Jeremiah 20:14–18

Jeremiah 20:14

Cursed be the day wherein I was born; let not the day wherein my mother bore me be blessed!

Jeremiah has just praised the Lord, and in the next breath he wishes he had never existed. How can praise and despair come out of the same mouth?

Praise and collapse, side by side

One writer sets the two moods side by side, and then contrasts them with what marks the New Testament.

Jeremiah's praise had barely left his lips when, like Job, he curses the day he was born (v. 14). He curses the man too who brought his father the news of his birth, because he did not kill him. … This deep depression is often seen with the godly souls of the Old Testament. It stands in complete contrast with what marks the New Testament, where God is fully revealed in the Son and the believer is eternally blessed in Him. Many devout people, though, go back to the experiences of the Psalms and live there. They only rob themselves of the fullness of joy that is properly ours now in knowing the Father and the Son.

H J Vine

What crushed him

The priest Pashur had attacked Jeremiah. The curse in verse 14 is what that attack pulled out of a man who never hardened his heart.

This attack by Pashur leads Jeremiah to an unfolding of his deep inward feeling. His language is very beautiful to my mind. There was no kind of steeling his heart against the persecution. His mouth was like one of steel, no doubt. But his heart was very soft indeed, and it felt deep agony because of what he had to say against his adversary. So the very man who seemed as if nothing could bend him was in truth bound in the greatest grief before God. At last he pours it out to the Lord.

William Kelly

Another writer explains why he could not simply keep quiet.

The Lord compelled him, as it were, to bear this testimony. He does not have the willing spirit that rejoices in tribulation by the power of the Holy Spirit. They mocked him constantly. They watched for his stumbling, so he would have been glad to stay silent. But the word of the Lord was like fire in his bones… Verse 13 celebrates this deliverance. But in verses 14-18, we see how far personal grief may drive those who go through such a trial as this.

J. N. Darby

Grief for the people, not only for himself

One writer finds something under the bitterness that lifts it above self-pity.

There is this to be said about Jeremiah's outburst. It was not only because of his own sufferings as a man who had to bring a message the people refused, so that they hated the messenger. Is there not also a measure of grief over the people's stubbornness and certain doom? Like Moses before him and Paul afterwards, he longed above everything for the people's blessing. Unable to see it, he would rather not have been born. We justify none of these expressions in God's beloved servants. But they seem to stand on a higher moral level than Job does here.

Samuel Ridout

Before you judge him

Scripture records these words without approving them. Still, one writer asks us to test ourselves first.

Such was the language of the weeping prophet. It was drawn out, no doubt, by sharp rebuffs and painful disappointments in his ministry as a prophet. Still, it was the language of Jeremiah. Before we condemn him, let us see whether we could acquit ourselves any better under the same pressure.

C. H. Mackintosh

The One who never said it

Jeremiah wished himself unborn. The Lord Jesus was rejected far more, and yet He was at rest.

Jeremiah, however, stands in wonderful contrast with the blessed Lord. When most rejected, the Lord was in a certain sense most happy. The reason was that He did not seek His own things… He was here simply to magnify God. If the greatest suffering would magnify God the most, He was ready to receive it.

William Kelly

That spotless One passed through deeper sorrows, and more of them, than all His servants put together; but not one complaining word ever escaped His lips. He patiently submitted to it all, and met the darkest hour with words like these: "Shall I not drink the cup that the Father has given me?"

C. H. Mackintosh

Summary

- Pressure. Pashur's attack and constant mockery lie behind the curse. The word burned in him like fire, so he could not stay silent either.

- Softness. The man whose mouth was like steel had a very soft heart — his firmness in public came with real agony in private.

- Direction. He pours the bitterness out to the Lord, not away from Him. That is how praise in verse 13 and despair in verse 14 stand side by side.

- Motive. Under the pain there is grief for a people heading for ruin. He wanted their blessing more than his own comfort.

- Contrast. Christ bore deeper sorrow and never complained. Jeremiah's cry shows what we are, and points to the One who never spoke this way.

Jeremiah 20:15

Cursed be the man who brought tidings to my father, saying, A man child is born unto thee; making him very glad!

