And Abraham was old, [and] advanced in age; and Jehovah had blessed Abraham in all things.
Abraham is old, Sarah is buried, and one task is left: a wife for his son Isaac. The verse gives two facts — his age, and that the Lord had blessed him in everything — and the whole chapter grows out of both.
Before any deeper meaning, this is an old man arranging his son's marriage:
At the age of 140 Abraham was old. He was also "a mighty prince," for the Lord had blessed him in all things. In that day God showed His blessing mostly in earthly things, and so it was with Abraham, though God had given him some knowledge of things beyond the earth. Isaac was his heir, and the promise rested on him, so his marriage mattered greatly and had to be arranged rightly.
This blessing is not one event. It sums up a whole pathway walked before God.
In his pathway Abraham was blessed by God "in all things"; he was "greatly" blessed. God honoured his home with His visits and spoke to him; he knew God as his Shield and Exceeding Great Reward — and God Himself called him "a friend of God." What present blessings follow the footsteps of those who walk before God!
The search for a bride follows a funeral, and that order carries meaning.
Only after Sarah has died does Isaac receive a wife. After the death of the Lord Jesus, God set Israel aside as the vessel of His testimony in the world. Then God the Father, pictured by Abraham, sent the Spirit of God, symbolised by the servant, to find a wife for the Lord Jesus. Isaac is a picture of Him.
Genesis 24 is unusually long for one family errand. That length raises a question:
The Spirit of God would not fill an unusually long chapter with the mere details of a family arrangement. He would do it only if that arrangement pictured or illustrated some great truth. "Whatever was written in former days was written for our instruction." This is emphatic. So what are we to learn here? I believe this chapter gives us a beautiful illustration or foreshadowing of the great mystery of the Church.
The story falls into three movements, and each one belongs to a different figure.
The chapter opens with Abraham giving his directions to his servant (vv. 1-9). Then the main part of the chapter is taken up with the servant and his mission (vv. 10-61). Finally it closes with Isaac and his love for Rebekah (vv. 62-67). So in picture the first section gives us the Father and His purpose. The second gives the Holy Spirit and His work. The last gives Christ and His affection. In this picture every Divine Person works to secure the Bride.
The idea does not begin with the servant or the son:
First we learn that the thought of a bride for Isaac begins with Abraham. It is he who starts the story of Genesis 24. He discloses his mind about the bride for Isaac; he instructs his servant, and sends him on his way. So we learn that the thought of a Bride for Christ starts in the purpose of the Father's heart. It is the Father, too, who sends the Spirit to bring the Bride to Christ.
Abraham binds his servant to the errand with an oath:
So Abraham employs his trusted Eliezer, the one "who ruled over all he had." Eliezer aptly pictures the place of service the Holy Spirit is pleased to take now, carrying out God's purpose about the church in this world. In no other case, not in Genesis only but in all the Old Testament, do we find an oath whose purpose is pressed again and again as it is here. And notice what the oath is about. Isaac must on no account take a wife from the daughters of Canaan. Another provision is pressed just as hard: the risen Son must never be brought back to the world to call His bride. It is the Holy Spirit who does this work, not the Bridegroom.
- Blessed. Abraham ends old and blessed in all things — the fruit of a life spent walking before God.
- Purpose. The plan starts with the father, not the son and not the servant. He is the one who first thinks of a bride for the heir.
- Sent. Abraham binds the servant who ruled over all he had with a solemn oath — a picture of the Spirit's service in gathering the church.
- Separated. The bride must not come from Canaan, and the risen Son is not brought back to fetch her. The Spirit does that work.
- Secured. Three movements, one aim: the Father's purpose, the Spirit's work, the son's love — every Divine Person at work to secure the Bride.
And Abraham said to his servant, the eldest of his house, who ruled over all that he had, Put thy hand, I pray thee, under my thigh,
Abraham is old, blessed in everything, and now turns his mind to the one thing still unsettled — a wife for Isaac. He calls the senior man of his household, the one trusted with everything he owned, and binds him by a solemn oath.
Nothing here starts with the servant or with the bride. The opening move is the father's.
First we learn that the thought of a bride for Isaac originates with Abraham. He is the one who begins the story of Genesis 24. He discloses his mind about the bride for Isaac; he instructs his servant, and sends him on his way. So we learn that the thought of a Bride for Christ originates in the purpose of the Father's heart. It is also the Father who sends the Spirit to bring the Bride to Christ (John 14:26).
This servant had charge of all that Abraham had. One writer marks the limit of that charge.
The first thing presented to us here is Eliezer, who has the oversight of all his master's goods. He is not the heir — the son is the heir. So the Holy Spirit has the disposal of all things. He takes of the things of Christ and shows them to us; that is, to the church.
The chapter never tells us this man's name. Writers take that silence as part of the picture.
The servant pictures the Holy Spirit. Perhaps he was Eliezer, Abraham's steward forty years earlier. If so, the silence of this chapter about his name is even more striking. A name would spoil him as a type of the Holy Spirit. A name calls attention to what anyone is. The Father and the Son have glorious Names, but the Holy Spirit has none. He is not here to call attention to Himself, or to make Himself the object we look at. He is here to serve the purposes of the Father concerning the Son.
The oath Abraham asks for is not routine. One writer sets it apart from every other oath in the Old Testament.
So Abraham employs his trusted Eliezer, the one "who had charge of all that he had." He fittingly pictures the place of service the Holy Spirit is pleased to take now, carrying out God's purpose about the church in this world. Nowhere else in Genesis, and nowhere else in all the Old Testament, do we find an oath whose purpose is urged again and again. Its subject matters just as much. Isaac must on no account have a wife from the daughters of Canaan. She must come from the country and family that God called Abraham, the father of the faithful, out of.
The hand under the thigh sounds strange today. The same act appears later in Genesis, when Jacob asks it of Joseph.
Jacob knew he was nearing his end. He called for Joseph and asked him to put his hand under his thigh. This was plainly a symbol of Joseph's willingness to do what his father asked of him.
The rest of the chapter follows this servant on his errand. His conduct there sets a pattern.
As an example, he displays the qualities that should always mark a servant of God. Here are some of them. First, his master commissions him; he does not run ahead before his master sends him. Then his master equips him for the service he calls him to: all his master's goods were in his hand (v. 10). Next, his master's instructions alone guide him; his own ideas have no place or influence (vv. 2-9). Further, he depends entirely on the Lord; he looks to Him to act for him (vv. 12-14).
Oldest, in charge of everything, with Abraham from the start. One writer builds the confidence of the whole errand on those three marks.
And whom does the servant foreshadow? He is the oldest servant. He ruled over all Abraham had. He was with him from the beginning… He testified of the Father and the Son: how rich the father is, and that Isaac is the heir of all the riches. And so the Holy Spirit does not speak of Himself, but of the Father and of the Son. He makes known the eternal purposes of the Father. As the servant's mission did not fail, so the mission of the Holy Spirit in the present age cannot fail.
- Father — The whole errand starts in Abraham's heart, and the picture is of the Father's own purpose for His Son.
- Trust — The servant has charge of all his master owns. But he is a steward, not the heir; what he handles belongs to the son.
- Nameless — The chapter never gives his name. He points to his master, not to himself.
- Oath — No other oath in the Old Testament is urged like this one. No wife from Canaan; the bride must come from the land Abraham left.
- Finished — Commissioned, equipped, guided, dependent. The servant's errand did not fail, and neither will the work it pictures.
and I will make thee swear by Jehovah, the God of the heavens and the God of the earth, that thou take not a wife for my son of the daughters of the Canaanites, among whom I am dwelling;
Abraham is old, blessed in everything, and one matter is still unsettled: who Isaac will marry. Before the servant goes anywhere, Abraham makes him swear an oath. The first term is a ban: no Canaanite wife.
Abraham does not just forbid. He binds the servant by a name for God. One writer ties that name to the separation Abraham demands.
Here Abraham gives God His full title of glory in heaven and earth. There was to be no connection with the rejected race — with the world in which he lived as a stranger… The Canaanite was a judged race in the place of promise. But Abraham will not have Isaac in the place of nature — the place out of which he was called… The Canaanites have a special character in the world. They stand for the world that has turned away from God, of which Satan is prince. They are his instruments and his power.
Another writer takes that name further. Its full meaning came out only later, in Christ.
In Genesis 24 "the God of the heavens and the God of the earth" presents the universal rights of the only true God. Those rights are revealed fully, and only, when the Son of God has come. He, dead and risen, brings out all the truth clearly in connection with the call of the church, the bride of Christ.
Abraham's reason is not about nationality. It is about judgment — and it reaches all the way to what the church is made of.
Then the servant is told that the bride for Isaac is "not to be of the daughters of the Canaanites." Abraham says she is to be of "my kindred." The Canaanites were under the curse and devoted to judgment. There can be no link between Christ in the glory and a world under judgment. Isaac's bride was not to be a stranger but one that already belonged to Abraham's family. So the Church is not formed of unbelievers. Nor is it a mixture of believers and unbelievers. It is made up wholly of the family of faith.
The same rule returns in the next generation. One writer sees the pattern pointing forward.
Rebekah, the bride of Isaac, and Leah, the bride of Jacob, both belonged to the same country and the same kindred as their husbands. In each case a very clear charge forbade taking a daughter of Canaan as wife (Gen. 24:3; Gen. 28:1). So too the bride of the Lamb must belong to His country and His kindred. She is not only heavenly in destiny, but heavenly in origin. Jerusalem above is our Mother (Gal. 4:26), and we are not of the world, even as He is not of the world. Hebrews 2:11 shows that we are of His kindred.
The ban also decides how the whole chapter should be read.
The bride for Isaac must be suited to Isaac, and so must not be taken from the daughters of the Canaanites (v. 3). Such were devoted to judgment and therefore wholly unsuited to Isaac. So the dealings with Rebekah are not really a picture of the grace of God bringing salvation to sinners. They picture the love of Christ appealing to saints. If the point were to show the grace of God that reaches the vilest sinners, the servant would have gone straight to the daughters of the Canaanites.
Abraham held this rule long before Israel received it as law.
The law forbade Israel to intermarry with the Canaanites (Ex. 34:15-16). Long before that command came, Abraham's spiritual sense had made it a law for him (Gen. 24:3).
Abraham applied the same rule to his whole household. One writer draws the line straight to parents today.
The people of the land where Abraham lived were a doomed race, because of their great wickedness. Abraham would not have a wife for his son from among them, but one of his own kindred… Called to separation, he would faithfully keep it intact in his family and household. Suppose a Christian parent approves the marriage of one of his children into a godless family. That parent is surely not walking in the steps of faithful Abraham.
- Sworn — Abraham binds the servant by "the God of heaven and God of the earth." That name claims heaven and earth alike, and rules out any tie with the world he lived in as a stranger.
- Excluded — judgment bars the Canaanites, not preference. There can be no link between the son and a people under the curse.
- Kindred — the other side of the same rule. The bride must already belong to the family. So the bride of the Lamb is heavenly in origin, not only in destiny.
- Suited — the ban falls on Canaan. So writers see here the love of Christ appealing to those already His, not grace reaching the vilest.
- Household — Abraham kept this separation as law before any law required it. He kept it inside his own family too. Parents who bless a child's marriage into a godless family are not walking in his steps.
but thou shalt go to my land and to my kindred, and take a wife for my son Isaac.
Abraham is old and his son is still unmarried. God's promise runs through Isaac's line, so the first thing Abraham settles is not where Isaac will live but where his wife will come from. His charge draws two lines: no wife from Canaan, and a wife only from his own family. Commentators find in both a meaning that reaches far beyond one household's marriage.
The oath fixes both a source and a direction for the search.
Genesis 24:1-6 show that Abraham laid down two conditions. First, the wife was not to be taken from among the Canaanites, who were then in the land. Second, she was to be of his own kindred; yet the marriage must not be allowed to lure Isaac back to the land he had come out of. The chosen woman must be willing to share the stranger position which Isaac occupied, and come to him. He was not to go to her.
This was not mere dislike of foreigners. It rested on the judgment hanging over the Canaanites.
Then the servant is told that the bride for Isaac is "not to be of the daughters of the Canaanites." Abraham says she is to be of "my kindred." The Canaanites were under the curse and marked out for judgment. There can be no link between Christ in the glory and a world under judgment. Isaac's bride was not to be a stranger but one that already belonged to Abraham's family. So the Church is not formed of unbelievers, nor of believers and unbelievers mixed together. It is formed entirely of the family of faith.
Grant fastens on the timing. Rebekah already belonged to the family before the servant ever set out.
Note about Rebekah that she is already of Abraham's kindred. Isaac is not being sought an outside stranger... The Church is found in the family of faith. It is the gathering together of the children of God who are scattered abroad (John 11:52)... So, in my view, Rebekah does not picture the call of sinners by the gospel. She pictures the call of saints to a place of special relationship with Christ on high.
Kelly weighs the oath itself, and the place God had called Abraham out of.
Nowhere else in Genesis, or in the whole Old Testament, do we find an oath brought in and pressed again and again like this one. Isaac must on no account take a wife from the daughters of Canaan. His wife must come from the country and kin out of which Abraham, the father of the faithful, had himself been called. Angels are not called, fallen or unfallen: sovereign grace chooses from the world.
Isaac never leaves home. The father sends a servant, and the servant makes the whole journey.
In this chapter Abraham sends Eliezer to seek a wife for Isaac. This represents the Holy Spirit sent by the Father to seek the church, "the bride, the Lamb's wife." It is not Isaac who goes to look for a bride. No more does Christ return to this earth to choose a church for Himself. Rebekah must leave her country and come to the land of promise.
Three people keep this charge: the father who gives it, the servant who swears to it, and the son who waits alone for the outcome.
Abraham sends a special mission into a distant land to get a wife "in the Lord" for his son. Eliezer goes on that mission with a ready mind. Isaac waits patiently for its fruit. He seeks no alliance with the nearer people. Sad and alone though he is, he keeps himself for the wife the Lord appoints... He might have got a daughter of Canaan; but he endured. He would rather suffer the heartsickness of hope deferred than not marry "in the Lord."
One writer turns this into a warning for parents today.
A Christian parent who sanctions the union of one of his children with a godless family is surely not walking in the steps of faithful Abraham.
- The purpose starts with the father. Abraham, not Isaac, opens the search and sets its terms; the son waits while the errand is run.
- The source is fenced. No daughter of Canaan. Canaan lay under judgment, and the son can have no link with a doomed people.
- The kindred is chosen. The bride already belongs to the family before the servant fetches her. So the church is formed of the family of faith, not a mix of believers and unbelievers.
- The servant does the travelling. The servant sent to a far country pictures the Spirit sent to seek a bride, while the son stays where he is.
- The bride must come out. She must leave her country and share the stranger place of the one she is joined to. That same refusal to mix still shapes how believers marry and how parents guide their children.
And the servant said to him, Perhaps the woman will not be willing to follow me to this land must I, then, bring thy son again in any case to the land from which thou hast removed?
The servant's question in Genesis 24:5 is an honest one: what if the woman refuses to come? He offers a fix — bring Isaac back to the old country — and it is the one thing Abraham will not allow.
Abraham's charge sets a limit on both sides.
Genesis 24:1-6 shows that two things were laid down. First, the wife must not be taken from the Canaanites, who were then in the land. Second, she must be from Abraham's own family — yet the marriage must not lure Isaac back to the land he had come out of. The chosen woman must be willing to share the stranger position that Isaac occupied, and come to him. He was not to go to her.
The servant raises his difficulty once; Abraham answers it twice. This is the point the chapter presses hardest, and Isaac's life bears it out as no other patriarch's does.
Here we see the greatest stress laid on Isaac's staying in Canaan — and it is repeated once more. There only must he be found; and he alone of all the patriarchs. His father came out of Mesopotamia, and for a time went down into Egypt. His son Jacob went back to Mesopotamia, and also went down into Egypt and died there. But Isaac alone must never leave the land of Canaan, and never did. In this he is a striking picture of Christ after He died, rose, and ascended. In that condition He becomes Head of the church, and the Bridegroom.
The servant proposes fetching the son to the far country. The Spirit came on the opposite errand.
However, the taught believer knows what the Holy Spirit is here for, both from New Testament teaching and from the Old Testament picture. He is not here to bring Christ back to the world. He is here to take the Bride out of the world to Christ. So we read, "God… visited the Gentiles, to take from them a people for His name" (Acts 15:14).
One writer sees much religious activity trying to do what Abraham's servant was forbidden to do.
In this chapter Isaac pictures a heavenly Christ. That is why, after the offering up of Isaac in Genesis 22, his name is not even mentioned until the end of Genesis 24. As Isaac was not to be linked with Mesopotamia again, so there is to be no link between Christ and the world. Christ is on high, and the Holy Spirit is here calling out the Bride for the heavenly Christ. Sadly, Christendom has lost every true thought of Christianity. Its one great effort is to link Christ with the world that has cast Him out.
