And Man said, The woman, whom thou hast given [to be] with me, she gave me of the tree, and I ate.
God asks a plain question, and Adam answers with an accusation. His reply names the woman, and behind her the One who gave her.
Adam admits that he ate. He will not own the sin as his own.
Self-justification is as pointless as trying to hide from God. How the mighty has fallen! The head of creation stoops, to excuse himself of his sin, and casts the fault on his wife — yes, on God Himself! How degrading evil is, once we allow it and let it rule. The hardest thing for a sinner to do is to confess his sin truly and thoroughly; to judge oneself is only the fruit of grace through faith. A bad conscience dreads God and the consequences too much to confess, while it knows its sin too well to deny it.
Every fact in Adam's sentence is true. That is what makes it so slippery.
It is hard to imagine anything lower, or more insolent, than the man's answer. On the surface the words might be true; morally they were false, unworthy, irreverent, even blasphemous. Sin had debased Adam so far that he tried to excuse himself by the woman's fault, and even to throw the blame on the LORD God. The woman only pleaded the serpent's craft. Neither felt or confessed personal wrong, any more than disloyalty to God.
Adam turns God's gift into a charge against the Giver. He is still too frightened to face Him.
Along with all this cowardice there is sheer nerve. Man lays the trouble down at God's door. He says in effect, "Let God see to it; the woman is His creature, and He gave her to me." In the spirit of his mind he still says the same thing: "Let God see to it; the world is His, and He made it." A strange and horrible combination! The insolence of the heart charging God, and a cowardly conscience that cannot face Him. The sinner may talk big and make a noise. He may reason about God and his own condition, and build speeches and arguments as well as aprons. But despite everything he surrounds himself with, there he is, like Adam, ashamed of himself and afraid of God.
God does not argue with Adam's plea. He picks it up and turns it into the verdict.
There is another kind of evil in our souls — a readiness to excuse ourselves. Adam laid the blame on the woman. It was as much as saying, Why did you give me this woman? It was your gift that caused the sin. He wanted to push it away from himself, as a matter between God and the woman. It was not untrue, and yet it was as far as possible from the truth. It is the way of our guilty nature to throw onto another a sin our own will took part in. And God judged Adam out of his own mouth. The excuse he makes is the very reason for which God condemns him. "Because you have listened," and so on. Our excuses are our condemnation.
Confession was still open to Adam at that moment.
This has always been the way with the flesh once sin had entered. So Adam first makes a false excuse to cover his rebellion. Then he evades God's direct question and refuses to confess his sin. Had he confessed, it might have brought him at once into the results of grace. He was still rolling that sin as a sweet morsel under his tongue, and so he charges God with being the real cause of it, since it was He who had given the woman to be with him.
Christ also speaks of people God gave to Him. Not one of them was lost.
He revealed the secret when He said, "While I was with them in the world, I kept them in Your name: those that You gave Me I have kept, and none of them is lost" (John 17:12). It was His love and power and grace that kept them, so that a subtle enemy could not seduce them away from Him. But all this involved Him in death. He found His own where sin had left them, lying under the judgment of death, and He had to bear that judgment to set them free from it. What a contrast to Adam! As a willing partner in his wife's sin, he stood miserable and afraid before God, casting the blame on the one he ought to have kept.
- Given. God gave the woman to Adam. Sin turns the gift into an excuse and the Giver into the accused.
- Guilty. Adam's words were accurate on the surface and false underneath. He did not deny the sin; he passed it on.
- Judged. God does not debate the excuse. He convicts by it: "because you have listened" turns the plea into the verdict.
- Missed. Honest confession might have opened the door to grace right there; the excuse kept it shut.
- Kept. Adam refused to guard the one given to him. Christ says of those given to Him that He kept them all — and bore the judgment to do it.
And Jehovah Elohim said to the woman, What is this thou hast done? And the woman said, The serpent deceived me, and I ate.
God has already questioned the man; now He turns to the woman and asks what she has done. Her answer is true, and still not a confession — the way people have answered God ever since.
Religion can be kept up without ever troubling the conscience. God's question goes straight there, and He asks Cain the same thing later.
Man's religion is one of outward forms with nothing to disturb the conscience. God, beginning with the conscience, raises the question, "What have you done?" (compare Genesis 3:13; 4:10).
One writer traces both halves of her reply — an admission, then a blame — and why people still answer this way.
In turning to the woman the Lord God asked a second question as to what she had done. The first had raised the question of man's state; now the second challenges his acts. Eve admitted she had eaten of the tree but blamed the serpent. It was the same with Adam. What she said was true, for the serpent did deceive her. But she was clearly trying to shift the responsibility for the act off herself. On this point Romans 2:15 is very helpful. But we must add that sinful men always tend to "accuse" others and "excuse" themselves, unless the Spirit of God works in the conscience.
Notice what her answer leaves out.
When the LORD God asked the woman, "What is this that you have done?" her answer was not "I have sinned," or "I am guilty," but "The serpent deceived me, and I ate." So our excuses only make bad worse. God can only deal righteously with pleas so empty and unworthy. They show that unrepented sin tends to spread like gangrene, and is truly ungodliness.
Another writer sums up the gap in one line.
All this is the truth; but conscience is not before God.
Both the man and the woman admit the act. What is missing is any sorrow over what the act did to God.
They were convicted and compelled to own their respective acts of sin; but there was no true self-judgment, no grief at their dishonour of God, no horror at the evil and their own guilt. On the contrary, there was the self-justification that proves the spirit unbroken, and the shifting of the blame from one to another, and even onto God Himself.
Two New Testament passages confirm her account, and one writer measures what that fall cost.
Eve's reply to God's question describes exactly how the enemy won his victory — "The serpent deceived me." Scripture itself confirms her words in 2 Corinthians 11:3 — "the serpent deceived Eve by his cunning." And this record is true as well: she was completely deceived and fell into transgression (1 Timothy 2:14). How deep the fall! How serious the results for a creature so gifted as man was! The height of his former honour measures the depth of his fall now.
God does not argue with either plea.
The very excuse he gave was the very height of sin, and the very thing by which God condemned him. So also with the woman. Out of their own mouths were they judged. In fact, pleading temptation was only saying that they preferred their own desires to God. It was saying that they listened to the devil's word more than to God's commandments.
One writer turns the scene on the reader.
The Lord then turns to the woman, and she puts the blame on the serpent. "The serpent deceived me, and I ate." Quite true! Throw the fault off your own shoulder if you can. You will never be able to hide it from God. And you cannot escape the judgment of God, unless you are hidden in the merits of the wonderful death of the Lord Jesus Christ.
- Question — God's "What have you done?" goes straight to the conscience. The first question asked where man stood; this one asks what he did.
- Answer — Her reply is true, and Scripture later confirms it: the serpent did deceive her.
- Gap — Accuracy is not confession. She never says "I have sinned," so conscience is still not before God.
- Verdict — God does not debate the excuse. He judges them out of their own mouths, because choosing the tempter's word over His is the sin itself.
- Us — We still accuse others and excuse ourselves. No plea hides anything from God. Safety lies only in the death of the Lord Jesus Christ.