Numbers 20:14–21

Numbers 20:14

And Moses sent messengers from Kadesh to the king of Edom, Thus says thy brother Israel Thou knowest all the trouble that hath befallen us,

Israel has reached Kadesh, on the border of Edom, the land of Esau's descendants. The shortest road to Canaan runs through it, so Moses sends a message that opens with a family name, not a demand.

The Request and Its Reasoning

Israel had a route in mind, and a reason why Edom should grant it.

If Israel could go through Edom, it would be only 20 miles. They could then travel east of the Dead Sea and cross the Jordan near Jericho... They appealed to the sympathies of Edom because of their long history of very real trial and God's preserving and delivering care over them (vs.14-16).

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Israel's terms left Edom nothing to lose.

They are ready to bind themselves by agreement to do nothing but pass through. They will turn neither to the right nor to the left. If they drink of the water of their wells, they will pay for it. All they get in answer is a flat and rude refusal.

F. W. Grant

"Your Brother Israel"

Moses leans on one word: brother. The claim fails, and the hostility behind it has a history.

We see Satan's opposition at this stage of the journey (Num. 20:14). It comes not from the hatred of foreigners, nor from Israel's own rebellion, but from the open hostility of brothers by natural descent. Moses sent to the king of Edom saying, "your brother Israel," and Edom's answer is a threat. Once before, these two met in the persons of their fathers. Then, as now, Jacob was the one asking, but God turned aside the hatred of Esau, and Jacob went on his way. The hatred remained, and it breaks out in Edom's refusal to let Israel pass.

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Yet the failure was one-sided. God went on holding Israel to the brotherly tie even after Edom tore it up.

Yet we may see the yearning of God's heart over these descendants of Esau, for in Deut. 23:7, He says: "You shall not abhor an Edomite, for he is your brother." Despite all the waywardness and sin of Esau and his descendants, the Lord still wanted Israel to remember the brotherly claim that Edom had on them.

George C Willis

Turning Away Instead of Fighting

Commentators read Israel's turn back as obedience, and as training.

Nothing could have been more respectful and honest than the approach made by Moses and the children of Israel. Even so, the hatred of the Edomites became unmistakable... They take the unprovoked insult of their brother Edom quietly. They do this at the express command of God, who wanted to teach His people patience. It is always good for those who may soon hold power to learn patience.

William Kelly

Edom as a Picture

Commentators read Edom as a picture of the flesh — the old nature in a believer. Asking Edom for a way through was an attempt to strike a deal with something that will never agree.

On the route they now take, Edom is clearly the great barrier... But Edom is there in force, and he will not permit it. You cannot change this enmity into friendship. It is exactly the same with the flesh: "the mind that is set on the flesh is hostile to God"... So the barrier stands. It stands even though many refuse to believe that such an old nature, one that cannot be redeemed, is still inside the Christian. They claim kinship, and would gladly make a brother out of Edom. It cannot be.

F. W. Grant

The remedy commentators give is not struggle but a reckoning with self.

Edom is a picture of the flesh. Its name is the same as Adam, only with the vowels changed. But however the flesh may disguise itself, it does not change, and "those who are in the flesh cannot please God" (Rom. 8:8). But how are we to deal with this deceitful enemy within us? It is no use fighting it, for we can never win a battle like this, as Romans 7 shows us. Instead we are to consider self as dead (Gal. 5:24). So we turn away from it as we would from a dead body, and we "put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision for the flesh, to gratify its desires" (Rom. 13:14).

Leslie M. Grant

The Lesson Carried Forward

The refusal at the border carries a warning for believers.

We learn that the ties of nature are only like dry straw touched with fire when they collide with the call of God. We are warned not to look for sympathy in matters of faith from the men of the world, even if they are our nearest relatives.

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Summary

- Brother asked. Moses opens with a family claim. He backs it with Israel's suffering, God's rescue, and a promise to take nothing.