Pashhur the priest has just attacked Jeremiah, and the pain drives him to curse the very start of his life — even the man who carried the happy news to his father. How does a faithful prophet come to curse a moment of innocent joy, and how should we read his words?

The Blow Behind the Outburst

The curse does not come out of nowhere. It follows an attack by a priest, and that attack shows what the prophet was like inside.

This attack by Pashhur leads Jeremiah to an unfolding of his deep inward feeling. His language is very beautiful to my mind. There was no steeling of his heart against the persecution. His mouth was like steel, no doubt. But his heart was very soft indeed, and it went through deep agony because of what he had to say against his adversary. So the very man who seemed as if nothing could bend him was in truth bound in the greatest grief before God. At last he pours it out to the Lord.

William Kelly

Praise and Despair in the Same Breath

A verse earlier, Jeremiah was praising God. The change from praise to cursing came fast.

Jeremiah's praise had hardly left his lips when, like Job, he curses the day he was born (v. 14). He curses the man too who brought his father the news of his birth, because that man did not kill him. He asks, "Why did I come out from the womb to see toil and sorrow, and spend my days in shame?" (v. 18). This deep depression is often seen in godly souls of the Old Testament.

H. J. Vine

Sorrow Wider Than His Own

There may be more in these words than a man nursing his own wounds.

There is this to be said about Jeremiah's outburst. It was not only because of his own suffering as a man who had to bring a message the people refused, so that they hated the messenger. Is there not also a measure of grief over the people's stubbornness and certain doom? Like Moses before him and Paul after him, he longed above all for the people's blessing. Failing to see this, he would rather not have been born. We justify none of these expressions in God's beloved servants.

Samuel Ridout

What Was Missing

Grief drove the prophet this far for a reason, and Job went the same way.

Verse 13 celebrates this deliverance. But in verses 14-18 we see how far personal grief can drive those who go through such a trial. See the same thing in Job. It pictures the same condition: a soul tried by all the malice of Satan, without the full knowledge of grace, in the sense of its own nothingness, and in forgetfulness of self.

J. N. Darby

Treasure in an Earthen Vessel

The chapter records both his collapse and his confidence.

The rest of this section is of deep interest. Here the prophet laments his sad testimony. He shows how truly the treasure was in an earthen vessel, so that the excellence of the power might be of God and not of men. After all his inward conflicts, the result is his own fresh confidence in the Lord. Even then, the chapter (vv. 14-18) closes with cursing the day of his birth and the messenger who congratulated his father on such a child — the prophet of woe for Israel.

William Kelly

The Contrast with Christ

Both Jeremiah and Job broke into cursing. One life stands apart.

What language this is! Only think of cursing the man who brought news of his birth — cursing him because he had not killed him! All this, in both Jeremiah and Job, stands in sharp contrast with the meek and lowly Jesus of Nazareth. That spotless One passed through deeper sorrows, and more of them, than all His servants put together. Yet not one word of complaint ever escaped His lips. He submitted patiently to it all. He met the darkest hour with words like these: "Shall I not drink the cup that the Father has given me?"

C. H. Mackintosh

Before You Judge Him

The honest response to these words is not condemnation from a comfortable distance.

Such was the language of the weeping prophet. Sharp rebuffs and painful disappointments in his prophetic ministry drew it out, no doubt, but it is still the language of Jeremiah. Before we condemn him, let us see whether we could do any better under the same pressure.

C. H. Mackintosh

Summary

- Pressure: Pashhur attacked him. His mouth was like steel, but his heart was soft, and the grief came out as a curse on his birth and on the messenger.

- Gap: Praise stands in verse 13, cursing in verse 15. Grief can drive a soul that far when it lacks the full knowledge of grace.

- Love: His misery was not only about himself. Like Moses and Paul, he longed above all for the people's blessing — though no one defends the words.

- Vessel: The chapter hides nothing. The treasure sat in an earthen vessel, so the excellence of the power belongs to God and not to men.

- Christ: He bore deeper sorrow and never complained once. Before we condemn Jeremiah, let us ask whether we would do any better.