The whole errand depended on a free choice. Abraham's next words release the servant from his oath if she says no.
The willingness of the woman to travel to Isaac's country was a vital matter. If she were not willing, then the servant was freed from his oath (v. 8). What a lesson about the Church of God! No demand of law is to be placed on her. Only the pure grace of God is to move her. That grace produces a willing response of devotion, ready to leave natural relationships behind for a living relationship with the Lord Jesus in heavenly places.
If the servant pictures the Spirit at work, his one errand tells us what that work is for.
He is not here to make the Christian prosper in business, or to make us rich in this world, or to make the world a comfortable place for us. He is not here to remove the curse, or to quiet the groaning of creation… He is not here to remove pain, and death, and sorrow, and tears. All this Christ will do in a day still to come. Nor is He here to convert the world, as some think. He is here to bring to light a people who are suited to Christ, for the joy and satisfaction of His heart.
Before any of the symbolism, this is a father arranging his son's marriage. He refuses any match that would undo his own obedience.
No doubt Abraham believed that God would bring a Rebekah to Isaac. Still, whatever might happen, Eliezer had to swear one thing. He would never take Isaac back to the place Abraham had left in obedience to God's call… Abraham was called to separation, and in faithfulness he kept it intact in his family and household. A Christian parent who approves a child's marriage into a godless family is not walking in the steps of faithful Abraham.
- Question. The servant asks the honest question — what if she refuses? — and offers the obvious fix: bring the son to her.
- Refusal. Abraham forbids it twice. Of all the patriarchs, Isaac alone never left Canaan — a picture of Christ risen and ascended.
- Direction. So the movement runs one way. The Spirit did not come to bring Christ back to the world, but to take a bride out of the world to Christ.
- Willingness. Only an unwilling heart could stop the errand. Law demands nothing of the bride; grace produces a ready response.
- Household. Abraham would not let even his son's marriage undo his obedience. That is a caution to any parent about the matches they approve.
And Abraham said to him, Beware that thou bring not my son thither again.
The servant asks a fair question: what if the woman refuses to come? Abraham rules out the obvious fix. The servant must never take Isaac back to the country his father left.
Abraham set limits in both directions. The bride could not come from the people living around him. And the servant could not solve the problem by moving Isaac.
Genesis 24:1-6 shows two conditions. First, the wife must not come from the Canaanites, who were then in the land. Second, though she was to be one of his own relatives, the marriage must not draw Isaac back to the land he had come out of. The chosen woman had to be willing to share the stranger position Isaac held, and come to him. He was not to go to her.
Commentators read Isaac here as a picture of the risen Christ. The direction of travel is the point.
There can be no relation at all between the risen Christ and this world. Isaac does not go for Rebekah; she must come to him.
So who fetches the bride? The servant goes. The son stays where he is.
In no other case in the whole Old Testament do we find an oath whose point is pressed again and again like this one. And there is another provision urged just as strongly — the risen Son must on no account be brought back to the world to call His bride. It is the Holy Spirit who accomplishes this work, not the Bridegroom. The Spirit is sent down from heaven to preach the gospel, and so to form the church. The risen Bridegroom stays only in heaven while the call goes out. In this picture Abraham warns us powerfully how much it matters to see that Christ has nothing but a heavenly relation to the church, in complete separation from the world.
The servant hears this warning twice. One writer presses it on religious work being done today.
While the servant was in Mesopotamia, Isaac was in Canaan, and there was no link between Isaac and the people there. So, we know, today there is no direct link between Christ in the glory and the world as such. Missing this, the Christian world, and many sincere Christians too, put all their effort into the very thing the servant is twice warned not to do. In many different forms they try to bring Christ back to the world and attach His Name to good schemes for reforming and improving it. Such efforts are entirely outside the work of the Spirit, who is here not to bring Christ back to the world, but to take a people out of the world for Christ.
Abraham had left that country himself. He knew its pull on a heart that keeps looking back.
Hebrews 11 does not hide from us that the old land of Mesopotamia had attractions that could have pulled hard on Abraham. If he had let his mind keep dwelling on the old place he came from, its appeal might have grown on him. Then his heart would have turned that way, and his feet might soon have followed his heart. He could easily "have had opportunity to return." The record in Genesis shows us that he set his face firmly against any such return, either for himself or for his son. His word about Isaac was, "See to it that you do not take my son back there."
Abraham trusted God to provide the bride, and still bound the servant by an oath. One writer draws a lesson from this for Christian parents.
No doubt Abraham believed that God would bring a Rebekah to Isaac. Still, whatever might happen, Eliezer had to swear that he would never take Isaac back to the place Abraham had left in obedience to God's call. "See to it that you do not take my son back there." It is a family arrangement in keeping with the promises made to Abraham. Called to separation, he faithfully kept it intact in his family and household. A Christian parent who approves the marriage of one of his children into a godless family is surely not walking in the steps of faithful Abraham.
- Direction. The whole arrangement turns on one rule: the bride comes to Isaac; Isaac does not go to the bride.
- Refusal. Abraham will not let anyone take his son back to the country God called him out of, whatever it costs the plan.
- Substitute. In place of the son, a servant goes — a picture of the Spirit sent to gather a people for a Bridegroom who stays in heaven.
- Error. Attaching Christ's name to schemes for improving the world reverses that direction. It repeats what the servant was twice forbidden to do.
- Household. Abraham applied his own separation to his son's marriage. One writer presses the same care on Christian families today.
Jehovah the God of the heavens, who took me out of my father's house, and out of the land of my nativity, and who has spoken to me, and who has sworn to me, saying, Unto thy seed will I give this land -- he will send his angel before thee, that thou mayest take a wife for my son thence.
Abraham is old, and his concern now is a bride for his son — not from the people around him, but from the land God had called him out of. His charge to his servant rests everything on one certainty: the God who had already taken him out and sworn a promise would go ahead of the mission.
Abraham does not appeal to anything new. He recalls what God had already said and sworn, and treats that as enough.
The opening verses of our chapter show us that Abraham remained true to the call of God that had first reached him. He was true to it not only for himself, but for his children and household after him. Verse 7 adds to this. It shows the full confidence he had that the Lord would stand behind this faithful holding to His word.
Abraham had sworn by the God of heaven and of the earth. Now, sending the servant off, he uses only the shorter title.
Abraham calls God "the LORD, the God of heaven, and the God of the earth," and further on, to his servant Eliezer, "the God of heaven" as the One who had called him. His faith acknowledged Him as God of heaven and earth. In actual experience He was only and distinctly the God of heaven, and so He was the source and power, through grace, of Abraham's hope. Abraham will not have Isaac in the place of nature — the place he himself was called out of. So here God is called the God of heaven: Abraham knows Him as the God who took him out of his country.
The same title settles how the journey would be guided.
The God of heaven is far above all the little storms and frustrations that fill our small world. He does as He pleases. So the servant goes out with the assurance that God's angel would give him direction, leading him to the suitable wife for Isaac.
Two agents appear in this verse, and they do not do the same job.
Finally Abraham says, "The LORD, the God of heaven … will send his angel before you." The angel would clear the way ahead of the servant through providence. But the servant himself was to deal with the bride: "you shall take a wife for my son." Both the servant and the angel were wholly taken up with securing a bride for Isaac. In a day to come, angels will take a large part in carrying out judgment in the world. Today they are "sent out to serve for the sake of those who are to inherit salvation." As in the picture, so in fact, we see the difference kept between the providential work of angels and the personal work of the Spirit.
The bride is to be brought from there. Isaac is not to go there. One writer sees the Spirit's present work in that order.
There is another provision no less insisted on — the risen Son must on no account be brought back to the world to call His bride. It is the Holy Spirit who accomplishes this work, not the Bridegroom. The Spirit is sent down from heaven to preach the gospel, and so to bring about the formation of the church. The risen Bridegroom stays exclusively in heaven while the call goes out.
Another writer turns the same point into a warning. Mesopotamia is the land Abraham had left behind.
Isaac was not to be linked again with Mesopotamia. In the same way, there is to be no link between Christ and the world while Christ is on high and the Holy Spirit is here calling out the bride for Him. Sadly, the Christian world has so completely lost every true thought of Christianity that its one great effort is to link Christ with the world that has cast Him out.
Abraham grounds the whole errand on an oath God swore about his offspring and the land.
It is worth noting that the first oath recorded on God's part is that of Genesis 22:15-18. God fulfilled it in raising up Christ, the promised Seed. The further oath here concerns Abraham's servant. He is a picture of the Holy Spirit, sent out to secure the bride for Christ, the true risen Seed. We may be sure that His mission will be carried to a more successful and perfect issue than that of the servant in the story before us.
- Sworn — Abraham's assurance is not a hunch. It rests on a promise God had already spoken and sworn to him about his offspring and the land.
- Sent — The God of heaven stands above the frustrations of this world. He sends His angel ahead to clear the road, and the servant then deals with the bride in person.
- Separate — The bride must not come from the people around Abraham, and the son must not go back. Both halves of the instruction guard the same separation.
- Sought — The servant sent for a bride pictures the Holy Spirit, sent out now to win a bride for the risen Christ. Christ stays on high while the call goes out.
- Sure — God's first oath was fulfilled when He raised up Christ. The Spirit's errand for a bride will reach an even fuller and more perfect end than the servant's ever did.
And if the woman be not willing to follow thee, then thou shalt be quit of this my oath only, bring not my son thither again.
The servant's question is practical and honest: what if the woman says no? Abraham's answer does two things at once — it frees the servant from his promise, and it slams one door shut for good.
Abraham had set the terms of this marriage. One term ran deeper than the question of family. The bride had to come to Isaac, on Isaac's terms.
Genesis 24:1-6 show that Abraham required two things. First, the wife must not come from the Canaanites, the people then in the land. Second, though she was to be from his own family, the marriage must not lure Isaac back to the land he had come out of. The chosen woman must be willing to share the stranger position which Isaac occupied, and come to him. He was not to go to her.
The verse ends where verse 6 began — with the same prohibition, said twice in nine verses. Writers note how heavily the chapter leans on it.
There is no point in the chapter insisted on more than this: Isaac, the risen son, is to remain only in Canaan; on no account is he to leave it.
The repetition itself is read as deliberate weight:
Abraham's prohibition is recorded twice (verses 6 and 8) to emphasise its weight.
Isaac lived under a limit his father and his son never had. Commentators see that limit as the whole point of the picture.
Here we see the greatest stress laid on Isaac staying in Canaan, and it is said once more. He must stay there and nowhere else — he alone of all the patriarchs. His father came out of Mesopotamia, and for a time went down into Egypt. His son Jacob returned to Mesopotamia, and he too went down into Egypt and died there. But Isaac alone must never leave the land of Canaan, and never did. In this he stands as a striking picture of Christ after He died, rose, and ascended. In that condition He becomes Head of the church, and the Bridegroom.
Because the son may not go, someone else must. That division of labour is where the picture opens out.
Abraham presses another provision just as hard: the risen Son must never be brought back to the world to call His bride. It is the Holy Spirit who accomplishes this work, not the Bridegroom. The Spirit is sent down from heaven to preach the gospel, and so to form the church. The risen Bridegroom stays only in heaven while the call goes out.
The direction of travel never reverses:
It is impossible that there should be any relation between Christ risen again and this world. Isaac does not go for Rebekah, but she must come to him.
The release clause is not a loophole Abraham tolerates. It is part of the design: an unwilling woman is not the right woman.
A woman with no attitude of free will would not be suitable. The verse says, "But if the woman is not willing to follow you, then you will be free from this oath of mine." Grace must mark the church, not legal obedience or requirements. That is unlike the Jewish system. She is not like the Gentile nations either, marked as they are by lust and by trying to satisfy their own desires. The servant was to look for willingness to give up and to follow.
The servant's errand carried a real risk of failure. The mission it pictures does not.
The oath before us here involves Abraham's servant. He is a picture of the Holy Spirit, sent out to secure the bride for Christ, the true risen Seed. We may be sure His mission will reach a more successful and perfect end than the servant's errand in this story.
Bringing Isaac back would have looked like a reasonable compromise. Writers make that option a test of where our hearts sit.
Here is a practical question for Christians today. How far are their minds in harmony with God's eternal purpose? Do they see their role as making the world Christian — bringing Isaac back to Mesopotamia? Or does the heavenly Head draw them so strongly that they are willing to become heavenly strangers?
- Released. If the woman refuses, Abraham frees the servant from his oath. The one clause that may fail is the one resting on her consent.
- Restricted. The ban on bringing Isaac back may never fail. Abraham states it in verse 6 and repeats it here, and nothing in the chapter carries more stress.
- Rooted. Isaac alone among the patriarchs never leaves Canaan. He pictures Christ risen and ascended — there Head of the church and Bridegroom.
- Represented. The son stays, so the servant goes. The Spirit, not the Bridegroom, crosses the distance, and the bride comes to him.
- Responsive. A bride must be willing, so grace shapes the church, not legal demand. The servant's errand could have failed; the mission it pictures will not.
And the servant put his hand under the thigh of Abraham his master, and swore unto him concerning that matter.
Abraham has just told his servant where to go, whom to avoid, and what to do if the woman says no. Now the servant seals it with a strange gesture and an oath that has no parallel in the Old Testament — why so much weight on one family errand?
Years of proven faithfulness were not enough for Abraham here. Only for this errand did he bind his servant by oath.
No one denies that in the letter the aged father was devising, in a grave and God-fearing spirit, to help his son Isaac in the most important step of his life... Abraham was not content even with the long-proved faithfulness of the man who had earned and deserved his confidence in earlier days. Only here, and only now, does he make his servant Eliezer swear an oath of unusual solemnity. The bride must not come from the accursed race of Canaan. She must come out of the land from which God had called Abraham himself, and from his own relatives.
The same gesture appears once more in Genesis, when Jacob is near death and calls for Joseph.
Jacob knew he was nearing his end. He called for Joseph and asked him to put his hand under his thigh. It was plainly a symbol of his willingness to do what his father asked of him.
This oath stands alone in the Old Testament, and it has two halves.
Nowhere else in Genesis, or in all the Old Testament, do we find an oath whose purpose is pressed again and again... A wife must on no account be taken for Isaac from the daughters of Canaan. She must be sought from the country and family out of which the father of the faithful had himself been called. Angels are not called, whether fallen or unfallen: sovereign grace chooses from the world. But there is another provision pressed just as hard — the risen Son must on no account be brought back to the world to call His bride. It is the Holy Spirit who does this work, not the Bridegroom. The Spirit is sent down from heaven to preach the gospel, and so to form the church. The risen Bridegroom stays in heaven alone, while the call goes out.
One writer says plainly who this bride pictures.
The bride of Christ, the church, is not from the ungodly, Satan-energised world, but from the family of faith.
The second half of the oath fixes where Isaac stays. His life differs from every other patriarch's at just this point.
The greatest stress here falls on Isaac's staying in Canaan, and Abraham says it once more. There only must he be found, and he alone of all the patriarchs. His father came out of Mesopotamia, and for a time went down into Egypt. His son Jacob went back to Mesopotamia, then went down into Egypt and died there. But Isaac alone must never leave the land of Canaan, and never did. In this he strikingly represents Christ after He died, rose, and ascended.
From this verse on, the servant carries the story. His willing submission is not a flaw in the picture but the very thing that makes it fit.
It is he who becomes the most prominent figure throughout the chapter, until the bride joins the bridegroom. As a picture this is unmistakable... His complete and unwavering submission is no difficulty and no objection. It is exactly what this picture required. The Son became a servant to do the Father's will and secure His glory. In the same way, the Holy Spirit serves the Son as well as the Father.
The servant is also a model for anyone God sends.
Abraham's servant may be looked at both as a type and as an example... First, his master commissions him; he does not run before he is sent. Then his master equips him for the service he is called to: all his master's goods were in his hand. Next, only his master's instructions guide him; his own thoughts have no place or influence.
- Sworn. The hand under the thigh means willingness to do what the father asks. Abraham binds his most trusted servant with an oath found nowhere else in the Old Testament.
- Sent. The servant does not run before he is sent. His master equips him with all his goods, and his master's instructions, not his own ideas, guide him.
- Sourced. The oath fixes where the bride comes from: not from Canaan, but from the family of faith — grace choosing out of the world.
- Stayed. The oath also fixes where the Son stays. Isaac alone of the patriarchs never leaves Canaan. He pictures Christ risen and ascended, who does not come back to the world to call His bride.
- Subject. The servant's unwavering submission is what makes the picture work. The Son became a servant to do the Father's will; the Spirit serves both the Father and the Son.
And the servant took ten camels of the camels of his master, and departed; now all the treasure of his master was under his hand; and he arose and went to Aram-naharaim, to the city of Nahor.
The servant sets out with ten camels and his master's wealth in his hands, bound for a city hundreds of miles away. What he carries, where he goes, and why he goes at all come from his master's orders — and commentators read the journey as a picture of how God works today.
