And Jacob continued his journey, and went into the land of the children of the east.
One line of travel marks a turning point. Jacob has just met God at Bethel. Now he walks east, out of the land of promise, into twenty years in a stranger's house — the hardest stretch of his life.
From this line on, everything changes for Jacob. One writer sees God at work in the hard years that follow.
Here the second period of Jacob's life begins. He is now a stranger, a servant working for wages, the victim of deceit and self-seeking on the part of Laban, his relative — and a close relative in character too. You cannot mistake the payback that runs all the way through it: the measure he used on others is measured back to him. But you also cannot miss that in the way it is handed out, God is speaking to the heart and conscience of the wanderer. There is justice in God's government, but also the correction of a holy love.
Commentators differ over the wording that opens the verse. One writer hears eagerness in it, and credits that to grace:
But he goes on. Grace sets the corrected saint on his journey, and with some eagerness too, until "he came to the land of the people of the east," until he reached Padan-aram, the place his mother's advice had sent him to — and no doubt the place God's own hand had now led him to.
Another tests the same wording against the nearest parallel in Scripture and doubts it:
Jacob, strengthened by his dream, goes on with his journey to the land of his relatives. The opening phrase is a rare one. The nearest thing to it describes the priests leaving the bed of the Jordan for Canaan (Joshua 4:18), and that does little to support the eagerness people read into it here.
One writer sees mercy in where this road leads, and a warning in who waits at the end of it.
In Genesis 29 we find Jacob taking up his journey again, and God's merciful hand shows itself at once, directing him and opening his way. God guides his steps to the very well where his uncle Laban's sheep were watered, and where he met his cousin Rachel. Laban's house gave him a warm welcome, but there he found himself in the hands of a man who matched him in trickery.
Jacob does not leave his old habits behind at Bethel. One writer sees the country ahead of him as God's answer to that.
As we have just seen, in Genesis 28 Jacob completely fails to grasp what God is really like. He meets all the rich grace of Bethel with an "if" and a poor little bargain about food and clothing. We now follow him into a scene of non-stop bargain-making. "Whatever one sows, that will he also reap." There is no escaping this. Jacob had not yet found his true level in God's presence, and so God uses circumstances to correct him and break him down.
Jacob meets Rachel at a well. Eliezer once met Rebecca the same way, on Isaac's behalf — but the two men arrive very differently.
He met Rachel at the well, among the flock, just as Eliezer met Rebecca — and Eliezer was only Isaac's representative. But Jacob was the poor man, Isaac the wealthy. Isaac could enrich Rebecca with gold earrings and bracelets, a pledge of the fine estate he had waiting for her. Jacob has only his hard work and the sweat of his face. Isaac was the son and heir; Jacob was a man who had made himself poor, and must find his own way through the wear and tear of life as best he can, with God's help. Israel served for a wife, and for a wife he kept sheep (Hosea 12:12). It was about to prove hard service. But he starts at once, and keeps at it for twenty long years.
One writer reads Jacob's own story as the outline of his nation's story.
Jacob's life divides into three parts: in the land, exiled from it at Padan-Aram, and returning again. These match, very plainly, the three great periods of Israel's national life. We know the last one only from prophecy, but we know it as surely as any history could tell us.
- Departure. The verse opens the second period of Jacob's life. He is no longer at home. He is a stranger and a servant working for wages.
- Discipline. He is a bargain-maker, and he walks into a land of bargain-makers. He gets back the measure he gave others. Yet love stands behind the correction.
- Direction. Jacob has not yet found his true level before God. God's hand still opens his way, right to the well where his family waters its sheep.
- Destitution. Eliezer brought Rebecca gold. Jacob brings nothing, and pays for his wife with twenty years of hard work.
- Design. In the land, out of the land, back to the land. Jacob's road maps the whole story of Israel, and the return is still to come.
And he looked, and behold, there was a well in the fields, and behold there, three flocks of sheep were lying by it; for out of that well they watered the flocks, and a great stone was at the mouth of the well.
Jacob has left home with nothing but a promise, and his first stop in the land of the east decides the rest of his life. Commentators read the scene on two levels: God steering a fugitive to the spot he needs, and a picture of blessing held back until the right moment.
Jacob does not search for his relatives. He simply looks up, and the place he has stopped at turns out to be the family's watering place.
In Genesis 29 Jacob takes up his journey again, and the merciful hand of God shows itself at once, directing him and opening his way. God guides his steps to the very well that watered the sheep of his uncle Laban. There he met his cousin Rachel.
Notice what is missing: no prayer, no name of God, no sign that Jacob asked for direction. One writer compares him with Eliezer, the servant Abraham sent to find Isaac's wife.
Here, as usual, Jacob is under God's providential care, even though we hear only of the shepherds of Haran. Rachel appears, and Laban follows. This is His sure direction, unseen and unnamed. Yet we may note the difference from Eliezer's clear prayer of faith and immediate worship in Genesis 24, and from God's prompt answer.
The plain facts come first. This is ordinary shepherding life.
A well was of course the most likely place to meet people. Three flocks of sheep were nearby, waiting for water. They could not drink until someone removed the huge stone from the mouth of the well. The stone was plainly needed to stop people or animals from falling in by accident. Their practice was to wait until all the flocks had gathered. Then the shepherds would roll the stone away, water the flocks, and put the stone back in its place.
The water is there, but the stone keeps the thirsty sheep from it. One writer reads that stone as what stands between people and what God gives.
The principle that stands out is this: the stone is the law. It holds back the blessing that man is going to receive from God, and that alone keeps back what God has to give. Man feels he deserves something as long as he tries hard enough. But the stone still lies on top of the well, keeping the water from coming out.
One writer sees the three flocks, and the rule that none drank until all had gathered, as a picture of a wider blessing to come.
Take up again the view of Jacob as a picture of Christ in His earthly character. He comes to the people of the East, where three flocks wait around a well that is still closed. When it is "high day" he opens the well and waters the waiting sheep. "When all the flocks were gathered there" — Jew, Gentile, and Church of God: at least these three plainly stand out for special recognition and favour.
Jacob does not wait for the other shepherds. Commentators differ on whether that early move is admirable or rash. One takes it as a picture of how God works in the present time:
What a striking lesson this is! The energy of faith and love can remove great obstacles and bring blessing before the time of "restoring all things." We see this in the present age of the grace of God… So the church has been wonderfully blessed before the time of the worldwide blessing.
Another sees a man acting out of turn. This writer sets him beside two who waited: Abraham's servant, and Christ Himself.
Jacob — faulty, foolish, failing — takes on this mighty work without knowing what he does. He lifts it off the ground of grace and lays it on the shoulders of his own faithfulness! Look at him, in unwise haste, while it is still high day and the flocks not yet gathered, rolling the stone from the well's mouth and watering Laban's sheep. Abraham's servant did not act like that. He waited and prayed and wondered in silence, and let the young woman hurry and run and draw water for him and for all his camels. Nor did the meek and lowly One act like that. In tender grace and patient long-suffering He refused to fulfil a single wish — as Messiah, Son of Man, or Head of all things, with His bride the church — until the due time came and the Father's will required it.
- The well — God brought a running fugitive to the spot he needed. No one asked Him, and no one named Him, yet He guided.
- The stone — the water was already there. Only a stone over the mouth kept the flocks from it — read as the law holding back what God gives.
- The waiting — nobody drank until all the flocks had gathered — a picture of a wider day of blessing still ahead for Jew, Gentile, and the Church of God.
- The strength — love moved what the shepherds waited to move together, and blessing came before the appointed hour.
- The caution — commentators differ. Some see faith and love removing obstacles. Others see haste — unlike Abraham's servant, who waited and prayed, and unlike Christ, who waited for the Father's time.
And when all the flocks were gathered there, they rolled the stone from the mouth of the well, and watered the sheep, and put the stone again on the mouth of the well in its place.
Jacob comes to a well in open country, where three flocks wait beside a stone that seals it. Verse 3 pauses to explain the local rule: no flock drinks until every flock arrives.
The verse first describes ordinary working life. One writer explains why a stone sat there at all, and what the shepherds did with it:
The stone was clearly needed to stop people or animals from falling into the well by accident. Their practice was to wait until all the flocks were gathered. Then the shepherds would roll the stone away, water the flocks, and put the stone back in its place.
Notice the last step. The stone goes back, so the well is sealed again until the next gathering. The water was there the whole time, yet every flock stayed thirsty until the last one arrived.
The delay puzzled Jacob, and the shepherds' answer points beyond the well:
Jacob was puzzled that the shepherds were still waiting to water their flock. They tell him they could not do this until enough shepherds arrived to roll the stone from the well's mouth. When all were gathered there they would do it and water the sheep. There is a picture in this of people waiting for the time of universal blessing, which will take place in the millennial age.
One writer treats the number of flocks as more than a stray detail. He links their gathering to a promise in Isaiah that names three peoples together:
Take up again the view of Jacob as a picture of Christ in His character on earth. He comes to the people of the East, where three flocks are waiting around a well that is still closed. When it is "high day" he opens the well and supplies the waiting sheep. Isaiah prophesies of the future time when "Israel will be the third with Egypt and Assyria… whom the LORD of hosts has blessed, saying, Blessed be Egypt my people, and Assyria the work of my hands, and Israel my inheritance." "And when all the flocks were gathered there" — Jew, Gentile, and Church of God. At least these three nations stand out for special recognition and favour.
One writer identifies the stone with the law, and points to a second stone sealing a grave:
The principle that stands out is this: the stone is the law. It holds back the blessing that man is going to receive from God, and it alone keeps back what God has to give. Man feels he deserves something so long as he tries hard enough. But the stone still sits on top of the well, and it keeps the water from coming out. The same thing appears in the stone on the grave of Lazarus (John 11:39-40).
Verse 3 sets the rule that Jacob then breaks. Commentators differ on whether that was faith or folly. One sees blessing arriving ahead of schedule:
What a striking lesson this is! The energy of faith and love can remove great obstacles and bring blessing before the time of "the restoring of all things." This is what we see in the present "dispensation of the grace of God."
Another reads the same act as a man forcing God's timetable and shouldering a work that was never his to carry:
Without knowing it, faulty, foolish, failing Jacob takes on this mighty work. He moves it off the ground of grace and places it on the shoulders of his own faithfulness. Look at him! In unwise haste, while it is still high day and the flocks are not yet gathered, he rolls the stone from the well's mouth and waters Laban's sheep!
- Stone — A heavy cover kept anyone from falling in. It also kept everyone from drinking. The water was there, but sealed.
- Waiting — No flock drank until every flock came. Writers read this as a picture of people waiting for the time of universal blessing.
- Gathering — Writers have linked the three flocks to Egypt, Assyria and Israel: Jew, Gentile and Church of God, all named for blessing.
- Removal — One reading makes the stone the law: as long as it sits there, man's effort cannot get the water out.
- Water — Commentators differ on what follows. Some see love's energy lifting the stone early, so blessing flows now. Others see Jacob in unwise haste, moving off grace onto his own faithfulness.
And Jacob said to them, My brethren, whence are ye? And they said, Of Haran are we.
Jacob has fled his brother's anger and travelled far east, and his first words on arrival are a question to strangers at a well. Their one-word answer, Haran, tells him he has landed in the one town he needed — so who steered him there?
The name in their reply carried a long family history, and the town's position made it a natural stop for travellers:
This was an ancient city in Mesopotamia. Terah and his family moved there from Ur of the Chaldeans. Abraham stayed there on his way to the land of Canaan, until his father died. The descendants of Nahor, Abraham's brother, also settled there, so people called it the "city of Nahor." Gen. 24:10... The name means "road" in Accadian. It was probably so called because the caravan routes of Syria, Assyria, and Babylonia crossed there.
One question to a group of shepherds settled where he was and who lived nearby:
By questioning the shepherds, Jacob finds that he has come to the right place. Their home was at Haran. They knew Laban also, and that he was well (vv. 5-6). More than this, at the very moment Laban's daughter Rachel was coming with her flock of sheep to the well.
The meeting looks like luck. Commentators see another hand in it:
In Genesis 29, we find Jacob taking up his journey again. The merciful hand of God is at once obvious, directing him and opening up his way. God guides his steps to the very well where Laban, his uncle, watered his sheep, and there he met his cousin Rachel. Laban welcomed him warmly into his house, only for Jacob to find himself in the hands of a man who was his equal in trickery.
The whole exchange stays at the human level:
We have men here, not Jehovah, or Elohim, though surely God was behind it all.
An earlier journey to the same region looked very different. There Abraham's servant Eliezer prayed in plain words and worshipped:
As so often with Jacob, he is here under God's providential care, even when we hear only of the shepherds of Haran. Then Rachel appears, and Laban follows. It is His sure but unseen and unnamed direction. Yet we may note the difference from Eliezer's clear prayer of faith and immediate worship in Gen. 24. There is a difference too in God's prompt answer, and in the bride's ready response. She set out to join a man she had never seen but trusted, and for him she left all her existing family ties.
He is not there on an errand. He is there because of what he did to Esau:
We are now called to follow Jacob as he moves out from under his father's roof. We see him as a homeless and lonely wanderer on the earth. It is here that God's special dealings with him begin. Jacob now begins to realise, in some measure, the bitter fruit of his conduct towards Esau. At the same time, God rises above all the weakness and folly of His servant. He displays His own sovereign grace and deep wisdom in His dealings with him.
One commentator reads the two place names of Jacob's journey as a wider picture. He also gives Haran a different meaning from the dictionary above:
Jacob goes out from Beersheba (v. 10). This is a striking picture of the nation Israel, the sons of Jacob, because Beersheba means "the well of the oath" and Haran means "mountaineer." Israel has in effect left the ground of God's unconditional promise and has chosen instead the mountain of law-keeping, as though this could ever bring the blessing of God! All the time Jacob was in Haran, he kept a character of selfish bargaining. In the same way, Israel today remains in a state of self-righteousness.
Some readers have seen Jacob's journey as a picture of Jesus Himself. One commentator finds that strange, and sets a limit on how far the picture can go:
How strange that devout eyes, in the past and in our own day, should see a picture of Jesus in Jacob's journey and arrival in Haran! They see the Son of God and Heir of all things, despised and rejected by men... Here we have a man who leaves the land of promise after the saddest failure. Yet he does not leave without blessings in grace, for in the dark night Jehovah assured him of His care. At most he pictures the earthly side of the Lord.
- Road. Haran stood where the caravan routes crossed. Abraham's relatives, the family of his brother Nahor, had settled there.
- Runaway. Jacob travels that road as a homeless wanderer. He is tasting the bitter fruit of how he treated Esau, and God's special dealings with him start here.
- Route. One question to strangers lands him at the right well at the right moment. The merciful hand of God is directing him and opening his way.
- Reserve. No name for God appears in the scene. The direction is sure, but unseen and unnamed — unlike the plain prayer and worship of Abraham's servant in Genesis 24.
- Restraint. Jacob's journey pictures the earthly side of the Lord at most. One commentator warns against loading it with more than it carries.
And he said to them, Do ye know Laban the son of Nahor? And they said, We do know [him].
Jacob has fled his home and travelled far to reach Haran. He stops at a well and asks the shepherds there about his uncle Laban. Their short answer — we know him — tells him he has come to the right place. Who brought him there?
The shepherds' reply settles Jacob's uncertainty at once. One writer reads the whole arrival as the work of a hand Jacob could not see:
In Genesis 29, Jacob takes up his journey again. The merciful hand of God is clear at once, directing him and opening up his way. God guides his steps to the very well where the sheep of his uncle Laban were watered, and where he met his cousin Rachel.
Notice also what is missing. No one at the well names God:
Jacob is here under God's providential care, even when we hear only of the shepherds of Haran. Then Rachel appears, and Laban follows. It is His sure direction, though unseen and unnamed.
Jacob is in a foreign country because of what he did at home. His treatment of Esau is what drove him out:
It is here that God's special dealings with him begin. Jacob now begins to feel, in some measure, the bitter fruit of his conduct toward Esau. At the same time we see God rising above all the weakness and folly of His servant... He might not have had to flee to Haran, had he allowed God to act for him.
Jacob calls Laban the son of Nahor, though Laban's father was Bethuel. One writer notes how Hebrew family lines often work:
Very often, those called the son of so-and-so are not necessarily his children at all. They may be his grandsons, or even his grandnephews. In other cases the head of a clan counts as the father of a generation, and all the generations in between are left out.
Nahor was Abraham's brother, so Jacob is identifying the family by its best-known head. One dictionary sums up the man behind that name:
Son of Bethuel, brother of Rebekah, and father of Leah and Rachel. His prompt hospitality towards Abraham's servant shows a heart the Lord had prepared in answer to prayer. But why he took the lead instead of Bethuel, his father, is not revealed. In his dealings with Jacob, Laban was scheming and unscrupulous. Jacob met this with craft of his own.
Laban's family was not in the same darkness as the peoples around them. One writer weighs what that meant for them:
They had been brought into a certain measure of light, and into a certain standing by profession... But since that is so, since this is a professing household, set in some sense apart from the dark state of the men of the world, it is serious to notice what kind of visit the Spirit makes to it. It will prove to be a separating power... the Spirit may need to visit a respectable professing family with the very same energy as a more worldly or idolatrous family.
This well scene recalls Genesis 24, when Eliezer came to the same family to fetch a bride. One writer marks the difference rather than the likeness:
Yet we may note the difference from Genesis 24. There Eliezer prayed a clear prayer of faith and worshipped at once. God answered him promptly. And the bride responded readily. She set out to join the man she trusted without seeing him, and she left for him all her existing ties of nature.
- Guided. God led Jacob to the exact well where Laban's flocks were watered. The scene never names Him. His care is real but unseen.
- Disciplined. He was in Haran because he had not left matters to God at home. The same God who guided him let him taste the bitter fruit of his own conduct.
- Named. "Son of Nahor" is normal Hebrew usage. A grandson or distant descendant can be called the son of the family's known head.
- Warned. The man Jacob was so glad to find proved scheming and unscrupulous. Jacob would meet craft with craft.
- Contrasted. Eliezer came to this same family with clear prayer, a quick answer, and worship. Jacob comes asking shepherds for directions. Grace works in both, but faith is not at work in the same measure.
And he said to them, Is he well? And they said, [He is] well; and behold, there comes Rachel his daughter with the sheep.
Commentary for this verse has not been generated yet.
And he said, Behold, it is yet high day; it is not time that the cattle should be gathered together; water the sheep, and go, feed [them].
Jacob has crossed the desert from Canaan and reached a well near Haran, where three flocks lie waiting in the midday heat. His first words to the shepherds tell them not to waste the daylight — which raises the question of why the sheep were waiting at all.
Jacob reaches this particular well without a map, an address, or a servant to guide him. Commentators see God's care behind the coincidence.
In Genesis 29, we find Jacob resuming his journey, and the merciful hand of God, directing him and opening up his way, is at once clear. His steps are guided to the very well where the sheep of Laban, his uncle, were watered and where he met his cousin Rachel.
The verse assumes a local custom. A heavy stone sealed the well, and one shepherd could not move it.
Three flocks of sheep were nearby, waiting to be watered. Someone first had to move a huge stone from the mouth of the well (v. 2). The stone was clearly there to stop people or animals from falling into the well. Their practice was to wait until all the flocks were gathered. Then the shepherds would roll the stone away, water the flocks, and put the stone back in place.
So Jacob's advice cuts across the arrangement the shepherds live by. Their reply in the next verse is that they cannot.
Jacob does not wait. Within a few verses he heaves the stone off himself. One writer calls this unwise haste, and sets beside Jacob two others who waited.
Look at him! In unwise haste, while it is still high day and the flocks are not yet gathered, he rolls the stone from the well's mouth and waters Laban's sheep! Abraham's servant did not act like this. He waited and prayed and wondered in silence. He let the young woman hurry and run and draw water for him to drink and for all his camels. Nor did the meek and lowly One act like this. In tender grace and patient long-suffering, He refused to fulfil a single wish until the due time and the Father's will required it. That was true in every role — as Messiah, as Son of Man, or as Head of all things with His bride, the church.
One writer takes the shepherds' rule — no water until every flock is present — as more than local custom.
Jacob was puzzled that the shepherds were still waiting to water their flock. They tell him they could not do it until enough shepherds were there to roll the stone from the well's mouth. There is a picture in this of men waiting for the time of universal blessing, which will take place in the millennial age.
Another writer presses the number three, and links Jacob's phrase about high day to the moment the well opens:
Take up again the view of Jacob as a picture of Christ in His earthly character. He comes to the people of the East, where three flocks wait around a well that is still closed. When it is "high day" he opens the well (Gen. 29:7-10), and the waiting sheep get their water. Isaiah prophesies of a future time when Israel will be third with Egypt and Assyria, and the Lord of Hosts will bless them. All the flocks were gathered there — Jew, Gentile, and Church of God.
Commentators differ over how much weight this scene can carry. One warns against turning Jacob at the well into a picture of Christ coming for the church.
How strange that devout eyes, both long ago and in our own day, should see a picture of Jesus in Jacob's journey and arrival in Haran! They see the Son of God and Heir of all things, despised and rejected by men. They see Him leaving heaven's glory to become a wanderer in the world, to work out redemption, and to join the church to Himself. Here Jacob rather stands in contrast with Isaac. Here is a man who leaves the land of promise after the saddest failure, but not without blessings in grace. He is at most a picture of the earthly side of the Lord.
The scene also carries a plain lesson for anyone who wants to help others.
It is clear that we must be near the well of life ourselves, if we want to become a channel of living water to others. What a privilege to roll away the stone from the well's mouth and water the Lord's flock when it is gathered! It means being so under the guidance of the Holy Spirit that we give out the truth at the right time.
- Waiting. Three flocks lie beside a covered well at midday, and Jacob tells the shepherds to water them and get back to grazing.
- Sealed. A heavy stone caps the well. Custom says nobody moves it until every flock has arrived.
- Impatient. One writer reads Jacob's "it is still high day" as unwise haste. Abraham's servant waited and prayed. Christ claimed nothing before the Father's time.
- Gathered. Waiting for all the flocks pictures a coming day of blessing for all. Writers read the three flocks as Jew, Gentile, and church.
- Limited. Commentators differ on how far this pictures Christ. One keeps it to earthly hopes. The practical lesson stands for everyone: stay near the well yourself if you want to water others.
And they said, We cannot until all the flocks are gathered together, and they roll the stone from the mouth of the well, and we water the sheep.
Jacob has reached Haran, where three flocks lie beside a well with a great stone over its mouth. He tells the shepherds to water the sheep, and their answer is not that they will not, but that they cannot.
One writer explains the stone and the daily routine around it:
Three flocks of sheep were nearby, waiting to be watered. They could not drink until a huge stone was moved from the mouth of the well. The stone was clearly there to stop people or animals falling in. Their practice was to wait until all the flocks had gathered. Then the shepherds would roll the stone away, water the flocks, and put the stone back in its place.
The shepherds need more hands before the stone will move. One writer sees their waiting as a picture of something still future:
Jacob was puzzled that the shepherds were still waiting to water their flock. They tell him they could not do it until enough shepherds were there to roll the stone from the well's mouth. Once all had gathered, they would roll it away and water the sheep. There is a picture in this of people waiting for the time of universal blessing, which will take place in the millennial age.
Something lies on top of the well and keeps the water covered. One writer names what it stands for:
The principle that stands out is this: the stone is the law. It holds back the blessing that man is going to receive from God, and it alone is what really keeps back what God has to give. Man feels that he deserves something as long as he tries hard enough. But the stone still lies on top of the well, stopping the water from coming out.
The same writer looks ahead to what the open well pictures:
In verses 1-14 we have a picture of the blessing still to come to all creation. The stone is rolled away from the well mouth so that water may gush out. This is the flowing out of the Spirit of God, God pouring out His Spirit on all flesh.
Verse 8 sets the rule; the next two verses break it. Jacob sees Rachel, and what took a company of shepherds he does alone:
When Jacob saw Rachel, the daughter of his mother's brother, and the sheep of his mother's brother, amazing strength came over him, and he rolled the stone away by himself. What a striking lesson this is! The energy of faith and love can remove great obstacles and bring blessing before the time of "the restoration of all things."
One writer takes the gathering of all the flocks as a blessing wider than one nation:
Taking up again the view of Jacob as a picture of Christ in his earthly character, we find him coming to the people of the East. There three flocks wait around a well that is still closed. When it is "high day" he opens the well and the waiting sheep get their water… "All the flocks were gathered there" — Jew, Gentile, and Church of God.
William Kelly points to something quieter in the scene. God is never named in the story, yet His hand is on every step of it:
Jacob is here, as always, under God's providential care, even when we hear only of the shepherds of Haran. Rachel appears, and Laban follows. It is His sure direction, though unseen and unnamed.
The picture also turns into a job description for anyone who serves God's people:
It is perfectly clear that we must be near the well of life ourselves if we want to become a channel of living water to others. What a privilege to be made able to roll away the stone from the well's mouth and to water the Lord's flock when it is gathered together — to be so guided by the Holy Spirit that we minister the truth at the right time.
- The stone. A heavy stone lay over the well for safety, and no flock drank until it was rolled away.
- The "cannot." The shepherds' rule was to wait for every flock — a picture of people waiting for the time of universal blessing.
- The obstacle. One writer reads the stone as the law — the one thing holding back what God is ready to give.
- The early blessing. Love and faith rolled that stone away ahead of schedule, bringing blessing before "the restoration of all things."
- The reach. One writer reads all the flocks gathered as Jew, Gentile and the church of God — and the whole scene as God's unseen direction.
While he was still speaking to them, Rachel came with her father's sheep, for she was a shepherdess.
Jacob has travelled alone to Haran. He stops at a well and asks the shepherds there about his relatives. Mid-question, the very person he is asking about walks into view, and the verse pauses to tell us what she does for a living.
One writer traces the timing of this meeting back to God's hand:
In Genesis 29, Jacob takes up his journey again. At once we see the merciful hand of God, directing him and opening up his way. God guides his steps to the very well where his uncle Laban's sheep were watered, and where he met his cousin Rachel.
Abraham's servant Eliezer made an earlier journey to this same region, to fetch a wife for Isaac. He asked for guidance aloud and worshipped on the spot. Here God guides in silence:
As usual, Jacob is here under God's providential care, even when we hear only of the shepherds of Haran. Rachel appears, and Laban follows. It is His sure but unseen and unnamed direction. Yet notice how different Genesis 24 is. There Eliezer prayed a clear prayer of faith and worshipped at once. God answered promptly, and the bride responded readily.
Her name fits her work. In the lists of Bible name meanings it is given plainly:
Rachel — A ewe
A shepherdess named "ewe" comes leading a small flock among larger ones. That detail carries a note of comfort:
Jacob came and asked the shepherds if they knew his brother-in-law, and they pointed out Rachel coming with her sheep to the well. It is very likely that her sheep were fewer than the number of the other sheep. We have something of the thought here: "Fear not, little flock, for it is your Father's good pleasure to give you the kingdom" (Luke 12:32).
The next verse shows what the sight of her did to Jacob:
Then Rachel arrives with her father's sheep (v. 9). When Jacob saw Rachel, his uncle's daughter, and his uncle's sheep, amazing strength moved him. He rolled the stone away by himself (v. 10). What a striking lesson this is! The energy of faith and love can remove great obstacles. It can bring blessing before the time of "the restitution of all things."
Because Jacob waters one flock ahead of the general watering, some read the scene as a picture of Christ:
He was a stranger, unknown, and seeks Rachel only — he would have her alone. As a rule, no one can water the flocks until someone opens the well. But He opens it and waters Rachel's flock. Rachel here is His Jewish flock and bride, chosen and beloved. It was His — was His flesh and bone — He was a Jew.
Commentators differ on how far to press it. Another writer accepts the picture only in part. He ties Jacob to Christ's link with Israel on earth. The picture of Christ leaving heaven for the church, he says, belongs to Isaac and Rebekah:
How strange that devout readers, both long ago and today, should see Jacob's journey and arrival in Haran as a picture of Jesus! They see the Son of God and Heir of all things, despised and rejected by men, leaving heaven's glory to become a wanderer in the world, to carry out redemption, and to marry the church to Himself. Here it pictures instead a contrast with Isaac. Isaac is the only son of his father, the dead and risen bridegroom. Eliezer's guidance fetched his bride for him, and she must pass through the desert to be His bride in the heavenly places. At most Jacob pictures the earthly side of the Lord.
Jacob arrives with nothing to offer but his hands:
His introduction to Rachel was at the well, among the flock, like that of Eliezer to Rebekah; and Eliezer was only Isaac's representative. But Jacob was the poor man, Isaac the wealthy. Isaac could enrich Rebekah with earrings and bracelets of gold, pledges of the fine estate he had for her. Jacob has only his toil and the sweat of his face. "Israel served for a wife, and for a wife he guarded sheep" (Hosea 12:12). And he was about to find it hard service. But he starts on it at once, and continues at it for twenty long years.
- Timing. Rachel arrives while Jacob is still speaking. God's merciful hand directed his steps to the one well that mattered.
- Silence. The guidance here is real but unnamed. Unlike Genesis 24, nobody prays and nobody worships.
- Smallness. She keeps her father's sheep, a lesser flock among larger ones — the little flock the Father is pleased to bless.
- Strength. Love moved one man to roll the stone away alone, and blessing came before its general time.
- Service. The poor bridegroom paid for his bride with twenty years of toil. The meeting at the well was the easy part.
And it came to pass when Jacob saw Rachel the daughter of Laban his mother's brother, and the sheep of Laban his mother's brother, that Jacob went near, and rolled the stone from the mouth of the well, and watered the sheep of Laban his mother's brother.
Jacob has reached a well outside Haran, where his mother's brother Laban lives. The moment he sees Rachel with her father's sheep, he alone rolls away the stone that usually waited for a crowd of shepherds.
God is never named in this scene, yet the meeting with Rachel is no accident. One writer traces the whole arrangement back to Him:
As usual, Jacob is here under God's providential care, even though we hear only of the shepherds of Haran. Rachel appears, and Laban follows. It is His sure but unseen and unnamed direction.
The water was there all along. One heavy stone kept it from the flocks, and one commentator makes that the point of the whole picture:
The principle that stands out is this: the stone is the law that holds back the blessing man is going to receive from God. That alone keeps back what God has to give. Man feels he deserves something as long as he tries hard enough. But the stone still lies on top of the well, stopping the water from coming out. We see the same thing in the stone on the grave of Lazarus.
Jacob did alone what took a group of men. One writer finds a lesson in what gave him that strength:
How striking a lesson this is! The energy of faith and love can remove great obstacles and bring blessing before the time for "restoring all things." This is what is seen in the present "stewardship of God's grace." The Lord Jesus, in pure love and devotion to God, has shown the strength of that love toward the church, His promised bride, and toward the sheep of God's flock. He showed it in the great sacrifice of Himself, in His resurrection power, and in already having "raised us up with him and seated us with him in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus" (Eph. 2:6).
The other flocks still lay by the well, waiting. One writer reads that waiting as a picture of the world's future:
Jacob was puzzled that the shepherds were still waiting to water their flock. They tell him they could not do it until enough shepherds were there to roll the stone from the well's mouth. When they had all gathered, they would do this and water the sheep. There is a picture in this of men waiting for the time of universal blessing.
Commentators differ here. Where one sees the energy of love, another sees a man in a hurry, doing by his own effort what belonged to God's timing:
Faulty, foolish, failing Jacob takes on this mighty work without knowing what he does. He lifts it off the ground of grace and lays it on the shoulders of his own faithfulness! Look at him, in unwise haste! It is still broad day, the flocks are not yet gathered, and he rolls the stone from the well's mouth and waters Laban's sheep. Abraham's servant did not act this way. He waited and prayed and wondered in silence. He let the young woman hurry and run and draw water for him and for all his camels. The meek and lowly One did not act this way either. In tender grace and patient long-suffering, He refused to fulfil a single wish until the due time came and the Father's will required it — as Messiah, as Son of Man, or as Head of all things with His bride the church.
The picture also turns toward the reader. One writer applies it to anyone who wants to be of use to others:
It is clear that we must be near the well of life ourselves if we want to become the channel of living water to others. What a privilege to roll away the stone from the well's mouth and water the Lord's flock when it gathers! What a privilege to be so guided by the Holy Spirit that we minister the truth at the right time.
- The well — the water was always there; the flocks were thirsty only because something lay on top of it.
- The stone — the law lies on top of the well. It holds back what God is ready to give, while people keep trying to deserve it.
- The strength — love and faith move what a crowd could not. Christ's love did this for His bride and His flock, at the cost of Himself.
- The timing — the other flocks still wait for a general day of blessing. Love waters one flock early, and that pictures grace today.
- The channel — stay near the well yourself, and you become the one who rolls the stone away for others.
And Jacob kissed Rachel, and lifted up his voice and wept.
God's care for Jacob is never announced in this chapter. It is only seen. A man on the run reaches a strange country, walks up to a well, and meets his mother's own family. His first act is a kiss and a flood of tears.
Nothing in the chapter says God arranged this meeting. One writer traces Jacob's arrival at that exact well back to God's guiding hand.
In Genesis 29, Jacob takes up his journey again, and God's merciful hand shows itself at once, directing him and opening up his way. God guides his steps to the very well where the sheep of his uncle Laban were watered, and there he met his cousin Rachel.
When Abraham's servant Eliezer went looking for a bride for Isaac, he prayed and worshipped out loud. Here the same God works, but no one names Him.
Jacob is under God's providential care here, even though we hear only of the shepherds of Haran. Rachel appears, and Laban follows. This is His sure direction, unseen and unnamed. Yet notice the difference from Genesis 24. There Eliezer prayed a clear prayer of faith and worshipped at once, and God answered promptly. The bride responded readily too: she set out to join a man she had never seen but trusted, and she left behind all her family ties.
Family ties, not friendship, explain the emotion here.
The warmth of family affection then fills the scene. Jacob kissed Rachel, weeping for joy, and told her that he is the son of Rebekah, her father's sister. Of course they had never met, but family ties can be surprisingly strong even so. Rachel left the sheep and ran to tell her father the good news of a relative from a far country.
One writer sets these tears beside the earlier story of Isaac's bride and finds something missing.
This is a touching scene, and Jacob's quick emotional outburst fits his nature, and so does Laban's. But two things are missing here: the deep communion with God… and the heart wholly taken up with the risen bridegroom's glory. In the unique story of Isaac and Rebekah both are clearly there.
Laban kisses Jacob a few verses later. Twenty years on, one kiss is missing.
Jacob loved Rachel, and he kissed her and wept aloud. Then when Laban came he kissed Jacob. Their souls were happy to be with one another. But was that the way they parted from one another? No, it was not. Later on, when they did part, Laban kissed his daughters and their children, but it does not say he kissed Jacob. Sometimes we get to know each other too well — that is, we learn where each of our difficulties lie. For if I get to know my brother very well, I get to know myself a little better too. And if my brother is wrong in various ways, this only shows me what I am myself.
One writer reads Jacob at the well as a picture of Christ. In this reading, the stranger who opens the well passes every other flock by and waters one.
He was a stranger, unknown, and He seeks Rachel only — He would have her alone. In general, no one can water the flocks until the well is opened. But He opens it and waters Rachel's flock. Rachel here is His chosen and beloved Jewish flock and bride. It was His — His own flesh and bone — He was a Jew.
Commentators differ over how far to press the picture. Kelly rejects the popular version, where Jacob's journey stands for Christ leaving heaven to win the church:
How strange that devout eyes, both long ago and today, should see Jacob's journey and arrival in Haran as a picture of Jesus… leaving heaven's glory to become a wanderer in the world, to carry out redemption, and to marry the church to Himself! Here we have a man who leaves the land of promise after the saddest failure, though not without blessings in grace… At most he pictures the earthly side of the Lord.
- Led — God steers Jacob to the exact well where Laban's sheep drank. His hand is sure, and the chapter never names Him.
- Silent — Abraham's servant prayed and worshipped out loud. Here God works unnamed while Jacob talks with shepherds.
- Warm — strangers by sight, family by blood. Jacob kisses Rachel and weeps for joy, and Rachel runs home with news of a relative from far away.
- Shallow — the outburst suits Jacob's quick nature. The deep communion with God seen in Isaac and Rebekah's story is missing here.
- Short-lived — the warmth had cooled by the parting twenty years later. Knowing another person's faults teaches you your own.
And Jacob told Rachel that he was a brother of her father, and that he was Rebecca's son; and she ran and told her father.
Jacob reaches Haran with nothing to show. All he can offer Rachel is a family name: he belongs to her father's household, and his mother is Rebekah. That name opens Laban's door. It also raises the questions this scene answers: who arranged the meeting, what welcome waits inside, and what does the picture mean?
Jacob is far from home and travelling alone. Yet he lands at the right well and meets the right person. One writer sees God's merciful hand in that, and notes where the guided road led him.
In Genesis 29, Jacob resumes his journey. At once we see the merciful hand of God directing him and opening up his way. That hand guides his steps to the very well where his uncle Laban's sheep came to drink, and where he met his cousin Rachel. Laban received him into his house with an eager welcome. But there he found himself in the hands of a man who was his equal in trickery.
Jacob and Rachel are strangers to each other; what he tells her is not a personal history but a family link. The reaction shows how much weight that link carried.
Family affection then fills the scene. Jacob kissed Rachel and wept for joy. He told her that he is the son of Rebekah, her father's sister. Of course they had never met, but family ties can still be very strong. Rachel left the sheep and ran to tell her father the good news of a relative from a far country (v. 12). Laban also ran to meet Jacob and embraced and kissed him. So he welcomed him into his home as his own "bone and flesh" (v. 14). How good it would have been if this attitude had lasted all through their relationship! But when they parted 20 years later, the atmosphere was hostile rather than friendly.
The tears and the kiss are real. Still, one writer sets this meeting beside an earlier one. In Genesis 24, Abraham sent his servant Eliezer to find a wife for Isaac — and that story ran very differently.
Yet we may note the difference from Genesis 24. There Eliezer prayed a clear prayer of faith and worshipped at once. God answered him promptly. And the bride responded readily: she set out to join the one she trusted without seeing him, and left behind all her existing ties of nature for him.
The warm embrace did not last. One writer draws a hard lesson from the way Jacob and Laban parted.
Sometimes we get to know each other too well — that is, we learn where each of our difficulties lie. If I get to know my brother very well, I get to know myself a little better too. And if my brother is wrong in various ways, that only shows me what I am myself.
Some writers see Jacob here standing for someone greater. The claim of shared blood in this verse is where that picture starts.
I cannot help thinking that the beginning of chapter 29 is a picture, and that now Jacob takes on the character of Christ… He was a stranger, unknown. He seeks Rachel only — he would have her alone. In general, the flocks cannot drink until the well is opened. But He opens it and waters Rachel's flock. Rachel here is His Jewish chosen and beloved flock and bride. It was His — was His flesh and bone — He was a Jew.
Writers do not all press the picture the same way. One rejects a popular reading of Jacob's journey and keeps the scene on earth.
reason: restores the disputed view so the difference is on the page
- Guided. Jacob travels alone in a far country. God's merciful hand leads him to the very well where his relatives water their sheep.
- Named. He has no wealth to show, only a family name — that he is Rebekah's son and Laban's kin — and that name is enough to open the door.
- Carried. Rachel drops her work and runs home with the news. Laban runs out and receives Jacob as his own bone and flesh.
- Tested. The eager welcome came from a man who matched Jacob for trickery. Twenty years later they parted in hostility. Knowing someone well shows us what we are ourselves.
- Foreshadowed. Writers see Christ here — the stranger who claims His own as flesh and bone, and opens the well for them. They differ on how far the picture reaches: to Israel on earth, or to the church.
And it came to pass when Laban heard the tidings of Jacob his sister's son, that he ran to meet him, and embraced him, and kissed him, and brought him to his house; and he told Laban all these things.
Jacob reaches Haran with nothing. Within moments his mother's brother is running to embrace him — the man who will shape the next twenty years of his life. The welcome looks like pure family joy. Commentators ask who arranged the meeting, and what Laban was weighing as he held his nephew.
Nobody in the chapter prays, and God is not named at the well. Writers still see His hand behind every step of the encounter.
As usual, Jacob is here under God's providential care, even when we hear only of the shepherds of Haran. Rachel appears, and Laban follows. It is His sure but unseen and unnamed direction.
That guidance was real mercy — and it led him straight to a man cut from the same cloth as himself.
In Genesis 29 Jacob takes up his journey again. At once we see the merciful hand of God directing him and opening his way. God guides his steps to the very well where his uncle Laban's sheep were watered, and where he met his cousin Rachel. Laban received him into his house with an overflowing welcome. But there Jacob found himself in the hands of a man who matched him in deceit.
The warmth is real family affection. The question is how long it lasted.
Rachel left the sheep and ran to tell her father the good news of a relative from a far country (v. 12). Laban also ran to meet Jacob, and embraced and kissed him. So he welcomed him into his home as his own "bone and flesh" (v. 14). How good it would have been if this attitude had lasted through their whole relationship! But when they parted twenty years later, the atmosphere was hostile rather than friendly.
At the parting twenty years on, one detail stands out: who did not get a kiss.
The next morning, before they parted, Laban kissed his daughters and their children. But there is no mention of his kissing Jacob, as he had done when they first met (Gen. 29:13).
This is not the first time Laban runs out to greet an arrival from Canaan. Years earlier he welcomed Abraham's servant, who had come to find a wife for Isaac — and one writer points to what triggered the rush.
It is no accident that Laban offered hospitality so readily. He had seen the ring and the bracelets on his sister's hands. He had heard her report of what Abraham's messenger said to her. He came at once to the man, who was still standing by the camels at the spring. His welcome sounded warm and pious — as such people tend to sound when honour and advantage are certain. The later history shows that Laban was a grasping man and an idolater.
Jacob's telling of "all these things" is the whole of what he brought. There were no camels, no gifts, no wealthy master behind him.
Remember the contrast with Isaac the heir, the son who stayed in his father's house. His father sent the honoured servant Eliezer to represent them both, with fitting equipment and rich gifts for the bride. Here the outcast wanderer has nothing to commend him but his relationship and his service. And Laban was not slow to see the value of so capable a man for interests dearer to him than anything else.
The door that opened to him led into an environment that fitted him uncomfortably well.
It is striking to see how he gets back into an atmosphere so completely suited to his moral make-up. The bargaining Jacob meets the bargaining Laban, and both strain every nerve to outwit each other. We cannot wonder at Laban. He had never been at Bethel. He had seen no open heaven, with a ladder reaching from there to earth. He had heard no magnificent promises from the lips of Jehovah.
The twenty years that followed were not bad luck with an uncle. They were training, and the pattern holds for everyone God calls.
There he must bow to the divine discipline that had already forced him to leave his father's house and the recent unhappy influence of his mother. So it is with each of God's children. Grace is sovereign in calling even the most difficult people. But they pass under a moral government that notices every fault, so that they may share in His holiness. Compare John 15, Hebrews 12:5-11, and 1 Peter 1:15-16.
- Welcome arranged. God is never named at the well, yet the shepherds, Rachel and then Laban all arrive on cue — sure, unseen direction.
- Welcome warm. The running, embracing and kissing were real family affection. Yet twenty years later Laban kissed his daughters goodbye — and not Jacob.
- Welcome calculating. Laban had greeted a visitor from Canaan once before, with jewellery on the table. His warmth ran hottest when advantage was certain.
- Welcome empty-handed. Isaac's servant came with camels and rich gifts. Jacob brought only his kinship and his ability to work, and Laban put a price on both.
- Welcome into discipline. The bargainer walked into a bargainer's house. Grace calls the most difficult people, then puts them under a government that notices every fault.
And Laban said to him, Thou art indeed my bone and my flesh. And he abode with him a month's time.
Jacob reaches Haran a stranger. His mother's brother runs out, embraces him, and calls him family — and the month that follows opens into twenty years Jacob never planned.
Laban's phrase is a standard way of claiming someone as family. A Bible dictionary groups it with the same wording used elsewhere in Genesis:
The same kindred: "you are my bone and my flesh," Genesis 29:14; "he is our brother, and our flesh," Genesis 37:27.
Nobody prays here, and heaven stays silent. Yet one writer names who is arranging the meeting. He also marks the contrast with an earlier journey to find a bride, in Genesis 24:
Here, as usual, Jacob is under God's providential care, even when we hear only of the shepherds of Haran. Rachel appears, and Laban follows. It is His sure but unseen and unnamed direction. Yet notice the difference from Genesis 24. There Eliezer prayed a clear prayer of faith and worshipped at once. God answered promptly, and the bride responded readily.
One writer traces this family welcome to its end:
Family affection fills the scene. Jacob kissed Rachel and wept for joy, telling her that he is the son of Rebekah, her father's sister. Of course they had never met, but family ties can still be very strong... Laban also ran to meet Jacob and embraced and kissed him. So he welcomed him into his home as his own "bone and flesh" (v. 14). How good it would have been if this attitude had lasted! But when they parted 20 years later, the atmosphere was hostile, not friendly.
Jacob had used deceit to get what he wanted at home. Now he settles in with a relative who works the same way:
It is remarkable to see how he settles back into an atmosphere that suits his moral makeup so exactly. The bargain-making Jacob meets the bargain-making Laban. Both strain every nerve, as it were, to outwit the other. Nor can we wonder at Laban, for he had never been at Bethel: he had seen no open heaven... You cannot expect worldly men to show anything but a worldly spirit, and worldly principles and ways.
The free month ends, and Laban raises the subject of pay:
After Jacob had stayed there a month, serving Laban, the question of his wages came up. He loved Rachel, so he agreed to serve seven years for her. Verses 23-30 tell us how Laban deceived him at the end of the seven years, and Laban had a plausible excuse for acting as he did. We cannot fail to see here the working of the government of God. It illustrates our Lord's words: "with the measure you use it will be measured back to you." It was Jacob's turn now to complain of being cheated.
Being paid back in your own coin sounds like bare justice. Another writer insists that is only half of what is happening:
He is now a stranger and a servant for hire. He is the victim of the deceit and self-advancement of Laban, his relative — and near kin in character too. The retribution is impossible to mistake all the way through: the measure he has dealt out to another is dealt out to him again. But we cannot miss this either. In the way it is dealt out, God is speaking to the heart and conscience of the wanderer. There is governmental equity, but also the chastening of a holy love.
The house that disciplined Jacob left its owner untouched:
As to Laban, he was a thorough man of the world when Jacob entered his house, and so he was when Jacob left it. In all his dealings, from first to last, he eyes his own advantage. He has to admit that the hand of God was with Jacob; but he would make that hand, through Jacob, serve himself... For twenty years he saw the hand of the Lord, and the working of His grace and power, in his own house and before his own eyes, day after day. Yet he remained a man of the world.
- Kinship — "my bone and my flesh" is the plain claim of blood relation. Laban is saying: you are family.
- Providence — Jacob prays no prayer here. Yet God's unseen hand brings him to the shepherds, to Rachel, and to Laban's house.
- Likeness — the family tie is also a moral one: a bargainer arrives in a bargainer's home, and the atmosphere suits him.
- Discipline — the free month becomes paid service, and the deceiver is deceived. Writers see both God's even-handed government and a Father's correcting love.
- Contrast — twenty years under one roof left Jacob chastened and Laban unchanged. Watching God work does not by itself change a man.
And Laban said to Jacob, Because thou art my brother, shouldest thou serve me for nothing? tell me, what shall be thy wages?
Jacob has worked a month for his uncle Laban with no agreement about pay. Now Laban asks what his wages should be, and Jacob's answer — seven years of work for Rachel — raises the question the commentators press hard: can a bride be bought?
Laban opens the bargain only after a month of unpaid service. Jacob's reply shows an old habit.
They had been together one month, with Jacob apparently working for his uncle. Then Laban realised that Jacob should have wages for his service, and asked what Jacob would like for wages. Here again Jacob's character as a bargainer stands out. Laban had a daughter older than Rachel, but she was not as attractive. Jacob was drawn only to Rachel and offered to work for Laban for seven years to earn Rachel as his wife.
Laban appeals to kinship, and kinship is nearly all Jacob has. Isaac's bride was sought very differently.
Remember the contrast with Isaac the heir, the son who stayed in his father's house. Remember too the honoured servant Eliezer, sent to represent him and his father, with a fitting escort and rich gifts for the bride. Here the outcast wanderer has nothing to recommend him but his relationship and his service. And Laban was quick to see the value of so capable a man for interests dearer to him than anything else. So the bargain was soon struck, and Laban accepted Jacob's warm offer at once.
Laban's welcome had been warm. His character was another matter.
Laban welcomed him into his house with open arms, but there Jacob found himself in the hands of a man who matched him in deceit.
Commentators fault both men here, not Laban only. The wrong lies in treating a marriage as a transaction at all.
And here is where Jacob makes a serious mistake. I used to feel very sorry for Jacob when Laban deceived him and he got a wife he did not want — he wanted Rachel, not Leah. But do you know where Jacob went wrong? He got Leah by bargaining. Jacob badly misrepresented the relationship that gives the most beautiful picture of the bond between Christ and the church. That bond is one of pure grace. Jacob brought it down to the level of a merely legal thing instead of recognising it as a thing of pure grace.
The same writer goes back to the first marriage of all, and notes that Laban was selling what was never his.
Rachel did not belong to Laban, and both Jacob and Laban were completely wrong in placing a monetary value on a wife. When the Lord created a woman for Adam, He gave her to him as a gift by grace. Grace should always come first in the sacred relationship of marriage.
The seven years ended with Laban giving Leah instead of Rachel. Commentators see God's hand behind the trick.
We cannot fail to see in this the working of God's government. It illustrates our Lord's words, "with the measure you use it will be measured to you." It was Jacob's turn now to complain of being cheated.
Jacob's long work for love has another side. Writers see in it a picture of Christ winning His bride.
He has Himself gone into the distant land, and has worked and suffered reproach and wrong for her. In all this, Jacob sets forth the true Bridegroom. The Lord Jesus Himself has borne the heat of the day alone. He had nowhere to lay His head, like Jacob. He was away from His Father's house and from the place of His inheritance. He was wronged again and again in a world which, like Laban and his house, always seeks its own.
The contrast teaches as much as the likeness. Jacob served for hire; Christ did not.
See the contrast with the Bridegroom. He longs deeply for the bride, yet He is content to be cut off and have nothing. He refuses to serve the world for hire. He is content to be a stranger to His brothers, a foreigner to His mother's children. He serves His Father in the appointed place. He becomes obedient to death. He loves the wages of righteousness. He has a right to all, yet takes none, so that He might receive all in resurrection.
- Wages asked. After a month of unpaid work, Laban offers pay. This is not generosity. He had seen the worth of a capable man for interests dearer to him than anything else.
- Wages named. Jacob arrives with nothing but kinship and work to offer. He prices Rachel at seven years, and his old habit as a bargainer shows again.
- Wages wrong. Rachel was never Laban's to sell. Marriage pictures pure grace, and Jacob dragged it down to a legal deal.
- Wages returned. Laban deceives the deceiver, and God's government pays Jacob back by the measure he had used.
- Wages refused. The true Bridegroom toiled for His bride in a world that, like Laban's house, always seeks its own. Yet He took no hire. He received everything in resurrection.
And Laban had two daughters the name of the elder was Leah, and the name of the younger, Rachel.
One short verse introduces the two sisters Jacob will marry, and it marks which one is older. That order matters. It becomes the trap Laban sets for Jacob, and, for many writers, a picture of God's ways.
Commentators start with what the two names mean:
Rachel, "sheep," seems to stand for the meekness and patience of true discipleship. That is the very opposite of Jacob's self-willed and unrestrained temper up to now. But he must get her through unwanted Leah. Her name, "wearied," suggests the "tribulation" that works "patience" out.
The verse marks Leah as the elder. A firstborn's rights are exactly what Jacob had ignored at home, and one writer sees God's hand in what followed:
His uncle's deception might well have reminded Jacob of his own past. He had deceived a relative himself — his own father. Such things have a way of recoiling, under the governing hand of God. It is a striking fact that those who take on the character of deceivers will very likely be deceived themselves (2 Tim. 3:13). Here too Jacob learned, painfully, the rights of a firstborn. He had ignored those rights in the case of his brother Esau.
Jacob then offers Laban seven years of work for Rachel. Commentators call that bargain wrong on both sides, and set it against the first marriage of all:
Rachel did not belong to Laban, and both Jacob and Laban were totally wrong in placing a mercenary value on a wife. When the Lord created a woman for Adam, He gave her to him as a gift by grace. Grace should always come first in the sacred relationship of marriage.
Jacob's love carried him through years of hard service. One writer finds here the one point in Jacob's life that pictures Christ:
And only after years of toil could Jacob claim her as his own. By day the heat consumed him, and the frost by night; and sleep left his eyes. But love lightened the burdens and sweetened all the bitterness of those long years. "So Jacob served seven years for Rachel, and they seemed to him but a few days because of the love he had for her" (Gen. 29:20). This is the only phase of his life in which Jacob appears as a picture of our Lord. He is the One "who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and (His toil ended) is seated at the right hand of the throne of God."
Commentators differ on how far to press the picture. Some read the sisters as two groups of people:
I have no doubt that Leah represents the Gentiles, and Rachel the Jews.
On that reading, each sister has her own place:
Here we find the picture in Rachel: so long wooed yet withheld, so long barren, so great a cause of sorrow and anxiety, and yet so greatly and endlessly loved... Leah (who is regarded as picturing the Gentile) was the first one Jacob got, but she was not the first one he sought... Even so, she is the most fruitful. She is honoured in the births of Judah and Levi — the Ruler and the Teacher, King and Priest.
Others take the two sisters as a picture of something nearer home — the gap between what we wish we were and what we are:
Rachel (meaning "sheep") pictures the lovely state of soul that believers would like to reach: humble submission to God. She was the desire of Jacob's heart. But in struggling to get Rachel, he only got Leah, whose name means "wearied." Leah is a picture of what I really am, not what I want to be... I may try hard to make myself different, only to find myself "stuck" with what I really am, as Jacob was "stuck" with Leah! This is the struggle of Romans 7, where "I" is seen fighting against "I."
- Named — Leah means "wearied," Rachel means "sheep." We reach the meekness we want through the tiredness we did not want.
- Ordered — Leah is the elder, and that becomes the trap. Jacob had pushed past a firstborn's rights, and now he must learn them.
- Priced — Jacob works to earn a wife. God gave Adam his wife as a gift of grace.
- Loved — love made seven years feel like a few days. Here alone Jacob's toil pictures Christ, who endured for the joy set before Him.
- Fruitful — Leah, the wife Jacob never asked for, bore Judah and Levi — the King and the Priest.
And the eyes of Leah were tender; but Rachel was of beautiful form and beautiful countenance.
The story stops here to compare two sisters. That comparison shapes all that follows: who Jacob wants, who he gets, and who bears his sons. It is one line about eyes and beauty. Yet commentators read in it both a hard lesson for a schemer and a picture of God's wider dealings.
The two names carry meanings, and the story acts them out. One writer prints them, with the older reading "tender" where the ESV has "weak":
Laban had two daughters: the name of the elder was Leah (Weariness), and the name of the younger was Rachel (Ewe). And the eyes of Leah were tender... And Jacob served seven years for Rachel; and they were in his eyes a few days, for his love to her.
Jacob answered the difference between the sisters by buying the one he wanted:
Rachel did not belong to Laban. Both Jacob and Laban were completely wrong to put a price on a wife. When the Lord created a woman for Adam, He gave her to him as a gift, by grace. Grace should always rule in the sacred relationship of marriage.
Laban then handed him the plain daughter in the dark. That reversal was not bad luck:
His uncle's trick might well have reminded Jacob of his own. He himself had deceived a relative before — his own father. Such things have a way of recoiling, under the governing hand of God. It is a striking fact that those who form the character of deceivers will very likely be deceived themselves (2 Tim. 3:13). In this case too Jacob painfully learned the rights of a firstborn, which he had ignored in the case of his brother Esau.
Verse 17 ranks the sisters by looks. God ranks them the other way:
It is not Elohim here, but Jehovah, God in special relationship and moral dealing. He looked on the sorrowful and despised wife. He gave the comfort of a son not to Rachel but to Leah, the one "hated" by comparison. Rachel, happy in her husband's love, stayed barren!
The woman passed over for her looks became mother of the leading tribes:
She was 'tender eyed,' and not as beautiful as Rachel. But God blessed her: she bore Jacob six sons and one daughter. So she became the mother of the heads of the important tribes of Reuben, Levi, and Judah, as well as of Simeon, Issachar, and Zebulun.
Commentators differ on what the two sisters picture. One reads them like this:
Rachel represents Israel, Messiah's first object of love on earth. But this fails by no fault on His part. And He has Leah. She represents the call of the Gentiles — the nations — in the meantime, during Jacob's servant state and great sorrows, when "more are the children of the desolate than of the married wife, says Jehovah" (Isaiah 54:4, compare Gal. 4).
Another writer takes Leah as a picture of the church rather than of the nations generally, and draws the timing out further:
Rachel typifies Israel, Christ's earthly bride. Jacob first sought Rachel, but received Leah. In the same way Christ came first to Israel; and when Israel rejected Him, He first received the church. Leah, like the church, is the fruitful one. Later, loved Rachel passes off the scene, like Israel after the Millennium, and Leah remains as Jacob's companion in the land of promise.
Read closer to home, the two sisters picture an inner struggle:
Rachel (meaning "sheep") pictures the lovely state of soul in humble submission to God that believers would like to reach. But in struggling to get Rachel, Jacob only got Leah, meaning "wearied." Leah is a picture of what I really am, not what I desire to be. I may try hard to make myself different, only to find myself "stuck" with what I really am, as Jacob was "stuck" with Leah! This is the struggle of Romans 7, where "I" fights against "I."