Jeremiah 20:16

And let that man be as the cities which Jehovah overthrew, and repented not; and let him hear a cry in the morning, and a shouting at noonday,

A priest of the temple where Jeremiah preached has just beaten him and locked him in the stocks. Out of that night comes his curse on the man who announced his birth. How can a faithful prophet sink this low? And why did God keep the words for us to read?

Where the words were spoken

The outburst is not abstract poetry. It follows one act of violence and one night of pain.

Jeremiah had broken the vessel in the Valley of Hinnom, in front of the elders and priests. On his return he stands again in the court of the Temple and warns the people of coming judgment. Pashur, a priest and chief officer in the house of God, hears him prophesy these things. He strikes him and puts him in the stocks at the upper gate of Benjamin. The stocks were instruments of torture. Jeremiah on this occasion has to endure them for the rest of the day and the following night. These were hours of physical and mental suffering.

Georges André

The picture behind the curse

One writer names the picture behind the curse, then asks what lies underneath it.

He curses not only the day of his birth, but the man who brought his father the news instead of slaying the child, and wishes he were overthrown like Sodom and Gomorrah. This much must be said about his outburst. It was not only his own sufferings, as a man who had to bring a message the people refused — so they hated the messenger. Was there not also grief over the people's stubbornness and certain doom? Like Moses before him and Paul after him, he longed above all for the people's blessing. Failing to see this, he would rather not have been born. We justify none of these expressions in God's beloved servants.

Samuel Ridout

What pressure can do to a faithful man

The same chapter shows a steel mouth and a soft heart.

There was no steeling of his heart against the persecution. His mouth was like steel, no doubt. But his heart was very soft indeed, and he felt deep agony over what he had to say against his adversary. So the very man who seemed as if nothing could bend him was in truth held in the greatest grief before God. At last he pours it out to the Lord.

William Kelly

Another writer measures how far such a trial can push a person.

Verse 13 celebrates this deliverance. But in verses 14-18 we see how far personal grief may drive those who go through such a trial as this. See the same thing in Job — a picture of the same condition: a soul tried by all the malice of Satan, without the full knowledge of grace.

J. N. Darby

Song and darkness, minutes apart

Verse 13 is praise. Verse 16 is a curse. Almost nothing sits between them.

Jeremiah's praise had scarcely left his lips when, like Job, he curses the day he was born… This deep depression is often seen with the godly souls of the Old Testament. It stands in complete contrast to what marks the New Testament. There we have the blessed God fully revealed in the Son, and the believer eternally blessed in Him. Many devout people, however, go back to the experiences of the Psalms and live there, only to rob themselves of the fullness of joy that is properly ours now in knowing the Father and the Son.

H J Vine

The One who never said it

One writer sets Jeremiah beside the Lord Jesus.

Jeremiah, however, is in wonderful contrast with the blessed Lord, who, when most rejected, was most happy in a certain sense. The reason was that He did not seek His own things. Instead, as He said in Spirit, "The reproaches of those who reproach you have fallen on Me." He was here only to magnify God. If the greatest suffering would magnify God the most, He was ready to receive it. He could not pray for what was worst of all. He could not wish that God would forsake Him. Such a plea was impossible.

William Kelly

Before we condemn him

The verse is not recorded so that readers can stand over the prophet.

Such was the language of the weeping prophet. Sharp rebuffs and painful disappointments in his ministry drew it out of him, no doubt. But it was still the language of Jeremiah. Before we condemn him, let us see whether we could do better under the same pressure.

C. H. Mackintosh

Summary

- Pressure: The words follow a beating and a night in the stocks ordered by a priest — real torture, not a passing mood.

- Depth: The curse reaches for cities God overthrew. It shows how far personal grief can drive a faithful servant.

- Love underneath: Part of the anguish was grief over a people heading for certain judgment. No one excuses the words, but the pain behind them was not only his own.

- Contrast: The Lord Jesus, when most rejected, was most happy. He was here to magnify God, not to seek His own things.

- Ourselves: Before we condemn him, we should ask if we would do better. And we can live now in a fullness of joy Jeremiah never knew.