- Brother refused. Being related proved no protection. The closest relative became the open enemy, and the answer was a threat.

- Brother still honoured. God would not let Israel hate Edom back. The brotherly duty still bound the side that had been insulted.

- Brother bypassed. Israel turned away at God's command instead of forcing a way through. It learned patience before it ever held power.

- Brother within. As a picture of the flesh, Edom will never be a friend, and effort will never defeat it. Count it dead and walk around it.

Numbers 20:15

how our fathers went down to Egypt, and we dwelt in Egypt a long time, and the Egyptians evil entreated us and our fathers;

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Numbers 20:16

and when we cried to Jehovah, he heard our voice, and sent an angel, and brought us forth out of Egypt; and behold, we are at Kadesh, a city at the extremity of thy border.

Israel is camped at Kadesh, on the edge of Edom's land. Moses sends messengers who retell the nation's story in short: the hard years in Egypt, the cry for help, the God who answered, the angel He sent — and now a border Israel must ask permission to cross.

The Cry God Heard

Israel's appeal rests on something already settled: they called out and God answered. One writer lists what that answer included.

It had been a story of loving kindness and of mercies according to His own heart. He had adopted them as His people, counted them truthful and saved them from their oppressors. What is more, He entered into their afflictions and gave them His presence. He redeemed them from Egypt. He carried them and cared for them until they reached the land of promise.

F. B. Hole

The Angel God Sent

This angel appears again and again in Israel's story. Commentators ask who He is.

An angel was to go before them for guidance and safe conduct. Scripture often speaks of Him in this way (Ex. 14:19; Ex. 33:2; Num. 20:16). The prophet Isaiah calls Him the angel of His (Jehovah's) presence... So it is clear that He is divine. The conclusion is a fair one, and godly students of the Word have drawn it in every age: in this angel we have none other than the Second Person of the Trinity, God the Son, Jehovah... He has always been the leader of His people. Here He takes His place at the head of the children of Israel, to keep them in the way and to bring them to the place God had prepared.

Edward Dennett

Kadesh on the Border

The message ends at Kadesh. The name itself says something about the long years behind them.

God's people are redeemed. But He must still show His holiness in how He deals with them. Kadesh-barnea, the "sanctuary of the wanderer," may well remind us of this. God had a place of refuge for His people in the wilderness. But it was a "sanctuary," a holy refuge, and they, because of their sins, were "wanderers." In making it a city of Israel He told them to take both the grace and the holiness of this to heart.

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A Brother's Refusal

Moses tells Edom what Israel has suffered and what God has done. Behind Edom's refusal one writer sees an older enemy at work.

Moses makes a moving appeal for Israel to pass through. But neither their sufferings nor God's help for them moves Edom to agree. It is a fresh phase of the power of Satan against those who are led of God through the world.

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The opposition here is not from strangers. Moses addresses Edom as a brother, and the refusal comes from family.

Here, as in the gospel, we find that natural relationships are no guarantee against enmity when it is a question between God and the world. "And a person's enemies will be those of his own household" (Matt. 10:36). Moses sent to the king of Edom saying, "your brother Israel," and Edom's answer is a threat.

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The Long Way Round

One writer finds the meaning of this barrier in the name Edom itself.

"Edom" is only "Adam" slightly changed. The meaning is the same; the vowels shift easily in Hebrew. The flesh takes many a disguise — but Christ is the infallible test that soon detects it... Less than twenty miles across, it is more than six times that distance to go around. And not only that — this way had a king's highway and wells of water; what a pleasant alternative to the pathless desert route! But Edom is there in force, and he will not allow it. Nor can you turn this enmity into friendship; and so it is exactly with the flesh... Many refuse to believe there is an old nature in the Christian that cannot be redeemed. They claim kinship, and would gladly make a brother out of Edom. It cannot be.

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Israel does not fight; it turns away. That choice shapes how we meet some opponents.