Nothing in the verse starts with the servant himself. He travels because his master sends him. One writer reads that sending as a picture of a greater one, and notes who does not travel:
In this chapter Abraham sends Eliezer to seek a wife for Isaac. This represents the Holy Spirit sent by the Father to seek the church, "the bride, the Lamb's wife." It is not Isaac who goes to look for a bride. In the same way, Christ does not return to this earth to choose a church for Himself. Rebekah must leave her country and come to the land of promise. In this chapter we see the features of the Holy Spirit's work, and how a soul is guided by Him.
Commentators here quote an older translation: "all the goods of his master were in his hand." The ESV puts it as "taking all sorts of choice gifts from his master." Either way, the servant travelled with his master's wealth at his disposal. One writer links that to the Lord's promise to His disciples:
The servant comes to Mesopotamia well equipped for his service, for we read, "All the goods of his master were in his hand." This reminds us that the Holy Spirit has come to teach us "all things," to guide us into "all truth," and to show us "all things that the Father has" (John 14:26; John 16:13-15).
The servant handled the wealth, but he never owned it. One writer uses that difference to describe how the Spirit works:
In the way God works, the Spirit is said to operate or distribute rather than to give. He is something like Eliezer (Gen. 24), who had all the goods of his master in his hand. Eliezer distributed them and disposed of them, but they came from another. I say something like, because the word "master" does not fit here. The Holy Spirit is God, so His operations are the operations of God.
The verse names the destination twice. It is a real place, and Abraham's own family had lived there:
This was an ancient city in Mesopotamia. Terah and his family moved there from Ur of the Chaldees, and Abraham stayed there on his way to the land of Canaan, until his father's death. The descendants of Nahor, Abraham's brother, also settled here, so the city was called the "city of Nahor." Gen. 24:10. The name means "road," and it was probably called that because the caravan routes of Syria, Assyria, and Babylonia crossed there.
The journey out is only half the errand. One writer traces the picture to its end, where the bride reaches the bridegroom:
Abraham sends Eliezer, the steward of his house, to seek a wife for the risen heir, his only son Isaac. She is to come from the country Isaac was not to return to — the world as it is. This is a beautiful figure of the mission of the Holy Spirit. After the Lord's death and resurrection He carries out His office with the elect of God, who are to form the Lamb's wife in the counsels of God, and He conducts her across the desert to her heavenly bridegroom.
Notice what the servant does not do once he arrives. He is rich, trusted, and far from home, yet he takes on no second project:
In the story that follows, the servant does not interfere with the conditions in Mesopotamia. He did not try to change its religion, improve its social conditions, or interfere with its government. His one business was to secure the bride for Isaac. God's people would escape much disappointment if they once grasped God's great purpose at the present time, and the special mission of the Holy Spirit in this world.
- Sent — the servant does not go on his own errand. His master sends him to find a bride for the son, a picture of the Spirit sent by the Father to seek the church.
- Equipped — all his master's goods were in his hand. The Spirit likewise comes to teach us all things and show us all that the Father has.
- Entrusted — he distributed the wealth and disposed of it, but it came from another; he handled it, he did not own it.
- Directed — he crossed to Mesopotamia, to the city where Abraham's own family had settled, because his master sent him there.
- Undistracted — rich and far from home, he changed nothing in that country. His one business was to secure the bride. God's people escape much disappointment when they hold the same single purpose.
And he made the camels kneel down outside the city by a well of water, at the time of the evening, when the women came out to draw [water].
Abraham's trusted servant has travelled far to find a wife for Isaac, and verse 11 catches him as he arrives — camels down, waiting by a well. Commentators read this ordinary scene as a lesson in dependence and as a picture of a far greater errand.
The verse records nothing dramatic: a stop at the right place, at the right hour. One writer notes what the servant does not do.
The evidence of the Lord's leading him there is beautiful. Yet he still prays to the Lord God of Abraham, asking Him to show mercy to his master by sending a woman to the well who will show a character of unselfish kindness. Apparently he had no vessel to draw water with, or else he chose not to draw it himself, so that he could depend fully on God's guidance.
The verse notes the hour. One writer uses that same custom to explain why another woman came to a well at midday instead.
Midday was not the time when the women in the East went out to draw water. They did that in the morning, or in the evening, when the heat was not so great (Gen. 24:11). But this woman comes out in the middle of the day, and you may ask, Why? There is no doubt about the reason. Her sin had isolated her.
The camels are the only ones in the verse who bow. One writer takes them as a picture of the servants God uses.
In doing this, Eliezer uses tools that are humble and imperfect, yet effective in his hands — the camels. They only partly meet God's requirements: they chew the cud, but they do not fully divide the hoof. In the same way, humble, imperfect servants carry the Holy Spirit. Their walk is not completely separate, but they still chew the true spiritual cud, and they have inward supplies of refreshment that let them cross the burning desert. But notice how defenceless they are! The camel has no way to protect itself. And the desert has no paths at all! … Would it be straining the figure to say that the time when their mission is being perfected is just the time when they are made to "kneel at the well"?
The servant, not Isaac, dominates the chapter. One writer reads him as a picture of the Holy Spirit, sent to gather a bride for Christ.
He is the one who stands out through the whole chapter, until the bride joins the bridegroom. As a picture, this is unmistakable. We see the Father seeking a bride, the church of God, for Christ His Son — all the while and only in the heavenlies. Just as surely, we recognise the sending and action of the Holy Spirit in this highly honoured and trusted servant. His complete and unwavering submission is no difficulty or objection at all; it is what the picture required. For just as the Son became a servant to do the Father's will and secure His glory, so the Holy Spirit serves the Son as well as the Father.
He waits at a well, where the women of the city come for water. One writer turns that meeting into a question for the reader.
Rebekah, a type of the sinner, meets the messenger at the well. And does not God delight to meet you, dear soul? Yes. You think you have something to do. You think you must get into a certain condition before you can come into God's presence. But you are mistaken. Eliezer meets Rebekah as she goes to draw water, just as she is. In the same way, God presents to the sinner, just as he is, His testimony to the Person of the Lord Jesus — and the sinner must receive it from God.
The servant kneels the camels, then prays. That pattern runs through the whole chapter.
It is not too much to say that no other chapter in Genesis has so much about prayer as this one. And why? Is it not because now, during the call of the bride, He who lives and works in the Christian shows us the walk of faith? God looks for no less a habit of dependence in those who bear the name of Christ.
- Sent. The servant is on his master's errand, not his own. Writers see in him the Holy Spirit, sent to seek a bride for the Son.
- Stopped. He halts outside the city and makes the camels kneel. One writer asks whether kneeling is the very moment their mission is perfected.
- Dependent. He carries no vessel to draw with. He has reached the right well at the right hour, yet he still asks God to act. No chapter in Genesis holds more prayer than this one.
- Timed. Evening was when the women came for water. The servant arrives at that hour, and one writer calls it beautiful evidence of the Lord's leading.
- Met. He finds the bride at the well, coming just as she was. God meets people at the place of their need, not after they have made themselves ready.
And he said, Jehovah, God of my master Abraham, meet me, I pray thee, [with thy blessing] this day, and deal kindly with my master Abraham.
Abraham's servant stands at a well in a foreign city, far from home. He was sent to find a wife for his master's son, and the first thing he does is pray — in his master's name, not his own.
The servant does not claim God as his own. One writer points out how much rests on that choice of words.
Eliezer says, "O LORD, God of my master Abraham." He does not say "my God." God had made the promises to Abraham, and had revealed Himself as the God of Abraham. Here the servant shows himself in entire dependence. We find him in the path of promise. He does not exalt himself. He acts according to the counsels of God, in entire dependence. He does not pretend to have anything, except where God had placed the blessing; for God had made the promises to Abraham. For us this blessing is in Christ, and there is the answer to our requests. We do not want to get anything except where God has put His blessing — that is, in the path of obedience to the faith.
The prayer is narrow on purpose. Standing in a city full of people, he asks for nothing that concerns them.
First, then, we learn from the prayer of the servant, the great purpose of his mission. He does not pray for the men of the city, or their daughters; he is engrossed with one object, to find the one appointed for Isaac. The Holy Spirit has come, not to convert the world, but to bring to light the elect of God — the bride appointed for Christ.
That single aim is also what makes confident asking possible. One writer ties the boldness of the prayer to the singleness of its purpose.
What sustains in prayer like singleness of eye? If it is our own will we are seeking, what confidence can we have? Here we find prayer that God answers to the letter. If Christ's interests are ours, how fully we may count on God glorifying His beloved Son! How blessed to work on toward an end God has already settled!
Genesis 24 stands out among the chapters of Genesis for how much prayer it contains. One writer asks why that is.
It is not too much to say that no other chapter in Genesis has so much about prayer in it. Why? Is it not because now, during the call of the bride, He who dwells and works in the Christian shows what walking by faith is? God certainly looks for no less dependence in those who bear the name of Christ.
He tells God exactly where he is standing and what is about to happen there. His own resources are deliberately left out of the picture.
He prays to the Lord God of Abraham, asking Him to show mercy to his master by sending a woman to the well who will show a character of unselfish kindness. Apparently he had no vessel of his own for drawing water. Or else he chose not to draw it himself, so that he might depend fully on God's guidance.
The sign he asks for is a test of character. It also shows what he had been sent to find.
From these words it is clear that the servant was not sent to choose a bride for Isaac from the daughters of men. He was sent to find the bride already appointed (v. 14). And grace would be the mark that identified her.
He does not pray vaguely. He specifies. Some would call that presumption; this writer calls it faith.
He was not asking for a mere sign, as Gideon did in Judges 6 and 7. He was in search of the bride herself — not for himself, but for his master's son. Nor had he long to wait. "Before he had finished speaking," the young woman comes. He had asked freely; he had boldly dared to lay down the exact terms. But this counting on God Himself pleases Him greatly, even if unbelief dares to call it presumptuous. It was prayer of rare simplicity, of striking fitness, of full confidence.
Commentators read this man both as a picture of the Holy Spirit's work and as a model for anyone serving God. On the practical side, his prayer is one link in a chain of traits.
First, his master commissions him; he does not run before he is sent. Next, only his master's instructions guide him; his own thoughts have no place or influence (vv. 2-9). Further, he is in entire dependence; he looks to the Lord to act for him (vv. 12-14). Further, he acknowledges the Lord's guidance and intervention at every step (vv. 21, 26, 27).
- Ground — He prays to the God of my master Abraham, not to "my God." He stands on promises God made to someone else, and claims nothing of his own.
- Aim — One object fills the prayer: not the city, not its daughters, but the one appointed for Isaac.
- Emptiness — With no vessel of his own to draw water, his dependence on God's guidance is total.
- Test — The sign he asks for is a test of grace, because grace is the mark of the one already appointed.
- Answer — Bold, detailed asking pleases God. The young woman comes before he has finished speaking.
Behold, I stand [here] by the well of water, and the daughters of the men of the city come out to draw water.
Abraham's servant has stopped outside the city of Nahor and begun to pray. His first words tell God where he stands and who is coming — and what follows at that spring shows what dependence looks like when a task is beyond your own judgment.
He had every reason to size up the situation and work out a strategy. Instead he spoke to God first. Commentators contrast that with working things out by natural wisdom.
Natural wisdom can form a judgment up to a certain point. But it takes the soul away from the presence of God, even when we are doing things God's way. If we begin to deliberate, there is hesitation: we take counsel of flesh and blood. The first thing is to put ourselves in the presence of God; without that there is neither wisdom nor power. But when we stand in the path of blessing, we get from Him all the understanding we need.
Notice also how he addresses God — not as his own God, but as the God of Abraham.
Eliezer says, "O Lord God of my master Abraham." He does not say "my God." God had made the promises to Abraham, and had revealed Himself as the God of Abraham. Here the servant shows himself in entire dependence. We find him in the path of promise. He does not exalt himself. He acts according to the counsels of God, and claims nothing except where God had placed the blessing.
He prays where the errand has brought him, in the middle of an ordinary job. Later he looks back on the whole journey as God's leading.
Abraham's servant gives us a lovely example in Genesis 24. He travelled in the spirit of prayer to seek a wife for his master's son. Having found the right person, he bowed his head and worshipped the LORD, saying, "I was on the way, and the LORD led me."
Commentators also find meaning in the place where he waits.
This unknown servant is a figure of the Holy Spirit. He finds Rebekah by the well of water — and water is a constant figure of truth as a living reality for the soul.
The daughters of the city are coming out — plural, a whole town's worth. Yet his request narrows to a single person.
First, then, we learn from the prayer of the servant the great purpose of his mission. He does not pray for the men of the city, or their daughters; one thing absorbs him: finding the one appointed for Isaac. The Holy Spirit has come, not to convert the world, but to bring to light the elect of God — the bride appointed for Christ.
He is not pressing a wish of his own, and commentators see in his prayer a model for ours.
Does the case not vividly illustrate "praying in the Holy Spirit"? This is not prayer for one thing or another. It is prayer that runs with what glorifies the Son and with what the Father purposes to give.
That is also what keeps him steady while he waits for an answer.
What sustains in prayer like singleness of eye? If it is our own will we are seeking, what confidence can we have? Here we find prayer that God answers to the letter. If Christ's interests are ours, how fully may we count on God glorifying His beloved Son! "Let it be the one whom You have appointed for Your servant Isaac." How blessed to be working towards an end already settled beforehand!
Rebekah appears before he has finished speaking, and does everything he asked. Yet he does not seize the moment as proof.
No real spiritual power ever takes us out of the place of waiting on God. So it was with Eliezer. He says, "Lord, let the young woman to whom I say, Let down your jar," and so on, "be the one You have appointed for Your servant Isaac." When the woman had given him drink and his camels also, he still does not say, "Here is the answer to my prayer." He is still waiting on God. He marvels at her and says nothing, waiting to learn whether the Lord had made his journey succeed... Success often takes us out of the place of communion, because it becomes our success when we do not acknowledge God in it.
One writer traces the servant's whole course, from his errand to the day he hands the bride over.
Eliezer is a well known type of the Holy Spirit "sent down from heaven" on this gracious errand. He knows the mind of the father. He is in constant touch with God. He acts with care, directness and dignity. He calls, wins, and adorns the bride. He brings her safely through the wilderness and guards her until she is home. Then he hands her to the bridegroom, who goes out to meet her.
- Position — He prays where he already stands, in the middle of the errand. God led a man who was already on the way.
- Petition — He prays in his master's name and claims nothing for himself. He stands where God had placed the promise.
- Purpose — He does not pray for the city or its daughters. He prays for the one appointed, which is what his master wants too.
- Patience — Even when the answer walks up to the well, he stays silent rather than claim the success as his own.
- Picture — This servant, who knows his master's mind and brings the bride home, pictures the Holy Spirit at work now.
And let it come to pass, [that] the maiden to whom I shall say, Let down thy pitcher, I pray thee, that I may drink, and who will say, Drink, and I will give thy camels drink also, be she whom thou hast appointed for thy servant Isaac; and hereby I shall know that thou hast dealt kindly with my master.
The servant waits by a well, far from home, with ten camels. He must find a wife for Isaac, and he will not trust his own judgment. So he asks God for a sign so exact that only God could arrange it.
The servant does not ask for help in general terms. He tells God the exact words he will speak and the words he hopes to hear. One writer answers the charge that this is presumption.
"Before he had done speaking," the maiden comes. He had asked freely; boldly and in fine detail he had ventured to prescribe. But this counting on God Himself is most pleasing to God, even if unbelief dares to call it presumptuous. It was prayer of rare simplicity, of striking suitability, of entire confidence. The speed of the answer pointed ahead to the day when righteousness will reign, and the Lord will hear while His people are still speaking.
The servant seeks nothing for himself. His eye is on his master's son.
What sustains us in prayer like a single eye? If it is our own will we are seeking, what confidence can we have? Here we find prayer that God answers to the letter. If Christ's interests are ours, how fully we may count on God glorifying His beloved Son! "Let her be the one whom You have appointed for Your servant Isaac." How blessed to be working toward an end already settled beforehand!
The words the one whom you have appointed change the errand. The servant is not running a search of his own.
From these words it is clear that the servant was not sent to choose a bride for Isaac from the daughters of men. He was sent to find the bride God had appointed (v. 14), and grace would be her mark.
The sign turns on more than a drink of water. He looks for a woman who gives beyond what she is asked — a picture, one writer says, of the church.
She is not only willing to give Abraham's servant a drink. She also freely provides for his camels, without negotiating terms or asking a price. That must have been hard work, given how much these animals drink, especially after a long journey. This is another indication that the church is marked by grace.
He asks the sign as a mercy to his master. The sign itself is heavy work: water for ten thirsty camels.
He prays to the Lord God of Abraham that He will show mercy to his master by sending a woman to the well who will show a character of unselfish kindness... No ordinary young woman would be willing to take on a job like this without any promise of payment. But no ordinary young woman was to be acceptable for Isaac. In the same way today, a Christian man should be sure that his intended wife is a willing-hearted believer.