Jeremiah 20:17

because he slew me not from the womb. Or would that my mother had been my grave, and her womb always great [with me]!

Jeremiah's curse on his own birth closes a chapter where a priest beat him, locked him in the stocks overnight, and left him to the mockery of everyone who passed. It comes a few lines after he called others to sing to the Lord — so what do we make of a servant of God who wishes the womb had been his grave?

The blow that opened the heart

These words follow an attack on Jeremiah by a priest named Pashur. One writer sees that attack open a window into what the prophet felt.

This attack by Pashur leads Jeremiah to an unfolding of his deep inward feeling. His language is very beautiful to my mind. There was no kind of steeling his heart against the persecution. His mouth was like one of steel, no doubt. But his heart was very soft indeed, and it went through deep agony because of what he had to say against his adversary. So the very man who seemed as if nothing could bend him was in truth bound in the greatest grief before God. At last he pours it out to the Lord.

William Kelly

A collapse that comes after a song

Verses 13 and 14 sit side by side, praise and cursing. One writer traces the swing to what now filled the prophet's mind.

But his grief overwhelms him. Perhaps he thought again of all the sneers and mockeries, of all the harsh words, the unfaithful friends and the physical pain he endured. He is occupied with himself. The soul struggle begins again and ends in a near collapse. He curses, as Job did, the day in which he was born.

Arno Clemens Gaebelein

More than self-pity

The wish is extreme. Yet one commentator finds more in it than personal misery.

There is this to be said of Jeremiah's outburst. It was not only about his own sufferings, as a man who had to bring a message the people refused, so that they hated the messenger who brought it. But is there not also some measure of grief over the people's stubbornness and certain doom? Like Moses before him and Paul after him, he longed above all for the people's blessing. Failing to see this, he would rather not have been born. We justify none of these expressions in God's beloved servants, but they seem to stand on a higher moral ground than Job does here.

Samuel Ridout

What the prophet lacked

One writer names what Jeremiah did not have. He reads these closing verses as a measure of how far grief can carry a servant without it.

He was compelled, as it were, by the Lord to bear this testimony. He has not (and it is the same with the remnant) the willing spirit that rejoices in tribulation by the power of the Holy Spirit. He was the subject of constant mockery... Still, with all this fear, he also knew that Jehovah was with him... in verses 14-18 we see how far personal grief may drive people who go through a trial like this.

J. N. Darby

Another writer sees a purpose in that weakness — it showed whose power was really at work.

The rest of this section is of deep interest. There the prophet mourns over his sad testimony and shows how truly the treasure was in a clay jar, so that the greatness of the power might belong to God and not to men.

William Kelly

The contrast that measures him

Jeremiah wished himself unborn under rejection. Kelly sets him beside One who met far worse rejection.

Jeremiah, however, is in wonderful contrast with the blessed Lord, who, when most rejected, was most happy in a certain sense. The reason was that He did not seek His own things. Instead, as He said in Spirit, "The reproaches of those who reproach you have fallen on me." He was here only to magnify God. If the greatest suffering would magnify God the most, He was ready to receive it.

William Kelly

Before we judge him

One writer ends by turning the question back on the reader.

Such was the language of the weeping prophet. Sharp rebuffs and painful disappointments in his ministry drew it out, no doubt, but it is still the language of Jeremiah. Before we condemn him, let us see whether we could acquit ourselves any better under the same pressure.

C. H. Mackintosh

Summary

- Pressure. Pashur's violence did not harden Jeremiah; it opened him — a mouth like steel over a heart that felt every blow.

- Turn. The collapse came right after a song of praise, once he turned to look at himself instead of the Lord.

- Depth. His wish to have died in the womb was not only about his own pain. It was about a people whose blessing he longed for and whose doom he could not stop.

- Limit. He lacked the willing spirit that rejoices in trouble. These verses show how far grief can drive a servant left to himself.

- Contrast. Jeremiah wished himself unborn; the One most rejected stayed happy in a certain sense, because He came to magnify God and welcomed the suffering that would do it most.

Jeremiah 20:18

Wherefore came I forth from the womb to see labour and sorrow, that my days should be consumed in shame?