Edom, full of jealousy, will not let Israel shorten the way; Israel turns away from him. Some people oppose us, and it is right to turn away from them because of an outward relationship between them and us, even though they are driven by unrelenting hatred. We must know how to recognise them. God will judge them in His own time; our hand must not be upon them.

J. N. Darby

Summary

- Cry — the appeal begins where all Israel's history begins: they cried, and He heard. God did not rescue from a distance; He entered into their afflictions and carried them.

- Angel — the One God sent to bring them out is the Angel of His presence: divine, the leader of His people, keeping them in the way to the place God had prepared.

- Kadesh — the "sanctuary of the wanderer": a holy refuge for a people under discipline, holding grace and holiness together in one name.

- Brother — the story of their suffering and God's rescue moves Edom not at all. Family ties are no protection when the real question is God against the world.

- Detour — no argument turns that barrier into friendship, so Israel turns aside instead of fighting. Judgment on Edom belongs to God's time, not to Israel's hand.

Numbers 20:17

Let us pass, I pray thee, through thy country; we will not pass through fields, or through vineyards, neither will we drink water out of the wells we will go by the king's road; we will not turn to the right hand nor to the left, until we have passed thy border.

Israel is camped at Kadesh, on the edge of the promised land. Only a narrow strip of Edom's land blocks the short way in, so Moses asks Edom's king for passage — and the answer will shape the rest of the journey.

The request and what it cost to ask

The appeal was practical before it was anything else. Going through Edom would save an enormous detour, so Moses asked for the plainest terms possible.

If Israel could go through Edom, it would be only twenty miles... They appealed to Edom's sympathy, because of their long history of very real trial and God's preserving and delivering care over them. They asked only for permission to pass through the country. They would not touch their fields or vineyards, or even use their water. They would go straight along the highway.

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A brother's refusal

Moses' message called Edom a brother. The refusal that came back shows what family ties are worth when God's purpose is at stake.

At this stage of the journey, Satan's opposition does not show itself in the hatred of foreigners, nor in Israel's own rebellion. It shows itself in the open hostility of brothers after the flesh. Here, as in the gospel, natural relationships are no guarantee against enmity when it is a question between God and the world. "A person's enemies will be those of his own household." Moses sent to the king of Edom saying, "your brother Israel," and Edom's answer is a threat. Once before, their fathers met. Then, as now, Jacob was the one asking a favour, but God turned aside Esau's hatred, and Jacob went on his way. That hatred remained, and it breaks out in Edom's refusal to let Israel pass through his land.

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Israel did not force the way open.

Edom, full of jealousy, will not let Israel shorten the way, so Israel turns away from him. Some people oppose us, and it is right to turn away from them because of an outward relationship between them and us — even though they hate us with a hatred that will not be softened. We must learn to recognise them. God will judge them in His own time; our hand must not be upon them.

J. N. Darby

Edom as a picture of the flesh

Writers read Edom as a picture of the old nature in us, and the size of the detour is part of the lesson.

On the way they now go, Edom is the great barrier. Less than twenty miles across, it is more than six times the distance to go round. And there was more: along that way lay a king's highway and wells of water. What a pleasant alternative to the pathless desert route! But Edom is there in force, and he will not permit it. Nor can you change this enmity into friendship. It is the same with the flesh: "the mind that is set on the flesh is hostile to God, for it does not submit to God's law; indeed, it cannot." So the barrier is there. And it stands even though many refuse to believe in any old nature inside the Christian that cannot be redeemed. They claim kinship, and would gladly make a brother out of Edom. It cannot be.

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If that is the diagnosis, the treatment is not a fight but a turning away.

Edom is a picture of the flesh. Its name is the same as Adam, only with the vowels changed. The flesh may disguise itself, but it does not change, and "Those who are in the flesh cannot please God." So how are we to deal with this deceitful enemy inside us? It is no use fighting it, for we can never win a battle like this, as Romans 7 shows us. We are to count self as dead, and so turn away from it as we would from a corpse.

