These twenty years have I been with thee thy ewes and thy she-goats have not cast their young, and the rams of thy flock I have not eaten.
Laban has searched Jacob's tents for his missing gods and found nothing, and Jacob finally answers him with twenty years of accounts. The verse raises two questions: was Jacob right to defend himself, and what had God been doing through those hard years?
Jacob points to two details a careless shepherd could never claim. One writer explains what they meant in daily work.
L. M. GrantFor twenty years, he says, he has served Laban. He had so cared for the females of Laban's flock that they had not miscarried, nor had he taken any of Laban's sheep, even to eat.
Laban had sons of his own, yet Jacob did the work. The same writer asks who was profiting from it.
L. M. GrantLaban had sons who could have helped with this work, but it seems they left it to the one who could do it well. Were Laban and his sons all sharing the benefits of Jacob's work without having to work themselves? It seemed so. Employers often think they have the right to reap all the benefits that labor produces, because they put up the original capital. But God takes account of the guilt of employers who oppress their workers (James 5:4).
Jacob had kept quiet for twenty years. One writer reads both the silence and this late defence as God's hand on him.
J. G. BellettIn all this he is humbled under the mighty hand of God, as a man who would gladly remember his own past ways. And at the end of twenty years of hard work and ill treatment, he is able to testify to his faithfulness, and God Himself seems to seal that testimony.
The same writer does not overstate the change in Jacob. He marks how far the restraint went.
J. G. BellettWhile he lived in the house of Laban the Syrian, Jacob knew that he was under the mighty hand of God for correction, and he behaved that way. He did not defend himself when he was blamed. He did not fight for his rights when he was wronged and treated unjustly.
The years Jacob counts up did not simply happen to him. One writer ties them back to what Jacob had done at home.
William KellyJacob was a man of faith, but failed in spirituality, and comes under the Lord's discipline that he might bear more fruit and better. As he had cheated at home, he suffered abroad, and at the hands of his mother's brother most of all. His patience under Laban's hardhearted wrongs testifies that he bowed to God.
Another writer lists the cost item by item and gives it a name.
The Christian's FriendHe was cheated about his wife. He was wronged over his wages. He was a wanderer from his father's house and a slave to Laban. All this came because he acted deceitfully, instead of leaving God to bring the blessing about. In all of it we see real discipline for evil done.
Commentators differ on the tone of this speech. One reads the quiet years as genuine. Another hears a man claiming a righteousness he never had.
The Bible TreasuryBesides, when Jacob bargained with Laban over his pay, he took his stand on righteousness (Gen. 30:33). Had he been righteous? And now, with a bold face and big words, he asks, "What is my offense?"
One writer sets Jacob's angry complaint beside the boast of a very different servant.
The Bible TreasuryDoes Jacob scold in anger when Laban searches his belongings and fails to find his stolen gods? He says, "I have not eaten the rams of your flocks. What was torn by wild beasts I bore the loss of it myself. By day the heat consumed me, and the cold by night … and my sleep fled from my eyes … and you have changed my wages ten times." So another "I" will also boast, as if in folly. Another servant! One who served in love, for love, not money. He announced God's good news free of charge, and took no pay from anyone for shepherding the flock.
Another writer sees Jacob's long years of service as a faint picture of a greater Servant.
The Bible TreasuryHe is a picture of a servant too, in some small way not unworthy to foreshadow Him who "took the form of a servant." He submits in silence to the wrongs of a cruel master. He serves patiently and suffers without complaint. Laban changes his wages ten times, but he never answers back.
- Sown — He cheated at home, so he suffered abroad. The twenty years he counts up were the harvest of his own deceit.
- Served — He gave real, careful work: no miscarried young, nothing eaten from the flock he watched.
- Silent — God's hand was on him to correct him. So he did not defend himself when blamed, and did not fight for his rights.
- Seen — God takes account of employers who oppress the workers they profit from.
- Shadowed — A wronged, underpaid servant who never answered back points to One who took the form of a servant.