Rebekah did exactly what he had asked, yet the servant stayed silent and watched. One writer asks why he still hesitated.
Why any doubt? Why does the servant hesitate, when God has answered his prayer like this? Here is the reason. However clearly God's hand seems to show itself, there is a definite rule in the word. The Christian must attend to that rule and must not neglect it, because he is weak at discerning what is of God. Faith looks to the power of God, but judges everything by the word; for God must act according to His word... and even when there may be signs, he should decide nothing until the will of God is clear according to His word.
Commentators differ here. Another writer says the servant's astonishment was not unbelief.
There was astonishment in the servant's mind at the immediate and precise answer to his prayer. To call it unbelief is unwarranted... Even our Lord, perfect man as He alone was, "marvelled" at the Gentile centurion's faith. In Him not a particle of unbelief could exist. If His wonder expressed delight, we need not belittle the servant's wondering at her.
One writer sees a wider pattern in the errand: a father, a risen son, and a servant named Eliezer sent far away.
Isaac is the heir of everything, so Abraham sends down what represents the Holy Spirit — Eliezer — to get a wife for his risen son. Isaac is on no account to go back to the old land; he represents the risen Christ. So Abraham sends his chief servant to get a wife for the heir of promise out of the place of his own family. Eliezer gives her gifts and brings her out, since all things have been given to the son and heir.
- Appointed, not selected. The servant's errand was to find the woman God had already chosen, not to pick a likely candidate himself.
- Appointed, so ask precisely. Because the end was already settled, he dared to name the exact words of the answer. God answered to the letter.
- Appointed, so grace is the proof. She gives more than the servant asks for, and she names no price.
- Appointed, but still tested. God's word must judge every sign, so the servant kept silent until God's will was clear.
- Appointed, and answered at once. Rebekah appeared before he finished speaking, and his wonder was not unbelief.
And it came to pass before he had ended speaking, that behold, Rebecca came out, who was born to Bethuel, son of Milcah the wife of Nahor, Abraham's brother; and [she had] her pitcher upon her shoulder.
Abraham's servant is still praying when the young woman he prayed about walks into view. Genesis 24:15 is the hinge of the chapter: the answer arrives mid-sentence, and it arrives as a named woman with a traceable family line.
The servant had prayed boldly, spelling out in detail what he wanted. One writer sees in the speed of the answer a preview of a day still to come.
He did not have long to wait. "Before he had finished speaking," the young woman comes. He had asked freely; he had dared to be bold and detailed in what he prescribed. But this counting on God is most pleasing to Him, even if unbelief dares to call it presumption. It was a prayer of rare simplicity, of striking fitness, of complete confidence. The answer came at once, and it pointed ahead to the day when righteousness will reign, and the LORD will hear while His people are still speaking.
The sign he chose was not random. He asked for a drink and watched to see whether she would offer more than he asked.
His prayer shows how completely he is taken up with one object. He does not pray for himself. The servant is not there to select a bride from the daughters of the men of the city and then make her suited for Isaac. He is there to find the one who is appointed for Isaac. And the sign that she is the appointed one will be that she is marked by grace... He will ask her for a drink from her pitcher. If she not only gives it, but offers to do more than he asks, that is the sign: the grace of God marks her. God has worked in her, and so she belongs to Isaac's family. For grace goes beyond our requests.
The verse spends most of its words on Rebekah's ancestry — Bethuel, Milcah, Nahor, Abraham's brother. That list is part of the answer, not just background.
The answer came before he had finished speaking. Rebekah arrived and acted with all the grace he had specified. What is more, she was a "chaste virgin," the kind Paul wanted the church at Corinth to be for Christ... The answer was complete as well as immediate. She was of the right family line, and there was room in her father's house.
Commentators read Genesis 24 as more than a marriage story. Each figure stands for someone: the father, the servant he sends, and the risen son.
Isaac is the heir of everything, and Abraham sends down what represents the Holy Spirit — Eliezer — to get a wife for his risen son. Isaac is on no account to go back to the old land; he represents the risen Christ. So Abraham sends his chief servant down to get a wife for the heir of promise from among his own family. Eliezer gives her gifts and brings her out, since all things have been given to the son and heir.
The picture reaches forward. Rebekah's purity points to the church and to how she will finally appear.
She was a chaste virgin, and that brings to mind Paul's words: "I feel a divine jealousy for you, since I betrothed you to one husband, to present you as a pure virgin to Christ" (2 Corinthians 11:2)... But the true church will be presented to Christ, glorious (Ephesians 5:27). In eternity, she will be seen prepared "as a bride adorned for her husband" (Revelation 21:2).
(Older translations render Paul's phrase as "chaste virgin.")
One writer notices how much prayer fills this chapter, and asks why.
It is not too much to say that there is no other chapter in Genesis with so much about prayer in it as this one. And why? Because now, during the call of the bride, the One who lives and works in the Christian shows us how to walk by faith. God certainly looks for no less in the way of dependence from those who bear the name of Christ.
- Prayer — the servant asked for something specific and bold. The answer came before he stopped speaking. Counting on God like this pleases Him.
- Appointed — he did not pick a bride and then improve her. He went to find the one already appointed for Isaac.
- Grace — the sign was simple: she gave more than he asked. Grace goes beyond our requests, and her giving showed God at work in her.
- Kindred — the verse traces her family back to Abraham's brother. She was of the right family line, so the answer was complete as well as immediate.
- Bride — a father sends a servant to bring a bride back to a risen son. Commentators read this as a picture of the church, kept pure now and presented glorious then.
And the maiden was very fair in countenance; a virgin, and no man had known her. And she went down to the well, and filled her pitcher, and came up.
Abraham's servant has just asked God for a sign. While he is still praying, a young woman walks out to the spring with her jar on her shoulder. Every detail about her — her family, her beauty, her purity, her errand — is the answer, arriving before the prayer is finished. Commentators read the whole scene as a picture of how God finds a bride for His Son.
The servant had prayed in detail, spelling out the exact sign he wanted. Kelly says that kind of bold trust delights God.
He did not have long to wait. "Before he had finished speaking," the maiden comes. He asked freely, and dared to set out in detail what he wanted. But this counting on God is most pleasing to Him, even if unbelief dares to call it presumption. It was truly a prayer of rare simplicity, of striking fitness, of complete confidence. The answer came at once, pointing forward to the day when righteousness will reign, and Jehovah will hear while His people are still speaking.
Abraham's one condition was that the wife come from his own relatives. Verse 15 names her family; this verse describes her face. Both count.
The servant did not have long to wait. He had barely finished his prayer when Rebekah came out. Verse 15 shows that she was a daughter of Bethuel who, in turn, was Abraham's nephew. Rebekah therefore met the requirement of being one of Abraham's relatives (v.4). She is also described as "very fair to look upon." That comment will remind the reader of the beauty the church has in the eyes of Christ.
The verse calls her a maiden whom no man had known. Paul later uses that same picture of the church, and it lands as a warning as much as a compliment.
She was a chaste virgin, and that brings to mind Paul's words: "For I feel a divine jealousy for you, since I betrothed you to one husband, to present you as a pure virgin to Christ" (2 Corinthians 11:2). The professing church is far from this state of heart, where the heart keeps its affections for Christ and refuses forbidden associations… But the true church will be presented to Christ, glorious (Eph. 5:27). In eternity, she will be seen prepared "as a bride adorned for her husband" (Rev. 21:2).
She goes down, fills her jar, and comes up — an ordinary errand. What she did next at the well settled the servant's mind about her.
The servant goes out to find a bride suitable for Isaac. He does not find an unsuitable one and make her suitable. This unknown servant, a figure of the Holy Spirit, finds Rebekah by the well of water. The well is a constant figure of truth as a living reality for the soul. In keeping with this, and acting in the spirit of grace, she goes far beyond what the servant asked. She gives him and his camels the refreshment they needed with a lavish hand that held nothing back. This is what showed the servant that Rebekah was the one suited to be Isaac's bride, and worthy to wear the ring and bracelets. And so, as the fruit of God's own work, there are those found with the moral features that suit Christ so well.
At the well, Rebekah met a servant sent out for a father and a son. Writers see that same errand going on today.
In these days there is One who has come from heaven's far-off land on a similar errand — the Holy Spirit. He has come down to us. Angels were passed by, and the gospel message of peace came to man, fallen man. From the family of Adam the Holy Spirit is gathering out those who will form the Bride. He is leading this Bride across the trackless desert of the world to the Son, to whom the Father has given "all things."
The sign had been met, yet the servant said nothing. Darby explains why.
Why any doubt? Why does the servant hesitate, since his request has received such an answer? Here is the reason. God's hand may seem plainly at work. Even so, there is a definite rule in the word, and the Christian must pay attention to it. He must not neglect it, because he is weak at telling what is of God. Faith looks to the power of God, but judges everything by the word; for God must act according to His word.
- Prayer — the servant asked in detail, and the answer came "before he had finished speaking." That kind of trust pleases God.
- Family — Rebekah came from Abraham's own relatives. She met the one condition the servant had been given.
- Pure — "a maiden whom no man had known" is the picture Paul later uses of the church: affections kept for one Man, to be presented to Him glorious.
- Grace — what showed the servant she was the one was her giving, far beyond what he asked. Those suited to Christ carry that same likeness.
- Word — even a clear sign had to be checked against God's word; faith looks to God's power but judges everything by what He has said.
And the servant ran to meet her, and said, Let me, I pray thee, sip a little water out of thy pitcher.
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And she said, Drink, my lord! And she hasted and let down her pitcher on her hand, and gave him to drink.
Abraham's servant has just asked a young woman at a well for a drink of water. Her reply is the exact sign he had asked God for in prayer. A small courtesy at a well marked her out as Isaac's bride — and, several writers add, pictures something far larger.
She calls him "my lord," and she acts at once.
She did not hesitate. She gladly did what he asked (v. 18). Then she told him she would draw water for his camels also. This was more than an offer. It was a decision that she would do it. She began the work so willingly that the servant was amazed (v. 21). He wondered whether his errand would turn out as well as these first signs suggested.
The servant had spoken one request aloud to her, and another — about the camels — only to God. Her reply covered both.
Accepting the answer, "the servant ran to meet" Rebekah. There was no hesitation, only eagerness. He knew whom he had believed. So he laid before her what he had already asked of Abraham's God, Jehovah. Rebekah answered with the same eagerness and the same grace. She met the request he had spoken to her, and also what he had said only to God about caring for "all his camels."
The servant had asked God for a sign before he ever met Rebekah. That sign would show the one quality that marked out the right bride.
Moreover, we see that the unmistakable sign of the appointed bride will be that she is marked by grace. The servant prays, "Let the young woman to whom I shall say, 'Please let down your jar that I may drink,' and who shall say, 'Drink, and I will water your camels' — let her be the one whom you have appointed for your servant Isaac." From these words it is clear that the servant was not sent to pick out a bride for Isaac from the daughters of men. He was sent to find the bride already appointed (v. 14), and grace would be the mark that identified her.
Writers read the whole journey as a picture. The unnamed servant, sent by a father to find a bride for his son, stands for the Holy Spirit at work.
It is he who becomes the most prominent throughout the chapter till the bride joins the bridegroom. As a picture, this is unmistakable. We see the Father seeking a bride for Christ His Son — the church of God — and He seeks her all the while in the heavenly places, and nowhere else. Just as surely, we recognise the sending and the work of the Holy Spirit in this highly honoured and trusted servant. His complete and unwavering submission is no problem or objection here. It is exactly what the picture required.
Her open hand at the well was the evidence the servant needed. It settled his next move: the ring and the bracelets.
This unknown servant, a figure of the Holy Spirit, finds Rebekah by the well of water. Water is a constant figure of truth as a living reality for the soul. In keeping with this, and acting in the spirit of grace, she goes far beyond what the servant asked. She gives him and his camels the refreshment they need with a lavish hand, and there is no holding back in it. This is what showed the servant that Rebekah was the right bride for Isaac, and worthy of the ring and bracelets. And so, as the fruit of divine working, there are people found with the moral features that suit Christ so well.
Later, the Lord sat by Jacob's well and asked a woman there for a drink. One writer sets her reply beside Rebekah's.
He needed the cool water from Jacob's well, He who had created the mighty Amazon and every river on earth! But this woman did not have the grace of Rebekah. When Abraham's servant asked her the same thing, she said, "Drink, my lord," and quickly let down her jar upon her hand and gave him a drink (Gen. 24). Her sinful life had destroyed her womanly sympathy. Her racial prejudice had hardened her heart. She preferred an argument to a kind act. Only the patience of the Lord and the grace — wonderful grace! — that was in Him could deal with a case like hers.
- Asked — the servant had spelled out to God the exact reply he wanted to hear; her words matched it.
- Answered — she did not hesitate. She gladly did what he asked, and moved so fast that the servant was amazed.
- Beyond — she covered the part of the request he had voiced only to God, giving with a lavish hand and no holding back.
- Sign — grace was the unmistakable mark of the bride God had appointed.
- Mirror — the servant sent to find a bride for the son pictures the Spirit at work, producing the features that suit Christ. Asked the same thing at Jacob's well, another woman preferred an argument to a kind act.
And when she had given him enough to drink, she said, I will draw [water] for thy camels also, until they have drunk enough.
Abraham's servant had asked God for one specific sign at the well: the woman who offered water for his camels too would be the one chosen for Isaac. Verse 19 is the moment that sign arrives. Why would God mark out a bride by her offer to do heavy, unpaid work for a stranger?
This was too precise to be coincidence.
Verses 17-20 show how the servant's prayer appears to have been answered to the letter. Rebekah showed the unusual willingness that could hardly happen by chance. She even hurried, and after giving him a drink she says, "I will draw water for your camels also, until they have finished drinking..."
The test the servant chose was aimed at one quality.
We also see that the unmistakable sign of the appointed bride will be that she is marked by grace. From the servant's prayer at the well it is clear that the servant was not sent to select a bride from the daughters of men for Isaac, but to find the appointed bride, and that grace would be her characteristic mark.
Commentators read the unnamed servant as a picture of the Holy Spirit, and Rebekah's overflowing response as the sign that she was the right one.
This unknown servant, a figure of the Holy Spirit, finds Rebekah by the well of water. The well is a constant figure of truth as a living reality for the soul. In keeping with this, and acting in the spirit of grace, she goes far beyond what the servant asked. She gives him and his camels the refreshment they needed with a generous hand that held nothing back. It was this that showed the servant that Rebekah was the one suited to be the bride of Isaac, and worthy to be adorned with the ring and bracelets. And so, as the fruit of divine working, there are people found whose moral features truly suit Christ.
Her offer ran to the last animal.
Watering ten camels would be no small task, for camels consume a great amount of water. No ordinary young lady would be willing to take on a job like this without any promise of payment. But no ordinary young lady would do for Isaac. In the same way today, a Christian man should be sure that the woman he plans to marry is a willing hearted believer.
The sign came true word for word. Even so, the servant did not settle the matter on it.
Why any doubt? Why does the servant hesitate, when his prayer got such an answer? Here is the reason. God's hand may seem plain enough. Even so, there is a definite rule in the word that the Christian must pay attention to and must not neglect, because he is weak at discerning what is of God. Faith looks to the power of God, but judges everything by the word. God must act according to His word. The servant was in communion with God, so he ought to act with this in mind. Even when there may be signs, he should decide nothing until the will of God is clear according to His word. He must be able to say, This is indeed according to God.
Rebekah did not know at the well what her answer meant. Her certainty came later.
How did Rebekah know she was the one Eliezer wanted for Isaac? She could have no doubt about it. She stood by as the servant told Laban how he had prayed to the Lord that he might meet the "appointed" one at the well. He would know her by this sign: when he asked water for himself alone, she would not only grant this request but offer water for the camels as well. Now Rebekah knew that she had matched this description word for word. She had said and done just that. So she must be the one the servant was looking for.
- The sign — the servant asked for one mark in the appointed bride, and it was grace, not looks or status.
- The grace — Rebekah gave far more than the servant asked for, holding nothing back.
- The cost — watering ten camels was heavy, unpaid work that no ordinary young woman would take on.
- The caution — the sign came true to the letter, yet the servant still weighed it by God's word before deciding.
- The certainty — Rebekah was sure only later, when she heard the prayer her own words had answered.
And she hasted and emptied her pitcher into the trough, and ran again to the well to draw [water]; and she drew for all his camels.
Abraham's servant had asked God for one exact sign. The woman who waters his camels too, not just him, is the bride appointed for Isaac. This verse is that prayer coming true in front of him: the emptied jar, the run back to the well, the whole herd watered. So what does such willingness reveal, and can a sign this exact settle the matter on its own?
Rebekah acts out, step by step, what the servant had asked God for in advance.
