Job 19:12–20

Job 19:12

His troops have come together and cast up their way against me, and have encamped round about my tent.

Job has just accused God of hedging in his way, stripping his glory and uprooting his hope. Now he switches to a picture of war, and the hard question is whether the besieging army was God's at all.

The Picture Behind the Words

The words are those of ancient siege warfare. Troops gather, earthworks rise, and a ring of tents closes in on one thin dwelling. One writer traces each blow in Job's complaint back to Eloah, a name for God used throughout this book.

It was Eloah who had hedged up his way so that he could not escape. He covered his path with darkness, stripped him of honour, and took the crown off his head. He crushed him on every side, so that he was going, and uprooted even his hope. It was He whose anger burned against him, and who counted him as one of His foes. He massed His troops, piled up mounds against him, and camped right around.

William Kelly

Who the Troops Were

The army was made of real people. One writer names them, and says Job misread who had sent them.

Job counted them as God's troops come together, "building roads" against him. Of course Job's surmise was wrong. God did not move these people against him, though no doubt Satan did so. Job's brothers had removed themselves from him, and Job blamed God for this. His acquaintances, relatives and close friends had distanced themselves from him. Even those living in his own house treated him as a stranger, a foreigner not worth considering.

Leslie M. Grant

Commentators differ on how far God's own hand lay behind the siege. Others hold that Job was right to trace his trouble to God, and wrong only about the anger.

Where Job's Reading Went Wrong

Job did not just say that God allowed the siege. He said God's wrath had been kindled against him, and that God counted him an enemy. One writer stops the reading right there:

"He has also kindled His wrath against me …" — there he was wrong — "and He counts me to Him as one of His enemies. His troops come on together; they have cast up their siege ramp against me and encamp around my tent."

William Kelly

Three Levels in One Siege

One writer compares Job's case with God's use of the Assyrian army against His own guilty people. He sorts out three levels at work at once.

The Assyrians were only instruments in His hand. He would Himself strike, but not wipe out His guilty people. He does not destroy them; He chastens them. This humbles, but it also comforts, for love is there. See the case of Job. There are the instruments of judgment, and Satan behind them, but God above, who directs everything for Job's good. At the end Job is more blessed by Jehovah than at the beginning, bright as that beginning was.

J. N. Darby

Another writer names every attacker in the ring, and adds the one enemy Job had not yet counted.

Job thought God was against him; but he has to learn that God was the only One that was truly for him. Satan, the Sabeans, the winds and the fire of heaven, his wife and his three friends — all were against him, and set on his destruction or condemnation. And last of all he has to learn that he was against himself. There was only One in the universe who was his Friend, and He was the One Job regarded as his enemy. God controlled all the enemies mentioned. He let them go only a certain length.

James Boyd

The Patience That Absorbs the Charge

Job lays a heavy charge against God, and God does not answer it with anger.

What follows is a fearful charge laid against God. It is well for Job that he is accusing infinite patience, or he might have had a real taste of divine anger. But God bears with it all, waiting His own time to bring the poor distracted man into His own holy presence.

Samuel Ridout

From the Besieged Tent, a Confession

A few verses later, from inside that same tent, Job says something his friends' arguments could never have produced.

Then, in the middle of all these laments, he speaks those magnificent words of faith: "I know that my Redeemer lives." But this was the very God he had just been charging with injustice! How good it is to see Job's faith, in all this turmoil, turning to the very One he was maligning!

Samuel Ridout

Summary

- Siege. An army masses, builds earthworks and camps around Job's tent. The pressure closes in from every side.

- Misread. The besieging force was people who had pulled away from him, with Satan at work behind them. Job blamed the whole campaign on God.

- Wrong. Job did not just say God permitted it. He said God's wrath was burning and that God counted him an enemy. There he was wrong.

- Above. Instruments below, Satan behind them, God above. God directed it all for Job's good, and let each attacker go only so far.

- Answered. God bore the charge without striking back. He waited for His own time, and from that same tent came the words: "I know that my Redeemer lives."

Job 19:13

He hath put my brethren far from me, and mine acquaintance are quite estranged from me.

Job has just blamed God for overthrowing him and stripping his honour; now he turns to the emptiness around him, starting with his own family. The hard question is whose hand did it — Job says God's, and commentators do not all agree.