The sister Jacob admired was no safer than the one he did not want:
Although Jacob loved Rachel so much, beautiful and well favoured, was she completely trustworthy? No. Later she stole her father's idols, hid them in her tent, and deceived him. This is like our own hearts. The lesson is this: the desire to reach a high spiritual state has in it the elements of idolatry and of deceit. A person who wants to reach a certain state will try to deceive himself into thinking he can make it... There can be no perfection while we remain in the flesh.
- Names. Leah means "weariness"; Rachel means "ewe." The verse sets weak eyes beside beauty of form and face, and the names then play out in the story.
- Bargain. Jacob put a price on a bride he should have received as a gift. Grace, not payment, belongs to marriage.
- Recoil. In the dark, Laban deceived the deceiver. Under God's governing hand Jacob learned the rights of a firstborn he had once ignored.
- Reversal. God looked on the despised wife and gave her a son, while the loved one stayed barren. The plainer sister became mother of Reuben, Levi and Judah.
- Mirror. Rachel is the state of soul we wish we had; Leah is what we are. Neither sister was trustworthy, and no one reaches perfection while we remain in the flesh.
And Jacob loved Rachel, and said, I will serve thee seven years for Rachel thy younger daughter.
Jacob has nothing to offer but his own work, so he names a price of seven years for the woman he loves. That raises two questions: was this bargain right, and why did the price feel so light to the man paying it?
In that world a man did not just ask for a wife. He paid her family for her. A Bible dictionary lists Jacob's offer alongside the other payments Scripture records:
The sum paid by a man to the relatives of the woman who becomes his wife. Genesis 34:12; Exodus 22:16-17; 1 Samuel 18:25: compare Hosea 3:2. When Leah had her sixth son, she said devoutly, "God has endowed me with a good endowment." Genesis 30:20. The dowry which Jacob gave for his wives was seven years' service for each. Genesis 29:18, 27.
Custom does not settle whether the arrangement was right. One writer faults both men, because Laban had no right to sell what was never his:
Rachel did not belong to Laban, and both Jacob and Laban were completely wrong to put a mercenary value on a wife. When the Lord created a woman for Adam, He gave her to him as a gift by grace, and grace should always be uppermost in the sacred relationship of marriage.
One writer sets Jacob's bargain beside Isaac's marriage:
Remember the great contrast: Isaac the heir, the son who stayed in his father's house. His father sent the honoured servant Eliezer to represent Isaac and himself, with a proper escort and costly gifts for the bride. Here the outcast wanderer has nothing to recommend him but his relationship and his service. Laban quickly saw the value of so capable a man for interests dearer to him than anything else. So they soon struck the bargain, and he accepted Jacob's warm offer at once.
The next verse tells us the seven years felt like a few days. One writer draws from it the only point where Jacob's life pictures Christ:
Only after years of toil could Jacob claim her as his own. In the day the drought consumed him, and the frost by night; and his sleep left his eyes. But love lightened the burdens and sweetened all the bitterness of those long years. "So Jacob served seven years for Rachel, and they seemed to him but a few days because of the love he had for her." This is the only phase of his life in which Jacob appears to be a type of our Lord. Christ "for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame." His toil ended, He is seated at the right hand of the throne of God.
The same power carries the Christian who waits for Christ's return: "Love annihilated time. The story explains the great secret of the power of an all-absorbing object of affection" (J. Wilson Smith).
Jacob asks for Rachel. Laban will give him Leah. One writer reads the swap as God's government at work:
The story of how Laban deceived him at the end of the seven years is given to us in verses 23-30, and Laban had a plausible excuse for acting as he did. We cannot fail to see in this the working of the government of God, and an illustration of our Lord's words, "with the measure you use it will be measured to you." It was Jacob's turn now to complain of being cheated.
Kelly names the purpose: Jacob "might judge himself, and learn by his own experience how hateful it is to give way to deceit" (William Kelly).
One writer reads the two sisters as standing for two peoples:
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I have no doubt that in the two wives we have the Gentiles and Israel: Rachel first loved on the earth, but not possessed; but Leah the fruitful mother of children. Rachel had children also afterwards on the earth. Rachel, standing for the Jews, is the mother of Joseph, and later of Benjamin — that is, of a suffering Christ glorified among the Gentiles while rejected by Israel, and of a reigning Christ.
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- Price. Jacob's seven years were a dowry — the customary payment made to a bride's family, paid here in labour because he had nothing else.
- Bargain. One writer judges the deal itself wrong: Rachel was not Laban's to sell, and grace, not commerce, should govern marriage.
- Poverty. Isaac's father sent Eliezer with costly gifts to fetch a bride; the outcast Jacob had only his relationship and his work to commend him.
- Love. The years felt like days because love was carrying them — the one point where Jacob pictures Christ, who endured for the joy set before Him.
- Measure. Laban handed the deceiver the wrong bride; the measure Jacob used came back to him, so that he might judge himself.
And Laban said, It is better that I give her to thee than that I should give her to another man abide with me.
Laban answers Jacob's offer of seven years' work with words that sound like family kindness. In fact a nephew with nothing goes to work for an uncle who stands to gain everything. This verse closes the deal, and the deal shapes the years that follow.
Jacob has come from Bethel, where God had promised him the land and a countless family. Yet the man he now sits down to trade with is his own mirror.
It is remarkable to see how he slips back into a setting that suits his character so completely. The bargain-making Jacob meets the bargain-making Laban, and you can see them both straining every nerve to outwit each other. And we cannot wonder at Laban. He had never been at Bethel. He had seen no open heaven, with a ladder reaching from there to earth. He had heard no magnificent promises from the lips of Jehovah, granting him all the land of Canaan and a family beyond counting. No wonder he showed a grasping, low spirit. He had nothing else to fall back on... But Jacob had seen and heard all this at Bethel. To find him struggling with a man of the world, and trying that way to build up property, is especially humbling.
Laban replies fast because the terms suit him. An earlier marriage in the same family had looked very different.
The contrast with Isaac is striking. Isaac was the heir, the son who stayed in his father's house. The honoured servant Eliezer was sent to represent Isaac and his father Abraham, with proper supplies and rich gifts for the bride. Here the outcast wanderer has nothing to offer but his family tie and his work. And Laban was quick to see the value of such a capable man for the interests he cared about above everything else. So the bargain was soon struck, and Laban accepted Jacob's warm offer at once.
Laban speaks as though Rachel were his to hand to the highest bidder.
Rachel did not belong to Laban, and both Jacob and Laban were completely wrong to put a money value on a wife. When the Lord made a woman for Adam, He gave her to him as a gift of grace. Grace should always come first in the sacred relationship of marriage.
Jacob agreed to seven years of work. How long they felt depended on his heart.
The seven years during which Jacob had to serve for his wife "seemed to him but a few days, for the love he had for her." His heart was in it, and the years flew past like days. Love annihilated time. The story explains the great secret of the power of a love that fills the whole heart.
Laban will not keep the terms he has just accepted. What Jacob suffers here matches what he had done to others.
In his exile he reaps what he had sown; as he deceived his father, so Laban deceives him. He had taken unfair advantage of his brother Esau's hunger. Now his uncle Laban takes advantage of his position, and Jacob has to work hard for his wages.
God let the deceit happen, and He had a reason for it.
Laban wronged Jacob gravely, in a matter that must touch a man's heart... But God wanted His servant Jacob to learn, through his own wounded heart, how vile self-seeking deceit is. So He allowed it, and He would use it for chastening and for good in the end.
Jacob the schemer is hard to admire. Jacob serving for Rachel is another matter.
Only after years of hard work could Jacob claim her as his own. By day the heat wore him down, and by night the frost; and sleep left his eyes. But love lightened the burdens and sweetened all the bitterness of those long years...
- Bargain. Laban's kind-sounding words close a trade. He gains a capable worker; Jacob pays with seven years.
- Grace. A wife was meant to be a gift, as the first woman was given to Adam. Pricing Rachel by years of work was wrong on both sides.
- Love. The price was heavy, but love shrank seven years to a few days — love annihilated time.
- Harvest. Jacob deceived his father; now Laban deceives him. He reaps what he sowed, and feels it where it hurts most.
- Picture. Serving to win a bride is the one place where Jacob's life pictures Christ, who endured for the joy set before Him.
And Jacob served seven years for Rachel; and they were in his eyes as single days, because he loved her.
Jacob's first seven years of work for Laban fit into one sentence: long labour that felt short. The verse says nothing about wages or hardship. It only shows what love did to time, and commentators read it two ways — as a window into human love, and as a picture of Christ working to win His bride.
The measure of the years was not the calendar but the heart. One writer turns Jacob's experience into a test of how we wait for the Lord:
To say in your heart that the Lord delays His coming is a very clear, though silent, way of saying you do not want Him to come. He is not the ruling desire. Jacob served seven years for his wife, and they "seemed to him but a few days, because of the love he had for her." His heart was in it, and the years flew by like days. Love wiped out time. The story explains the great secret of the power of an all-absorbing object of affection.
One writer sets studying prophecy against longing for the Lord Himself:
He waits and longs for the Lord because he loves Him who first loved us... One person may know prophecy very well and have none of that hope; another may be full of the hope and know nothing about prophecy... If you love someone, you delight to see them. Being away from the person you love is hard. There may be very good reasons for the delay, but the delay tests your patience, and the hope that the one you love will come back soon is the greatest joy.
"A few days" describes the feeling, not the facts. The work itself was hard, and one writer spells out what it involved:
He had to bear the weight and heat of a long, hard day before he could take Rachel as his own. The law of her people, the law of her country, and the greedy demands of Laban had put him on these terms. He had to endure sun by day and moon by night, to work night and day, and to have his exile stretched out — or go without his Rachel.
The arrangement itself is no model. One writer faults both men for putting a price on a wife, and contrasts that with how marriage began:
Rachel did not belong to Laban, and both Jacob and Laban were wrong to put a money value on a wife. When the Lord created a woman for Adam, He gave her to him as a gift by grace, and grace should always rule in the sacred relationship of marriage. Still, Jacob was willing to work seven years for all this because of his deep love for Rachel.
Another writer warns against judging those days by later standards:
Then came the humbling test of the younger daughter, offered on the same terms of long service. To Jacob those years seemed like only a few days, because he loved her. But we must not measure this case, any more than others in Old Testament times, by the light the Saviour later shed on marriage, as on everything else.
This stretch of Jacob's life stands apart from the rest. One writer marks it as the single exception:
By day the heat consumed him, and the cold by night, and his sleep fled from his eyes. But love lightened the load and took the bitterness out of those long years... And this is the only phase of his life in which the patriarch Jacob appears to picture our Lord, "who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God."
Read alongside the law of the servant who refuses his freedom for love of his wife, the picture stretches past the cross into a service that never ends:
Jacob's seven years of service for Rachel pictures Christ becoming a servant to win the church. This pictures a service that never ends, gladly taken up to keep her. The more we think about the depth of love and the height of devotion here, the further beyond our understanding they seem.
Commentators differ on what the two sisters represent. One reading assigns them to two peoples:
I have no doubt that Leah represents the Gentiles, and Rachel the Jews.
Another traces the order of events rather than the identities:
It appears that Rachel was the first beloved wife, but in fact the last to enjoy, and bear the fruits of, the relationship... Leah before this is the mother of many sons, as there are before Israel comes into full and happy view.
- Love measures. Seven years shrank to days for Jacob, because love, not the calendar, set the length of the wait.
- Love pays. The feeling was light; the work was not — heat by day, cold by night, sleepless work under a greedy employer.
- Love gives. A wife bought as wages reverses Eden, where God gave the woman as a gift. Grace, not bargaining, belongs in marriage.
- Love serves. In this one scene Jacob resembles Christ, who endured the cross for the joy set before Him and serves on to keep the bride He won.
- Love waits. Love made Jacob's years fly. The same love makes a Christian long for the Lord's return instead of saying He delays.
And Jacob said to Laban, Give [me] my wife, for my days are fulfilled, that I may go in to her.
Seven years of service are over, and Jacob does not ask Laban for Rachel — he demands her, because the time is served. Two questions hang over the scene: was the bargain right at all, and why does God let Jacob's confident claim end in a trick?
The deal Jacob now calls in was wrong from the start. Both men put a price tag on a woman, and one writer sets that against the very first marriage.
Rachel did not belong to Laban, and both Jacob and Laban were completely wrong to place a mercenary value on a wife. When the Lord created a woman for Adam, He gave her to him as a gift by grace. Grace should always rule in the sacred relationship of marriage. Still, Jacob was willing to work all those seven years because of his intense love for Rachel. In fact the time seemed very short to him compared with the prospect of having her as his wife. When the time was completed he asked Laban to give him Rachel now (v. 21).
Jacob does not say the years dragged. He says they are finished — and the reason the counting felt light is love. The same love decides whether a person actually wants the Lord to come back.
Jacob had to serve seven years for his wife. They "seemed to him but a few days because of the love he had for her" (Gen. 29:20). His heart was in it, and the years flew by like days. Love wiped out time. The story explains the great secret of the power of an all-absorbing object of affection. Let us weigh this carefully. It is very clear that no such object governed the heart of the evil servant. He did not love his Lord, and he did not care about His coming.
Jacob has no gifts and no wealth to offer for Rachel. What he does have, Laban wants.
Here the outcast wanderer has nothing to recommend him but his relationship and his service. Laban was not slow to see the value of so capable a man for interests dearer to him than anything else. So the bargain was quickly struck and Jacob's eager offer instantly accepted. But then the full time of service for his bride arrived. The crafty uncle put on a wedding feast in Jacob's honour, yet he had no scruple about the cruel trick of swapping Leah for Rachel, the one Jacob had wanted from the first.
Jacob once handed deceit out to someone else. Now he is about to receive a disguised bride, and one writer says the repayment is not cold justice.
Here the second period of his life begins. He is now a stranger and a servant working for hire. He is the victim of deceit and self-advancement by Laban, his relative and morally his close kin too. The retribution runs all the way through, and no one can mistake it: the measure he handed out to another comes back to him. But it is just as impossible to miss that God, in the way He deals it out, is speaking to the heart and conscience of the wanderer. There is governmental fairness, but also the chastening of a holy love. Bethel is proving itself true. The Father disciplines every son He receives.
Jacob can claim Rachel only because the work is done. One writer finds his single likeness to the Saviour right there: the toil first, then the bride.
Then comes Rachel, "beautiful in form and appearance." Only after years of toil could Jacob claim her as his own. By day the drought consumed him and the frost by night, and sleep fled from his eyes. But love lightened the burdens and sweetened all the bitterness of those long years. "So Jacob served seven years for Rachel, and they seemed to him but a few days because of the love he had for her" (Gen. 29:20). This is the only part of his life where Jacob pictures our Lord. He is the One "who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and (His toil ended) is seated at the right hand of the throne of God."
- Bargain. Jacob claims a wife he priced like wages. A wife is God's gift by grace, and grace should govern marriage.
- Love. Love for Rachel wiped out time, so seven years felt like days. Love for Christ makes waiting for Him just as light.
- Empty hands. He brings no gifts, only his family tie and his work — and Laban sees exactly what that work is worth.
- Discipline. Instead of Rachel he receives Leah. The measure he handed out to another comes back to him — fair government, and a Father's loving correction.
- Christ. Here alone Jacob pictures the Lord. He endured the cross for the joy set before Him, and now, His work done, He is seated at God's right hand.
And Laban gathered together all the men of the place, and made a feast.
Jacob has finished seven years of work for Rachel, and Laban throws the wedding feast. It looks like the happy end of a long wait, yet the night that follows raises a hard question: what was God doing while Laban cheated His servant?
The feast honoured Jacob in public. The deal behind it was one-sided from the start: an exile with only his work to offer, and an uncle who knew what that work was worth.
Here the outcast wanderer has nothing in his favour but his family tie and his service. Laban was not slow to see the value of so capable a man for interests dearer to him than all others. So the bargain was soon struck, and Jacob's warm offer was accepted at once. But the full time of service for his bride arrived. Then the crafty uncle, under all his show of a wedding feast in Jacob's honour, felt no shame in a cruel deceit. He put Leah in the place of Rachel, the one his heart had wanted from the first.
Jacob had once deceived his own father to get what he wanted. Now his uncle deceives him, and commentators see the same standard coming back on him.
Verses 23-30 tell how Laban deceived him at the end of the seven years. Laban had a plausible excuse for acting as he did. In this we cannot fail to see the government of God at work. It illustrates our Lord's words, "with the measure you use it will be measured to you." Now it was Jacob's turn to complain of being tricked.
The night had two lessons in it for Jacob.
There are two things Jacob has to learn on this memorable occasion. First, for his comfort: all his failures will not alter God's purpose to bless him in sovereign grace. Second, for his correction: God's sovereign grace will not hold back God's chastening hand because of his failures... He still has to go on as a lonely wanderer. He must spend long years of toil and hard service in the house of a stranger, because of his sin against his father and brother. He has to reap what he has sown.
The pattern runs through his whole life, and it does not end in gloom.
He had deceived his father and cheated his brother. In turn he was deceived and cheated by his father-in-law, and later by his own sons. But all this only makes God's grace to him shine the brighter.
The feast drew in "all the people of the place." Inside the house, the deceit needed one more person's silence.
Laban wronged Jacob deeply, in a matter that must touch a man's heart. And Leah was without doubt a willing party to the cheating breach of the marriage agreement about Rachel. She could and should have told Jacob the unworthy trick her father was playing through her. But God wanted His servant Jacob to learn more deeply, in his own wounded affections, how vile self-seeking deceit is. So He allowed what He would use for chastening and for good in the end.
Jacob ends up with the wife he did not choose, and she is the one who bears children. Commentators read this in more than one way. Some see God's dealings with Israel and the nations:
I have no doubt that in the two wives we have the Gentiles and Israel. Rachel was loved first on the earth, but not gained. Leah was the fruitful mother of children.
Others draw it inward, to the gap between who we want to be and who we are:
Rachel (meaning "sheep") pictures the lovely state of soul that believers would like to reach: humble submission to God. She was the desire of Jacob's heart. But in struggling to get Rachel, he only got Leah, meaning "wearied." Leah is a picture of what I really am, not what I want to be.
- Feast — the celebration was real, and so was the plan behind it. Honour shown in daylight covered a swap made in the dark.
- Measure — the man who deceived his own father received the wrong bride from his father-in-law. The standard he used came back to him.
- Government — God did not step in to stop it; He used it, so Jacob would feel in his own wounded love how hateful deceit is.
- Grace — his failures never cancelled God's purpose to bless him. Discipline and sovereign grace ran side by side, and the grace shines brighter for it.
- Picture — the wife he wanted first was not the wife he received first. Some read this of Israel and the nations, others of the gap between what we long to be and what we are.
And it came to pass in the evening, that he took Leah his daughter, and brought her to him; and he went in to her.
Jacob had worked seven years for the woman he loved. On the wedding night, in the dark, Laban put the elder sister in Rachel's place. Two questions rise at once: how did it happen, and why did God let the deceiver be deceived?
Darkness did the work. Jacob had no way to see who was brought to him.
So Laban made a marriage feast for them. When evening came — and with it darkness, with only very dim light at best — Laban had Leah go to share Jacob's bed with him. Jacob had no suspicion of this until the morning. Perhaps he had drunk too much wine at the feast. But he was not prepared for such dishonest deception from a close relative.
The next morning Laban had an answer ready: in his country, he said, the elder daughter must marry first.
If he were honest, he would at least have told Jacob this when they made the agreement seven years earlier! Maybe Laban made up this rule in his own mind and then treated it as his country's custom! Surely, if it had been the usual custom, Jacob would have heard of it during those seven years. But Laban knew that the best way to get Jacob to continue working for him was to do just what he did.
Laban's excuse was not the whole story. A higher hand was at work.
Laban had a believable excuse for acting as he did. But we cannot miss the working of the government of God here. It illustrates our Lord's words: "with the measure you use it will be measured to you." It was Jacob's turn now to complain of being beguiled.
The payback even matches the detail. Jacob had once brushed aside his brother's place as elder son.
The deception by his uncle might well have reminded Jacob that he had once deceived a relative himself — his own father. Such things have a way of coming back, under the governing hand of God. It is a striking fact that people who take up the character of deceivers will very likely be deceived themselves. Here too Jacob learned, painfully, the rights of a firstborn — rights he had ignored in the case of his brother Esau.
But this is not cold payback.
You cannot mistake the repayment running through it all. The measure he gave to another is measured back to him. But you also cannot miss that, in the way it is handed out, God is speaking to the heart and conscience of the wanderer. There is fairness in God's government, but also the chastening of a holy love.
Two people wronged Jacob that night, not one. And God had reasons for letting it happen.
Laban wronged Jacob badly, in a matter that must touch a man's heart deeply. And Leah, beyond doubt, agreed to the cheating that broke the marriage agreement about Rachel. She could and should have told Jacob the shabby trick her father was playing through her. But God wanted His servant Jacob to learn, in his own wounded love, how vile selfish deceit is. So He allowed what He would use in the end for chastening and for good.
One writer traces the trouble further back, to the bargain itself.
Jacob got Leah by bargaining. In doing so he badly misrepresented the marriage relationship, which pictures the relationship between Christ and the church so beautifully — a relationship of pure grace. He brought it down to the level of a mere legal deal instead of seeing it as a thing of pure grace. What was the price here? Seven years of wages. It was completely wrong; a wife is worth far more than that.
One writer reads the order of the two marriages as a picture of Christ's own path.
Rachel is a picture of Israel, Christ's earthly bride. Jacob sought Rachel first, but received Leah first. So Christ came first to Israel; Israel rejected Him, and He received the church first. Leah, like the church, is the fruitful one.
- Sowing. Jacob deceived his own father; now, in the dark, his father-in-law deceives him. The measure he used is measured back to him.
- Precision. The repayment fits the crime. He ignored a firstborn's rights; now an elder daughter's rights bind him.
- Purpose. The wrong was real, and Leah shared in it. Yet God allowed it, so Jacob would feel in his own heart how hateful deceit is.
- Love. This is not bare payback. It is the chastening of a holy love, and God is speaking to the wanderer's conscience.
- Grace. Marriage pictures the pure grace between Christ and the church. Jacob dragged it down into a bargain, and paid a price for a bride worth far more.
And Laban gave to her Zilpah, his maidservant, to be maidservant to Leah his daughter.
Jacob worked seven years to marry Rachel. On the wedding night Laban sent Leah instead, and with her a servant girl named Zilpah — the woman who would become the mother of two of Israel's tribes.
The gift of this servant belongs to a night of fraud. Jacob made an eager offer, Laban took it at once, then broke it when the seven years were up.
So they soon struck the bargain, and Laban took Jacob's eager offer at once. But when the full term of service for his bride was up, the crafty uncle put on a wedding feast in Jacob's honour. Behind all that show he had no scruple about the cruel deceit of putting Leah in the place of Rachel, the one Jacob's heart had wanted from the first.
Jacob had used deceit before. Now deceit falls on him, and commentators read the whole episode as God's dealing with him, not bad luck.
Verses 23-30 tell how Laban deceived him at the end of the seven years, and Laban had a plausible excuse for acting as he did. We cannot fail to see here the working of the government of God. It illustrates our Lord's words: "With the measure you use it will be measured to you." Now it was Jacob's turn to complain that someone had tricked him.
The wrong was real, and Leah kept silent when she could have spoken. God allowed it because He meant to work something in Jacob through it.
Laban wronged Jacob badly, in a matter bound to cut a man to the heart. Leah was beyond doubt a willing party to this cheating breach of the marriage agreement about Rachel. She could and should have told Jacob the unworthy trick her father was playing through her. But God wanted His servant Jacob to learn something deeper. In his own wounded heart he would feel how vile self-seeking deceit is. So God allowed it, and He would use it for chastening and for good in the end.
The Bible names this servant again long after the wedding night. Two of Jacob's sons came from her.
Servant of Leah, and through her Jacob became the father of Gad and Asher. Gen. 29:24; Gen. 30:9-12; Gen. 35:26; Gen. 37:2; Gen. 46:18.
The names in this story carry meaning of their own. One writer traces them from patience, through tribulation, to terror and tears.
Rachel, "sheep," seems to stand for the meekness and patience of true discipleship. That is the very opposite of Jacob's self-willed and unrestrained temper up to now. But he could only win her through unwanted Leah, whose name, "wearied," suggests the "tribulation" that works out "patience." And even then, before Rachel had a child, and in despair of ever having one, the maidservants came in — Bilhah, "terror," and Zilpah, "a dropping" (as of tears).
Leah later gave Zilpah to Jacob, matching what Rachel had done with her own maid. The names of the sons record the contest between the two sisters.
The names Rachel gave the sons of Bilhah expressed the state of her soul, and her attitude toward her sister. Dan and Naphtali do not tell us of grace, but of satisfaction in scoring points of strife. Leah was drawn into the snare, and through Zilpah she would match that advantage. The names she gave Zilpah's sons, Gad and Asher, do not carry the contention that ruled Rachel's spirit; but they fall far short of the faith Leah showed in naming her own sons.
The sons of Jacob arrive in a tangled order. One writer sees man's own hand behind it.
This order speaks to us of man's plans acting according to his own thoughts, outside the thoughts of God. We see these plans in Laban's giving his daughters to Jacob and in Rachel and Leah giving Jacob their maidservants.
Yet God did not disown the children born from that tangle.
God's institution of marriage was the union of one man and one woman — the two, and only two, becoming one. What is more than this is not of God, but comes from human lust. Jacob's two wives gave their maidservants to their husband, and so he had four wives. God reckoned the twelve sons of these four women equally as sons of Jacob, and they became the heads of the twelve tribes. It might have been thought that God would not have blessed the offspring of these unions, but He did.
- Handed over. Laban passed Zilpah to Leah on the night he swapped one daughter for another — a gift folded inside a deliberate fraud.
- Measured back. The deceiver was deceived. Writers see God's government here, measuring back to Jacob what he had measured out.
- Aimed at the heart. God allowed the wrong so that Jacob's own wounded heart would teach him how vile self-seeking deceit is.
- Misused. Leah later handed this servant on to Jacob, and the names of Zilpah's sons fell short of the faith Leah once showed.
- Reckoned anyway. Human scheming arranged these marriages, yet God counted all twelve sons as Jacob's and made them heads of Israel's tribes.
And it came to pass in the morning, that behold, it was Leah. And he said to Laban, What is this thou hast done to me? Have I not served thee for Rachel? Why then hast thou deceived me?
Jacob wakes after his wedding night and finds the wrong woman beside him. His protest to Laban is a cry of betrayal — from a man who had once played the same trick on his own father. The chapter raises two questions at once: what kind of man was Laban, and what was God doing with Jacob?
The trick worked because Laban controlled the whole wedding, and because darkness hid everything until daylight.
When evening came, darkness fell with it, and there was only very dim light at best. Laban sent Leah to share Jacob's bed, and Jacob suspected nothing until morning. He may have drunk too much wine at the feast. But he was in no way ready for such a shameless trick from a close relative.
The wrong was real. Jacob had kept his side of the bargain in full. The man who took his work broke faith with him.
Jacob asks, "Why then have you deceived me?" His father Isaac could once have asked him the same question. One writer notes how well God's discipline fit the crime.
Under the government of God, Jacob found himself in the hands of a man even more selfish than himself. God's discipline fit his case remarkably well, and it came through his marriage. He was deceived over Laban's two daughters, just as Isaac had been deceived by his two sons. Age had blinded Isaac; the strange marriage customs of the east blinded Jacob.
This was not a one-off. It was a pattern: Jacob deceived a relative, and a relative deceived him.
Such things have a way of coming back on a man, under the governing hand of God. It is a striking fact that people who take on the character of deceivers will very likely be deceived themselves (2 Tim. 3:13). Here too Jacob learned, with pain, the rights of a firstborn — rights he had ignored in the case of his brother Esau.
God's purpose to bless Jacob never wavered. But it did not shield him from the consequences of what he had done.
First, for his comfort, he will learn that all his failures will not change God's purpose to bless him in sovereign grace. Second, for his correction, he will learn that God's sovereign grace will not hold back God's chastening hand because of his failures. The sovereign grace of the Lord will not set aside the faithful government of the Lord... He has to reap what he has sown. If Jacob deceives his father with the skins of goats, then in the years to come his own sons will deceive him with the blood of a goat.
The pain had a purpose. Jacob had to feel from the inside what he had made his father feel.
Here it was the LORD dealing with Jacob, so that he would judge himself. He would learn from his own experience how hateful it is to give in to deceit — even when the aim was to gain the birthright or the blessing over a godless brother... In this way a person gets used to the fact that he has to do with God in the little things of life, as people count them, as well as in the greatest.
Leah does not come out of this innocent either. She could have warned Jacob in time.
Leah was without doubt a willing party to this cheating breach of the marriage agreement over Rachel. She could and should have told Jacob what a shameful trick her father was playing through her. But God wanted His servant Jacob to learn, in his own wounded heart, how vile self-seeking deceit is. So He allowed what He would use in the end for chastening and for good.
One writer reads the two wives as a picture of something larger. In this reading each woman stands for a people God calls.
Rachel represents Israel, the Messiah's first object of love on earth. But this fails, and through no fault of His. And He has Leah, who stands for the call of the Gentile nations that comes in between, while Jacob serves and suffers greatly.
- Sowing. Jacob fooled a blind father about two sons. Laban fooled a bridegroom in the dark about two daughters. The match is too close to be an accident.
- Reaping. The wrong done to Jacob was genuine wickedness in Laban, and at the same time the hand of God governing His own child.
- Grace. God's purpose to bless Jacob stood untouched. Being loved by God does not cancel the harvest of what we plant.
- Purpose. God aimed the pain at Jacob's conscience. Jacob had to learn for himself how hateful deceit is — and to deal with God in small daily matters, not only in crises.
- Result. Jacob reaped what he had sown. Yet God used the long years of service and sorrow to chasten a schemer and bring good in the end.
And Laban said, It is not so done in our place, to give the younger before the firstborn.
Jacob served seven years for Rachel, and Laban gave him Leah instead. Laban's excuse is the custom of his country — and it lands on the man who had himself pushed past a firstborn's rights.
The excuse arrives seven years too late to be honest:
Jacob confronted Laban about his deception in giving him Leah instead of Rachel. Laban calmly replied that in his country the younger daughter must not marry before the elder. Honesty should have told Jacob this seven years earlier, when they made the agreement! It may be that Laban invented this policy in his own mind and then treated it as his country's custom. For if it really had been the usual practice, Jacob would have heard of it long before seven years had passed. But Laban knew the best way to keep Jacob working for him: he told Jacob he could work another seven years for Rachel.
Jacob had once deceived his own father. Now the same trick falls on him, and the fit is too exact to be an accident:
Genesis 29, 30 and 31 record Jacob's stay in Haran. It turned into a duel of cunning between Jacob and his uncle Laban. Under the government of God, Jacob found himself in the hands of a man even more selfish than himself. There was a remarkable fitness in God's discipline over his marriage. Laban deceived him about two daughters, just as two sons had deceived Isaac. Age blinded Isaac; the marriage customs of the east blinded Jacob.
The lesson fits the sin:
His uncle's deception might well have reminded Jacob that he had once deceived a relative himself — his own father. Such things have a way of coming back, under the governing hand of God. It is a striking fact that people who take on the character of deceivers very likely end up deceived themselves. Here Jacob also learned a firstborn's rights the painful way — rights he had ignored with his brother Esau.
Taken as a principle, Laban's rule is the opposite of the way God works:
Jacob comes into Padan-Aram. Many of us have lived there, morally. It is where Laban's house is. There speculation and trying to get on without God are everywhere. There Jacob uses his own skill and wits to get ahead, breathing all the while an air that lowers the glory of Christ. No sense of the pre-eminence of Jesus is tolerated. God sets out the principle, "He does away with the first in order to establish the second" (Heb. 10:9). Laban says, "It is not so done in our country, to give the younger before the firstborn." It is a serious thing to live, in our affections, in a scene that will not put the second before the first!
One writer sums up Jacob's time in that country as a life "where the first was put before the second, and the result was sorrow and disappointment" (F. A. Hughes).
Laban's rule and God's rule cannot both stand, and Scripture shows which one God keeps:
When did God ever choose the firstborn of flesh? All through Scripture He sets aside the one who looks to have a claim by birth. In this way everyone learns that blessing comes entirely by grace. Not Cain, but Abel; not Ishmael, but Isaac; not Esau, but Jacob.
Laban was not the only guilty party. Yet God folded the whole wrong into His dealings with a man who needed to feel in himself what deceit costs:
Here too we see the righteous government of Jehovah. Laban badly wronged Jacob in a matter that must touch a man's heart deeply. Leah, beyond doubt, went along with the broken marriage agreement over Rachel. She could and should have told Jacob the shabby trick her father was playing through her. But God wanted His servant Jacob to learn more deeply, in his own wounded affections, how vile self-seeking deceit is. So He allowed what He would use for correction and for good in the end.
- The excuse — Laban pleads local custom only after the wedding. A real rule would have reached Jacob seven years earlier.
- The mirror — a man who deceived a father over two sons now meets a father who deceives him over two daughters. Deceivers get deceived.
- The bill — Jacob had ignored Esau's rights as firstborn. He learns those rights the hard way, at the cost of seven more years.
- The clash — Laban's country will not put the second before the first. God's way is to set the first aside and establish the second.
- The point — all through Scripture God passes over the firstborn. Blessing comes by grace, not by birth.
Fulfil the week [with] this one then we will give thee the other one also, for the service that thou shalt serve me yet seven other years.
Jacob had served seven years for Rachel and woke to find Leah beside him. Laban does not apologise. He offers a new deal: finish the wedding week with Leah, then work seven more years for the woman he wanted.
Laban answers with local custom. One writer doubts the custom was real at all.
When Jacob confronted Laban about giving him Leah instead of Rachel, Laban calmly answered that in his country the younger daughter must not marry before the elder. An honest man would at least have told Jacob this when they made the agreement seven years earlier! Perhaps Laban invented this rule himself and treated it as his country's custom! If it really were the usual custom, Jacob would have heard of it long before the seven years were up. But Laban knew that this was the best way to keep Jacob working for him. So he told Jacob he could work another seven years for Rachel. What could Jacob do? His heart was still set on Rachel, so he accepted this unfair treatment, and in the end got her as a wife too.
Laban defends himself by the rights of the elder over the younger — the very order Jacob had overturned at home.
However, the deception of his uncle might well have reminded Jacob that he himself had before deceived a relative, his own father. Such things have a way of recoiling, under the governing hand of God. It is striking that people who take on the character of deceivers are very likely to be deceived themselves (2 Tim. 3:13). Here too Jacob learned the hard way the rights of a firstborn, which he had ignored in the case of his brother Esau.
Behind Laban's greed another hand is at work. Its aim is not punishment but self-judgment.
Here Jehovah was dealing with Jacob so that he would judge himself. Jacob had to learn from his own experience how hateful it is to give in to deceit. That was true even when the aim was to gain the birthright or the blessing over a godless brother, who cared only for himself and never had God as a living object before his soul. God makes such experience profitable to a weak or careless soul. In this way a person gets used to dealing with God in the small things of life, as people count them, as well as in the greatest.
Seven more years of service do not mean God has dropped His promise to bless.
There are two things Jacob has to learn here. First, for his consolation, he will learn that all his failures will not alter God's purpose to bless him in sovereign grace. Second, for his correction, he will learn that God's sovereign grace will not hold back God's chastening hand because of his failures. The sovereign grace of the Lord will not set aside the faithful government of the Lord. Jacob's circumstances do not change. He still has to go his lonely way as a wanderer. He still has to spend long years of hard work and bondage in a stranger's house, because of his sin against his father and brother. He has to reap what he has sown.
One writer sees in this delay a picture of something much larger.
Jacob loved Rachel first, yet he had to wait for her and serve the week over again after Leah was given to him. Surely this has a clear bearing on the Lord's relation to Israel, whom He loved first. In the meantime the Gentile, once passed over, has taken her place, with rich results in His grace.
Commentators differ on how far to press the two women. Some see in Leah a picture of those who share the toil before they share the glory.
Jacob went for Leah and secured her at the cost of rigorous service, and she first shared with him the days of toil before having part with him in the wealth and glory which he acquired.
Commentators differ on how far to press the two sisters. Another writer draws a closer lesson from the meaning of their names.
Rachel (meaning "sheep") pictures the lovely state of soul, in humble submission to God, that believers would like to reach. She was the desire of Jacob's heart. But in struggling to get Rachel, he only got Leah, whose name means "wearied." For Leah is a picture of what I really am, not what I want to be. … I may try hard to make myself different, only to find myself "stuck" with what I really am, as Jacob was "stuck" with Leah! This is the struggle of Romans 7, where "I" fights against "I."
- Deceit — Laban's rule about the elder daughter appears only after seven years of unpaid work. He knew this was the surest way to keep Jacob working.
- Debt — Jacob once pushed past a firstborn's rights with Esau. Now he is held to those same rights himself.
- Discipline — God's aim is self-judgment. Jacob learns from experience how hateful deceit is, and learns to deal with God in small matters as well as large.
- Grace — Failure never changes God's purpose to bless. Grace also never holds back His chastening hand: God disciplines Jacob and still keeps him.
- Picture — Jacob waited for the bride he loved first and received another meanwhile. Writers see here the Lord's dealings with Israel, and a mirror of the heart's own struggle.
And Jacob did so, and fulfilled the week [with] this one, and he gave him Rachel his daughter to be his wife.
Genesis 29:28 closes a bitter week for Jacob: he keeps Laban's terms and finally receives Rachel, after seven years of work. Two questions press hard here — what did Jacob agree to, and why did God let a schemer be out-schemed?
The "week" Jacob completed is a week of days, not another seven years. One writer settles the word from how Hebrew uses it elsewhere.
I believe we can say that shebu-a and shebu-im are used for week and weeks. Genesis 29:27-28 gives the word for a week, and Leviticus 12:5 gives it for weeks.
Rachel came at the end of that week. The price came after her, not before.
He reaps in a measure what he had sown. He deceived his father Isaac and now Laban deceives him in different ways, especially by substituting Leah for the beloved Rachel. A week after he received Leah, he received Rachel too. But though he now had her, he still had to serve seven years for her.
Laban's defence was simple: the younger daughter is not given before the firstborn. But it came seven years too late to be honest.
Honesty would at least have told Jacob this seven years earlier, when they made the agreement! Laban may have invented this rule in his own mind and then treated it as his country's custom! If it had really been the usual custom, Jacob would have heard of it long before the seven years were up. But Laban knew that the best way to get Jacob to continue working for him was to do exactly what he did. So he told Jacob he could work another seven years for Rachel. What could Jacob do? He still had his heart set on Rachel, so he simply submitted to this unjust treatment, and in the end got her as a wife too.
The man who deceived his own father now wakes to a substituted bride. Writers see God's governing hand behind Laban's greed.
Such things have a way of coming back on us, under the governing hand of God. It is a striking fact that those who make themselves deceivers will very likely be deceived themselves (2 Timothy 3:13). Here too Jacob learned the hard way about the rights of a firstborn — rights he had ignored with his brother Esau.
This discipline does not cancel God's choice of Jacob. It runs alongside it, and every child of God knows it.
Grace is sovereign, and it calls even the most wayward. But those it calls come under a moral government that takes notice of every fault, so that they may share in His holiness.
Both men treated Rachel as goods to be traded. One writer sets that against the very first marriage.
Rachel did not belong to Laban, and both Jacob and Laban were completely wrong to put a money value on a wife. When the Lord made a woman for Adam, He gave her to him as a gift of grace. Grace should always rule in the sacred relationship of marriage.
Commentators also read the two wives as a picture of two peoples.
I have no doubt that in the two wives we have the Gentiles and Israel: Rachel loved first on the earth, but not yet gained; and Leah the fruitful mother of children. Rachel had children also afterwards on the earth.
A second writer traces what that cost means for the church.
Leah was bride to one who foreshadowed Christ as a sufferer — one who was worn out by tireless toil, and who worked while others slept. Jacob went for Leah and won her at the cost of hard service, and she first shared with him the days of toil before having part with him in the wealth and glory which he acquired… like Leah, the church is called to share a path of toil and suffering before having her eternal portion with Christ.
Commentators differ over the figures. One writer ties Rachel to the Gentiles and Leah to Israel; another sees the church in Leah.
- Bargain. Jacob bought his bride with labour instead of receiving her by grace. Both he and Laban were wrong to put a price on a woman at all.
- Week. The week here is seven days — Leah's marriage week. Rachel came at the end of it, and Jacob served the second seven years afterwards.
- Boomerang. Laban invented his excuse about the firstborn. God still used it: the deceiver was deceived, and the man who had ignored a firstborn's rights learned them the hard way.
- Government. Grace called Jacob freely. God's moral government still noted every fault, so that His children would share His holiness.
- Picture. Behind the bargain stands a better Servant. One bride is loved but not yet gained; the other is received first and is fruitful; the service goes on until He has both.
And Laban gave to Rachel his daughter, Bilhah, his maidservant, to be her maidservant.
Genesis 29:29 reads like a small note of business: Laban hands a servant, Bilhah, to Rachel, just as he had handed Zilpah to Leah. Yet these two servants become mothers of four tribes of Israel, and this arrangement sets up years of rivalry inside Jacob's tent.
The verse closes a story where the trickster gets tricked. Jacob had deceived his father and his brother; now Laban deceives him.
Verses 23-30 tell how Laban deceived him at the end of the seven years, and Laban had a plausible excuse for acting as he did. We cannot fail to see here the government of God at work. It illustrates our Lord's words: "with the measure you use it will be measured to you." Now it was Jacob's turn to complain of being tricked.
God had a purpose in it for Jacob's own heart.
Here it was Jehovah dealing with Jacob so that he might judge himself. Jacob had to learn from his own experience how hateful it is to yield to deceit. That stayed true even if the aim was to gain the birthright or the blessing over a profane brother — a brother who cared only for himself and never had God as a living object before his soul. Such experience does good to a weak or careless soul. In this way a person gets used to dealing with God in the little things of life, as men count them, as well as in the greatest.
Laban gives Bilhah to Rachel as her servant. Rachel later gives her to Jacob to gain children — a move one writer traces back to an earlier failure in the family.
Then we too often fall back on a substitute of our own making, as Rachel did. Sarah had done the same when she gave Abraham her servant to have a child by her. Rachel ought to have known that this did not work out as Sarah planned. But she thought, as Sarah did, that the children of her servant Bilhah would be hers... All of this struggle is a picture of the struggle in Romans 7. That struggle only stirs up the evil passions of our hearts, instead of subduing them as we try to do.
The names Rachel gave Bilhah's sons record what was in her. They are not the last word.
The names Rachel gave the sons of Bilhah expressed the state of her soul, and her attitude toward her sister. Dan and Naphtali do not tell us of grace, but of satisfaction in gaining points of strife on her own part... But it is God's prerogative, while every wrong has its effect among men and its judgment before Himself, to cause all things to work together for good to those who love Him, the called according to purpose. He at least is good and does good, whatever man has to mourn.
So what became of the four tribes born to the two servants?
Here we have the origins of the tribes in these sons, who were named by Leah and Rachel. The servant women did not name their own sons. The four tribes that came from them do not appear to have made any particular mark in the nation's later history.
That obscurity is not the end. When God seals the tribes of Israel, the sons of the servants are not left out.
Here the sons are arranged by their different mothers, with the children of the servant women mixed in among the children of the free... They are no longer listed simply in the natural order of birth. God seems to signal that He would make them a spiritual people too, stamped with His seal. They will then be Israelites indeed, in whom is no deceit.
One writer reads the two sisters as a picture of two peoples.
I have no doubt that in the two wives we have the Gentiles and Israel: Rachel loved first on the earth, but not yet obtained; and Leah the fruitful mother of children. Rachel had children later on the earth too. Rachel stands for the Jews. She is the mother of Joseph, and later of Benjamin. Joseph pictures a suffering Christ, glorified among the Gentiles while rejected by Israel; Benjamin pictures a reigning Christ, the son of his mother's sorrow but of his father's right hand.
- Measure. Jacob deceived others, then Laban deceived him. God's government handed him back his own method.
- Discipline. God's aim was that Jacob would judge himself and learn from experience how hateful deceit is.
- Substitution. Rachel turned Bilhah into a man-made shortcut to children. She repeated Sarah's mistake, and it bred strife.
- Record. The names Rachel gave those sons preserve her rivalry. Yet God works all things together for good to those who love Him.
- Reach. The servants' sons made little mark in Israel's history. In the end they stand sealed among the children of the free.
And he went in also to Rachel; and he loved also Rachel more than Leah. And he served with him yet seven other years.
Jacob at last has the wife he wanted — but only after Laban handed him the one he did not, at the price of seven more years' work. The verse names his preference openly, and that unequal love shapes the family that follows.
Jacob arrived at Laban's house empty-handed. His own father, Isaac, came by a bride in a very different way:
Think of the contrast with Isaac the heir, the son who stayed in his father's house. His father sent the honoured servant Eliezer to represent them both, with fitting equipment and costly gifts for the bride. Here the outcast wanderer has nothing to recommend him but his relationship and his service. And Laban was quick to see the value of such a capable man for the interests he cared about most.
The second seven years were not in the original bargain. A trick forced them on Jacob, and commentators see God's own government behind that trick:
Verses 23-30 tell how Laban deceived him at the end of the seven years. Laban had a plausible excuse for what he did. In this we cannot fail to see the government of God at work. It illustrates our Lord's words, "with the measure you use it will be measured to you." Now it was Jacob's turn to complain that someone had tricked him.
Jacob paid for Rachel with years of hard labour. Here, and here alone, one writer sees him picturing Christ:
And only after years of toil could Jacob claim her as his own. By day the heat consumed him, and the cold by night, and his sleep fled from his eyes. But love lightened the burdens and sweetened all the bitterness of those long years. This is the only part of his life in which Jacob seems to picture our Lord, "who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame." His toil ended, and He "is seated at the right hand of the throne of God."
Getting Rachel did not settle the household. It began a rivalry, and the law would later forbid such a marriage outright:
Next Laban forces Leah on Jacob by deceit, and Jacob has to add Rachel as well — the one he loved and had bargained for. But here again strife and division follow, and the sisters' rivalry increases the misery of it, with two concubines added. Marrying two sisters at the same time, coming where it does in the story, might have become a trap for Israel. That is why the law later singles it out (Leviticus 18:18) and forbids it.
Loving one wife more meant the other counted as "hated" — loved less by comparison. Leah was not innocent; she went along with her father's scheme. Yet God gave her what the favoured wife did not have:
The righteous government of Jehovah is clearly seen here also. Laban wronged Jacob badly, in a way that must wound a man deeply. And Leah was beyond doubt a willing party to the cheating breach of the marriage agreement about Rachel. She might and ought to have told Jacob the unworthy trick her father was playing through her.
He looked on the sorrowful and despised wife. He gave the comfort of a son to Leah, the one "hated" by comparison, and not to Rachel. Rachel was happy in her husband's love, yet she stayed barren! ... But Jacob was slow to forget the wrong done to him about Rachel, or to feel his own wrong to Leah.
Some writers read the whole arrangement as a picture of Christ's dealings with Israel and the nations — the first-loved bride delayed, another brought in during the waiting:
Jacob loved Rachel first. Yet he still had to wait and serve another seven years for her after Laban gave him Leah. Surely this bears on the Lord's relation to Israel, loved first, while in the meantime the slighted Gentile has taken her place, with rich results in His grace.
The one who was not the first choice is not the one left out:
He gets Leah instead of Rachel. He has the Gentiles, seen in their place on earth; still the Jews are loved — Rachel. He represents the Lord in His ways, not in his conduct: he loves Rachel. The Gentile, Leah, was never loved like the Jews on earth; but God blesses Leah.
- Sowing — Jacob had deceived his father. Laban's trick measured the same back to him and cost him seven more years.
- Serving — He came with nothing to offer but family ties and hard work. Love made the long service feel light.
- Strife — Two sisters in one house brought rivalry and misery, and the law later forbade such a marriage.
- Seen — God looked on the wife who was loved less. He gave her a son, while the favoured wife stayed barren.
- Shadow — Writers see Christ waiting for Israel, the first-loved, while God brings in and blesses another.
And when Jehovah saw that Leah was hated, he opened her womb; but Rachel was barren.
Jacob's household holds two sisters, one loved and one passed over. The first move recorded is not Jacob's but God's, and the whole later history of this family flows from it.
Leah was "hated" in comparison with her sister — loved less, not loathed. Commentators also point to the name used for God here: not the general word for God, but the covenant name.
Notice that it is not Elohim here, but Jehovah, God in special relationship and moral dealing. He looked on the sorrowful and despised wife, and gave not to Rachel but to Leah, the comparatively "hated," the consolation of a son. Rachel, happy in her husband's love, was left barren!
Leah was not only a victim here. She had a part in the trick that put her in Jacob's tent. God let the tangle stand because He meant to teach Jacob something through it.
Laban badly wronged Jacob in a way that must touch a man's heart deeply. And Leah was without doubt a willing party to the cheating breach of the marriage agreement about Rachel. She might and ought to have told Jacob the shabby trick her father was playing through her. But God wanted His servant Jacob to learn more deeply, in his own wounded affections, how vile self-seeking deceit is. So He allowed what He would use for discipline and for good in the end.
The children arrive on the opposite side from Jacob's love. Commentators read that reversal as God's hand correcting him, and one adds a telling detail about the naming of the sons.
There was also discipline from the hand of God. Jacob's love was centred on Rachel, and next to her Leah was hated. So God arranged that Leah bore children while Rachel stayed barren... It is worth noting that in each case the mother gave the name, and it fitted her own circumstances and feelings. Jacob does not appear as having any say in the matter. During this stretch of his up-and-down life we read of no altar of sacrifice and communion.
The four names Leah gives trace a rising line in her own soul, and the last one carries far beyond her.
Again she has a son, and says, Because Jehovah has heard that I am hated, He has therefore given me this one also... And again she bore a son, and said, Now this time I will praise Jehovah; so she called his name Judah. Never do we hear of her soul rising so high. The sorrow-stricken woman breaks out into praise of Jehovah. Her fourth son carries that praise in the name she gave him that day. Yes, of Judah came, according to the flesh, the Christ, who is over all, God blessed for ever. Amen. How much His grace rises above our praise!
Another writer finds a message in the order of the four names.
The names of the sons of Leah are interesting. Reuben (behold a son!); Simeon (hearing); Levi (joined); Judah (praise). It is the order of the gospel.
Commentators also see a wider pattern here. It reaches past Jacob's tent to God's dealings with Israel and with the other nations.
Rachel represents Israel, the Messiah's first object of love on earth. But this fails through no fault of His. And He has Leah. She stands for the call of the Gentiles in between, during Jacob's time as a servant and his great sorrows. That is when "the children of the desolate one will be more than the children of her who is married," says the LORD (Isaiah 54:1, compare Galatians 4).
Even so, this picture does not leave Leah small.
For all that, she is the most fruitful. Her honour is in the births of Judah and Levi — the Ruler and the Teacher, King and Priest.
The two wives also picture something a believer can see in himself.
Leah is a picture of what I actually am, and Leah was hated. Rachel is a picture of what I would like to be — the spiritual state I would like to reach. As a Christian I would like to be far more spiritual than I am... but I have to give that up. Jacob had to give Rachel up. However, at the very moment Jacob gave Rachel up, he arrived at the state God had in mind for him.
- Seen. God's first move is to look at the one no one else valued — and He acts under His covenant name, not a distant title.
- Given. Jacob held his love back from Leah. God gave her children instead — the blessing landed where the love did not.
- Disciplined. Laban cheated Jacob in return, and God used that wound in Jacob's own affections to teach him how vile deceit is.
- Named. Leah's four sons climb from behold a son to praise — a rising line she alone marked, since Jacob had no altar and no say.
- Reaching Christ. Her praise named Judah, and from Judah came the Christ — the unloved wife's line carried the promise.
And Leah conceived, and bore a son, and called his name Reuben; for she said, Because Jehovah has looked upon my affliction; for now my husband will love me.
Jacob's home is already divided. He worked for Rachel and only got Leah, and the wife he did not choose bears the first son. At the birth Leah speaks past her husband to God, and the name she gives the boy — Reuben, "behold, a son" — holds her whole situation in one word.
One commentator points to the divine name used here. It is not Elohim, the general word for God, but the covenant name — "Jehovah" in older translations, "the LORD" in the ESV:
Notice that it is not Elohim here, but Jehovah, God in special relationship and moral dealing. He looked on the sad and despised wife. He gave the comfort of a son not to Rachel but to Leah, the one "hated" by comparison. Rachel, happy in her husband's love, stayed barren!
Look at who mentions God in this whole scene. One writer sums it up in a line:
Sorrowful and wronged Leah alone speaks of Jehovah.
Leah joins two things: God has looked on her, so now her husband will love her. The first was true. The second was her own conclusion. The same writer weighs how much of Jacob's heart she was counting on:
We can see how large the firstborn loomed in the mother's eyes, and how much she counted on the boy's appeal to Jacob's heart. But Jacob was slow to forget the wrong done to him about Rachel, or to feel his own wrong to Leah. Jehovah looked tenderly on her injured spirit. And she, for her part, acknowledged Jehovah's compassion in the matter. "Jehovah," she said, "has looked upon my affliction; for now my husband will love me." That hope came too soon: so far we hear not a sound of such love from him.
Reuben is the first of four sons Leah names. One writer lines up what all four names mean:
The names of Leah's sons are interesting. Reuben (behold a Son!); Simeon (hearing); Levi (joined); Judah (praise). It is the order of the gospel.
Leah names the child, not Jacob. One writer ties that to God's discipline and to Jacob's own walk in these years:
There was also discipline from the hand of God… Notice that in each case the mother gave the name, and it grew out of her own circumstances and feelings. Jacob does not appear to have had any say in the matter. In this stretch of his up-and-down life there is no record of an altar of sacrifice and communion. Being out of touch, he had no guidance about the names of his children.
Commentators draw more than one lesson from Leah. One reads the two wives as a picture of God's dealings with Israel and the other nations:
Jacob loved Rachel first. Yet he still had to wait and serve another week for her, after Leah had been given to him. This bears on the Lord's relation to Israel, whom He loved first. Meanwhile the slighted Gentile has taken Israel's place, with rich results in His grace… Leah was hated compared with Rachel. So Jehovah stepped in with His special regard for her sorrow, and that regard came out in the name of her firstborn son, Reuben.
Another writer turns the two wives inward, to the believer's own experience:
Rachel means "sheep." She pictures the lovely state of soul, in humble submission to God, that believers would like to reach. She was the desire of Jacob's heart. But in struggling to get Rachel, Jacob only got Leah, whose name means "wearied." Leah is a picture of what I really am, not what I want to be. There was conflict between the two. I may try hard to make myself different, only to find myself "stuck" with what I really am, just as Jacob was "stuck" with Leah!
- Seen — the covenant God looked on the wife nobody wanted, and the loved wife stayed barren.
- Spoken — in a chapter of scheming and rivalry, the wronged woman is the only one who names the Lord out loud.
- Named — Reuben means "behold, a son," and stands first in a sequence that runs on to hearing, joining and praise.
- Premature — God's compassion was real. Leah's hope that Jacob would now love her was her own, and no word of love from him follows.
- Silent altar — Jacob built no altar in these years and had no guidance about his children's names. So each name carries the mother's own feelings.
And she again conceived, and bore a son, and said, Because Jehovah has heard that I am hated, he has therefore given me this one also; and she called his name Simeon.
Leah names her second son out of the one thing she is sure of: God noticed. Her husband is still cold, but she reads her life by what the LORD has done, and Simeon's name keeps the record.
The word describes how Leah stood next to her sister, not a settled cruelty in Jacob. One writer reads the whole scene as God's discipline on Jacob, and notes who chooses the names:
There was discipline from the hand of God. Jacob's love rested on Rachel, and next to her Leah was hated. So God arranged that Leah bore children while Rachel was barren. The closing verses of the chapter give us the birth of four sons and their names. It is worth noticing that in every case the mother gave the name, and it grew out of her own circumstances and feelings. Jacob does not appear to have had any say in the matter. During these years of his uneven life we read of no altar where he sacrificed and had fellowship with God. Being out of touch, he had no guidance about the names of his children.
Reuben's name said the LORD had seen her. Simeon's adds a second sense: He heard her too.
The even stronger sign of her husband's coldness does not weaken her sense of the favour Jehovah was showing her — it renews it. As with Reuben, so now the naming of her second son says it: Jehovah heard as well as saw. We do not learn of any softening on the offended man's part: he had his Rachel.
Later, Israel divided the land and gave Simeon's tribe a portion inside Judah's. One writer draws a lesson from that pairing:
Simeon's inheritance is closely connected with that of Judah. "Their inheritance was in the midst of the inheritance of the people of Judah." Simeon means "hearing" and Judah means "praise." So the two are linked together. If our hearts are open to hear, and our faith takes hold, then we praise and worship. Then we enjoy our God-given inheritance in the Lord Jesus Christ.
The same writer sets Simeon's name beside his brothers' and offers the pattern for readers to weigh:
Reuben ("behold a son!"); Simeon ("hearing"); Levi ("joined"); Judah ("praise"). This is the order of the sons of Jacob by birth. It tells out the gospel. In the blessing of Moses the order is: Reuben ("behold a son!"); Judah ("praise"); Levi ("joined"). Simeon ("hearing") is left out. When the Lord comes, Israel will behold Him as the Son, will break out in praise and worship, and become joined to Him. No "hearing" is needed then. We pass this on to our readers for consideration.