Verses 17-20 show how God appears to have answered the servant's prayer to the letter. Rebekah showed that unusual willingness in full. Chance could hardly explain it. She even acted "quickly" and, after giving him a drink, says, "I will draw water for your camels also, until they have finished drinking..."
The servant did not go out to choose a bride by his own judgment. He went to identify one already appointed, and one quality would mark her.
We also see that the certain sign of the appointed bride will be that she is marked by grace. From the servant's prayer it is clear that he was not sent to select a bride from the daughters of men for Isaac. He was sent to find the appointed bride (v. 14), and grace would be her characteristic mark. The prayer is granted. When Rebekah comes on the scene and meets the test, she answers the servant's request and says, "I will draw water for your camels also." In all this we are reminded of the Spirit working in grace in those who are "elect according to the foreknowledge of God the Father, in the sanctification of the Spirit" (1 Peter 1:2).
Her words in the previous verse could have been a polite gesture. This verse shows they were not: she emptied the jar and went straight back down for more.
She did not hesitate, but gladly agreed (v. 18). Then she told him she would draw water for his camels also. This was more than an offer. It was a decision that she would do it. She began this work at once, and with such willingness that it amazed the servant (v. 21). He wondered if his mission would prove as successful as these first impressions suggested.
Ten camels after a long desert journey is a great deal of water, drawn by hand, jar by jar. She never asked what she would get for it.
She is not only willing to give Abraham's servant a drink. She also provides for his camels, without negotiating conditions or asking a price. That must have been hard work, given how much these animals drink, especially after a long journey. This is another indication that the church is marked by grace.
One writer sees the whole scene as a picture of something greater.
This unknown servant, a picture of the Holy Spirit, finds Rebekah by the well of water. Acting in the spirit of grace, she goes far beyond what he asks. She gives him and his camels the refreshment they needed with a generous hand that held nothing back. This showed the servant that Rebekah was the one suitable to be the bride of Isaac, and worthy to wear the ring and bracelets. And so, as the fruit of God's working, there are people found with the moral features that suit Christ well.
The servant does not treat the sign as settled. He hesitates, and one writer explains why.
Why any doubt? Why does the servant hesitate, since his request has received such an answer? Here is the reason. However plainly God's hand seems to show itself, there is a definite rule in the word. The Christian must pay attention to that rule and must not neglect it, because he is weak at telling what comes from God. Faith looks to the power of God, but judges everything by the word... even when there may be signs, he should decide nothing until the will of God is clear according to His word.
No one had promised her anything for that work.
She was far more than repaid for her kindness. The servant gave her a ring (apparently for her nose) and two bracelets for her wrists, all of gold. The Lord Himself loves to reward faithful diligence, and we see this most clearly now, in the present age of His grace.
- Prayer — the servant asked for one exact sign. It came true in front of him, down to the detail, and chance could hardly explain it.
- Grace — he was not picking a bride by his own taste. Grace was the mark of the one already appointed, and it points to the Spirit working in those God has chosen.
- Decision — her words were not a polite offer; she decided, hurried, and began the work at once.
- Cost — watering ten thirsty camels by hand was heavy work. She gave it freely, named no price, and held nothing back.
- Restraint and reward — the servant still tested the sign by God's word before he decided, and gold repaid the work she never bargained for.
And the man was astonished at her, remaining silent, to know whether Jehovah had made his journey prosperous or not.
The servant has just asked God for a precise sign, and Rebekah has matched it step for step — offering to water ten thirsty camels herself. Yet he says nothing. He stands and stares, still waiting to be sure the LORD is behind it.
Some read his silence as hesitation. Commentators see instead a man stunned by how fast God answered. One writer sets his reaction beside the Lord's own wonder at the faith He met in others:
The servant was astonished at the immediate and exact answer to his prayer. To call it unbelief is unwarranted. Even our Lord, perfect man as He alone was, "wondered" at the Gentile centurion's faith. If that expressed His delight, where not a particle of unbelief could be, we need not think less of the servant's wondering at her. He had received so clear and ready a token of favour on his mission. What he does next is the best proof of his faith. "Whoever believes will not be in haste"; and this absence of the haste that flesh rushes into comes out in one content to take a single step at a time.
Where the ESV says he waited "to learn," older versions read "to wit" — old English for knowing:
"To know." Gen. 24:21; Ex. 16:15; Acts 3:17; Acts 23:5; etc. From the Anglo-Saxon witan, "to know."
Why wait at all when the sign had landed so precisely? Because a sign, however striking, is not the final court of appeal:
Why any doubt? Why does the servant hesitate, since his request has obtained such an answer? Here is the reason. However clearly the hand of God seems to show itself, the word holds a definite rule. The Christian must attend to it, and must not neglect it, because he is weak at discerning what is of God. Faith looks to the power of God, but judges everything by the word; for God must act according to His word. Even when there are signs, he should decide nothing until the will of God is clear according to His word. He must be able to say, "This is indeed according to God."
The same caution meets anyone quick to call a handy circumstance an open door:
No doubt our Lord may and does at times show His mind and mark out our path by His providence. But we must be near enough to Him to read that providence right. Otherwise what people call "an opening of providence" may prove an opening by which we slip off the holy path of obedience. We must weigh our circumstances, just like our inward impressions, in the presence of God. We must judge them by the light of His word, or they may lead us into the most terrible mistakes.
His pause is one of several marks of a true servant. One list places our verse among the points where he owns the Lord's guidance:
First, his master commissions him; he does not run before his master sends him. Then his master equips him for the service: all his master's goods were in his hand (v. 10). Next, only his master's instructions guide him; his own thoughts have no place or influence (vv. 2-9). Further, he depends entirely on the Lord; he looks to Him to act for him (vv. 12-14). Further, he acknowledges the Lord's guidance and stepping in at every point (vv. 21, 26, 27).
Prayer runs through this whole chapter, and one writer asks why:
It is not too much to say that there is no other chapter in Genesis with so much about prayer as this one; and why? Is it not because now, during the call of the bride, He who dwells and works in the Christian shows us what walking by faith is?
Many read the whole errand as a picture of the Holy Spirit sent to find a bride for the risen Son. Notice that the servant is never named:
Here the next section pictures the mission of the Spirit. He comes to find a bride for the risen Christ, the Father's heir, among the family of faith (Abraham's kindred). The story runs at a length that shows how much God's heart is taken up with it: first, the mission of Him who comes as a servant. Here is a striking lesson for those through whom the Spirit of God acts: the servant's name is never told us. He is content to speak only of his master.
- Prayer first. The chapter is full of prayer. The servant never runs ahead of his master's orders.
- Sign received. Rebekah's kindness matched his prayer. The speed of the answer left him astonished, not doubting.
- Silence next. His quiet is the restraint of faith, not suspicion. One who believes takes a single step at a time.
- Word decides. Faith looks to God's power, but it judges everything by God's word. Weigh circumstances and impressions in His presence before you act.
- Credit given. Once sure, he gives God the credit. That is the mark of a servant who speaks only of his master, as the Spirit speaks of Christ.
And it came to pass when the camels had drunk enough, that the man took a gold ring, of half a shekel weight, and two bracelets for her hands, ten [shekels] weight of gold,
Rebekah has just watered ten thirsty camels, and Abraham's servant answers her not with thanks but with gold. Why give so much to a stranger whose name he has not yet asked?
Commentators read this chapter as a portrait. Isaac, Abraham and the servant each stand for someone.
Isaac was the beloved son of his father, and in chapter 22 he had passed through death in figure. He pointed forward to Christ, the risen heavenly Man. Abraham's purpose was to secure a suitable wife for his son. That told out the Father's purpose that Christ also should have a wife, made fully suitable to Himself. The nameless servant travelled far to carry out his master's will and bring Rebekah to his master's son. He sets out the mission of the Holy Spirit, who is now in the world, gathering out of it the bride of the Lamb.
The servant has asked her nothing and agreed nothing with her. The gold is already on her.
He comes in pure grace, giving freely his gifts, but giving first to the bride. Like Jesus at the well, he wants a drink of water from this stranger... But He brings everything to her: the jewel for the forehead, and the bracelets for the hands. And unlike the world, He gives it all first... It is the righteousness of God to all, and the jewel on the forehead of everyone who believes. Where the righteousness of God is on the forehead, everlasting love clasps the hands.
Another writer reads the gold as an answer to what she had just done. He also sets it beside a later deal in Genesis.
She was far more than repaid for her kindness. The servant gave her a ring (evidently for her nose) and two bracelets for her wrists, all of gold. The Lord Himself loves to reward faithful diligence... There is no sign of a bargain here. It was different later, when Jacob wanted Rachel as a wife and offered to pay Laban for her.
Commentators differ on the placing of that first ornament. A reference work lists this as an ear-ring, and notes it was not a woman's item only:
The well-known ornament worn by women and men in the East.
The gifts land on two particular parts of her body.
These were the bridegroom's love gifts. It is good to think of our blessings that way. But the ear-ring and the bracelets carry a further meaning. They remind us that our Bridegroom has secured our ears and our hands for Himself: our ears, so that He may pour into them the story of His love; our hands, so that we may prove our grateful love to Him by being diligent in His interests.
The servant could have described Isaac's wealth and left it at that. Instead he handed over a piece of it.
Eliezer, for instance, gave Rebekah more than a report — jewels and gold, pledges of Isaac's love and samples of Abraham's wealth. And this is the office of the Holy Spirit in the great plan of redemption. He enters the scene not so much with a report of the distant glory, as with pledges and first-fruits of it — He is the earnest of the inheritance.
Because the gold arrives before her decision is made, it carries a double weight.
Rebekah had not yet made her final decision, but it was certain she would. So the servant gave her gifts. They were a first instalment of the wealth she was going to inherit as the wife of Isaac... All this was also a seal upon her betrothal to Isaac. So we may see here a type of the Holy Spirit as both Seal and Earnest. The Seal secures us for the divine calling and purpose. The Earnest is the pledge of the inheritance yet to be ours in its fulness in the coming age.
Rebekah could not hide these gifts. Gold on the face and wrists is public.
The servant has found the appointed bride. He is not content with a work of grace that he can see. He marks the bride out from all others in public, adorning her with the golden ear-rings and the bracelets of gold, which others can see. The Spirit is not only here to produce a work of grace in the believer. The believer should also show the fruit of being sealed by the Spirit — love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control. These precious jewels become a witness to others, and mark the believer out from the world around.
One writer, who calls the servant Eliezer, measures this errand against the smallest thing people hope for from God.
General human thought about the gospel reaches no further than a poor starving hope of a bare and uncertain salvation. The mission of Eliezer to Rebekah goes far beyond that! He invites her to share the home, wealth and love of Isaac, and to be taken into the affection and adoption of his father. Of course this includes the promise of real sustenance — salvation; but how much more it includes!... A ring is a symbol of eternity — with no beginning and no ending.
- Found. The servant's whole journey has the son in view; he meets Rebekah, and gold is her first gift.
- Free. The gifts come before any bargain, any consent, any name — grace gives first, and gives everything.
- Fitted. He claims ear and hand together: ears to take in the story of His love, hands to be busy in His interests.
- Foretaste. The gold is a first instalment of Isaac's wealth — a seal on the betrothal, a pledge of the inheritance.
- Flagged. Worn where all can see, the ornaments mark her out from everyone else, as the fruit of the Spirit marks out a believer.
and said, Whose daughter art thou? tell me, I pray thee. Is there room [in] thy father's house for us to lodge?
The servant has just put gold on Rebekah's hands, and now he asks two things: whose daughter she is, and whether her father's house has room for him and his men. One question tests whether she is the right woman; the other opens the door to everything he came to say.
The plain sense of the scene is simple, and her reply answers more than he asked.
The servant then asked Rebekah whose daughter she was, and if there was room in her father's house for him to lodge. When Rebekah told him her parentage, the servant of course would recognize their relationship to Abraham (v. 24). She also assured him that they had provision for his camels as well as room for lodging.
Rebekah had already shown kindness and courtesy. That was not enough. Abraham had sent his servant for a wife from his own family, and the servant weighs what he sees against that instruction.
Truly dependent on God, he tests even the brightest agreement of circumstances by the word which guided his way and defined his aim. This does not suit the self-confidence of man; but is it not the one path, the duty a saint cannot give up? For we walk by faith, not by sight. … No doubt her character even in this brief meeting shone out in love and lowliness, in unaffected respect and the readiest service. She was a fitting daughter-in-law for Abraham, a pure and gentle wife for Isaac. Yet this was not everything the servant sought. He was true to the interests of the son and to the words laid down by the father. "Whose daughter are you?" Was she of Abraham's kindred? Her answer was just what he sought.
He has given gifts, but he has not once named the son he came for. Commentators read the servant's errand as a picture of the Holy Spirit's work.
This, however, is only the beginning of the servant's work. No word has yet been said about Isaac. These further communications depend on the welcome the servant receives. If they welcome him, he will speak to them of Isaac, but he will not force his company on Rebekah: "Is there room in your father's house for us to spend the night?"
He could have presumed on the gold he had just given. Instead he asks.
The servant asks Rebecca two questions: who she was and whether there would be room in her father's house for him to stay. The Spirit of God is not intrusive and does not force Himself on anyone, but asks whether there is "room". Do we make "room" for Him, or do we "grieve" Him (Eph. 4:30)?
The servant asked only for room. Her answer in the next verse offers more.
He only asks for "room;" she says there is "provision" as well as room (v. 25). … But we do well to take this great question home to ourselves: "Is there room?" Are we prepared to put ourselves out to make room for the Holy Spirit? The flesh and the Spirit "are opposed to each other" (Gal. 5:17). We cannot entertain the Spirit if we are ministering to the flesh. … The house of Bethuel made "room" and "provision" for the servant of Abraham, with the result that the servant is able to speak of Isaac.
The reverse of that welcome has a cost we may already be feeling.
Does this part of the story not show why we make so little progress in the knowledge of Christ, and why our affections are so often cold? We hinder and grieve the One who alone can powerfully move our hearts with the love of Christ.
When Rebekah names her family, the servant does not rush indoors.
God had perfectly answered the desire of Abraham. Eliezer, for his part, sees that God has heard him. He had recognised God's hand in the whole of this business. So before going further, before even entering the house, he bowed himself and worshipped the Lord.
- Question first. "Whose daughter are you?" measures the bright circumstances against the word the servant was sent with. Her kindness alone was not enough. Kindred was what he was sent to find.
- Room next. He will not force his company; he asks for a welcome, and only a welcomed servant goes on to speak of the son.
- Provision beyond room. Rebekah offers more than the servant asked for. Give the Spirit no room, and we grieve Him; our progress in knowing Christ stalls.
- Worship last. Before he steps through the door, the servant bows. A recognised answer from God turns at once into praise.
And she said to him, I am the daughter of Bethuel the son of Milcah, whom she bore to Nahor.
Abraham had sent his servant to find a wife for Isaac from his own family, not from the people of Canaan. So when the young woman at the well names her father, her grandmother and her grandfather, she is not making small talk. She is answering the one question the whole mission turned on.
Rebekah had already shown kindness, energy and courtesy at the well. But good character alone did not prove to the servant that he had found the right woman. He still had to hear her family named.
No doubt her character shone out even in this short meeting — in love and humility, in genuine respect and eager service. She was a fitting daughter-in-law for Abraham, a pure and gentle wife for Isaac. Yet this was not all the servant looked for. He was true to the interests of the son and to the words laid down by the father. "Whose daughter are you?" Was she of Abraham's kindred? Her answer was just what he sought.
This is why the servant asked at all, when every circumstance already seemed to be falling into place. Encouraging signs are not the final test.
However clearly God's hand seems to show itself, there is a definite rule in the word. The Christian must pay attention to it. He must not neglect it, for he is weak at discerning what is of God. Faith looks to the power of God, but judges everything by the word; for God must act according to His word.
The names Rebekah gives were not new to the reader. Two chapters earlier, news had reached Abraham of the children born to his brother Nahor.
The closing verses of the chapter give us a short sketch of the line of Nahor, Abraham's brother. His son Bethuel was the father of Rebekah — through Milcah the wife, not through Reumah the concubine. In due time we shall see how close the tie is to Isaac's future, working out the purpose of God.
That earlier notice is why her three names settle the matter at once. Her place inside the family also carries a larger meaning.
Notice that Rebekah is already one of Abraham's relatives. Isaac's bride is not an outside stranger. Genesis 22 presses this on us, where Abraham hears the news of Nahor's children. It is in the family of faith that the Church is found. So I do not believe Rebekah represents the call of sinners by the gospel. She represents the call of saints to a place of special relationship with Christ on high. We are in the mission-time of Genesis 24, and the Spirit of God is seeking a bride for the risen Son.
The one thing Abraham refused was a wife from the land he lived in. The reason lay in what Canaan was, not in mere family preference.
Abraham tells the servant that the bride for Isaac is "not to be of the daughters of the Canaanites," but of "my kindred." The Canaanites were under the curse and marked out for judgment. There can be no link between Christ in the glory and a world under judgment.