God Named as the Cause

Job does not blame bad luck or even his enemies. He traces every loss back to God, down to the coldness of his own relatives. One writer breaks in to mark the place where Job went wrong.

"He has also kindled His wrath against me…" — there he was wrong — "and He counts me to Him as one of His enemies. His troops come together and raise up their way against me, and encamp around my tent. He has put my brothers far from me, and those who knew me are wholly estranged from me." You know what that is to the heart if you have ever tasted it. "My relatives have failed me, and my close friends" — he now gets closer — "have forgotten me."

William Kelly

Whose Hand Moved Them

Commentators differ here. Kelly marks only the words about God's wrath as wrong. Another writer asks a sharper question: who moved these people away from Job?

But Job counted them as God's troops come together, "building roads" against him. Of course Job's guess was wrong. God did not move these people against him, though no doubt Satan did so. Job's brothers had removed themselves from him, and Job blamed God for this. His acquaintances, relatives and close friends had distanced themselves from him.

Leslie M. Grant

The Circle Widens

Verse 13 opens a list that keeps closing in: brothers, relatives, servants, his wife, then boys in the street. One writer follows it to the end, where the worst loss of all appears.

His own brothers have forsaken him; his relatives have forgotten him. His very slaves look on him as a stranger. Even to his own servant he must repeat his appeal again and again before the man will listen. Worst of all, the wife of his heart recoils from the foul smell of his body. Boys mock him, friends detest him… It is a dreadful picture of a horrid disease. It is unspeakably sad when we remember that he could not turn to God for comfort.

Samuel Ridout

Three Who Did Not Leave

One detail is easy to miss. The three who failed as comforters were the only ones who came. Their words fell short; their presence did not.

Eliphaz, Bildad, and Zophar were friends and brothers indeed, though they proved to be only "miserable comforters." They came to Job when all had deserted him… They were true-hearted friends, who said they would go and comfort their suffering brother. And they did go; and they sat with him in his place of ashes and broken pottery for seven days.

J. G. Bellett

The Same Complaint in the Psalms

The same complaint appears again in the Psalms. One writer hears the voice of Christ there, left alone by God's own hand.

With a heart supremely able to receive love as well as to give it, He must be alone. God's hand divided Him from every human kindness: "You have put my acquaintance far from me"… "Lover and friend you have put far from me." While His enemies surrounded Him like a flood, He was without a single comforter. The desertion of His friends was a portion of the cup prepared for Him.

A. Pridham

Faith Rises Out of the Ruin

A few verses later comes Job's most famous line. What gives it weight is the place he spoke it from.

"Oh that my words were written… Oh that with an iron pen and lead they were engraved in the rock forever! For I know that my Redeemer lives." Here we come to the very clear confession of his faith… It was beautiful too at such a time. He was in the deepest desolation and distress. Not one friend was left among men, and God Himself was striking him.

William Kelly

Summary

- Stripped. Job loses his brothers and his friends. The desertion starts with family and spreads to relatives, servants, wife and children.

- Blamed. He lays every one of these losses at God's door. Commentators differ: was he reading God's hand rightly, or guessing wrong while Satan moved the people?

- Alone. The worst of it is not the disease or the emptied house, but that in it he could find no comfort from God.

- Visited. Three friends still came and sat with him seven days — poor comforters, yet the only ones who came.

- Anticipated. The same complaint returns in the Psalms as Christ's own. Being cut off from every human kindness was part of the cup He drank. Out of a desolation like this, Job still said, "I know that my Redeemer lives."

Job 19:14

My kinsfolk have failed, and my known friends have forgotten me.

Answering Bildad, Job names one group after another that has walked away from him — from his brothers down to the servants in his own house. This verse sits in the middle of that list, and it raises a hard question: who was behind the desertion?

A Circle That Keeps Narrowing

The list is not random. Each group Job names is closer to him than the last. One commentator marks the point where the circle tightens:

"He has put my brothers far from me, and my acquaintances are completely estranged from me." You know what that is to the heart if you have ever tasted it. "My relatives have failed me, my close friends" — he now gets closer — "have forgotten me." "Those who dwell in my house, and my maids, count me a stranger: I am an alien in their sight."

William Kelly

Blame in the Wrong Place

Job saw God's hand behind every person who left him. One commentator says he read it wrong:

Job counted them as God's troops come together, "building roads" against him. Of course Job's surmise was wrong. God did not move these people against him, though no doubt Satan did so. Job's brothers had removed themselves from him, and Job blamed God for this. His acquaintances, relatives and close friends had distanced themselves from him.

