Then his lord, having called him to [him], says to him, Wicked bondman! I forgave thee all that debt because thou besoughtest me;
In this story a servant owed his master a debt he could never repay, and the master let him off in full. Then the man seized a fellow servant by the throat over a tiny sum — and this verse is the master's answer.
The master's first word to the man is not about the money at all — it is a verdict on his character.
Why was the man in Matthew 18 called "a wicked servant"? Because, having been forgiven ten thousand talents, he took his fellow by the throat over a hundred silver coins.
"Because you pleaded with me" points back to the servant's own promise to pay in full, and to what the master did with it.
So helplessly are we all indebted to the supreme King. Good it is that there is mercy with Him for which all figures fail. The debtor falls at his lord's feet with an impossible plea for mercy in his own case — how impossible in our own! "I will pay you everything." The king can accept no such agreement, and takes no notice of it. But compassion moves his heart, and he acts on it: "he released him and forgave him the debt."
The master sets his own conduct beside the servant's, and the contrast is what condemns.
It is possible for a man to receive a full pardon for all his offences from the God he has sinned against, on the ground of the atoning sacrifice of Calvary. And then he refuses to show mercy to a fellow man who has wronged him! A beggar with God, and a tyrant with men! Oh, the appalling inconsistency.
The servant had received mercy. What he owed back was not money but mercy of the same kind.
If God has shown us love, for us to show it is only righteousness. What witness have we, if it is not witness of the grace we have received?… Is there not sometimes a very sad and serious mistake here? We act as if, because it is grace we are called to show, we may please ourselves about how much and what kind. We act as if showing it at all were a little something extra! But God will require from us what He has been showing us.
The same writer measures our conduct by God's own.
It is true that we cannot forgive debts owed to God. But we must not think He will tolerate in us what He does not do Himself — the bare demand for payment.
Commentators differ on who the servant pictures. Some read it as a picture of how God deals with His people in this life.
This parable does not speak of the salvation of the soul. It speaks of the principles by which the King governs His kingdom — principles that apply as much to the person who really has life as to the one who merely claims it. It is an unchanging fact that on the cross Christ took the eternal consequences of every believer's sins. But as to our conduct in this world, God governs by a rule that never changes: "whatever one sows, that will he also reap."
Others see in him a man who never knew God at all, whatever he claimed.
Grace refuses a fixed limit and demands the widest margin; but the parable solemnly shows the doom of the man who has no heart for it. Whatever the man claimed, he did not know the only true God, the Father, or Jesus Christ whom He sent. Eternal life was not his.
Some also see in the huge debtor a picture of a whole nation that God pardoned and that then refused mercy to others.
It was the hatred of the Jew toward the Gentile. And so all the debt that God had forgiven them became fastened on them. … You may apply this to a person who has heard the gospel and does not act on it. The principle is true today of any mere professor of the gospel who acts like a worldly man.
- Debt — The sum was beyond paying. The king ignored the offer to repay and cleared it out of compassion.
- Mercy — "Because you pleaded with me" names his only ground: he asked, and the king let him go.
- Memory — The master rebukes a man who forgot the size of his own pardon while chasing a tiny one.
- Mirror — Showing grace is not extra credit; God will require from us what He has been showing us.
- Measure — In this world God governs by what we sow: the mercy we withhold shapes what we reap.
shouldest not thou also have had compassion on thy fellow-bondman, as *I* also had compassion on thee?
The king passes no sentence here. He asks a question. Why did the mercy this man received never travel any further than himself? Everything hangs on the small word "as" — the king's own conduct is the standard.
The king does not ask the servant to match his generosity pound for pound. He asks him to act in the same manner. One writer draws out the difference between manner and measure:
Note this: we are never taught to forgive on the same theological principle on which we are forgiven. We forgive because we are forgiven, and in the same manner we are to forgive. Nothing is said about the measure or about the method. Who, for instance, could ask God to forgive in the same measure as he had forgiven his fellow men? But in the same manner he could. As to the method or principle, God's ground of forgiveness is the righteous satisfaction He has received in another bearing the penalty we had incurred. Our ground for forgiving others is simply that God has forgiven us.
The servant was not inventing the debt. Yet the parable never argues about whether his claim was valid:
It was his own that he was demanding. Apart from the violence he used, he was, as men say, quite within his rights. That was not the question, and everyone at once sees that. We too may be within our rights when we demand what is our own from others. So why are we not as clear-sighted about our own case as we are about the man before us? We have been forgiven (if we are Christians) as well as he, and our debt was one beside which his was nothing. From the standpoint of forgiven men, how can we look on grace or mercy shown to others as anything more than the plainest righteousness on our part?