Leslie M. Grant

Why the short way was closed

The refusal looks like a setback. One writer sees God's own hand behind it.

Between Israel and the land lay a small strip belonging to Edom, and through it ran "the king's highway." Edom refused to let them pass that way. And God ordered that it should be so, for it was not the way for the redeemed to enter Canaan... They had to go south around Mount Seir — Edom's land — then turn north up the eastern side of Jordan, and pass into the land through its dried-up waters, behind the ark of God. Death and resurrection is the only pathway there.

F G Patterson

A smooth, marked road is not always the road of faith.

Not every righteous way is a way of "faith."... It supposes, not a "king's highway," such as Israel might have had in passing through the land of Edom, but that trackless desert path which was God's choice rather for them; there where the pillar led, fire by night and cloud by day, that they might go, independent of nature, by day or by night.

Frederick W Grant

The terms Moses offered as a rule of life

The promise to take nothing and pay for everything has been read as a model for how believers move through a world that is not theirs.

We are heavenly people. We have a heavenly calling. We are strangers and foreigners here. We only desire a plain way through this world. We will keep the king's highway. That is, we will obey every human authority, for the Lord's sake... We will pay for everything we get along the way, and will trespass on nothing. But we must keep our pilgrim character, and keep ourselves unstained by the world.

James Boyd

Summary

- Ask — Moses sought only twenty miles of road: no fields, no vineyards, not even their water. The humblest request still met a threat.

- Brother — Edom was family, and family ties are no shield. Some of the hardest opposition comes from the closest relations.

- Barrier — Edom's name is Adam with the vowels changed. It pictures a nature that disguises itself but never changes; its hostility to God can never become friendship.

- Turn away — the answer is not to force a passage or fight the battle out, but to treat self as dead and go the way God marks.

- Round, not across — God closed the short road on purpose. The long way led to Jordan, because death and resurrection is the only path into the promised land.

Numbers 20:18

But Edom said to him, Thou shalt not pass by me, lest I come out against thee with the sword.

Israel is camped at Kadesh, and only a narrow strip of Edom's land lies between them and a short road into Canaan. Moses asks his relatives for safe passage, and the answer comes back as a threat of war — so why does a brother nation reply like this, and why does Israel accept it?

A Flat Refusal, Backed by Force

Edom's reply left no room for talks:

Edom's answer was blunt and final. They would not allow them to pass, but would defend their own land against them with the sword (v.18). Israel tried a second time to persuade Edom, but Edom would not move. They backed up their words with a show of force from their army (vs.19-20). But Israel would go no further than to make the request, and "turned away from him" (v.21).

Leslie M. Grant

An Old Family Grudge

Edom descended from Esau, Jacob's twin. One writer traces this reply back to Esau himself, and on into later Scripture:

Moses asked for right of way through the land of Edom in very careful and friendly language. Edom refused him at the point of the sword. A full four centuries had passed, yet we see the character of Esau reproduced in his descendants. Look for a moment at the short prophecy of Obadiah, written nearly a thousand years later. There we find the same people marked by the same proud hostility to their "brother Jacob," and God's unsparing judgment against them. Moses however accepted the rebuff, for the moment of Edom's judgment had not yet come.

F. B. Hole

Opposition That Comes From Relatives

Moses appealed to kinship, and kinship is what failed:

Satan shows his opposition at this stage of the journey (Num. 20:14) — not in the hatred of foreigners, nor in Israel's own rebellion, but in the open hostility of relatives. Here, as in the gospel, natural relationships are no guarantee against hatred when the question is between God and the world. "And a person's enemies will be those of his own household" (Matt. 10:36). Moses sent to the king of Edom saying, "your brother Israel," and Edom's answer is a threat.

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The same writer draws out the warning for us:

Do not look for sympathy in matters of faith from the men of the world, even if they are our nearest relatives.

