Matthew 5:43–44

Matthew 5:43

Ye have heard that it has been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbour and hate thine enemy.

The Lord takes up a saying His hearers had grown up with — and the second half of it is not in the law at all. Two questions follow: who counts as my neighbour, and where did the permission to hate come from?

The saying and its source

The first half of the quoted saying comes straight from Scripture. The second half, one writer argues, came from the human heart:

"It was said, You shall love your neighbour and hate your enemy." This last clause was a deduction, the inference of an evil nature. The law said, "Love your neighbour"; but there was no instruction to hate an enemy.

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Kelly traces where they drew it from. The Jews took it, he writes, from "the general tenor of the law," because God had once sanctioned the destruction of their enemies.

How "neighbour" was shrunk

One writer traces, step by step, how Jewish teaching narrowed the word "neighbour":

The question of the scribe in Luke 10:29, "And who is my neighbour?" shows that the Jews had restricted the meaning of this commandment. God intended them to see a neighbour in every fellow-man. They did not want that. They counted only their own people as their neighbours. In this way the Gentiles, the "uncircumcised," were excluded from their love. The strict scribes and Pharisees went even further. They did not want to count ordinary Jews as their neighbours. They considered them cursed because they did not know the law. Finally they excluded personal enemies from this commandment too. Only a very few "privileged" ones were left to be treated as "neighbours."

Arend Remmers

A duty no lawgiver would write down

Notice what the human heart added: not a loophole, but a positive obligation. And notice how far the Lord's reply goes past merely being civil:

Men understand, at least, that they ought to love their neighbour: but their qualifications narrow even their idea of such a duty, while they have invented a duty of hate, which no lawgiver would perhaps dare to write on his tables, but which is nevertheless obeyed all too readily in practice. "You shall love your neighbour and hate your enemy" is what a man would justify to his conscience, as he approves it in his heart. But the law has no other word than "neighbour" here, as it has no other duty than to love him; and the Lord specifically puts even our enemies into this class. "But I say to you, Love your enemies" — not merely do them good, though that might seem much, but "love them."

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The love the Lord asks for

The command is not about warm feelings towards people who hurt you. And the law itself already pointed this way:

But the Jews deliberately overlooked something. In the law God had also commanded them to love their enemies (see Exodus 23:4-5; Leviticus 19:33-34)... the Lord Jesus does not give His disciples new commandments. He judges the fleshly narrowing of the old commandment, and the human addition to it. In God's thoughts, every person we have dealings with is our neighbour. That holds even if he or she turns out to be our personal enemy. The Lord Jesus does not demand an emotional love or a friendly affection for enemies. He demands the much higher divine love.

Arend Remmers

Higher ground than the law ever held

The law kept certain nations at a distance for generations. What Christ asks stands on different ground:

To love our enemies, to pray for those who persecute us, is wholly above the law or the duty of a people in the flesh. An Edomite or an Egyptian was not to be despised. Their children could enter the congregation of the Lord in the third generation. An Ammonite or a Moabite could only enter in the tenth. But Christ brought in grace and truth... As He came to seek and to save the lost, those who were His were to love their enemies and pray for their persecutors.

William Kelly

The test this puts on the heart

This verse asks more than what a person may do. It asks what he keeps in his heart:

Here was a thing that the law never could teach — it is grace. In a thousand practical instances, the question is not whether the thing is right. We often hear Christians asking, Is such a thing wrong? But this is not the only question for the Christian. Suppose wrong is done to him; what is he to feel then? If there is enmity towards him in another, what is he to cherish in his own heart?

William Kelly

Family likeness, not family entrance

The promised outcome — being sons of the Father — is not a wage earned by loving well:

It is a question of moral conformity or suitability to the character and ways of our Father. In everyday life we sometimes hear the saying, "You would not be your father's son if you acted like that." It is as though our Lord had said, "If you want to be the sons of your heavenly Father, you must act in grace to all; for that is what He is doing."

C. H. Mackintosh

Summary

- Half-quoted. The love command is Scripture. The hate clause is not — one writer calls it a deduction of an evil nature.

- Half-defined. "Neighbour" shrank from every fellow-man down to a privileged few. In God's thoughts it covers every person we deal with, even a personal enemy.

- Half-hearted. The law itself commanded Israel to love their enemies, and they overlooked it. Christ asks for divine love, not a friendly feeling.