Leslie M. Grant

William Kelly agrees that God allowed all of it, but marks where Job went too far:

It is perfectly true that it must have been God allowing all this... "He has also kindled His wrath against me" — there he was wrong.

William Kelly

Loss With Nothing Left to Lean On

The desertion runs right through the house, and it lands on a man whose body is rotting away:

His own brothers have forsaken him; relatives have forgotten him. His own slaves look at him as a stranger. He has to beg his own servant again and again before the man will answer. Worst of all, the wife of his heart recoils from the foul smell of his body. Boys mock him, friends detest him... It is a dreadful picture of a horrible disease. It is sad beyond words when we remember that he could not turn to God for comfort.

Samuel Ridout

The Fault of the Deserters

Job may have misread God's part in this. The people who left him had no excuse, and they come back to him only at the very end:

His relatives and acquaintances, at the end, seek him again. They ought, indeed, never to have deserted him. For we deceive ourselves if we think that we must be right when we grieve those whom God is disciplining. This is often very far indeed from being the case... We are more often, perhaps, in God's mind, and acting as living vessels of the Spirit, when we are soothing such people... The very fact that God's hand had touched him, as he puts it so deeply, would have been the reason for pity from his friends.

J. G. Bellett

Faith in the Empty Place

Eleven verses later Job makes his great confession. This verse shows the ground he was standing on when he said it:

"For I know that my Redeemer lives." Here we come to the very clear confession of his faith. It was beautiful too that he said this at such a time. He was in the deepest desolation and distress. Not one friend was left to him among men, and God Himself was striking him. In his circumstances, how like Christ he was, up to a point! How unlike Him in steadily acknowledging God's holiness, free from hardness and free from complaining! Still, here we have a blessed confession, and all the more so because of the gloom, pain, and desertion in which he spoke it.

William Kelly

Summary

- Closer and closer. Job names the losses in order of nearness: brothers, then acquaintances, then relatives, then his closest friends. Each step hurts more than the last.

- Wrongly traced. Job read every departure as God sending troops against him. Commentators say he was wrong. God allowed the trouble, but the people left on their own, and Satan was behind it.

- Nothing left. His household, his servants and even his wife pull away from him. Worst of all, he could not turn to God for comfort either.

- Wrongly given. Grieving a person God is disciplining does not prove you are right. God's hand on a sufferer is a reason to pity him, not to leave him.

- Still a Redeemer. Job had no friend left, and God seemed to be striking him. From that empty place he says he knows his Redeemer lives. The gloom is what makes the words shine.

Job 19:15

The sojourners in my house and my maids count me as a stranger; I am an alien in their sight.

Job has lost his wealth, his children and his health. Now he answers his friend Bildad by naming everyone who has walked away — brothers, relatives, close friends, and at last the people under his own roof. The strange thing is where he lays the blame: not on them, but on God.

Who the verse is describing

One writer traces the widening circle of desertion in verses 12–15:

Job's brothers had removed themselves from him, and Job blamed God for this. His acquaintances, relatives and close friends had distanced themselves from him (vv.12-14). Even those living in his own house, including maid servants, acted toward him as though he had been a stranger, a foreigner not to be considered (v.15).

Leslie M. Grant

The shame goes deeper than being ignored:

His own slaves look at him as a stranger. He has to beg his own servant over and over before the man will even answer him.

Samuel Ridout

Job traces it all to God's hand

Job does not blame bad luck. He says God did it. One writer marks the exact point where Job goes wrong:

"He breaks me down on every side, and I am gone, and my hope He has pulled up like a tree. He has kindled His wrath against me …" — there he was wrong — "and counts me as His adversary… He has put my brothers far from me, and those who knew me are wholly estranged from me." You know what that does to the heart, if you have ever tasted it.

William Kelly

There is honesty in this. His friends said God was against Job. Job does not dodge it — he says it himself, and in more detail than they did.

Did they say that God was against Job? "God has overthrown me," he admits. If it was any comfort to them to know it, he confesses that his trouble came from God's hand… He himself, not they, points to how completely he was deserted — by his wife, his brothers, his servants, his whole household.