Kelly traces the same four names as a rising line in Leah's own soul, ending at the highest point she ever reaches:
And again she bore a son, and said, Now this time I will praise Jehovah; therefore she called his name Judah. Never do we hear of her soul rising so high; the sorrow-stricken woman breaks out into praise of Jehovah... Yes, of Judah came according to the flesh the Christ, who is over all, God blessed forever.
Jacob's love and God's gifts run in opposite directions. One writer turns the picture inward, to the unwanted "I" in a believer's own experience, and notes what Jacob never did:
It was Leah who bore children, while Rachel stayed fruitless for a long time. So it is the hated "I" that seems to dominate in the experience of a believer who really wants to be what he thinks he should be. Leah bore four sons, Reuben, Simeon, Levi and Judah, while Rachel remained childless. It is good to consider that despite Jacob's dislike for Leah, he never suggested putting his wife away, as people commonly do today. In fact he kept her longer than Rachel.
Kelly also reads the two sisters on a larger scale — an illustration, not a plain statement:
Rachel represents Israel, Messiah's first object of love on earth. But this fails through no fault of His. And He has Leah. She represents the calling of the Gentiles in the meantime, during Jacob's servant state and heavy sorrows. It is the time when "the children of the desolate one will be more than the children of her who is married," says the LORD.
- Heard. Reuben confessed that God saw; Simeon confesses that He also heard. The second son marks a second proof that heaven is paying attention.
- Hated. The word measures Leah against Rachel. God answers the comparison by making the less-loved wife the fruitful one.
- Named. Every name comes from the mother out of her own feelings; Jacob, with no altar in these years, has no say and no guidance.
- Order. Behold a son, hearing, joined, praise. One writer sees the four names in birth order telling out the gospel.
- Praise. Simeon's tribe later settled inside Judah's land — hearing inside praise. Hear God, and praise and the enjoyment of your inheritance in Christ follow.
And she again conceived, and bore a son, and said, Now this time will my husband be united to me, for I have borne him three sons; therefore was his name called Levi.
Leah has borne Jacob two sons, and she still hopes her husband will be attached to her. She names the third son Levi — "joined" — and that one word will shape the whole story of his tribe.
With her first two sons she named God. With Levi she does not, and one writer weighs the difference.
Therefore his name was called Levi. It is not as before that she called it. Everything seems more vague and in a lower key here; and Jehovah is not named. But He never fails; and again she bore a son, and said, Now this time I will praise Jehovah; therefore she called his name Judah. Never do we hear of her soul rising so high; the sorrow-stricken woman breaks out into praise of Jehovah.
"Levi" means joined. Leah used the word of a marriage; her son's life joined him to two very different things.
Here, then, we have the birth and name of this most remarkable man. His name carries wonderful meaning when we look at his later history. In nature's wild and lawless excess, we find him "joined" with his brother in carrying out a deed of blood and murder (Gen. 34). Then came the day when God called him to drink deeply and largely of the cup of His electing grace, "joined" with Aaron in "the work of the tabernacle" (Num. 8).
The record of Levi himself is short and dark, and Jacob's blessing did not soften it. Yet his tribe ended up serving at the sanctuary.
The third son of Jacob and Leah (Gen. 29:34). Very little is recorded of Levi. He joined with Simeon in the treacherous and vengeful dealings with Shechem (Gen. 34:25-31). When Jacob blessed his sons, he pronounced a curse on their cruelty, and added, "I will divide them in Jacob and scatter them in Israel." This shows the righteous government of God. That government is in no way set aside by the reward of their later faithful conduct, which caused this tribe to be chosen for the Levitical service and the priesthood. It was sovereign grace.
One writer traces that change back to the cross.
Christ has, once for all, borne sin's deepest curse in His own body on the tree. Now even Levi can lift up his head. By nature he knows only "instruments of cruelty" — things that must have kept God forever at a distance from "his secret and his assembly." By nature he is cruel, fierce, self-willed, scattered and divided. Yet God can, in His mercy, make him familiar with "the instruments of the tabernacle." He can bring him into the enjoyment of the covenant of life and peace, in union with the great head of the priestly family.
Two things about Levi point beyond him: his place as third son, and his name.
From Levi, third son of Israel, sprang both the Levite and the priest. This "third" speaks of resurrection, always connected with the third day (compare Hosea 6:2). And so the sign of the true priest (Num. 17:8) was the dead rod blossoming and fruitful in the sanctuary. Levi's own name also, "joined," is full of meaning. The Mediator, in whose person and work God and man are truly joined, is the One who becomes the Priest.
Leah's first four sons, taken in order, spell out a message.
Interesting are the names of the sons of Leah. Reuben (behold a Son!); Simeon (hearing); Levi (joined); Judah (praise). It is the order of the gospel.
The same word now describes believers, and it brings work with it.
Levi means "joined." The grace of God had joined them to the Lord and His ministry. Believers in Christ are joined to the Lord. They are both priests and Levites; they have priesthood and ministry. Our priesthood is the ministry of the sanctuary, in worship and intercession. Our Levite ministry is many sided.
- Joined — wanted. Leah names her third son while still hoping for her husband's attachment. This naming is vaguer than the first two, and God is not named in it.
- Joined — wrongly. Levi's first joining is with Simeon at Shechem — cruelty that Jacob curses: "I will divide them in Jacob."
- Joined — by grace. God's government still stands. Yet sovereign grace takes the man of "instruments of cruelty" and hands him "the instruments of the tabernacle."
- Joined — in Christ. The name pictures the Mediator. In His person and work God and man are truly joined, and He becomes the Priest.
- Joined — now. Believers are joined to the Lord and to His ministry: priests in worship and prayer, Levites in a service with many sides.
And she again conceived, and bore a son, and said, This time will I praise Jehovah; therefore she called his name Judah. And she ceased to bear.
Leah is the wife Jacob did not choose. Her earlier sons carry names shaped by that pain, but with the fourth she looks past her marriage to God, and calls him Judah — "praise." (Where the ESV has "the LORD," older translations print God's name as "Jehovah." That is why the quotes below use it.)
The chapter turns on God's notice of the unloved wife. One writer points out which name of God stands here, and who received the sons:
It is not Elohim here, but Jehovah, God in special relationship and moral dealing. He looked on the sorrowful and despised wife, and gave not to Rachel but to Leah, the one who was "hated" by comparison, the comfort of a son. Rachel, happy in her husband's love, was left barren! We can notice how the firstborn loomed large in the mother's eyes, and how much she counted on it to call to Jacob's heart. But Jacob was slow to forget the wrong done to him about Rachel, or to feel his own wrong to Leah.
Leah names each of the four sons, and her own feelings supply the meaning every time. One writer links Jacob's silence to his spiritual state in these years:
Note that in each case the mother gave the name, and it grew out of her own circumstances and feelings. Jacob does not appear to have had any say in the matter. During this up-and-down stretch of his life there is no record that he had an altar for sacrifice and communion. Being out of touch, he had no guidance about the names of his children.
Her third son's name still reaches for Jacob. The fourth reaches past him, and one writer follows the change:
And again she bore him a third son, and said, Now this time my husband will be joined to me; for I have borne him three sons. So his name was called Levi. Everything seems more vague and in a lower key here, and Jehovah is not named. But He never fails; and again she bore a son, and said, Now this time I will praise Jehovah; therefore she called his name Judah. Never do we hear of her soul rising so high; the sorrow-stricken woman breaks out into praise of Jehovah, and her fourth son carries it in the name she gave him that day. Yes, of Judah came, according to the flesh, the Christ, who is over all, God blessed for ever. Amen. How much His grace rises above our praise!
One writer reads the four names, in their birth order, as a picture of the gospel:
Reuben (behold a son!); Simeon (hearing); Levi (joined); Judah (praise). This is the order of the sons of Jacob according to their birth. It tells out the gospel. In the blessing of Moses the order is: Reuben (behold a son!); Judah (praise); Levi (joined). Simeon (hearing) is left out. When the Lord comes, Israel will behold Him as the Son, will break out in praise and worship, and become joined to Him. No "hearing" is needed then.
Leah gave the name for her own praise. Later it marks a whole tribe, and a lion at the close of the Bible:
Judah is compared to a lion, as a king among beasts. Here we see an allusion to Christ acting in judgment. Genesis is the seed-plot of the Bible. We pass to Revelation, where everything reaches its fruit and finality, and in Revelation 5 we find "the Lion of the tribe of Judah" about to take the book of judgment and break its seals. And the universe is filled with His praises.
Leah's praise over one baby was small next to the praise another birth would draw out:
How much more fitting were the praises that greeted the coming and birth of Mary's child! Praises from Mary, praises from Elizabeth, praises from Zechariah, praises from the heavenly host, praises from the aged Simeon and from Anna... Very soon there will be a universe of bliss, filled with the praises of God and the Lamb, all resulting from the coming into the world of Mary's child, the blessed Son of God. While we await our part in the praises of that happy day, it is our privilege to "offer the sacrifice of praise to God continually."
- Seen — The LORD looked on the wife nobody wanted, and gave children to Leah while the loved wife stayed barren.
- Silent — Jacob names none of these sons. With no altar and no communion, he has no guidance, so Leah's feelings name them all.
- Risen — Her earlier names still reach for her husband. With the fourth she stops asking and praises God. Her soul is never higher.
- Gospel — Behold a son, hearing, joined, praise. One writer reads that birth order as the gospel told in four names.
- Fulfilled — Christ came from Judah. The Lion of that tribe opens the sealed book, and the universe fills with praise that Leah first spoke alone.
And when Rachel saw that she bore Jacob no children, Rachel envied her sister, and said to Jacob, Give me children, or else I die.
Rachel had Jacob's love but no children, and her sister's family kept growing. Her demand to Jacob opens a chapter of family rivalry and raises a hard question: what does a believer do when God holds back the one thing the heart wants most?
The verse names Rachel's envy before it reports her words. One writer traces what that envy did to her.
It is easy to see, and sad to see, why Rachel looked at her own childlessness and her sister's many children with bitterness. Self was at work. It blinded her to one thing: her sister did not have Jacob's heart, and she alone held it. It was envy — that low feeling which cannot bear another person, even a sister, having what it lacks. And it broke out in unreasonable and irreverent complaining to her husband, as if her barrenness were his fault.
Her words are passionate, but God is nowhere in them. One writer weighs that silence against how her story ended.
Her passionate cry for children shows no recognition at all of the will of God (Gen. 30:1). It does not compare well with Hannah's submissive spirit and humble prayer to the Lord. And it prepares us for the despair that overwhelmed her later. The thing she dreamed would be a spring of happiness turned out to be a bitter and deadly drink of sorrow.
One writer fills in the picture of Hannah.
How different Hannah was! She was sorrowful under Peninnah's taunts, and under the high priest's wrong judgment of her too. She did not break out into unfitting complaints against her husband. She wept and prayed and made a vow to Jehovah, and the God of Israel heard her.
Readers may wonder why a squabble between two sisters is in the Bible at all. One writer answers that Scripture shows people as they really are.
Revelation about God, and from God, is the essential difference between Scripture and all other writings. Yet there is much more in it of the greatest value. We have man as he is, as nowhere else. Scripture tells us the truth so that we may know ourselves as well as God. So it matters, and it is deeply interesting, that God gives inspired light on what the proud selfishness of man's mind tends to despise as mere domestic squabbles.
Another writer sees the whole chapter as a fall from the fathers before Jacob, and watches how Rachel speaks of God.
How terribly everything has fallen, in moral terms, from Abraham's time, and even Isaac's. This is not barrenness of the flesh with God stepping in, in promise and power. Instead — oh, what a scene of selfishness, jealousy, and scheming! Only one patch of green is in it — Rachel, the barren one, is heard. Even in her special circumstances Rachel has no thought of Jehovah's ways here. It is "God has judged me," and so it goes on all through, until grace softens her heart. Then she says, in faith, "Jehovah will add."
One writer turns Rachel's demand into a warning for every Christian who sees no results.
We may see a serious lesson in Rachel's words, "Give me children, or I shall die!" If we do not see clear fruit, we have a tendency to give up. The exercise of soul that desires true godliness may in effect die. Many Christians have their proper growth stunted by this very thing.
The same writer looks at Jacob's angry reply in the next verse.
On the other hand, Jacob's anger does not help the situation. If Christ is not the Object of our lives, our efforts to make ourselves more spiritual will always bring in the principles of jealousy, anger and discouragement. These work against the very result we seek.
The story does not end with the demand. One writer follows Rachel to the point where God answered her.
Rachel at last becomes a refreshment to the heart, through the thoughtful tenderness of God's ways. She was humbled for a long time because of her unworthy self-seeking. Then God was pleased to pity her and give her the son she had wanted so much. Then she said, God has taken away my reproach. Despite her proud bearing, she knew she had been under God's discipline. The name she gave her firstborn is striking, for Joseph means He will add.
- Envy blinds. Rachel could not see that she alone held Jacob's heart, because her eyes stayed on what her sister had.
- Envy misfires. Her complaint landed on her husband, as though her barrenness were his doing.
- Envy substitutes. She demanded from Jacob what Hannah asked from God, and Jacob's anger only added to the damage.
- Envy stunts. When no fruit shows, the desire for godliness can die, and many Christians stay stunted because of it.
- Grace outlasts envy. God pitied the woman who had demanded, took away her reproach, and gave her Joseph — a name meaning "He will add."
And Jacob's anger was kindled against Rachel, and he said, Am I in God's stead, who has withheld from thee the fruit of the womb?
Rachel has her husband's love, but her sister has the children. Her demand to Jacob turns a private grief into a charge against him. His sharp reply puts the question back where it belongs: God closed her womb, not her husband.
Commentators trace Rachel's outburst to the sight of what Leah had.
One understands too well, too sadly, why Rachel should look at her own childlessness and her sister's many children with bitterness. Self worked in her and blinded her to what her sister lacked: Jacob's heart, which she alone had. It was envy, that low feeling which cannot bear another person — even a sister — having what she does not have. It broke out in unreasonable and irreverent complaining to her husband, as if her barrenness were his fault. No wonder his anger resented her unworthy state in his reply: "Am I in the place of God, who has withheld from you the fruit of the womb?"
Jacob's reply was true, but his anger helped nothing.
On the other hand, Jacob's anger does not help the situation. If Christ is not the Object of our lives, our efforts to make ourselves more spiritual will always involve jealousy, anger and discouragement. These work against the very result we want.
Jacob names God as the One who closed her womb. From this verse on, the story uses a different name for God. One writer says the change is deliberate, not a sign of different authors patched together.
The name is Jehovah in Genesis 29 and Elohim in Genesis 30:2-23. Yet in the very next verse (24) Rachel says not Elohim but Jehovah, and it is the same in verses 27 and 30. The idea of different writers is pure imagination. It explains nothing, and it blocks any proper enquiry into God's own reason for the change of name. God, or Elohim, is the name that stands in contrast with man; Jehovah is His name of relationship.
That change of name matches Rachel's own heart. She speaks of God as a distant judge, until grace works in her.
Rachel here, even in her special circumstances, has no thought of Jehovah's ways. It is "Elohim has judged me," and so it goes on, until grace softens her heart. Then she says, in faith, "Jehovah will add."
Rachel's words carry more than a wife's grief. They picture a collapse familiar to any believer who sees no results.
The fruitfulness of Leah moved Rachel to jealousy, then her demand to Jacob for children moves him to anger (vv. 1-2). We may see a serious lesson in Rachel's words, "Give me children or else I die." If we do not see clear fruit, we tend to give up. The work in the soul that longs for true godliness may all but die. This very thing stunts the proper growth of many Christians.
What follows in the chapter shows the next step down. Instead of waiting, Rachel borrows a plan from Sarah, Abraham's wife — a plan that had not worked before.
Then we too often turn to a substitute of our own making, as Rachel did in verse 3. Sarah had done the same when she gave Abraham her servant to have a child by her. Rachel ought to have known that this did not work out as Sarah planned. But she thought, like Sarah, that the children of Bilhah, her servant, would be hers.
Later in the chapter Rachel stops scheming and prays. One writer marks the turn.
When we reach verse 22, we find God begins to act, and we leave behind the scheming of the two wives, though it is still Rachel who gives the name Joseph. Yet here is a son born as the fruit of God acting in answer to Rachel's prayers. The story rises to a higher level.
Kelly sets Rachel beside Hannah, another wife who had no children.
How different she was from Hannah! Peninnah's taunts made her sorrowful, and even the high priest misjudged her. Yet Hannah made no unworthy complaints against her husband. She wept and prayed and made vows to Jehovah, and the God of Israel heard her.
- Envy. Rachel had her husband's whole heart. Still she could not bear that Leah had children. Envy cannot stand to see another hold what it lacks.
- Blame. She aimed her complaint at Jacob, but her barrenness was never his doing. His angry reply only added a second wrong to the first.
- God's hand. Jacob's question puts the closed womb in God's hands. From this verse on, the change in the divine name follows Rachel's own distance from Him.
- Collapse. "Or else I die" is the voice of a soul that sees no fruit. It gives up, or grabs a substitute — as Rachel did with Bilhah, though Sarah's plan had not worked.
- Prayer. God acts in verse 22. Joseph comes as the fruit of Rachel's prayers. Hannah shows the same path: tears and vows to God instead of complaints against a husband.
And she said, Behold, there is my maid, Bilhah go in to her, in order that she may bear on my knees, and I may also be built up by her.
Rachel cannot have children. She hands her servant Bilhah to Jacob and asks for the child as her own. Two sons come of it — but commentators ask whether a woman may reach for God's blessing by a plan of her own, and what such a plan costs a home.
Writers set Rachel's request inside a custom of the time. Families prized children above almost everything else.
David proclaimed, "Behold, children are a heritage from the LORD, the fruit of the womb a reward." Psalm 127:3. Women in the East had a great desire for children. You can see it in Sarah, Rachel, and Leah giving their handmaids to their husbands so that they might have children by them. This always marked the women of Israel afterwards.
Rachel's plan was not new. Abraham's household had tried it, and the family knew how it ended. Kelly traces the chain: envy of her sister, unreasonable complaining to her husband, Jacob's sharp reply, then this plan.
It was envy — that base feeling which cannot bear to see another, even a sister, have what she had not. It broke out in unreasonable and irreverent complaining to her husband, as if her barrenness were his fault. No wonder his anger resented her unworthy state. He replied, "Am I in the place of God, who has withheld from you the fruit of the womb?" But he gave in to her proposal, and takes Bilhah so that she might have children by her maid. Had not honoured Sarah done the same? Yes, but through Ishmael did its fruit not end in the expulsion of both Hagar and her son? Was this encouraging?
Rachel's answer was a substitute of her own making. One writer sees the same pattern in believers today.
Then we too often resort to a humanly conceived substitution, as Rachel did in verse 3. Sarah had done the same in giving Abraham her handmaid by whom to have a child. Rachel ought to have known that this did not work out as Sarah planned. But she thought, as Sarah did, that the children of Bilhah, her handmaid, would be hers... All of this struggle is a picture of the struggle in Romans 7. We try to subdue the evil passions of our hearts, but the effort only stirs them up.
A second woman in the house did not settle the rivalry. Bellett sets Jacob's home beside Abraham's, and traces where the trouble came from and what removes it.
The house of Abraham was such a scene. There Hagar and Sarah lived together for a time, but in sad discord and strife. Again, the family of Jacob showed the same. Leah and Rachel, the two wives, lived together, but between them there was the same disturbance, reproach and envy... Unbelief brought the trouble in, and only strengthening the freewoman could remove it. So it was Sarah's unbelief that brought Hagar into the family. She could have waited in the patience of faith for the Lord's time. Then she would never have given her maid to Abraham, and Hagar and Ishmael would not have cost her fourteen years of sorrow.
Commentators say plainly that this was never God's design for marriage. Yet He did not disown the children it produced.
All this shows what God's institution of marriage was: one man and one woman, the two and only two, becoming one. What is more than this is not of God... Jacob's two wives gave their handmaids to their husband, and so he had four wives. God counted the twelve sons of these four women all alike as sons of Jacob, and they became the heads of the twelve tribes. One might have thought that God would not bless the children of these unions, but He did.
The names Rachel gave Bilhah's sons say what was in her heart. Yet the story does not end there.
The names Rachel gave the sons of Bilhah expressed the state of her soul, and her attitude toward her sister. Dan and Naphtali do not tell us of grace, but of satisfaction in winning points of strife on her own part... Every wrong has its effect among men and its judgment before Him. But God alone has the right to cause all things to work together for good to those who love Him, the called according to purpose.
- Envy starts it. Rachel could not bear that her sister had what she lacked, and blamed her husband for what God had withheld.
- The substitute follows. She borrows Sarah's plan and puts her servant in her place, forgetting how it ended for Sarah.
- Sorrow answers it. Unbelief brought a second woman into Abraham's house and into Jacob's. Both filled with discord and reproach.
- The order was known. Marriage from the start was one man and one woman; more than that is not from God.
- Grace outlasts it. God still counted all twelve sons as Jacob's and made them heads of the tribes. He works all things together for good to those who love Him.
And she gave him Bilhah her maidservant as wife, and Jacob went in to her.
Rachel, unable to have children, hands her servant Bilhah to Jacob, and Jacob agrees. It reads like a private family decision. Yet two of Israel's tribes came from it, and it raises a question: why does Scripture record such things?
These chapters read like family quarrels. One writer explains their value.
What sets Scripture apart from all other writings is that it reveals God and comes from God. But there is much more of the greatest value in it. We have man as he is, as nowhere else: the truth is told us so that we may know ourselves as well as God. That is why inspired light on these things is so interesting and important. Man's proud selfishness tends to dismiss them as mere family quarrels. To the believer they are full of healthy instruction, and they point to God's own concern and compassion... No one will boast before God. It is good and wise to learn that now, so that, as Scripture says, the one who boasts should boast in the Lord.
Jacob does not refuse. He gives in to a suggestion born of Rachel's envy — and one with an unhappy precedent already in his own family history.
It was envy — that low feeling that cannot bear another, even a sister, having what she has not. It broke out in unreasonable and irreverent complaining to her husband, as if her barrenness were his fault. No wonder his anger resented her unworthy state. He replied: "Am I in the place of God, who has withheld from you the fruit of the womb?" But he gave in to her plan, and took Bilhah so that Rachel might get children through her maid. Had not honoured Sarah done the same? Yes — but its fruit through Ishmael ended with Hagar and her son driven out. Was that encouraging?
Another childless woman in Scripture faced the same grief and a rival's taunts. She handled it differently.
How different from Hannah! She grieved under Peninnah's taunts, and even under the high priest's misjudgment. She made no improper complaints against her husband. She wept and prayed and made a vow to Jehovah, and the God of Israel heard her.
One writer sees Rachel's move as a pattern we all repeat.
Then we too often resort to a humanly devised substitution, as Rachel did in verse 3. Sarah had done the same in giving Abraham her handmaid to have a child by her. Rachel ought to have known that this did not work out as Sarah planned. But she thought, like Sarah, that the children of Bilhah, her handmaid, would be hers... All of this struggle is a picture of the struggle of Romans 7. That struggle only stirs up the evil passions of our hearts instead of subduing them, as we try to do.
The verse calls Bilhah a wife, and this left Jacob with four wives. That was never God's design — yet God did not disown the children.
All this shows that God's institution of marriage was the union of one man and one woman, the two and only two, becoming one. Anything more than this is not of God, but of human lust... Long after this, Scripture records wives who wanted children so much that they gave their maidservants to their husbands. We would now judge that as most unnatural in a wife... Jacob's two wives gave their handmaids to their husband, and so he had four wives. God counted the twelve sons of these four women equally as Jacob's own, and they became the heads of the twelve tribes. It might have been thought that God would not bless the offspring of these unions, but He did.
God's patience here had an end in view.
But in old times God permitted what was far from His mind, as we see here, until He makes all things new. Jacob was not Jesus, and neither was any other man, though a man of faith.
Rachel named Bilhah's two sons, and the names carry the rivalry behind them.
The names Rachel gave the sons of Bilhah expressed the state of her soul, and her attitude toward her sister. Dan and Naphtali do not speak of grace, but of satisfaction at scoring points of strife on her own part... Every wrong has its effect among men and its judgment before Himself. But it is God's prerogative to cause all things to work together for good to those who love Him, the called according to purpose. He at least is good and does good, whatever man has to mourn over.
- Envy starts it. Rachel could not bear her sister having what she lacked, and blamed her husband for what God had withheld.
- Substitution continues it. Handing over Bilhah was a human device to produce what only God gives. Sarah had tried it already, with painful results.
- Prayer was the road not taken. Hannah, in the same sorrow, wept, prayed and made a vow to God — and God heard her.
- God permitted what He never designed. Marriage was one man and one woman; God bore with departures from it until He makes all things new.
- Grace outlasts the mess. Dan and Naphtali record strife, not grace. Yet God counted these sons as Jacob's own, made them tribal heads, and works all things together for good.
And Bilhah conceived, and bore Jacob a son.
Rachel had no children, and she envied her sister, so she gave her servant Bilhah to Jacob to bear a child for her. This verse records the result, and the names that follow reveal both Rachel's heart and God's grace.
Rachel's plan came from a feeling she could not control. It also copied something that had already failed once.
It is all too sad to see why Rachel resented her own childlessness while her sister had many children. Self was at work in her. It blinded her to what her sister lacked: Jacob's heart, which Rachel alone had. It was envy, that low feeling which cannot bear another — even a sister — having what she had not... But he gave in to her proposal, and takes Bilhah so that she might have children through her maid. Had not Sarah, honoured as she was, done the same? Yes — but through Ishmael, did it not end with both Hagar and her son being driven out?
Handing a servant to her husband broke God's original design for marriage. Yet God did not write off the children.
All this shows what God set up marriage to be: the union of one man and one woman. The two, and only two, become one. What is more than this is not of God, but is of human lust... Jacob's two wives gave their handmaids to their husband, and so he had four wives. God counted the twelve sons of these four women as Jacob's sons, all alike, and they became the heads of the twelve tribes. It might have been thought that God would not have blessed the issue of these unions, but He did.
The next verse gives this boy his name. One writer links Rachel's method to a habit we still fall into.
Then we too often resort to a humanly devised substitute, as Rachel did in verse 3... When a boy was born (vv. 5-6), Rachel said that God had given her a son, and she named him Dan, meaning "judge."... All of this struggle is a picture of the struggle in Romans 7. We try to subdue the evil passions of our hearts, but this only stirs them up.
Here two things stand side by side: what Rachel's choices reveal, and what God does with them anyway.
The names Rachel gave the sons of Bilhah expressed the state of her soul, and toward her sister. Dan and Naphtali do not tell us of grace, but of satisfaction in gaining points of strife on her own part... But God keeps His own right. Every wrong has its effect among men, and it comes under His judgment. Even so, He causes all things to work together for good to those who love Him, the ones called according to His purpose.
Rachel gives God the credit for this birth. Which name she uses for Him matters.
How dreadfully everything has sunk morally since Abraham's time, and even Isaac's. This is not barrenness of the flesh, with God stepping in with promise and power. Instead, oh, what a scene of selfishness, jealousies, and scheming... So Rachel here, even in her special circumstances, has no thought of Jehovah's ways. She says, "God has judged me." It stays that way all the way through, until grace softens her heart. Then she says, in faith, "Jehovah will add."
This son becomes a whole tribe. Its future holds a dark chapter, and then blessing.
Dan was the first son of Rachel's maid Bilhah... Looking ahead, this brings us to the time when Israel governs itself again... It seems likely the antichrist will come from the tribe of Dan, since Revelation 7 leaves Dan out of the 144,000... Yet even so, Dan will have his place in the blessing of the millennium.
- Envy starts it. Rachel could not bear that her sister had what she lacked. Envy, not faith, drove the plan behind this birth.
- Copying fails. Rachel copied Sarah's substitute plan. Sarah's ended with Hagar and Ishmael driven out.
- Naming exposes. "Dan" means "judge"; the names Rachel chose speak of points won in a quarrel, not of grace.
- God still reckons. Jacob's family broke God's order for marriage. Even so, God counted all twelve sons as Jacob's and made them heads of the tribes.
- Grace outlasts strife. Rachel says "God" while her heart is hard. Grace softens her, and then she says "Jehovah." All the while God works everything together for good to those who love Him.
And Rachel said, God has done me justice, and has also heard my voice, and given me a son; therefore she called his name Dan.
Rachel is childless while her sister gives Jacob son after son, so she hands her servant Bilhah to him. When the boy is born, she names him Dan and calls it a verdict in her favour — but was God taking her side?
The child was not Rachel's own, and the plan behind him was not new.
Then we too often turn to a substitute of our own devising, as Rachel did. Sarah had done the same when she gave Abraham her servant to have a child by her. Rachel ought to have known that this did not work out as Sarah planned. But she thought, as Sarah did, that the children of Bilhah, her servant, would be hers. When a boy was born, Rachel said that God had given her a son, and she named him Dan, meaning "judge."
One writer names the feeling behind Rachel's demand, and sets her beside Hannah, another childless woman who took a different road.
It was envy. That low feeling cannot bear another person — even a sister — having what she did not have. It broke out in unreasonable and irreverent complaining to her husband, as if her barrenness were his fault... But he gave in to her proposal, and took Bilhah so that she might have children through her maid. Had not Sarah, who was honoured, done the same? Yes, but through Ishmael did it not end with both Hagar and her son being sent away?... How different from Hannah, sorrowful under Peninnah's taunts... She broke out into no improper complaints against her husband. She wept and prayed and made a vow to Jehovah, and the God of Israel heard her.
The names in this chapter tell us what was in the mother's heart. God still works good out of it.
The names Rachel gave the sons of Bilhah showed the state of her soul, and her feeling toward her sister. Dan and Naphtali do not speak of grace. They speak of her satisfaction at scoring points in the quarrel... But it is God's own right to cause all things to work together for good to those who love Him, who are called according to His purpose. Every wrong still has its effect among men and its judgment before Him. He at least is good and does good, whatever man has to mourn.
Rachel says "God" — Elohim — and not "Jehovah," the name the ESV prints as "the LORD." One writer weighs what her choice shows.
How far everything has sunk, morally, from Abraham's time, and even Isaac's. This is not the barrenness of the flesh, with God stepping in with promise and power. Oh, what a scene of selfishness, jealousy and cunning! There is only one green spot in it — Rachel, the barren one, is heard... So Rachel here, even in her special circumstances, has no thought of Jehovah's ways. She says, "Elohim has judged me," and it is like that all the way through, until grace softens her heart. Then she says, in faith, "Jehovah will add."
The mothers name these sons; Jacob has no say. One writer traces that silence to Jacob's own state at the time.
It is worth noting that in each case the mother gave the name, and it grew out of her own circumstances and feelings. Jacob does not appear to have had any say in the matter. In this up-and-down stretch of his life there is no record of his having an altar for sacrifice and fellowship with God. Being out of touch, he had no guidance about the names of his children.
The name given in a rivalry became a whole tribe's calling — and its warning.
Dan's place among the tribes stands for judgment, and that is an honourable place. Yet his later history contradicted the truth of that position. Dan was the first tribe to bring in idolatry openly. What a solemn lesson for us! When we are given the place of judging for God, we may take that authority for ourselves until it amounts to idolatry.
Yet the failure of the tribe did not cancel what its name promised.
Still, such is the grace of God that in Ezekiel's prophecy of the restoration of the tribes, Dan is the first named and provided for — the worst sinner of all. There the question is not one of service but of mercy... Then at last Jacob's promise comes true, the promise even their wickedness could not cancel: "Dan shall judge his people as one of the tribes of Israel."
- Judge. Dan means "judge," and Rachel gave the name because she read the birth as a ruling in her favour against her sister.
- Copied. Rachel took the plan from Sarah and Hagar, and it had already ended badly once.
- Elohim. She says "God has judged me," not "Jehovah" — that name comes only later, when grace has softened her.
- Silent. Jacob has no altar and no fellowship with God at this stage, so he has no voice in naming these sons.
- Overruled. A name born in strife became a tribe that fell into idolatry — yet mercy still keeps Dan's place among the tribes.
And Bilhah Rachel's maidservant again conceived, and bore Jacob a second son.
In Genesis 30, Bilhah has a second son. She was Rachel's servant, given to Jacob because Rachel could not have children. One line of family record holds an impatient plan, two rival sisters, and a name a whole tribe would carry. Why did God write it down?
Rachel could not bear children, so she arranged a substitute. One writer points out that she was copying a plan already tried in the family — a plan that had failed.
We too often resort to a humanly conceived substitution, as Rachel did in verse 3. Sarah had done the same in giving Abraham her handmaid by whom to have a child. Rachel ought to have known that this did not work out as Sarah planned, but she thought, as Sarah did, that the children of Bilhah, her handmaid, would be hers... Bilhah also had a second son, whom Rachel named Naphtali, meaning "my wrestling," because of Rachel's wrestling with her sister Leah. All of this struggle is a picture of the struggle of Romans 7. That struggle only stirs up the evil passions of our hearts, instead of subduing them, as we try to do.
The second birth settled nothing. One writer names the feeling behind Rachel's plan, then sets her beside Hannah, who met her own trouble at home in a different spirit.
One understands too well, too sadly, why Rachel should view her own childlessness and her sister rich in children with resentment. Self worked in her. It blinded her to this: her sister did not have Jacob's heart, and Rachel alone had it. It was envy — that base feeling which cannot endure another, even a sister, having what she had not... How different from Hannah! She was sorrowful under Peninnah's taunts, and even under the high priest's wrong judgment of her. She made no ugly complaints against her husband. She wept and prayed and made a vow to Jehovah, and the God of Israel heard her.
The names Rachel chose show what was going on inside her. But the same writer does not leave the story with her.
The names Rachel gave the sons of Bilhah expressed the state of her soul, and her attitude toward her sister. Dan and Naphtali do not tell us of grace, but of satisfaction in winning points of strife on her own part... Every wrong has its effect among men and its judgment before Himself. But it is God's right to cause all things to work together for good to those who love Him, the called according to purpose. He at least is good and does good, whatever man has to mourn.
Commentators differ over the name. One hears only Rachel's rivalry in it. Another asks whose strength a wrestler leans on.
Naphtali means "a wrestler." In a spiritual sense he is no longer a carnal wrestler trusting in his own power, but a mighty wrestler for God. That is what he is in the mind of God, and in the sense of his sonship as belonging to God. He represents that spirit of power of man with God, the weak with the mighty One.
Bilhah bore the child, but she did not name him. One writer notes this, and what became of the tribes that came from the two servants.
Here we have the origins of the tribes in these sons, and Leah and Rachel named them. The handmaids did not name their own sons, and the four tribes descended from these do not appear to have made any particular mark in the nation's later history.
A verse like this can look like family bookkeeping. One writer explains why God kept it in Scripture.
We have man as he is, as nowhere else: the truth is told us that we may know ourselves as well as God. So it matters that inspired light falls on what man's proud selfishness looks down on as mere family quarrels. To the believer these accounts are full of healthy instruction. They also carry a witness of God's concern and compassion.
- Wrestling begins. Rachel had no children, and that turned into envy. Envy produced a human plan instead of a prayer — the same shortcut Sarah took before her.
- Wrestling names. Rachel called Bilhah's second son "my wrestling." The names she chose record her struggle with her sister, not her confidence in God.
- Wrestling exposed. God kept the story so we can see ourselves. Scripture shows man as he is, and shows God's compassion inside what looks like a mere family quarrel.
- Wrestling redirected. Another writer reads the same word as strength drawn from God, not from self: not a wrestler trusting his own power, but a weak man mighty with the mighty One.
- Wrestling overruled. Every wrong has its effect and its judgment. Yet God works all things together for good to those who love Him. Out of this tangled household came the tribes of Israel.
And Rachel said, Wrestlings of God have I wrestled with my sister, and have prevailed; and she called his name Naphtali.
Rachel has no children of her own, so she gives Jacob her servant Bilhah. She then names Bilhah's second son from her fight with her sister — a fight she claims to have won, and calls God's.
One commentator sees Rachel repeating a mistake Sarah had already made, and reads the whole scene as a picture of an inner struggle:
Sarah had done the same, giving Abraham her servant to have a child by her. Rachel ought to have known that this did not work out as Sarah planned, but she thought, as Sarah did, that the children of Bilhah, her servant, would be hers. Bilhah had a second son whom Rachel named Naphtali, meaning "my wrestling," because of Rachel's wrestling with her sister Leah. All of this struggle is a picture of the struggle of Romans 7. That struggle only stirs up the evil passions of our hearts, instead of subduing them as we try to do.
Rachel had Jacob's love; Leah had the children. Rachel turned on her husband — the opposite of Hannah, who took her rival's taunts to God in prayer:
It is easy to understand, and sad, why Rachel looked at her own childlessness and her sister's many children with bitterness. Self worked in her and blinded her to her sister's lack of Jacob's heart, which she alone had. It was envy, that low feeling which cannot bear another — even a sister — having what she had not. It broke out in unreasonable and irreverent complaining to her husband, as if her barrenness were his fault... How different from Hannah! She was sorrowful under Peninnah's taunts, and the high priest misjudged her too. She made no improper complaints against her husband. She wept and prayed and made a vow to Jehovah, and the God of Israel heard her.
The ESV reads "mighty wrestlings." Older translations give Rachel's phrase as "wrestlings of God," and the name she uses there is Elohim. Leah had used the name Jehovah when she named her sons. One writer reads the shift of divine names in these two chapters as deliberate:
Notice the beauty of Scripture in the use of the divine names in these chapters. In the case of Leah (Genesis 29), who was hated compared with Rachel, Jehovah as such stepped in with His special regard for her sorrow. She expressed this in the name of her firstborn son, Reuben, and His hearing of her in her second, Simeon... but Jehovah has praise when she bore Judah. In Rachel's case (Genesis 30) there is no such expression at first of confidence in Jehovah's compassionate interest. In disappointment of heart she gives Jacob her maid. When Dan was born, she accepts it as the judgment of Elohim, and at Naphtali's birth she speaks of His wrestlings.
Rachel says she has prevailed. The same commentator weighs what her sons' names really record, and what God does with the whole story:
The names Rachel gave the sons of Bilhah expressed the state of her soul, and her feeling toward her sister. Dan and Naphtali do not tell us of grace, but of satisfaction at winning points in a quarrel... But every wrong has its effect among men and its judgment before Him. And it is God's prerogative to cause all things to work together for good to those who love Him, the called according to purpose. He at least is good and does good, whatever man has to mourn over.
The same name can carry a very different meaning. One writer takes Naphtali the wrestler in another direction:
Naphtali is the next one, representing the mighty man of vigour and of valour. Naphtali means "a wrestler" — and in a spiritual sense he is no longer a merely human wrestler, trusting in his own power, but a mighty wrestler for God. That is what he is in the mind of God, and in the awareness of his sonship as belonging to God. He represents that spirit of the power of man with God, the weak with the mighty One.
- Wrestling named. Naphtali means "my wrestling." The boy's name records his mother's contest with her own sister.
- Wrestling motivated. Envy drove it. Rachel could not bear her sister having what she lacked, and she blamed Jacob for what only God could give.
- Wrestling misnamed. Rachel claimed God for her fight. Leah had spoken of Jehovah's compassion; Rachel's words show no such confidence.
- Wrestling exposed. These names speak not of grace but of satisfaction at winning points in a quarrel. The fight stirred up the heart's passions instead of subduing them.
- Wrestling redeemed. God still makes all things work together for good. The same wrestler's name can stand for a mighty wrestler for God — the weak leaning on the mighty One.
And when Leah saw that she had ceased to bear, she took Zilpah her maidservant and gave her to Jacob as wife.
Leah had stopped having children, so she did what Rachel had just done and gave her servant to Jacob. Why does a woman who once broke out in praise now copy her sister's scheme, and what does God do with a family run on rivalry?
Rachel had used this move first, giving Bilhah to Jacob. One writer weighs the names Leah now chooses against the ones she had given before.
The names Rachel gave the sons of Bilhah expressed the state of her soul, and her feelings toward her sister. Dan and Naphtali do not tell us of grace, but of satisfaction at scoring points in a quarrel of her own making. The same snare caught Leah, and through Zilpah she would match that advantage. She named Zilpah's sons Gad and Asher. Those names do not reflect the contention that governed Rachel's spirit. Even so, they in no way rise to the level of faith she had shown in naming her own sons. Every wrong has its effect among men, and its judgment before Him. But God has the right to cause all things to work together for good to those who love Him, who are called according to His purpose. He at least is good and does good, whatever man has to mourn.
The drop shows when you set these names beside the one she gave her fourth son.
He never fails. Again she bore a son, and said, "This time I will praise the LORD"; so she called his name Judah. Never do we hear of her soul rising so high. The sorrow-stricken woman breaks out into praise of the LORD, and her fourth son carries that praise in the name she gave him that day. Yes, from Judah came, according to the flesh, the Christ, who is over all, God blessed forever. Amen. How much His grace rises above our praise!
Zilpah bore two sons, and Leah gave them names that say what she settled for.
When Leah had no more children, she used the same tactics as Rachel. She gave her maid Zilpah to Jacob. Zilpah bore him a son, and Leah named him Gad. Then came another son, whom she named Asher. Gad means "a troop" and Asher means "happy." So we find human support (a troop), and we try to make ourselves happy as we are, without reaching the state we long for. But Leah is not satisfied with this… So neither of them was content: the struggle continues.
Another writer finds the mood of this whole stage of Jacob's life in what the women's names mean.
Rachel means "sheep." Her name seems to stand for the meekness and patience of true discipleship. That is the exact opposite of Jacob's self-willed, unrestrained temper up to now. But he must get her by way of unwanted Leah. Leah's name means "wearied," and it suggests the tribulation that works patience out. Even then, before Rachel is fruitful, and while there is no hope of her fruitfulness, Jacob receives the servant women: Bilhah, "terror," and Zilpah, "a dropping" (as of tears).
Jacob now has four wives. One writer weighs that against God's design for marriage, and then against what God did with the children.
All this shows that God's institution of marriage was the union of one man and one woman — the two, and only two, becoming one. Anything beyond this is not of God, but comes from human lust… Jacob's two wives gave their handmaids to their husband, and so he had four wives. God reckoned the twelve sons of these four women equally as sons of Jacob, and they became the heads of the twelve tribes. It might have been thought that God would not bless the offspring of such unions, but He did.
Another writer points out how little we hear later of the tribes that came from the servant women.
Here we have the origin of the tribes in these sons. Leah and Rachel named them. The handmaids did not name their own sons. The four tribes that came from them do not seem to have made any particular mark in the nation's later history.
- Snare — Rachel set the pattern of scoring points off her sister, and the same snare caught Leah. Rivalry spreads faster than anyone means it to.
- Descent — In naming Judah she had climbed to praise, and Christ came from that line. Here she drops back to matching her sister.
- Substitute — "A troop" and "happy" name what we grab when we won't wait: human backup and self-made cheerfulness. Neither ends the struggle.
- Judgment — Marriage is one man and one woman. What goes beyond that is not from God. Every wrong leaves its mark among people, and God judges it.
- Grace — Yet God counted all twelve sons as Jacob's and made them heads of the tribes. He causes all things to work together for good to those who love Him.
And Zilpah Leah's maidservant bore Jacob a son.
Leah has stopped having children, so she hands her servant Zilpah to Jacob as a wife, and Zilpah has a son. One sister arranged this birth to compete with the other — so what does God do with a family built on rivalry and human schemes?
Rachel had already given her maid Bilhah to Jacob. Leah now copies the move, and one writer traces where that copying leads for both women.
When Leah had no more children, she used the same tactics as Rachel had. She gave her maid Zilpah to Jacob, and by her he had a son, whom Leah named Gad... Gad means "a troop"... So we find human support (a troop), and try to make ourselves happy as we are, without reaching the state we want. But Leah is not satisfied with this... So neither of them was content: the struggle continues.
The device was not new in this family. Jacob had taken Bilhah on Rachel's suggestion. One writer asks whether Sarah's earlier attempt was any recommendation, and sets beside it a woman who took a different road.
He gave in to her proposal and took Bilhah, so that Rachel might have children through her maid. Had not Sarah, that honoured woman, done the same? Yes — but did it not bear fruit in Ishmael, and end with both Hagar and her son driven out? Was that encouraging? How different Hannah was, grieving under Peninnah's taunts! She did not break out in improper complaints against her husband. She wept and prayed and made a vow to Jehovah, and the God of Israel heard her.
Hagar was Sarah's Egyptian servant, given to Abraham when Sarah had no child. Hannah was a wife with no children, taunted by Peninnah, her husband's other wife. She prayed instead of scheming.
Scripture records this arrangement without a word of approval.
But of old God permitted what was far from His mind, as we see here, until He makes all things new.
One writer reads the women's names in this chapter as a quiet commentary on what Jacob was going through. Zilpah's name belongs to that picture.
The names of the wives and children also point to the inward, personal character of the line of truth set before us here. Rachel means "sheep." Her name seems to stand for the meekness and patience of true discipleship, the very opposite of Jacob's self-willed and unruly temper up to this point. But he could only win her through Leah, whom he did not want. Leah's name means "wearied," and it suggests the "tribulation" that works out "patience." And even then, before Rachel has a child, and in despair of ever having one, the servant women come in: Bilhah, "terror," and Zilpah, "a dropping" (as of tears).
These were not Jacob's best years. Yet these very years produced the sons of a nation.
God's hidden providence has blessed Jacob and kept him safe all this time. Yet it was a time of failure: a spirit of cunning instead of confidence in God. It was the time when he was an outcast and rejected, and in this he is a picture of Israel. Yet this was really the time when his children were born, "for more are the children of the desolate than the children of the married wife, says the Lord."
In Abraham's household, God shut a servant's son out of the inheritance. Jacob's household turns out differently.
Something else is remarkable here. Unlike Ishmael in the story of Abraham, the sons of the servant women do not take a separate or lower place. They are blessed along with the other sons of Jacob. Of Ishmael God said that the son of the servant woman would never be an heir with the son of the free woman... Jacob's twelve sons give a complete picture of God's earthly people. God's government blesses them together, because in Scripture the number twelve is always connected with God's rule over His people.
Another writer notes a difference, though — one that shows up in who named the boys.
Here we have the origins of the tribes in these sons, and Leah and Rachel named them. The servant women did not name their own sons, and the four tribes descended from them do not appear to have made any particular mark in the later history of the nation.
- Plotting — Leah copies her sister's move and hands over Zilpah. The copying leaves neither woman satisfied.
- Precedent — the same plan in Abraham's house produced Ishmael and ended in expulsion. Hannah's tears and prayers were the better way.
- Permission — God allowed in that age what was far from His mind, so the record is history, not approval.
- Providence — Jacob's years of cunning and exile were still the years God used to give a nation its children.
- Parity — the servant's son is not shut out like Ishmael. The twelve are blessed together under God's rule, though the servant women never named them and their tribes stayed obscure.
And Leah said, Fortunately! and she called his name Gad.
Leah had stopped having children, so she gave her servant Zilpah to Jacob. Zilpah bore a son, and Leah greeted him with a word about luck, not a word about God. The name she chose, Gad, would travel far — into a tribe of fighters, and even into Israel's later drift from the LORD.
Scripture gives only the barest facts about Gad himself — his place in Jacob's family, and his own sons.
The seventh son of Jacob, and the first of Zilpah, Leah's maid. Very little is recorded of Gad, except that he had seven sons. Gen. 30:11; Gen. 46:16; 1 Chr. 5:11.
Older Bibles translate Leah's cry "A troop comes." Newer ones read "Good fortune has come." The word carries both senses, and the second one has a dark history. In Isaiah's day the same name stood for something Israel turned to after leaving the LORD.
God cannot forget the state of departure and sin that marked the people in Isaiah's day. They had forsaken the LORD; they had forsaken His holy mountain, where His temple stood. And what had they turned to? The rest of the verse reveals it, though the translation is rather unclear. Darby's New Translation puts "Gad" in place of "that troop," and "Meni" in place of "that number." Its footnotes explain that the first word means "Fortune, or the planet Jupiter," and the second means "Number, or Fate, or the planet Venus."
One commentator tracks which name for God appears at each birth.
Jehovah stepped in with His special regard for Leah's sorrow. The name of her first-born son, Reuben, expressed that, and the name of her second, Simeon, expressed His hearing. Jehovah has praise when she bore Judah. Leah, following Rachel's example, gains Gad and Asher through Zilpah, but makes no acknowledgment of the divine name in either form. After this comes the incident of using mandrakes for hire, when Elohim acts for Leah in sovereign power and she owns Him as such when Issachar was born.
This name falls below her earlier ones. Even so, it does not stop God's purpose.
Leah gave Zilpah's sons the names Gad and Asher. These names do not reflect the rivalry that governed Rachel's spirit. Even so, they fell far short of the faith she had shown in naming her own sons. But this is God's prerogative: to cause all things to work together for good to those who love Him, the called according to purpose. Every wrong still has its effect among men, and it faces judgment before God Himself.
Rachel had already given her servant to Jacob. Leah copies her, and one writer reads both names as a picture of leaning on human help.
When Leah had no more children, she used the same tactics as Rachel. She gave her maid Zilpah to Jacob, and Zilpah bore him a son. Leah named him Gad, and named a second son Asher. Gad means "a troop" and Asher means "happy." So we find human support (a troop), and we try to make ourselves happy as we are, without reaching the state we want. But Leah is not satisfied with this.
Leah spoke better than she knew. The word she blurted out turned out to describe the tribe's whole character — growth, and a fight to go with it.
Gad lies next to Reuben. Gad is the type of spiritual increase, and of a fighting condition too. Leah's exclamation, "A troop comes," holds both things. In a world like this, spiritual increase rarely comes without conflict. In David's time the men of Gad were famous as warriors.
Leah's word outlived her. The same name shows up in a prophecy about the tribe's last days.
Gad was the first son of Zilpah, Leah's maid. His name means "a troop." This name appears in the prophecy that a troop — the armies of enemy nations — would trample Gad underfoot, with Gad standing for Israel. The tribulation period will bring this to pass. But the same prophecy says Gad will in the end overcome the troop. God will give Israel the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.
- Cause — Leah copies Rachel's plan. She reaches for "human support (a troop)," and it leaves her unsatisfied.
- Gap — Her earlier sons' names owned God. This one makes "no acknowledgment of the divine name in either form."
- Warning — In Isaiah's day the same word stood for "Fortune," and people who had forsaken the LORD turned to it.
- Grace — Her weaker faith does not stop God. It is His prerogative "to cause all things to work together for good to those who love Him."
- Result — Her careless cry came true. Gad stood for increase, and increase "rarely comes without conflict" — trampled first, and overcoming in the end.
And Zilpah Leah's maidservant bore Jacob a second son.
Genesis 30 records a painful contest between two sisters over sons. This verse records the fourth son born to a servant, which raises a question: what does God do with children born into a home at war with itself?
These births come out of competition, not faith. The women who bore the children had no say in what followed.
Genesis 30:1-21 tells the sordid story of Jacob's children. It tells how both Rachel and Leah plotted to gain sons and so secure themselves in his favour. Here we have the origin of the tribes in these sons, and Leah and Rachel named them. The servant women did not name their own sons. The four tribes that came from them do not appear to have made any particular mark in the nation's later history.
Rachel had already given her servant to Jacob. Leah answered with a move of her own. The names she chose for Zilpah's two sons tell us where her heart now stood.
Leah fell into the same trap, and through Zilpah she would match that advantage. She named Zilpah's sons Gad and Asher. Those names do not reflect the contention that governed Rachel's spirit, but they by no means rose to the level of faith she had shown in naming her own sons. Every wrong has its effect among men and its judgment before Himself. Yet it is God's right to cause all things to work together for good to those who love Him, the called according to purpose. He at least is good and does good, whatever man has to mourn.
Leah now had a fourth son through her servant. The meanings of the boys' names show what she was reaching for.
When Leah had no more children, she used the same tactics as Rachel. She gave her maid Zilpah to Jacob, and he had a son by her. Leah named him Gad, and she named the next son Asher (vv. 9-13). Gad means "a troop" and Asher means "happy." So we find human support (a troop), and we try to make ourselves happy as we are. We never reach the state we want, and Leah is not satisfied with this… So neither of them was really content: the struggle goes on.
This arrangement fell far short of what God set up at the beginning. Yet the son born here was not treated as second class.
All this shows that God set up marriage as the union of one man and one woman. The two, and only two, become one. Anything more than this is not of God, but is of human lust… Jacob's two wives gave their servants to their husband, and so he had four wives. God reckoned the twelve sons of these four women equally as sons of Jacob, and they became the heads of the twelve tribes. It might have been thought that God would not have blessed the fruit of these unions, but He did.
All this took place during Jacob's twenty years away from home. Family growth and hard service ran side by side.
During his twenty years of exile, Jacob enjoys no further such revelations of His presence. In the meantime, God deals with him as one for whom He has purposes of blessing. He can only reach that blessing through painful discipline. God multiplies him mainly through unwelcome Leah and the servant women, while he serves long and with hard labour for wives and flocks. Like his descendants, he is multiplied as the dust, while trampled into it.
Centuries later Israel's story had collapsed. Yet a small faithful group still waited for Christ, and one of them came from the tribe descended from this child.
The blessing of Asher in Deut. 33:24-25 ends with these lovely words: "as your days, so shall your strength be." Yet all went to ruin, as the history of Israel unfolds. Yet at the first coming of Christ, the godly remnant of the people were "waiting for the consolation of Israel." Among them we find one of that same tribe: "a prophetess, Anna, the daughter of Phanuel, of the tribe of Asher"… And the Lord Christ Himself became identified with that obscure remnant. She was one of them.
- Rivalry. Rachel's scheme became Leah's scheme. Each sister used her servant to outdo the other, and neither was content.
- Silence. The servants bore the sons but did not name them. The rival wives chose the names, and those names fell short of faith.
- Mercy. What was far below God's own pattern for marriage did not stop Him blessing the children born from it.
- Discipline. God multiplied Jacob's family in his hardest years, while hard service trampled him like dust.
- Harvest. This birth began a tribe that made little mark in Israel. Yet Anna came from it, still waiting for Christ when He came.
And Leah said, Happy am I; for the daughters will call me blessed! and she called his name Asher.
Two sisters are competing for Jacob, and Leah's servant Zilpah has just borne a second son. Leah names him Asher, which means "happy" — but commentators ask whether that happiness was real, and where God is in her words.
Leah is copying Rachel, who had already given her servant to Jacob to gain sons. One writer reads the two names Leah gives Zilpah's boys as a picture of what people grab for when they cannot get what they really want.
When Leah had no more children, she used the same tactics as Rachel. She gave her maid Zilpah to Jacob, and he had a son by her. Leah named him Gad, and named a second son Asher (vv. 9-13). Gad means "a troop" and Asher means "happy." So we find human support (a troop), and we try to make ourselves happy as we are, without reaching the state we desire. But Leah is not satisfied with this... Neither of them was actually content: the struggle continues.
Earlier, Leah had put God into the names of her own sons. Reuben and Simeon confessed that the Lord saw and heard her; Judah was pure praise. With Zilpah's sons, that thread drops. One writer traces the divine names through these chapters and notices the gap exactly here.
Leah was hated compared with Rachel (Gen. 29). Jehovah, under that name, stepped in with His special regard for her sorrow. She put this into the name of her first-born son, Reuben, and His hearing into her second, Simeon... but Jehovah has praise when she bore Judah... Leah, following Rachel's example, gains through Zilpah Gad and Asher, but makes no acknowledgment of the divine name in either form.
So Leah announces her happiness without naming God at all. Her measure of blessing is what the women around her will say.
Names in this chapter work like a window. Rachel's choices, Dan and Naphtali, breathe rivalry; Leah's are gentler but thinner. The same writer weighs Gad and Asher against the faith she had reached before, and then lifts the whole scene into God's hands.
The names Rachel gave the sons of Bilhah expressed the state of her soul, and her attitude towards her sister. Dan and Naphtali do not tell us of grace, but of satisfaction in gaining points of strife on her own part. Leah was drawn into the snare and through Zilpah would equal that advantage. The names she gave Zilpah's sons, Gad and Asher, do not reflect the contention that governed Rachel's spirit. Even so, they came nowhere near the faith she had shown in naming her own sons. Every wrong has its effect among men, and its judgment before God Himself. But it is His prerogative to cause all things to work together for good to those who love Him, the called according to purpose.
The Bible does not tidy this household up. It records the manoeuvring plainly, and from it the twelve tribes of Israel come.
Genesis 30:1-21 tells the sordid story of Jacob's children, and of the schemes of both Rachel and Leah. They tried to gain sons and so establish themselves in his favour. Here we have the origins of the tribes in these sons, whom Leah and Rachel named. The handmaids did not name their own sons. The four tribes descended from them do not appear to have made any particular mark in the later history of the nation.
Why does God let such material stand in His book? Because Scripture is meant to show us ourselves as much as it shows us God.
We have man as he is, as nowhere else: the truth is told us so that we may know ourselves as well as God. Hence the interest and importance of inspired light on what the proud selfishness of man's mind is inclined to despise as mere domestic quarrels.
Leah spoke of happiness she had grabbed for herself. God later filled that same word with something she never planned. When Moses blessed the tribes before his death, Asher stands last and stands for joy that lasts.
Asher, meaning "happy," fittingly ends this interesting list. "Asher is most blessed of sons: let him be favoured by his brothers, and let him dip his foot in oil" (v. 24). Again, all Israel is represented in the lasting joy that Asher speaks of. "They shall obtain joy and gladness, and sorrow and sighing shall flee away" (Isa. 35:10).