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Why Israel Did Not Fight Back

Israel turned away instead of fighting. God Himself had drawn the line:

Esau had a serious grudge against Jacob. God stepped in directly, and Esau was never allowed to touch a hair of his brother's head. Still, on the other hand, Israel must not interfere with Esau's possessions. Jacob had taken Esau's place; and Israel must not trouble Edom. Of the people of Esau God said, "Do not contend with them, for I will not give you any of their land, no, not so much as for the sole of the foot to tread on, because I have given Mount Seir to Esau as a possession" (Deut. 2:5). So we see that the same God who would not let Esau touch Jacob in Genesis 33 now will not let Israel touch Edom in Numbers 20.

C. H. Mackintosh

The Barrier That Cannot Be Befriended

Some read Edom's blockade as a picture of something permanent in human nature:

"Edom" is only "Adam" slightly changed. The meaning is the same; the vowels shift easily in Hebrew. The flesh puts on many a disguise, but Christ, the unfailing test, soon exposes it… In the way that they go now, Edom is clearly the great barrier. Less than twenty miles across, it is more than six times that distance to go round. And not only that — this way had a king's highway and wells of water; what a pleasant alternative to the trackless desert route! But Edom is there in force, and he will not allow it. Nor can you turn this hostility into friendship. It is just the same with the flesh: "the mind that is set on the flesh is hostile to God, for it does not submit to God's law; indeed, it cannot" (Rom. 8:7). So the barrier is there. And it stands even though many refuse to believe that such an old nature, past all mending, is still in the Christian. They claim kinship, and want to make a brother out of Edom. It cannot be.

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The Long Way Round

The closed border was not a defeat of God's plan but part of it:

Edom refused to let them pass that way. God arranged that it should be so, for it was not the way for the redeemed to enter the land… They had to go down south around Mount Seir — Edom's territory. Then they had to turn northward along the eastern side of the Jordan, and enter the land through its dried-up waters, following the ark of God. Death and resurrection is the only pathway there.

F G Patterson

Summary

- Brother. Moses appealed to kinship and got a threat; natural ties are no protection when God's people are on the move.

- Bloodline. Esau's grudge reappears in his descendants four centuries later. Obadiah finds it still alive a thousand years after that.

- Barrier. Edom pictures the flesh: hostile to God, and you cannot turn that hostility into friendship.

- Boundary. Israel could not retaliate: God had given Mount Seir to Esau, and Edom's hour of judgment had not yet come.

- Better road. The closed shortcut forced the long route to the Jordan. That crossing, not Edom's highway, was God's way in.

Numbers 20:19

And the children of Israel said to him, We will go by the high way; and if we drink of thy water, I and my cattle, then I will pay for it I will only, without anything else, go through on my feet.

Israel is camped at Kadesh. Only a short strip of Edom's land stands between them and a straight road toward Canaan. Edom has already answered their first polite request with a threat. Here they ask again, on terms lowered to almost nothing. Why did a fair offer from a brother nation get a flat no — and what was God doing behind that closed door?

Terms Cut To Nothing

Israel cuts the offer down until nothing is left for Edom to object to. One writer lists what Moses promised in advance:

Moses sends messengers from Kadesh, claiming brotherly relation, and asking for a path along the king's highway through their land. They are ready to bind themselves by agreement to do nothing but pass through. They will turn neither to the right nor to the left. If they drink of the water of their wells, they will pay for it. All they get in answer is a flat, rude refusal. And when it looks as if they will press their request in person, Edom comes out against them in force.

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The Short Road And The Long Way Round

The road through Edom was short; going around it was long. The same writer measures both, and reads Edom as a picture of the old nature in the believer:

On the road they now take, Edom is clearly the great barrier. The land is less than twenty miles across, but going round it is more than six times as far. On top of that, this way had a king's highway and wells of water. What a welcome change from the trackless desert route! But Edom is there in force, and he will not allow it. And you cannot turn this hostility into friendship. It is the same with the flesh... So the barrier stands. Many refuse to believe there is any such old nature inside the Christian, one that can never be redeemed. They claim kinship and would gladly make a brother out of Edom. It cannot be.

