
- Centre. A self-centred aim sees only self. A Christ-centred aim gives the largeness of mind that takes in others.
- Pattern. The lowly mind forgets self and thinks only of the good of others. Christ lived it: He did not please Himself.