Chapter 20 ends with the prophet's lowest words. He has just praised the Lord for rescuing the needy. Now he wishes he had never been born — so how does a faithful servant of God end up here?

The Setting: A Hard Mouth and a Soft Heart

Pashhur the priest had attacked Jeremiah. The prophet's answer was not defiance. He poured out what he felt inside.

This attack by Pashhur leads Jeremiah to unfold his deep inward feeling. His language is very beautiful to my mind. He did not steel his heart against the persecution. His mouth was like steel, no doubt, but his heart was very soft indeed. He went through deep agony because of what he had to say against his adversary. So the very man who seemed as if nothing could bend him was in truth bound in the greatest grief before God. At last he pours it out to the Lord.

William Kelly

How Far Grief Can Drive a Servant

Two things stand side by side here. God's word burned in him, so he could not keep silent. Yet obeying it crushed him.

He was compelled, as it were, by the Lord to bear this testimony. He did not have the willing spirit that rejoices in tribulation by the power of the Holy Spirit. He was the target of constant mockery. They watched for him to stumble, so that he would gladly have been silent. But the word of the Lord was like fire in his bones… Verse 13 celebrates this deliverance. Yet verses 14–18 show how far personal grief may drive those who go through such a trial.

J. N. Darby

Not Only His Own Pain

The people refused his message, and toil and sorrow filled his days. But his grief reached wider than his own pain.

There is this to be said for Jeremiah's outburst. It was not merely because of his own sufferings as a man forced to bring a message the people refused, so that they hated the messenger. But is there not a measure of grief over the people's stubbornness and certain doom? Like Moses before him and Paul afterwards, he longed above all for the people's blessing. Failing to see this, he would rather not have been born.

Samuel Ridout

Judging the Prophet

It is easy to condemn words like these from a comfortable distance.

Such was the language of the weeping prophet. Sharp rebuffs and painful disappointments in his prophetic ministry drew it out, no doubt. But it was still the language of Jeremiah. Before we condemn him, let us see whether we could acquit ourselves any better under similar pressure.

C. H. Mackintosh

The Contrast With Christ

One commentator sets Jeremiah beside a greater sufferer.

Jeremiah, however, stands in wonderful contrast with the blessed Lord, who, when most rejected, was in a certain sense most happy. The reason was that He did not seek His own things. As He said in the Spirit, "The reproaches of those who reproach you have fallen on me." He was here only to magnify God. If the greatest suffering would magnify God most, He was ready to receive it.

William Kelly

The Path to the End

This collapse did not finish Jeremiah's ministry.

We often find this honoured servant faltering afterwards, but he still pursued the path to the end… He might curse the day he was born. He might tell the Lord that He had enticed him, and that he was mocked all day long. But his faith becomes strong again, and he says, "The Lord is with me"! Tossed and tried, opposed and persecuted, he still laboured on to the end of his long, tiring journey.

H J Vine

What Believers Have Now

One writer draws a line between the prophet's darkness and what is available to a believer today.

This deep depression is often seen in godly souls of the Old Testament. It stands in complete contrast to what marks the New Testament. There we have the blessed God fully revealed in the Son, and the believer eternally blessed in Him. Many devout people, however, go back to the experiences of the Psalms and live there. They only rob themselves of the fullness of joy that is properly ours now.

H J Vine

Summary

- Pressure. Pashhur's attack fell on a man with a mouth like steel and a very soft heart. The grief inside him poured out.

- Limit. Verses 14–18 show how far personal grief can drive a servant. God's word compelled him, and constant mockery wore him down.

- Motive. His wish never to be born was not pure self-pity. Like Moses and Paul, he longed above all for the people's blessing, and he could not bear their coming doom.

- Measure. Christ, most rejected, was in a certain sense most happy, because He was here only to magnify God. Jeremiah's words fall short of that standard. Before we condemn him, we should test ourselves by it too.

- Recovery. Faltering was not the end. His faith rallied to say "the Lord is with me," and he laboured on. And a fullness of joy is properly ours now, in complete contrast to that darkness.