The word even left a mark on Israel's songbook. The Psalms that open with "Blessed" carry Asher's name. One writer, quoting verse 13 in an older translation, sorts them by who is called happy.
It is worth noting that these Psalms beginning "blessed" the Jews call Asherite Psalms. Asher was the name of one of Jacob's sons. The mother, delighted with her child, called him Asher — "Happy am I, for the daughters will call me blessed."... First, Psalm 1 is the blessing of someone who has perfectly done God's will. It makes no allowance for any evil — all Christ. Second, Psalm 32 is the blessing of the poor sinner. He has not a shred of righteousness of his own, but is grafted into Christ.
- Happy, claimed. Asher means "happy." Leah's cry names a happiness she arranged for herself through her servant — the same tactic Rachel used.
- Happy, unnamed. She had once put God into her sons' names, right up to praise in Judah. With Gad and Asher she leaves God's name out.
- Happy, unsatisfied. The verse sounds like victory. Yet neither sister was content, and the struggle for Jacob's favour goes straight on.
- Happy, overruled. Every wrong has its effect, and its judgment before God. Yet He still causes all things to work together for good to those who love Him.
- Happy, fulfilled. The name outlived the boast. Asher stands for lasting joy in a later blessing on the tribes, and the "blessed" Psalms that carry his name find that happiness in Christ.
And Reuben went out in the days of wheat-harvest, and found mandrakes in the fields; and he brought them to his mother Leah. And Rachel said to Leah, Give me, I pray thee, of thy son's mandrakes.
Reuben's find in the wheat field leads to one of the strangest bargains in the Bible: a wife trading a night with her own husband for a handful of plants. What were these mandrakes, why did Rachel want them so badly, and why does God leave such a scene in the record of the family that became Israel?
The Hebrew word behind "mandrakes" is dudaim. Nobody can say for sure which plant it was.
dudaim. Some strong-smelling plant found in the fields of Palestine. Writers have suggested many different herbs. It is possibly the Mandragora officinarum, called the "love apple," a relative of the "apple of Sodom." Genesis 30:14-16; Song of Solomon 7:13.
Both women were reaching for something they had not managed to get any other way. Leah saw at once why her sister wanted the plants.
So we look for human support, and we try to make ourselves happy as we are, without reaching the state we want. But Leah is not satisfied with this. As soon as Reuben brings her mandrakes, she sees the chance of having another son. Rachel tried to get some for the same purpose, but Leah answered her sharply (v. 15). She knew Rachel's purpose. So neither of them was actually content: the struggle continues.
Both sisters treated the mandrakes as if the plants held power to give children. One writer says plainly what that trust was worth.
No veil covers their deplorable unbelief and mean jealousy. Nothing excuses their superstitious trust in the power of love-apples. In this they were just like other Syrian women, who gave themselves to the empty practices of the nations. Clearly Rachel gained nothing from the child Reuben's discovery. But God pitied Leah, who longed to share her husband's affection. She bore him a fifth son and a sixth, besides a daughter.
The one who bought the mandrakes stayed barren. The one who sold them received children. The plant did nothing; God gave the children.
Measured against Abraham and Isaac, this household has slipped a long way down. And the one bright spot in it is not the plant.
How dreadfully everything has sunk morally from Abraham's time, and even Isaac's. This is not barrenness of the flesh, met by God stepping in with promise and power. Instead, oh, what a scene of selfishness, jealousy and craft! Only one green spot is in it — Rachel, the barren one, is heard. All the rest is miserable and merely flesh, and God sends nothing but rightful chastening and discipline. And how that has marked the race ever since! Yet God has blessed and will bless.
These small, ugly scenes do two things at once.
They show us, to the life, the humbling history of the man who fathered a people God chose to be His own possession on the earth, despite these petty ways. They also let us into the secret of that grace in God which rose above all that was detestable beyond measure to His nature in light and love. That grace even looked on to Him who was to come from this very family — the Christ who is over all, God blessed forever.
And God does more than rise above the mess. He turns it toward His own end.
Every wrong has its effect among men and its judgment before Him. Yet God alone has the right to cause all things to work together for good to those who love Him, the called according to His purpose. He at least is good and does good, whatever man has to mourn.
- Plant. Dudaim is a strong-smelling field plant, possibly the "love apple." The Bible names it and never explains it, and careful writers leave the question open.
- Want. Nothing satisfied either sister — not servants, not sons, not a husband's affection. So the struggle went on.
- Bargain. Rachel asks for the plants. Leah knows exactly why, and answers her sharply.
- Failure. Rachel gained nothing from the mandrakes. Her trust matched the empty practices of the nations around her. God gave children to the sister who handed the plants over.
- Grace. The Bible hides none of the jealousy. That is how we see the grace that chose this family, and brought Christ from it, rising above everything in them.
And she said to her, Is it [too] little that thou hast taken my husband, that thou wilt take my son's mandrakes also? And Rachel said, Therefore he shall lie with thee to-night for thy son's mandrakes.
Two sisters, married to the same man, are bargaining, and the price is a night with their husband. Leah answers with an old grievance over a stolen husband, and Rachel offers the night as payment.
The bitterness here starts further back than the mandrakes. One writer traces it to the same source as the trouble in other homes where a man took more than one wife.
Marriage was set up at the start to give a man one companion only. Plural marriages appear never to have worked well in practice. Look at the humiliating discord in Abraham's family over the servant Hagar, and in Jacob's family, the bitter jealousies between the two sisters, Rachel and Leah.
Scripture softens nothing here. The mandrakes were prized plants — "love-apples" — that both sisters linked with having a child.
Scripture draws no veil over their shameful unbelief and mean jealousy. It makes no excuse for their superstitious trust in the power of love-apples, just like other Syrian women who gave themselves only to the empty things of the pagan nations. Rachel clearly gained nothing by what the boy Reuben found. But God pitied Leah, who longed to share her husband's affection, and she bore him a fifth son and a sixth, and a daughter as well.
Notice the outcome. Rachel paid for the plants and gained nothing by them. Leah bore more children, and the reason given is God's pity, not the mandrakes.
Leah's sharp answer is not the reaction of a woman at peace. She had never had a full share of her husband's affection, and now the plants were being asked for too.
As soon as Reuben brings her mandrakes, she sees the possibility of having another son. Rachel tried to get some for the same reason, but Leah answered her sharply (v. 15). She knew what Rachel was after. So neither of them was content: the struggle continues.
The thing fought over is small. One writer pictures envy at exactly that scale, then names the damage it does.
We are like a child in a nursery who pouts and frets because the other child has an apple a size larger than his own. And the child holding the big apple was the naughty one! Oh, what mischief can envy work in the heart of a believer! And what misery too it can produce, and what sin!
Rachel's offer sets a price on Jacob. The word "hire" then turns up in the name of the son who follows, and the bargain still falls short.
Mandrakes were clearly a cherished delicacy, and Jacob let himself be persuaded to share his bed with Leah that night. His natural appetite leads him, and Leah bears another son, Issachar, meaning "he will be hired." Then she has a sixth son of her own, named Zebulun, which means "dwelling." These six are all the sons Leah herself bore. This pictures how people can struggle hard to reach their own ends but always come short. Seven is the number of completeness, while six is the number of man's working week.
The names Leah chose show where her heart was.
But how strangely low Leah's state was in seeing Issachar as her wages from God, because she had given her servant to Jacob! And in naming Zebulun she was clinging to the hope that her husband's love would now last.
Why record a squabble like this at all? Because the family being described here is the family the nation of Israel came from — and the family the Christ came from.
They show us, true to life, the humbling history of the ancestor of a people God chose to be His own possession on the earth, despite these petty ways. They also let us into the secret of God's grace. That grace rose above everything His nature of light and love found beyond measure detestable. It even looked ahead to the One who would come from this very family — the Christ who is over all, God blessed for ever, as truly God as His Father.
- Root. The rivalry is the fruit of a marriage God never designed; plural marriages "appear never to have worked well in practice."
- Rivalry. Leah's sharp answer exposes a home where neither woman was content — "the struggle continues."
- Bargain. Rachel trades a night with her husband for a delicacy, and the son who follows carries the name "he will be hired."
- Shortfall. People "struggle hard to reach their own ends but always come short" — Leah reaches six, never seven.
- Grace. Scripture excuses nothing, yet God's grace rose above it all, and out of this very family came the Christ.
And when Jacob came from the fields in the evening, Leah went out to meet him, and said, Thou must come in to me, for indeed I have hired thee with my son's mandrakes. And he lay with her that night.
Leah meets Jacob at the end of the day and tells him she has bought his company for the night, with a plant her son found in the field. Two sisters had traded it between them, so what is God doing in a home run by jealousy and trade?
The word behind "mandrakes" names a plant that grew wild in the fields. No one has ever pinned down which plant it was.
Dudaim: a strong-smelling plant found in the fields of Palestine. Writers have suggested many different herbs. It may be the Mandragora officinarum, called the 'love apple,' a relative of the 'apple of Sodom.' The Atropa mandragora is another species. Gen. 30:14-16; Song 7:13.
Both women treated this plant as if it held power to give children. One writer traces that trust back to the customs around them, and says Rachel gained nothing by it:
Nothing covers up their sad unbelief and petty jealousy, and nothing excuses their superstitious trust in the power of love-apples. In this they were just like other Syrian women, who lived only for the empty things the nations around them valued. Rachel clearly gained nothing by the child Reuben's discovery. But God pitied Leah, who wanted to share her husband's affection, and she bore him a fifth son and a sixth, besides a daughter. Yet how strangely low Leah's state was: she counted Issachar her wages from God because she had given her servant to Jacob, and she named Zebulun out of her fond hope that her husband's love would last.
Leah's own word for the night becomes the name of the child born from it. Jacob went along with it.
Mandrakes were clearly a prized delicacy, and Jacob agreed to share Leah's bed that night. His natural appetite leads him, and Leah bears another son, Issachar, meaning "he will be hired." Then she has a sixth son of her own, named Zebulun, which means "dwelling." These six are all the sons that Leah herself bore. This pictures how people can struggle hard to reach their own ends and still come short, for seven is the number of completeness, while six is the number of man's working week.
Jacob had two wives, and the friction here traces back to that. One writer names the other homes where the same arrangement bred trouble:
Marriage was set up at the start to give a man one companion only. Marriage to more than one wife never seems to have worked well in practice. Look at the shameful discord in Abraham's family over Hagar, the lesser wife, and in Jacob's family, the bitter jealousies between the two sisters, Rachel and Leah.
Each sister got what she bargained for. One writer follows what each one was really after.
Leah is not satisfied with this. For as soon as Reuben brings her mandrakes she sees the possibility of having another son. Rachel tried to get some for the same reason, but Leah answered her sharply (v.15). Leah knew what Rachel was after. So neither of them was really content: the struggle goes on.
Nothing here is hidden. One writer measures this household against the days of Abraham and Isaac.
How terribly everything has sunk in moral terms from Abraham's time, and even Isaac's. This is no longer natural barrenness, with God stepping in by promise and power. Instead — oh, what a scene of selfishness, jealousy and scheming! Only one spot of green is in it — Rachel, the barren one, is heard. All the rest is misery and mere flesh, only fair correction and discipline from God. And how that has marked the race ever since! Yet God has blessed and will bless.
Commentators differ in emphasis. Some read the chapter as discipline on a family far from God. Others stress the pity God showed the unloved wife.
- Bargain. Leah bought a night with her husband using her son's mandrakes. The plant grew wild in the fields. People prized it as a delicacy and trusted it with a power it never had.
- Hire. The word she used priced the whole transaction, and it stuck: the son born of that night is Issachar, "he will be hired."
- Rivalry. Marriage began with one companion for one man. Where people set that aside — in Abraham's house and in Jacob's — jealousy followed.
- Restlessness. Rachel got the mandrakes and Leah got the night. Neither ended up content, and the struggle carried on into the next child.
- Grace. The record hides none of the selfishness and scheming. Yet in that same scene God pitied the unloved wife and heard the barren one, and He has blessed and will bless.
And God hearkened to Leah, and she conceived, and bore Jacob a fifth son.
Two sisters are bargaining over one husband: Rachel trades a night with Jacob for the mandrake plants that Leah's son found. The verse makes a striking claim about all of it: the son came because God listened.
The mandrake bargain looks like the cause of the birth. But Rachel, who paid, got nothing, while Leah, who sold, conceived. One writer notes that the record covers up nothing:
Nothing hides their sad unbelief and mean jealousy. Nothing excuses their superstitious trust in the power of love-apples. They were just like other Syrian women, given over to the empty practices of the nations. Rachel gained nothing from the child Reuben's discovery. But God pitied Leah, who was seeking to share her husband's affection, and she bore him now a fifth son and a sixth, besides a daughter.
The verse says God listened. It does not say the LORD listened. One writer sees how far this family has fallen, and reads Rachel's heart in the name she uses for God:
How far everything has sunk morally from Abraham's day, and even Isaac's! What a scene of selfishness, jealousies, and craft. So Rachel here, even in her special circumstances, has no thought of the LORD's ways; it is "God has judged me," and so it goes all through, until her heart is softened by grace; then she says, in faith, "The LORD will add."
The son born here is named in the next verse from the word for wages. Leah counts her child as payment owed her — and the counting never adds up:
Mandrakes must have been a cherished delicacy, and Jacob let himself be persuaded to share his bed with Leah that night. His natural appetite leads him. Leah bears another son, Issachar, which means "he will be hired." Then Leah has a sixth son of her own, named Zebulon, which means "dwelling." These six are all the sons that Leah herself bore. This pictures how people can struggle hard to reach their own ends and always come short. Seven is the number of completeness, while six is the number of man's working week.
Leah's own reason for the name shows how low her thinking has sunk:
How strangely low Leah's state is! She counts Issachar as her hire from God because she gave her servant to Jacob.
Nothing in this household is admirable. Yet one writer will not let the wrong have the last word:
Every wrong has its effect among men, and its judgment before Himself. But it belongs to God alone to make all things work together for good to those who love Him, the called according to purpose. He at least is good and does good, whatever man has to mourn over.
Issachar's name outlived Leah's bargain. One writer traces what the tribe became, and hears the meaning of the name in it:
In Issachar we find Israel content to be the drudge of the nations. Israel would not bear God's yoke, yet took the yoke of men without a struggle. Here too the name is dwelt on: "there is reward." Ease and gain are all that Israel looks for.
The same writer turns this on the reader. A son named "hire" raises the question of whether we deal with God for wages at all:
The prince of Issachar is Nethanel, whose name means "the gift of God." It suits a man whose own name speaks of hire, who bends his shoulder to foreign yokes and pays his tribute out of love of ease. God may hire a Nebuchadnezzar. But the bread in our Father's house is not for hired servants, even though in the far country one might think so. The hireling spirit in God's own people would turn His grace into legal payment. A true overcomer is this Nethanel, who has learned that the "gift of God" cannot be bought. The family line says the same thing simply: Nethanel is the son of Zuar, which means "Little." The one who thinks of hire is bound to value himself too highly. The one who counts himself really "little" is ready to value the gift of God.
- Listened. The son came because God heard Leah. No bargain and no plant produced him; Rachel bought the mandrakes and gained nothing by them.
- Pitied. One writer names God's motive: He pitied Leah, who was seeking her husband's affection. He answered her sorrow, not her scheming.
- Named. Leah reads the gift as wages owed her, so "hire" is the name she hangs on the child. Her six sons stop short of the seven of completeness.
- Overruled. Every wrong still carries its consequence. Yet God alone can make all things work together for good, and He does it in this jealous household.
- Inherited. The hireling thought outlasts Leah in a tribe that takes the yoke of men for ease and gain. The cure is to count yourself little and take God's gift as a gift.
And Leah said, God has given me my hire, because I have given my maidservant to my husband; and she called his name Issachar.
Leah trades her son's mandrakes for a night with Jacob, and a fifth son follows. She reads the birth as payment for handing her servant to Jacob. The name she gives him raises the question the whole scene presses on us: does God pay wages to those who scheme, or does He give?
The name itself carries the idea of payment. One writer gives its meaning, then links Leah's six sons to a number that falls short.
Mandrakes were clearly a cherished delicacy, and Jacob was persuaded to share his bed with Leah that night. His natural appetite leads him, and Leah bears another son, Issachar, meaning "he will be hired." A sixth son follows for Leah herself, Zebulun, which means "dwelling." These six are all the sons that Leah herself bore. This pictures how people can struggle hard to reach their own ends, but always come short. Seven is the number of completeness, while six is the number of man's working week.
Leah does credit God with this birth. One writer still calls her thinking low, and points instead to God's pity for a wife who wanted her husband's love.
Rachel clearly gained nothing by the child Reuben's discovery. But God pitied Leah, who wanted a share in her husband's affection, and she bore him a fifth son and a sixth, besides a daughter. Yet how strangely low Leah's state was, in treating Issachar as her hire from God because she gave her servant to Jacob.
The record of these lives is not flattering. The same writer finds two lessons in that.
These records show us, true to life, the humbling history of the ancestor of a people. God chose that people to be His own possession on the earth, despite these petty ways. They also let us into the secret of God's grace. That grace rose above everything His nature, in light and love, found detestable beyond measure. It even looked on to Him who was to come from this very family.
Leah's instinct did not die with her. Another writer finds the same hireling spirit among God's own people, and traces it to self.
The spirit of legality takes up such strange service willingly, since it is self that it really serves, and a bribe will turn it from its true Master. The hireling spirit in the people of God themselves would turn His grace into legal payment... The one who thinks of hire always values himself too highly. The one who counts himself as really "little" is ready to appreciate the gift of God.
Commentators read the name two ways: hire, and reward. Another writer takes the second sense, and marks where the chance to earn reward ends.
Issachar means "there is reward." Believers at the judgment seat of Christ will receive reward for what they have done for the Lord (2 Cor. 5:10), so this tribe appears to stress what our outward works should be, not just our inward character. Again, its borders are not clearly marked, as though showing that we should not limit our good works. We are to do them for all people, especially those of the household of faith (Gal. 6:10). The east border, however, was the Jordan River. It reminds us that death will end any chance to earn reward for good work done.
The name proved prophetic in two directions — one warning, one hopeful.
When Jacob blessed his sons he said, "Issachar is a strong donkey, crouching between the sheepfolds... he bowed his shoulder to bear, and became a servant at forced labour" (Gen. 49:14-15). This seems to imply that this tribe, with Zebulun, would mix with the world and become slaves to it for profit... Some of Issachar came to David at Ziklag, of whom it is said they "had understanding of the times, to know what Israel ought to do" (1 Chr. 12:32).
- Hire. Leah names her son from the idea of payment — "he will be hired" — treating a son as wages owed for giving her servant to Jacob.
- Low. One writer calls her state strangely low: she treats a son as her hire from God rather than as His pity.
- Grace. God pitied Leah. The record hides none of the scheming, and shows grace rising above it, right down to the One who was to come from this family.
- Gift. The hireling spirit rates self too highly. The one who counts himself little is ready to receive the gift of God.
- Reward. The name has a truer sense: real reward for work done for the Lord. The Jordan marks the boundary — death ends the chance to earn it.
And Leah again conceived, and bore Jacob a sixth son;
Leah's sixth son arrives in a household where two sisters bargain over one husband. The birth looks like a private family matter. Yet it starts one of the tribes of Israel, and the name Leah gives the boy shows what she was still hoping for.
Leah's own words explain the name she chose. Her sayings on this page come from an older translation than the ESV, where her hope reads as her husband "dwelling" with her.
Now we go on to Zebulun, whose meaning is plain from his name and from the way Leah uses it. She called him Zebulun (dwelling), saying, "This time my husband will dwell with me." The spiritual thought connected with Zebulun is dwelling in the relationship God has given us to Himself. This is the only true thought of consecration.
Leah calls the sixth birth a payment from God. She borrows the word from the marriage customs of her day.
Dowry: the sum paid by a man to the relatives of the woman who becomes his wife. Leah, on having her sixth son, piously said, "God has endowed me with a good dowry."
She credits God, yet what she wants from Him is her husband's attention.
It is clear that Rachel gained nothing from the child Reuben's discovery. But God pitied Leah, who wanted a share in her husband's affection, and she bore him now a fifth son and a sixth, besides a daughter. But how strangely low Leah's state was! She treated Issachar as her wages from God, because she had given her servant to Jacob. And she named Zebulun out of her fond hope that her husband's love would last.
Leah's own childbearing ends at six. Commentators read that number as a quiet verdict on the whole effort.
Then a sixth son is added for Leah herself, named Zebulun, which means "dwelling." These six are all the sons that Leah herself bore. This pictures how people can struggle hard to reach their own ends, but always come short. Seven is the number of completeness, while six is the number of man's working week. So Leah, speaking of what I am, can only produce what falls short of any real satisfaction.
The chapter flatters no one in it. Still, this is where Israel's tribes begin.
Genesis 30:1-21 tells the rather sordid story of Jacob's children. Both Rachel and Leah schemed to gain sons and so secure themselves in his favour. Here we have the origins of the tribes in these sons, whom Leah and Rachel named. The servant women did not name their own sons.
Jacob's own words over this son take the name in a different direction.
The name means a "dwelling with," a close dwelling, as Leah's use of it shows. But Jacob here uses another word, and in this place it clearly has a bad sense. Its first meaning is "to lay oneself down." Zebulun does this at the haven of the sea — the harbour for ships — and his border reaches toward Zidon. The idea of prosperity, or at least of hard work to get it, is plain. Yet for Israel this trade with the idol-worshipping nations was not a good sign, and its results were not good. Her border reaching out toward Zidon foretells a dangerous wiping out of what divided Israel from the nations. Coming where it does, this also clearly hints at how the people, having turned from the Deliverer God sent them, would turn to the world.
Much later, the region called by this son's name showed what that name had come to mean.
Galilee, called "the land of Zebulun and Naphtali" on one side and "Galilee of the Gentiles" on the other, showed plainly how far the people of God had sunk. Zebulun, the dweller in relationship as he should have been, had long since fulfilled Jacob's prophecy. By "dwelling at the haven of the sea" he had become the picture of Israel as a whole, giving up its dwelling alone to mix in unfaithful trade with the nations… But the Saviour of sinners is not stopped by this. There in the darkness was the very place for light to spring up. And now there had come to Zebulun a Dweller, in whom God Himself could dwell with man.
- Dwelling — Zebulun means "dwelling." Leah named him for the hope that her husband would now stay with her. True consecration is dwelling in the relationship God gives us to Himself.
- Dowry — a dowry was the price a man paid for a wife. Leah counted her six sons as God's good payment to her.
- Pity — God pitied Leah, who only wanted a share in her husband's love. Yet her state stayed low: she prized that love more than the God who heard her.
- Six — six, not seven, ends her childbearing. Human striving for our own ends always stops short of completeness.
- The Dweller — Zebulun's tribe gave up its dwelling alone for trade with the nations. Into that darkness came One in whom God Himself dwells with man.
and Leah said, God has endowed me with a good dowry; this time will my husband dwell with me, because I have borne him six sons. And she called his name Zebulun.
Leah bears a sixth son, and she takes the birth as God's gift after years of rivalry with her sister. She names him Zebulun out of hope that her husband will now stay with her, and that name follows a whole tribe through Israel's story.
Leah borrows a word from the marriage customs of her world. Older translations render her thanks as "a good dowry," where the ESV has "a good endowment." A dowry was the price paid to secure a wife, and Jacob had paid his in labour.
The sum paid by a man to the relatives of the woman who becomes his wife. Leah, when she had her sixth son, said devoutly, "God has endowed me with a good dowry." The dowry Jacob gave for his wives was seven years' service for each.
The name comes straight out of what she says as she gives it. Here the ESV reads "now my husband will honor me," while older translations read "this time my husband will dwell with me" — and Zebulun means dwelling. One writer takes that word further.
Now we go on to Zebulon, whose meaning is plain from his name and from the way Leah uses it. She called him Zebulon (dwelling), saying, "This time my husband will dwell with me." The spiritual thought tied to Zebulon is dwelling in the relationship God has given us to Himself. That is the only true idea of consecration.
Commentators differ on how well Leah is doing here. One writer reads her words as a low point. Her hope rests on Jacob's love, not on God.
Nothing covers over their sad unbelief and petty jealousy. Nothing excuses their superstitious trust in the power of love-apples, just like other Syrian women who lived for the empty things of the nations around them. Rachel clearly gained nothing from the child Reuben's find. But God pitied Leah, who longed for a share in her husband's affection, and she bore him a fifth son and a sixth, besides a daughter. Yet how strangely low Leah's condition is! She treats Issachar as her wages from God because she gave her servant to Jacob. And she names Zebulun out of her fond hope that her husband's love would now last.
Zebulun is the last son Leah bears herself. One writer finds meaning in the number.
These six are all the sons Leah herself bore. This pictures how people can struggle hard to reach their own ends and always come short. Seven is the number of completeness, while six is the number of man's working week. So Leah, speaking of what I am, can only produce what falls short of any real satisfaction.
This verse is not only about one household. Each name here becomes a tribe, and the two rival wives chose those names.
Genesis 30:1-21 tells the rather sordid story of Jacob's children. It tells of the schemes of both Rachel and Leah, as they tried to gain sons and so secure a place in his favour. Here we have the origins of the tribes in these sons, and Leah and Rachel named them.
Leah wanted her husband to settle with her. Centuries later the land named after her son had lost that settled life.
Zebulon should have been the dweller in relationship with God. Instead he had long since fulfilled Jacob's prophecy, and "dwelling at the haven of the sea" had become the picture of Israel as a whole. Israel gave up its solitary dwelling to mix in unfaithful trade with the nations. Now it was only "the way of the sea," as if swallowed up in its waters. Naphtali, the wrestler, sat wrestling no longer, in a darkness that was truly the "shadow of death." But the Saviour of sinners is not stopped by this. There in the darkness was the very place for light to rise. And now there had come to Zebulon a Dweller, in whom God Himself could dwell with man.
- Dowry — Leah uses the language of a bride-price: God has paid her, and six sons are the payment.
- Dwelling — Zebulun means dwelling. It points to dwelling in the relationship God has given us to Himself.
- Hope — she pins that dwelling on a husband's love, and one writer calls this a low moment for her.
- Shortfall — six sons, not seven: hard effort still falls short of real satisfaction.
- Fulfilment — the tribe named "dwelling" ended up mixed with the nations and sitting in darkness. There a Dweller came, in whom God dwells with man.
And afterwards she bore a daughter, and called her name Dinah.
Genesis 30 is a running contest between two sisters. Each new child gets a name that marks a move in it, and this short verse closes the list of Leah's own children. One daughter appears among six sons. Commentators look at her name, and at her later story, to see what kind of home she came from.
The verse gives a name and nothing more. We learn the rest of her life from later chapters, and a short summary shows why she is remembered at all:
Daughter of Jacob and Leah. Shechem, son of the chieftain Hamor, defiled her. That led to the massacre of the people of Shechem through the craftiness and cruelty of Simeon and Levi. Gen. 30:21; Gen. 34:1-26; Gen. 46:15.
Each name in this chapter tells you something about the mother who chose it. Dan is the clearest case:
The names Rachel gave the sons of Bilhah expressed the state of her soul, and her attitude toward her sister. Dan and Naphtali do not tell us of grace, but of satisfaction at gaining points in the strife on her own part.
God was kind to Leah, but her heart stayed on the same low ground:
It is clear that Rachel gained nothing from the child Reuben's discovery. But God pitied Leah, who longed to share her husband's affection. She bore him now a fifth son and a sixth, besides a daughter. Yet how strangely low Leah's state was! She treated Issachar as her wages from God because she had given her servant to Jacob. She named Zebulun out of her fond hope that her husband's love would now last. Nor did the daughter's name show any higher view; it was close to Dan's.
One writer reads the count itself as a picture. Leah's own children stop at six:
These six are all the sons that Leah herself bore. This pictures how people can struggle hard to reach their own ends and always come short. Seven is the number of completeness, while six is the number of man's working week. So Leah, who speaks of what I am, can only produce what falls short of any real satisfaction. She did then bear a daughter whom she named Dinah (v. 21).
Nothing in this chapter is admirable. Yet something large came out of it:
Genesis 30:1-21 tells the sordid story of Jacob's children. Both Rachel and Leah schemed to gain sons and so secure themselves in his favour. Here we have the origins of the tribes in these sons, whom Leah and Rachel named.
Against all that, God's own character stands out:
Every wrong has its effect among men and its judgment before God Himself. But it is God's own right to cause all things to work together for good to those who love Him, the called according to purpose. He at least is good and does good, whatever man has to mourn.
Dinah appears again later, after her father has stopped travelling and settled down. One writer traces her choice back to his:
Jacob seems to have grown tired of the pilgrim path and gave in to the temptation to settle down and build a home. And what came of it? His daughter Dinah goes out to see the daughters of the land. Her father had settled down in the world instead of passing through it as a heavenly pilgrim. What could be more natural than that his daughter should want to be friends with the world? We all know the sad, shameful result. Who would have guessed that trading a tent for a house could bear such bitter fruit? Yet so it is. In our day too, the friendship of the world is still enmity with God. If we settle down in this world and lose the spirit of a pilgrim, we can hardly blame our children if they seek the friendship of those among whom we have made our home.
- Named — Dinah is the one daughter named among Leah's children. Her name stands close to Dan's, a name of rivalry rather than grace.
- Short — Leah's children stop at six, one short of completeness. Hard effort, and still no real satisfaction.
- Pitied — God still pitied Leah. He gave her sons and this daughter, and made this poor household the origin of the tribes.
- Overruled — Every wrong here keeps its own consequences before God. Yet He causes all things to work together for good to those who love Him.
- Costly — Jacob traded the tent for a house, and his daughter went out to the daughters of the land. A parent's settling down bears fruit in the children.
And God remembered Rachel, and God listened to her, and opened her womb.
Genesis 30 has been a chapter of rivalry and bargaining between two sisters married to one man. At this verse the story turns: God steps in, Rachel's long barrenness ends, and the son born here changes the whole family's course.
Earlier in the chapter the sisters worked to get children by their own devices.
When we reach verse 22, we find God begins to act. We leave behind us the scheming of the two wives, though it is still Rachel who gives the name of Joseph. Yet here is a son born as the fruit of God acting in answer to Rachel's prayers, and the story rises to a higher level.
Rachel envied her sister for the children she had. Writers set her beside Hannah, another wife who was taunted for having no children.
Self was at work in her. It blinded her to the fact that her sister did not have Jacob's heart, which she alone had. It was envy — that low feeling that cannot bear another, even a sister, having what she had not... How different from Hannah! She was sorrowful under Peninnah's taunts, and even under the high priest's misjudgment. She made no improper complaints against her husband. She wept and prayed and made a vow to the Lord, and the God of Israel heard her.
Rachel's own words after the birth show she knew what the barren years had been.
Rachel at last, as we read here, refreshes the heart, for here we see the thoughtful tenderness of God's ways. After her long humiliation for her unworthy self-seeking, He was pleased to pity her and give her the son she had longed for. Then she said, God has taken away my reproach. Despite her proud bearing, she knew she was under chastening.
Writers watch which name Rachel uses for God. Earlier she credits a bare "God". Only after Joseph is born does she name the Lord in faith.
How far everything has sunk morally from Abraham's time, and even Isaac's! This is not barrenness of the body, with God stepping in with promise and power. Instead, what a scene of selfishness, jealousies and craft! There is only one green spot in it — Rachel, the barren one, is heard... So Rachel here, even in her special situation, has no thought of the Lord's ways. It is "God has judged me," and so on all through, until her heart is softened by grace. Then she says, in faith, "The Lord will add." Joseph is the promise of Benjamin.
Joseph means "adding" — she asks for more even while holding her first. Writers see him as a picture of Christ, though not a complete one.
At last God answered Rachel's prayer, and she gave birth to Joseph (vv. 22-24). His name means "adding," because she had confidence that God would add to her another son. Joseph is plainly a type of Christ... Yet Joseph gives us only one side of the truth about Christ — that He was a Sufferer before being exalted. We must all learn this first. Only then can we appreciate the truth seen in Benjamin. He is a type of Christ as the Son of the Father's right hand, glorified and exalted to the throne, reigning in glory.
The two wives also picture God's larger dealings. Rachel, loved first, stands for Israel. Leah, given in the meantime, stands for the Gentiles — the nations outside Israel.
Jacob loved Rachel first. Yet he still had to wait and serve another week for her, after Leah had been given to him. This bears on the Lord's relation to Israel, loved first, while the slighted Gentile has meanwhile taken her place, with rich results in His grace. God at last remembers Rachel and takes away her reproach by adding to her a son, Joseph. He is a type of One glorified among the Gentiles, who delivers His Jewish brothers after suffering among both Jews and Gentiles.
The change reached her husband too.
The birth of Joseph was a turning point for the spirit of his mother. It did more than that. Jacob then woke up to his proper place and to his country, tied to the promises of God... The needed discipline was not over: Jacob still had more to learn about himself under God's good dealings.
- Remembered, not forgotten. Here God begins to act, and the scheming of the two wives comes to an end.
- Remembered after chastening. Rachel's own words show she knew the barren years were discipline for envy and self-seeking. Hannah, by contrast, wept and prayed instead of complaining against her husband.
- Remembered changes her speech. Before the birth she speaks only of God. Afterwards she names the Lord in faith and expects more — "the Lord will add."
- Remembered reaches beyond her. Joseph pictures Christ as a Sufferer before He was exalted. Benjamin pictures Him glorified at the Father's right hand.
- Remembered moves the whole household. From Joseph's birth Jacob turns his heart back toward his own land and the promises of God. His training was far from finished.
And she conceived, and bore a son, and said, God has taken away my reproach.
Rachel had been childless for years, and this verse records the moment that ended. Her first words on holding her son are not about the child but about God.
Her word "reproach" carries an admission. She knew she had been under God's hand.
Rachel at last, as we read here, becomes a refreshment to the heart, through the thoughtful tenderness of God's ways. After her long humiliation because of her unworthy self-seeking, He was glad to pity her and give her the son she had wanted so much. Then she said, God has taken away my reproach. Despite her proud manner, she knew she was under chastening.
Her reproach was that she had no children. That is where God has often begun.
She shared her reproach with many a woman whom God raised up to be a channel of blessing to His people. She is barren. Like Sarah, like Hannah, like Rebekah, there is nothing of nature's energy and nothing of nature's strength in her at all. Perfectly desolate, perfectly helpless. Her own deep sense of this may well have stirred her soul and prepared her for God to make His will known to her. We see the same in Hannah: she was so concerned before God about her need that He could meet it and answer the request of her soul.
The chapters around this verse are full of rivalry and scheming. Against that background, Rachel's answered longing stands out.
How badly everything has sunk morally from Abraham's time, and even Isaac's. What a scene of selfishness, jealousy and craft! Only one green spot is in it — Rachel, the barren one, is heard. All the rest is misery and flesh, only just chastisement and discipline from God.
Here Rachel says "God". In the very next verse she uses the name Jehovah — the name the ESV prints as "the LORD". Some have argued that shifts like this prove Genesis was stitched together from different writers.
It is Jehovah in Genesis 29 and God in Genesis 30:2-23, yet in the next verse (24) Rachel says not God, but Jehovah; and it is the same in verses 27 and 30. The notion of different writers is mere fancy, explains nothing, and blocks all proper enquiry into the divine motive for the change of name.
The change of name is not random. It tracks a change in Rachel herself.
In sovereign power God remembered Rachel. She not only confesses that the God of creation had taken away her reproach, but calls her son Joseph, saying that Jehovah will add to her another son. Rachel rose from the thought of His power to the recognition of His ways with His own.
Rachel did not stop with the son she had been given. The name she chose for him looks ahead.
Rachel shows the way of faith on this same occasion. She calls her son "Joseph", that is, "adding". She was certain that the Lord, who had now begun His mercies towards her, would go on with them and complete them. Faith in our hearts and on our lips speaks in the same spirit today: "He who did not spare his own Son but gave him up for us all, how will he not also with him graciously give us all things?" From His gifts Rachel drew a plea to ask Him for still more. With bolder, happier faith she also drew a conclusion: she could trust Him for still more.
The son given to end her shame also points beyond her.
Jacob loved Rachel first, yet he had to wait for her and serve another week after Leah was given to him. This surely bears on the Lord's relation to Israel, loved first, while meanwhile the slighted Gentile has been put in her place, with rich results in His grace. God at last remembers Rachel. He takes away her reproach by adding a son to her, Joseph — a picture of One glorified among the Gentiles, who delivers His Jewish brothers after suffering among both Jews and Gentiles.
- Chastened. Her own word "reproach" shows she knew her barren years were God's discipline, not bad luck.
- Remembered. God remembered her, and the shame went. The One who withheld is the One who gives.
- Emptied first. Like Sarah, Rebekah and Hannah, she had none of nature's strength. God has often made such women a channel of blessing.
- Enlarged. She names the boy "adding" and asks for more. One gift from God is faith's ground for expecting the next.
- Christ. The son who ends her reproach pictures Christ. He is glorified among the Gentiles and delivers His own brothers after suffering at the hands of both.
And she called his name Joseph; and said, Jehovah will add to me another son.
Rachel had waited a long time for a child. Her son is born, and she names him for a second son she does not yet have. The name Joseph means "adding." That one word opens up her faith, God's dealings with her, and the Christ this son pictures.
The gift comes after a long humbling, and Rachel's own words admit it. She had carried her childlessness as a disgrace. God pitied her and took it away.
Rachel at last, as we read here, gives the heart something refreshing: the considerate tenderness of God's ways. After her long humiliation because of her unworthy self-seeking, He was pleased to pity her and give her the son she had longed for. Then she said, God has taken away my reproach. Despite her proud bearing, she knew she was under chastisement. The name she gave her firstborn is striking, for Joseph means He will add. As she said, Jehovah will add to me another. Her faith saw in Joseph the promise of Benjamin. Never before had she reached this level of expectation.
Up to this point Rachel had spoken of God only in the general title Elohim — "God has judged me." Here she uses Jehovah, the covenant name rendered "the LORD." One writer marks that switch as the moment grace softened her heart.
Rachel here, even in her special circumstances, has no thought of Jehovah's ways. It is "Elohim has judged me," and so all through, until grace softens her heart. Then she says, in faith, "Jehovah will add." Joseph is the promise of Benjamin.
Translations differ. The ESV reads a prayer — "May the LORD add." Older versions read a statement of faith — "Jehovah will add." Either way, her words look forward: because God has begun to give, she counts on Him to give again. Faith today reasons the same way.
The way of faith shows in Rachel on this same occasion. She calls her son "Joseph," that is, "adding." She was sure that the Lord, who had now begun His mercies towards her, would go on with them and complete them. So faith now in our hearts and on our lips says, in the same spirit, "He who did not spare his own Son but gave him up for us all, how will he not also with him graciously give us all things?" From His gifts, Rachel not only drew a reason to ask Him for still more, but in bolder, happier faith drew the conclusion to trust Him for still more.
Commentators read Joseph as a type of Christ — a picture of Him. But he carries only half the picture. Joseph shows suffering first, then glory. The second son Rachel asked for fills out the rest.
Joseph is plainly a type of Christ… Yet Joseph gives us only one side of the truth about Christ — that He was a Sufferer before being exalted. This is most important for us all to learn first. Only then are we in any condition to appreciate the truth seen in Benjamin. He is a type of Christ as the Son of the Father's right hand, glorified and exalted to the throne, reigning in glory.
If the name means "adding," what does Christ add? One writer answers from the cross.
He adds to heaven's inhabitants. He says, in John 12:24, "Truly, truly, I say to you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the earth and dies, it remains alone; but if it dies, it bears much fruit." He refers here to His death. "Much fruit" is the result. And it is all to be gathered at last into the heavenly barn.
Rachel did get her second son. The cost was more than she could see at the time. Yet the faith in her asking is not forgotten.
He who remembered the barren woman and gave her a son will also remember, in that day, the faith that counted on Jehovah's boundless power and goodwill. That faith said, "The Lord shall add to me another son."
Kelly sets the sober note beside it.
How little she knew that Benjamin — son of his father's right hand — would be Benoni, son of his mother's sorrow; for his birth would prove her death. How much better to trust unfailing love and wisdom than to set the heart on any object here below!
- Remembered. God's pity, not Rachel's efforts, took away her reproach. Her own word shows she knew she had been under chastisement.
- Renamed. Grace softened her heart. She stops saying "God has judged me" and starts saying "Jehovah will add."
- Reasoned. Her faith argues forward. Because God has begun to give, He will keep giving. Faith today reasons the same way from the gift of God's own Son.
- Reaching. Joseph means "adding," and Christ adds. His death gathers much fruit into heaven's barn.
- Restrained. The second son came, and cost her life. Better to trust unfailing love and wisdom than to set the heart on any object here below.
And it came to pass when Rachel had borne Joseph, that Jacob said to Laban, Send me away, that I may go to my place and to my country.
Joseph's birth marks a turning point in Jacob's long stay with Laban: as soon as Rachel bears a son, Jacob asks to go home. Why should one child's arrival change a man's whole outlook — and why, having asked, does he not leave?
Jacob has to ask, because in Haran he is a servant in another man's house. The son born to him changes how that life feels.
As soon as Jacob receives Joseph, the child of promise, the son of his beloved Rachel, he speaks of leaving Padan, the place of his exile and bondage. See Gen. 30:25-26. Simple as this seems, it has character in it. The condition of an alien and servant did not suit him once he had the seed that showed him the power of God on his behalf. He may have felt, almost by instinct, that it was now right for him to assert his freedom and to think of his home and his inheritance.
Jacob asks to go to his own home and country — older translations read "my own place." Those words point to the land of God's promise, not to Haran. One writer draws a rule from this that reaches far beyond Jacob.
In verse 25, we find that the birth of Joseph helped to lift Jacob himself to a higher level. As a result, his mind turned to the land that was his according to God's purpose, and he wanted to go back there. We may take it as a rule, true in every age, that the divine purpose becomes all-important to the believer who enters into communion with God. Jacob realized afresh that there was a country he could call "my own place."
The verse dates Jacob's move to the day Rachel bore Joseph. The name she gave the boy tells its own story.
Rachel shows the way of faith on the same occasion. She calls her son "Joseph," that is, "adding." She was sure that the Lord, who had now begun His mercies towards her, would go on with them and complete them. In the same spirit, faith in our hearts and on our lips says today, "He who did not spare His own Son but gave Him up for us all, how will He not also with Him graciously give us all things?" From His gifts Rachel drew more than a plea to ask Him for still more. In bolder, happier faith she drew the conclusion that she could trust Him for still more.
This is a real change of heart, but one writer is careful not to overstate it. Jacob's schooling was far from over.
The needed discipline was not ended: Jacob had yet to learn more of himself under the good dealings of God. His life still bore a sadly mixed crop. But from here we see his heart turn toward the land. He had long been an exile from it, through his mother's schemes and his own.
This was not a passing mood. Jacob's words fit the pattern of his whole time in Haran.
As soon as the purpose or hand of the Lord gives him his dismissal, he leaves. He leaves even though Laban's contract and God's blessing were making it profitable for him to stay. He leaves even though he might well judge that Esau's hatred waited for him if he dared to return. But so it was. With loss behind him and danger before him, he leaves. Indeed, such had been his purpose all along, from beginning to end.
Jacob asks, but he does not go. Laban does not want to lose him, and the delay costs Jacob dearly.
It is fitting that when Joseph is born, Jacob's thoughts turn toward his proper home in Canaan (v. 25). When the person of Christ dawns on the believer's vision, he begins to realize that he should be in God's place for him. However, when Jacob tells Laban that he means to leave, Laban does not want to lose the service of his son-in-law... If Jacob had insisted on leaving then, he and Laban would have parted on better terms than they did later.
- Gift. A son from God changed how Jacob saw Haran. Life as an alien and a servant no longer suited him once he held the proof of God's power for him.
- Longing. Nearness to God turns the heart toward God's purpose. Jacob realized afresh that he had a country of his own.
- Faith. Rachel named her son "adding." She took one mercy as the promise of more, and made God's gifts a reason to trust Him for still more.
- Delay. Jacob asked but did not insist. Laban's unwillingness kept him there, and the parting later was far worse.
- Home. Jacob always meant to return. He left with loss behind him and danger ahead: home mattered more than profit or safety.
Give [me] my wives for whom I have served thee, and my children; that I may go away, for thou knowest my service which I have served thee.
Joseph has just been born. With that birth, Jacob turns to Laban, the father-in-law who has used him, cheated him and grown rich on his work. He asks to be let go, with the wives and children he has already paid for in labour. His words raise three questions. What is his? What has his service earned? And where does he belong?
Jacob had spent long years in Syria. He grew rich there, and Laban cheated him there. Commentators tie his sudden ask to the son Rachel had just borne.
He is the victim of deception. He finds that others besides himself can drive hard bargains. Yet despite all this, a clear faith holds the man to the promises of God. Even his prosperity does not make him lose sight of them. And when Joseph is born — a picture of Christ in a marked and distinct way, as we shall soon see — a longing takes hold of Jacob. He wants to be back in the land of promise, where God will give the blessings of His covenant, and where God Himself had promised to give him his inheritance.
Jacob is asking to be let go. One writer reads it as the moment Jacob stopped accepting life as a servant.
As soon as Joseph is given to him — the child of promise, the son of his beloved Rachel — Jacob speaks of leaving Padan, the place of his exile and slavery. Simple as this looks, there is character in it. Life as a foreigner and a servant no longer suited him, once he had the son who showed him God's power working for him. He may have felt, almost by instinct, that it was now right for him to claim his freedom, and to turn his thoughts to his home and his inheritance.
Jacob was far from Canaan, yet he calls it his own place. God's purpose is why he can say that. One writer draws a wider rule from it.
The birth of Joseph helped to lift Jacob to a higher level. As a result, his mind turned to the land that was his by God's purpose, and he wanted to go back there. We may take it as a given, true in every age, that when a believer comes into communion with God, God's purpose becomes the most important thing to him. Jacob realized afresh that there was a country he could call "my own place."
Jacob asks for his family as wages he has earned. The prophet Hosea sums up those years the same way, and one writer sees God's hand in them.
As the prophet Hosea puts it, Jacob fled into the field of Aram, and Israel served for a wife, and for a wife he kept sheep. He became an exile from the land of promise, cheated in a foreign land by his own relatives. That was the sad repayment for his own crooked ways. He had schemed to get what the Lord had already given him, and what the Lord would have secured for him in His own holy way of faithfulness and truth.
Jacob can point Laban to what Laban himself knows. One writer looks at how Jacob behaved through those years.
He silently accepts the wrongs of a master who treated him badly. He serves with patience, and suffers without complaint… While he was in the house of the Syrian, Jacob knew that he was under the mighty hand of God for correction, and he behaved that way. He did not defend himself when people blamed him. He did not fight for his rights when he was wronged and treated unjustly.
Jacob asked, but he did not press it. Laban did not want to lose him, and Jacob agreed to stay.
Fittingly, when Joseph is born, Jacob's thoughts turn toward his proper home in Canaan. When the person of Christ dawns on a believer's sight, he begins to realize that he should be in the place God has for him. But when Jacob tells Laban that he means to leave, Laban does not want to lose his son-in-law's service… If Jacob had insisted on leaving then, he and Laban would have parted on better terms than they did later. But Jacob agreed to stay on terms that he himself suggested.
- Gift — Joseph's birth is the hinge. A fresh sign of God's power for him wakes Jacob's longing for the land of promise.
- Longing — communion with God makes God's purpose matter most. Only then could Jacob call a far-off country "my own place."
- Claim — life as a foreigner and servant no longer fitted a man who held the promised son, so he asked for his freedom.
- Cost — the wives and children were wages. Hosea sums up those years as serving and keeping sheep for a wife. They repaid Jacob's own crooked ways.
- Delay — he asked but did not insist, so he stayed with Laban. A clean break then would have ended better than what came later.
And Laban said to him, I pray thee, if I have found favour in thine eyes -- I have discovered that Jehovah has blessed me for thy sake.
After twenty years of service, and just after the birth of Joseph, Jacob asks Laban to let him go home. Laban will not release him, because he has worked out that his own wealth came with Jacob — which raises a question about how a believer lives among people who value him for what he brings.
The ESV has Laban say he "learned by divination." Other translations read only, "I have discovered." The Hebrew verb behind the phrase is tied to the words for a serpent and for an enchanter. One writer traces its two senses:
The word is connected with nachash, a "serpent." It is usually explained to mean a "hisser," or "whisperer," and then "a mutterer of enchantments." But the use of the verb seems to point another way. In Genesis 30, Laban begs Jacob to stay with him. "For," he says, "I divine [or, more exactly, perceive by observation] that the Lord has blessed me for your sake."… So the verb seems to have been used first of drawing a conclusion from quick observation, and later of divining.
So Laban either read omens or worked it out by watching. Some render it plainly: he "has learned by experience that the Lord has blessed him through Jacob's presence there, and does not want to lose this."
Laban's compliment was also a business decision:
Laban delayed Jacob, as it turned out, for six years. He was a shrewd man, and he recognised that Jacob's presence with him had brought blessing. He wanted to keep that blessing, and he was willing to let Jacob set his own wages. So there followed another battle of wits, and this time Jacob, not Laban, gained the advantage.
The truth of Laban's confession is beyond dispute. Even years later, when his sons grumbled that Jacob had taken everything, the question stood: "after all, what was Laban's substance before Jacob appeared on the scene?"
The pattern did not stop with Laban:
Both Jacob and Laban recognised that the Lord had done this. Since that time God has blessed many Gentile nations through the presence of Israelites among them, after Israel was scattered among the nations.
Later in Genesis the same thing happens to Joseph in Egypt, and it becomes a calling:
So Joseph became a source of blessing in the house of the Gentile: "From the time that he made him overseer in his house, and over all that he had, the Lord blessed the Egyptian's house for Joseph's sake"… The Christian is not only called to blessing but, as he goes on his way, to be a blessing.
Jacob stayed and named his own terms. The bargaining that followed showed the two men to be more alike than different:
The bargain-making Jacob meets the bargain-making Laban, and both strain every nerve to outwit each other. We cannot wonder at Laban, for he had never been at Bethel. He had seen no open heaven… he had heard no magnificent promises from the lips of the Lord. No wonder, then, that he showed a grasping, grovelling spirit; he had no other resource. It is useless to expect anything from worldly men but a worldly spirit… But it is especially humbling to find Jacob, after all he had seen and heard at Bethel, struggling with a man of the world and trying by such means to pile up property.
Jacob's reply ends with a fair question about providing for his family. But its timing shows where his heart was:
Of course it is right for a man to provide for his own house. Yet at the time Jacob was more concerned for his own house than for the house of God. Most of us put our own house first. Years passed before God told Jacob to return to Bethel ("the house of God"), where he had made his vow.
- Presence. God blessed Laban's flocks because Jacob was there — the blessing followed the man, not the owner.
- Perception. Laban worked it out, by omens or by plain watching — the Hebrew verb can mean either.
- Reach. The pattern runs on: God blessed whole nations through His scattered people, and He calls Christians to carry blessing, not only to receive it.
- Pressure. The world's praise is a trap — Laban's offer held Jacob six more years and set two bargainers straining to outwit each other.
- Priority. Jacob asked when he would provide for his own house; the house of God at Bethel waited years longer. Most of us keep the same order.
And he said, Appoint to me thy wages, and I will give it.
After twenty years in Haran, Jacob asks to go home, and Laban answers with a blank cheque: name your own price. The offer sounds generous, but Laban has just admitted that Jacob is the reason he prospers — so who is really being served?
Laban is not offering a gift. One commentator points out the sense the word "give" can carry in Scripture:
"Give," as it is sometimes used in Scripture, means to award: compare Genesis 30:28; Exodus 2:9.
Laban lets Jacob set his own contract. He has worked out what Jacob's presence is worth to him.
Laban was a shrewd man and recognized that Jacob's presence with him had brought blessing. He wished to retain that blessing, and was prepared to allow Jacob to settle his own wages. As a result there followed a further battle of wits, and this time Jacob and not Laban gained the advantage.
Laban had watched God at work in his own household for two decades. It changed nothing in him.
Laban was a thorough man of the world when Jacob entered his house, and he was the same when Jacob left it. In all his dealings, from first to last, he had his eye on his own advantage. He has to admit that the hand of God was with Jacob. But he would use that hand, through Jacob, to serve himself, and turn Jacob's interest in God to his own account. For twenty years he saw the hand of the Lord, and the working of His grace and power, in his own house, and that every day. Yet he remained a man of the world still.
Jacob had already said he wanted to leave. Laban's counter-offer was the test, and Jacob stayed — at a cost he could not yet see.
If Jacob had insisted on leaving then, he and Laban would have parted on less unpleasant terms than they did later. But Jacob agreed to stay on terms that he himself suggested.
What follows is not a tale of one honest man and one crook. Both men bargain, and Jacob slips into it with ease.
It is remarkable to see how he gets back into an atmosphere so entirely suited to his moral make-up. The bargain-making Jacob meets the bargain-making Laban, and both strain every nerve to outwit each other. Nor can we wonder at Laban, for he had never been at Bethel: he had seen no open heaven, with a ladder reaching from there to earth; he had heard no magnificent promises from the lips of the Lord... It is useless to expect from worldly men anything but a worldly spirit, and worldly principles and ways... But Jacob had seen and heard all this at Bethel. To find him struggling with a man of the world, and trying by such means to build up property, is especially humbling.
Laban offered to let Jacob name the wages. The final account came out the opposite way to what he wanted.
Laban's greedy wish to profit by Jacob's strange bargain ended in making the self-occupied master poor, and the long-defrauded servant richer and richer. Laban shows no regret for the advantage he had taken of his nephew, and not the least caring affection for his daughters or their children. It was a righteous thing, as far as it could go in its way, to repay the evil-doer and recompense the sufferer.
Jacob's years of service were paid work, and spent where God did not want him. Another Servant stands in contrast.
For his two wives he served fourteen years, but only six years for the cattle. And he was not in the place where God would have him. See the contrast with the Bridegroom who longs deeply for the bride, yet is content to be cut off and have nothing! — refusing to serve the world for hire — content to be a stranger to His brothers... loving the wages of righteousness, having a right to all, yet taking none, so that He might receive all in resurrection.
- The offer. Laban tells Jacob to fix his own wages — "give" here meaning to award or settle a price, not to hand over a gift.
- The motive. Laban watched God bless his house through Jacob for twenty years and did not change. He wanted the hand of God only as long as it paid him.
- The bargain. Jacob does not refuse the game; he plays it. The man who had seen heaven opened at Bethel matches a worldly man move for move.
- The wages. The bargain meant to enrich Laban stripped him instead. It enriched the servant he had cheated — repayment, as far as such repayment can go.
- The contrast. Christ would not serve the world for hire. He took nothing, was cut off with nothing, and received everything in resurrection.
And he said to him, Thou knowest how I have served thee, and what thy cattle has become with me.
Jacob has served Laban for fourteen years. After Joseph's birth he asks to go home to his own country. Laban does not want to lose him, so he tells Jacob to name his wages. Jacob answers by pointing to the record of his service.
Jacob does not start with a demand. He starts with facts his employer cannot deny, and both men trace the increase to the same source.
He first pointed to what Laban had already admitted. Jacob had served him faithfully. Laban had little when Jacob came, yet his flock of sheep grew greatly (v. 39). Both men recognized that the Lord had done this. Since that time God has blessed many non-Jewish nations through the presence of Israelites among them, after Israel was scattered among the nations.
Jacob asks to leave just after Joseph is born. One writer sees weight in that timing, and thinks Jacob should have held to his plan.
When Joseph is born, Jacob's thoughts turn toward his proper home in Canaan (v. 25). When Christ becomes real to a believer's sight, he begins to realize that he should be in the place God has for him. But when Jacob tells Laban he means to leave, Laban does not want to lose his son-in-law's service. He says he has learned from experience that the Lord has blessed him through Jacob's presence, and he does not want to lose this (v. 27). If Jacob had insisted on leaving then, he and Laban would have parted on better terms than they did later (Gen. 31:25-55). But Jacob agreed to stay on terms that he himself suggested.
Laban's offer to let Jacob set his own wages is not generosity. He knows where his prosperity comes from and means to keep it.
Laban, however, pushed into the matter, and in the end his thoughts won out. He held Jacob back, as it turned out, for six years. Laban was a shrewd man and recognized that Jacob's presence with him had brought blessing. He wished to keep that blessing, and was prepared to let Jacob settle his own wages. As a result there followed a further battle of wits, and this time Jacob and not Laban gained the advantage.
Jacob's claim about his service is true. But those same years were years of correction, and his patience under Laban points to something real in him.
Jacob was a man of faith, but he failed in spirituality. So he comes under the Lord's discipline, to bear more fruit and better fruit. As he had cheated at home, he suffered abroad, and most of all at the hands of his mother's brother. His patience under Laban's hardhearted wrongs testifies that he bowed to God. He could now bear to be lifted up by slow degrees. And the story of divine retribution recorded here is the turning-point.
The same writer weighs both men together, and finds neither of them innocent of the atmosphere they created.
As the married life of Isaac and Rebekah was very different from that of Jacob with his wives and their maids, so the way Abram behaved toward Lot stands in sharp contrast with the way Jacob and Laban behaved. We are now in a far more cloudy atmosphere, though in the main Jacob was a faithful servant, and Laban deceitful and selfish. But God is not mocked, even in the day when evil is allowed to work its dark way until judgment returns to righteousness.
Jacob spoke the truth about his work. Then he secured his wages by a trick of his own, and one writer will not excuse it.