William Kelly

Every prop taken away

One writer sees love and wisdom behind this stripping, not cruelty:

We can be sure that divine love, as well as divine wisdom, put this afflicted child of God through fresh attacks from Satan… Every prop is to be removed and every joy on earth taken away. Still Job will hold fast to the God he has trusted, even if only dimly. And through the very trials he must pass through, Job will learn the greatest lesson of all, for all eternity: that God is all in all. As a step to that knowledge, he will see that he is nothing.

Samuel Ridout

The false props we lean on

One writer, thinking of Job's furnace, describes what a person finds out about himself:

When the soul turns to seek His face, and Him only as our goal and object, we discover with amazement how many false props we have had. We see how often we have been leaning on the love and approval of others, and not on a Father's love alone.

G. V. Wigram

Not everyone left

The verse lists who left. It is worth remembering who came: Job's three friends travelled to him when no one else would.

They came to Job when everyone had deserted him. Children mocked him, young men pushed his feet aside, his relatives failed him, his closest friends forgot him, his servants gave him no answer, and his wife refused him… And they did go. They sat with him in his place of ashes and broken pottery for seven days.

J. G. Bellett

Out of this darkness comes the Redeemer

Ten verses later Job says the words the book is remembered for. This abandonment is their setting:

"I know that my Redeemer lives, and at the last He will stand upon the earth." It was beautiful at such a time, in the deepest desolation and distress, with not one friend left among men, and God Himself striking him. How like Christ he is, up to a point, in his circumstances! How little like Him in that steady acknowledgment of God's holiness, which is as free from hardness as it is from complaining!

William Kelly

Summary

- Stranger at home. The people in Job's own house now treat him as a foreigner. He has to beg his own servant for an answer.

- Stripped on purpose. Divine love and wisdom remove every prop, so Job learns that God is all in all — and that he himself is nothing.

- False props exposed. The loss uncovers how much we lean on the approval of others instead of on a Father's love alone.

- Read wrong. Job is right that the blow comes from God's hand. He is wrong to read it as God's wrath against an enemy.

- Redeemer found. In that same desolation, with not one friend left, Job says he knows his Redeemer lives. The darkest hour holds the brightest confession.

Job 19:16

I called my servant, and he answered not; I entreated him with my mouth.

Job has lost his wealth, his children and his health. In this reply to Bildad he counts up everyone who has left him — brothers, friends, relatives, household staff, even his wife. Verse 16 catches one small, sharp detail in that list: the master calls his own servant, gets silence, and has to beg.

The servant who will not answer

The verse turns on a reversal of roles. Job must beg the man who should come at a word, and his own staff treat him as an outsider.

Turning to man, Job sees the same injustice, which by implication comes from God. It is His troops who besiege him. His own brothers have forsaken him; his relatives have forgotten him. His own slaves look on him as a stranger, and even to his own servant he has to keep pleading before he will be heard. Worst of all, the wife he loves recoils from the foul smell of his body. Boys mock him, friends detest him.

Samuel Ridout

Why they pulled away

Job's illness made him hard to be near. His own household drew back from him, not just the servants.

At least Job's three friends did sit with him and listened to him. But his servants would not even answer when he called. His breath was offensive to his wife, which was no doubt literally true. His wife was clearly no help to him in his sufferings (vv. 16-17)... We can understand what children would feel on seeing him sitting in an ash heap covered with sores. Yet Job felt them shrinking back from him, in contrast to their former respect.

Leslie M. Grant

Job traces the silence to God

Job does not blame the servant. He traces every loss to one hand — and says that hand would not answer him either.

It was He who refused to listen to Job's cry and gave no ear to his appeals. And not only this: it was He who embittered his social circle and the privacy of home. He removed his brothers, estranged his acquaintances, made his relatives fail and his close friends forget him. His guests and his maid counted him a stranger, an alien. Job called his servant in vain, though he begged him humbly. Job was an object of disgust to his wife, even when he was longing after those nearest to him.

William Kelly

He says it himself

The friends never had to drag this admission out of Job. He names each loss himself, and says openly that God is behind it.

Did they say that God was against Job? "God has overthrown me," he acknowledges... He himself points to his universal desertion, not they. His wife, his brothers, his servants, his household all left him. Even youngsters treated him with contempt. Those who once respected him had now all deserted him.

William Kelly

Kelly weighs what that boldness was worth:

And this, as far as it goes, could not have been without real faith, though it was far below the meek submission of our blessed Lord.