- Whole grace. This stands above what the law asked of a people in the flesh. It is what Christ brought in when He came to seek and save the lost.

- Whole likeness. Acting in grace to all does not earn sonship; it shows whose children you already are, because grace to all is what the Father is doing.

Matthew 5:44

But *I* say unto you, Love your enemies, [bless those who curse you,] do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who [insult you and] persecute you,

Jesus takes a saying His hearers knew by heart and turns it inside out. Instead of marking off who deserves love, He points to the two hardest people to love: the enemy and the persecutor.

The saying He corrects

The command to love your neighbour comes from the law, but the words attached to it here do not. Commentators point out that religious teachers added the second half themselves:

The rabbis first narrowed the word "neighbour" wrongly. Then they went further. If you must love your neighbour, they said, you must hate your enemies — and by "enemies" they meant everyone else: the other nations, Jews without religious training, and personal enemies too... Love fulfils the law, as Romans 13:10 says. Out of that command they had made its exact opposite. You only had to love the few who shared your views. Everyone else you could meet with pride, contempt and hatred.

Arend Remmers

Higher ground than the law

Loving an enemy is not a harder version of law-keeping. Christ asks for something the law never asked for:

To love our enemies and to pray for those who persecute us is far above the law, and far above what the law asked of people in their natural state... But Christ brought in grace and truth. In the light of the Son of Man all were lost, even the sheep of Israel. He came to seek and to save the lost, so those who belonged to Him were to love their enemies and pray for those who persecuted them. It was the mind of heaven for His saints on earth.

William Kelly

What this love is

This love is not a warm feeling towards someone who hurts you. It is an active interest in their real good, and their hostility is the very reason to care:

Love is not just a kind feeling. It is real concern for another person's true welfare. If that person returns hatred, that is all the more reason to care for him, because he needs special help. When you return good for evil, you represent God rightly. You also set an example that should reach the hearts and consciences of others.

Leslie M. Grant

Goodness that works inside evil

This is not justice, and it is not just staying clean of evil. It is good sent out into a hostile place:

He takes up the principle of the law, which deals with evil in order to hold it down... Then He brings in a vast principle, made known when Christ came into the middle of evil: good that is entirely above evil, yet acts inside it... It is not righteousness, in the sense of justice; it is not what presents us to God... it is goodness in the middle of evil.

J. N. Darby

The one who did it first

The command is not a theory. Christ Himself prayed for the men who were killing Him:

The Lord Jesus showed this love of God to us. "But God shows His love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us" (Romans 5:8). While He hung on the cross He prayed for His tormentors: "Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do" (Luke 23:34). So the Lord Himself is the perfect example of the command He gave.

Arend Remmers

Sons showing the family likeness

The verse links this behaviour to being sons of the Father. Writers stress that the point is family likeness, not how someone becomes God's child:

When it is a question of "sons" it refers to our position... while here it is a question of character... God calls us to have the family character and to show the same grace, as sons of such a Father. The person who loves his enemies and does good to those who hate him shows the character of a son. His Father makes His sun rise on the evil and on the good. Think how people treat Him and blaspheme His name... Yet He still treats them this way, and He is "your Father."

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Why it is not out of reach

These words sound beyond anyone's reach. Commentators answer that the command still stands, and that God supplies what it asks for:

If we are His sons, it is not arrogance to hold feelings higher than human nature can reach. This is our new standing, and it should be our delight. Grace alone can make it real. But Christ has obtained everything we need for this. The Holy Spirit is here to see it through and to guide us to Christ's glory.

William Kelly

Summary

- Distortion. "Hate your enemy" was never God's word. Religious teachers added it, shrinking the circle of "neighbour" until it held only a favoured few.

- Elevation. Loving enemies and praying for persecutors stands above the law. It is the mind of heaven, brought down to earth by Christ.

- Definition. This love means caring about someone's real welfare. Their hostility becomes the reason to care, not a reason to stop. It is goodness working inside evil, not justice measured out.

- Pattern. The Father makes His sun rise on evil and good alike. The Son prayed for the men crucifying Him. The command asks only for the family likeness.

- Power. The standard is not lowered for us. Grace alone makes it work. Christ has secured all we need, and the Holy Spirit is here to carry it through.