What was torn I have not brought to thee; I had to bear the loss of it of my hand hast thou required it, [whether] stolen by day or stolen by night.
Laban has caught up with Jacob, who has fled for home with his wives and flocks. Here Jacob opens twenty years of accounts, and his words show what his service cost, why God allowed it, and what kind of servant it made him.
The terms of Jacob's work were harsh. He carried every risk of the flock himself.
L. M. GrantHe had cared for the females of Laban's flock so well that they had not miscarried. He had not taken any of Laban's sheep, even to eat. If an animal was lost, whether wild animals killed it or someone stole it, Laban held Jacob accountable. Jacob had to pay for the loss. He often suffered from the heat of the day and shivered at night in the cold, unable to sleep.
These two verses are also one of Scripture's clearest windows into the trade itself.
Morrish Bible DictionaryThe difficulties and hardships of a shepherd's life in the East may be gathered from what Jacob passed through during the time he was with Laban. Gen. 31:39-40.
This anger was out of character for Jacob. When it broke out, it exposed the man he had worked for.
William KellyJacob, who did not know that anything had been stolen, broke into unusual anger with Laban. He held nothing back in exposing Laban's greed and total lack of justice, to say nothing of affection. He could well say that, but for God's over-ruling, he would have been sent away empty-handed. What could Laban reply, except that everything was his — wives, children, flock? God had no place in his thoughts, and neither had love for his daughters, or their children, or his son-in-law.
Commentators trace these years back to Jacob's own conduct. He used deceit to get the blessing instead of leaving it to God, and he received deceit in return.
The Christian's FriendHe was cheated about his wife and wronged over his wages. He was a wanderer from his father's house and a slave to Laban. All this came because he acted deceitfully, instead of leaving God to bring the blessing about. In all of it we see real discipline because of evil.
Carrying the loss month after month had an effect on Jacob. He knew whose hand was on him, and it shaped how he answered Laban.
J. G. BellettIn Jacob at Padan-aram, if I am not mistaken, we get a believer under discipline who knows he is under discipline. He understands what the moment means under God's hand. He sees that the Lord's rebuke is right, and he carries himself with meekness and watchfulness. He takes the wrongs of a harsh master in silence. He serves with patience, and suffers without complaint.
The same writer marks the limits of that restraint. It was control, not cure.
J. G. BellettWe shall find, I know, that after this Jacob is old Jacob still. The same evil that had been working in him from the beginning betrays him again. But while he was in the Syrian's house, Jacob knew that he was under the mighty hand of God for correction, and he behaved that way. He did not defend himself when he was blamed, and he did not fight for his rights when he was wronged and treated unjustly.
Some writers see Jacob's long service for a bride as a picture of Christ.
An Outline of Sound WordsLeah was bride to a man who pictured Christ as a sufferer. He gave back what he did not take away. Tireless work wore him out, and he laboured while others slept (see Gen. 31:39-40; Luke 6:12) … Jacob went for Leah and won her at the cost of hard service. She first shared his days of toil, before she shared the wealth and glory he gained.
Jacob's recital of his hardships has an echo in the New Testament, where another servant reluctantly lists what his work cost him.
The Bible TreasuryDoes Jacob complain in anger when Laban searches his belongings and does not find his stolen gods? He says he never ate Laban's rams, that he bore the loss of the animals torn by wild beasts, that drought consumed him by day and frost by night, that sleep left his eyes, and that Laban changed his wages ten times. Then another "I" also will boast as in folly. Another servant! One who served in love, for love, not money. He announced God's glad tidings free of charge, and took no pay from any man for shepherding the flock … in labour and toil; in many sleepless nights; in hunger and thirst, often without food; in cold and without clothing.
- The charge. Laban billed Jacob for every animal torn or stolen. Jacob paid for losses that were never his fault, by day and by night.
- The cause. The man who had taken his father's blessing by deceit was now cheated over his wife and his wages — discipline, not accident.