William Kelly

The call that is answered

A few verses later, the man nobody will answer speaks of a Redeemer who lives.

Then, in the middle of these laments, he speaks magnificent words of faith. He says, "I know that my Redeemer lives." But this was the very God whom he had just been charging with injustice! How good it is to see Job's faith in all this turmoil turning to the very One he was speaking against! Truly these — not his own protests of innocence — are the words worth carving into lasting rock.

Samuel Ridout

What Job still waited for is already done:

Here, then, we have a glimpse of the blessed Lord whom we know. He is not One who is yet to arise. He has already triumphed over death and the grave. He has vindicated us — not from attacks on some imagined righteousness of ours, but from sins of the deepest kind. He has enabled us to say, "Who shall bring any charge against God's elect?"

Samuel Ridout

Summary

- Called. The master of the house calls one servant and gets silence. He must beg for an answer, while his own staff treat him as a stranger.

- Repelled. His illness drove people back. His breath sickened his wife, and children shrank from the man on the ash heap.

- Attributed. Job does not stop at the servant. He says God Himself refused to hear his cry and embittered even the privacy of his home.

- Confessed. Job names every deserter himself; his accusers never had to force it out of him. That honesty shows real faith, though it falls short of Christ's submission.

- Answered. The lips that got no answer say, "I know that my Redeemer lives." His faith turns to the very One he had been accusing. Those are the words worth carving in rock.

Job 19:17

My breath is strange to my wife, and my entreaties to the children of my [mother's] womb.

Job has already lost his property, his health, and the sympathy of his friends. Now the loss reaches inside his own home, where his wife cannot bear to be near him and his own family turns away.

What the Words Describe

One writer takes the complaint literally. He also answers a question the wording raises: Job's sons and daughters had already died, so who are these children?

His breath was offensive to his wife, which was no doubt literally true. His wife was evidently no help to him in his sufferings (vv. 16-17). He also says, "I am repulsive to the children of my own body. Even young children despise me." Of course he was not speaking of his sons and daughters, who had already been taken in death, so it is likely his grandchildren he speaks of. We can understand what children would feel on seeing him sitting in an ash heap covered with sore boils, yet Job felt them recoiling from him, in contrast to their former respect for him.

Leslie M. Grant

The wording quoted here, "the children of my own body," comes from an older translation. The ESV reads "the children of my own mother" — that is, Job's brothers. Either way, his own blood relatives pull back from him.

Desertion That Moves Inward

Job lists his losses in order, and the circle tightens as he goes: relatives, then houseguests, then servants, then his wife. He was still reaching out to them as they pulled away.

His brothers were put far from him. His acquaintances turned cold. His relatives failed him, and his close friends forgot him. The guests in his house and his maid counted him a stranger, an alien. He called his servant in vain, though he begged him humbly. He was an object of disgust to his wife, even while he was yearning after those nearest to him.

William Kelly

Another writer puts the wife's disgust at the very worst of it:

Worst of all, his own wife recoils from the foul smell of his body. Boys mock him, friends hate him. It is a dreadful picture of a horrible disease, and sad beyond words when we remember that he could not turn to God for comfort.

Samuel Ridout

Who Job Blames

Job traces every one of these desertions back to God. Commentators differ on whether he was right. One notes that Job himself, not his friends, names God as the source:

Did they say that God was against Job? "God has overthrown me," he acknowledges. If it was any comfort to them to know it, he confesses that his trouble came from His hand... It is Job himself, not his friends, who points to his complete desertion: his wife, his brothers, his servants, his household. Even youngsters treated him with contempt. Those who once respected him had all now abandoned him.

William Kelly

Another explains why the people around Job turned on him, and judges that Job blamed the wrong hand:

People generally live by a legal principle, so it is understandable that they took the same attitude toward Job as his friends did. Job's brothers had removed themselves from him, and Job blamed God for this. His acquaintances, relatives and close friends had distanced themselves from him. Even those living in his own house, including maidservants, treated him as though he were a stranger, a foreigner not worth considering... Of course Job's guess was wrong. God did not move these people against him, though no doubt Satan did.

Leslie M. Grant

A Picture Of The World As It Is

Job's household is small. What happens inside it is what happens everywhere when trouble strikes.