Jacob served for wages. Another writer sets that beside Christ, who had a right to all and took none.
For his two wives he served twice seven years, but only six years for the cattle. And with all this he was not in the place where God would have him. See the contrast with the Bridegroom! He longed greatly for the bride, yet was content to be cut off and have nothing. He refused to serve the world for hire. He was content to be a stranger to His brothers, a foreigner to His mother's children. He served His Father in the appointed place, and truly profited the world. He became obedient to death. He loved the wages of righteousness, having a right to all, yet taking none, so that He might receive all in resurrection.
- Service. Jacob's appeal rests on a record Laban cannot dispute: years of faithful work, and a flock that grew from little into a multitude.
- Blessing. Both men trace that growth to the Lord, not to management. God later blessed other nations the same way, through Israel living among them.
- Grip. Laban lets Jacob name his own wages out of shrewdness, not kindness. He wanted to keep the blessing he had spotted.
- Discipline. The man who cheated at home suffered abroad. His patience under wrong shows he bowed to God, and this is the turning-point of his story.
- Warning. Jacob spoke honestly, then secured his pay by craft — the world's way of righting a wrong, not God's. Christ served on other terms: a right to all, yet taking none.
For it was little that thou hadst before me, and it is increased to a multitude, and Jehovah has blessed thee from the time I came; and now, when shall I also provide for my house?
Twenty years of shepherding stand behind these words. Jacob sets out what Laban owned before he came and what Laban owns now. He credits the growth to God, then asks when he will provide for his own family.
Jacob's first argument is the size of Laban's herds. Both men traced the growth to the same source, and that pattern outlasted Jacob himself.
He first stressed what Laban had already admitted. Jacob had served him faithfully, so that though Laban had little when Jacob came, his flock of sheep grew greatly (v. 39). Both of them recognised that the Lord had done this. Since then God has blessed many nations outside Israel through the Israelites living among them, after Israel was scattered among the nations.
Laban had worked out the same arithmetic, and it shaped what he did next.
Laban, however, broke into the question, and in the end his thoughts won out. He delayed Jacob, as it turned out, for six years. Laban was a shrewd man, and he saw that Jacob's presence with him had brought blessing. He wanted to keep that blessing, and he was willing to let Jacob set his own wages. As a result there followed a further battle of wits, and this time Jacob, not Laban, gained the advantage.
The closing question of the verse is not wrong in itself. A man ought to care for his family. The problem lies in what it crowded out.
Then Jacob asks, "When shall I provide for my own household also?" Certainly it is right for a man to provide for his own house. Yet Jacob was at the time more concerned for his own house than he was for the house of God. Most of us put our own house first. Some years passed before God told Jacob to return to Bethel ("the house of God"), where he had made his vow (Gen. 31:13).
Jacob's flocks did grow. His home life did not improve with them, and the name God later used of Himself shows why.
The title "the God of Bethel" is of very real importance, for it means "God of the house of God." Jacob had been concerned about his own house (Gen. 30:30), allowing the claims of God's house to wait. But the growth of Jacob's house had not brought peace and happiness into all his relationships. It was time for him to learn that true contentment is found only in connection with God's house, where God's interests come first.
Jacob's trust in God had a boundary, and this verse marks it.
He could well believe that the Lord would bless others, but as for his own house, he himself must provide for that. Through it all, and in spite of it all, the unseen God heard the desire of Jacob's heart and gave him his fill. Yet in his own thought he had done it all, with God little known or acknowledged.
Jacob asked when he would provide for his own household. The answer came from God's hand, not his own.
When the words of Laban's sons and the looks of Laban himself showed their discontent, the Lord told Jacob to return to the land of his fathers. God's providence paid Jacob in some five or six years what Laban had cheated him out of over twenty. They really wanted to get rid of Jacob, but shrank from saying so. After all, what was Laban's property before Jacob appeared on the scene?
The verse raises a question still asked today: who should benefit from a faithful worker's labour?
Jacob did the hard work of caring for Laban's flocks for twenty years. Laban had sons who could have helped with this work, but it seems they left the work to the one man who could do it well. Were Laban and his sons all sharing the benefits of Jacob's work without having to work themselves? It seemed this was the case. Employers often think they have the right to take every benefit that labour produces, because they put up the original money. But God takes account of the guilt of employers who oppress their workers (James 5:4).
- Service. Jacob worked twenty years for Laban. Both men admitted that Laban's small holding grew large because the Lord blessed it.
- Overflow. God's people bring blessing into the homes they serve. Israel did the same among the nations after being scattered.
- Grip. Laban saw that blessing, wanted to keep it, and used the wage question to hold Jacob six more years.
- Priority. Providing for your own house is right. Putting it before God's house is the mistake. Jacob's growing flocks never bought him peace at home.
- Repayment. Jacob trusted God to bless another man's house, but provided for his own by himself. God still repaid in five or six years the wages Laban had withheld for twenty.
And he said, What shall I give thee? And Jacob said, Thou shalt not give me anything. If thou doest this for me, I will again feed [and] keep thy flock
Jacob has asked to leave. Laban knows this shepherd is the reason he has prospered, so he lets Jacob fix his own pay. Jacob asks for nothing and offers to keep tending the flock. Is that the boldness of faith, or the first move of a shrewd man?
Laban's offer was not generosity. It was calculation.
Laban, however, broke into the question, and in the end his thoughts won. He delayed Jacob, as it turned out, for six years. Laban was a shrewd man and recognized that Jacob's presence with him had brought blessing. He wished to keep that blessing, and was prepared to let Jacob settle his own wages. As a result there followed a further battle of wits, and this time Jacob and not Laban gained the advantage.
What Jacob asked for next explains why Laban agreed.
Jacob suggested wages that seemed very low. He asked for only the speckled and spotted sheep and goats and the black lambs. The normally coloured sheep and goats would therefore all belong to Laban. Laban saw himself as having the great advantage in this bargain. In this there is no doubt that Jacob wanted to show he was depending on God to give him what He wanted Jacob to have. The element of faith in God was certainly there. We know that God answered such faith. Yet we see later that his faith was weak. He resorted to human trickery in trying to make the sheep produce as he wished.
Commentators differ on how much credit Jacob deserves here. Some see faith; others look hard at the method he chose.
God did step in graciously for His injured servant. Even so, we could not imagine either his father or his grandfather using the kind of scheme Jacob used to get the fruit of his long and patient service, which was owed to him. Yet God stooped to use what, without His power, would have been, if not useless, then very limited.
Others see the whole deal as one more display of his name. Jacob means "supplanter" — one who trips a man up and takes his place.
The closing verses of this chapter reveal the device he used. It increased his flocks at Laban's expense. We notice how true he still is to his name — meaning Supplanter.
Laban had cheated him for years. That still did not settle how Jacob should answer.
Using counter-tricks to reverse the situation is quite the way of the world, but it is not according to God. If Jacob had rested with confidence in God, and not used the devices described in this chapter, the end God purposed would still have been reached, and his righteousness would have answered for him in a much more convincing way.
His offer to keep the flock again was not empty. Long and patient service stood behind it, and God was at work on the man himself all through it.
Jacob was a man of faith, but he failed in spirituality. So he comes under the Lord's discipline, to make him bear more fruit and better fruit. As he had cheated at home, he suffered abroad, and most of all at the hands of his mother's brother. His patience under Laban's hardhearted wrongs shows that he bowed to God. He could now bear to be lifted up by slow degrees. And the story of divine retribution recorded here is the turning point.
Grasping for the whole flock cost Laban the flock.
Laban greedily hoped to profit by Jacob's strange bargain. Instead it left the self-absorbed master poor, and gave the long-cheated servant new and growing wealth.
Set beside Christ, Jacob's bargain looks small. He gave up a wage, but not the world's service.
See the contrast with the Bridegroom longing greatly for the bride, yet content to be cut off and have nothing! — refusing to serve the world for hire — content to be a stranger to His brothers, a foreigner to His mother's children. He served His Father in the appointed place. He truly benefited the world. He became obedient to death. He loved the wages of righteousness. He had a right to everything, yet took nothing, so that He might receive all in resurrection.
Yet one detail points forward. Jacob chose the least valued animals as his wage.
The servant is willing to take the speckled and spotted of the flock as his pay. Christ is willing to accept what the world despises.
- The bait. Laban knew Jacob's presence brought him blessing. He let Jacob name his own wage to keep the profit, and a battle of wits followed.
- The wage. Jacob asked for nothing but the speckled and spotted. It looked like a poor deal, and Laban thought he had won.
- The faith. Depending on God to hand him what God wanted him to have was real faith, and God answered it.
- The flaw. The faith slipped into trickery. Jacob used a scheme his father and grandfather never needed. Had he simply trusted God, the same end would have come, and far more convincingly.
- The contrast. Jacob served the world for hire. Christ refused hire. He had a right to everything, took nothing, and receives all in resurrection.
I will pass through all thy flock to-day, to remove thence all the speckled and spotted sheep, and all the brown lambs, and the spotted and speckled among the goats; and [that] shall be my hire.
Jacob wanted to leave Laban, but Laban kept him and let him name his own pay. He asked only for the odd-marked animals in a flock of mostly plain ones — trust in God, or one more clever move?
Jacob had asked to leave. Laban had his own reason for keeping him.
Laban, however, pushed into the question, and in the end his thoughts won. He delayed Jacob, as it turned out, for six years. Laban was a shrewd man and recognised that Jacob's presence with him had brought blessing. He wished to keep that blessing, and was prepared to let Jacob set his own wages. As a result there followed a further battle of wits, and this time Jacob and not Laban gained the advantage.
The terms Jacob names sound almost too modest. One writer reads real trust in that.
Jacob suggested wages that seemed to be very low, asking for only the speckled and spotted sheep and goats and the black lambs. The normally coloured sheep and goats would therefore all belong to Laban. Laban saw himself as having the great advantage in this bargain (vv. 32-34). There is no doubt that Jacob wanted to show he was depending on God to give him what He wanted him to have. Faith in God was certainly there. We know that God answered such faith. Yet we see later that his faith was weak when he turned to human tricks in trying to make the sheep produce as he wanted (vv. 37-42).
Commentators differ on how much faith to grant Jacob here. Another writer finds no trust in this bargain at all. Jacob's name means supplanter — one who takes another's place by craft.
Jacob cannot allow God to settle the question as to his wives and his wages, but tries to settle everything by his own cunning and management. In short, it is "the supplanter" throughout. Turn, for example, to Gen. 30:37-42, and say where you can find a more skilful piece of cunning. It is a perfect picture of Jacob.
Whatever Jacob's motives, the bargain did not decide the outcome.
Laban's greedy desire to profit by Jacob's strange bargain ended up impoverishing the self-occupied master. Meanwhile the long-defrauded servant gained new and growing wealth. Laban shows no regret for the advantage he had taken of his nephew. He shows not the least caring affection for his daughters or their children either. It was a righteous thing, as far as it could go in its way, to repay the evil-doer and to make up to the sufferer.
One writer sees more in the choice of the speckled and spotted than a shepherd's sums.
The servant is willing to take the speckled and spotted of the flock for his hire — Christ is willing to accept what the world despises.
Another writer sets Jacob's years of hired service beside Christ.
See the contrast with the Bridegroom! He longed deeply for the bride, yet He was content to be cut off and have nothing. He refused to serve the world for hire. He was content to be a stranger to His brothers, a foreigner to His mother's children. He served His Father in the appointed place, and so truly profited the world. He became obedient to death. He loved the wages of righteousness. He had a right to all, yet He took none, so that He might receive all in resurrection.
- Bargain. Jacob asked only for the speckled, spotted and black animals. The pay looked so small that Laban thought he had the better deal.
- Faith. Naming so little showed Jacob leaning on God to supply what He wanted him to have. God answered that faith.
- Flesh. The same man later turned to tricks with the flocks — the supplanter, settling by his own cunning what he could have left to God.
- Reversal. Laban's greed in agreeing emptied him. The long-cheated servant grew rich — a righteous repayment of the wrongdoer.
- Christ. The despised part of the flock pictures what Christ is content to receive. Unlike Jacob, He refused to serve the world for hire. He took nothing, so that He might receive all in resurrection.
And my righteousness shall answer for me hereafter, when thou comest about my hire, before thy face all that is not speckled and spotted among the goats, and brown among the lambs, let that be stolen with me.
Jacob has just named his wages: he will take only the odd-coloured animals from Laban's flock. He then stakes his good name on a test anyone could run.
Jacob invited a future check: any plain animal found with him would count as stolen. On the face of it he asked for very little. Odd-coloured animals were few, and the rest of the flock stayed with Laban.
Jacob asked for wages that looked very low: only the speckled and spotted sheep and goats, and the black lambs. All the normally coloured sheep and goats would then belong to Laban. That share was small indeed, and Laban saw himself as having the great advantage in this bargain. There is no doubt that Jacob wanted to show he was depending on God to give him what He wanted Jacob to have. Faith in God was surely there, and we know God answered such faith. Yet we see later that his faith was weak, for he used human tricks to try to make the sheep breed as he wished.
The ESV says "my honesty"; older translations, which the writers below quote, read "my righteousness." Jacob wants the flock itself to speak for him later. Yet the standard he sets exposes his own. Laban had wronged him for years, and Jacob's answer was to out-manoeuvre him.
About this matter Jacob had said to Laban, "So shall my righteousness answer for me in time to come." That seems to show he had a rather low idea of what is right in the sight of God. Laban had clearly taken advantage of him in the past. But to use counter-tricks to turn the tables is the way of the world, not the way of God.
Commentators differ here. Another writer sees craft from the start: the offer would pay Jacob far better than any wage Laban would have named.
In their last agreement Jacob made an offer that, if Laban accepted it, his craft would make far more profitable than any wages Laban would give. It was one of his meanest schemes. But notice his lack of conscience: "So shall my righteousness answer for me in time to come." Laban is completely fooled. He jumps at the offer, but soon finds out his mistake.
The check Jacob invited never had to clear his name. The deal did turn in his favour — but not by Jacob's own management.
We are now allowed to see how God stepped in and made the agreement about the spotted and speckled cattle work in Jacob's favour. In the light of this, our thought would be this. If he had rested with confidence in God, and not used the tricks described in the last chapter, God would still have reached the end He purposed. And his "righteousness" would have answered for him far more convincingly.
Laban cheated Jacob again and again over twenty years of service. Repayment came quickly at the end, and it came from God.
In some five or six years God's providence paid Jacob the wages Laban had cheated him out of for twenty years. Laban and his sons wanted to be rid of Jacob, but would not say so. After all, what did Laban own before Jacob came on the scene?
One writer reads the arrangement as a picture of Christ. The servant asks for the animals nobody wants, and that is what later stirs up his master's anger.
The servant is willing to take the speckled and spotted of the flock as his wages. So Christ is willing to accept what the world despises. But it becomes known that these animals grow strong and many by looking at the partly peeled rod — which may mean the word with its inner meaning partly opened. Then Laban's greed and hostility flare up. In the end he loses the man through whom he had received great wealth, and loses his wealth with him.
- The claim. Jacob invites Laban to check his flock. He calls the result his honesty, in a test set up so that only the odd-coloured animals can be his.
- The flaw. Answering a cheat with tricks of your own is the way of the world. It shows a low idea of what is right before God.
- The repayment. God's providence paid Jacob in five or six years the wages Laban had cheated him out of for twenty.
- The answer. God, not Jacob's skill, moved the flocks over to him. Had Jacob rested in God instead, his righteousness would have spoken for him far more convincingly.
- The greater Servant. Taking the despised part of the flock as wages pictures Christ. He accepts what the world throws away, and the world ends up poorer for losing Him.
And Laban said, Well, let it be according to thy word.
Jacob has just named his wages — only the speckled, spotted, and dark animals — and Laban agrees on the spot. Why did such a shrewd man accept so fast, and whose side was the deal on?
Laban did the arithmetic in his head and liked it. The animals Jacob asked for were the rare exceptions in the flock, which left the ordinary-coloured majority to Laban.
Jacob suggested wages that seemed to be very low, asking for only the speckled and spotted sheep and goats and the black lambs. The normally coloured sheep and goats would therefore all belong to Laban. Such a percentage for Jacob would seem to be low indeed, and Laban saw himself as having the great advantage in this bargain.
Laban had already worked out that Jacob's presence paid, which is why he let Jacob set his own price in the first place.
Laban was a shrewd man and recognized that Jacob's presence with him had brought blessing. He wished to retain that blessing, and was prepared to allow Jacob to settle his own wages. As a result there ensued a further battle of wits, and this time Jacob and not Laban gained the advantage.
Commentators differ on what was in Jacob's heart when he made the offer. Grant, in the passage quoted above, sees real trust in it — Jacob leaving the outcome to God rather than naming a guaranteed sum. Others read the same proposal as a trap Laban walked straight into, and they fasten on Jacob's confident talk about his own honesty.
In their last agreement Jacob made a proposition which if accepted would be made by his craft far more profitable than any wages Laban would give. It was one of his meanest schemes; but mark his want of conscience: "So shall my righteousness answer for me in time to come." Laban, quite deceived, eagerly embraces the proposal, but soon finds out his mistake.
That appeal to "my righteousness" is itself a warning sign to some readers.
Jacob had said to Laban, "So shall my righteousness answer for me in time to come." This seems to show that he had a low idea of what is right in the sight of God. It was quite clear that Laban had taken advantage of him in the past. But to use counter-tricks to reverse the situation is the way of the world, not the way of God.
Laban's "Good!" was the sound of greed closing on bait. The years that followed reversed the two men's fortunes completely.
Laban's covetous desire to profit by Jacob's strange bargain turned to the impoverishing of the self-occupied master, and the new and growing affluence of the long defrauded servant. Neither compunction appears on Laban's part for the advantage he had taken of his nephew, nor the least considerate affection for his daughters or their children. It was a righteous thing, as far as it could go in its way, to requite the evil-doer and recompense the sufferer.
Jacob went on to help the bargain along with peeled rods at the watering troughs. Looking back from chapter 31, where God tells Jacob it was He who transferred the flocks, one writer draws the obvious conclusion about the whole arrangement.
We are now permitted to see how God had intervened and caused the agreement as to the spotted and speckled cattle to work in his favour. In the light of this our reflection would be that if he had rested with confidence in God, and not used the devices related in the last chapter, the end God purposed would have been reached, and his "righteousness" would have answered for him in a much more convincing way.
None of this cancelled God's care for Jacob — though it does sit oddly beside the lives of the men before him.
Whatever the gracious intervention of God for His injured servant, we could not conceive either his father or his grandfather adopting such an expedient as Jacob employed to acquire the fruit of his long and patient service that was due. Yet God condescended to use what without His power had been, if not in vain, but very partial.
One writer traces that pattern through Jacob's whole life and finds grace in it.
It is in tracing out Jacob's real character, stage by stage of his remarkable history, that one gets a wonderful view of divine grace. Grace begins at the very lowest point. It takes man up as he is, and deals with him in full knowledge of what he is. Nothing matters more than to grasp this about grace at the very start. It lets us face, with a steady heart, the later discoveries of how vile we are — discoveries that so often shake the confidence and disturb the peace of God's children.
- Greed agrees. Laban said yes at once. The terms looked tilted his way: Jacob took the few odd-coloured animals, Laban kept the rest.
- Greed loses. The bargain he grabbed at made him poor and made the servant he had cheated rich — a fitting repayment of the wrongdoer.
- Greed meets craft. Commentators differ. Some see faith in Jacob's low asking price. Others hear a low standard of right in his talk of "my righteousness."
- God gives anyway. God Himself moved the flocks to Jacob. Had Jacob rested in that instead of using tricks, his claim to be right would have spoken for him far more clearly.
- Grace begins low. God still stooped to use a man whose methods his own father and grandfather would never have used. Grace starts at the lowest point, so it can steady you when you discover your own.
And he removed that day the he-goats that were ringstraked and spotted, and all the she-goats that were speckled and spotted, every one that had white in it, and all the brown among the lambs, and gave [them] into the hand of his sons.
Genesis 30 ends with a business deal between two men who each expect to outwit the other. Jacob has asked for the oddly-marked animals as his pay, and that same day Laban pulls every one of them out and hands them to his own sons.
Laban took two precautions. He pulled the marked animals out of the flock Jacob would tend, then put a wide gap between the two herds.
All the special class of sheep he left with his sons. Then he himself took all Laban's sheep a long distance from the others, a three days' journey (v. 36). This assured Laban that his sheep would not mix with any spotted or speckled ones. Since Laban's sheep were all a normal colour, it was not likely there would be many born for Jacob to claim.
The terms Jacob proposed sounded like a gift to his employer.
Jacob suggested wages that looked very low. He asked only for the speckled and spotted sheep and goats and the black lambs. The normally coloured sheep and goats would therefore all belong to Laban. Such a share for Jacob looked very small indeed. Laban saw himself as having the great advantage in this bargain (vv. 32-34). There is no doubt that Jacob wanted to show he was depending on God to give him what He wanted Jacob to have. Faith in God was certainly part of this.
Laban now treats Jacob as Jacob once treated others. One writer sees his years with Laban as measured repayment.
No doubt he often had to suffer from Laban's deceit. But was this not a reminder of the deceit he had used himself? Laban deceives him about his wife, about his wages, about everything. Yet how had Jacob dealt with his father, not to mention his brother? Deceit must meet with deceit under the retributive hands of God. Do not wonder too much at the story of Jacob. Bless with all your heart the God who shows Himself caring for His servant. After Jacob had suffered a while, God let him prosper slowly but surely.
Having said he would leave the outcome to God, Jacob then goes to work on the breeding of the flock himself.
True, God was with Jacob — for nothing can stop divine grace from shining out... Still nothing can be done without a scheme and a plan. Jacob cannot let God settle the question of his wives and his wages. He tries to settle everything by his own cunning and management. In short, it is "the supplanter" throughout. Turn, for example, to Genesis 30:37-42, and say where you can find a more skilful piece of cunning.
Jacob had offered his own honesty as the proof of the deal. One writer notes what he lost by not leaving the outcome with God.
Suppose he had rested with confidence in God, and had not used the tricks described in this chapter. God would still have reached the end He purposed. And Jacob's "righteousness" would have spoken for him far more convincingly.
Jacob's scheme was not what made him rich.
In about five or six years, God's providence paid Jacob the wages Laban had cheated him out of for twenty years... He could truly say that even if Laban showed ill-will, the God of his father was with him. And if Laban tried to cheat him, God did not let him be harmed.
Jacob's tricks do not excuse his employer. One writer takes this straight to how employers treat workers today.
Jacob did the hard work of caring for Laban's flocks for twenty years. Laban had sons who could have helped with this work... Management often thinks it has a right to every benefit that labour produces, because management put up the money at the start. But God takes account of the guilt of management in the oppression of its employees (James 5:4).
Neither man in this chapter comes out well. Yet God did not walk away from Jacob.
None but God could have borne with such a man, as none but God would have taken such a man up. Grace begins at the very lowest point. It takes up man as he is, and deals with him in the full knowledge of what he is.
- Terms — Jacob asked for only the oddly-marked animals, a share so small that Laban thought he had won.
- Barrier — that same day Laban took out every marked animal and gave it to his sons. He then set three days' journey between the flocks, so Jacob's flock would breed few of them.
- Mirror — the deceiver was now the deceived. One writer sees Jacob's years under Laban as repayment for how he had treated his father and brother.
- Scheme — Jacob would not leave the result with God. He managed the breeding himself, and lost the clear proof of his honesty.
- Providence — God, not Jacob's scheme, moved the flocks from Laban to Jacob. He repaid twenty cheated years in about five or six, and His grace kept working with a man like this.
And he put three days' journey between himself and Jacob. And Jacob fed the rest of Laban's flock.
Laban answers Jacob's wage agreement by putting a three-day gap between the flocks. The marked animals go with his own sons. The rest stay in Jacob's care. The distance looks like plain caution. But it raises the question that runs through the chapter: who decides how a flock increases?
Laban had just pulled out every striped, speckled and spotted animal and handed them to his sons. That left Jacob tending a flock of plain colour, and the gap kept it that way.
All the special class of sheep he left with his sons. Then he himself took all Laban's sheep a long distance from the others, a matter of three days' journey (v. 36). That way Laban could be sure his sheep would not mix with any spotted or speckled. Since Laban's sheep were all a normal colour, not many were likely to be born for Jacob to claim. However, being so far away, Jacob could put into operation his cunning plan to make Laban's sheep bear striped, speckled or spotted lambs. He took fresh rods from trees, peeled strips of bark off them, and put them in front of the sheep when they came to drink (v. 38).
Jacob had asked for a share so small that Laban thought he was getting the better end of it. Commentators see something real in that. Jacob was leaving the outcome to God, though his trust did not hold for long.
Jacob suggested wages that seemed very low, asking only for the speckled and spotted sheep and goats and the black lambs... Laban saw himself as having the great advantage in this bargain (vv. 32-34). There is no doubt that Jacob wanted to show he was depending on God to give him what God wanted him to have. Faith in God was surely present here, and we know that God answered such faith. Yet we see later that his faith was weak. He turned to human scheming to make the sheep produce as he wanted (vv. 37-42).
The verse leaves Jacob pasturing the rest of Laban's flock, as he had for years. His uncle had wronged him again and again. Commentators read those years as God's discipline on Jacob's own past.
Jacob was a man of faith, but he failed in spirituality. He comes under the Lord's discipline so that he might bear more and better fruit. As he had cheated at home, he suffered abroad, and most of all at the hands of his mother's brother. His patience under Laban's hardhearted wrongs shows that he bowed to God.
Three days' distance also meant three days out of sight. The trap it set for Jacob is one we still fall into.
No doubt Laban was not aware of what Jacob was doing. Jacob wanted Laban to think he was only depending on God to decide how many sheep he should have. How often this is true of us too! We persuade ourselves that we are walking by faith in God, while using our own wits to help God supply our needs.
The flocks did change hands, and Laban's family noticed. But the cause was not the one Jacob had worked for.
Laban, according to Jacob's complaint, changed his wages ten times. Jacob got his own back by cunning tricks connected with the breeding of Laban's cattle, and according to the complaint of Laban's sons he had "taken away all that was our father's." So the contest went on until God stepped in again in a dream. He made known to Jacob that it was He, not Jacob's schemes, who caused the cattle to pass from Laban to him. And He called him out of the whole unpleasant business, back to Canaan.
Laban underpaid Jacob for twenty years. God's repayment took far less time than the fraud did.
God's providence paid Jacob in about five or six years the wages that Laban had cheated him out of for twenty years.
Was the counter-scheme fair, given how Laban had treated him? One writer answers plainly.
It was quite clear that in the past Laban had taken advantage of him. But to use counter-devices in order to reverse the situation is quite the way of the world, and it is not according to God... if he had rested with confidence in God, and had not used the devices described in the last chapter, the end God purposed would still have been reached. And his "righteousness" would have answered for him in a far more convincing way.
- Distance — Laban's three-day gap was a safeguard. A plain-coloured flock would produce almost nothing for Jacob to claim.
- Dependence — the low wage Jacob named showed real trust that God would give him his portion. God answered that faith.
- Devices — out of sight, Jacob reached for peeled rods and his own tricks. He let everyone think he was leaving it to God.
- Deliverance — God, not the rods, moved the flocks. He repaid in a few years what fraud had withheld for twenty.
- Duty — Jacob never needed the devices. Resting in God would have reached the same end, and made his righteousness far more convincing.
And Jacob took fresh rods of white poplar, almond-tree, and maple; and peeled off white stripes in them, uncovering the white which was on the rods.
Jacob and Laban have struck a deal over the speckled and spotted animals in the flock. Here Jacob makes sure the deal pays. He cuts fresh branches, peels white streaks in them, and lays them where the flocks breed. Was this trust in God, or was Jacob scheming again?
The verse names the trees. Writers give the Hebrew name behind the first one, and explain what "fresh" means here:
The word is libneh. It was probably the white poplar (Populus alba) that Jacob used: it was "green" in the sense of being fresh, moist.
The second name has changed in English Bibles:
The word is luz, which is now thought to refer to the "almond," and is so translated in the Revised Version. Gen. 30:37.
The plan itself was simple, and it worked:
He took fresh rods from trees and peeled strips of bark off them. Then he put them in front of the sheep when they came to drink (v. 38). The sheep mated at this time, and the plan worked very well for Jacob. A very large number of striped, speckled or spotted lambs were born.
One writer finds here Jacob the supplanter at his most cunning:
There is no holy, lifted-up confidence in God here, no simply looking to Him and waiting on Him. True, God was with Jacob, for nothing can stop the shining out of divine grace… Still, nothing happens without a scheme and a plan. Jacob cannot let God settle the question of his wives and his wages. He tries to settle it all by his own cunning and management. In short, he is "the supplanter" all through. Look at Genesis 30:37-42, and say where you can find a cleverer piece of cunning.
Jacob wanted to look like a man leaving the outcome to God. The peeled rods told a different story:
No doubt Laban had no idea what Jacob was doing. Jacob wanted Laban to think he was only depending on God to decide how many sheep he should have. How often this is true of us too! We persuade ourselves that we are walking by faith in God, while we use our own wits to help God supply our needs.
His hard years away from home were not random. What Jacob had done to others came back on him:
Jacob was a man of faith, but he failed in spiritual life. So he comes under the Lord's discipline, so that he might bear more fruit, and better fruit. As he had cheated at home, he suffered abroad, and at the hands of his mother's brother most of all.
God Himself made the agreement turn out in Jacob's favour. That leaves a plain lesson for anyone reading this chapter:
Now we are allowed to see how God stepped in and made the agreement about the spotted and speckled cattle work in Jacob's favour. In the light of this, our thought would be this. If he had rested with confidence in God, and had not used the tricks described in Genesis 30, God would still have reached the end He purposed. And Jacob's "righteousness" would have spoken for him in a much more convincing way.
There was a limit to what the scheme did. The trick Jacob used was one neither Abraham nor Isaac would have chosen, even though God acted kindly for His wronged servant (William Kelly).
after-note: DISCUSS
The chapter is humbling. Yet it also shows how grace works:
Grace begins at the very lowest point. It takes up man as he is, and deals with him in the full intelligence of what he is. It is vitally important to understand this feature of grace right at the start. It lets us face, with a steady heart, the later discoveries of how bad we really are — discoveries that so often shake the confidence and disturb the peace of the children of God.
- The wood — Jacob used fresh, moist branches — white poplar (libneh), luz (now read as almond), and plane.
- The work — he peeled white streaks into them and set them at the drinking troughs at breeding time. Large numbers of striped and spotted young came.
- The man — writers call the plan a piece of cunning. Jacob was scheming instead of waiting on God.
- The mirror — he had cheated at home, and abroad he was cheated. We too can tell ourselves we are trusting God while using our own wits.
- The outcome — God gave the increase anyway. If Jacob had rested in Him, the same end would have come. Grace begins at the lowest point, and it met him there.
And he set the rods which he had peeled before the flock, in the troughs at the watering-places where the flock came to drink, and they were ardent when they came to drink.
Jacob has just made a wage deal with Laban, and now he sets peeled sticks where the flocks drink and breed. Two questions run through the rest of his story: was the growth of his flocks his own doing, and where was God while he schemed?
Distance from Laban's own flocks left Jacob free to work unwatched.
Because he was so far away, Jacob could carry out his cunning plan to make Laban's sheep bear striped, speckled or spotted lambs. He took fresh rods from trees and peeled strips of bark off them. Then he put them in front of the sheep when they came to drink (v. 38). At this time they mated, and the plan worked remarkably for Jacob: a very large number of striped, speckled or spotted lambs was born.
The word translated "troughs" means a plain piece of farm equipment:
rahat, water-trough for cattle. Gen. 30:38, 41.
Jacob owned that God was with him, yet he still managed every detail himself. One writer treats this passage as the clearest display of the man's character:
True, God was with Jacob — for nothing can hinder the outshining of divine grace. And Jacob in some measure acknowledges God's presence and faithfulness. Still, he can do nothing without a scheme and a plan. Jacob cannot let God settle the question of his wives and his wages, but tries to settle everything by his own cunning and management. In short, it is "the supplanter" throughout. Let the reader turn, for example, to Gen. 30:37-42, and ask where he could find a cleverer piece of cunning. Instead of letting God multiply the striped, speckled and spotted animals — which He certainly could have done, had He been trusted — Jacob set about securing their increase by a piece of policy that could only have come from the mind of a Jacob.
The hidden rods let the whole scheme wear the look of trust:
Laban surely had no idea what Jacob was doing. Jacob wanted him to think he was depending only on God to decide how many sheep he should have. How often it is true with us too, that we persuade ourselves we are walking by faith in God while using our own wits to help God out in supplying our needs!
Commentators differ on whether the peeled branches had any real effect on the flocks. Some doubt they did, and read the episode instead as a mirror of Jacob's inner life:
Some question whether Jacob's trickery in verses 37-39 made any real difference. But whether it did or not, there is a spiritual lesson here that should have spoken to Jacob himself. The things we let occupy our attention most will affect us and everything that comes from us. Jacob was letting his desire for gain take first place in his thoughts. This was bad for him spiritually, and it made him selfish and underhand in what he did. We can usually spot such principles in natural things, while missing what they mean in our spiritual lives.
Another writer allows the trick its part, but puts the result down to God's power:
God graciously stepped in for His injured servant. Even so, we could not imagine his father or his grandfather using such a trick as Jacob used to get the fruit of his long and patient service, which he had earned. Yet God stooped to use a means that, without His power, would have been useless, or at best only partly effective.
Laban had cheated Jacob for twenty years. The growing flocks are not just a clever man's winnings. God is settling a debt.
Divine providence paid Jacob in some five or six years the wages Laban had defrauded him of for twenty years.
The chapter is unflattering, and that is where its comfort lies.
It is in tracing out Jacob's real character, stage by stage of his extraordinary history, that one gets a wonderful view of divine grace. None but God could have borne with such a man, as none but God would have taken such a man up. Grace begins at the very lowest point. It takes up man as he is, and deals with him in full knowledge of what he is.
- Jacob's hand. He peeled rods and set them in the drinking troughs at breeding time — a plan he kept hidden from Laban.
- Jacob's name. The scheme is the supplanter being himself: he could not leave the matter of his wages with God.
- Jacob's mask. He looked like a man trusting God for his share. We do the same when we call it faith and use our own wits.
- God's hand. Commentators differ over whether the sticks changed anything. They agree the increase came from God. He repaid in a few years the wages Laban had withheld for twenty.
- God's grace. It began with Jacob at his lowest and took him up as he was — which is the only ground on which it takes anyone up.
And the flock was ardent before the rods; and the flock brought forth ringstraked, speckled, and spotted.
Jacob's wages were the marked lambs, and here the flocks mate at the troughs in front of his peeled rods. Commentators ask whether the rods did anything at all, and what the scheme shows about Jacob.
The bargain looked safe for Laban.
Since Laban's sheep were all a normal colour, it was not likely that many would be born for Jacob to claim. But being so far away, Jacob could now put his cunning plan into action. It would make Laban's sheep bear striped, speckled or spotted lambs. He took fresh rods from trees, peeled strips of bark off them, then set them in front of the sheep when they came to drink. At this time they mated. The plan worked very well for Jacob, because a great many striped, speckled or spotted lambs were born.
Bethel was where God had revealed Himself to Jacob. One writer weighs that against how Jacob then lived in Haran.
If you wanted to learn what God was, you should go to Bethel; if to learn what man was, you should go to Haran. But Jacob had failed to take in God's revelation of Himself at Bethel. So he went to Haran, and there showed what he was — and oh, what scrambling and scraping, what shuffling and shifting! There is no holy and elevated confidence in God, no simply looking to Him and waiting on Him... Jacob cannot let God settle the question of his wives and his wages. He tries to settle everything by his own cunning and management.
Another writer points to Jacob's name, and to Laban's earlier wrong.
The closing verses of this chapter reveal the device he used to increase his flocks at Laban's expense. We notice how true he still is to his name — meaning Supplanter... It was quite clear that in the past Laban had taken advantage of him. But to use counter-tricks to reverse the situation is the way of the world, not the way of God.
Later God Himself told Jacob what had increased his flocks. It was not the rods.
Jacob got his own back by cunning tricks connected with the breeding of Laban's cattle... So the contest went on until God stepped in again through a dream. He made known to Jacob that it was He, not Jacob's schemes, who caused the cattle to pass from Laban to him. And He called him out of the whole unpleasant business, back to Canaan.
So the scheming was not just wrong. It was needless.
This is no doubt true, but it shows us that there was no need for Jacob to resort to his deceitful actions. God would bless him apart from this.
Laban had cheated Jacob for years. One writer reads the outcome as God settling that account.
Laban's greed made him want to profit from Jacob's strange bargain. Instead it impoverished the self-absorbed master and brought new and growing wealth to the servant he had long defrauded. ... It was a righteous thing, as far as it could go in its way, to repay the wrongdoer and make up to the sufferer.
The same writer sets Jacob's trick beside his father and grandfather, and beside the power behind it.
God did step in with grace for His wronged servant. Even so, we could not imagine either his father or his grandfather using such a trick. Jacob used it to get the fruit of his long and patient service — what he had earned. Yet God stooped to use what, without His power, would have been — if not useless — at best very partial.
Jacob got everything he set out to get.
At last Jacob has reached the limit of his desire by deceit, trickery and fraud. Through it all, and despite it all, the unseen God has heard the desire of Jacob's heart and given him his fill. Yet in his own thinking he has done it all. God is little known or acknowledged. Jacob's hand, his planning and his fraud have gained everything; it is all his.
Commentators differ over whether the rods had any effect at all. The lesson does not depend on settling that.
Some question whether Jacob's trickery in verses 37-39 made any real difference. But whether it did or not, there is a spiritual lesson here that should have spoken deeply to Jacob himself. The things we allow to occupy our attention most will affect us and everything that comes from us. Jacob was letting his desire for gain take first place in his thoughts.
- Blessing first. God would have blessed Jacob without the rods. The trick tried to seize by management what God was ready to give.
- Character shows. In Haran Jacob proved true to his name, Supplanter: he schemed instead of waiting on God.
- God, not rods. A later dream told Jacob that God, not his tricks, moved the flocks from Laban to him.
- Justice served. The bargain stripped the greedy master and enriched the servant he had defrauded — a righteous repayment, as far as it went.
- Gain, no gratitude. Jacob ended rich and gave himself the credit. What fills our thoughts shapes all that comes out of us.
And Jacob separated the lambs, and set the faces of the flock toward the ringstraked, and all the brown in the flock of Laban; and he made himself separate flocks, and did not put them with Laban's flock.
Jacob is building his own herds out of the flock he tends for Laban. Is this the care of a man trusting God, or the cunning of a man managing his own blessing — and if it is cunning, why does he still come away rich?
The verse describes a deliberate breeding plan. Jacob keeps his own animals apart, then controls what the rest of the flock sees when they mate.
Jacob separated the lambs that he could claim for his own and kept all of his own apart from the flock of Laban (v. 40). Then, when the stronger sheep of Laban were mating, he would use his peeled rods in the watering troughs. He would not do this with the weaker sheep. So he was able to secure the stronger sheep, while Laban ended up with the weaker ones (vv. 41-42). No doubt Laban was not aware of what Jacob was doing, and Jacob wanted Laban to think that Jacob was only depending on God to decide how many sheep he should have. How often it is true with us too, that we persuade ourselves we are walking by faith in God while using our own wits to help God out in supplying our needs!
Nothing here is left in God's hands. One writer reads this section as the clearest self-portrait Jacob ever painted.
True, God was with Jacob — for nothing can stop the shining out of divine grace. Jacob even owns God's presence and faithfulness in a measure. Still, he can do nothing without a scheme and a plan. Jacob cannot allow God to settle the question of his wives and his wages, but tries to settle everything by his own cunning and management. In short, it is "the supplanter" all the way through. It is truly a perfect picture of Jacob. Instead of letting God multiply "the striped, speckled, and spotted cattle," as He certainly could have done had He been trusted, Jacob sets about multiplying them by a piece of policy that could only have come from the mind of a Jacob.
Jacob's problem was not that he despised what God had promised. He valued it — he just would not leave it with God. And the way he got it came back on him in the same coin.
As to Jacob's character, he was most certainly a believer, and what is more, a believer who valued God's promises… But we do not find in Jacob this character of faith — confidence in God to bring about the promises. So while he values the promises, he uses fleshly means to obtain them; he counts on human policy instead of counting on God. There is blessing in the end. But God could not approve his conduct. In His governmental dealing with Jacob, God measures back to him the measure he has used; Jacob himself is continually the object of the same kind of deceit.
Jacob had earned those wages over years of hard service. But the way he took them sets him apart from the men before him in his family.
Here God graciously stepped in for His wronged servant. Even so, we could not imagine either his father or his grandfather using such a device as Jacob used to get the fruit of his long and patient service, which he had earned. Yet God condescended to use what, without His power, would have been — if not useless — very limited.
The chapter ends with Jacob a wealthy man. The problem is not the wealth. It is that he got what he longed for and never noticed whose hand had given it.
At last Jacob has reached the furthest limit of his desire by deceit, trickery and fraud. Through it all, and despite it all, the unseen God has heard the desire of Jacob's heart and given him his fill. Yet in his own thinking he has done it all — God little known or acknowledged. Jacob's hand, and thought, and fraud have gained it all; it is all his.
This unflattering story is not here to shame Jacob. It shows what God is like with people who are still this small.
Trace out Jacob's real character, stage by stage of his extraordinary history, and you get a wonderful view of divine grace. None but God could have put up with such a man, as none but God would have taken up such a man. Grace begins at the very lowest point. It takes up man as he is, and deals with him in full knowledge of what he is.
- Method — Jacob keeps his own animals apart and breeds from the strong. Laban ends up with the weak flock and never sees the plan.
- Mask — he wants Laban to think he is leaving the outcome to God. We do the same when we call our own scheming "walking by faith."
- Motive — he is a real believer who values the promises. But he does not trust God to deliver them, so he reaches for human policy.
- Mirror — God measures back to him the measure he used; the same deceit meets him again and again.
- Mercy — God stoops to use a device Jacob's father and grandfather would never have touched. Grace begins at the lowest point and takes a man as he is.
And it came to pass whensoever the strong cattle were ardent, that Jacob laid the rods before the eyes of the flock in the gutters, that they might become ardent among the rods;
Jacob's years with Laban end with a breeding trick: he set peeled rods before the flock when the strong animals were mating, and kept them back from the weak. Was this faith, cunning, or God at work through a man who had not yet learned to wait?
A reference work gives the word behind "troughs":
rahat, water-trough for cattle. Genesis 30:38, 41.
The timing of the rods is the whole point. Jacob used them on one kind of animal and not the other:
Jacob separated the lambs he could claim as his own and kept them apart from Laban's flock (v. 40). Then, when Laban's stronger sheep were mating, he would use his peeled rods in the watering troughs. He would not do this with the weaker sheep. So he secured the stronger sheep, and the weaker ones went to Laban (vv. 41-42).
Jacob's cleverness sits beside a real sense that God was with him:
True, God was with Jacob — for nothing can stop divine grace from shining out. Jacob also owns God's presence and faithfulness in some measure. Still, he can do nothing without a scheme and a plan. Jacob cannot let God settle the question of his wives and his wages. He tries to settle it all by his own cunning and management. In short, he is "the supplanter" all through. Turn to Genesis 30:37-42, and say where you can find a more skilful piece of cunning. It is truly a perfect picture of Jacob.
Commentators differ on how much the rods achieved. The lesson stands either way:
Some question whether Jacob's trickery in verses 37-39 made any real difference. But whether it did or not, there is a spiritual lesson here that should have spoken to Jacob himself. Whatever we allow to occupy our attention most will affect us and everything that comes from us. Jacob was letting his desire for gain take first place in his thoughts. This was bad for him spiritually, and made him selfish and underhand in his actions. But we can usually recognize such principles in natural things, while not seeing what they mean in our spiritual lives.
From the outside, the arrangement looked like trust:
No doubt Laban did not know what Jacob was doing. And Jacob wanted him to think that he was only depending on God to decide how many sheep he should have. How often it is true with us too, that we persuade ourselves we are walking by faith in God while using our own wits to help God out in supplying our needs!
Looking back, the increase traces to God and not to the rods:
We are now allowed to see how God had stepped in and made the agreement about the spotted and speckled cattle work in Jacob's favour. In the light of this, our thought would be this. If he had rested with confidence in God, and had not used the tricks described in the last chapter, God would still have reached the end He purposed. And Jacob's "righteousness" would have spoken for him far more convincingly.
The repayment, when it came, was swift:
Divine providence paid Jacob in about five or six years the wages that Laban had cheated him out of for twenty years.
The tragedy is not that Jacob failed to prosper. It is that he walked away thinking the prosperity was his own achievement:
At last Jacob has reached the furthest limit of his desire, by deceit, trickery, and fraud. Through it all, and despite it all, the unseen God has heard the desire of Jacob's heart and granted it in full. Yet in his own mind he has done it all himself — God is hardly known or acknowledged. Jacob's hand, his thinking, and his fraud have gained it all; it is all his.
Yet this is where grace shows itself:
No one but God could have put up with such a man, and no one but God would have taken up such a man. Grace begins at the very lowest point. It takes up man as he is, and deals with him in the full intelligence of what he is.
- The trough. Jacob put his peeled rods in the water troughs only when the strong animals were mating. He kept them back from the weak. The best of the flock became his.
- The scheme. Jacob owned God's presence in some measure. Yet he could not let God settle his wages; he had to have a plan of his own.
- The disguise. He arranged things so Laban would think he was leaving it all to God. We do the same when we call our own wits "walking by faith."
- The real hand. God was the one who made the flocks increase. He repaid in five or six years what Laban had cheated Jacob of over twenty.
- The grace. Jacob thought he had gained it all himself. God took up such a man anyway, and bore with him. Grace begins at the very lowest point.
but when the sheep were feeble, he put [them] not in; so the feeble were Laban's, and the strong Jacob's.
Genesis 30 ends with Jacob's flocks growing fast, and verse 42 gives the fine print of his method: he used the peeled rods for the strong animals only. So the chapter leaves one question open — did his wealth come from his own cleverness, or from God?
The verse describes a filter, not just a trick. Jacob timed his device so that the vigorous animals bred under it and the feeble ones did not, and he drew a lesson for himself in the process:
Jacob separated the lambs that he could claim as his own and kept them apart from Laban's flock. Then, when Laban's stronger sheep were mating, he would use his peeled rods in the watering troughs. He would not do this with the weaker sheep. So he secured the stronger sheep, and Laban kept the weaker ones. No doubt Laban did not know what Jacob was doing. Jacob wanted Laban to think he was only depending on God to decide how many sheep he should have. How often the same thing is true of us! We persuade ourselves that we are walking by faith in God, while we use our own wits to help God out in supplying our needs.
One writer finds in these verses a portrait of Jacob the supplanter — the man who gets ahead by pushing others aside:
True, God was with Jacob — for nothing can hinder the outshining of divine grace. Jacob does, up to a point, acknowledge God's presence and faithfulness. Still nothing can be done without a scheme and a plan. Jacob cannot allow God to settle the question of his wives and his wages, but seeks to settle everything by his own cunning and management. In short, it is "the supplanter" throughout. Let the reader turn to Genesis 30:37-42 and say where he could find a more skilful piece of cunning.
Jacob had told Laban that his honesty would speak for him later. The irony is that the outcome he engineered was already on its way without him:
In the light of this our reflection would be that if he had rested with confidence in God, and not used the devices described in the last chapter, the end God purposed would have been reached, and his "righteousness" would have answered for him in a much more convincing way.
Later God gave Jacob the real explanation for his growing flocks, and it came in a dream:
Laban, according to Jacob's complaint, changed his wages ten times. Jacob got his own back by cunning tricks connected with the breeding of Laban's cattle. Laban's sons complained that he had "taken all that was our father's." So the contest went on until God stepped in again in a dream. He made known to Jacob that it was He, rather than Jacob's schemes, who caused the cattle to pass from Laban to him. And He called him out of the whole unpleasant business back to Canaan.
The transfer of the strong animals also settles an old account. Laban had defrauded Jacob for years, and his own greed became the instrument that drained him:
Laban's greedy desire to profit by Jacob's strange bargain made the self-absorbed master poor. It brought new and growing wealth to the servant he had cheated for so long. It was a righteous thing, as far as it could go, to repay the wrongdoer and make up to the man who suffered. And one cannot fail to notice how fitting such a dealing from God was toward the one of Israel's fathers who, more than any other, pictures the chosen people. Israel took its name from him. Their ups and downs were like his own endless changes, failures and humiliations. At the end, divine mercy would turn all of it into everlasting blessing at the feet of their long rejected Messiah.
One writer draws a lesson for Jacob, and for us, from the sheep in front of the rods:
The sheep in front of the rods seem to show how "the eye affects the heart." Whatever object we keep before us shapes us, and shapes everything that comes from us. So the Lord connects the "eye" and the "master" (Matthew 6:19-25). Our object is what controls us, and in a world like this, how many objects compete to take hold of us! So if our mind is set on things above, the marks of a "life hidden with Christ in God" take shape in us (Colossians 3:1-3).
The story does not leave us admiring Jacob. It shows what God was toward a man like him:
This is a true picture, so far as Jacob was concerned. But it only gives us one side, and that the gloomy side. Blessed be God, there is a bright side too, for God had to do with Jacob. In every scene of his life, when Jacob was called to reap the fruits of his own plotting and crookedness, the God of Jacob brought good out of evil. He caused His grace to abound over all the sin and folly of His poor servant.
- Craft. Jacob used the rods only when the strong animals bred, so the vigorous stock went to him and the feeble to Laban.
- Cover. He looked like a man leaving the outcome to God, while his own wits were steering it.
- Cause. God later told him in a dream that the flocks moved from Laban to him by His hand, not by his schemes.
- Cost. Laban's greed drained him — a righteous repayment for the wrongdoer and relief for the man he had cheated.
- Grace. He reaped the fruits of his own crookedness, and still God brought good out of evil in every scene of his life.
And the man increased very, very much, and had much cattle, and bondwomen, and bondmen, and camels, and asses.
Genesis 30 ends with Jacob rich. He had served Laban for twenty years and been cheated of his wages, yet now his flocks, servants and camels are many. It reads like a happy ending. But the real questions are who made him rich, and what that wealth cost him.
Laban had cheated his nephew for twenty years. Then the bargain he thought would cost him almost nothing turned against him.
Laban's greed wanted to profit by Jacob's strange bargain. Instead it made the self-absorbed master poor, and gave new and growing wealth to the servant he had cheated for so long. Laban shows no regret for the way he took advantage of his nephew. He shows not the least caring affection for his daughters or their children. It was a righteous thing, as far as it could go in its way, to repay the evil-doer and make up to the sufferer.
The repayment came fast.
God's providence paid Jacob in some five or six years the wages Laban had defrauded him of for twenty years.
Kelly sees a larger pattern here: Jacob's story maps the story of a whole nation.
Notice how fitting God's dealing was with this man. Of all the fathers of the nation, he pictures the chosen people more than any other. They took their name as a nation from him. Their ups and downs were like his own endless changes of fortune, failures and humiliations — all to be turned at the end, by God's mercy, into everlasting blessing at the feet of the Messiah they had rejected for so long. … So no one will boast in himself; "let the one who boasts, boast in the Lord."
The verse does not say "Jacob." It says "the man." One writer stops on that word.
At last Jacob has reached the furthest limit of his desire — by deceit, trickery and fraud. Through it all, and despite it all, the unseen God has heard the desire of Jacob's heart and given him his fill. Yet in Jacob's own thinking he has done it all. God is hardly known or acknowledged. Jacob's hand, his planning, his fraud have gained the whole of it; it is all his. Jacob's cattle are strong. Note that word, "the man": "the man increased greatly and had large flocks, female servants and male servants, and camels and donkeys."
Jacob's own account of the wealth gives him away.
Notice Jacob's thought! Has God given him anything? No, nothing. It is all his own gain, which he got for himself. If he had not looked after himself, he would have had nothing at all.
Jacob wanted to look like a man leaving the outcome to God. His own methods told a different story.
Laban surely did not know what Jacob was doing. Jacob wanted Laban to think he was only depending on God to decide how many sheep he should have. How often this is true of us too! We persuade ourselves that we are walking by faith in God, while we use our own wits to help God supply our needs.
Measured against the men who came before him, the method stands out.
God stepped in graciously for His injured servant. Even so, we could not imagine either his father or his grandfather using the scheme Jacob used to gain what his long and patient service had earned him. Yet God stooped to use what, without His power, would have been — if not useless — very limited.
The commentators point past the scheme to its real cause.
Jacob prospered. But he should have realised that this came by the grace of God, not by his own cleverness. God had told him He would bless him, and He did so despite Jacob's trickery.
The wealth itself became the teacher. It turned Laban against him.
After all his planning, Jacob has to learn that it is the power of God to which he owes the increase. God has looked on his affliction and his toil, and appointed him a repayment. But his prosperity turns Laban against him. In the same way, spiritual growth separates a person from the world.
Wealth gathered this way could not stay.
"The one who sows to his own flesh will from the flesh reap corruption." If Jacob has not received this from God, then he has been heaping up treasure for himself. God must strip it all from him, leaving him as bare as a withered branch. Only then can he become a worshipper of God, let alone a witness for His name.
- Repaid. God settled Jacob's twenty years of stolen wages in about five, turning Laban's greed into his own loss.
- Rebranded. Jacob called the wealth his own gain, won by his own hand — the gift arrived, but the Giver went unacknowledged.
- Rationalised. Jacob's scheme let him look like a man trusting God while he used his own wits. We do the same.
- Regardless. God had promised to bless him, and He did so despite the trickery, not because of it.
- Removed. God strips away treasure heaped up for self before a man can worship — the wealth was never the blessing.
And he heard the words of Laban's sons, saying, Jacob has taken away all that was our father's, and of what was our father's he has acquired all this glory.
After twenty years of shepherding for Laban, Jacob is rich, and Laban's sons say the gain came out of their father's pocket. Their words raise two questions: who really made Jacob rich, and what does that wealth do to his place in Laban's house?
Where the ESV reads "all this wealth," older translations read "all this glory." One writer follows that word to its next use in Genesis.
We have had the word "glory" once before, in Genesis 31:1, where it means wealth. This later place is the first time it means honour and splendour, so again we can see what it pictures. When Christ is revealed in His glory, Israel will be gathered to Him and bow down before Him.
Laban's sons are not inventing figures. The flocks had shifted, and only in one direction.
But God thwarted the covetous man and helped the long-suffering one. The result was plenty on one side and loss on the other. This cut Laban and his sons to the quick, and their connection with Jacob soon ended, to Jacob's relief. But how weak the faith!
Laban had once been glad of the arrangement.
Before this, Laban had recognized that Jacob's presence with him was what made him prosper so much. So he valued Jacob. Now Jacob prospers and Laban's attitude toward him changes to that of resentment.
One writer names what the sons feel, and points to one man in Genesis who was rich yet never drew it.
We move on to Laban's sons (Gen. 31:1), who became envious of Jacob; Laban also became full of ANGER against him, though God did not permit him to show it (Gen. 31:2, 24). It is worth noting that Isaac and Jacob were both envied for their riches. Yet we never find that Abraham was, though he was just as rich — a fact that says a great deal for his character.
The sons credit Jacob's own hands for the wealth. So did Jacob, in his own thinking — and that is the deeper problem.
At last Jacob has reached the limit of his desire by deceit, trickery, and fraud. Through it all, and despite it all, the unseen God has heard the desire of Jacob's heart and given him his fill. Yet in his own thinking Jacob has done it all, with God little known or acknowledged. Jacob's hand, and thought, and fraud have gained it all; all is his.
Had he left the outcome to God, the same result would have arrived with his reputation intact.
If he had rested with confidence in God, and not used the tricks described in the last chapter, God would still have reached the end He purposed. And Jacob's "righteousness" would have spoken for him far more convincingly.
The break between the two households was not random. One writer reads a pattern in it.
After all his planning, Jacob has to learn that it is the power of God to which he owes the increase. God has looked on his affliction and his toil, and ordained him a repayment. But his prosperity puts distance between him and Laban, just as spiritual increase separates a person from the world. Then comes the call of God to return to Canaan.
One writer counts the cost in years and wages.
Truly the Lord is merciful and gracious, slow to anger and rich in loving-kindness. For the words of Laban's sons, and the looks of Laban himself, revealed their discontent — and no wonder. So the Lord told Jacob to return to the land of his fathers, and to his relatives. God's providence paid Jacob in some five or six years the wages Laban had cheated him of for twenty years.
The complaint also raises the question of who had been doing the work, and one writer weighs both sides.
We must not excuse the way Jacob manipulated things. On the other hand, Laban had been taking unfair advantage of Jacob all the way through. Jacob did the hard work of caring for Laban's flocks for twenty years. Laban had sons who could have helped with this work, but they left the work to the one who could do it well. … Management often thinks it has the right to reap all the benefits that labour produces, because management provided the money at the start. But God takes account of the guilt of management in the oppression of its employees (James 5:4).
- Glory — older translations read "all this glory"; here the word means wealth, and later in Genesis it means honour and splendour.
- Grudge — Laban once valued Jacob as the source of his own prosperity. The same prosperity in Jacob's hands turns that into resentment and envy.
- Giver — Jacob thought his own hand and scheming had gained it all. In fact God repaid in five or six years the wages Laban had cheated him of for twenty.
- Gap — the increase pushes the two households apart, "as spiritual increase separates from the world."
- Go — the friction becomes God's timing: here He calls Jacob back to Canaan and to his relatives.
And Jacob saw the countenance of Laban, and behold, it was not toward him as previously.