The servant's restraint runs through the whole episode. He watched Rebekah water his camels and still said nothing. Only her answer here moved him.
No real spiritual power ever takes us out of the place of waiting on God. So it was with Eliezer. When the woman had given him drink, and his camels too, he does not yet say, Oh, here is the answer to my prayer. He is still waiting on God. Wondering at her, he held his peace, to know whether the Lord had made his journey prosper or not. When the camels had finished drinking, he said, "Whose daughter are you?" He found that she answered the description which to him was divine direction, as the word is to us. Then he bowed his head and worshipped the Lord. Success often takes us out of the place of communion, because it is our success when we do not acknowledge God in it.
The servant's worship follows a pattern.
What came out from God in guidance goes back to Him in praise.
- Word first. The servant tested his answered prayer by Abraham's rule, not by how well the circumstances fit.
- Family required. Three names — Bethuel, Milcah, Nahor — put Rebekah inside Abraham's family. That was the one thing Abraham asked for.
- Not Canaan. Abraham ruled out a bride from a people under judgment. The tie had to be to his own household.
- Already known. Genesis 22 had already named this family. God prepared the answer before the servant asked the question.
- Then worship. The servant bowed only when God confirmed the answer. Guidance that came from God went back to God as praise.
And she said to him, There is straw, and also much provender with us; also room to lodge.
Rebekah has just told the stranger at the well who her father is; now she adds an offer he never asked for. He had asked only about a bed for the night. Her answer opens the door of her father's house to Abraham's mission. So what was the servant really testing for, and what does her generosity show?
Kindness at the well was not enough on its own. The servant also had his master's words to go by.
Truly dependent on God, he tests even the brightest combination of circumstances by the word that guided his way and defined his aim. This does not suit the self-confidence of man; but is it not the one path, the duty that cannot be given up, of the saint? For we walk by faith, not by sight... What Rebekah said fell completely and clearly within Abraham's requirements for the bride he sought for his son Isaac. No doubt her character shone out even in this brief meeting. She showed love and humility, genuine respect and quick service — a fitting daughter-in-law for Abraham, a pure and gentle wife for Isaac. Yet this was not everything the servant sought, faithful as he was to the interests of the son and to the words laid down by the father. "Whose daughter are you?" Was she of Abraham's family? Her answer was exactly what he sought, and she assures him and his company of a suitable welcome.
Compare the question with the reply. He wanted space; she names food for the animals too, and then the space on top of it.
How good it is that Rebekah's answer again goes beyond what the servant asked. He only asks for "room"; she says there is provision as well as room (v. 25).
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Nothing here is negotiated. What she had already done for ten thirsty camels she now repeats on a larger scale for the whole party.
She is not only willing to give Abraham's servant a drink. She also provides for his camels, without negotiating terms or asking a price. That must have been hard work, given how much these animals drink, especially after a long journey. This is another indication that the church is marked by grace. Rebecca shows the same feature later on, when the servant asks for "room" and she offers "straw" and "plenty of fodder" and "room to spend the night" (v. 25).
The servant had asked two things: whose daughter she was, and whether there was room. One reply covers both.
The answer was complete as well as immediate. She was of the right family, and there was accommodation in her father's house. The servant had only to give her golden ornaments, as a pledge of what was to come, and then, bowing his head, he worshipped the LORD.
The errand goes smoothly because of who stands behind it.
Along with this, difficulties disappear. As the Lord directs, so He opens the door and blesses. There is comfort in this — the comfort of knowing that it is His own hand that does everything. Whatever the hindrances may be, the mission of the Spirit is accomplished. It does not stand in persuasive words of man's wisdom, but in the power of God.
What Rebekah offered a stranger becomes a question about what we offer the Holy Spirit.
It is well to take this great question home to ourselves: "Is there room?" Are we prepared to put ourselves out to make room for the Holy Spirit? The flesh and the Spirit "are opposed to each other" (Gal. 5:17). We cannot host the Spirit while catering to the flesh... Are we making provision for the flesh to gratify its desires, or are we making room and provision for the Spirit? The house of Bethuel made "room" and "provision" for Abraham's servant. As a result, the servant is able to speak of Isaac, to engage Rebekah's affections with Isaac, and to lead her to Isaac.
Refusing Him costs us something we can feel.
Do we not see in this part of the story the secret of our little progress in the knowledge of Christ, and why our affections are so often cold? We hinder and grieve the One who alone can powerfully move our hearts with the love of Christ.
- Tested — The servant weighed even the brightest signs against his master's word. Her family mattered, not just her kindness.
- Room — He asked only for lodging. She offered food as well, and named no price.
- Opened — One answer settled both family and lodging. As the Lord directs, He opens the door and difficulties disappear.
- Entered — Room and provision got the servant inside the house. Inside, he could speak of Isaac.
- Warmed — Refuse the Spirit room and affections cool; make room, and He engages the heart with Christ and leads it to Him.
And the man stooped, and bowed down before Jehovah,
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and said, Blessed be Jehovah, God of my master Abraham, who has not withdrawn his loving-kindness and his faithfulness from my master; I being in the way, Jehovah has led me to the house of my master's brethren.
Abraham's servant has just met Rebekah at the well and learned that she comes from his master's family. Before he says a word to her household, he stops and worships.
He does not congratulate himself on a successful errand. He does not rush indoors with the news. One writer sets this beside Daniel, who also praised God first when God answered him:
Someone has rightly said that God is always the first thought of a person walking with God. It was so long ago with the servant of Abraham. He had seen God's clear guidance, and his first act was to worship the LORD, saying: "Blessed be the LORD … the LORD has led me in the way" (Gen. 24:26-27). It was the same with Daniel. When God stepped in with mercy in his trials, Daniel's first act was to praise God, saying: "Blessed be the name of God forever and ever, for wisdom and might are His" (Dan. 2:19-23).
Notice where he stopped.
He had recognised God's hand in the whole of this business. So before going farther, before even entering the house, he bowed and worshipped the Lord.
He blesses God not for a lucky coincidence but for two things God had promised to keep: steady kindness, and reliability to His own word. One commentator calls this worship with understanding behind it:
And the man said, for it is intelligent worship, "Blessed be Jehovah, God of my master Abraham, who has not withdrawn from my master His mercy and His truth …" It is a trusting and adoring acknowledgement of His faithful goodness.
He does not call God "my God." He blesses the God of his master:
Eliezer says, "O Lord God of my master Abraham." He does not say "my God." God had made the promises to Abraham, and had revealed Himself as the God of Abraham. Here the servant shows himself in complete dependence. We find him in the path of promise. He does not exalt himself. He acts according to God's purposes in complete dependence, and does not pretend to have anything except where God had placed the blessing. For us this blessing is in Christ, and there is the answer to our requests.
The order of his sentence matters. He was already on the road his master sent him down; only then was he led. Guidance meets the person who is already where God can meet him:
It reminds us of Abraham's servant (Gen. 24:27). Obedience placed him in the way, and then he says, "I being in the way, the Lord led me to the house of my master's brethren." He was in the way — the path of obedience. The Lord could come into that path too and lead him on in it. No other path than this can He approve by His presence.
The road ended at his master's family. One writer applies this to us:
Do we not see a picture here, though partly veiled? When someone honestly seeks the Lord's way, He will lead him to the fellowship of those who are His own people.
One writer reads Eliezer, the servant, as a picture of the Holy Spirit sent by the Father. This verse then shows what marks that work:
Again, we have Eliezer, a picture of the Spirit of God. He is marked by this: his heart goes out to the Lord in complete dependence and in simple-hearted praise, as he receives the quick and unmistakable answer of His grace. Eliezer had his mission from Abraham; so the Spirit is sent from the Father on an errand of love in the church. Prayer and worship suit the members of Christ's body in the same way, and should go out intelligently with God's purpose, just as Eliezer's prayer rested entirely on the aim of the one who sent him.
- Way — obedience put him on the road first; the Lord then led him along it. God's guidance meets the person already walking where He has sent them.
- Worship — the moment the answer came, he bowed. Praise came before the news and before the welcome inside. God is the first thought of anyone walking with Him.
- Mercy and truth — he blesses God for kindness that held, and for a word that proved reliable to his master.
- Dependence — "the God of my master," not "my God." He claims only what God has promised. He asks only where God has placed blessing.
- Family — the road of obedience ended among his master's own people. The servant pictures the Spirit sent by the Father, who leads in dependence and simple praise.
And the maiden ran and told these things to her mother's house.
A stranger at the well has just given Rebekah gold jewellery and spoken to her about his master, Abraham. She does not hesitate. She runs home with the news, and everything that follows in the chapter turns on the door her running opens.
One writer ties her eagerness to the way Christians should live. He then looks at whose house she ran to.
The simple-hearted eagerness of Rebekah is as clear here as her thoughtful courtesy and kindness were before. Such should be the church, and the Christian now. God has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places in Christ. Are we not bound, one by one and together, to reflect the grace of Him to whom we belong? Freely we received; freely should we give... Yet the young woman was quick to discern the signs of the crisis that had come to her, and ran to tell "her mother's house." That was proper in itself, quite apart from the fact that her father stays so much in the background all through. Some have even thought that the name listed after Laban's in verse 50 may belong to a younger brother rather than to the father. What is certain is that Laban is the active leading man of the house from first to last.
She did not arrive empty-handed. The gifts from the well had already set her apart before anyone said a word about Isaac:
Verse 22 tells how Rebecca received gifts: a golden earring and golden bracelets. These first gifts were early tokens of grace, and more gifts followed later (verse 53)... But the first gifts — the earring and the bracelets — marked Rebecca out and set her apart from all others. As has been said: "The hand and face bear witness to the work of grace."
Her brother Laban answers with a warm welcome. One writer weighs it against Laban's later record:
It is not a chance detail that Laban offered hospitality so readily. He saw the ring and the bracelets on his sister's hands, and he heard her report of what Abraham's messenger had said to her... The history later shows that Laban was a grasping man and an idolater. The language used here forces one conclusion. The sight of the jewels given to his sister, and the man's words about his master, had a strong effect on someone whose motives were far from unselfish.
So far the servant has said nothing about Isaac. His errand now hangs on one question, which he puts to the family:
This, however, is only the beginning of the servant's work. No one has yet said a word about Isaac. These further messages depend on the welcome the family gives the servant. If they welcome him, he will speak to them of Isaac. But he will not force his company on Rebekah. "Is there room in your father's house for us to lodge in?" (v. 23).
The same writer puts the servant's question to us. He then shows what the welcome at Bethuel's house led to:
Are we prepared to put ourselves out to make room for the Holy Spirit? The flesh and the Spirit "are contrary the one to the other" (Galatians 5:17)... Are we making provision for the flesh to fulfil its desires, or are we making room and provision for the Spirit? The house of Bethuel made "room" and "provision" for the servant of Abraham. The result: the servant is able to speak of Isaac, to engage Rebekah's affections with Isaac, and to lead her to Isaac.
She took the news to her own household first. One writer sees the same thing happening today:
This is well worth noticing, for we may see the like of it every day. One of the family becomes the first to feel divine power. Then family religion — the knowledge of the Lord Jesus in the household — spreads itself. But some remain untouched.
Another writer sees the same instinct in Andrew, a follower of Jesus:
It is beautiful to see how Andrew goes at once to testify of the One he had found, and he begins at home. "He first finds his own brother Simon." He begins from the centre, and works out to the circumference.
- Marked — the earring and bracelets were early tokens of grace that set Rebekah apart from everyone else. Her hand and face bore witness to that grace.
- Ran — her eagerness matches her earlier kindness at the well. Christians should live the same way: freely we received, freely we should give.
- Told — the news went first to her own household. That is the ordinary way God's work spreads: one member first, then outward from the centre.
- Welcomed — Laban's invitation was warm but his motives were mixed. The jewels and the report moved even a grasping man.
- Room — because the family made room and provision, the servant could speak of Isaac. Make no room for the Spirit, and Christ goes unspoken of.
And Rebecca had a brother, named Laban; and Laban ran out to the man, to the well.
Abraham's servant waits by a spring, and Rebekah has run home with his news. The verse names the man who comes out to meet him — her brother Laban — and commentators find a great deal in that small detail: who ran, why he ran, and what God did through a man whose later record is far from clean.
One writer notes how fast she moved, and then notes who acts on her news: her brother, not her father.
The young woman was quick to see that the crisis had come for her, and ran to tell "her mother's house." That was the proper thing to do. Her father, though, stays oddly in the background all through. Some have even dared to think that the name after Laban's in verse 50 may have been a younger brother rather than the father. What is certain is that Laban is the active leading man of the house from first to last. Here he ran out to the man by the well or spring.
One reference work leaves that puzzle open, and points to something else behind Laban's welcome:
Laban was the son of Bethuel, the brother of Rebekah, and the father of Leah and Rachel. His quick hospitality towards Abraham's servant shows a heart the Lord had made willing, in answer to prayer. Why he took the lead instead of his father Bethuel is not told us. In his dealings with Jacob, Laban was scheming and dishonest.
The next verse gives the trigger: Laban had seen gold on his sister's hands. One writer weighs that welcome against what Laban later turned out to be:
The history shows later on that Laban was a grasping man and an idolater. So the language used here forces us to one conclusion. The sight of the jewels given to his sister, and the man's words about his master, had a powerful effect on a man whose motives were far from unselfish. His greeting was winning, though — he called the traveller blessed of the Lord and told him the house and room for the camels were ready.
Another writer agrees, and adds a proverb that explains why the gifts opened the door:
Laban, with whom Rebekah had grown up, was a crafty, knowing, worldly man. It is plain that, when Eliezer visited, he had been moved only by the gifts. They made a ready way for Abraham's servant; as we read, "A man's gift makes room for him" (Proverbs 18:16). Laban was clearly the busy, active, important one in his father Bethuel's house. He had a taste for occasions that called for management.
The gold Laban saw came from the servant himself. Hamilton Smith notes what those ornaments did for Rebekah:
Having found the appointed bride, the servant at once sets her apart from all others by adorning her with the golden earrings and the bracelets. The hand and the face bear witness to the work of grace.
The servant had prayed at this spring, and the door opened. J. N. Darby traces that through to the family's consent, and draws a rule from it:
Laban and Bethuel heard Abraham's servant tell the whole story. They then admit that the matter comes from the Lord, and say, "We cannot speak to you bad or good" (verse 50). So, if we act in complete dependence on God through the circumstances of our Christian life, He will make our way plain. He will even soften our enemies, because of the dependence on Him in which we live. Because we have set the Lord before us, He will always be at our right hand.
Naming Laban as her brother tells us the home Rebekah grew up in. One writer draws a sober lesson from that:
Abraham and Sarah left their father's house to walk with God, and they carried the foul, unclean arrangement between them along with them. In the same way, Rebekah carried this family character, this Laban-leaven, with her. After our conversion we still have nature in its corruption with us. We have our own traits of the flesh, as well as the corruption common to all. And we have to rebuke them sharply, so that we may be sound — that is, morally healthy — in the faith (Titus 1:13).
- Ran — Rebekah ran home with the news, and Laban ran out to the spring; both moved at the speed of a crisis.
- Gifts — the gold on her hands spoke before the servant did; hand and face bore witness to grace at work.
- Motives — his welcome sounded warm and godly, yet writers read it as the eagerness of a man moved by what he could gain.
- Dependence — the servant had prayed, and God made his way plain, softening even those whose hearts were not with Him.
- Leaven — the verse names Laban as her brother for a reason. Rebekah carried that family character with her, and conversion does not silence the old nature.
And it came to pass when he saw the ring and the bracelets on his sister's hand, and when he heard the words of Rebecca his sister, saying, Thus spoke the man to me -- that he came to the man, and behold, he was standing by the camels, by the well.
Abraham's servant has found the woman he prayed for. Rebekah runs home, and her brother Laban runs out to the well. What brings Laban out is not an argument. It is a sight and a report: gold on his sister's arms, and her account of what the stranger said.
The jewels are the first thing named. Before Laban hears a word about Abraham, Isaac, or the errand, he sees something. One writer reads the servant's gift as a picture of the Spirit's work in a believer:
The servant has found the appointed bride. He is not content with a work of grace that he can see. He marks the bride out in public from all others by adorning her with the golden earrings and the bracelets of gold, which others can see. The Spirit is here to produce a work of grace in the believer. But the fruits of being sealed by the Spirit should also show in the believer — love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. These precious jewels would become a witness to others, and distinguish the believer from the world around.
The ornaments also said something about the giver, whom the household had never met. A verse rendering of the scene draws that out:
In Haran the relatives of Rebekah looked on in wonder at the new splendour given her; rich bracelets circled her arms, and hanging on her face shone the weighty proof of Isaac's generosity, beyond question in its value. And could she doubt — could anyone doubt who saw her decked with these — his covenanted love and generous heart, of whom they were the sparkling messengers?