A person can take full pardon from God and then refuse mercy to someone else. One writer names the contradiction:
What an exposure of the terrible possibilities that lurk in the human heart! A man may receive full pardon for all his offences from the God he has sinned against, on the ground of the atoning sacrifice of Calvary. He may then refuse to show mercy to a fellow human being who has wronged him! A beggar with God, and a tyrant with men! Oh, the appalling inconsistency.
Millions say their sins are forgiven. The parable gives a test that does not depend on what a person says:
Every man is a defaulter in relation to God... Yet the heart of God yearns over all His bankrupt debtors, and, on the basis of the atoning blood of Jesus, He proclaims full pardon to everyone. Multitudes profess to have received His pardon... But conduct alone proves whether or not the grace of God has really penetrated the soul. Where it has, the forgiven one walks thankfully in the spirit of grace towards all. He bears wrong meekly, and truly seeks the eternal good of every person.
Does the servant's fate mean he lost his salvation? One writer answers that the parable is about something else:
It hardly needs saying that this parable does not speak of the salvation of the soul. It speaks of the principles by which the King governs His kingdom. Those principles apply as much to the one who truly has life as to the one who only professes it. On the cross Christ took the eternal consequences of every believer's sins, and that fact never changes. But as to our conduct in this world, God governs by an unchanging principle: "whatever one sows, that will he also reap." And again, in Matthew 5:7: "Blessed are the merciful, for they shall receive mercy."
Applied to a congregation, this one question dissolves most of what divides people:
If I might say one practical word here, it would be this: the cure of all discords among the saints may be found in this obligation. Remember how the Lord pressed this in the parable of the two debtors. The king asked the servant who had failed in love why he had not shown his fellow servant the same pity he himself had received. If this spirit governed us, all our personal breaches would be healed, we would be knit together in love, and Christ would be magnified.
- Received — Every one of us is a bankrupt debtor before God, and He proclaims full pardon on the ground of the blood of Jesus.
- Reflected — Pass the mercy on in the same manner, not the same measure. No one could ask God to forgive only as well as he forgives others.
- Refused — The servant was within his rights. That is the trap. Once we stand as forgiven people, our rights are not the question.
- Revealed — Conduct alone proves whether grace has reached the heart. Mercy that changes nothing exposes what a person really is.
- Reaped — Under God's government we reap what we sow, and the merciful obtain mercy. This holds for real believers as much as for pretenders.
And his lord being angry delivered him to the tormentors till he paid all that was owing to him.
The king had cancelled a debt no man could ever pay, and now he hands the same servant over to punishment until he pays every penny. So can forgiveness be taken back, and does this prison door ever open?
The king's anger has one target, and the parable's wording marks it out. One writer points to what the king did not charge him with:
This man is unforgiving and cruel; he throttled his fellow servant. Merciless and cruel, he had no sense of forgiveness. If there is anything like a proper sense of grace in our souls, it will make us patient and watchful over our spirits, for the same nature is in all of us. Notice that the king did not call him a wicked servant because he owed the debt. The debt was not what made him angry. But when the servant was merciless and unforgiving, then he was angry with him.
Prison "until he should pay all his debt" sounds temporary. But the sum was never payable. That shapes how one writer reads the ending:
The close of the parable gives us its moral: mercy fails for the man with whom mercy fails. "And in anger his master delivered him to the jailers, until he should pay all his debt." That could never happen. So it pictures a punishment that lasts forever.
Commentators differ here. Others say the parable is not about where a soul spends eternity. It is about how the King rules those under His hand:
This parable does not speak of the salvation of the soul. It speaks of the principles by which the King governs His kingdom. Those principles apply as much to the person who really possesses salvation as to the one who only claims it. One fact never changes: on the cross Christ took the eternal consequences of every believer's sins. But our conduct in this world falls under another unchanging principle of God's government: "whatever one sows, that will he also reap."
Beyond the lesson for one person, some writers read the parable as the story of a nation:
The Jews were guilty of ten thousand talents by crucifying the Son of God. God then acts in grace. On the strength of the intercession of Jesus, He has the gospel preached to the nation, and Peter's preaching is the answer. But they refuse grace to the Gentiles, who were far less guilty toward them than they were toward God. So the wrath came upon them to the full.
On that reading the prison is real history, and not the last word for everyone in it:
The Jew is therefore cast into prison, and he will not leave it until he has paid all that was due. The day is coming when the Lord will say that Jerusalem has received from His hand double for all her sins. In His grace He will count that Jerusalem has suffered more than enough. He will apply to them the blood of Christ, which can wipe out the ten thousand talents and more. But the unbelieving generation of Israel are cast into prison, and they will never come out. The remnant will come out, by the grace of God, and the Lord will make the remnant a strong nation.
Older translations call these jailers "tormentors." One writer sees that word answered in an unforgiving person's own inner life:
It is a terrible thing for someone who professes Christ to hold on to an unforgiving spirit. We do not see how such a person can have any real sense of grace or any communion with God. And we should not be surprised to find them given over to the most tormenting feelings. Those feelings express God's judgment on a wrong state of heart.