There is a little reality, a little of the "friend in need" who "is a friend indeed," but there is a great deal of scorn and desertion in the hour of calamity, still so well known in the world. Job has three friends who sit with him among his ashes and broken pottery, but everyone else sees him only from a distance. Is not all this "the present evil world" drawn to the life?

J. G. Bellett

Where The Emptiness Leads

With nothing left, Job begs his friends for pity. They answer with suspicion, and out of that moment comes his great statement of faith.

How pitiable! He had come down very low to ask his dear friends to have pity. All they gave him was ugly suspicion, and it wounded him deeply... "For I know that my Redeemer lives, and at the last He will stand upon the earth." This is a most wonderful expression of faith.

William Kelly

Summary

- Literal. His wife's disgust is physical, not poetic. The disease has made Job's own breath hard for her to bear.

- Inward. The desertion moves inward — brothers, acquaintances, servants, wife. The closest tie fails last, and hurts most.

- Disputed. Job lays every desertion at God's door. Commentators differ: is this real faith, or a wrong guess about who was moving these people?

- Ordinary. What happens in Job's house still happens in the world. Trouble brings a little true friendship, and a great deal of scorn.

- Upward. Friends gave suspicion instead of pity. From that lowest point comes his confidence: his Redeemer lives, and He will stand on the earth at the last.

Job 19:18

Even young children despise me; I rise up, and they speak against me.

Job has traced his ruin to God's own hand, and now he counts the cost among people — his brothers, his servants, his wife, and last of all the children who once looked up to him. Why did the smallest people deal the deepest wound?

The last of the desertions

Job's losses come in order, from his own brothers down to the children. One writer lists the whole fall in a single breath:

It was He who embittered his social circle and the privacy of home. He removed his brothers and estranged his acquaintances; his relatives failed him, his close friends forgot him. The guests in his house and his maid counted him a stranger, a foreigner. He called his servant in vain, though he begged him humbly. His wife found him disgusting, even while he longed for those nearest to him. The very youngsters despised him. If he stood up, they spoke at him instead of showing respect. All his close friends loathed him, and those he loved turned against him.

William Kelly

Children who once showed respect

So who were these children, and why did their scorn cut so deep?

He says, "Even young children despise me." Of course he was not speaking of his sons and daughters, who had already died, so he is likely speaking of his grandchildren. We can understand how children would feel at seeing him sitting in an ash heap covered with sore boils. Yet Job felt them pulling away from him, in contrast to their former respect for him. But if he stood up, he said, they would speak against him. At least, however they felt, even young children should not be so callous as to speak against a sufferer.

Leslie M. Grant

When he stood up, respect should have followed. Instead the children spoke at him.

Job lays it at God's door

Job does not blame his neighbours for the contempt. He says God did it, and commentators read that differently. One hears faith in how bluntly he says it:

How boldly he speaks out. As far as it goes, that could not have been without real faith. Did they say that God was against Job? "God has overthrown me," he acknowledges. If it was any comfort for them to know, he confesses that his trouble came from His hand... He himself points, not they, to his universal desertion — the desertion of his wife, of his brothers, of his servants, of his household: in short, even youngsters acting contemptuously towards him. Those who once revered him had all now deserted him.

William Kelly

Another hears a man charging God with injustice, with no comfort left anywhere:

Passing to man, Job sees the same injustice, which by implication comes from God... Boys mock him, friends detest him... It is a dreadful picture of a horrible disease, sad beyond words when we remember that he could not turn to God for comfort.

Samuel Ridout

Why every prop had to go

The stripping had a purpose. One writer says Job was left with nothing to lean on so that he could learn one thing:

Every prop must go, and every joy on earth be taken away. Still Job will cling to the God he has trusted, even though dimly. And on the other hand, Job must pass through these very trials. Through them he will learn the lesson of all lessons, for all eternity — that God is all in all. As a step towards that knowledge, he will see that he is nothing.

Samuel Ridout

From total desolation to a living Redeemer

The speech that lists these humiliations does not end in them. A few lines later Job says he knows his Redeemer lives — and the place it is spoken from is what makes it remarkable:

It was beautiful too, coming at such a time. He was in the deepest desolation and distress. He had not one single friend among men, and God Himself was smiting him. How like Christ he was in his circumstances, up to a certain point! How little like Him in the steady acknowledgment of God's holiness, free from hardness and free from complaining. Still, here we have a wonderful confession, all the more so because of the gloom, pain, and desertion he spoke it in.