Twenty years of service in Haran have made Jacob rich, and the household that once welcomed him now watches him with different eyes. One cold look turns the story. The question is what God is doing behind it.
Older translations say Jacob saw Laban's "countenance" — his face — and it was no longer what it had been. The change follows the flocks. While Jacob's work made Laban rich, Laban valued him.
Jacob had gained all of this through his caring for their father's sheep: now most of the sheep, and the stronger sheep, belonged to Jacob. But Laban had agreed to the arrangement, and they could do nothing about it. Before this, Laban had seen that Jacob's presence with him made him prosper greatly, so he valued Jacob. Now Jacob prospers and Laban's attitude toward him changes to that of resentment.
The cold face is not only Laban's doing. Jacob had once won a blessing by deceiving a father at home; in Haran he lives for twenty years under a man who deceives him.
Jacob was a man of faith, but he failed in spiritual life, and he comes under the Lord's discipline so that he might bear more fruit, and better fruit. He had cheated at home, so he suffered abroad, most of all at the hands of his mother's brother. He bore Laban's hardhearted wrongs patiently, and that shows he bowed to God.
This repayment has a purpose. It is not cold justice.
Surely no one can miss the lesson of this repayment. It is God's holy discipline for us, so that we may share His holiness. The measure we use is measured back to us. What we sow we reap. And in the fairness of God's government we find the correction of a Father's hand. Jacob receives from a relative the deceit he had practiced on a relative.
Jacob's wealth came partly from his own clever schemes with the breeding of the flocks. What did those schemes cost him?
The sons of Laban saw that Jacob had stripped their father of much of his flocks, and Laban himself began to look on him with disfavour. The situation became critical, and the Lord Himself stepped in to end it… Seeing this, we would reflect that if Jacob had rested in God with confidence, and had not used the tricks described in the last chapter, God would still have reached the end He purposed. And Jacob's "righteousness" would have spoken for him far more convincingly.
The cold look is not a disaster. It is a signal. Right after Jacob saw that face and heard Laban's sons, God told him to go home.
Truly the Lord is merciful and gracious, slow to anger and full of loving-kindness. The words of Laban's sons and the looks of Laban himself showed their discontent — and no wonder. So the Lord told Jacob to return to the land of his fathers, and to his relatives. In about five or six years, God's providence paid Jacob the wages Laban had cheated him out of for twenty years.
The pattern reaches past Jacob and Laban. Blessing itself creates distance.
After all his planning, Jacob has to learn that he owes his increase to the power of God… But his prosperity turns Laban against him, just as spiritual growth separates one from the world. Then comes the call of God to return to Canaan.
A settled, pleasant life can take the place God should have. He does not leave it that way.
Everything may be going along smoothly and pleasantly. Our property is safe. Our business is doing well. Our children and servants behave nicely, our home is comfortable, our health is excellent — everything, in short, just as we would like it. How easily we then mistake the peace that rests on such circumstances for the peace that flows from the known presence of Christ. The Lord knows this. So He steps in, in one way or another, and stirs up the nest.
- Cause. Laban valued Jacob while Jacob's work made him rich. When the flocks passed to Jacob, that welcome turned to resentment.
- Discipline. The deceiver at home became the deceived abroad. God measured back to Jacob the measure he had used — a Father's correction, not mere payback.
- Gain, badly won. God would have given the same increase without Jacob's schemes. Then his righteousness would have spoken for him far more convincingly.
- Signal. The moment the faces turned cold, God's word came: return to the land of your fathers. Hostility became the door out.
- Pattern. Increase separates. When we nestle down in comfortable circumstances instead of in Christ, God stirs the nest.
And Jehovah said to Jacob, Return into the land of thy fathers, and to thy kindred; and I will be with thee.
Twenty years with Laban have left Jacob rich, but the household has turned against him: Laban's sons are muttering, and Laban's face has changed. At this moment God speaks, and He tells Jacob to go home — with the promise that He Himself will go with him.
The timing matters. Jacob had heard nothing from God through all his years with Laban.
The twenty years had expired. Laban's hatred and the hatred of his sons had increased. When the crisis had been reached the voice of Jehovah was heard. "Return to the land of your fathers and to your kindred, and I will be with you." This is the first time Jehovah spoke since the vision at Bethel.
Before the voice came, the situation had become impossible. Jacob's growing flocks were the very thing that turned his relatives against him.
After all his planning, Jacob has to learn that it is the power of God to which he owes the increase. God has looked on his affliction and his toil, and appointed him a reward. But his prosperity turns Laban away from him, as spiritual increase separates from the world. Then comes the call of God to return to Canaan.
Jacob did not have to find his own way out.
The situation became critical, and the Lord Himself intervened to end it. Back to his own land and kindred he was to go.
Jacob's recent dealings with Laban had been far from honest. What is striking here is what God does not say.
While Scripture has plainly exposed what Jacob was doing, the Lord does not reprove him for this: Jacob knew that his actions were wrong, since they were not the fruit of faith. The Lord therefore left him to fight that matter out with his own conscience. But God repeats His promise to Jacob, that He will be with him. Such is the sovereign goodness of God toward His servants in spite of their failing ways.
God names a place and a people: the land of his fathers, and his kindred. Jacob later proves selective about the second half.
So Jacob is all things to all men, hoping somehow to gain something for himself. He is willing enough to return to the land of his kindred, but not to his kindred as God had said. For between him and them stood the place of sacrifice and obedience to God.
The words "I will be with you" arrive at a point where Jacob has everything he had once wanted and nothing left to chase.
At last Jacob had reached the limit of his desire. He had got for himself much cattle, maidservants, menservants, camels and donkeys, and so for the moment he had no further object before him. Then Jehovah presents Himself to Jacob as the only worthy object, the true satisfying portion, saying, "Return to the land of your fathers and to your kindred, and I will be with you."
Jacob obeys at once — but the way he leaves shows how little the promise had steadied him.
At last Laban's sons murmur, and their father's face is no longer toward Jacob as before. Then Jehovah tells him to return to the land of his fathers. He makes up his mind at once. He gives a touching explanation to Rachel and Leah, and then sets out in secret. He did so because he had no confidence in God with a clear conscience — the kind that frees a man from fear. The unseen hand of God was there; but the power and the honour of God could not righteously be found in such a course.
- Crisis — The word came when Jacob's position had become impossible. God did not ease the trouble; He ended it.
- Call — Jacob's prosperity drove Laban away from him. Only then came the call back to Canaan. The discomfort was the preparation.
- Clemency — God says nothing about Jacob's wrongdoing. He leaves that to Jacob's own conscience and renews His promise instead — sovereign goodness toward a failing servant.
- Company — Jacob had reached the limit of his desires. God then offered Himself as the one satisfying portion.
- Compliance — Jacob made up his mind at once. Yet he slipped away in secret, obeying God's word without resting in His promise.
And Jacob sent and called Rachel and Leah to the fields to his flock,
Twenty years after fleeing home, Jacob is a wealthy man in Laban's service, but the mood around him has turned. God has told him to go home, and his first move is to send for his two wives — out in the open country, away from the house.
Jacob does not call this meeting because he decided to leave. He calls it because God has spoken:
At last Laban's sons murmur, and their father's face is no longer friendly toward Jacob as before. So Jehovah tells him to return to the land of his fathers. He makes up his mind at once. He gives a touching explanation to Rachel and Leah, and sets out secretly.
Jacob had God's word behind him, yet he acted like a man with something to hide:
Jacob was also too timid to act openly, but, encouraged from above, he calls Rachel and Leah to a meeting. He could truly say this: if Laban showed ill will, the God of his father was with him. And if Laban had tried to cheat him, God did not let him come to harm.
The same writer names what was missing:
He did not have the confidence in God, with a clear conscience, that sets a man free from fear.
Jacob could have told Rachel and Leah to get on the camels. Instead he lays out the case: Laban's changed attitude, his own hard service, and wages altered again and again:
Jacob therefore sent for Rachel and Leah to come to him where he was with the flock, and set before them the facts about Laban's changed attitude (v. 5). He does defend himself in the whole matter: it would have been better if he had not done so. However, it was true that he had served Laban with great diligence. Here we learn that Laban had changed Jacob's wages ten times.
The story Jacob tells in the field is true as far as it goes. What he leaves out is his own share in the affair:
So he says that God had taken Laban's flocks and given them to Jacob. He does not tell them about his own trickery in the matter: evidently he had been able to hide this from everyone except the Lord.
Another writer draws the lesson from the gap. The flocks had multiplied because God arranged it, not because Jacob's methods worked — which means the schemes were never needed:
We are now allowed to see how God had intervened and caused the agreement about the spotted and speckled cattle to work in his favour. In the light of this, our reflection would be this. If he had rested in confidence in God, and had not used the schemes described in the last chapter, God would have reached the end He purposed. And Jacob's "righteousness" would have answered for him far more convincingly.
Kelly puts the repayment in figures:
Divine providence paid Jacob in some five or six years the wages that Laban had defrauded him of for twenty years.
Jacob's report includes the name God used of Himself:
This name, "the God of Bethel," is of very real importance, for it means "God of the house of God." Jacob had been concerned about his own house, allowing the claims of God's house to wait. But the increase of Jacob's house had not produced peace and happiness in all his relationships. It was time that he learned that true contentment is only found in connection with God's house, where God's interests come first.
The meeting works. The two women need no persuading, because their father had lost any hold on them:
Rachel and Leah were fully ready to move at once. They realised there was nothing to tie them to their father. One thing they remembered: their father had sold his daughters and made himself rich by the sale. So they had become almost strangers to their own father… But Rachel and Leah have good advice for Jacob: "Do whatever God has said to you" (v. 16).
- God speaks first. The meeting in the field is a response, not an idea of Jacob's. God told him to return to his father's land, and named Himself the God of Bethel, the God of His own house.
- God pays. Laban cheated Jacob of wages for twenty years. God paid it all back in five or six.
- Fear chose the field. Jacob had God's word, but not the clear conscience that removes fear. So he met his wives away from the house and slipped away in secret.
- Half the story. He tells Rachel and Leah the truth about Laban and about God. He leaves out his own scheming, hidden from everyone except the Lord.
- The schemes were needless. If Jacob had trusted God, the same outcome would have come. His integrity would then have spoken for him far better.
and said to them, I see your father's countenance, that it is not toward me as previously; but the God of my father has been with me.
Jacob calls his two wives out to the field where he is with the flock. He tells them what he has seen: Laban's face has turned against him, yet God has stayed with him. Two facts stand side by side: a man's favour withdrawn, God's favour unchanged. But is Jacob telling his wives the whole story?
The change Jacob reads in Laban's expression is not an isolated moment. It comes with the muttering of Laban's sons, and it arrives at the same time as a word from God telling him to go home. One writer puts the two side by side, and notes that God had already settled the money side:
The LORD is merciful and gracious, slow to anger, and full of steadfast love. Laban's sons complained, and Laban's own face showed his discontent — and no wonder. So the LORD told Jacob to return to the land of his fathers, to his own relatives. God's providence paid Jacob in five or six years the wages Laban had cheated him out of for twenty. They wanted to get rid of Jacob, but would not say so. After all, what did Laban own before Jacob came?
Jacob's claim is true. But God being with him is not the same as God approving what he had been doing in those years:
How grand a word this is. Even though Jacob was not living as he should (and he knew it), the Lord said, "I am with you." Can the Lord go with a believer on a wrong course? Well, He did not say He approved of the way Jacob was living. Yet He still said, "I am with you" — and He was with Jacob. Later, Jacob treated Laban badly far too many times, but the Lord blessed him anyway.
Jacob's speech to Rachel and Leah is a case for the defence. Everything he says about Laban is accurate; the gap is in what he does not mention:
So Jacob sent for Rachel and Leah to come out to him where he was with the flock. He told them the facts about Laban's changed attitude. He does defend himself in the whole matter: it would have been better if he had not done so. However, it was true that he had served Laban with great diligence... He does not tell them about his own trickery. He had managed to hide that from everyone except the Lord.
Jacob had left home after deceiving his father. One writer reads his years with Laban as the same coin handed back to him:
No doubt he often had to suffer from Laban's deceit. But was this not a reminder of his own deceit? He is deceived about his wife, about his wages, about everything. But how had he treated his father — not to mention his brother? Deceit must meet deceit under the hand of God, who repays. Do not wonder too much at the story of Jacob. Bless with all your heart the God who cares for His servant. After Jacob had suffered a while, God made him prosper — slowly, but surely.
If God had been with him all along, as he tells his wives, the years of clever bargaining were not needed. One writer traces that scheming back to its root:
All his hard work and scheming, like his miserable bargain before, comes from not knowing God's grace. He could not put full confidence in God's promise... You would have thought that Jacob's vision had told him a story of grace. But what God showed him at Bethel and what Jacob did at Haran are two very different things. What he did at Haran shows what he had made of what God said. How a person lives is the real measure of what he has experienced and believes, whatever he may claim.
One writer sees Jacob's twenty years abroad as a picture of his descendants living among the nations. He was resented and mistreated, and yet he grew rich:
When the crisis came, the LORD spoke. "Return to the land of your fathers and to your kindred; and I will be with you." This is the first time the LORD spoke since the vision at Bethel... What comfort it must have been to hear "I have seen all that Laban is doing to you." The Lord watched over Jacob. Laban hated him, and still Jacob prospered. So Israel, scattered among the nations and hated by them, increases and prospers.
The God who tells him to leave names Himself by the place where Jacob first met Him:
God called him back to the land of promise. In doing so He revealed Himself as "the God of Bethel," reminding Jacob of the pillar he anointed and the vow he made. God brought him back to the beginning of his direct dealings with Him. This is always God's way with His people. We may wander away, but we have to come back to the original spot we departed from. The point of departure proves to be the place of recovery.
- The face. Laban's changed expression and his sons' complaints mark the end of Jacob's time in that house. God's word to leave arrives at that very moment.
- The presence. "The God of my father has been with me" is true, yet God saying I am with you was never the same as God approving Jacob's methods.
- The silence. Jacob tells his wives everything Laban did to him, but nothing of his own trickery. He hid that from everyone except the Lord.
- The discipline. The man who deceived his father was then deceived about his wife, his wages, and everything else. Deceit met deceit — and God still cared for him and made him prosper.
- The return. God calls him back as "the God of Bethel." The place where we first met God is the place where He restores us.
And you know that with all my power I have served your father.
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And your father has mocked me, and has changed my wages ten times; but God suffered him not to hurt me.
Jacob stands in the fields with Rachel and Leah, telling them why the family must leave Haran: his father-in-law kept changing the deal, and God kept stopping the damage. If God was protecting him, why did he have to endure twenty years of it?
The complaint is about a contract that never stayed still.
Here we learn that Laban had changed Jacob's wages ten times. When he saw that Jacob was doing very well out of one bargain, he would change the terms of his wages. Then the sheep would breed in a different way, and again it worked to Jacob's advantage.
Jacob repeats this charge later, to Laban's face. Laban never denies it, and that silence counts as proof.
He states that Laban had changed his wages ten times (v. 41). This must have been true, or Laban would have denied it. It does show the manipulating character of Laban. He was every bit as skilled at this trickery as Jacob.
Jacob had tricked his brother. What came back to him had the same shape.
Jacob had tricked his brother, and Laban treated him in the same way. Laban gave him Leah as his wife instead of Rachel, though he had Rachel, the one he loved, later on. He had not learned to trust God. He used clever tricks to increase what he owned, and he received the same treatment in return: his wages changed "ten times." But God was watching over him, and told him to return to the land of his fathers.
Knowing he was under that correcting hand changed how Jacob lived in Laban's house.
While he was living in the Syrian's house, Jacob knew that he was under the mighty hand of God for correction, and he behaved that way. He did not defend himself when he was blamed. He did not fight for his rights when he was wronged and treated unfairly.
The second half of the verse is the point of the whole speech. Laban held all the power and still could not make Jacob lose. When the repayment came, it came fast.
In about five or six years God's providence paid Jacob the wages Laban had cheated him out of for twenty years… He could truly say that if Laban showed him ill will, the God of his father was with him. And if Laban tried to cheat him, God did not let him come to harm.
This reversal is described as an act of justice, not merely a lucky turn in the livestock market.
Laban's greedy wish to profit from Jacob's strange bargain made the self-absorbed master poor instead, while the servant he had long cheated grew richer and richer… It was a righteous thing, as far as it could go, to pay back the wrongdoer and repay the one who had suffered… Notice too how fitting such a dealing from God was toward the one patriarch who pictures the chosen people more than any other. They took their name from him. Their ups and downs were like his own — endless changes of fortune, failures and humiliations, to be turned at the end, through God's mercy, into everlasting blessing.
Jacob's complaint tells only half the story. He had tricks of his own with Laban's flocks, and a dream from God took the credit for the growing herds away from those tricks.
By Jacob's own complaint, Laban changed his wages ten times. Jacob got his own back by clever tricks with the breeding of Laban's cattle. Laban's sons complained that he had taken away everything that belonged to their father. So the contest went on until God stepped in again through a dream. God showed Jacob that it was He, and not Jacob's schemes, who had moved the cattle from Laban to him. And He called Jacob out of the whole unpleasant business, back to Canaan.
The grievance was real. It still settled nothing about Jacob's own conduct.
Jacob said that Laban had changed his wages ten times. If that was true, it was a serious provocation. But relying on God would have kept him from actions that are also open to question.
- Watched. Laban rewrote the deal ten times. Every time Jacob gained, the terms changed — and God saw each change.
- Warned. Jacob had tricked his brother; now Laban tricked him. The correction fitted the man, and Jacob took the wrongs without defending himself.
- Shielded. Laban held every advantage and still could not harm Jacob. God stood between them.
- Repaid. In about five years God gave back what twenty years of fraud had taken. The cheat grew poor; the cheated servant grew rich.
- Corrected. The provocation was real, but it did not excuse Jacob's own tricks. Trusting God would have brought the same result with clean hands.
If he said thus; The speckled shall be thy hire, then all the flocks bore speckled; and if he said thus The ringstraked shall be thy hire, then all the flocks bore ringstraked.
Here Jacob tells his wives, Rachel and Leah, about twenty years of work for their father, Laban. A pattern kept repeating. Whatever colour Laban named as Jacob's pay, the flocks bore that colour — so who was running this arrangement?
This was one round in a wage deal that kept changing. Jacob's own count of the changes shows what lay behind them.
Here we learn that Laban had changed Jacob's wages ten times. When he saw that Jacob was gaining greatly by one bargain, he would change the terms of his wages. Then the sheep would bear in another way to Jacob's advantage. So he says that God had taken Laban's flocks and given them to Jacob.
Jacob had been underpaid for twenty years. Notice how quickly God settled that debt.
Truly the Lord is merciful and gracious, slow to anger and full of loving-kindness… God in His providence paid Jacob in some five or six years the wages Laban had cheated him out of for twenty years… Jacob could truly say that if Laban showed ill-will, the God of his father was with him. And if Laban had sought to cheat him, God did not allow him to be hurt.
Jacob had his own tricks for shaping what the flocks bore. A dream later in this chapter points to a different cause.
Laban, according to Jacob's complaint, changed his wages ten times. Jacob got his own back by cunning tricks connected with the breeding of Laban's cattle… So the contest went on until God stepped in again through a dream. He made known to Jacob that it was He, not Jacob's schemes, that caused the cattle to pass from Laban to him. And He called him out of the whole unpleasant business back to Canaan.
God was the one at work. So Jacob's tricks were not only unneeded. They cost him the clear case he could have had.
We are now allowed to see how God had stepped in. He caused the agreement about the spotted and speckled cattle to work in Jacob's favour. This makes us reflect. If Jacob had rested with confidence in God, and not used the devices described in the last chapter, God would still have reached the end He purposed. And Jacob's "righteousness" would have answered for him in a much more convincing way.
Jacob's speech to his wives is honest about Laban and silent about himself.
He does not tell them about his own trickery. It seems he had been able to hide it from everyone except the Lord.
Jacob was the wronged party here. Yet one writer sees his years with Laban as a measured return of what Jacob had handed out to others.
He is now a stranger and a servant for hire. Laban cheats him and pushes his own gain — a relative of his, and in character close kin too. You cannot mistake the payback all the way through: the measure Jacob handed out to another comes back to him. But you also cannot miss that in the way it is dealt out, God is speaking to the heart and conscience of the wanderer. There is fairness in God's government, but also the chastening of a holy love.
This leaves a practical question. When may we fall back on plans of our own?
From all this we may draw a practical conclusion. We have no need nor right to fall back on plans of our own, as though we could help God to achieve His purpose. If, on the other hand, God instructs us by His word to act, it is our duty and our wisdom to do as He says. Jacob asserted that Laban had changed his wages ten times. If that was true, it was great provocation. But relying on God would have saved him from actions that were also open to question.
- Changed — Laban rewrote the deal every time Jacob gained by it. Jacob counted ten changes in twenty years.
- Reversed — Whatever colour Laban named, the flocks bore. God turned each new term into Jacob's gain, and paid in five or six years what Laban had withheld for twenty.
- Not the tricks — The dream later in the chapter names the cause: God, not Jacob's breeding schemes. His tricks were never needed.
- Half the story — Jacob tells his wives about Laban's cheating and says nothing about his own. He hid it from everyone except the Lord.
- Chastening — What Jacob had measured out to others came back to him through Laban. That is fairness in God's government, and also a holy love speaking to his conscience.
And God has taken away the cattle of your father, and given [them] to me.
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And it came to pass at the time of the ardour of the flocks, that I lifted up mine eyes, and saw in a dream, and behold, the rams that leaped upon the flocks were ringstraked, speckled, and spotted.
Jacob had worked twenty years for Laban, and the two men were now at odds over the flocks. Here Jacob tells his wives what he saw in a dream at breeding time, and the dream answers one question: who was building his wealth — his own tricks, or God?
The dream comes when Jacob's position with Laban has become impossible. It also breaks a long silence from God.
The twenty years had expired. Laban's hatred and the hatred of his sons had increased. When the crisis came, Jehovah spoke. "Return to the land of your fathers and to your kindred; and I will be with you." This is the first time Jehovah spoke since the vision at Bethel. Jacob then laid the matter before his wives and told them of a dream in which the angel of the Lord had spoken to him. What comfort it must have been for him to hear "I have seen all that Laban is doing to you."
One of the words in Jacob's list, "mottled" in the ESV, appears as "grisled" in older translations. A Bible dictionary gives its meaning:
Grey colour, or mixed with grey. Gen. 31:10; Zech. 6:3, 6.
Jacob had used tricks of his own to influence how the flocks bred. The dream tells him something else was at work.
Laban, according to Jacob's complaint, changed his wages ten times. Jacob got his own back by cunning tricks connected with the breeding of Laban's cattle. According to the complaint of Laban's sons he had "taken away all that was our father's." The contest went on until God stepped in again in a dream. He showed Jacob that it was He, and not Jacob's schemes, who caused the cattle to pass from Laban to him. And He called him out of the whole unpleasant business back to Canaan.
If God was already at work in the flocks, Jacob's tricks added nothing.
He speaks of a dream in which he saw the goats mating in the way that would benefit him. He also speaks of the angel of God saying that it was God who had caused the animals to bear in a way that was to Jacob's advantage. This is no doubt true, but it shows us that there was no need for Jacob to resort to his deceitful actions. God would bless him apart from this. He tells him that He has seen all that Laban was doing to him.
Laban had cheated Jacob for twenty years. The flocks in the dream settled that account.
Truly Jehovah is merciful and gracious, slow to anger and full of loving-kindness. The words of Laban's sons and the looks of Laban himself showed their discontent — and no wonder. So Jehovah told Jacob to return to the land of his fathers, and to his kindred. In some five or six years God's providence paid Jacob the wages that Laban had cheated him out of for twenty years.
Jacob says the angel of God spoke to him in this dream. One writer argues that this "angel" was the Son of God, appearing before He came as man.
It is true that the one who appears is often called "the Angel of the Lord," "Angel of the Covenant," or simply "Angel." But the Hebrew word "malach" carries a double sense, like its Greek equivalent: angel and messenger. Jacob uses the word in his review of God's dealings. "The Angel who redeemed me from all evil, bless the boys" (Gen. 48:16). This would undoubtedly include the incidents of Bethel (Gen. 28:13), of Haran (Gen. 31:10), of Peniel (Gen. 32:35), of Beersheba (Gen. 41:1). Would the patriarch at such a moment call on a mere angel to bless his grandsons? None but the Son of God could redeem.
The voice in the dream names Bethel, where Jacob's story with God had started twenty years before.
Years passed — twenty long and eventful years. They were years of trial and testing, in which Jacob went through many ups and downs, changes, and varied trials. But the God of Bethel watched over His poor servant. He appeared to him while he was under pressure and said, "I am the God of Bethel, where you anointed the pillar, and where you made a vow to Me. Now arise, go out from this land, and return to the land of your kindred."
- Crisis — Twenty years of work end in a quarrel with Laban's family. God breaks a long silence and speaks.
- Sight — The marked goats in the dream show Jacob that God was moving the flocks to him, not his own tricks.
- Correction — God would have blessed him anyway. The scheming was never needed.
- Justice — "I have seen all that Laban is doing to you." Providence repaid in five or six years what fraud had withheld for twenty.
- Call — The speaker names Himself the God of Bethel and sends Jacob home. The God of the journey's start still watches at its end.
And the Angel of God said to me in a dream, Jacob! And I said, Here am I.
Jacob is telling Rachel and Leah why they must leave for Canaan. He traces the decision back to a night when God called him by name in a dream. Two questions sit inside his account. Who is this "angel of God" who speaks as God? And why did the message come after twenty years with Laban?
The speaker does not stay anonymous. He goes on to say, "I am the God of Bethel." Commentators read the word "angel" here as a veil over God's own presence, not as a created messenger. Years later Jacob asked that same Angel to bless Joseph's sons.
Scripture uses the word as a veiled representation of God's presence, as in Genesis 31:11-13. "The angel of God" spoke to Jacob saying, "I am the God of Bethel." Jacob, when blessing the sons of Joseph, said, "The angel who has redeemed me from all evil, bless the boys." ... Most believe that it was the second person of the Trinity who appeared as a man in the Old Testament.
Jacob was in the middle of a running contest of wits with Laban. God chose the one moment when a busy man cannot argue back or walk away.
God is invisible. So He speaks to man in ways that do not show Him in person, but in ways that wake up man's serious attention. Man may not realise it is God speaking to him. Yet God often speaks "in a dream, in a vision of the night, when deep sleep falls on men." At such a time God has a captive audience, whether man wants to listen or not.
Jacob had been using tricks of his own around the breeding of Laban's flocks. The dream told him who was behind the whole thing.
Jacob got his own back by cunning tricks connected with the breeding of Laban's cattle. According to the complaint of Laban's sons, he had "taken all that was our father's." So the contest went on until God stepped in again in a dream. He made known to Jacob that it was He, and not Jacob's schemes, who caused the cattle to pass from Laban to him. And He called Jacob out of the whole unpleasant business back to Canaan.
That leaves Jacob's cleverness looking not clever but unnecessary.
He speaks of a dream in which he saw the goats mating in the way that would benefit him. He also speaks of the angel of God showing him that it was God who had caused the animals to bear to Jacob's advantage. This is no doubt true, but it shows us that there was no need for Jacob to resort to his deceitful actions. God would bless him apart from this.
His report to Rachel and Leah is true as far as it goes. But one part of the story never reaches them.
Here we learn that Laban had changed Jacob's wages ten times. When he saw Jacob gaining a lot by one bargain, he would change the terms of his wages. Then the sheep would bear in another way to Jacob's advantage. So he says that God had taken Laban's flocks and given them to Jacob. He does not tell them of his own trickery. It seems he had been able to hide it from everyone except the Lord.
The dream is not a rebuke. God calls Jacob by name, hears his answer, and then settles the account Laban had kept open for twenty years.
Truly Jehovah is merciful and gracious, slow to anger and full of loving-kindness. The words of Laban's sons, and the looks of Laban himself, revealed their discontent — and no wonder. So Jehovah told Jacob to return to the land of his fathers and his relatives. God's providence paid Jacob in about five or six years the wages Laban had cheated him out of for twenty years. ... But He had worked to repay the servant for his relative's injustice. And He reminded forgetful Jacob of Bethel, telling him to leave and return to the land of his family.
- Who speaks. The "angel of God" here is not a created messenger. He is God Himself in veiled form, for He says, "I am the God of Bethel."
- How He speaks. God used a dream, where He has a captive audience — a man who cannot argue back, walk away, or stay busy.
- What He says. The flocks multiplied by God's hand, not by Jacob's tricks. The scheming was never needed, for God would bless him anyway.
- What Jacob hides. He tells his wives the true half: God gave him the flocks. He leaves out his own trickery, hidden from everyone but the Lord.
- What God does anyway. He repays in five or six years the wages Laban withheld for twenty. He calls a forgetful man back to Bethel. Mercy, not scolding, moves the story on.
And he said, Lift up now thine eyes, and see all the rams that leap upon the flock are ringstraked, speckled, and spotted; for I have seen all that Laban does to thee.
Jacob's twenty years with Laban are falling apart. In a dream God tells him to lift up his eyes and look at the flocks, then says He has seen everything Laban has done to him.
Jacob had built his herds by his own tricks with the breeding of Laban's flocks. The dream tells him none of that was necessary.
He speaks of a dream in which he saw the goats mating in the way that would benefit him. He also speaks of the angel of God, who spoke to show that it was God who had caused the animals to bear in a way that was to Jacob's advantage. This is no doubt true, but it shows us that there was no need for Jacob to resort to his deceitful actions. God would bless him apart from this.
The dream also ended a long contest of tricks between Jacob and Laban.
Laban, according to Jacob's complaint, changed his wages ten times. Jacob got his own back by cunning tricks connected with the breeding of Laban's cattle... So the contest went on until God stepped in again in a dream. He made known to Jacob that it was He, not Jacob's schemes, who caused the cattle to pass from Laban to him. And He called him out of the whole unpleasant business back to Canaan.
God had not spoken to Jacob since Bethel. Now Jacob repeats these words to his wives as he explains why they must leave.
The twenty years had expired. Laban's hatred and the hatred of his sons had increased... This is the first time the Lord spoke since the vision at Bethel. Jacob then laid the matter before his wives and told them about a dream in which the angel of the Lord had spoken to him. What comfort it must have been for him to hear, "I have seen all that Laban is doing to you." The Lord watched over Jacob, and though Laban hated him, Jacob prospered. So Israel in the dispersion, hated by the Gentiles, increases and prospers.
God's seeing was not passive. The flocks changing hands were a settlement of accounts.
God's providence paid Jacob in some five or six years the wages Laban had cheated him out of for twenty years... He could truly say that if Laban showed ill-will, the God of his father was with him; and that if Laban tried to cheat him, God did not let him be harmed.
The previous verse calls this speaker "the angel of God." Yet He goes on to say, "I am the God of Bethel." Commentators see more here than a created messenger with a message.
The term is used for the mysterious representation of the divine presence, as in Genesis 31:11-13. "The angel of God" spoke to Jacob saying, "I am the God of Bethel."... It is generally believed that it was the second Person in the Trinity who appeared as a man in the Old Testament.
Jacob's years with Laban were not an accident. His own deceit had been met with deceit.
He was cheated about his wife. He was wronged over his wages. He was a wanderer from his father's house and a slave to Laban. All this came from acting in a deceitful way, instead of leaving it to God to fulfil the blessing. In all of it we see real discipline because of evil.
Yet God also kept reminding Jacob of Bethel, the place where He had blessed him.
God blessed Jacob at Bethel through His abundant grace. In later years Jacob needed reminding of this. Again and again God made him feel that he really had been blessed like this. When Laban dealt harshly with him, the angel of God said to him in a dream, "I have seen all that Laban is doing to you. I am the God of Bethel, where you anointed the pillar and where you made a vow to Me: now arise, get out from this land and return to the land of your relatives."
- God sees. One line — "I have seen all that Laban is doing to you" — comforted a man cheated for twenty years. God had been counting every one of them.
- God gives. The dream showed Jacob that the flocks came from God's hand, not from his own tricks. He never needed them.
- God repays. What Laban withheld across twenty years, God restored in five or six, and would not let Laban do Jacob harm.
- God reminds. The speaker calls Himself the God of Bethel. That took Jacob back to the pillar he had anointed and the vow he had made.
- God calls home. Seeing, giving, repaying and reminding all end in one command — leave this land and go back. Discipline for past deceit never cancelled the blessing; it drove Jacob toward it.
I am the God of Bethel, where thou anointedst the pillar, where thou vowedst a vow to me. Now arise, depart out of this land, and return to the land of thy kindred.
After twenty years with Laban, God speaks to Jacob and names Himself from an old memory: the night at Bethel. Why does God tie His name to that place, and why is an old vow the signal to move now?
The words come from "the angel of God" in a dream (v. 11), yet the speaker calls Himself God. Commentators point to other places in Genesis where an angel speaks as God Himself.
The title is used to picture God's own presence, as in Genesis 31:11-13. "The angel of God" spoke to Jacob and said, "I am the God of Bethel." … Most believe it was the second person of the Trinity who appeared as a man in the Old Testament.
Bethel means "house of God." So the name sets God's house against the house Jacob had been busy building for himself.
This name, "the God of Bethel," matters a great deal, because it means "God of the house of God." Jacob had been concerned about his own house (Genesis 30:30). He had let the claims of God's house wait. But the increase of Jacob's house had not produced peace and happiness in all his relationships. It was time for him to learn that true contentment is only found in connection with God's house, where God's interests come first. God also remembered Jacob's vow (Genesis 28:20-22), though He only mentions it without comment.
God's reminder points to what Jacob did at that place, not just to the place itself.
Oil was constantly used in anointing or setting apart persons, places and objects. A striking case is that anointing of the pillar at Bethel by Jacob (Genesis 28:18; Genesis 31:13), where he set apart the place as "the house of God," a kind of anticipation of the tabernacle.
Twenty years had passed, and Jacob had said nothing more about the promise he made that night. God had not dropped it. One writer answers the objection that holding a man to his own words is harsh:
God had not forgotten the original terms, and He would not let His servant forget them. Is this legality? No; it is the display of divine love and faithfulness. God loved Jacob, and He would not allow him to settle for less than the old standard. He watched over the state of His servant's heart with jealous care. He would not let it stay below the Bethel mark, so He gently reminds him with those touching and meaningful words, "I am the God of Bethel, where you anointed a pillar and made a vow." This was the sweet expression of God's unchanging love. It showed that He counted on Jacob remembering the scenes at Bethel.
God ties the order to leave Laban's land to a memory, not to a new revelation. One writer sees a pattern here in God's dealings with His people.
In calling him back to the land of promise, God revealed Himself to him as "the God of Bethel," reminding him of the pillar he anointed and the vow that he made. So God called him back to the beginning of his direct dealings with Him. This is always God's way with His people. We may wander away, but we have to come back to the original spot from which we departed. The point of departure proves to be the place of recovery.
The message arrives while Laban is treating Jacob badly. God's first word is that He has seen it (v. 12); His second is who He is.
When Laban dealt harshly with him, the angel of God said to him in a dream, "I have seen all that Laban is doing to you. I am the God of Bethel." … And so we are often told to consider Him, and to remember Him who loved us and washed us from our sins in His own blood. Like Jacob, we should count the God of Bethel as our God. Bethel is the place we should visit, to think about His marvellous grace, and how richly and fully He has blessed us.
- Bethel — the name means "house of God." So this title sets God's own house against the house Jacob was busy building for himself.
- Remembered — Jacob made that vow twenty years earlier. God brought it up Himself, without a word of comment.
- Love — the reminder is not legal pressure. It is love and faithfulness. God would not let His servant settle below the Bethel mark.
- Return — the call to leave Laban comes with the memory, because the point of departure proves to be the place of recovery.
- Ours — the pattern carries over: remember the One who loved us, and treat the God of Bethel as our God.
And Rachel and Leah answered and said to him, Is there yet any portion or inheritance for us in our father's house?
Jacob has just told his two wives that Laban has turned against him. God kept him safe through twenty years of changed wages, and God has now told him to go home. Their reply is not a pause for thought. It is a question about what is left for them in the house where they grew up.
The two sisters are not weighing up options. Their question is really an answer: nothing in that house holds them any more.
Rachel and Leah were ready to leave at once. They realized that there was nothing to tie them to their father. They remembered one thing: their father had sold his daughters and made himself rich by the sale. It had turned them into near strangers to their own father.
Behind their question stands Laban's own assumption: his daughters were his to sell. That assumption is exactly what cost him.
Leah and Rachel were his daughters, so he thought — wrongly — that they were his property and that he had the right to sell them. They were not his to begin with, let alone after he had sold them. But this verse says it loud and clear: a purely possessive man loses what he holds on to so tightly. Laban found himself poorer in several ways once Jacob had gone. … He feels that he has lost his family. Let us learn the lesson this history teaches: what we own is not ours but the Lord's, and what we selfishly hold on to, we will lose. On the other hand, what we give up unselfishly for the Lord's sake, we will find that we gain in the end.
Laban's wealth had already started to move. God had been paying Jacob the wages his father-in-law held back. The flocks Jacob was about to drive away were back-pay for twenty years of cheating — and his wives took his side.
God's providence paid Jacob in about five or six years the wages Laban had cheated him out of for twenty. Laban and his sons really wanted to be rid of Jacob, but held back from saying so. After all, what did Laban own before Jacob came on the scene? … The two wives agreed completely. Their father had lost all hope of love or respect from them. So, low as their own thoughts were, they encouraged their husband to do as God had told him.
Notice the catch. These women are no models of spiritual insight. Their reasoning runs along the line of money and what is owed to them. Yet they push Jacob the right way.
Their question about a portion leads straight to a conclusion. That conclusion, not the complaint about their father, is the best thing they say.
Their attitude shows that they were convinced their father had acted dishonestly and without feeling. It gives us more evidence of how much Jacob had suffered at his hands. No one could better their advice in this crisis — "Now then, whatever God has said to you, do." Complete trust and obedience to God is the only right thing. It reminds us of the words of Mary, the mother of our Lord, recorded in John 2:5. God alone has the right to demand such unquestioning obedience.
The word the sisters use — portion — is the heart of the matter. They had worked out what they did not have. God's call to Jacob offered him something better than any inheritance: Himself.
At last Jacob had reached the limit of what he wanted. He had gathered to himself large herds, male and female servants, camels and donkeys. For the moment he had nothing left to aim at. So the Lord presents Himself to Jacob as the only worthy object, the true satisfying portion, saying, "Return to the land of your fathers and to your kindred, and I will be with you."
- No portion. The sisters ask about their share in their father's house because they already know the answer: nothing.
- Sold. Laban treated his own daughters as goods to trade, and that sale left them strangers in the home where they grew up.
- Lost. Laban's grip on what he called his own is what emptied his hands. What we hold selfishly, we lose.
- Repaid. What Laban held back for twenty years, God handed over in five or six. The flocks going with Jacob were unpaid wages, collected by God.
- Portion. With nothing behind them, the way ahead was one word: "whatever God has said to you, do." God Himself is the portion no father's house could give.
Are we not reckoned of him strangers? for he has sold us, and has even constantly devoured our money.
Jacob has called Rachel and Leah aside. He tells them that God has directed him to leave Laban, and they answer with a question about their own father: he treats them as outsiders. Their words raise two hard questions. What does it mean to be sold by the man who should have protected you? And what does a grasping man lose in the end?
Jacob might have expected his wives to resist leaving their father's house. Instead they had already weighed him up and found nothing to hold them.
Rachel and Leah were fully ready to move at once. They realised that there was nothing to tie them to their father. One thing they remembered: their father had sold his daughters and made himself rich by the sale. So they became almost strangers to their own father.
By now Laban could expect nothing from his daughters. Their own thinking was low, yet their word to Jacob was the right one.
Their father had lost all hope of any love or respect from them. So they, low as their own thoughts were, encouraged their husband to do as God directed.
Jacob had worked seven years for Rachel, and Laban took the profit. One writer weighs that price against what Scripture says a wife is worth.
Proverbs 31:10 says, "An excellent wife who can find? She is more precious than jewels." What was the price in this case? Seven years' wages. It was all completely wrong; a wife is worth a great deal more than that, far more. "He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the LORD" (Prov. 18:22) — and favour is grace. So the marriage relationship beautifully represents the pure grace of God. This is something that should never have been so badly mishandled by Jacob. Many nations have done the same and sell their daughters, with the husband paying a dowry when they marry. In reality this is the selling of the woman.
Rachel and Leah were Laban's own daughters. Only his treatment of them had changed. Darby takes their words as a lesson in what "counted" or "reckoned" means.
Genesis 31:15. Are we not counted by him as strangers? Nothing another person does is put to their account. They were treated or reckoned as such — that is just what the word means. We are reckoned righteous. Whether that comes by something put to our account is another question. In the passage quoted it was certainly not so.
(The older translation he uses reads "counted"; the ESV has "regarded by him as foreigners.")
Laban's whole treatment of his family rested on one mistake about ownership.
Leah and Rachel were his daughters, so he thought — wrongly — that they were his property and that he had the right to sell them. They were not his to begin with, let alone after he had sold them. But this verse declares loudly that a man set on possessing loses what he grips so hard. When Jacob left, Laban found himself poorer in several ways. He felt he had lost his family. May we learn the lesson this history teaches: what we own is not ours but the Lord's, and what we selfishly hold we will lose. On the other hand, what we unselfishly give up for the Lord's sake we will find that we gain in the end.
The sisters do not stop at listing their wrongs. In the next verse they tell Jacob what to do.
Rachel and Leah fully supported Jacob in his decision to return. Their attitude shows that they had no doubt about their father's dishonourable and heartless conduct. It is further evidence of how much Jacob had suffered at his hands. No one could improve on the advice they gave in this crisis — "Now then, whatever God has said to you, do." Complete trust and obedience to God is the only right thing. It reminds us of the words of Mary, the mother of our Lord, recorded in John 2:5. God alone has the right to demand such unquestioning obedience.
- Sold — Laban put a price on his own daughters: seven years of Jacob's work. That is the selling of a woman, and it spoils marriage as a picture of grace.
- Strangers — "counted" means treated as, reckoned as. The sisters were not foreign at all, but their father dealt with them as if they were.
- Owned — his mistake was thinking they were his to sell; what we hold as ours is in fact the Lord's.
- Lost — the possessive man loses what he clutches. Laban ended up poorer, and felt he had lost his family. What we give up for the Lord's sake, we gain back.
- Obeyed — having weighed all this, the sisters land on the only safe ground: do whatever God has said.
For all the wealth that God has taken from our father is ours and our children's; and now whatever God has said to thee do.
Jacob has called Rachel and Leah out to the field and told them everything — Laban's shifting wages, God's protection, and the command to go home. Their reply settles it in one sentence: the wealth Laban lost was never his, and Jacob should do whatever God has said.
The sisters trace the wealth to God's act, not to their husband's skill. Jacob had spent the previous chapter working his own schemes with the flocks. Then God stepped in and told him who had really moved the cattle:
Jacob complained that Laban had changed his wages ten times. Jacob got his own back by cunning tricks with the breeding of Laban's cattle. Laban's sons, for their part, complained that he had "taken all that was our father's." So the contest went on until God stepped in again through a dream. He made known to Jacob that it was He, and not Jacob's schemes, who caused the cattle to pass from Laban to him. And He called him out of the whole unpleasant business back to Canaan.
The transfer also settled an old score:
God's providence paid Jacob in some five or six years the wages Laban had cheated him out of for twenty years… After all, what was Laban's wealth before Jacob appeared on the scene?
Rachel and Leah agree at once. The reason lies in how their father had treated them:
Rachel and Leah were fully ready to move at once. They realized that there was nothing to tie them to their father. They remembered one thing: their father had sold his daughters. He made himself rich through their sale, so that they became almost strangers to their own father.
They urge on him no plan of their own, only obedience to what God has said. Another woman would later give the same kind of short instruction:
Rachel and Leah were fully behind Jacob in his decision to return. Their attitude shows how sure they were that their father had acted in a dishonourable and heartless way. It gives us further evidence of how Jacob had suffered at his hands. No one could have given better advice in the crisis — "whatever God has said to you, do." Complete trust and obedience to God is the only right thing. It reminds us of the words of Mary, the mother of our Lord, recorded in John 2:5. God alone has the right to demand such unquestioning obedience.
If God's word is enough to act on, Jacob's own devices were never needed. The lesson runs two ways — what we must not invent, and what we must obey:
We have no need and no right to fall back on plans of our own, as though we could help God achieve His purpose. If, on the other hand, God instructs us by His word to act, it is our duty and our wisdom to do as He says.
Jacob's scheming added nothing to the outcome. It also cost him something:
Suppose he had rested with confidence in God and had not used the devices described in the last chapter. God would still have reached the end He purposed. And Jacob's "righteousness" would have answered for him in a far more convincing way.
Laban's loss was more than bad luck. It shows how grasping works:
Because Leah and Rachel were his daughters, Laban thought — wrongly — that they were his property and that he had the right to sell them. They were not his to begin with, let alone after he had sold them. This verse says it loud and clear: a man who only wants to possess loses what he grips so tightly. When Jacob left, Laban found himself poorer in several ways… Let us learn the lesson this history teaches. What we own is not ours but the Lord's. What we hold for ourselves we will lose. What we give up for the Lord's sake we will find we gain in the end.
- God moved it. The flocks changed hands because God acted, not because Jacob's tricks worked. He told Jacob so in a dream.
- God repaid it. In about five or six years God paid Jacob the wages Laban had kept back for twenty.
- God spoke. Jacob was not left guessing. God called him out of the whole business and back to Canaan.
- So obey it. The sisters called for complete trust and obedience. We have no need and no right to invent plans that "help" God along.
- Grasping loses. Laban clutched daughters, wages and flocks, and lost in all three. What we give up for the Lord we gain in the end.
And Jacob rose up, and set his sons and his wives upon camels,
God had told Jacob to go back to the land of his fathers. This verse is the moment he obeys: the twenty years with Laban are over, and his wives and sons are lifted onto the camels. But the way he left raises the question that shapes the whole chapter: was this faith, or flight?
Jacob had not heard from God since the night at Bethel, years earlier. It came when Laban and his sons had turned against him.
The twenty years were over. Laban's hatred, and the hatred of his sons, had grown. When the crisis came, Jacob heard the voice of Jehovah. "Return to the land of your fathers and to your kindred; and I will be with you." This is the first time Jehovah spoke since the vision at Bethel.
The God who called him back named Himself by the place where Jacob first met Him. That detail carries a principle far beyond Jacob:
In calling him back to the land of promise, God revealed Himself to him as "the God of Bethel," reminding him of the pillar he anointed and the vow that he made. Thus he was called back to the beginning of his direct dealings with God. Such is ever God's way with His people. We may wander away, but we have to come back to the very place we left. The point of departure proves to be the place of recovery.
Jacob did not move until he had laid the case before Rachel and Leah. Their reply settled it.
Rachel and Leah altogether supported Jacob in his determination to return. Their attitude shows they were sure their father had acted dishonourably and without pity. It gives us more evidence of how much Jacob had suffered at his hands. No one could have given better advice in the crisis — "Now then, whatever God has said to you, do." Complete trust and obedience to God is the only right thing.
Moving a household this size took planning. Jacob timed it for the days Laban was away shearing his sheep.
Jacob did not delay his departure. This time he does not consult with Laban, as he had before. In fact, he does not even inform him that he is leaving. His sons and his wives ride on camels (v. 17). He also had servants to care for the sheep. He organised everything he owned and had it all moving three days before Laban even heard that he had gone.
The way he left exposed Jacob's weakness. He obeyed a clear word from God, yet crept off as though he had none.
His mind is at once made up. He gives a touching explanation to Rachel and Leah, and then sets out in secret. He did not have the kind of confidence in God, held with a clear conscience, that frees a man from fear. The unseen hand of God was there. But God's power and honour could not rightly be seen in a course like that.
His secrecy also gave Laban a fair complaint:
He could have dealt openly with Laban, met him face to face, and left with proper notice. Instead he slipped away unnoticed while Laban was away shearing his sheep. That gave Laban fresh ground for complaint. Jacob had put himself in the place of a servant, working for wages, even though he was his master's son-in-law.
Jacob loads his camels and counts the wealth he takes as his own gain. At Bethel he had vowed a tenth to God if God provided for him. So what became of that vow?
God's time has come. God's promise must be fulfilled — to bring Jacob back to his father's house in peace, so that it can be tested whether he will keep his vow. How do things stand with God's name, God's house, God's dues? In Jacob's view that depended on whether he recognised that God had been with him, giving him bread and clothing. If so, Jacob would give back a tenth, set up the house, and own Jehovah. God has taken him at his word, and Jehovah faithfully does His part. But notice what Jacob thought! Had God given him anything? No, nothing. It is all his own gain, which he himself had gained. If he had not looked after himself, he would have been left with nothing.
- Called. After twenty silent years, God spoke again as "the God of Bethel." He called Jacob back to where their dealings began.
- Counselled. Rachel and Leah gave the best advice in the story: whatever God has said to you, do.
- Camels. Jacob obeyed at once. He timed his move for the sheep-shearing and gained a three-day head start.
- Covert. He obeyed God's word, but crept away in fear. God's honour was missing from a journey God Himself had commanded.
- Counting. He counted the wealth as his own gain, not as God's gift of bread and clothing. That is what his vow at Bethel hung on.
and carried away all his cattle, and all his property that he had acquired -- the cattle of his possessions that he had acquired in Padan-Aram, to go to Isaac his father, into the land of Canaan.
Jacob came to Paddan-aram twenty years earlier with nothing but a staff. Now he loads his family onto camels and drives every animal he owns toward Canaan and his father Isaac. Two questions follow. Who made this man rich? And why did a man with orders from God leave in secret?
Jacob moves because God called him. The call reached back to the night at Bethel, where Jacob anointed a stone pillar and made a vow.
God called him back to the land of promise. In doing so He revealed Himself as "the God of Bethel," reminding him of the pillar he anointed and the vow he made. So He called him back to the beginning of his direct dealings with God. This is always God's way with His people. We may wander away, but we have to come back to the original spot we departed from. The point of departure proves to be the place of recovery.
The verse repeats itself: property he had gained, livestock he had acquired. One writer sets that repetition beside Jacob's vow at Bethel — if God gave him bread and clothing, he would give back a tenth. (The older translation quoted here reads "his getting, which he had gotten.")
How does it stand with God's name — God's house — God's dues? In Jacob's view that depends on whether he recognises that God had been with him, giving him bread and clothing. If he did, Jacob would return a tenth, set up the house, and acknowledge Jehovah. Jehovah has taken him at his word, and He faithfully does His part. But notice Jacob's thought! Has God given him anything? No, nothing. It is all his getting, which he had gotten. If he had not looked after himself, he would have ended up with nothing.
But what Jacob counted as his own earning was a settling of accounts by a hand he had not seen.
In some five or six years, God's providence paid Jacob the wages Laban had cheated him out of for twenty years. They wanted to get rid of Jacob, but held back from saying so. After all, what was Laban's wealth before Jacob appeared?
The word used here for livestock says something about how a herdsman held his wealth.
The word miqneh, however, often used for 'cattle,' means 'possession,' because the main property of nomadic tribes consisted of their cattle. The word also includes sheep and goats, but not horses and donkeys.
The verse names where the wealth was gathered. Paddan-aram was already home ground for Jacob's family.
A cultivated district in Mesopotamia, which held the city of Nahor. Terah and his family moved there from Ur of the Chaldees. Rebekah, Leah and Rachel, the wives of Isaac and Jacob, came from there. It is strictly Paddan-aram, meaning 'table land of Aram.'
Jacob had a command from God, so he had nothing to hide. He hid anyway.
He makes up his mind at once. He gives a touching explanation to Rachel and Leah, and then sets out in secret. He did not have the kind of confidence in God, with a clear conscience, that frees a man from fear. God's unseen hand was in it. But such a course could not rightly show the power and the honour of God.
The secrecy also gave Laban a real complaint against him.
He did not deal openly with Laban. He never met him face to face and left with proper notice. Instead he stole away unnoticed while Laban was away shearing his sheep. In doing so he gave Laban fresh ground for complaint. He had accepted the place of a servant working for wages, even though he was son-in-law to his master.
He is back on the road he once fled along. But the traveller has changed, and not only for the better.
It is a different Jacob as well as a different journey. He was an empty Jacob at Bethel; he is a full Jacob at Peniel. Flocks and herds and servants and wives and children tell of his prosperity. Twenty years before, he had walked that road friendless and alone, with a staff in his hand. Now we see him surrounded like this. He has become a rich man. He has a stake in the world. He has something to lose, and may become a prey to others, as he must certainly be an object of interest to them.
- Called. God's word sends Jacob back toward Bethel, where he first dealt with God face to face. The place of departure becomes the place of recovery.
- Credited. Jacob counts the herds as his own earning. Without his own care, he thinks, he would have had nothing.
- Compensated. God repaid twenty years of withheld wages in five or six. Before Jacob came, Laban had little worth counting.
- Concealed. He had a command and a clear case, yet slipped away in secret. God's hand was in the move. God's honour was not in the manner of it.
- Carrying. The man who once walked that road alone with a staff now walks it rich, with a stake in the world and something to lose.
And Laban had gone to shear his sheep. And Rachel stole the teraphim that [belonged] to her father.
Commentary for this verse has not been generated yet.
And Jacob deceived Laban the Syrian, in that he did not tell him that he fled.
God had just told Jacob to go back to his father's land. Jacob went — but in secret, while Laban was away shearing his sheep. So why does a man obeying God slip away without a word?
The verse calls Laban "the Aramean." Older translations say "the Syrian," and it is the same name. One reference work gathers the early places where Scripture uses it:
There are only a few references to the Syrians in the early part of Scripture. Scripture brings in Laban as "the Syrian" in connection with Rebekah, the wife of Isaac. He was a grandson of Nahor, Abraham's brother. See Gen. 25:20; Gen. 28:5; Gen. 31:20, 24.
Jacob had a clear word from God to return. What he lacked was the settled confidence that would have let him leave openly.
His mind is at once made up. He gives a touching explanation to Rachel and Leah, and sets out secretly. He had no confidence in God with a clear conscience — the kind of confidence that would have freed him from fear. The unseen hand of God was there. But the power and the honour of God could not rightly show themselves in such a course. Grace would give these another day; they could not be there yet. So he steals away timidly, chased like a thief by his father-in-law.
Jacob's conscience explains the secrecy. And his fear does not stop with Laban.
But Jacob has to flee. The time has come for him to return to his father's house, and God tells him to return. Why steal away without a word? Because he was conscious of sins. He knew that he had wronged Laban; hence his trouble and fear. No sooner is he delivered from Laban than the dread of Esau falls on him. God uses it as a means of bringing Jacob to Himself in prayer.
There was a right way to leave. Jacob did not take it.
But in the manner of his departure we again see Jacob's character revealed. He did not deal openly with Laban. He could have met him face to face and left after proper notice. Instead he stole away in secret while Laban was away shearing his sheep. That gave Laban fresh ground of complaint. Jacob had put himself in the place of a servant, working for wages, though he was son-in-law to his master. In those circumstances the parting ought to have been arranged by mutual agreement.
Where the verse says Jacob tricked Laban, an older margin reads that he stole Laban's heart. One writer sets that beside everything Jacob had gained, and asks who really gave it.
How does it stand with God's name — God's house — God's dues? In Jacob's view it all turns on one thing. Did he recognise that God had been with him, giving him bread and clothing? If so, Jacob would return a tenth, set up the house, and own the LORD. He has been taken at his word, and the LORD faithfully performs His part. But notice Jacob's thought! Has God given him anything? No, nothing. It is all his own getting, everything he had gained for himself. If he had not looked after himself, he would have had nothing. To Jacob's conscience these were not gifts from God. They were Laban's heart and Laban's images, which he had stolen (Gen. 31:19-20, margin).
Neither man comes out well here. Yet another hand is at work behind them both.
It is a sorry sight to the eye of faith. Laban meets retribution; Jacob and his house find rescue through God's overruling hand and goodness. Yet inside the chosen family the wife had stolen images used in idol worship, and her husband knew nothing of it. And Laban, instead of crushing him, begs him for a covenant. For, as Laban did not fear God, he had no confidence even in his own nearest relation. But what had Jacob still to learn, as he weighed his old self-seeking and scheming before the LORD?
- Command — God told Jacob to return; the going was right, and only the way he went is in question here.
- Craft — He left in secret. He had no confidence in God with a clear conscience, and such a course could not show God's honour.
- Conscience — He ran because he knew he had wronged Laban, and the same fear meets him again in the dread of Esau.
- Cost — He left with no notice while Laban was shearing. That handed his master a fresh complaint, when the parting should have been agreed between them.
- Covering — God still overruled: retribution for Laban, rescue for Jacob. Jacob himself had yet to weigh his old scheming before the LORD.
And he fled with all that he had; and he rose up and passed over the river, and set his face [toward] mount Gilead.
Jacob's years with Laban end not with a farewell but with a head start. He puts a great river behind him and heads for the highlands of Gilead — going where God had told him to go, but going in secret.
The ESV names the Euphrates outright. Older translations read "the river," which is Scripture's own shorthand for it. That same river marked a border God had named to Abraham.
This river is first mentioned in connection with the garden of Eden, but cannot be traced from that. Gen. 2:14. It was the north-east boundary of the land promised to Abraham, as the river of Egypt was the south-west. Gen. 15:18. It is called the great river, the river Euphrates, Deut. 1:7, and at times it is simply called "the river." Gen. 31:21.