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Opposition From A Relative

Moses had addressed Edom as a brother. That family tie is what gives the refusal its sting:

At this stage of the journey, Satan opposes them in a new way. It is not through the hatred of foreigners, nor through their own rebellion, but through the open hostility of relatives by natural descent. Here, as in the gospel, we find that family ties are no protection against hatred once the issue is between God and the world. "And a person's enemies will be those of his own household" (Matthew 10:36). Moses sent to the king of Edom saying, "your brother Israel," and Edom's answer is a threat.

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Israel Asks, But Will Not Fight

Israel turned away instead of forcing the crossing. One commentator explains when to walk away from opposition rather than fight it:

Edom, full of jealousy, will not let Israel shorten the way, so Israel turns away from him. Some people oppose us, and it is right to turn away from them because of some outward connection between them and us, even though they hate us with a hatred that never softens. We must know how to tell such people apart. God will judge them in His own time. Our hand must not be on them.

J. N. Darby

The Closed Door Was God's Doing

The refusal looks like Edom's decision alone. One writer sees God's hand behind it, tied to how His people were meant to enter the land:

Edom refused to let them pass that way, and God ordered that it should be so. It was not the way for the redeemed to enter Canaan. They were then turned back for two years to be tested, and to bring out what had been hidden inside them until then... They had to go south around Mount Seir, which Edom owned. Then they turned north up the eastern side of the Jordan, and entered the Land through its dried-up waters, following the ark of God. Death and resurrection is the only path there.

F. G. Patterson

The Same Terms For Travellers Now

One writer turns Israel's offer into the words of a Christian passing through a world that is not home:

We are heavenly people. We have a heavenly calling. We are strangers and foreigners here. We only desire a plain way through this world. We will keep to the king's highway. That is, we will obey every human authority, for the Lord's sake... We will pay for everything we take along the way, and we will not trespass anywhere. But we must live as pilgrims passing through, and keep ourselves unstained by the world.

James Boyd

Summary

- Ask — Israel asked for the bare minimum: the public road, payment for every drink, no step off it.

- Refused — the answer was a flat, rude no, backed by an army. The gentlest terms did not soften it.

- Brother — the hostility came from a relative, not a stranger. Blood ties are no safeguard once God's people are on the move.

- Restraint — Israel turned away instead of fighting, and left Edom to God's own time of judgment.

- Detour — God blocked the short road. The redeemed were to enter Canaan another way: through the Jordan's dried-up waters, behind the ark.

Numbers 20:20

And he said, Thou shalt not go through. And Edom came out against him with much people, and with a strong hand.

At the end of forty years in the wilderness, Israel asked a related nation for one thing: permission to walk along a road. The answer came back as an army. Why did Israel not fight back?

A refusal with a sword behind it

Moses asked politely. The refusal reached back much further than that moment.

Moses asked for the right of way through the land of Edom in very careful and peaceable words. Edom still refused him at the point of the sword. Four full centuries had passed, yet we see the character of Esau repeated in his descendants.

F. B. Hole

Israel did not give up after the first refusal.

Edom's answer was blunt and final. They would not let Israel pass, and they would guard their own land with the sword (v.18). Israel tried a second time to persuade Edom, but Edom would not bend. They backed up their words with a show of force from their army (vs.19-20). Israel went no further than asking, and "turned away from him" (v.21).

Leslie M. Grant

Opposition from a relative

Edom came from Esau; Israel came from Jacob. Moses appealed to that family tie.

At this stage of the journey we see Satan's opposition (Num. 20:14). It does not come from the hatred of foreigners, nor from Israel's own rebellion, but from the open hostility of their own relatives. Here, as in the gospel, natural family ties are no protection against hatred when the question is between God and the world. "And a person's enemies will be those of his own household" (Matt. 10:36). Moses sent to the king of Edom saying, "your brother Israel," and Edom's answer is a threat.