William Kelly

Summary

- Stripped downward. The verse is the bottom of a long fall: brothers, then relatives, then servants, then his wife, then children who once respected him.

- Stripped of respect. These are likely his grandchildren, pulling away from a man covered in sores. The sting was the change, since they had respected him before.

- Stripped by God's hand. Job traces the contempt to God, not to men. Commentators differ: some hear bold faith, others a man charging God with injustice.

- Stripped of every prop. Every prop had to go, so that Job could learn the lesson of all lessons: God is everything, and he himself is nothing.

- Stripped, then lifted. In that same speech, with not one friend left, Job says he knows his Redeemer lives. The darkness is what makes that confession shine.

Job 19:19

All my intimate friends abhor me, and they whom I loved are turned against me.

Job says this at the lowest point of his reply to his friend Bildad. Family, servants and even the children in his house had turned away — so who is behind such loss, and what does a man have left?

What the Desertion Looked Like

The verse is the last line of a long list. One writer walks through it, tracing every loss to God's hand. The circle shrinks inward: the wider family, then the household staff, then his wife, and last of all his closest friends.

It was God who embittered his social circle, and the privacy of his home. His brothers were put far away, his acquaintances estranged, his relatives failed, his close friends forgetful. The guests of his house and his maid counted him a stranger, an outsider. He called his servant in vain, though he begged him humbly. He was an object of disgust to his wife... The very youngsters despised him. If he rose, they spoke at him instead of showing any respect. All his closest friends loathed him, and those he loved turned against him.

William Kelly

The Cruelty of Friends Who Do Not Feel It

Job's three friends were still there with him. What they never did was weigh the cost of what he described.

Anyone who has been through such rejection is bound to feel the pain of it. Yet Job's friends do not seem to have even considered how deeply this must have hurt Job.

Leslie M. Grant

Job Blames God for It

Job does not put his abandonment down to bad luck. He blames God, and pictures God's troops laying siege to him. One writer gives a different account of why people pulled away.

Since people generally live by a legal principle, it is understandable that they had the same attitude toward Job as his friends did. But Job counted them as God's troops come together, "building roads" against him. Of course Job's guess was wrong. God did not move these people against him, though no doubt Satan did. Job's brothers had removed themselves from him, and Job blamed God for this.

Leslie M. Grant

Notice also who raises the subject. His friends had not thrown his isolation in his face; he brought it up himself.

He himself points, not they, to his complete desertion: his wife, his brothers, his servants, his whole household, and even youngsters treating him with contempt. Those who once respected him had all now deserted him. So complete, and so sudden, was Job's fall... It was the painful truth, and he admits it all.

William Kelly

Job Set Beside Christ

A line like this can sound like Christ — an innocent man loathed by those closest to him. One writer says the likeness is really a contrast.

Job's words may often seem to come close to the words of Christ in the Psalms. But they really stand in contrast with His perfection. For He always remained in the love of His Father. He never failed to justify His God, even when abandoned by Him on the cross. Job was never abandoned like that, and neither was any other servant of God who ever lived. So Job stands as the instructive foil to Christ. We cannot rely on the old and modern writers who agree in saying that Job was a picture of Christ as the Victim or the undeserving Sufferer.

William Kelly

What Comes Next

This verse sits in the part of the chapter given to human scorn. It is not the end of Job's answer. A few verses later the same crushed man rises into words of faith.

He boldly charges God with having wronged him. He is the object of divine cruelty and of human scorn. And yet it is wonderful to see the poor crushed spirit rise from the dust in those words of faith and hope, "I know that my Redeemer lives." ... (3) The scorn of man (vv. 12-20). (4) The plea for pity (vv. 21-24). (5) The triumph of faith (vv. 25-27).

Samuel Ridout

Summary

- Scorn. The verse closes a run of verses on human contempt. Brothers, relatives, servants, wife and children pull away, and last of all his closest friends.

- Silence. His three friends stayed and talked. They never weighed how much such rejection hurts.

- Misreading. Job traces the whole desertion to God's hand. One writer answers that God did not move these people against him, though Satan did.

- Contrast. Job's words sound like Christ's words in the Psalms. Yet one writer reads him as a foil, not a portrait: Christ justified God even when abandoned; Job charged God with wrong.

- Turn. From this lowest point — scorn, then a plea for pity — comes the triumph of faith: "I know that my Redeemer lives."