Gilead was no random destination. It was high ground with plenty of grazing.
This district lies east of the Jordan. It extends from the river Yarmouk, a little south of the Sea of Galilee, to the north corner of the Dead Sea... It is a mountainous district, which accounts for some part of it being called "the mount of Gilead" in Gen. 31:21-25... Pasturage abounds in Gilead.
God had told Jacob to go home. The going, though, was done Jacob's way — timed for the week Laban was busy shearing sheep, with no word said.
But in the manner of his departure we again see the character of Jacob revealed. He should have dealt openly with Laban, met him face to face, and then left with proper notice. Instead he stole away unnoticed while Laban was away shearing his sheep. In doing so he handed Laban fresh grounds for complaint. He had accepted the place of a servant, working for wages, though he was son-in-law to his master. In those circumstances the parting ought to have been arranged by mutual consent.
Jacob had a direct word from God to go home. He still left in secret, and the writers put that down to something missing in him.
Laban's sons murmur, and their father's face is no longer toward Jacob as before. At last Jehovah tells him to return to the land of his fathers. (Genesis 31:3) His mind is made up at once. He gives a touching explanation to Rachel and Leah, and sets out secretly. He had no such confidence in God with a clear conscience as would rid him of fear. The unseen hand of God was there; but the power and the honour of God could not rightly be found in such a course... So he steals away timidly, pursued like a thief by his father-in-law. But God deals seriously with Laban, coming to him in a dream by night.
Another writer names the reason plainly:
But Jacob has to flee. The time has come for him to return to his father's house, and God tells him to return. Why steal away unnoticed? Because he was conscious of sins. He knew he had wronged Laban, and so he was troubled and afraid.
From the outside this looks like a man running from a soured deal. Underneath, it is a homecoming God arranged.
But Jacob is oppressed and unwelcome among the Gentiles. So he returns to the land of his pilgrimage, the land of the fathers — pushed by circumstances, but in truth directed by God.
Jacob handled the escape badly, and it still worked. The protection was God's, not his.
Jehovah was faithful and gracious; Jacob was a fugitive. Laban soon pursued in hot haste with no friendly intent, but in the end he had to bow to God's protection of Jacob.
The wealth Jacob left with came from God, and it had already soured the household. His leaving turned that souring into open hostility.
After all his planning, Jacob has to learn that it is the power of God to which he owes the increase... But his prosperity turns Laban against him, just as spiritual increase separates a person from the world. Then comes the call of God to return to Canaan. Laban can no longer get on with him, yet his withdrawal makes Laban openly hostile. In the same way, the world feels the sting of separation, though there can be no more fellowship.
- Command. God had told Jacob to return to the land of his fathers; the journey itself was obedience, not impulse.
- Conscience. He left in secret because he knew he had wronged Laban, and a guilty conscience left no room for confidence in God.
- Conduct. He reached the right place by the wrong method. A servant owes his master an open parting, and his secrecy handed Laban a fresh complaint.
- Care. He crossed the Euphrates for the high pastures of Gilead as a fugitive. Laban chased him, and had to bow to God's protection of Jacob.
- Consequence. Blessing had already cost Jacob Laban's goodwill. Separation stings the world, and the parting made that plain.
And it was told Laban on the third day that Jacob had fled.
Jacob has left Haran in secret with his wives, his children and his flocks. For three days Laban hears nothing; then the news reaches him and the pursuit begins.
The three-day gap was not luck. Jacob picked his moment and moved a whole household before the news could travel.
Jacob did not delay his departure. This time he does not consult with Laban, as he had before (ch. 30:25-26). In fact, he does not even inform him that he is leaving. His sons and his wives ride on camels (v. 17). He was able to organise all his possessions and get everything moving three days before Laban even heard that he had left. Jacob owned so much by now that there was of course some distance between him and Laban. Also the time was right for Jacob since Laban was busy with the shearing of his sheep.
God had told Jacob to go home. He did not need to flee, and the reason he did lay inside him.
His mind is at once made up. He gives a moving explanation to Rachel and Leah, and sets out in secret. He did not have the kind of confidence in God, held with a clear conscience, that frees a man from fear. The hand of God was there, unseen. But God's power and honour could not rightly be shown in a course like that. Grace would give him these another day. They could not be his yet. So he steals away in fear, chased like a thief by his father-in-law. God, however, deals seriously with Laban, coming to him in a dream at night.
Jacob had worked for Laban for wages, like a servant. That kind of arrangement carries obligations when it ends.
But in the way he left we again see Jacob's character revealed. He should have dealt openly with Laban, met him face to face, and left with proper notice. Instead he stole away unnoticed while Laban was away shearing his sheep. In doing so he gave Laban fresh ground for complaint, for he had put himself in the place of a servant, working for wages, though he was son-in-law to his master. In those circumstances the two men should have agreed on the parting together.
The manner was wrong; the move itself was not. Jacob had reasons to go, and Laban's own household had given him most of them.
Jacob was under no obligation to stay. Laban and his sons showed plainly how much they disliked his growth and their own decline. He wanted a word from God, Who gave it to him. His wives were of one mind with him. So he seized the first opportunity, which Laban's shearing supplied, to be gone. Now Laban and all the clan overtook Jacob on Mount Gilead. What just objection could they raise?
The scheming did not begin on the night he left. It grew out of what Jacob believed about God's promise.
Now, in Jacob's case, all his toiling and working, like his miserable bargain before, is the result of his ignorance of God's grace, and his inability to put full confidence in God's promise. God had promised him the whole land of Canaan, with no conditions at all. Yet this is the man who could say, "IF God will give me food to eat and clothing to put on." He could have had only a very faint grasp of who God was, or of what His promise was. Because of this, we see him trying to do the best he can for himself.
Laban set out wanting revenge. By his own admission, he never took it.
Laban first speaks of Jacob's foolishness in leaving Haran secretly. He then tells Jacob that he had the power to do him harm. Yet he admits that God stopped his desire for revenge, by warning him to speak neither good nor bad to Jacob.
- News. Jacob left during the sheep-shearing. Laban heard nothing for three days.
- Fear. Fear drove the secrecy: no confidence in God, no clear conscience — so he was chased like a thief.
- Cost. Jacob had served Laban for wages. Leaving without notice gave Laban a fair complaint.
- Right. Even so, Jacob had God's word to go and no duty to stay. Laban had no just objection.
- Restraint. Laban had the power to harm Jacob. He admitted that God's warning stopped him.
And he took his brethren with him, and pursued after him seven days' journey, and overtook him on mount Gilead.
Jacob has slipped away in secret, and three days later the news reaches Laban. What follows is a seven-day chase. It raises one question: who is in control — the man doing the chasing, or the God who had told Jacob to go home?
The distance covered tells its own story about Laban's determination.
The journey was long, but Jacob ought to have realized that Laban would pursue him. Jacob had a three-day start before Laban learned he had left (v.22). Even so, Laban did not delay. He took others with him and went after Jacob. After seven days he caught up with him.
God had already told Jacob to go home. So why the secrecy? One writer traces it to Jacob's conscience.
But Jacob has to flee. The time has come for him to return to his father's house, and God tells him to return. So why slip away in secret? Because he was conscious of his sins. He knew that he had wronged Laban, and so he was troubled and afraid.
The way he left shaped the way he was caught. A man who leaves like a thief gets chased like one.
He gives a touching explanation to Rachel and Leah, and leaves in secret. He did not have the confidence in God, with a clear conscience, that would have freed him from fear. The unseen hand of God was there. But the power and the honour of God could not be rightly found in such a course... So he steals away in fear, chased like a thief by his father-in-law. God, however, deals gravely with Laban, coming to him in a dream by night.
One writer points to the household idols Rachel had taken as the main reason for the whole chase.
Soon Laban pursued and overtook Jacob. God warned the Syrian to beware how he treated Jacob. It seems the main reason for the pursuit was the teraphim (household gods). Rachel had stolen them, and Laban wanted them back. Laban's household practiced idolatry, even though he used the name of Jehovah (verse 49).
Laban arrives at Gilead as the injured party. But he had no real claim, and his own conscience was far from clear.
Jacob was under no bond to stay. Laban and his sons gave ample signs how distasteful to them were his growth and their decay. He wanted a word from God, Who gave it to him. His wives were of one mind with his own... Now Laban and all his clan have overtaken Jacob on mount Gilead. What righteous objection could he raise? No doubt the warning God gave Laban alarmed his guilty conscience. But there was no true fear of God in him, and no sense of his own injustice — even if Jacob had been no more than a faithful servant.
Laban set the pace of the chase. He did not decide how it ended.
Jehovah was faithful and gracious, Jacob a fugitive. Laban soon pursued in hot haste with no friendly intent, but in the end he had to bow to God's protection of Jacob.
One writer follows the story past the moment Laban catches up.
Laban is warned to be careful what he says or does to Jacob, and he is even forced to admit it himself. While Jacob lays his complaint before him, Laban in the end cannot help seeking Jacob's help, and he enters into a special covenant with the very man he had overtaken in his flight.
Nothing in Jacob's conduct here earns the protection he receives, and that is exactly the point the chase makes visible.
Jacob was not walking with God at this time, but God was walking in pure grace with Jacob. This is also a picture of God's preserving hand over the nation of Israel. That hand stays on them even when they have failed badly and are wandering and seeking their own way.
- Conscience — Jacob slipped away because he knew he had wronged Laban. Guilt, not faith, set the terms.
- Consequence — a man who leaves like a thief is chased like one. Laban chased him seven days and caught him at Gilead.
- Case — Laban had no righteous claim. Jacob was free to go, and it was Laban's conscience that was uneasy.
- Control — the pursuit was hot and unfriendly. In the end Laban had to bow to God's protection of Jacob, and make a covenant with the man he had chased.
- Crown — Jacob was not walking with God, but God was walking with Jacob. His preserving hand was grace, not reward.
And God came to Laban the Syrian in a dream by night, and said to him, Take care thou speak not to Jacob either good or bad.
Jacob has slipped away from Haran with his family and flocks, and Laban has chased him down for seven days. Before they meet, God warns Laban in a dream, and the ban on even a good word raises a question about who is really in charge here.
Jacob's secret escape was no act of faith. It did not stop God from acting for him. (Older translations call Laban "the Syrian" rather than "the Aramean.")
Jacob set out secretly. He did not have the kind of confidence in God, with a clear conscience, that sets a man free from fear. God's unseen hand was there, but the power and the honour of God could not rightly be found in such a course. So he steals away timidly, chased like a thief by his father-in-law. God, however, takes Laban firmly in hand and comes to him in a dream by night. He warns Laban the Syrian to be careful what he says or does to Jacob, and Laban himself ends up admitting it.
The way Jacob left gave Laban a real grievance. And the man God warns in the dream is a stranger to Him.
By stealing away while Laban was off shearing his sheep, Jacob gave him fresh ground of complaint. Jacob had accepted the place of a servant working for wages, though he was son-in-law to his master, and the parting ought to have been arranged by mutual consent. The situation had become critical — so critical that God stepped in. This time He spoke to Laban, who had no direct knowledge of Him. Laban speaks of Him to Jacob as "the God of your father." In a dream God warned Laban not to overtake Jacob with violent speech or action. Because of this, Laban took an attitude only of complaint, with a note of reproach in it about the stealing of his gods.
The ban on speaking "bad" is easy to understand; Laban was furious. The ban on speaking "good" is the surprise, and it defines the whole scene.
Of course, he was most likely to speak bad to Jacob, for he was angry with him. God made it clear that Laban was not Jacob's judge. It is interesting, however, that Laban must not speak good to Jacob. Why is this? It is because God was dealing with Jacob, and Laban must not interfere.
Later, face to face with Jacob, Laban repeats the warning himself.
Laban tells him that he had the power to harm Jacob. Yet he admits that God's warning — to speak neither good nor bad to Jacob — stopped his desire for revenge.
A stopped hand is not a softened heart.
The warning God gave Laban alarmed his guilty conscience. But no true fear of God was there, and no sense of his own injustice — even if Jacob had been no more than a faithful servant.
The same rule reaches far past one family quarrel. Grant applies it to the way nations treat a people God is dealing with Himself.
This reminds us of God's words to Laban: "Be careful not to say anything to Jacob, either good or bad" (Gen. 31:24). God was dealing with Jacob. Laban must not excuse Jacob or defend him in wrongdoing, and he must not accuse or condemn him either. Nations too must learn to leave others for God to deal with, instead of taking it on themselves to interfere one way or the other.
- Pursuit. Jacob ran in fear, and Laban chased him like a thief. The fault in his flight did not stop God from meeting Laban on the road.
- Intervention. The crisis was serious enough that God spoke to a man who did not know Him, warning him off violent speech and violent action.
- Silence. God forbade even a good word, because Laban was not Jacob's judge. God was dealing with Jacob Himself.
- Restraint. Laban had the power to harm, and he admitted that the warning stopped his desire for revenge. It alarmed his conscience, but it gave him no true fear of God.
- Reach. One warning to an angry father-in-law becomes a standing lesson. Where God is dealing with someone, others must not step in to defend or to condemn.
And Laban came up with Jacob; and Jacob had pitched his tent on the mountain; Laban also with his brethren pitched on mount Gilead.
Two camps sit on the same ridge in Gilead. One is Jacob's. The other belongs to the uncle who has chased him for seven days. The meeting looks like the moment everything falls apart. But God has already spoken to Laban in the night, and the reader knows what Jacob does not.
The "mount of Gilead" is not one peak. It is a whole highland region east of the Jordan:
This district lies east of the Jordan. It stretches from the river Yarmouk, a little south of the Sea of Galilee, to the north corner of the Dead Sea... It is a mountainous district, and that is why part of it is called "the mount of Gilead" in Genesis 31:21-25. Some of the mountains are 2,000 to 3,500 feet high... Gilead has plenty of pasture.
Good grazing land is where a man moving flocks would stop. It is also where a pursuer would find him.
The problem was not that Jacob left. It was how he left:
But the way he left shows us Jacob's character again. He could have dealt openly with Laban, met him face to face, and then left after proper notice. Instead he slipped away unnoticed while Laban was away shearing his sheep. That handed Laban fresh ground for complaint. Jacob had put himself in the place of a servant working for wages, even though he was his master's son-in-law. In that situation, the two of them should have agreed on the parting together.
Jacob made up his mind quickly. But he left in secret, and one thing was missing:
His mind is made up at once. He gives a moving explanation to Rachel and Leah, and then leaves in secret. He did not have the kind of confidence in God, held with a clear conscience, that frees a man from fear. God's unseen hand was there. But a course like that could not rightly show the power and the honour of God... So he slips away in fear, and his father-in-law chases him as if he were a thief. God, however, deals seriously with Laban, and comes to him in a dream at night.
The dream came before the two camps ever faced each other. And its terms are strange — Laban was forbidden to say anything good as well as anything bad:
Of course, he was likely to say something bad to Jacob, since he was angry with him. God made it clear that Laban was not Jacob's judge. But it is striking that Laban must not say anything good to Jacob either. Why is that? Because God was dealing with Jacob, and Laban must not interfere.
The chase was meant to put Jacob in the wrong. It did the opposite. Laban had no fair complaint to make, and his own words gave him away:
Laban and all his clan have now caught up with Jacob on mount Gilead. What fair objection could he raise? The warning God gave him certainly alarmed his guilty conscience. But there was no true fear of God in him, and no sense of his own injustice — even if Jacob had been nothing more than a faithful servant... He may have feared being robbed or attacked, but the loss he complained about was his stolen gods. He valued them next after his profits, and he admitted he worshipped idols without any shame.
What happened to Jacob here would later happen to a whole nation:
When Jacob finally left his house, it was like an escape from an enemy's hand, or out of a bird-catcher's trap. It was a kind of exodus... Laban was Jacob's Pharaoh, and Padan-aram was his Egypt. Laban would gladly have kept him slaving away, or at best sent him off with nothing. But the Lord pleaded for Jacob with Laban, as He later pleaded for Israel with Pharaoh.
Seen this way, the two tents on Gilead are the last act of a long captivity. The pursuer arrives with power in his hand and a muzzle on his mouth.
- Overtaken. Laban caught up with Jacob in the hills of Gilead, where the grazing was good and the flocks could rest.
- Undermined. Jacob slipped away in secret instead of parting face to face. That handed Laban a fresh complaint.
- Afraid. Jacob's secrecy came from a conscience that was not clear, not from trust in God.
- Restrained. God reached Laban first, in a dream. Laban could say nothing good or bad, because God, not Laban, was dealing with Jacob.
- Delivered. The escape is a small exodus. The Lord pleaded Jacob's cause with Laban, as He later pleaded Israel's with Pharaoh.
And Laban said to Jacob, What hast thou done, that thou hast deceived me, and hast carried away my daughters as captives of war?
Laban overtakes Jacob on Mount Gilead, and his first words are an accusation. Two questions follow. Why did Jacob leave in secret at all, and does Laban have any right to speak this way?
God had told Jacob to go home, yet he left without a word. One writer traces the secrecy to a conscience that was not clear:
His mind is at once made up. He gives a touching explanation to Rachel and Leah, and sets out secretly. He does not have the confidence in God, held with a clear conscience, that frees a man from fear. God's unseen hand was there. But such a course could not rightly display the power and the honour of God. So he steals away timidly, pursued as if he were a thief by his father-in-law.
Another writer names what that conscience was troubled about:
Why steal away unawares? Because he was conscious of his sins. He knew that he had wronged Laban, and so he was troubled and afraid.
Laban's words cast the leaving as a kidnapping:
He asks why Jacob had sneaked away in an underhand manner, as though he was carrying Laban's daughters away as captives (v. 26).
Laban had the men and the motive to do worse than talk. What stopped him was the warning God had given him the night before:
The situation had become critical — so critical that God stepped in. This time He spoke to Laban, who had no direct knowledge of Him. Laban speaks of Him to Jacob as "the God of your father." In a dream God warned Laban not to overtake Jacob with violent words or actions. Because of that warning, Laban took up an attitude only of complaint, with a note of reproach in it about the stealing of his gods.
Laban speaks as the wronged party, and commentators weigh his case differently. One asks what real objection he had:
Here everything is brought into the light, and Laban brings on himself the proofs of his selfishness and dishonesty. Jacob was under no bond to stay. Laban and his sons gave ample signs how distasteful his growth and their decay were to them. He wanted a word from God, and God gave it to him. His wives were of one mind with him. Now that Laban and all his clan had overtaken Jacob on Mount Gilead, what fair objection could he raise? No doubt the warning God gave Laban alarmed his guilty conscience. Yet there was no true fear of God in him, and no sense of his own injustice — even if Jacob had been no more than a faithful servant.
Both men are playing the same game. Only one of them had been to Bethel:
The bargain-making Jacob meets the bargain-making Laban, and both strain every nerve to outwit each other. Nor can we wonder at Laban, for he had never been at Bethel. He had seen no open heaven, with a ladder reaching from there to earth. He had heard no magnificent promises from the lips of the Lord... No wonder, then, that he should show a grasping, grovelling spirit. He had no other resource. You cannot expect anything from worldly men but a worldly spirit, and worldly principles and ways. But Jacob had seen and heard all this at Bethel. To find him struggling with a man of the world, and trying by such means to build up property, is especially humbling.
One writer reads Jacob's whole time with Laban as God measuring back to him what he had measured out:
He is now a stranger, a servant for hire, the victim of deceit and self-advancement by Laban — his relative by blood, and just as near to him in character. It is impossible to mistake the repayment all the way through, in which the measure he has given to another is measured back to him. But it is impossible also not to see that in the way it is dealt out God is speaking to the heart and conscience of the wanderer. There is fairness in God's government, but also the chastening of a holy love.
- Cause. Jacob had a word from God to go, but a guilty conscience robbed him of an open course, so he stole away "pursued as if he were a thief."
- Charge. Laban's "captives of the sword" recasts a lawful departure as a raid, and Jacob's secret exit gave him the ground to say it.
- Curb. A warning from God in a dream had already tied Laban's hands, leaving him words and nothing more.
- Cover. The loud outrage covered a guilty conscience of his own — alarm at God's warning, but no fear of God and no sense of his own injustice.
- Correction. Laban deceived the deceiver — God measuring back to Jacob what he had measured out, with the chastening of a holy love in it.
Why didst thou flee away covertly, and steal away from me, and didst not tell me, that I might have conducted thee with mirth and with songs, with tambour and with harp;
Laban has chased Jacob down after his secret flight. His first move is not violence but complaint: he says he was cheated out of a farewell party, complete with music. Was the hurt genuine? And why does Scripture record a party that never happened?
Laban's protest is not pure invention. Jacob's way of leaving gave his father-in-law something to point at.
But the way he left shows us Jacob's character once more. He could have dealt openly with Laban, met him face to face, and left after giving proper notice. Instead he slipped away unnoticed while Laban was away shearing his sheep. That handed Laban a fresh reason to complain. Jacob had put himself in the place of a servant working for wages, even though he was his master's son-in-law. In that situation, the two of them should have agreed on the parting together.
Behind the secrecy was fear. God's hand was with Jacob, but Jacob did not lean on Him enough to leave openly.
He explains himself to Rachel and Leah in moving words, then leaves in secret. He did not have the kind of confidence in God, joined with a clear conscience, that would have freed him from fear. God's unseen hand was there. But a course like that could not rightly display God's power and honour. Grace would give these another day; they could not properly be so yet. So he slips away in fear, chased like a thief by his father-in-law. God, however, deals firmly with Laban, coming to him in a dream at night.
The instruments Laban names were already old by Jacob's day. Older translations call the tambourine a "tabret" and the lyre a "harp."
The harp and the pipe were in use as early as Gen. 4:21. Laban, when finding fault with Jacob for secretly leaving him, said he would have sent him away "with songs, with tambourine, and with harp." Gen. 31:27. … When Moses sang the song of triumph at the Red Sea, Miriam answered with a tambourine in her hand.
Laban paints himself as a loving father robbed of his goodbye. His own record with his family says otherwise.
He pretends that Jacob left simply because he missed home. His own conscience must have told him many a very different reason. He acts hurt and angry that he had no chance to kiss his daughters and grandchildren, or to send them off with honour. Yet his conscience must have reminded him how he had sold them again and again. He acts concerned for them, now that they are passing into Jacob's hands, as if his own hands had been a father's hands to them.
God's warning in the night stopped Laban's mouth without softening his heart. Set his complaint beside the day Rebekah left that same home. The difference is plain.
There is no doubt: the warning God gave Laban alarmed his guilty conscience. Yet there was no true fear of God in him, and no sense of his own injustice — not even toward a man who had served him faithfully. Still, on both sides, what a contrast with the day Rebekah left that same house! She seems to have gone without mirth and songs, without tambourine and harp, but with love and honour, with the fear of God, and the assurance of His blessing. Much of that had gone from that home.
Laban talks about songs, but no song is sung here. The Bible saves its first recorded singing for another day.
It is remarkable how, all through the Scriptures, singing is the response to redemption. Genesis 31:27 mentions songs as something that might have happened. But the first actual record of singing is in Exodus 15, after God had redeemed Israel out of Egypt.
Jacob had just escaped from Padan-aram, the country where Laban lived.
In the end, Jacob's departure from his house was like an escape from an enemy's hand, or out of a bird-catcher's trap. It was a kind of exodus. What Israel went through later as a nation, Jacob went through as a family. For Jacob, Laban was a Pharaoh, and Padan-aram an Egypt.
- Flight — Jacob left in secret rather than face Laban. That silence handed his master a fair complaint.
- Fear — Jacob slipped off because he lacked confidence in God and a clear conscience, even though God's unseen hand was with him.
- Pretence — Laban mourns a missed farewell, yet he had sold his own daughters again and again.
- Restraint — God's warning in the night alarmed Laban's conscience but never gave him the fear of God. He was checked, not changed.
- Song — The music Laban promised was never played. The Bible's first recorded song comes only after redemption, at the Red Sea, when God had brought Israel out of Egypt.
and hast not suffered me to kiss my sons and my daughters? Now thou hast acted foolishly.
Laban has chased Jacob down after his secret escape, and now he unloads his grievance. The charge sounds tender — a grandfather robbed of a goodbye — but two questions sit under it. Was Laban's affection real? And why did Jacob run?
Laban treats the escape as if his daughters had been kidnapped, and ends with a verdict on it.
He asks why Jacob had sneaked away so deceitfully, as though he was carrying Laban's daughters off as captives (v. 26). Why act in such secrecy, without even a word to Laban? It left Laban no chance to give them a pleasant send-off, or even to kiss his daughters and their children goodbye. He does not hesitate to tell Jacob that he has acted foolishly in this.
The problem was not that Jacob left. It was how he left.
But the way he left shows us Jacob's character again. He could have dealt openly with Laban, met him face to face, and gone with proper notice. Instead he slipped away in secret while Laban was away shearing his sheep. That gave Laban fresh ground for complaint. Jacob had put himself in the place of a servant working for wages, though he was his master's son-in-law. In that position, the two of them should have agreed the parting together.
God had already told Jacob to go home. So the secrecy came from something inside him.
But Jacob has to run. The time has come for him to return to his father's house, and God tells him to return. So why slip away in secret? Because he was conscious of his sins. He knew that he had wronged Laban, and so he was troubled and afraid.
Another writer links that secrecy to a missing confidence in God:
His mind is made up at once. He explains himself movingly to Rachel and Leah, and then sets out in secret. He had no such confidence in God, held with a clear conscience, as would have freed him from fear. God's unseen hand was there. But the power and the honour of God could not rightly be seen in a course like that.
Laban speaks here of "my sons and my daughters." One writer weighs that fatherly claim against what Laban had actually done.
He pretends that Jacob left him out of simple homesickness, while his conscience must have told him many a very different reason. He puts on grief and outrage at missing the chance to kiss his daughters and grandchildren, and to send them off with honour — while his conscience must have reminded him how he had sold them again and again. He acts concerned for them, now that they are passing into Jacob's hands, as if his own hand had been a father's hand to them.
Laban's complaint could have gone much further than words. One writer explains why it did not.
The situation had become critical — so critical that God stepped in. This time He spoke to Laban, who had no direct knowledge of Him; Laban speaks of Him to Jacob as "the God of your father." In a dream God warned Laban not to overtake Jacob with violent words or violent action. Laban took that warning into account, and kept to protest alone, with a note of reproach in it about the stealing of his gods.
Years earlier Rebekah had left this same home. Set the two departures side by side and you see what had drained out of the place.
The warning God gave Laban clearly alarmed his guilty conscience. Yet there was no true fear of God in him, and no sense of how unjust he had been — even if Jacob had been nothing more than a faithful servant. On both sides, what a contrast with the day when Rebekah left the same home! That day, it seems, had no laughter and songs, no tambourine and harp, but love and honour and the fear of God and the certainty of His blessing — and most of that had now left the household.
- Guilt drove the secrecy. God had told Jacob to go home. He still left in secret, because he knew he had wronged Laban.
- Manner matters as much as the move. Jacob was free to go. Going without notice, while still a hired servant, handed Laban a fresh complaint.
- Pretence dresses the complaint up. The man grieving over a missed goodbye had sold those same daughters, and his conscience knew it.
- Restraint is God's, not Laban's. A warning in a dream turned a dangerous pursuit into nothing more than a speech.
- Contrast is the verdict. Rebekah left that home with love, honour and blessing. Jacob's family left it by stealth — the measure of how far both sides had drifted.
It would be in the power of my hand to do you hurt; but the God of your father spoke to me last night, saying, Take care that thou speak not to Jacob either good or bad.
Laban has chased Jacob for seven days and caught him in the hills, with his relatives behind him and every advantage on his side. He boasts about the harm his hand could do, then admits that a word spoken to him in the night has taken that option away.
Laban is not bluffing about his strength. He has the men and the grievance. What he does not have is permission — God had settled that in the night, before Laban ever reached him.
Laban has just called Jacob foolish for leaving Haran in secret. Now he tells Jacob that he had the power to harm him. Yet he admits that God's warning stopped his desire for revenge — a warning to speak neither good nor bad to Jacob.
The chase started with one intention and ended with another.
The Lord was faithful and gracious; Jacob was a fugitive. Laban chased him in hot haste with no friendly intent. In the end he had to bow to God, who was protecting Jacob.
Notice how Laban refers to God: not as his own, but as belonging to Jacob's family.
The situation had become critical — so critical that God stepped in. This time He spoke to Laban, who had no direct knowledge of Him; when Laban speaks of Him to Jacob, he calls Him "the God of your father." In a dream God warned Laban not to overtake Jacob with violent words or actions. Because of that warning, Laban could only protest, with a note of reproach in it about the stealing of his gods.
This was how God worked before there were written Scriptures. He dealt with people one at a time, and not only with the family He had chosen.
In the days of the patriarchs, we may say that God revealed Himself only to individuals. He made His mind known this way to Noah, to Abraham, and even to men who knew little of Him, such as Abimelech and Laban. He often used a dream or a vision, but what came was a divine revelation.
Laban obeys the warning, yet his obedience proves nothing about his heart. He drops the violence and keeps the self-interest.
God's warning certainly alarmed Laban's guilty conscience. But there was no true fear of God in him, and no sense of his injustice — even if Jacob had been no more than a faithful servant... If he dreaded being robbed or attacked, he complained about his stolen gods. He valued them next to his gains, and felt no shame in admitting his idol worship. Where that is found, Satan has already brought in darkness and death.
When Jacob answers Laban a few verses later, he throws this dream back at him. The night visit protected one man and exposed the other.
In the end Jacob's words to Laban were very strong. He told him to his face about the hard terms of service he had imposed. He treated God's warning to Laban as more than a kind intervention on his own behalf: it was a rebuke to Laban, and so indeed it was, without a doubt.
Jacob answers Laban in anger — and even in anger he sees clearly who had kept him.
Jacob knew nothing about the stolen gods. He broke into unusual anger with Laban, and he exposed his greed and complete lack of justice, to say nothing of affection. He spared him nothing. He could truly say that, but for God's overruling, he would now have been sent away empty.
This was not a one-off. His whole life told the same story.
His own scheming never saved him from a single danger. Yet Jacob can pass over all his own failures, caught up in the overwhelming thought of God's grace towards him.
- Power. Laban did have the strength to hurt Jacob. The verse does not deny his boast; it reports what stopped it.
- Restraint. God stopped his appetite for revenge instead of satisfying it. He let Laban catch Jacob, but not touch him.
- Word. God used a dream, and He used a man who did not know Him — a man who could only call Him "the God of your father."
- Conscience. The warning alarmed Laban's guilty conscience, but it gave him no true fear of God. He still wanted his idols back.
- Keeping. Jacob's craft had earned him nothing here. But for God's overruling he would have gone home empty — his safety was grace, not cleverness.
And now that thou must needs be gone, because thou greatly longedst after thy father's house, why hast thou stolen my gods?
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And Jacob answered and said to Laban, I was afraid; for I said, Lest thou shouldest take by force thy daughters from me.
Laban has chased Jacob down and caught him on Mount Gilead. He wants to know why his son-in-law slipped away in secret with his daughters and grandchildren. Jacob's answer is one word: fear. Why was a man sent home by God's own word afraid at all?
God had told Jacob to go back to his own land. One writer notes what was missing when Jacob slipped away.
He gives a touching explanation to Rachel and Leah, and then leaves in secret. He did so because he had no such confidence in God, with a clear conscience, as would have freed him from fear. The unseen hand of God was there. But such a course could not rightly show the power and the honour of God.
One commentator weighs whether the danger Jacob names was ever real.
Jacob answers his first question first. He excuses his secret departure on the ground that he was afraid Laban might take Leah and Rachel from him by force. This was not sensible. Laban was not likely to want two daughters back under his roof to care for, along with their children, with no prospect of their finding husbands. Besides, Laban had sold his daughters at a high price.
Fear like this usually has a cause. One writer traces Jacob's fear back to his own conscience.
But Jacob has to flee. The time has come for him to return to his father's house, and God tells him to return. Why steal away in secret? Because he was conscious of sins. He knew that he had wronged Laban, and that is where his trouble and fear came from. As soon as he was free from Laban, the dread of Esau fell on him. God uses it to bring Jacob to Himself in prayer.
Jacob's fear did not protect him. It gave his father-in-law a genuine grievance to hold over him.
But in the manner of his departure we again see the character of Jacob revealed. He did not deal openly with Laban. He could have met him face to face and left with due notice. Instead he stole away while Laban was away shearing his sheep. That gave Laban fresh ground of complaint. Jacob had put himself in the place of a servant, working for wages, though he was his master's son-in-law. In those circumstances the two men should have agreed the parting together.
Years before, Rebekah had left that same household to become Isaac's wife. One writer sets the two leavings side by side.
Jacob was under no obligation to stay… He wanted a word from God, and God gave it to him. His wives were of one mind with him. So he seized the first opportunity, which Laban's sheep-shearing gave him, to be gone. Now that Laban and all his clan had overtaken Jacob on Mount Gilead, what fair objection could be raised? The warning God gave Laban certainly alarmed his guilty conscience, though there was no true fear of God in him, and no sense of his own injustice.
The danger Jacob feared was already dealt with before the two men met.
The situation had become critical. It was so critical that God stepped in. This time He spoke to Laban, who had no direct knowledge of Him. Laban speaks of Him to Jacob as "the God of your father." In a dream God warned Laban not to overtake Jacob with violence of speech or action. Because of this, Laban only argued with him, with a note of reproach about the stealing of his gods.
Jacob's next fear was Esau. One writer draws the lesson from both.
God appeased Esau, as He had already appeased Laban. This is how He always delights to rebuke our poor, cowardly, unbelieving hearts, and put all our fears to flight… He gives sweet evidence of His faithfulness to those who put their trust in Him. Yet why are we so ready to doubt and hesitate on every fresh occasion? The answer is simple: we do not know God well enough.
- Fear speaks. Jacob's own reason for slipping away is not faith. It is fear that Laban would seize his wives by force.
- Fear's root. He knew he had wronged Laban. A guilty conscience left him without the confidence in God that would have freed him from fear.
- Fear's arithmetic. The danger he imagined was unlikely, and he was free to leave in any case. Laban had no reason to want two daughters and their children back under his roof.
- Fear's cost. Slipping away in secret solved nothing. It handed Laban a real complaint and turned an agreed parting into a chase.
- Fear's cure. God had already warned Laban in a dream, and later He softened Esau. Better plans do not put our fears to flight. Knowing God better does.
With whomsoever thou findest thy gods, he shall not live. Before our brethren discern what is thine with me, and take [it] to thee. But Jacob did not know that Rachel had stolen them.
Jacob is fleeing from his father-in-law Laban. Laban catches up and accuses him of stealing his gods. Sure of his own household, Jacob offers a full search and calls for the death of the thief. He has no idea that his beloved Rachel is the one who took them.
These "gods" were household images. One writer explains what such images were, and how Jacob judged them.
The image (teraphim) ranks a little below the idol. It is a lesser god whose domain is the household. People treated it as important, and at times they even consulted it. Superstitions like this soon lead to real idols. That is how Jacob judged the matter when he told Laban to take back his gods.
Another writer says what the images were used for, and why Rachel wanted them.
Teraphim were small images, used for purposes of divination. The incident shows us how far spiritist practices had spread. People revered and valued these little "household divinities", and women often valued them most. That explains why Rachel was eager to keep them with her as they travelled away from her old home. Pagan practices spread very easily.
Jacob's challenge shows how much he trusted his own camp.
Jacob did not suspect anyone in his company of stealing Laban's idols. Rachel was probably the last person he would suspect. He invites Laban to search through everyone's goods and to put the thief to death (v. 32). What a shock it would have been to him if Laban had found her!
His ignorance was real, and it explains how freely he spoke.
How little Jacob knew that Rachel had stolen Laban's teraphim, to her own shame! She had already shown herself a victim of low, vile superstition, and that kind of superstition opens the way to secret idolatry. But Jacob had no suspicion that his beloved wife was guilty. If he had, he would not have been so quick to propose that such a person should not live.
Her theft showed what she was leaning on.
Rachel had stolen the teraphim (household images) that belonged to her father (v. 19). She had not learned to walk by faith in the living God, but like her father, she needed to depend on what she could see. She was a beautiful woman. Yet her desire for a religious atmosphere allowed her to indulge in stealing, idolatry and deceit.
The verse holds up a mirror. The one person Jacob never suspected was sitting on the stolen images.
Rachel was like most of us. We know well how to hide our idols and to deceive even our own loved ones! In fact, Rachel was the last in Laban's search, evidently the least suspected. She was sitting on the images and had a good excuse for not standing.
Jacob spoke a sentence of death without knowing where it fell.
Rachel had sinned greatly. She kept her husband in the dark when he unknowingly said that anyone guilty should not live. Her theft was not only a sin against her father. In what she stole it was a serious insult to God. There is no evidence that she ever judged herself properly. It is plain that Jacob became aware in time of idols in his household. God's call to go up to Bethel laid that sin on his conscience. To take his beloved away was a chastening, not to her only but to him also.
Another writer asks what part Jacob's own love played in the failure:
Rachel stole the images from her father; was it his love for her that led Jacob to allow them in his house? Christian parents sometimes allow things in their homes that they know are wrong. It is a sin to them. When human affection interferes with faithfulness to God, it always brings sorrow.
Searching tents did not remove the images. Something else did.
The thought of God's presence made Jacob remember the false gods. It woke in his soul the conviction that the gods this world worships can never be kept alongside a faithful God. Nothing else can wake this conviction. No amount of experience can ever have the effect that the presence of God produces on a soul. ... Only the presence of God, as light, makes us condemn ourselves. It gives us power to purify ourselves from our deepest idols — the ones we know well but keep hidden.
- Small gods. Teraphim were small household images used to seek guidance. Small enough to sit on, serious enough for Jacob to tell Laban to take them back.
- Hidden. Rachel walked by what she could see, not by faith. Her craving for a religious atmosphere carried her into theft, idolatry and deceit.
- Unsuspected. Jacob offered a full search and a death sentence. He never imagined the guilt was in his own tent, least of all in Rachel.
- Costly. A rash word spoken in ignorance still stood. Writers link Jacob's loss of Rachel to it. Affection that shields wrongdoing brings sorrow.
- Cleared. Laban's search never found the images. Only God's presence brings hidden idols to light, and only that clears a household of them.
And Laban went into Jacob's tent, and into Leah's tent, and into the two handmaids' tents, and found nothing; and he went out of Leah's tent, and entered into Rachel's tent.
Laban searches the camp tent by tent, hunting the household gods that went missing from his house. He finds nothing — and the reader already knows why: the thief is the one wife he has not yet reached.
Laban calls the missing objects his gods. One writer explains what they were, and warns against keeping such things around.
The teraphim was not really an idol, and the Word is careful to keep the two apart. The image (teraphim) ranks below the idol. It is a lesser god whose domain is the household. It carries a certain importance, and people even consult it at times. Such superstitions soon lead to true idols. Jacob judged the matter this way when he told Laban to take back his gods. Often the believer lacks the energy to drive these causes of stumbling out of his family. Each one of us must take this to heart.
The search shows what Laban really came for.
If he dreaded being robbed or attacked, he complained of his stolen gods. He prized them next to his profits, and felt no shame in owning his worship of false gods. Where this is found, Satan has already brought in darkness and death.
Rachel carried the images herself. Commentators see a pattern here, not a one-off slip.
There is a grave lesson lost by those who think there can be no danger of tampering with idols even for believers. There is no reason to suppose that Rachel intended to give up the one true God; even Laban scarcely went so far as that. Yet here, and all through Scripture, we meet the same fact. From the earliest days to the latest, those who acknowledged the living God showed a clear tendency to indulge more or less in idolatry. The case of Solomon is the clearest proof of how great a snare this was for Israel in its brightest days.
Jacob had offered a death sentence for the thief, not knowing who it was.
Jacob did not suspect anyone in his company of stealing Laban's idols — probably least of all Rachel. He invites Laban to search through the goods of everyone with him, and to put the thief to death. What a shock it would have been to him if Rachel had been discovered! But Rachel was like most of us. We know well how to hide our idols and to deceive even our own loved ones. In fact, Rachel was the last in Laban's search, clearly the least suspected.
A tent search can turn up nothing. God's light misses nothing.
You keep some part of your heart shut up from Him. You do not want the light of God's presence to enter that dark room, because it is a secret idol-shrine. You do not want the idol exposed to the light of a rightly jealous God, who says, "I am the Lord your God. You shall have no other gods before me." And remember, an "idol" is anything preferred to Christ and allowed to slip in between Him and the soul. It is useless to hide one corner of your heart from God's searching light while keeping the other part lit up!
Jacob said nothing about the images then. Later, God's call to Bethel did what Laban's search could not.
As soon as God called him back to Bethel, he realised there were evil things in his household, even strange gods. In Genesis 31 we saw how Rachel had carried off from Laban the "gods," or teraphim, that he valued, and there is no record of Jacob objecting to them at that time. But with God before him, he at once became alive to the evil of them. They were to put the things away and to be clean themselves, even down to the clothes they wore.
- Searched. Laban walks through four tents and finds nothing. He came for images he prized next to his profits.
- Small. Teraphim were household images, a step below full idols. People consulted them, and such superstitions lead on to real idolatry.
- Inside. Rachel never meant to give up the true God, yet she carried the images. All through Scripture, people who acknowledged Him still dabbled in idols — Solomon above all.
- Hidden. Laban searched Rachel's tent last, because he suspected her least. We hide our idols well, even from those closest to us.
- Surrendered. No human search found them. God's call to Bethel brought them out, and with them came a demand for cleanness reaching even to the clothes they wore.
Now Rachel had taken the teraphim and put them under the camel's saddle; and she sat upon them. And Laban explored all the tent, but found nothing.
Laban has ransacked tent after tent looking for his household gods, and the search ends at the saddle Rachel is sitting on. How did stolen idols end up inside the family God had chosen, and stay hidden so long?
The Hebrew word behind "household gods" is teraphim.
This is a Hebrew word in the plural. It refers to household idols, like the ones Rachel stole from her father. There, as elsewhere, some Bible versions translate the word "images" and put "teraphim" in the margin. Gen. 31:19, 34, 35. Michal the wife of David had one in her house, and laid it in the bed when David escaped. 1 Sam. 19:13, 16. Micah also had them in his house, and regarded them as "gods." Judges 17:5; Judges 18:14-20. They were used in some way for divination.
Their size is part of the story.
Teraphim were small images, used for purposes of divination. The incident gives us a sidelight on the way spiritist practices had spread. People honoured and valued these little "household divinities," and women often most of all. That is why Rachel was anxious to have them with her as they travelled away from her old home. Heathen practices are very infectious.
Commentators differ on her motive. One writer rejects the kinder guesses:
Rachel's theft brings personal and family idolatry to light — the kind that so often went along with professing the true God. What can be more offensive to God than to make Him a senior or a silent partner in a partnership of gods? The good commentator Matthew Henry makes a strange note: "We are willing to hope that she did not take them away out of greed for the rich metal they were made of… She might have meant to convince her father of the folly of treating as gods things that could not even protect themselves." This is all kindly but unwise. We can learn the true reason from Israel bowing down to the golden calf right after the solemn scenes at Sinai, and from Israel's history down to the captivity in Babylon. We must believe in the godless, evil obsession of the human heart instead of imagining other reasons.
Another reads her as a woman who never let go of what she could see:
Rachel had not learned to walk by faith in the living God. Like her father, she needed to depend on what she could see. Though she was a beautiful woman, her desire for a religious atmosphere allowed her to indulge in stealing, idolatry and deceit. This is common with all human religion: only the true knowledge of the Lord Jesus will preserve us from such things.
The search failed for a reason we should recognise in ourselves.
Rachel was like most of us. We know well how to hide our idols and to deceive even our own loved ones! Rachel was the last in Laban's search, and the least suspected. She was sitting on the images and had a good excuse for not standing.
Jacob had sworn death on the thief without knowing who it was.
How little Jacob knew that Rachel had stolen Laban's teraphim, to her own shame! She had already shown herself the prey of low and vile superstition, which paves the way for idolatry in secret. But Jacob had no suspicion that his beloved was guilty. Otherwise he would never have been so quick to propose that such a person should not live. And she who had played false to God had few scruples about deceiving her father as well as robbing him.
Why would a believing household put up with such a thing?
The image (teraphim) ranks below the idol. It is a half-god whose realm is the home. It carries a certain importance, and people even consult it at times. Such superstitions soon lead to true idols… Often the believer lacks the energy to drive these causes of stumbling out of his family. Each one of us must take this to heart.
Years later, the presence of God did what no experience could.
Rachel, out of fear of Laban, had hidden them under the camel's saddle… The thought of God's presence made Jacob remember the false gods. It awakens in his soul the conviction that the gods this world worships can never be kept alongside a faithful God. Nothing else can awaken this conviction. No amount of experience can ever have the effect that the presence of God produces on a soul.
- Small gods. The teraphim were household images used for divination. They were small enough to hide, so they travelled undetected.
- Sight, not faith. Rachel needed something she could see. That appetite produced theft, idolatry and deceit.
- Well hidden. Laban searched her last because he suspected her least. We too know how to hide our idols from those closest to us.
- Costly ignorance. Jacob swore death on a thief, never imagining it was his beloved wife. Hidden sin endangers a whole house.
- Only light exposes. Tolerated images grow into real idols. No experience removes them. Only the presence of God brings them out.
And she said to her father, Let it not be an occasion of anger in the eyes of my lord that I cannot rise up before thee, for it is with me after the manner of women. And he searched carefully, but did not find the teraphim.
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And Jacob was angry, and he disputed with Laban. And Jacob answered and said to Laban, What is my fault, what my sin, that thou hast so hotly pursued after me?
Laban has just searched every tent for his stolen household gods and found nothing. Jacob finally breaks his long silence and demands evidence: name the crime that justified this chase.
One writer lists what Jacob had on his side, and how little Laban was left with once the search failed.
Jacob was under no bond to stay. Laban and his sons showed plainly how much they disliked his growing wealth and their own decline. He wanted a word from God, Who gave it to him. His wives were of one mind with him. He therefore seized the first opportunity, which Laban's shearing gave him, to be gone. Now that Laban and all his clan had caught up with Jacob on Mount Gilead, what fair charge could anyone bring? The warning God gave Laban plainly alarmed his guilty conscience. Yet there was no true fear of God in him, and no sense of his own injustice — even if Jacob had been nothing more than a faithful servant.
Jacob was sure of his innocence because he did not know the stolen idols were inside his own camp. One commentator shows how close this outburst came to collapsing — and that Jacob was not blameless anyway.
Then Jacob's self-righteous anger begins to boil (v. 36). If only Laban had discovered the idols, how different this would have been! … Of course, even if there had been no sin of stealing, Jacob had still left in secret without telling Laban.
Jacob's question assumes a clean record. He had made that same claim once before, when he set the terms of his wages.
When Jacob bargained with Laban over his wages, he had taken his stand on righteousness (Gen. 30:33). Had he been righteous? And now, with a bold face and proud words, he asks, "What is my offense?"
Both men were bargainers, and one writer sets them side by side. Only one of them had seen heaven open.
The bargain-making Jacob meets the bargain-making Laban, and each strains every nerve to outwit the other. And we cannot wonder at Laban. He had never been at Bethel. He had seen no open heaven, with a ladder reaching from there to earth. He had heard no magnificent promises from the lips of Jehovah… But Jacob had seen and heard all of that at Bethel. To find him still struggling with a man of the world, and trying by such means to pile up property, is deeply humbling.
Jacob's safety that day did not rest on the strength of his argument. One writer puts the outcome down to God alone.
Jehovah was faithful and gracious, Jacob a fugitive. Laban soon chased after him at speed, and with no friendly intent. In the end, God's protection of Jacob forced him to give way.
Jacob complains as a man who served hard and was cheated. One writer sets that complaint beside Paul's list of what he suffered.
Jacob could say, "You know that I have served your father with all my strength, yet your father has cheated me and changed my wages ten times," and Jacob became angry and berated Laban. Paul can say, "I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses… For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities." But it is all "for Christ," not for Laban. Not for glory to himself, but for his Lord; not serving for a wife, as Jacob did.
Commentators differ in emphasis. Some stress that Jacob's charges against Laban were true. Others press how little Jacob's own record could stand the same test.
- Search — Laban ransacked every tent and found nothing. After that, no one could bring a fair charge against Jacob for leaving.
- Silence breaks — Years of swallowed grievance come out at once. The failed search gave Jacob his opening to speak.
- Claim — Jacob's question rests on his own righteousness. It is the same ground he took when bargaining for wages, and the writers ask whether he ever really stood on it.
- Hidden thing — He is sure of his innocence only because he does not know the stolen idols are in his camp. And leaving in secret was itself something to answer for.
- Keeper — What protected him was not the strength of his case. It was God's warning to Laban, which forced a greedy man to back down.
Whereas thou hast explored all my baggage, what hast thou found of all thy household stuff? Set [it] here before my brethren and thy brethren, and let them decide between us both.
Laban has searched every tent for his missing household gods and found nothing, so Jacob now turns on his father-in-law and asks both families to judge between them. But was Jacob as innocent as he sounded, and who was really deciding this case?
Jacob's challenge is safe, because he already knows what the search turned up:
Then Jacob's self-righteous anger begins to boil… Laban has searched through all of Jacob's possessions. So Jacob tells him to set before everybody anything he found that belonged to Laban. Of course he knew that Laban had found nothing.
The same writer points out what Jacob did not know when he made the challenge:
Jacob however did not at all suspect any of his company of having stolen Laban's idols, probably least of all Rachel. He invites Laban to search through the goods of everyone with him, and to put the thief to death. What a shock it would have been to him if Laban had found Rachel out! But Rachel was like most of us. We know well how to hide our idols and to deceive even our own loved ones!
Commentators do not give Jacob a clean record here. One writer looks at the way he left Laban:
Instead of dealing openly with Laban, meeting him face to face, and then leaving with proper notice, he slipped away in secret while Laban was away shearing his sheep. By doing this he gave Laban a fresh reason to complain. Jacob had put himself in the place of a servant, working for wages, even though he was his master's son-in-law. In that position the two of them should have agreed on the parting together.
By demanding a public verdict, Jacob forces the whole quarrel into daylight — and it is Laban who comes off worst. One writer shows who comes off worse:
Here everything comes out into the light, and Laban brings on himself the proof of his own selfishness and dishonesty… What he feared was being robbed or attacked, and what he complained about was his stolen gods. These he prized next to his gains, with no shame for admitting his heathenism; for where this is, Satan has already brought in darkness and death.
Jacob asks two families to decide between him and Laban. One writer points to God's reckoning, which had already settled the matter — and not because Jacob deserved it:
God's reckoning, not Jacob's righteousness, is why Laban had to pay him wages. God brought him out by His angel. Remember now, Jacob, what the Syrian Laban had planned, and how God answered Laban: "Be careful not to say anything to Jacob, either good or bad."
Kelly notes that Jacob spoke without knowing about the theft, and says where his wealth really came from:
Jacob, who knew nothing of it, broke into unusual anger with Laban. He exposes Laban's greed and complete lack of justice, to say nothing of affection, and spares him nothing. And he could well say that, without God's overruling, he would now be going away empty-handed.
Jacob wants witnesses to decide between him and Laban. The quarrel ends with a pillar set up between them, and one writer reads it as the honest verdict on both men:
He is really telling Jacob, "I cannot trust you out of my sight, so I want the Lord to watch." Of course it was true the other way also. Jacob had learned not to trust Laban. So this pillar is the milestone in Jacob's life that proclaims clearly the untrustworthiness of the flesh. Very often it takes two parties to expose it to one another!
- Searched — Laban went through every tent and found nothing. Jacob's call for both families to weigh the evidence was a challenge he knew he would win.
- Sheltered — His boldness rested on ignorance. If Rachel's theft had come to light, his own demand for a public verdict would have destroyed him.
- Stained — Jacob had slipped away in secret while Laban was shearing. That gave Laban a real complaint, and it makes the anger here self-righteous.
- Settled — God had already warned Laban to say nothing to Jacob, good or bad. Jacob left rich because God overruled, not because his own record deserved it.
- Stones — The case closes with a pillar standing between two men who could not trust each other, and lasting proof of how untrustworthy the flesh is.
These twenty years have I been with thee thy ewes and thy she-goats have not cast their young, and the rams of thy flock I have not eaten.
Laban has searched Jacob's tents for his missing gods and found nothing, and Jacob finally answers him with twenty years of accounts. The verse raises two questions: was Jacob right to defend himself, and what had God been doing through those hard years?
Jacob points to two details a careless shepherd could never claim. One writer explains what they meant in daily work.
For twenty years, he says, he has served Laban. He had so cared for the females of Laban's flock that they had not miscarried, nor had he taken any of Laban's sheep, even to eat.
Laban had sons of his own, yet Jacob did the work. The same writer asks who was profiting from it.
Laban had sons who could have helped with this work, but it seems they left it to the one who could do it well. Were Laban and his sons all sharing the benefits of Jacob's work without having to work themselves? It seemed so. Employers often think they have the right to reap all the benefits that labor produces, because they put up the original capital. But God takes account of the guilt of employers who oppress their workers (James 5:4).
Jacob had kept quiet for twenty years. One writer reads both the silence and this late defence as God's hand on him.
In all this he is humbled under the mighty hand of God, as a man who would gladly remember his own past ways. And at the end of twenty years of hard work and ill treatment, he is able to testify to his faithfulness, and God Himself seems to seal that testimony.
The same writer does not overstate the change in Jacob. He marks how far the restraint went.
While he lived in the house of Laban the Syrian, Jacob knew that he was under the mighty hand of God for correction, and he behaved that way. He did not defend himself when he was blamed. He did not fight for his rights when he was wronged and treated unjustly.
The years Jacob counts up did not simply happen to him. One writer ties them back to what Jacob had done at home.
Jacob was a man of faith, but failed in spirituality, and comes under the Lord's discipline that he might bear more fruit and better. As he had cheated at home, he suffered abroad, and at the hands of his mother's brother most of all. His patience under Laban's hardhearted wrongs testifies that he bowed to God.
Another writer lists the cost item by item and gives it a name.
He was cheated about his wife. He was wronged over his wages. He was a wanderer from his father's house and a slave to Laban. All this came because he acted deceitfully, instead of leaving God to bring the blessing about. In all of it we see real discipline for evil done.
Commentators differ on the tone of this speech. One reads the quiet years as genuine. Another hears a man claiming a righteousness he never had.
Besides, when Jacob bargained with Laban over his pay, he took his stand on righteousness (Gen. 30:33). Had he been righteous? And now, with a bold face and big words, he asks, "What is my offense?"
One writer sets Jacob's angry complaint beside the boast of a very different servant.
Does Jacob scold in anger when Laban searches his belongings and fails to find his stolen gods? He says, "I have not eaten the rams of your flocks. What was torn by wild beasts I bore the loss of it myself. By day the heat consumed me, and the cold by night … and my sleep fled from my eyes … and you have changed my wages ten times." So another "I" will also boast, as if in folly. Another servant! One who served in love, for love, not money. He announced God's good news free of charge, and took no pay from anyone for shepherding the flock.
Another writer sees Jacob's long years of service as a faint picture of a greater Servant.
He is a picture of a servant too, in some small way not unworthy to foreshadow Him who "took the form of a servant." He submits in silence to the wrongs of a cruel master. He serves patiently and suffers without complaint. Laban changes his wages ten times, but he never answers back.
- Sown — He cheated at home, so he suffered abroad. The twenty years he counts up were the harvest of his own deceit.
- Served — He gave real, careful work: no miscarried young, nothing eaten from the flock he watched.
- Silent — God's hand was on him to correct him. So he did not defend himself when blamed, and did not fight for his rights.
- Seen — God takes account of employers who oppress the workers they profit from.
- Shadowed — A wronged, underpaid servant who never answered back points to One who took the form of a servant.
What was torn I have not brought to thee; I had to bear the loss of it of my hand hast thou required it, [whether] stolen by day or stolen by night.
Laban has caught up with Jacob, who has fled for home with his wives and flocks. Here Jacob opens twenty years of accounts, and his words show what his service cost, why God allowed it, and what kind of servant it made him.
The terms of Jacob's work were harsh. He carried every risk of the flock himself.
He had cared for the females of Laban's flock so well that they had not miscarried. He had not taken any of Laban's sheep, even to eat. If an animal was lost, whether wild animals killed it or someone stole it, Laban held Jacob accountable. Jacob had to pay for the loss. He often suffered from the heat of the day and shivered at night in the cold, unable to sleep.
These two verses are also one of Scripture's clearest windows into the trade itself.
The difficulties and hardships of a shepherd's life in the East may be gathered from what Jacob passed through during the time he was with Laban. Gen. 31:39-40.
This anger was out of character for Jacob. When it broke out, it exposed the man he had worked for.
Jacob, who did not know that anything had been stolen, broke into unusual anger with Laban. He held nothing back in exposing Laban's greed and total lack of justice, to say nothing of affection. He could well say that, but for God's over-ruling, he would have been sent away empty-handed. What could Laban reply, except that everything was his — wives, children, flock? God had no place in his thoughts, and neither had love for his daughters, or their children, or his son-in-law.
Commentators trace these years back to Jacob's own conduct. He used deceit to get the blessing instead of leaving it to God, and he received deceit in return.
He was cheated about his wife and wronged over his wages. He was a wanderer from his father's house and a slave to Laban. All this came because he acted deceitfully, instead of leaving God to bring the blessing about. In all of it we see real discipline because of evil.
Carrying the loss month after month had an effect on Jacob. He knew whose hand was on him, and it shaped how he answered Laban.