- The bearing. Under that hand Jacob served with patience, kept silent under wrongs, and did not fight for his rights. Yet the discipline only controlled the old nature; it did not cure it.
- The exposure. When Jacob does speak, he leaves Laban's greed and injustice in plain sight. Only God's over-ruling kept him from leaving empty-handed.
- The shadow. A servant worn out by toil, working while others slept, paying for what he never took. He is a faint picture of Christ, who gave back what He never took away, and of the servant who shepherded the flock for love and took no pay.
Thus it was with me in the day the heat consumed me, and the frost by night; and my sleep fled from mine eyes.
In one line, Jacob sums up twenty years with Laban: burning days, freezing nights, no sleep. Commentators read the words on three levels: the real cost of shepherding, God's discipline in Jacob's life, and a picture of Christ toiling for His bride.
The complaint is not poetry. It records what the work demanded, and what Laban demanded on top of that.
L. M. GrantHe had cared for the females of Laban's flock so well that they did not miscarry. He had not taken any of Laban's sheep, even to eat. If an animal went missing, whether wild animals killed it or someone stole it, Laban held Jacob accountable: he had to pay for the loss. He often suffered from the heat of the day. At night he shivered with cold and could not sleep.
What Jacob lived through is treated as the standard window into the trade itself:
Morrish Bible DictionaryThe difficulties and hardships of a shepherd's life in the East may be gathered from what Jacob passed through during the time he was with Laban.
The hardship was not random. Writers link it to the way Jacob had gone after the blessing.
The Christian's FriendGod deals with him in government, and measures back to him the measure he used himself. He is continually the target of similar deceit… He was cheated about his wife and wronged over his wages. He became a wanderer from his father's house and a slave to Laban. All of it came from acting deceitfully instead of leaving the fulfilment of the blessing to God. In all this we see real discipline because of evil.
The hardship is not the whole story. God settled the wages Himself, and He settled them fast.
William KellyIn about five or six years, God's providence paid Jacob the wages Laban had cheated him out of for twenty years.
Jacob served for a wife. Commentators find in that service a likeness to Christ.
J. G. BellettThe Lord Jesus personally has borne the heat of the day all alone. He had nowhere to lay His head, like Jacob — absent from His Father's house and from the place of His inheritance. He was wronged again and again in a world which, like Laban and his household, always seeks its own. Yet He endured all this, and was willing to endure all this, for the love He had for her on whom His eye had rested. It was the same with Jacob: his seven years of service seemed to him only a few days, because of his love for Rachel.
Another writer notes what made those years bearable, and how narrow the likeness is:
C KnappBut love lightened the burdens and sweetened all the bitterness of those long years… And this is the only phase of his life in which the patriarch Jacob appears to picture our Lord, "who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame." His toil ended, He has taken His seat at the right hand of the throne of God.
The lost sleep gets turned into a job description for anyone charged with caring for God's people.
G C WillisIn Hebrews 13:17 we read of the Guides — the ones who lead, as a shepherd leads and guides the flock. It tells us they "keep watch over your souls." The word "watch" means "to be sleepless," and so "to be vigilant." A good shepherd kept watch over his flock by day and by night, like the shepherds of Bethlehem, or Jacob, who could say, "by day the heat consumed me, and the cold by night, and my sleep fled from my eyes." So should the true overseer watch, by day and by night, over the flock of God.
- Cost. Heat, cold, no sleep, and paying for every animal lost. That was the price of keeping another man's flock.
- Correction. The man who deceived others was deceived in turn. The hardship was discipline, measured back to him in his own measure.
- Compensation. God kept the account. In five or six years He restored what twenty years of cheating had stolen.
- Christ. Jacob's toil for a wife is the one place his life pictures the Lord. He bore the heat alone for love of His bride.
- Calling. The sleepless shepherd becomes the pattern: those who care for God's people are to keep watch by day and by night.
I have been these twenty years in thy house I have served thee fourteen years for thy two daughters, and six years for thy flock; and thou hast changed my wages ten times.