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The same writer applies this to us today.

We are warned not to look for sympathy in matters of faith from the men of the world, even if they are our closest relatives. We are traveling to our promised land, the heavenly Canaan. We find that unconverted relatives oppose us as much as the world does, and often more.

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A barrier no words could move

Some writers see Edom as a picture of the flesh, the old nature a Christian still carries. They start from the name.

"Edom" is only "Adam" slightly changed. The meaning is the same, and in Hebrew the vowels change very easily. The flesh wears many a disguise... Edom is now a nation, with a government, civilized and all the rest; but it has no good will toward the people of God. This long, narrow, mountainous strip of land looks like a barricade. It is as if giant hands threw it up to keep the pilgrim people out of Canaan.

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That is why no offer could have changed the answer.

But Edom is there in force, and he will not allow it. And you cannot turn this hostility into friendship. It is exactly the same with the flesh: "the mind that is set on the flesh is hostile to God, for it does not submit to God's law; indeed, it cannot." ... So the barrier stands. Many refuse to believe that any such old nature, beyond saving, is still inside the Christian. They claim kinship and would gladly make a brother out of Edom. It cannot be.

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The long way round

Israel could have tried to force a way through. The path God gave them was different.

It is not to make war on the flesh, but to "walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh." Israel were to walk where the cloud led, and the cloud never led them through Edom. If that had been His way, would He have let the enemy block it? Of course not... Counting yourself dead to sin is not ignoring it and not fighting it. It is turning away.

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The detour cost them, and the cost is part of the lesson.

The long, tiring journey around Mount Edom shows that we cannot defeat the flesh. We must run from its desires, which war against the soul. How often the opposition of the flesh forces a long detour in what should be a straight road from earth to heaven.

Samuel Ridout

Restraint under orders

Israel's retreat was not weakness. God had already told them not to touch Edom's land.

"Do not contend with them, for I will not give you any of their land, no, not so much as for the sole of the foot to tread on, because I have given Mount Seir to Esau as a possession." (Deut. 2:5.) So the same God who would not let Esau touch Jacob in Genesis 33 now will not let Israel touch Edom in Numbers 20.

C. H. Mackintosh

Israel's silence carried a warning for Edom.

God's power could have struck him down, as He had decided long before, but the time had not yet come. So Israel did not strike a blow at their guilty brother. They turned back like a scolded child. That patience was the sign that a far greater judgment was still in store for Edom. Nothing is more ominous than when God bears the sin of men patiently.

William Kelly

Summary

- The road — Edom stands across the shortest way to Canaan, a barricade with no good will toward the people of God.

- The refusal — Polite words change nothing. This hostility cannot be turned into friendship, because it belongs to the nature itself.

- The name — Edom is Adam with the vowels shifted. It pictures the flesh, which changes its disguise but never its nature.

- The response — Not a fight but a turning away. Walk where the cloud leads; it never led through Edom.

- The cost — Obedience meant a long, tiring detour. Israel's quiet patience was itself the sign of the judgment God had stored up for Edom.

Numbers 20:21

Thus Edom refused to give Israel passage through his territory; and Israel turned away from him.

Israel's forty years in the wilderness are nearly over, and the road into the land of promise runs through Edom — a nation descended from Esau, Jacob's brother. Moses asks for passage as a brother; Edom answers with an army, and Israel steps aside.

A brother's refusal

One writer sets this refusal against the old quarrel between the two brothers:

Satan's opposition is seen at this stage of the journey (Num. 20:14), not in the hatred of foreigners, nor in Israel's own rebellion, but in the open hostility of relatives. Here, as in the gospel, family ties are no guarantee against hatred when the question lies between God and the world. "And a person's enemies will be those of his own household" (Matt. 10:36). Moses sent to the king of Edom saying, "your brother Israel," and Edom's answer is a threat. Once before, their fathers had met. Then, as now, Jacob was the one asking; but God turned aside Esau's hatred, and Jacob went on his way. The hatred remained and breaks out in Edom's refusal to let Israel pass through his land.