In Jacob at Padan-aram, if I am not mistaken, we get a believer under discipline who knows he is under discipline. He understands what the moment means under God's hand. He sees that the Lord's rebuke is right, and he carries himself with meekness and watchfulness. He takes the wrongs of a harsh master in silence. He serves with patience, and suffers without complaint.
The same writer marks the limits of that restraint. It was control, not cure.
We shall find, I know, that after this Jacob is old Jacob still. The same evil that had been working in him from the beginning betrays him again. But while he was in the Syrian's house, Jacob knew that he was under the mighty hand of God for correction, and he behaved that way. He did not defend himself when he was blamed, and he did not fight for his rights when he was wronged and treated unjustly.
Some writers see Jacob's long service for a bride as a picture of Christ.
Leah was bride to a man who pictured Christ as a sufferer. He gave back what he did not take away. Tireless work wore him out, and he laboured while others slept (see Gen. 31:39-40; Luke 6:12) … Jacob went for Leah and won her at the cost of hard service. She first shared his days of toil, before she shared the wealth and glory he gained.
Jacob's recital of his hardships has an echo in the New Testament, where another servant reluctantly lists what his work cost him.
Does Jacob complain in anger when Laban searches his belongings and does not find his stolen gods? He says he never ate Laban's rams, that he bore the loss of the animals torn by wild beasts, that drought consumed him by day and frost by night, that sleep left his eyes, and that Laban changed his wages ten times. Then another "I" also will boast as in folly. Another servant! One who served in love, for love, not money. He announced God's glad tidings free of charge, and took no pay from any man for shepherding the flock … in labour and toil; in many sleepless nights; in hunger and thirst, often without food; in cold and without clothing.
- The charge. Laban billed Jacob for every animal torn or stolen. Jacob paid for losses that were never his fault, by day and by night.
- The cause. The man who had taken his father's blessing by deceit was now cheated over his wife and his wages — discipline, not accident.
- The bearing. Under that hand Jacob served with patience, kept silent under wrongs, and did not fight for his rights. Yet the discipline only controlled the old nature; it did not cure it.
- The exposure. When Jacob does speak, he leaves Laban's greed and injustice in plain sight. Only God's over-ruling kept him from leaving empty-handed.
- The shadow. A servant worn out by toil, working while others slept, paying for what he never took. He is a faint picture of Christ, who gave back what He never took away, and of the servant who shepherded the flock for love and took no pay.
Thus it was with me in the day the heat consumed me, and the frost by night; and my sleep fled from mine eyes.
In one line, Jacob sums up twenty years with Laban: burning days, freezing nights, no sleep. Commentators read the words on three levels: the real cost of shepherding, God's discipline in Jacob's life, and a picture of Christ toiling for His bride.
The complaint is not poetry. It records what the work demanded, and what Laban demanded on top of that.
He had cared for the females of Laban's flock so well that they did not miscarry. He had not taken any of Laban's sheep, even to eat. If an animal went missing, whether wild animals killed it or someone stole it, Laban held Jacob accountable: he had to pay for the loss. He often suffered from the heat of the day. At night he shivered with cold and could not sleep.
What Jacob lived through is treated as the standard window into the trade itself:
The difficulties and hardships of a shepherd's life in the East may be gathered from what Jacob passed through during the time he was with Laban.
The hardship was not random. Writers link it to the way Jacob had gone after the blessing.
God deals with him in government, and measures back to him the measure he used himself. He is continually the target of similar deceit… He was cheated about his wife and wronged over his wages. He became a wanderer from his father's house and a slave to Laban. All of it came from acting deceitfully instead of leaving the fulfilment of the blessing to God. In all this we see real discipline because of evil.
The hardship is not the whole story. God settled the wages Himself, and He settled them fast.
In about five or six years, God's providence paid Jacob the wages Laban had cheated him out of for twenty years.
Jacob served for a wife. Commentators find in that service a likeness to Christ.
The Lord Jesus personally has borne the heat of the day all alone. He had nowhere to lay His head, like Jacob — absent from His Father's house and from the place of His inheritance. He was wronged again and again in a world which, like Laban and his household, always seeks its own. Yet He endured all this, and was willing to endure all this, for the love He had for her on whom His eye had rested. It was the same with Jacob: his seven years of service seemed to him only a few days, because of his love for Rachel.
Another writer notes what made those years bearable, and how narrow the likeness is:
But love lightened the burdens and sweetened all the bitterness of those long years… And this is the only phase of his life in which the patriarch Jacob appears to picture our Lord, "who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame." His toil ended, He has taken His seat at the right hand of the throne of God.
The lost sleep gets turned into a job description for anyone charged with caring for God's people.
In Hebrews 13:17 we read of the Guides — the ones who lead, as a shepherd leads and guides the flock. It tells us they "keep watch over your souls." The word "watch" means "to be sleepless," and so "to be vigilant." A good shepherd kept watch over his flock by day and by night, like the shepherds of Bethlehem, or Jacob, who could say, "by day the heat consumed me, and the cold by night, and my sleep fled from my eyes." So should the true overseer watch, by day and by night, over the flock of God.
- Cost. Heat, cold, no sleep, and paying for every animal lost. That was the price of keeping another man's flock.
- Correction. The man who deceived others was deceived in turn. The hardship was discipline, measured back to him in his own measure.
- Compensation. God kept the account. In five or six years He restored what twenty years of cheating had stolen.
- Christ. Jacob's toil for a wife is the one place his life pictures the Lord. He bore the heat alone for love of His bride.
- Calling. The sleepless shepherd becomes the pattern: those who care for God's people are to keep watch by day and by night.
I have been these twenty years in thy house I have served thee fourteen years for thy two daughters, and six years for thy flock; and thou hast changed my wages ten times.
Jacob reads out his twenty-year account to Laban's face: fourteen years for two daughters, six for the flock, and wages changed again and again. Why did God let this go on so long? And what part did Jacob play in his own hard bargain?
The verse is Jacob's own arithmetic. Laban never denied a single figure of it.
He stresses that he had served Laban fourteen years for his two daughters. Of course he had willingly offered to work seven years for Rachel, but had been deceived. Then he had worked six years to gain the large flock he now had. But more: he affirms that Laban had changed his wages ten times (v. 41). This must have been true, or Laban would have denied it. It does show the manipulating character of Laban. He was not at all behind Jacob in this trickery.
Jacob had won his father's blessing by deceit at home. The twenty years abroad answered that.
Genesis 29, 30 and 31 record the years of Jacob's stay in Haran. Those years turned into a duel of diplomacy between Jacob and Laban his uncle. Under the government of God, Jacob found himself in the hands of a man even more selfish than himself. God's discipline fitted his case remarkably well in the matter of his marriage. Laban deceived him about his two daughters, just as Isaac's two sons had deceived Isaac.
The changed wages were not the whole return on what Jacob had planted; the crop kept coming in long after he left Laban's house.
Jacob deceived his old father and stole his brother's birthright. That was bad sowing, but he did not expect the harvest he received. Laban deceived him about his wife, and he had to work another seven years to win her. That was not all the harvest. Laban changed his wages ten times to cheat him. He had twenty years of bitter labour in Syria. Then his own sons deceived him about Joseph. He spent twenty-two years in bitter sorrow, mourning him as dead.
Jacob did not only suffer wrong. He had schemes of his own, and one writer draws the practical lesson.
We have no need or right to fall back on plans of our own, as if we could help God achieve His purpose. If, on the other hand, God instructs us by His word to act, it is our duty and our wisdom to do as He says. Jacob asserted that Laban had changed his wages ten times. If that was true, it was great provocation. But relying on God would have saved him from actions that are also open to question.
Not everything in those twenty years was failure. One writer sees something excellent in how Jacob took the wrong.
But in much of his behaviour during the twenty years he spent with Laban, we see what was excellent in him. Anyone whose mind is right towards God at all must feel the force of knowing that we are under the hand of God for correction... Here we get a saint under discipline who knows he is under discipline. He understands well what the moment means under God's hand, and that the Lord's rebuke is right. He carries himself meekly and watchfully. He takes the wrongs of a harmful master in silence. He serves patiently and suffers without complaint. His wages were changed ten times, but he does not answer back.
Those twenty years were an exile, and one writer finds a wider picture in them.
The Lord brought him to Padan-aram, where he was to dwell as an exile for twenty years. During these twenty years the Lord did not show Himself to him. In the same way, Israel scattered among the nations hears nothing from the Lord.
Jacob's long years of service for the woman he loved also point forward.
Here we find the one who was to own and enjoy her, travelling and toiling for her... He has Himself gone into the distant land. There He laboured, and there He bore reproach and wrong for her. In all this, Jacob sets forth the true Bridegroom. The Lord Jesus Himself has borne the heat of the day all alone. He had nowhere to lay His head, like Jacob. He was away from His Father's house and from the place of His inheritance. The world wronged Him again and again, for like Laban and his house it always seeks its own.
- Sowing. Jacob's deceit at home came back to him abroad, and the harvest was larger and longer than the seed.
- Government. God placed him under a man more selfish than himself. The correction fitted the wrong exactly.
- Wages. The ten changes were real provocation. But Jacob's own schemes were open to question too. Trusting God would have spared him them.
- Patience. He knew he was under God's hand. His wages changed ten times, and he did not answer back.
- Silence. Twenty years passed with no word from God, as with Israel scattered among the nations. Yet the servant toiling in a far country for his bride points on to Christ.
Had not the God of my father, the God of Abraham, and the fear of Isaac, been with me, it is certain thou wouldest have sent me away now empty. God has looked upon my affliction and the labour of my hands, and has judged last night.
Twenty years of work for Laban end in an open quarrel. Jacob names the reason he is leaving rich instead of empty — and he names God twice over, as the God of Abraham and the Fear of Isaac.
One writer takes Jacob's claim as plain fact — about Laban's greed, and about the God who watched Jacob work:
What Jacob says in verse 42 is also very likely true. It was only the intervention of God that enabled Jacob to accumulate the wealth he had. Laban was so greedy of gain that he would have been content to let Jacob leave with nothing at all for his twenty years of work. He says that God had seen his hard work and his suffering, and so had rebuked Laban the night before.
Jacob says he would have gone away empty-handed. One writer shows who settled that account:
Truly the LORD is merciful and gracious, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love. The words of Laban's sons, and the looks of Laban himself, showed their discontent — and no wonder. So the LORD told Jacob to return to the land of his fathers and to his relatives. In some five or six years God's providence paid Jacob the wages Laban had cheated him out of for twenty years.
Jacob ends the verse by pointing to the warning God gave Laban the night before. He treats it as more than a favour done for himself:
Jacob saw God's warning to Laban as more than a kind step taken for his own sake. He saw it as a rebuke to Laban — and without a doubt that is what it was.
But a rebuke can strike the conscience and leave the heart unchanged:
The warning God gave Laban clearly alarmed his guilty conscience. But no true fear of God was there, and no sense of his injustice — even if Jacob had been no more than a faithful servant.
Jacob does not say "my God." He borrows the names of the two men before him. One writer counts that as real growth, but only up to a point:
It was something to hear Jacob confessing the name of the God of Abraham and the fear of Isaac (chapter 31:42)... Up to this point Jacob had grown in his sense of God's faithfulness and of His holy majesty. His cattle, servants, camels and donkeys had increased greatly, and all of them disappear at the end. But I doubt he had made much more progress than this growth in confidence in God and fear of Him.
The title "the Fear of Isaac" also says something about Isaac himself. One writer asks what that fear did inside a man who had once told a deliberate lie:
Isaac was a gracious and prayerful person, who knew what it is to meditate in the fields at evening. Could a man with such habits fail to judge his own deliberate lie? It was a stumbling block to the world. It dishonoured his Almighty Protector, his beloved wife, and himself as a saint... Can one doubt, then, that the fear of Isaac (Gen. 31:42) worked in his conscience to humble him and to clear his spirit from deceit.
Jacob's hard years had a shape. One writer sees his own offence at home coming back on him — and sees how he bore it:
Jacob had been only a little while under the trials and sorrows of his stay with Laban. Then he was paid back in the exact pattern of his own offence at home. He had deceived his father about his brother and the blessing. Laban now deceives him about Rachel and the marriage... He submits to the wrongs of an injurious master in silence. He serves patiently, and suffers without complaint.
- Empty. Left to Laban's greed, Jacob would have walked away from twenty years of work with nothing. The wealth in his hands came from God, not from his own cleverness.
- Paid. Laban withheld wages for twenty years. God gave them back in about five or six. He settles unpaid accounts on His own timetable.
- Seen. God had watched Jacob's hard work and his suffering. The warning that stopped Laban was a rebuke, not just a rescue.
- Feared. The warning alarmed Laban's conscience, but left no true fear of God in him. Isaac's fear of God humbled him and cleared deceit out of his spirit. Same word, opposite effect.
- Named. Jacob confessed the God of Abraham and the Fear of Isaac. That was real growth in confidence and reverence — though one writer doubts he had gone much further.
And Laban answered and said to Jacob, The daughters are my daughters, and the sons are my sons, and the flock is my flock, and all that thou seest is mine; but as for my daughters, what can I do this day to them, or to their sons whom they have brought forth?
Jacob has just poured out twenty years of grievance, and Laban does not deny a word of it. He claims to own everything in sight — wives, grandchildren, flocks — yet his boast ends in a helpless question.
One writer tests Laban's claim item by item and finds nothing left of it:
Laban had little to say in his own defence in answer to Jacob's outburst. But he does use the one argument he considered valid: "The daughters are my daughters, the children are my children, the flocks are my flocks" (v. 43). Leah and Rachel had been his daughters, but Laban had sold them. The children were really Jacob's children, though they were Laban's grandchildren too — at least those born to Leah and Rachel. The flocks had been bred from Laban's flocks, but they were the wages Laban had agreed to give Jacob for his work.
Notice what is missing from Laban's sentence. One commentator sets the reply beside Jacob's charge against Laban's greed:
Jacob broke into unusual anger with Laban. He exposes Laban's greed and lack of all justice, to say nothing of affection, without sparing him. He could well say that but for God's overruling he would now have been sent away empty. What could Laban reply but that all were his — wives, children, flock? God was in none of his thoughts, any more than love for his daughters, or their children, or his son-in-law.
The claim is a balance sheet where a father's heart should have been.
Laban says everything is his, then asks what he can do for these daughters and their children. A writer draws the practical rule out of that:
Because Leah and Rachel were his daughters, he thought, wrongly, that they were his possession and that he had the right to sell them. They were not his own to begin with, let alone after he had sold them. But this verse proclaims loudly that a man who only wants to own things loses what he stubbornly tries to hold. Laban found himself poorer in several ways when Jacob left him... May we learn well the lesson that this history teaches: what we own is not ours, but the Lord's, and what we selfishly hold we will lose. On the other hand, what we unselfishly give up for the Lord's sake we shall find that we gain in the end.
Laban had watched God prosper his household through Jacob for two decades. The claim in this verse shows the effect that made on him: none at all.
As to Laban, he was a thorough man of the world when Jacob entered his house, and so he was when Jacob left it. In all his dealings, from first to last, he looks out for his own advantage. He is forced to admit that the hand of God was with Jacob. But he would make that hand, through Jacob, serve himself, and turn Jacob's interest in God to his own account. For twenty years he had the evidence of the hand of the Lord, and the working of His grace and power, under his eye and in his house, and that daily. Yet he continued a man of the world still... And Jacob's departure from his house at the last was like an escape out of the enemy's hand.
If Laban talks like a man who owns everything, that is only consistent with what he is. The uncomfortable part of the chapter is that Jacob had been playing the same game.
The bargain-making Jacob meets the bargain-making Laban, and you can see both straining every nerve to outwit each other. Nor can we wonder at Laban, for he had never been at Bethel. He had seen no open heaven, with a ladder reaching from there to earth. He had heard no magnificent promises from the lips of the Lord, promising him all the land of Canaan and countless descendants. No wonder, then, that he should show a grasping, grovelling spirit. He had no other resource.
after_note_ignore: n/a It is useless to expect from worldly men anything but a worldly spirit, and worldly principles and ways... But Jacob had seen and heard all of this at Bethel. To find him struggling with a man of the world, and trying by such means to pile up property, is especially humbling.
- Claim. Laban meets Jacob's charges with a boast, not a defence: daughters, children, flocks, everything in view is his.
- Contradiction. Each item had already left his hands: he sold the daughters, the children belonged to Jacob, and the flocks paid Jacob's wages.
- Cause. God is absent from the sentence, and so is affection for the very people he names.
- Collapse. The boast ends in a question he cannot answer; the grasping man loses what he clutches.
- Caution. Twenty years of seeing God bless his house left Laban unchanged — and Jacob, who had seen far more, was playing the same game.
And now, come, let us make a covenant, I and thou; and let it be a witness between me and thee.
Laban has chased Jacob for seven days and searched his tents for his missing household gods. He found nothing. Now he asks for a covenant — a binding agreement, with something set up as a witness to it. Why would two relatives need that?
Laban's speech before this verse still claims everything in sight as his own. But his words had lost their force, and one writer traces the shift directly to that weakness:
Verses 43 and 44 would indicate that Laban himself was conscious that this was the case, and so, while asserting his fatherly rights, he adopted a different tone altogether, and suggested that a covenant should be agreed and established between them. This was accordingly done.
The proposal ends the quarrel, but it does not heal it. Another commentator reads the very need for such a document as an indictment of both households:
Laban had calmed down enough that, instead of carrying on the argument, he suggested that he and Jacob make a covenant between them (v. 44). It is sad to think he found this necessary between relatives. It is again a legal arrangement rather than a relationship of trust shaped by grace, which is what every family relationship should be. What we see here is still confidence in the flesh, rather than the faith that trusts in the living God.
Laban's request is strange coming from the stronger party. He had pursued Jacob with a small army and now begs terms from him. The reason lies in Laban himself:
To the eye of faith it is a sad sight. Laban is paid back, and Jacob and his household are rescued by God's overruling hand and goodness. Yet inside the chosen family the wife has stolen idol images, and her husband knows nothing of it. Laban, far from crushing Jacob, begs him for a covenant. Because he did not fear God, he had no confidence in his own closest relative.
The distrust ran both ways. One writer puts Laban's request into plain words:
He is really telling Jacob, "I cannot trust you out of my sight, so I want the Lord to watch." Of course it was true the other way also. Jacob had learned not to trust Laban. So this pillar is the milestone in Jacob's life that declares how untrustworthy the flesh is. Very often it takes two people to expose it to each other!
Laban sets every term. Jacob accepts them, and then does more than agree:
But he tries to put a good face on the matter, and asks for a covenant between himself and Jacob. Jacob leaves all the terms to Laban, with his miserable thoughts and fears, but he carries the covenant out in full earnest, and with it the name that stood. He not only swore by the Fear of Isaac; he also offered peace offerings, and they ate bread together.
The witness Laban asks for turns out to be a heap of stones and a pillar, set as a boundary marker:
Then Laban speaks of the heap and the pillar as a dividing point between him and Jacob. It witnessed their agreement that neither would pass that point to harm the other (v. 52). The whole covenant may seem needless to us. Neither of them was likely to cross that line for any reason: they would be happier living far apart from each other.
The covenant is not only signed; it is sealed with an animal offered to God and a meal eaten over the stones. One writer notices who performs the sacrifice, and what that says about Jacob:
There is something great in this. It tells us that Jacob knew his place and dignity under God. Laban had every claim that nature or the flesh or family ties could give, but Jacob acts despite them. Laban was the older man; he was the master and the father-in-law. Still, Jacob takes the place of the "better," and offers the sacrifice.
The same writer finds in that pattern a picture of something far larger than a family truce:
Such a scene, in mystery, exhibits our blessing. For we enjoy a covenant of peace, secured by a sacrifice, and witnessed by a feast.
One writer sums up the parting, and finds a pattern in it:
But Jacob's prosperity turns Laban against him, just as spiritual growth separates a person from the world… Laban follows Jacob; God appears for Jacob and shields him; and Jacob at last departs in peace, with a covenant between him and Laban, at Galeed, the "heap of witness."
- Subdued — Laban stops arguing and asks for terms. The covenant is the move of a man with nothing left to claim.
- Suspicion — Laban did not fear God, so he could not trust even his closest relative.
- Stones — the heap of stones stands as a witness to broken trust. It marks how untrustworthy the flesh proved on both sides.
- Sacrifice — Jacob leaves every term to Laban. Then he offers the sacrifice and shares the meal, taking the higher place though he held the lower rank.
- Separation — a covenant of peace, secured by a sacrifice and witnessed by a feast. Jacob parts in peace from the world he served.
And Jacob took a stone, and set it up [for] a pillar.
Genesis 31 ends with two relatives who no longer trust each other, trying to make an agreement that will hold. Jacob's answer is a stone — and the question is what a stone can guarantee between men like these.
The Hebrew word behind "pillar" is plain and physical. It names an object put upright and left standing.
matstsebah, from 'to set, put, place'; and so anything that is set up. It is used for the stone that Jacob had for a pillow, which he set up, and on which he poured oil and made his vow. Also for the heap of stones he raised when Laban and he parted.
This is not Jacob's first stone. Commentators trace several through his life, and read this one against the pillar he set up at Bethel.
Jacob sets up his second pillar. His first was in Genesis 28:18, where he made his fleshly vow, therefore the pillar of confidence in the flesh. This time his pillar is a memorial to broken confidence between relatives. It stands in contrast to the first pillar, because it tells us that the flesh has proved it cannot be trusted.
Laban is the one who dictates the terms, and the words he chooses give away what he thinks of his son-in-law.
It is Laban who pronounces the terms of their covenant, saying that the heap was a witness to it. He introduces the Lord's name here, expecting Him to watch between himself and Jacob when they are absent from one another. He is really telling Jacob, "I cannot trust you out of my sight, so I want the Lord to watch." Of course it was true the other way also. Jacob had learned not to trust Laban.
Commentators differ on what the pillar marks — some read it as a monument to failed trust, others as a witness to God's rescue and a boundary line. One detail stands out either way: unlike the stone at Bethel, this one stays dry.
He set up pillars several times in his life — it seems to have been a favourite practice with him. He set one up by Galeed, east of the Jordan, to stand as a witness that God had stepped in on his behalf. Together with the heap that he and his relatives raised, it marked the boundary that neither he nor Laban was to cross to harm the other. He set up another on Rachel's grave, on the way to Ephrath, a lasting memorial marking the spot where he laid the body of his beloved. But neither at Galeed nor at Rachel's grave did he pour out a drink-offering. Neither the time nor the places were right for such an expressive action, and no doubt he understood that.
Jacob does more than set up a stone. He offers the sacrifice — and he is not the elder of the two men.
This has great character in it. It tells us that Jacob knew his place and dignity under God. Laban had every claim that nature or the flesh or family could give, but Jacob acts despite them. Laban was the elder; he was the master and the father-in-law. But Jacob still takes the place of the "better," and offers the sacrifice. He acts in the same spirit of faith as Abraham when he made a covenant with the king of Gerar (Gen. 21), or Jethro at Horeb, among the Israel of God and in the presence of Aaron (Ex. 18).
Commentators see that covenant, sacrifice and feast as a picture of something far larger.
Such a scene, in mystery, shows our blessing. For we enjoy a covenant of peace, secured by a sacrifice, and witnessed by a feast.
The stone marks a border neither man may cross. Some writers see in that parting a pattern of how blessing itself creates distance.
After all his planning, Jacob has to learn that it is the power of God to which he owes the increase. God has looked on his affliction and his toil, and ordained him a recompense. But his prosperity turns Laban against him, as spiritual increase separates from the world. Then comes the call of God to return to Canaan. Laban cannot get on with him any more, and yet Jacob's leaving makes him openly hostile — just as the world feels the sting of separation, though there can be no more fellowship.
- Set up. The word for pillar means nothing more than something set upright — a stone left standing to witness what happened.
- Broken. Jacob's first pillar at Bethel marked confidence in the flesh. This second one records that two relatives cannot trust each other.
- Watched. Laban brings God's name in because he cannot trust Jacob out of his sight — and Jacob had just as little reason to trust him.
- Dry. Jacob pours no oil and no drink-offering on this stone. A stone can witness a boundary without being a place of worship.
- Offered. Jacob, the younger and the servant, is the one who brings the sacrifice — a covenant of peace secured by sacrifice and witnessed by a feast.
And Jacob said to his brethren, Gather stones. And they took stones, and made a heap, and ate there upon the heap.
Genesis 31 ends with Jacob parting from his father-in-law Laban, and the pile of stones in this verse is the monument they leave behind. It looks like a peace treaty, but commentators read it as something sadder: two relatives who cannot trust each other.
Jacob had set up a stone once before, in Genesis 28:18, when he made his vow. This second heap marks a very different moment.
Jacob sets up his second pillar. His first was in Genesis 28:18, where he made his fleshly vow. That first pillar was a pillar of confidence in the flesh. This time his pillar is a memorial to broken confidence between relatives. It stands in contrast to the first pillar, because it tells us that the flesh has proved it cannot be trusted. A heap of stones underlines this. Both Laban and Jacob call it a "heap of witness" — Laban in the Chaldee language, Jacob in Hebrew. They eat upon the heap, not the most comfortable dining room!
The next verse gives the pile two names. A Bible dictionary explains Laban's name for it, Jegar-sahadutha:
This is the Aramaic name Laban gave to the heap of stones raised as a witness between him and Jacob. Jacob called it GALEED. Both names mean 'cairn of witness.'
A family should not need a legal contract. Laban asked for one anyway.
It is sad to think that he considered this necessary between relatives. It is again a legal arrangement instead of a trusting relationship shaped by grace, as every family relationship should be. There is still evidence here of mere confidence in the flesh, instead of the faith that trusts in the living God.
Laban set all the terms, and Jacob accepted them.
But he tries to put a good face on the matter, and asks for a covenant between himself and Jacob. Jacob leaves all the terms to Laban, and to his wretched thoughts and fears. Yet Jacob solemnly carries the covenant out, and accepts the name that stood. He not only swore by the Fear of Isaac; he also offered peace offerings, and they ate bread together.
Laban pressed for a covenant. Jacob added a sacrifice, and one commentator sees that as the better part of the scene.
While Laban has emphasized the covenant, Jacob offered a sacrifice, which was far better. Then he invited the whole company to eat a meal with him. At least the sacrifice was a reminder that God had rights far more important than those of either Jacob or Laban. Eating together eased the tension between them, so that they could part on fairly friendly terms.
Another writer links the offering and the meal. At Mount Gilead they made a covenant, "offering sacrifice, and then eating together as upon the sacrifice" (J. G. Bellett).
Behind the ceremony stand twenty-one hard years of service to Laban. One writer reads them as discipline.
You get Mizpah, or Jegar-sahadutha, or Galeed, and much instruction in it all, for the Lord takes care of the believer. But where the believer walks in this low, fleshly way, God chastens him through and through. Twenty-one years a slave — he cheats, and is cheated. He believed, and came to be believed, but his means were of the flesh. It was discipline in every possible way, because he walked after the flesh.
The heap also marks the point where Jacob's break with Laban becomes final and peaceful.
But Jacob's prosperity turns Laban against him, just as spiritual growth separates a believer from the world. Then comes the call of God to return to Canaan. Laban can no longer get on with him, yet Jacob's leaving turns him into an open enemy — just as the world feels the sting of separation, though there can be no more fellowship. Laban follows Jacob. God appears for Jacob and shields him. Jacob departs at last in peace, with a covenant between him and Laban, at Galeed, the "heap of witness."
The stones also guard him while they stand: "A 'heap of witness' separates him from every evil that may come. Until that heap of witness is removed, and the pillar is taken out of the way, the world will not seek to harm the chosen of God" (The Bible Treasury).
- Witness raised. Jacob named the heap Galeed; Laban named it Jegar-sahadutha. Both names mean "cairn of witness."
- Witness to what. Not to friendship, but to broken confidence between relatives. The pillar proves the flesh cannot be trusted.
- Witness instead of trust. Laban wanted a legal deal where grace should have ruled a family. That is confidence in the flesh, not faith in the living God.
- Witness softened by sacrifice. Jacob's offering put God's rights above the rights of both men. The meal by the heap let them part on friendly terms.
- Witness as a boundary. The heap fixes the line of separation. Behind it lie twenty-one years in which God chastened a schemer through and through, and still kept him.
And Laban called it Jegar-sahadutha, and Jacob called it Galeed.
Jacob leaves Laban, and Laban chases after him. The two men part at a heap of stones, and each names that heap in his own language. The two names mean the same thing, so why did the moment need a monument at all?
The heap gets a double title because two languages meet at it. Laban's word is Aramaic, and one reference work explains it simply:
This is the Aramaic name Laban gave to the heap of stones set up as a witness between him and Jacob. Jacob called it GALEED. Both names mean the same thing: a heap of witness.
Nothing changes in translation. Each man says the same thing over the same stones.
Laban's word is the first Aramaic in the Bible. One reference work sets out where that language belonged:
Aramaic is the language of Aram. It takes in both Chaldean and the language of Syria. Its true home was Mesopotamia, Babylonia and Syria. The first time we meet it in Scripture is Genesis 31:47. There Laban called the heap of witness 'Jegar-sahadutha,' which is Chaldean, while Jacob gave it a Hebrew name, 'Galeed.'
The two names also point back to Abraham. One writer notes that Abraham's family took up the language of the land they had moved to:
Hebrew was the language of Palestine. The names of places and people there, from before Israel owned the land, show this. Hebrew was the language Abraham and his descendants took as their own. The difference between Jacob's language and that of Laban the Mesopotamian shows it plainly (Gen. 31:47).
The heap says something about the two men. One commentator sets it beside an earlier pillar Jacob had put up:
Jacob sets up his second pillar. His first was in Genesis 28:18, where he made his vow in the strength of the flesh. That was a pillar of confidence in the flesh. This pillar is the opposite. It is a memorial of broken trust between relatives, and it tells us that the flesh has proved it cannot be trusted. A heap of stones makes the point stronger. Both Laban and Jacob call it a "heap of witness" — Laban in the Chaldean language, Jacob in Hebrew (v. 47).
Laban is the one who asks for the covenant. One writer finds the reason in Laban's own heart:
Laban, instead of crushing Jacob, begs him for a covenant. Laban did not fear God, so he had no confidence even in his own closest relative. But how much Jacob had to learn, as he weighed his old self-seeking and scheming before Jehovah!
The heap is also a boundary. The two men separate there. One writer takes that parting as a picture of what spiritual growth does to a person's ties with the world:
But Jacob's prosperity turns Laban against him, just as spiritual growth separates a person from the world. Then comes God's call to return to Canaan. Laban can no longer get along with Jacob, and Jacob's leaving makes him openly hostile — just as the world feels the sting of separation, though there can be no more fellowship. Laban follows Jacob. God appears for Jacob and shields him. In the end Jacob leaves in peace, with a covenant between him and Laban at Galeed, the "heap of witness."
A pile of stones does one thing no spoken promise can do: it stays. The name itself says why:
A heap of witness exists for one purpose: to make forgetting impossible.
Commentators differ on how much to draw from the scene. Some stay with the language and the history. Others read the heap as a picture of separation from the world. All agree on the plain sense of the two names.
- Witness. Jegar-sahadutha and Galeed are one phrase in two languages: a heap of witness between Jacob and Laban.
- Witness in two tongues. Laban speaks Aramaic, Jacob Hebrew. This is the first Aramaic in the Bible. It shows that Abraham's line had taken up a different language from their relatives in Mesopotamia.
- Witness because trust died. Jacob's first pillar marked a vow. This one marks broken trust between relatives, and proves the flesh cannot be trusted.
- Witness because Laban feared no God. Laban asks for the covenant. A man who does not fear God cannot trust even his own family.
- Witness that outlasts memory. A heap of witness exists to make forgetting impossible. There Jacob leaves in peace, separated from the world he had prospered in.
And Laban said, This heap is a witness between me and thee this day. Therefore was the name of it called Galeed,
Years of scheming between Jacob and Laban end not with an embrace but with a pile of stones. So what was that heap a witness to — a friendship, an agreement, or something less flattering to both men?
Each man named the heap in his own language.
Aramaic name given by Laban to the heap of stones raised as a witness between him and Jacob, which Jacob called GALEED, both meaning "cairn of witness."
Why raise stones at all? One writer links a later place-name in the region to this heap.
Gesenius gives Gilead as meaning "hard, rocky." But there seems reason to connect it instead with Jacob's Galeed (Gen. 31:47), "a heap of witness." That would put it in striking contrast with Manasseh, the name linked with it, which means "forgetting." A heap of witness exists for the very purpose of making forgetfulness impossible.
This is not the first stone Jacob set up. The earlier one came with a vow of his own; this one records something different.
Jacob sets up his second pillar. His first was in Genesis 28:18, where he made his fleshly vow, and so it was the pillar of confidence in the flesh. This time his pillar is a memorial to broken confidence between relatives. It stands in contrast to the first pillar, for it tells us that the flesh has proved it cannot be trusted. A heap of stones underlines this. Both Laban and Jacob called it a "heap of witness" — Laban in Aramaic, Jacob in Hebrew (v. 47). They eat upon the heap — not the most comfortable dining room!
The words in this verse come from Laban, not Jacob. The same writer listens to Laban's tone.
It is Laban who pronounces the terms of their covenant, saying that the heap was a witness to it. He brings in the Lord's name here. He expects Him to watch between himself and Jacob while they are apart (v. 49). He is really telling Jacob, "I cannot trust you out of my sight, so I want the Lord to watch." Of course it was true the other way also. Jacob had learned not to trust Laban. So this pillar is the milestone in Jacob's life that clearly proclaims the untrustworthiness of the flesh. Very often it takes two parties to expose it to one another!
Why did relatives need a treaty at all? One writer traces it back to what Laban lacked.
It is a sorry sight to the eye of faith: retribution for Laban, rescue for Jacob and his house through God's overruling hand and goodness. Yet inside the chosen family the wife had stolen idolatrous images, and her husband knew nothing of it. Laban did not crush him; instead Laban begged him for a covenant. For, as he did not fear God, he had no confidence in his own nearest relative. But what had Jacob still to learn, as he weighed his old self-seeking and scheming before Jehovah?
Jacob set up pillars more than once. What did the one at Galeed do?
He set up pillars several times in his life — it seems to have been a favourite practice with him. He erected one by Galeed, east of Jordan, to stand as a witness of God's intervention on his behalf. Along with the heap raised by him and his brothers, it marked the boundary which neither he nor Laban was to cross to injure the other (Gen. 31:24-25, 52).
- Witness named. Each man named the heap in his own language — Laban in Aramaic, Jacob calling it Galeed — and both names mean a cairn of witness.
- Witness remembers. A heap of witness exists to make forgetting impossible. It stands where memory would fail.
- Witness accuses. Jacob's first pillar marked confidence in the flesh. This second one marks trust between relatives that had collapsed.
- Witness demanded. A man who did not fear God could not trust even his closest relative, so he asked for terms instead.
- Witness guards. The stones recalled God's stepping in for Jacob. They also fixed the line neither man was to cross to harm the other.
-- and Mizpah; for he said, Let Jehovah watch between me and thee, when we shall be hidden one from another
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if thou shouldest afflict my daughters, or if thou shouldest take wives besides my daughters, -- no man is with us; see, God is witness between me and thee!
Jacob and Laban part with a treaty, not with trust. Laban's last demand is about his daughters: how will Jacob treat them when no one is there to see? Commentators find two things here. One is a bond so weak it needs stones and oaths to hold it. The other is a marriage watched by God Himself.
Laban dictates the terms, and the reason he reaches for God's name is not reverence but suspicion.
It is Laban who states the terms of their covenant, saying that the heap was a witness to it. He brings in the Lord's name here. He expects Him to watch between himself and Jacob while they are apart (v.49). In effect he is telling Jacob, "I cannot trust you out of my sight, so I want the Lord to watch." Of course it was true the other way too. Jacob had learned not to trust Laban. So this pillar is the milestone in Jacob's life that shows how untrustworthy the flesh is. Very often it takes two parties to expose it to one another!
Agreements between people followed a set pattern back then. The stones and the shared meal were part of it.
A covenant is an agreement between one man and another, or between nation and nation. Both sides weigh the terms and agree to them. Then an oath or some token seals it in front of witnesses… In the covenant Jacob made with Laban, they gathered a heap of stones to be a witness between them, and "they ate there by the heap." Gen. 31:46… Even today, if a stranger in the East can get the head of a tribe to eat with him, he knows he is safe. People count that meal as a covenant.
Laban names two dangers: harm to Leah and Rachel, and rival wives. Nothing in Jacob's record pointed that way.
We may wonder if Laban suspected that Jacob would take revenge on him by mistreating Leah and Rachel (v. 50). There is no sign that Jacob had ever done this… Laban was even afraid that Jacob might take other wives besides Leah and Rachel. After all, he himself had started the whole business of Jacob having two wives. What right did he have to complain if Jacob took another? But his fears were groundless. Jacob never did show any inclination to have another wife, or more.
The man who calls God as witness had shown little thought of Him. Jacob let him set every clause.
What could Laban reply but that all were his — wives, children, flock? God was in none of his thoughts, any more than love for his daughters, or their children, or his son-in-law. But he tries to put a good face on the matter, and asks for a covenant between himself and Jacob. Jacob leaves all the terms to Laban, with his wretched thoughts and fears, yet carries it out in full seriousness, along with the name that stood. Not only did he swear by the Fear of Isaac, but he offered peace offerings; and they ate bread together.
The same words — God as witness between a husband and his wife — come back in the book of Malachi. There they become a charge against Israel.
"Because the LORD was witness between you and the wife of your youth, to whom you have been faithless, though she is your companion and your wife by covenant." Both of them stood on the same footing with God.
What Laban demanded by treaty, another writer treats as the ordinary duty of anyone who fears God.
The Lord lays great stress on keeping natural relationships in a godly way. He attaches great importance to it. Wherever people treat these ties lightly, under any pretext, spiritual or otherwise, the door is already open to the worst forms of loose living and corruption… One of the plainest signs of a desire to please the Lord is carrying out our responsibilities at home faithfully and carefully.
The heap does more than record promises; it fixes a line neither man may cross.
Then Laban speaks of the heap and the pillar as a separating point between him and Jacob, a witness of the agreement of each not to pass that point in order to do harm to the other (v.52). The whole covenant might seem rather unnecessary to us, for it is not likely that either of them had any intention of passing that point for any purpose: they would be happier living well apart from each other.
- Distrust — Laban wants the Lord watching because he cannot trust Jacob out of sight. The pillar is a milestone that shows how untrustworthy the flesh is. It took two men to expose it.
- Witness — people sealed a covenant with an oath or a token in front of witnesses. Here the stones and the shared meal are the token, and Laban names God as the witness.
- Suspicion — Laban feared that Jacob would mistreat his daughters or take other wives. Jacob never showed any leaning that way.
- Faithfulness — the same phrase returns in Malachi. The LORD was witness between a man and the wife of his youth. Faithfulness at home is one of the plainest signs that a person wants to please the Lord.
- Unseen — no other person stands by when the two part. So the covenant rests on the God who sees, not on trust between the men.
And Laban said to Jacob, Behold this heap, and behold the pillar which I have set up between me and thee
Laban points to a heap of stones and a standing pillar and calls them a witness between himself and Jacob. Two relatives who cheated each other for years part with a monument instead of trust — and they call God's name over it.
Jacob had set up a stone once before, at the start of his journey. The contrast between the two is the point.
Jacob sets up his second pillar. His first was in chapter 28:18, where he made his fleshly vow — the pillar of confidence in the flesh. This second pillar is a memorial to broken confidence between relatives. It is the opposite of the first, because it tells us the flesh has proved it cannot be trusted. A heap of stones underlines the same thing. Both Laban and Jacob call it a "heap of witness," Laban in Chaldee and Jacob in Hebrew. They eat on the heap — not the most comfortable dining room!
Laban does the talking here, and his terms show what he thinks of Jacob.
Laban is the one who states the terms of their covenant, and he says the heap is a witness to it. He brings in the Lord's name here, expecting Him to watch between himself and Jacob while they are apart. He is really telling Jacob, "I cannot trust you out of my sight, so I want the Lord to watch." Of course it was true the other way too. Jacob had learned not to trust Laban. So this pillar is the milestone in Jacob's life that announces plainly: the flesh cannot be trusted. Very often it takes two people to expose it to each other!
The stones marked a border, and the two men did not leave their agreement at words.
Again we find Jacob setting up a pillar of witness and also a heap of stones, as was the custom in those early days. Jacob promised to treat Laban's daughters well, and both men agreed not to pass beyond the stones of witness to harm each other. We do not read here of anyone anointing the pillar. We do read that Jacob marked the occasion with an oath and also with a sacrifice. The name of God comes in here, as we see in verse 53, and as the God of Abraham and of Nahor, since Laban as well as Jacob would have honoured both those forefathers.
The man with the power in this scene is the one asking for guarantees.
To the eye of faith it is a sad sight. Laban gets what he deserves, and God's overruling hand and goodness rescue Jacob and his household. Yet inside the chosen family the wife has stolen idol images, and her husband knows nothing of it. And Laban, instead of crushing Jacob, begs him for a covenant. Because Laban did not fear God, he had no confidence even in his own nearest relation. But how much Jacob had to learn, as he weighed his old self-seeking and scheming before the Lord!
Across the whole chapter, the stone border marks more than a family quarrel.
After all his planning, Jacob has to learn that he owes his increase to the power of God. God has seen his affliction and his toil, and has appointed him a reward. But his prosperity turns Laban against him, just as spiritual growth separates a man from the world. Then comes God's call to return to Canaan. Laban can no longer get along with Jacob, yet Jacob's leaving makes him openly hostile. The world feels the sting of separation in the same way, though there can be no more fellowship. Laban follows Jacob; God appears for Jacob and shields him; and in the end Jacob leaves in peace, with a covenant between him and Laban at Galeed, the "heap of witness."
The names left at this spot carry instruction, not just geography.
You get Mizpah, or Jegar-sahadutha, or Galeed, and there is much instruction in it all. The Lord takes care of the believer. But where the believer walks in this low, fleshly way, the Lord disciplines him through and through. Twenty-one years a slave — he cheats, and is cheated. He believed, and came to be believed, but his means were fleshly. It was discipline in every possible way, because he walked after the flesh.
- Witness. Laban and Jacob both call the heap and pillar a "heap of witness" — one name in two languages, from two men who agreed on nothing else.
- Distrust. Laban sets the terms and calls God in to watch. He is saying he cannot trust Jacob out of his sight — and Jacob had learned the same about him.
- Boundary. Both men swear not to cross the stones to harm the other, and they seal the oath with a sacrifice and the name of God.
- Exposure. A man who does not fear God trusts no one, not even his closest relation. The treaty exposes Laban, and Jacob must weigh his own scheming.
- Grace. The flesh fails on both sides, yet the Lord shields and keeps the believer — and disciplines him thoroughly along the way.
[let] this heap be witness, and the pillar a witness, that neither I pass this heap [to go] to thee, nor thou pass this heap and this pillar [to come] to me, for harm.
Genesis 31 ends with Jacob and Laban piling up stones and agreeing to stay on their own side of them. Laban calls both stones a witness — but a witness to what, and why did two relatives need one?
The stones mark a line on the ground. Each man promises not to cross it to harm the other. One writer notes how little that promise cost them.
Then Laban speaks of the heap and the pillar as a separating point between him and Jacob. They are a witness of the agreement of each not to pass that point to harm the other (v. 52). The whole covenant might seem unnecessary to us. Neither of them was likely to have any intention of passing that point for any purpose. They would be happier living far apart from each other.
One writer sums up what such a pillar meant, and points to this verse for proof.
The pillar, as we know from the story of Jacob's parting with Laban, carries with it the thought of witness (Gen. 31:52).
Stones alone did not hold the agreement. Jacob added an oath and a sacrifice — and one writer sees a danger in the name Jacob swore by.
Again we find Jacob raising up a pillar of witness and also a heap of stones, according to the custom of those early days. Both agreed not to pass beyond the stones of witness to harm each other. We do not read on this occasion of the anointing of the pillar. But we do find that Jacob marked the occasion not only by an oath but also by sacrifice... He also swore by the fear of Isaac his father... But there was the danger of the fear of Isaac, whom he could see, replacing the fear of the God, whom he could not see.
Laban sets the terms, and he wants the Lord to watch. One writer hears what that request admits about both men.
He is really telling Jacob, "I cannot trust you out of my sight, so I want the Lord to watch." Of course it was true the other way also. Jacob had learned not to trust Laban. So that this pillar is the milestone in Jacob's life that proclaims clearly the untrustworthiness of the flesh. Very often it takes two parties to expose it to one another!
The same writer notes what such an agreement replaces:
It is sad to think that he considered this necessary between relatives, for it is again a legal arrangement rather than a trusting relationship marked by grace, as every family relationship should be.
It was Laban who wanted this covenant. One writer weighs what that request shows about him, and what Jacob still had to learn.
It is a sorry sight to the eye of faith: retribution for Laban, rescue for Jacob and his house through God's overruling hand and goodness... For, since he did not fear God, he had no confidence in his own nearest relation. But what had Jacob still to learn, as he weighed his old self-seeking and scheming before the Lord?
One writer reads the whole parting as a pattern. Jacob's prosperity made staying impossible.
After all his planning, Jacob has to learn that it is the power of God to which he owes the increase... But his prosperity turns Laban against him, as spiritual increase separates from the world. Then comes the call of God to return to Canaan. Laban cannot get on with him any more, yet Jacob's withdrawal makes him openly hostile — just as the world feels the sting of separation, though there can be no more fellowship... and Jacob finally departs in peace with a covenant between him and Laban, at Galeed, the "heap of witness."
Commentators differ on how far to press the picture. One reading gives the heap and the pillar separate meanings, and notes that the two halves of the promise are not the same:
Those of the world who claim relationship with the saints of God set up the "heap of witness." For them it is a sign that so long as the witness remains — religious profession — no harm can come to them. Notice that Laban covenants not to pass the heap to harm Jacob, whereas in Jacob's case both heap and pillar must be passed over before the day of reconciliation ends. God, as it were, is set between as judge.
- Witness. The pillar carries one meaning through Jacob's story, and this verse states it: it stands there to testify.
- Distrust. What it testifies to is failure. The heap exists because neither man could trust the other. It is where Jacob learns that the flesh — human nature on its own — is unreliable, in himself as well as in Laban.
- Law. Grace should have held a family together. Instead these two drew up terms and a boundary line, which is what people need when trust is gone.
- Fear. Laban asks for the covenant because he does not fear God. A man who does not fear God cannot trust even his own family.
- Separation. God's blessing on Jacob made the old partnership unworkable. The parting stones mark the break — a picture of how spiritual increase separates a believer from the world.
The God of Abraham, and the God of Nahor, the God of their father, judge between us! And Jacob swore by the fear of his father Isaac.
Twenty years of tension between Jacob and his father-in-law end here, at a heap of stones, with an oath sworn over it. Laban calls on the God of Abraham and the God of Nahor together. Jacob binds himself by another name: the Fear of his father Isaac.
Both men could honour the ancestors named in this oath. Jacob then adds one more name.
The name of God was invoked, as we see in verse 53. He was called on as the God of Abraham and of Nahor, since Laban as well as Jacob would have honoured both of those forefathers. In addition Jacob swore by the fear of Isaac his father. Such was the esteem given to parents and ancestors in those far-off days — very good in many ways. But there was the danger that the fear of Isaac, whom he could see, would take the place of the fear of God, whom he could not see. So he received a reminder of the unseen world, as the opening verse of Genesis 32 shows.
Laban can speak God's name and still keep household images.
Clearly Laban and his family were idolaters. But it also appears they had some superstitious knowledge of God — no doubt handed down by tradition. They mixed what they had received from earlier times with the image-worship growing up around them. In such a case, even to honour the true God is only superstition… One feature of ancient idolatry was not the denial of the name of God. It was joining that name with idols.
The phrase points back to Isaac's own reverence. One writer traces it to Isaac's own lie about his wife, and to what that failure worked in his conscience.
Isaac was a gracious and prayerful person, who knew what it is to meditate in the fields at evening. Is it conceivable that a man of such habits would fail to judge his own deliberate lie? It made the world stumble. It dishonoured his Almighty Protector, his beloved wife, and himself as a saint. … Can anyone doubt, then, that the fear of Isaac (Gen. 31:42) worked in his conscience to humble him and to clear his spirit from deceit.
Commentators differ here. One sees a man who still would not call God his own.
God stepped in to protect him and keep him safe from every enemy. Yet in his heart Jacob claims all the credit, for "he swore by the fear of his father Isaac." Was this what he had agreed to do? By his own confession God had been with him. Had he not had bread and clothing these twenty years? Now surely was the time to own Jehovah as his God. But no, that needed faith… He certainly knew Jehovah would not own his ways; so he swears by the fear of his father Isaac.
Another finds real gain here. Jacob's sense of God had deepened over those years.
It was something to hear Jacob confessing the name of the God of Abraham and the fear of Isaac (chap. 31:42), and then again at the end of the chapter "the fear of his father Isaac" seems to have been uppermost in his mind. The sense of God's faithfulness and of His holy majesty had deepened in Jacob up to this point.
Laban asks for the covenant and wants God as judge between them. His reasons were not godly ones.
God was in none of his thoughts, and neither was love for his daughters, or their children, or his son-in-law. But he tries to put a good face on the matter, and asks for a covenant between himself and Jacob. Jacob leaves all the terms to Laban and his wretched thoughts and fears, but solemnly carries it out, along with the name that stood. He not only swore by the Fear of Isaac; he also offered peace-offerings, and they ate bread together.
- Fear named. Jacob swears by "the Fear of Isaac." The name points to a father whose own failure had humbled him and cleared his spirit of deceit.
- Fear mixed. Laban pairs God's name with Nahor's and still keeps idols. Ancient idolatry did not deny God's name. It joined that name to images.
- Fear borrowed. Jacob leans on his father's God instead of calling Him his own. Writers differ: some see faith still lacking, others see reverence growing.
- Fear absent. Laban wants God set between them as judge, yet God has no place in his thoughts, and neither does love for his own children.
- Fear sealed. The oath is not left as words: Jacob adds sacrifice and a shared meal, and the two part.
And Jacob offered a sacrifice upon the mountain, and invited his brethren to eat bread and they ate bread, and lodged on the mountain.
Jacob and Laban part after twenty hard years together: wages changed again and again, a secret escape, a hunt for stolen household gods, and a chase that ends on a mountain in Gilead. Their deal runs on distrust, yet the chapter closes not with the stone heap but with a sacrifice and a shared meal.
The offering named here is older than the law of Moses. The worshippers ate part of what was given.
We have learned about the burnt offering. Now we must look at the offering that, until the days of Moses, was called simply a sacrifice. It is mentioned in Exodus 10:25, Exodus 18:12 and Exodus 24:5, and it was festive in character. In Exodus 24:5 it is called by the term translated peace offering. Very likely at Galeed (Gen. 31:54), where Jacob and Laban feasted together, sacrifices of this kind were offered, and the two men and their companies shared in them. This solemnly confirmed the covenant made between the father-in-law and the son-in-law... In the burnt offering everything went up to God. In the sacrifice, as this other offering was first called, the one who brought it and those with him feasted together, God, it is likely, having His part, and they theirs.
Laban had pressed for the covenant. Jacob's answer moves the attention off both men.
While Laban has emphasized the covenant, Jacob offered a sacrifice (v. 54), which was far better. Then he invited the whole company to eat a meal with him. At least the sacrifice was a reminder that God had rights far more important than those of either Jacob or Laban. Eating together eased the tension between them, so they could part on reasonably friendly terms.
Every natural advantage here belonged to Laban. Yet the man who offers the sacrifice is the younger one, the one who had served him.
There is something great in this. It tells us that Jacob knew his place and dignity under God. Laban had every claim that nature, the flesh or family ties could give, but Jacob acts despite them. Laban was the older man; he was the master and the father-in-law. Yet Jacob still takes the place of the "better," and offers the sacrifice. He does it in the same spirit of faith as Abraham when he made a covenant with the king of Gerar (Gen. 21).
He had done nothing like this in all his years in Laban's country.
Jacob was under discipline in Padan-aram. He had no altar there. Before God he was a penitent rather than a worshipper. But in front of Laban he knows himself as a saint. Here, at Mount Gilead, he has his pillar, his sacrifice and his feast. He acts in the faith that gives him courage to live up to his dignity as a saint and priest of God, in the face of every claim of flesh and blood.
The order matters. First the sacrifice, then the meal — and that same order appears again later in Scripture.
Such a scene, as a picture, shows our own blessing. For we enjoy a covenant of peace, secured by a sacrifice and witnessed by a feast. So, on the night of redemption from Egypt, the altar and the table — that is, the sacrifice and the feast — are there again. The blood is on the doorpost. The household, ransomed and sheltered by it, are inside, feeding on the lamb whose blood was protecting and delivering them.
Jacob left the wording to Laban. He swore by the God his father Isaac worshipped, and then added an offering of his own.
He tries to put a good face on the matter, and asks for a covenant between himself and Jacob. Jacob leaves all the terms to Laban, with his miserable thoughts and fears, but he solemnly carries it out, and the name that was given stood too. He not only swore by the Fear of Isaac; he also offered peace offerings, and they ate bread together.
- Distrust starts the scene: the heap of stones stands there because two relatives did not trust each other out of sight.
- Sacrifice answers distrust: Jacob's offering is far better than the covenant. It puts God's rights above the claims of either man.
- Feast follows sacrifice: worshippers ate part of this offering, so a shared meal sealed the agreement and eased the tension.
- Dignity shows in who offers: Laban was the elder, the master and the father-in-law, yet Jacob takes the higher place and acts as a priest of God.
- Pattern points forward: a covenant of peace, secured by a sacrifice and witnessed by a feast. The same order appears the night Israel left Egypt — blood outside, the lamb eaten inside.
And Laban rose early in the morning, and kissed his sons and his daughters, and blessed them; and Laban went and returned to his place.
Genesis 31 ends at dawn, with a goodbye after twenty years of life together. The farewell looks warm, yet commentators notice both what Laban did and what he left out.
One writer notices a name missing from the list of those Laban kissed.
While Laban has emphasized the covenant, Jacob offered a sacrifice (v. 54), which was far better. Then he invited the whole company to eat a meal with him. At least the sacrifice was a reminder that God had rights far more important than those of either Jacob or Laban. Eating together eased the tension between them, so that they could part on fairly friendly terms. The next morning, before they parted, Laban kissed his daughters and their children. But there is no mention of his kissing Jacob, as he had done when they first met (Genesis 29:13).
Laban walks off the page exactly as he walked onto it — and one writer sees Jacob's leaving as an escape.
As to Laban, he was a thorough man of the world when Jacob entered his house, and so he was when Jacob left it. In all his dealings, from first to last, he looks to his own advantage. He has to admit that the hand of God was with Jacob. But he wanted that hand, working through Jacob, to serve himself, and to turn Jacob's interest in God to his own profit. For twenty years he had the witness of the Lord's hand, and of the working of His grace and power. It was before his eyes and in his house, and that daily. But he stayed a man of the world still... And Jacob's departure from his house at the end was like an escape out of the enemy's hand. It was a kind of exodus... Laban was his Pharaoh, and Laban's country his Egypt.
Another writer is not surprised by Laban at all, and turns the shame back on Jacob instead.
We cannot wonder at Laban, for he had never been at Bethel. He had seen no open heaven, with a ladder reaching from there to earth. He had heard no magnificent promises from the lips of the Lord, securing to him all the land of Canaan, with countless descendants. No wonder, then, that he showed a grasping, low-minded spirit; he had no other resource. It is useless to expect anything from worldly men but a worldly spirit, and worldly principles and ways; they have nothing better... But Jacob had seen and heard all this at Bethel. To find him struggling with a man of the world, and trying by such means to pile up property, is especially humbling.
Laban blesses his family and goes home. One writer reads the whole farewell as an act.
He pretends that Jacob left him only because he missed home. His conscience must have told him many a very different reason. He puts on grief and anger at not having a chance to kiss his daughters and grandchildren, and to send them away with honour. Yet his conscience must have reminded him how he had sold them again and again... And he gives a solemn air to the last bargain between him and Jacob, bringing in the name of the God of Abraham. Yet he had just been searching for his idols. He was getting ready to go back to the land God had called Abraham out of, and to stay there a thorough, heartless man of the world still, a worshipper of his own god.
With Laban gone, the last tie is cut. One writer also notes who had been caring for Jacob up to this point.
This was, after all, a formal separation of Jacob from the world. God had taken care of him up to now, as He always does of Israel, but through angels. He Himself only meets him after this. He told him to leave, that was all.
One writer notes where Laban's story stops.
Laban went and returned to his place, as we have seen. Of him we hear no more.
Laban went back. Jacob went on, and met a welcome he had not arranged for himself.
After Laban left, "Jacob went on his way, and the angels of God met him." Jacob recognised them. He had seen them before in his dream, and he said, "This is God's camp!" Their appearing was God reminding him of His promise, "I will never leave you." It was to assure him of God's protection in the dreaded meeting with Esau. But his response to this grace is very feeble.
- Parting. Laban kisses his daughters and grandchildren, but not Jacob — the kiss he gave him when they first met is missing.
- Unchanged. Twenty years of watching God bless Jacob under his own roof left Laban exactly the man he had always been.
- Excused. Laban had never been to Bethel, so his grasping spirit is no surprise. The humbling part is Jacob, who had been there, fighting him on his own terms.
- Finished. Laban's journey home cuts the tie for good, and Scripture never mentions him again.
- Escorted. With the old link gone, Jacob goes on his way and the angels of God meet him — though his answer to that grace is weak.