Jacob reads out his twenty-year account to Laban's face: fourteen years for two daughters, six for the flock, and wages changed again and again. Why did God let this go on so long? And what part did Jacob play in his own hard bargain?
The verse is Jacob's own arithmetic. Laban never denied a single figure of it.
L. M. GrantHe stresses that he had served Laban fourteen years for his two daughters. Of course he had willingly offered to work seven years for Rachel, but had been deceived. Then he had worked six years to gain the large flock he now had. But more: he affirms that Laban had changed his wages ten times (v. 41). This must have been true, or Laban would have denied it. It does show the manipulating character of Laban. He was not at all behind Jacob in this trickery.
Jacob had won his father's blessing by deceit at home. The twenty years abroad answered that.
F. B. HoleGenesis 29, 30 and 31 record the years of Jacob's stay in Haran. Those years turned into a duel of diplomacy between Jacob and Laban his uncle. Under the government of God, Jacob found himself in the hands of a man even more selfish than himself. God's discipline fitted his case remarkably well in the matter of his marriage. Laban deceived him about his two daughters, just as Isaac's two sons had deceived Isaac.
The changed wages were not the whole return on what Jacob had planted; the crop kept coming in long after he left Laban's house.
G. C. WillisJacob deceived his old father and stole his brother's birthright. That was bad sowing, but he did not expect the harvest he received. Laban deceived him about his wife, and he had to work another seven years to win her. That was not all the harvest. Laban changed his wages ten times to cheat him. He had twenty years of bitter labour in Syria. Then his own sons deceived him about Joseph. He spent twenty-two years in bitter sorrow, mourning him as dead.
Jacob did not only suffer wrong. He had schemes of his own, and one writer draws the practical lesson.
F. B. HoleWe have no need or right to fall back on plans of our own, as if we could help God achieve His purpose. If, on the other hand, God instructs us by His word to act, it is our duty and our wisdom to do as He says. Jacob asserted that Laban had changed his wages ten times. If that was true, it was great provocation. But relying on God would have saved him from actions that are also open to question.
Not everything in those twenty years was failure. One writer sees something excellent in how Jacob took the wrong.
J. G. BellettBut in much of his behaviour during the twenty years he spent with Laban, we see what was excellent in him. Anyone whose mind is right towards God at all must feel the force of knowing that we are under the hand of God for correction... Here we get a saint under discipline who knows he is under discipline. He understands well what the moment means under God's hand, and that the Lord's rebuke is right. He carries himself meekly and watchfully. He takes the wrongs of a harmful master in silence. He serves patiently and suffers without complaint. His wages were changed ten times, but he does not answer back.
Those twenty years were an exile, and one writer finds a wider picture in them.
Arno Clemens GaebeleinThe Lord brought him to Padan-aram, where he was to dwell as an exile for twenty years. During these twenty years the Lord did not show Himself to him. In the same way, Israel scattered among the nations hears nothing from the Lord.
Jacob's long years of service for the woman he loved also point forward.
J. G. BellettHere we find the one who was to own and enjoy her, travelling and toiling for her... He has Himself gone into the distant land. There He laboured, and there He bore reproach and wrong for her. In all this, Jacob sets forth the true Bridegroom. The Lord Jesus Himself has borne the heat of the day all alone. He had nowhere to lay His head, like Jacob. He was away from His Father's house and from the place of His inheritance. The world wronged Him again and again, for like Laban and his house it always seeks its own.
- Sowing. Jacob's deceit at home came back to him abroad, and the harvest was larger and longer than the seed.
- Government. God placed him under a man more selfish than himself. The correction fitted the wrong exactly.
- Wages. The ten changes were real provocation. But Jacob's own schemes were open to question too. Trusting God would have spared him them.
- Patience. He knew he was under God's hand. His wages changed ten times, and he did not answer back.
- Silence. Twenty years passed with no word from God, as with Israel scattered among the nations. Yet the servant toiling in a far country for his bride points on to Christ.