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Why Israel turned away

Israel did not fight for the road. One writer explains why turning away was right:

Israel turned away here, for Edom's land was no part of Israel's possession. It was not God's purpose to lead them through it; their time in the wilderness was not yet finished.

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Another writer draws a rule from Israel's restraint:

Edom, full of jealousy, will not let the way be shortened; Israel turns away from him. Some people oppose us with a hatred that never gives way. Yet because of an outward relationship between them and us, it is right to turn away from them. We must know how to tell such people apart. God will judge them in His own time; our hand must not be on them. As for the enemies of God, they must be our enemies; where the power of the enemy is plain, it is God's war.

J. N. Darby

Edom and the flesh

Several writers read Edom as a picture of something inside the Christian. The next writer starts with the map:

In the way they now travel, Edom is clearly the great barrier. Less than twenty miles across, it is more than six times that distance to go round. This way even had a king's highway and wells of water — a pleasant alternative to the trackless desert route! But Edom is there in force, and he will not permit it. Nor can you turn this enmity into friendship. It is the same with the flesh: "the mind that is set on the flesh is hostile to God, for it does not submit to God's law; indeed, it cannot" (Rom. 8:7). So the barrier stands. Many refuse to believe there is any old nature inside the Christian that cannot be redeemed. They claim kinship, and would gladly make a brother out of Edom. It cannot be.

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Another writer asks what a Christian is to do with such an enemy:

Edom is a type of the flesh. Its name is the same as Adam, only with the vowels changed. However the flesh may disguise itself, it does not change: "those who are in the flesh cannot please God" (Rom. 8:8). But how are we to deal with this deceitful enemy inside us? It is no use fighting it, for we can never win a battle like this, as Romans 7 shows us. We are to count self as dead (Gal. 5:24), and turn away from it as we would from a corpse. Instead we "put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision for the flesh, to gratify its desires" (Rom. 13:14).

Leslie M. Grant

The cost of the detour

Turning away was not free:

How often the opposition of the flesh causes a long detour in what should be a straight course from earth to heaven.

Samuel Ridout

Refused here, permitted later

One writer answers a charge of contradiction here:

People set Deuteronomy 2:29 against this passage, either out of ill-will or out of carelessness. Edom did refuse to let Israel pass through, yet in the end they did pass through. The two occasions were quite distinct. The refusal recorded here happened at a different time and place from Israel's later passage through their land. Moses sent the messengers from Kadesh — the city on the farthest border, not the district in general — and this was before Aaron died. Israel made the passage some time after his death, south of Edom, by way of the Red Sea, as we may learn from Numbers 21.

William Kelly

Edom's final reckoning

Israel dropped the matter; God did not:

Edom is the only one of all the nations reappearing at the time of the end for judgment that will have no "remnant" preserved. God will judge the Edomites without mercy because of the way they treated His people. They were the most wicked, and the most eager to destroy Israel. Had they not once "refused to give Israel passage through his territory" to enter the land of Canaan (Num. 20:21)?

H. L. Rossier

Summary

- Brother. Relatives, not strangers, blocked the road; family ties are no guarantee against hatred once God's people are on the move.

- Barrier. No one could talk Edom's hatred into friendship. Edom is Adam with the vowels changed — a picture of the flesh, which cannot please God and cannot change.

- Turn. Israel did not fight for the pass. The answer to this enemy is to count self dead, turn away, and put on Christ.

- Detour. Turning away cost Israel a long march around the mountain. The flesh often stretches a straight course into a weary detour.

- Reckoning. What Israel let go, God remembered; Edom's refusal is still on the record when judgment falls.