The same writer gives one concrete test: taking someone to court.
The Christian who goes to law claims to have been forgiven ten thousand talents, yet he takes his fellow by the throat for a mere hundred pence. Is this right? Is it pleasing to God?… God is not counting trespasses against people. He is a pardoning God, delighting in mercy. If we go to law, we are not like Him; we are misrepresenting Him.
- The debt — no one could ever repay ten thousand talents. The pardon was pure mercy. So "until he should pay all his debt" names a door the debtor can never open himself.
- The demand — mercy received must become mercy given. The king's anger fell on the servant's hard heart, not on his debt.
- The reach — the parable speaks to one person and to a whole nation. God offered Israel pardon after the cross, and they refused grace to the Gentiles.
- The rule — commentators differ over the jailers. Some see a punishment that lasts forever. Others see how God governs His own people now. Both agree: grace does not cancel how God deals with our conduct here.
- The result — an unforgiving heart becomes its own prison. The way out is to be like the God who forgives.
Thus also my heavenly Father shall do to you if ye forgive not from your hearts every one his brother.
Matthew 18 ends with a parable, and this verse is the Lord's own application of it. What the king did to the merciless servant, the Father will do to anyone who will not forgive a brother. Is that a threat against salvation, or something else?
One servant was forgiven all he owed, and then refused mercy to a fellow servant. Commentators see the force of the Lord's warning in that contrast.
What an exposure of the awful possibilities that lurk in the human heart! A man may have sinned against God and then received from Him a full pardon for all his offences, through the atoning sacrifice of Calvary. And then he refuses to show mercy to a fellow human being who has wronged him! A beggar with God, and a tyrant with men! Oh, the appalling inconsistency.
The closing words point to how God treats His children now, not to how a soul is saved.
We who profess to be Christians have an important lesson to learn from this scripture. We urgently need to cultivate a forgiving spirit. If we fail to act in grace, we are in danger of losing the sense of grace in our own souls. How dreadful when a man whose sins are all forgiven drags a fellow sinner into court over a little money! Note the closing words of our Lord... This marks the application of the entire passage to our Father's governmental dealings with us from day to day.
One writer separates what the cross settled forever from what God still governs today.
This parable does not speak of the salvation of the soul. It speaks of the principles by which the King governs His kingdom. Those principles apply to the one who truly has life just as much as to the one who only professes it. On the cross Christ took the eternal consequences of every believer's sins, and that fact never changes. But as to our conduct in this world, God governs by a principle that never changes either: "whatever one sows, that will he also reap."
The verse points to the heart, not the lips. Forgiveness is an inward state, and it is settled before the offender ever asks.
We are to act out of our own hearts in grace, just as God acted in our salvation. We look for no motive outside ourselves, except in the God who saved us. Our delight is to express the same indescribable grace that we ourselves have received. This does not mean we must always speak our forgiveness to those who have sinned against us. But in our own feelings we are always to be in a state of forgiveness. We are never to hold on to a brother's sin inside.
God's government means His dealings with His people day by day. The parable shows a consequence, and a better response when one believer wrongs another.
Eternal forgiveness rests on a completely different basis. But God's governmental forgiveness very often hinges on the believer showing a forgiving spirit. If we treat our brothers and sisters badly, sooner or later we shall find ourselves in the hands of the "tormentors," and we shall have a sorrowful time. And suppose one of us sees a brother ill-treating another. We would be wise not to take the law into our own hands and attack the wrongdoer. Better to copy the servants in the parable: tell our Lord all that happened, and leave Him to deal with the offender in His holy government.
Commentators differ on how far this warning reaches. One writer presses it as a test of whether a professed pardon is real.
Huge numbers profess to have received His pardon... But conduct alone proves whether the grace of God has really reached the soul. Where it has, the forgiven one walks thankfully in the spirit of grace towards all, and patiently bears wrong... "For judgment is without mercy to one who has shown no mercy" (James 2:13). Our God will be satisfied with nothing less than reality in those who have to do with Him.
The parable also has a wider application, beyond the individual.
Matthew 18:23-35 does not refer to the question of "eternal life." Its primary application is to the Jew and his way of dealing with the Gentile. Despite the abounding mercy which God had shown to the Jew, he would not listen to the idea of mercy to the Gentile.
- Debt. God forgave you every offence; the wrong done to you is a little thing beside it.
- Government. This is about the Father's daily dealings with His children. Christ settled eternity at the cross.
- Heart. Forgiveness is an inward state, held ready before it is ever spoken; never store up a brother's sin.
- Tormentors. Hardness comes back on you. When you see one believer wronging another, tell the Lord instead of acting on your own.
- Reality. Conduct shows whether grace has reached the soul — a beggar with God cannot be a tyrant with men.