Laban's reaction follows directly from what he saw. Another writer sees a pattern here: the gifts are noticed, then the messenger is welcomed in. He adds that this does not always follow:
The Holy Spirit adorns the bride-to-be (Gen. 24:22; Gal. 5:22), as a pledge of what is to come, with symbols of betrothal. When Laban saw the gifts, "he said, Come in, you blessed of the Lord. Why do you stand outside? For I have prepared the house and a place for the camels." This result is natural and frequent, but not universal (1 Peter 2:12). At least, it is the order of things we should desire. Those among whom the believer lives should notice these spiritual adornments, and welcome the ministering Spirit into their own hearts and homes "in the day of visitation."
Commentators differ on what was in Laban's heart. One reads the order of the verse — jewels first, then words — as exposing a self-interested man:
It is no chance detail that Laban offered hospitality so readily. He saw the ring and the bracelets on his sister's hands, and he heard her report of what Abraham's messenger said to her. He came at once to the man, who was still standing by the camels at the spring. His welcome was as warm as it was religious — such people talk that way when honour and advantage are certain. The history later shows that Laban was a grasping man and an idolater. So the words used here force us to conclude one thing. The sight of the jewels given to his sister, and the man's words about his master, worked powerfully on a man whose motives were far from unselfish.
A reference work reads the same welcome more kindly. It links it to the servant's prayer earlier in the chapter:
His prompt hospitality towards Abraham's servant shows a heart made ready by the Lord in answer to prayer. But we are not told why he took the lead instead of Bethuel, his father. In his dealings with Jacob, Laban was scheming and unscrupulous.
Whatever Laban's motive, the man left standing outside now comes in. One writer presses the application:
It is good to take this great question home to ourselves: "Is there room?" Are we willing to put ourselves out to make room for the Holy Spirit? The flesh and the Spirit "are contrary the one to the other" (Gal. 5:17). We cannot entertain the Spirit while ministering to the flesh... The house of Bethuel made "room" and "provision" for the servant of Abraham. So the servant is able to speak of Isaac, to engage Rebekah's affections with Isaac, and to lead her to Isaac.
The welcome is not the goal. It opens the door to the message. Once inside, the servant speaks about Isaac:
Having come into the house (v. 32), the first thing the servant does is to bear witness to Isaac. He reveals his master's mind about Isaac. In doing so he takes the things of Isaac and shows them to Rebekah. He speaks of all his master's wealth, and then says his master has given all this wealth to Isaac: "to him he has given all that he has." And we know well that the Father has given all His things to Christ. So the Lord can say, "All that the Father has is mine," and then, speaking of the Holy Spirit, can add, "He will take what is mine and declare it to you" (John 16:15).
- Gift — The servant's gold was never private. It marked Rebekah out in public, as the Spirit's fruit marks out a believer.
- Sight — Laban saw before he heard. Others read the ornaments first, and only then listen to the words.
- Motive — Writers differ. One sees a grasping man moved by the sight of wealth. Another sees a heart the Lord made ready in answer to prayer.
- Room — The welcome brought the messenger from outside the door into the house. The same question faces us: do we make room for the Spirit or for the flesh?
- Witness — Only once inside does the servant speak of Isaac. Hospitality was the doorway; the message about the son was the point.
And he said, Come in, blessed of Jehovah! why standest thou outside? for I have prepared the house, and room for the camels.
Abraham's servant has just met Rebekah at the well and given her gold. Now her brother Laban runs out and invites him home. The greeting sounds warm and even religious. So what moved Laban to say it? And what does an open door have to do with the servant's errand?
The invitation comes right after the sight of gold. One commentator finds the welcome warm in tone, but not free of self-interest:
It is no accident that Laban offered hospitality at once. He had seen the ring and the bracelets on his sister's hands. He had also heard her report of what Abraham's messenger said to her. He went straight out to the man, who still stood by the camels at the spring. His welcome was warm, and religious too. That is how such people speak when they are sure of honour and gain coming their way. The history later shows that Laban was a grasping man and an idolater. The words he uses here point to one conclusion. The sight of the jewels given to his sister, and the man's words about his master, worked strongly on a man whose motives were far from unselfish. His greeting was winning all the same.
The servant, Eliezer, deals with Rebekah in one order and with Laban in another:
With Rebekah, Eliezer gives the jewels first. With Laban, it is going into the house first, and the jewels after. The Spirit alone acts in the power and confidence of grace. Laban was a legalist.
Laban opens his door because of what he can see on his sister's hands. One writer takes those ornaments as a picture of what the Spirit gives a believer to wear:
The Holy Spirit adorns the bride-to-be (Gen. 24:22; Gal. 5:22) with the tokens of engagement, as a pledge of what is to come: "the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control." When Laban saw the gifts he said, "Come in, O blessed of the LORD." This is the natural and frequent result, though not the universal one (1 Peter 2:12). At least it is the order of things we should want. Those among whom the believer lives should notice these spiritual adornments. They should welcome into their own hearts and homes the serving Spirit "in the day of visitation."
Laban had room ready, for the man and for his camels. One writer turns that word "room" into a question for us:
It is well to take this great question home to ourselves: "Is there room?" Are we prepared to put ourselves out to make room for the Holy Spirit? The flesh and the Spirit "are opposed to each other" (Gal. 5:17). We cannot entertain the Spirit while serving the flesh. Are we prepared to refuse the indulgence of the flesh in the passing things of time, so that the Spirit can lead us into the deep and eternal things of God? … The house of Bethuel made "room" and "provision" for Abraham's servant. The result was that the servant could speak about Isaac, engage Rebekah's affections with Isaac, and lead her to Isaac.
The door opens, and the servant did nothing to arrange it. One writer sees here God's usual way with those who delight in Him:
Notice, in passing, that God arranges everything according to Eliezer's desire. This is bound to happen to everyone who delights in the Lord. All the wheels of God's providence move in the direction of His will, which I am carrying out. The Holy Spirit, through the word, gives me the knowledge of His will. That is all I need.
One writer gives Laban's words to believers, to welcome a new believer into the gathering of God's people:
When we are not engaged in the worship of God with fellow believers, we should seek, in season and out of season, to carry the blessed gospel of God to those outside. Then they believe and receive the gospel, and the Holy Spirit comes to live within them. We would love to see them in the heart of God's Assembly. We will gladly say, "Come in, O blessed of the LORD. Why do you stand outside?" (Gen. 24:31).
- Seen — Laban acts the moment he sees the gold on Rebekah's hands. Ornaments on show are what open the door.
- Welcomed — the greeting is warm and religious. Yet Kelly says later history shows Laban to be grasping and an idolater, so the motive was not pure.
- Room — Laban had room ready for the man and his camels. The real question is whether we make room for the Holy Spirit.
- Provision — the flesh and the Spirit are opposed. Feed the one and there is no room left for the other.
- Result — where there is room, the servant can speak of Isaac, and God's providence moves along the line of His will.
And the man came into the house; and he ungirded the camels, and gave the camels straw and provender, and water to wash his feet, and the feet of the men who were with him.
The long journey is over, and the traveller steps from the well into the house, where he unloads his camels and washes the dust of the road from his feet. It is a small domestic scene, yet commentators read it as part of one of the clearest pictures in the Old Testament: a servant sent to find a bride for his master's son.
The verse is a list of ordinary kindnesses: the camels unloaded, fodder given, water brought. One writer keeps the detail exactly at that level and reads it as the end of a hard road.
Rebekah ran to bring to her household the news that the visitor had come, and then brought her brother Laban, also running, to the well (v. 29). He gives the servant a hearty invitation, calling him "blessed of the Lord," and telling him he has prepared everything for him and his camels (v. 31). Then the needs of the camels were fully met, and the servant and the other men with him were given water to wash their feet, and so were refreshed after a long journey.
Water for the feet was part of welcoming a guest. It met two needs at once.
Washing the feet was one of the duties of hospitality. The Lord rebukes the neglect of it in His host in Luke 7. See 1 Timothy 5:10. It gave two benefits to the guest, I may say — it cleansed the traveller after the soiling of the journey, and refreshed him after the tiredness of it.
Right through this chapter the man is called only "the servant." One writer finds meaning in that silence.
The next section pictures the mission of the Spirit. He is to find a bride for the risen Christ, the Father's heir, among the family of faith (Abraham's kindred). The story runs to such a length that it shows how much God's heart is occupied with it. First comes the mission of Him who comes in servant-character. Here is a striking lesson for those through whom the Spirit of God acts: we are never told the servant's name. He is content to speak only of his master.
Another writer brings the same picture into our own day.
In these days there is One who has come from heaven's far-off land on a similar errand — the Holy Spirit. He has come down to us. Angels have been passed by. The gospel message of peace has come to man, fallen man. From the family of Adam the Holy Spirit is gathering out those who will form the Bride. He is leading this Bride across the pathless desert of the world to the Son, to whom the Father has given "all things."
The servant accepts the welcome, but he stops short at the meal. One commentator notes how unusual that was.
The remarkable behaviour of Abraham's servant is what we have to notice for our own building up. He came into the house, unloaded the camels, had straw and fodder given, with water to wash his own feet and the feet of those with him. But when food was set before him, he refused to eat until he had told his story. This is not at all the usual way, especially in the East, and after such a long journey. His errand absorbs him completely. He would not let his own ease, or the customs of men, come first or clear the way for what he had at heart. He was there for his master's sake. Word and oath bound him, and so did honour and love for his master's son.
That single-mindedness is where the picture turns into teaching about the Holy Spirit.
The Holy Spirit gives Himself to His search for the Bride and His care of her, and to nothing else. He does this in a way altogether worthy of the Father and the Son… The Saviour's food was to do the will of Him who sent Him and to finish His work. The blessed Spirit of God is no less careful to speak, not from Himself, but all that He hears. He is the One who glorifies the Son here and now.
Beyond the picture, the man's conduct sets a pattern for service.
We may look at Abraham's servant as a type and as an example… As an example, he shows the marks that should always distinguish a servant of God. First, his master commissions him; he does not run before he is sent. Then he is equipped for the service he is called to: all his master's goods were in his hand. Next, he is guided only by his master's instructions; his own thoughts have no place or influence. Further, he is in complete dependence; he looks to the Lord to act for him. He acknowledges the Lord's guidance and help at every step. He is also completely devoted to carrying out his master's will. He will not eat until he has told his errand, and he will not stay on after the Lord has prospered his way. Finally, he glorifies his master and Isaac.
- Sent. The nameless servant comes in servant-character on his master's errand, content to speak only of his master.
- Welcomed. In the house he unloads the camels, feeds them straw and fodder, and washes his feet after the road.
- Refreshed. Water for the feet was ordinary hospitality. It cleaned off the journey and revived the tired traveller.
- Focused. Food was set before him, but the errand came first. He would not put his own ease before his master's business.
- Copied. Commissioned, equipped, guided, dependent, devoted — and at the end he glorifies his master. That is the pattern for anyone God sends.
And there was set [meat] before him to eat; but he said, I will not eat until I have made known my business. And he said, Speak on.
Abraham's servant has reached the house of Rebekah's family. After a long desert journey his hosts put a meal in front of him, but he will not touch it until he has told his errand — what business could matter more than food?
This is no small point of manners. It cuts against everything a tired traveller would normally do. (Older translations read "until I have told my errand" where the ESV has "until I have said what I have to say.")
But when they set food before him, he refused to eat until he had told his story. This is not at all the usual way, above all in the East, and after so long a journey. His errand took all his attention. He would not let his own comfort, or the customs of men, come first or pave the way for what he had at heart. He was there for his master's sake.
Commentators name this servant Eliezer. They read his journey as a picture of something larger — a servant sent from a father's house to bring home a bride for the son.
In Eliezer we have a ready and faithful messenger, and a prayerful one too. Is it any wonder that his mission from Hebron to the far city of Nahor went so well? In these days One has come from heaven's far-off land on a similar errand — the Holy Spirit. He has come down to us. Angels have been passed by. The gospel message of peace has come to man, fallen man. From the family of Adam the Holy Spirit is gathering out those who will form the Bride, and He is leading her across the desert of this world, where there is no path, to the Son, to whom the Father has given "all things."
Laban tells him to speak. Notice what the servant leaves out.
Eliezer has the true marks of an evangelist. He always keeps the father's object in view. He did not come to improve Mesopotamia; he came to bring away the bride, and to speak not of himself but of Isaac. He does everything in prayer and thanksgiving, and he seeks God's guidance. He approaches with courtesy and thoughtfulness, but also with much directness and energy — he will not eat or drink till he has told his errand.
The content of the speech that follows gives a plain test anyone can apply today.
He gives a very short introduction and then comes to the heart of the matter: Abraham's son, the heir of all things — "and to him he has given all that he has" (v. 36). Are you looking for evidence of the Spirit's working? Then the thing to look for is hearts becoming occupied with Christ. Do you want to draw believers away from worldliness, and to stir up devotion and a heavenly mind? Again, occupation with Christ is the answer.
The servant does not hesitate, and he does not weigh what his hosts might prefer. One writer contrasts him with a far more common kind of man.
Laban said, "Speak on." What firmness of character in the servant! Look at a man who is not decided. He consults this one and that one when it is a question of how he should act. And since he has some desire to do his own will, he would sooner ask advice from those who have less faith than himself. Paul took no advice from flesh and blood. He saw that it was Christ who called him, and he went forward.
This one refusal belongs to a longer list. Another writer draws out the qualities that mark the servant through the whole chapter.
Abraham's servant may be looked at as a type and as an example. As an example, he shows the qualities that should always mark a servant of God. First, his master commissions him; he does not run before he is sent. Then his master equips him for the service he is called to. Next, his master's instructions alone guide him; his own thoughts have no place or influence. Further, he depends on the Lord completely and looks to Him to act for him. He acknowledges the Lord's guidance at every step. He is fully devoted to doing his master's will: he will not eat until he has told his errand, and he will not stay on once the Lord has given him success (vv. 33, 56). Finally, he glorifies his master and Isaac.
- Sent — the servant does not act on his own. His master commissions him, equips him, and tells him what to do.
- Absorbed — his errand comes before his hunger, his comfort, and the ordinary customs of a host.
- Decided — he does not ask advice of those with less faith. The unsure man asks everyone; the man who knows his errand goes forward.
- Self-effacing — he speaks not of himself but of the master, and of the son who has all that the father has.
- Fruitful — the test of the same work today is simple: hearts occupied with Christ, and a bride on her way home to Him.
And he said, I am Abraham's servant.
A weary traveller arrives after a long desert journey, and his hosts set food in front of him. He will not eat until he says why he came, and his first words name no one but his master.
He had just crossed a desert, and a meal was waiting. He left it untouched.
First, we notice that the servant refuses to eat. After such a long journey, this was surprising. But he only lets them wash his feet and unload and care for the camels (v. 32)... The servant knew what his mission was. His priorities were right, and he let nothing turn him aside. Perhaps we sometimes have only a weak sense of how tirelessly the Holy Spirit works to draw out our love for Christ.
He puts himself out of view. The name he gives instead belongs to a household with a father and a son in it.
To this end the servant stayed in the background. He confesses, "I am Abraham's servant." In verse 37 he calls Abraham "my master," and in verse 65 he says of Isaac, "It is my master." So both the father and the son were master to him, and his mission was to praise both. In verse 35 he speaks of the greatness and wealth of Abraham. In verse 36 he speaks of the son, and says the father had given him "all that he has." This at once reminds us of John 3:35, "The Father loves the Son and has given all things into His hand."
Genesis 24 never tells us this man's name. Commentators read that silence as fitting.
The one whose activities form the main part of the story is "the eldest servant" of Abraham's house. Fittingly, his name is not given. Is he not a picture of the Holy Spirit, who came not to speak of Himself, but to take the things of Christ and show them to us?
What he said next moved from the father's wealth to the son who now holds all of it.
Abraham's servant carried with him a very distinct testimony... He reveals the father and the son. Such was his testimony. He speaks of the vast resources of the father. The father gives all of them to the son, because he is "the only-begotten" — the one and only son — and the object of the father's love. With this testimony he seeks to get a bride for the son.
The news he brought was about someone, not something. And it touched one listener personally.
His first care, you see, is to unfold the news about this only son. He presents a distinct PERSON, enriched with all that the father's love could give. And the father had purposes for him. Those purposes deeply concerned one of the people who were hearing for the first time of this would-be bridegroom, Isaac.
Jesus' own words about the Spirit match this servant's method.
These words of Jesus agree closely with the testimony of Abraham's servant, and the agreement is instructive. He sought to attract the heart of Rebekah by telling of Isaac. In the same way, as we know, the Holy Spirit seeks to draw poor sinners by telling of Jesus. He draws them away from a world of sin and folly into the blessed and holy unity of the body of Christ. "He will take what is mine and declare it to you." The Spirit of God will never lead anyone to look at Himself or His work; but only and always at Christ. So the more truly spiritual anyone is, the more fully Christ will occupy him.