Job 19:20

My bones cleave to my skin and to my flesh, and I am escaped with the skin of my teeth.

Loss and disease have battered Job, and his three visitors suspect him of hidden sin. He ends a long account of his misery with a picture of his own body — words that became one of the best-known sayings in English, though few now know what he meant.

Where the verse falls in Job's reply

This is the closing note of a section, not a stray complaint. One writer reads the whole chapter as a six-part answer to Bildad, with verse 20 at the end of the third part. He also notes what rises out of the misery only a few verses later:

However deeply Bildad's cruel words hurt him, Job's reply shows not the slightest sense of the guilt laid at his door… And it is wonderful to see this crushed spirit rise from the dust in those words of faith and hope, "I know that my Redeemer lives."… (1) Reproach (Job 19:1-6). (2) God's hand (verses 7-11). (3) The scorn of man (verses 12-20). (4) The plea for pity (verses 21-24). (5) The triumph of faith (verses 25-27). (6) The close (verses 28, 29).

Samuel Ridout

Another writer notes what happened to those closing words afterwards:

He was an object of contempt, and everyone left him. Even his servants and his wife would have nothing to do with him. The words he used to close this account of his sorrows in verse 20 describe his physical state, and they have become a common saying among us.

F. B. Hole

What the words describe

The first line describes a body wasted to the bone. The second is stranger, and commentators explain it in more than one way. One writer applies it to a body eaten away until almost nothing is left:

His bones stick to his skin, and so far he has only just escaped death, as by the skin of his teeth. That is, everything is eaten away except the thin covering around the roots of his teeth. It is a dreadful picture of an awful disease. It is deeply sad when we remember that he could not turn to God for comfort.

Samuel Ridout

Another explains the phrase from the boils themselves, and warns against the popular sense:

Perhaps the expression which is most familiar to us is from chapter nineteen, verse twenty, where Job says, "I have escaped by the skin of my teeth." People sometimes use the verse for a "close shave." But what Job really meant was that he was covered with boils from head to foot. The only place with no boils was his teeth, because there was no skin there.

Truth & Testimony

A third reads it as nearness to death. Job's body was wasted away, "and he feels he has barely escaped death, as by the skin of his teeth, — a metaphor indicating the finest margin" (Leslie M. Grant).

Every loss traced to one hand

Job does not blame bad luck. He names God as the cause of everything, right down to the ruin of his body:

It was He who threw him down and caught him in a net he could not escape. It was He who refused to listen to his cry… It was He who made his circle of friends bitter, and his home life too. His brothers were taken away, his friends turned into strangers, his relatives failed him, his closest companions forgot him… All his close friends hated him, and those he loved turned against him. He himself was wasted away, escaped with nothing but the skin of his teeth.

William Kelly

But one of Job's conclusions was wrong. On the charge that God's anger burned against him, the same writer points to what Job still had to learn:

"He has stripped me of my glory, and taken the crown from my head." He felt all this very deeply. What right has any believer to a crown now?… The day when we will be crowned is the day when we have nothing but what is of Christ, with every bit of the old nature completely gone. That is where Job had much to learn. "He has also kindled His wrath against me" — there he was wrong.

William Kelly

The proverb turned into a warning

Another writer uses Job's phrase for a narrow escape of a different kind: a life saved, but spent on nothing:

Fire will test every man's work. Some are building with wood, hay, and straw, and their folly must be plain. Such material will perish in the flames: "if anyone's work is burned up, he will suffer loss, though he himself will be saved, but only as through fire." The man in this passage has a soul that is safe through the precious blood of Jesus, but he has wasted his precious life on things that perish… he escapes by the skin of his teeth. His soul saved, but all his work lost.

J. T. Mawson

Summary

- Position. Verse 20 ends Job's account of human scorn (verses 12-20). The plea for pity and the triumph of faith come next.

- Body. The first line pictures a body wasted to the bone. Commentators differ on the second: teeth stripped to their roots, skin left only there, or the narrowest escape from death.

- Bitterness. The disease is not the worst of it. Job is left by family, servants and wife, and cannot turn to God for comfort.

- Cause. Job traces his ruin to God's hand. But he reads that hand as anger, and there he was wrong.

- Warning. The proverb outlives Job. A believer can be saved and still see his life's work burned up — escaping by the skin of his teeth.