He is also an example to copy, marked out step by step through the chapter.
We can look at Abraham's servant as a picture and as an example... First, his master commissions him; he does not run before he is sent. Then his master equips him for the service he is called to: all the goods of his master were in his hand (v. 10). Next, he is guided only by his master's instructions; his own thoughts have no place or influence... He is fully devoted to carrying out his master's will. He will not eat until he has told his errand, and he will not stay once the Lord has prospered his way (vv. 33, 56). Finally, he glorifies his master and Isaac (vv. 34-36).
- Sent, not self-appointed. He does not run before he is sent, and he carries his master's goods, not his own.
- Nameless on purpose. He never gives his name. He speaks only of his master, like the Spirit who does not speak of Himself.
- Speaks of the Son. His whole message reveals the father's wealth and the son to whom the father has given all that he has.
- Draws by telling. He wins Rebekah's heart by describing Isaac; the Spirit draws hearts by telling of Jesus.
- Finishes the errand. The meal waits, and so does rest. He tells his message first, then leaves once the Lord has prospered his way.
And Jehovah has blessed my master greatly, and he is become great; and he has given him sheep and cattle, and silver and gold, and bondmen and bondwomen, and camels and asses.
The servant will not eat until he has said what he came to say. His first words are not about himself but about his master's wealth. Why does a man sent to find a wife begin by listing another man's property, and why does he trace all of it back to the LORD?
He introduces himself only as someone else's servant. One writer follows the order of his report: the master's greatness first, then the son.
The servant stayed in the background. He confesses, "I am Abraham's servant." In verse 37 he calls Abraham "my master." In verse 65 he says of Isaac, "It is my master." So both the father and the son were master to him, and his mission was to praise both. In verse 35 he speaks of the greatness and wealth of Abraham. In verse 36 he speaks of the son. Of the son he testifies that the father had given him "all that he has." This reminds us of John 3:35, "The Father loves the Son and has given all things into his hand."
The chapter never gives the man's own name. Commentators find a lesson in that silence.
Here is a striking lesson for those through whom the Spirit of God acts: the story never tells us the servant's name. He is content to speak only of his master.
The servant traces the wealth to the LORD, not to his master's skill. One writer links that "greatly" to Abraham's life of obedience and faith.
He set out on a pathway of obedience and faith. He failed more than once. But on the whole his pathway stood out as one of faith in the God who had called him, and of alertness to obey His word. On that pathway God blessed Abraham "in all things"; he was "greatly" blessed (Genesis 24:1-35). God honoured his home with visits and spoke to him. He knew God as his Shield and his very great Reward. God Himself even called him "a friend of God" (James 2:23).
The list of possessions is not boasting. It opens a marriage proposal, and its subject is a father and his only son.
Abraham's servant carried with him a very clear testimony… He reveals the father and the son. Such was his testimony. He speaks of the vast resources of the father. The father has given all of them to the son, because the son is his "only-begotten" and the object of his love. With this testimony he seeks to win a bride for the son.
Commentators read this servant — one writer calls him Eliezer — as a picture of the Holy Spirit, sent to gather a bride for Christ. The parallel lies in what he chose to talk about.
He does not work for Himself. As the Father sent His Son to be glorified by Him, so He sent His Holy Spirit to glorify His Son… The Spirit delights to own and proclaim the rights of the Son, just as Eliezer delighted in retelling the riches and honours of Abraham's son. He draws souls to God's Son. He tells them of His redemption work, of His infinite love, and of the riches they gain when they receive Him.
Rebekah heard about Isaac, not about herself. One writer draws from that both how the Spirit works and what marks a spiritual person.
He sought to attract the heart of Rebekah by telling her of Isaac. In the same way, as we know, the Holy Spirit seeks to draw poor sinners away from a world of sin and folly by telling them of Jesus… "He will take what is mine and declare it to you." The Spirit of God will never lead anyone to look at Himself or His work, but only and always at Christ. So the more spiritual anyone is, the more completely Christ will occupy him.
- Servant — He opens with "I am Abraham's servant." The chapter never gives his name. He speaks only of his master.
- Source — He credits the flocks, silver and gold to the LORD, not to Abraham's skill. God blessed Abraham "in all things" on a path of obedience and faith.
- Substance — The report reveals a father and a son. The father holds vast resources, and he has given all of them to the son he loves.
- Spirit — The errand still runs. The Spirit does not work for Himself. He proclaims the rights of the Son and tells of His love and of the riches those who receive Him gain.
- Sight — Rebekah heard about Isaac; she did not study herself. The Spirit never points anyone inward, only and always to Christ.
And Sarah, my master's wife, bore a son to my master after she had grown old; and unto him has he given all that he has.
Abraham's servant has refused to eat until he delivers his message. This verse is the heart of it: Sarah bore a son late in life, and everything Abraham owns now belongs to him. The servant is not just passing on family news. He is presenting a person to Rebekah.
The servant's words "when she was old" are not a small detail. They are the whole point of Isaac. One writer explains both the birth and what Sarah and Isaac picture:
Isaac is this child of promise. He was born to Sarah when she was 90 and Abraham 100. Their bodies were "as good as dead" (Rom. 4:19), and any natural hope of childbearing was long gone. But it was God who intervened in sovereign grace to fulfil His own word. Sarah is the free woman, closely joined to Abraham. Abraham pictures God the Father, and Sarah pictures the believing few in Israel who stood on grace. Christ came from them (pictured in Isaac) when all natural hope of blessing was gone. Isaac then is a beautiful picture of Christ, the promised Seed (Gal. 3:16). He came to earth, not because man kept the law successfully or anything like that, but because of God's unbreakable promise, fulfilled by grace alone.
Abraham fathered other children, so why does everything go to this one? The answer lies in two words — child and son:
Child speaks of the birth-tie between parent and child. Nothing can be closer than that. Son speaks of the position enjoyed before others: "no longer a slave, but a son" (Gal. 4:7)... Abraham had several children by his wife Keturah, as well as Isaac by Sarah. All of them could call him father; all were his children; but Isaac alone had the privilege and position of his son. He gave all that he had to Isaac (Gen. 25:5), who was known by all as his son. The inheritance was his, and his alone (Gen. 24:36). To be Abraham's offspring was one thing; to be his son was quite another.
Isaac received everything his father had. Another writer measures that gift against what the Father has given His Son:
The Father shows His confidence in His Son by giving all things into His hand. This also expresses that "The Father loves the Son" (John 3:35). Jesus was the true Isaac, the son who received all his father's possessions (Gen. 24:36). But the picture falls far short of the reality, for the Father had given the whole universe into the hands of the Son. He is the "appointed Heir of all things."
The order matters. The same pattern appears in Christ, who first gave up what was His:
He surrenders His possessions. He does not take His place of exaltation and power until He has completed obedience in death. Only then does the Father give all things into His hands — though it was already His by right before. (Genesis 24:36, 25:5; John 13:3; Phil. 2:10.) Only after the offering on the altar does the true Isaac take His bride and His inheritance in resurrection power.
Notice who is speaking. The servant spends his words on a son Rebekah has never met. Commentators see here a picture of the Holy Spirit's work:
Abraham's servant, seeking to secure a bride for Isaac, sets out all the dignity and wealth the father had given him. He tells of the love that rested on him. In short, he tells her everything likely to move her heart and draw it away from present things. He showed Rebekah someone far away... That was his testimony. And that is the testimony of the Holy Spirit too. He speaks of Christ, the glory of Christ, the beauty of Christ, the fullness of Christ, the grace of Christ, "the unsearchable riches of Christ."
Everything belongs to the son, so his bride gets no separate share of her own. She gains everything by gaining him:
Eve had no separate dowry which she brought to Adam, but in Adam she inherited all that was his. Rebekah brought no dowry to Isaac, but in Isaac she inherited all that Isaac had. Oh, the riches of God's grace, that you and I, dear fellow-believer, are to be together with Christ... as His companion, His bride, in His exalted position as Head over all, and centre of God's purposes and of this whole vast plan of blessing.
- Promise — Isaac arrives when childbearing was over. He comes from God's word alone, not from human strength.
- Son — others were Abraham's children. Only Isaac held the position of son, and the inheritance was his alone.
- All — "to him he has given all that he has" shadows a greater gift: the Father loves the Son and gives all things into His hand.
- Altar — the offering comes first. The true Isaac receives the inheritance and the bride in resurrection.
- Told — the servant says nothing of himself and everything of the son. The bride won by that report inherits all that is his.
And my master made me swear, saying, Thou shalt not take a wife for my son of the daughters of the Canaanite, in whose land I am dwelling;
The servant has reached the house of Rebekah's family, and before he will eat he repeats his master's sworn charge word for word. Commentators find in it both a plain rule about marriage and a picture of how God seeks a bride for His Son.
Rebekah plays no part in the arrangement that is about to change her life.
It is beautiful to observe that the call and exaltation of Rebekah rested on the oath between Abraham and his servant. She knew nothing of this, though she was, in the purpose of God, so entirely the subject of it all. It is exactly the same with the Church of God as a whole and with each part of it... The call, the justification, and the glory of the Church all rest on the eternal purpose of God. They rest on His word and oath, confirmed by the death, resurrection, and exaltation of the Son.
Abraham lived in the land of these people, yet he would not let his son marry one of them. The reason for the ban also marks the limits of what this chapter pictures.
The bride for Isaac must be suited for Isaac and so must not be taken from the daughters of the Canaanites (v. 3). They lay under judgment and so were completely unsuited to Isaac. This would show that the dealings with Rebekah are not exactly a picture of the grace of God bringing salvation to sinners. They picture instead the love of Christ appealing to saints. If the point were to show the grace of God that reaches the vilest sinners, then the servant's errand would surely have taken him to the daughters of the Canaanites — as in the Gospel story, where God takes up a Syrophoenician woman, a daughter of Canaan, to show His grace.
The rule has a positive side. The bride had to come from the bridegroom's own family, and the next generation shows the same pattern.
Rebekah, the bride of Isaac, and Leah, the bride of Jacob, both belonged to the same country and the same family as their husbands. In each case the charge was very definite: a daughter of Canaan must not be taken as wife (Gen. 24:3; Gen. 28:1). So too the bride of the Lamb must belong to His country and His family. She is not only heavenly in destiny, but heavenly in origin — the Jerusalem above is our mother (Gal. 4:26). And we are not of the world, even as He is not of the world. Hebrews 2:11 shows that we belong to His family.
The striking thing about his speech is what is missing from it.
There is a striking lesson here for everyone the Spirit of God works through: we are never told the servant's name. He is content to speak only of his master.
He speaks instead of a father's riches and of the only son who owns them all.
He reveals the father and the son. Such was his testimony. He speaks of the vast resources of the father, and of the son who has received all of it because he is "the only-begotten," and the object of the father's love. With this testimony he seeks to win a bride for the son.
Later generations crossed the line Abraham drew, and Scripture records the result.
Here we have Judah repeating the sin of Esau, whose marriages were a grief to his parents (Gen. 26:35). Judah had no regard for the ancient landmark set up by Abraham, who said, "you will not take a wife for my son from the daughters of the Canaanites" (Gen. 24:3)... Today, for the Christian, the principle is clear. The instruction in 2 Corinthians 6:14-15 is, "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers."
The errand came from the father and rested on an oath. Its outcome was never in doubt.
He is the oldest servant; he ruled over all Abraham had; he was with him from the beginning... He testified of the Father and the Son — how rich the father is, and that Isaac is the heir of all the riches. And so the Holy Spirit does not speak of Himself, but of the Father and of the Son, and He makes known the eternal purposes of the Father. As the servant's mission did not fail, so the mission of the Holy Spirit in the present age cannot fail.
- Oath first. Rebekah's future rested on an agreement made before she knew anything about it. The calling and glory of the Church rest the same way — on God's own word and oath.
- Origin matters. The Canaanites lay under judgment, so no daughter of theirs could suit Isaac. The bride had to share the bridegroom's country and family.
- Errand, not opinion. We are never told the servant's name. He quotes his master, and he speaks of a father's riches and the son who owns them all.
- Landmark ignored. Abraham's rule stood as a boundary marker. Esau and Judah crossed it, and the warning still stands: do not be unequally yoked.
- Commission secured. A mission given by the father and sealed by oath reached its goal — and the work it pictures cannot fail either.
but thou shalt by all means go to my father's house and to my family, and take a wife for my son.
Abraham's servant has reached Nahor's city, found Rebekah at the well, and come to her family's home. He will not eat until he has told his errand. Verse 38 is its heart: he repeats his master's charge word for word. Everything hangs on where the bride must come from, and whose son she is for.
The servant never gives his own name. He says only that he belongs to Abraham, then repeats what Abraham told him to do. One writer sees a much larger errand behind this one — and a lesson in the silence:
Here we have a picture of the mission of the Spirit: to find a bride for the risen Christ, the Father's heir, among the family of faith — Abraham's kindred. First comes the mission of the One who comes in the character of a servant. It is a striking lesson for those through whom the Spirit of God acts: the servant's name is not made known to us. He is content to speak only of his master.
The charge has two halves. The bride must not come from the people around Abraham. She must come from his own relatives. One writer explains why that mattered:
Then the servant is told that the bride for Isaac is not to be from the daughters of the Canaanites. Abraham says she is to be of "my kindred." The Canaanites were under the curse and appointed to judgment. There can be no link between Christ in the glory and a world under judgment. Isaac's bride was not to be a stranger but one who already belonged to Abraham's family. So the Church is formed not of unbelievers, nor of a mixture of believers and unbelievers, but wholly of the family of faith.
So who counts as Abraham's kindred? One writer points to a work only God can do:
A second point to notice in this verse is the suitability of the wife-to-be. A wife from the daughters of the Canaanites would not have been acceptable. Abraham states that she would have to be from "his kindred." … Only those in whom God has done a divine work, producing faith in Christ, can be part of the church. The Lord Jesus Himself said, "My mother and my brothers are those who hear the word of God and do it" (Luke 8:21). Through God's grace we have been made morally suitable, of "His kindred."
Notice also what comes first:
The servant goes out to find a bride suitable for Isaac; he does not find an unsuitable one and make her suitable. Rebekah is a figure of the bride of Christ. She is a fitting companion for Him as the result of the work of divine generation, which makes her kindred to Him.
Before he asks anything of Rebekah's family, the servant talks about his master's son. Only then does he come to verse 38:
His first care, you see, is to unfold the news about this only son. He sets out clearly a PERSON enriched with all that the father's love could give. And the father had purposes for this son that deeply concerned one of those who, for the first time, heard of this would-be bridegroom, Isaac.
The report does more than inform:
What, we may ask, must have been the effect on Rebekah of hearing this witness to Isaac? Did it simply increase her knowledge of Isaac? That was doubtless one result, but it surely did more, much more, for it awakened love to Isaac.
One writer follows the picture into the present day:
And whom does the servant foreshadow? He is the oldest servant; he ruled over all Abraham had; he was with him from the beginning. … The servant is the type of the Holy Spirit. He was sent out after Christ was glorified, and with the day of Pentecost He began His blessed mission on earth. … He testified of the Father and of the Son — how rich the father is, and that Isaac is the heir of all the riches. And so the Holy Spirit does not speak of Himself but of the Father and of the Son, and makes known the eternal purposes of the Father. The servant's mission did not fail, and in the same way the mission of the Holy Spirit in the present age cannot fail.
- Errand first. The servant will not eat until he has spoken. The message is not his own. His name stays hidden so his master's can be heard.
- Kindred, not Canaan. No bride from a people under judgment. She comes from the father's own household. So the church is the family of faith, not a mixture.
- Fitness before union. He looks for a bride already suited to Isaac. He does not make an unsuitable one fit. Kinship is God's work, and it comes first.
- A person, not a proposal. He tells them about a son who has everything his father can give. Hearing it does not just inform Rebekah; it awakens love.
- A mission that holds. Commentators see the servant as a picture of the Spirit, sent after Christ was glorified. He speaks of the Father and the Son, and His mission cannot fail.
And I said to my master, Perhaps the woman will not follow me?
The servant is far from home, in a stranger's house, repeating the one objection he had raised when Abraham first sent him. That objection was not about distance, danger or money, but about a will: the woman might say no.
Abraham had covered everything else. The servant names the one thing that could still stop the errand.
The God of heaven is far above all the small storms and frustrations that fill our little world. He does as He pleases. So the servant is sent out with one assurance: God's angel would direct him and lead him to the suitable wife for Isaac. The mission could fail in only one way: if the chosen woman was not willing to follow the servant to the waiting bridegroom.
When the servant first raised his "perhaps", he suggested an obvious remedy — take Isaac to her. Abraham shut that door twice over. One writer notes how unusual Isaac's position is in his own family.
Here we see the greatest stress laid on Isaac's staying in Canaan — and it is repeated once more. There only must he be found, and he alone of all the patriarchs. His father came out of Mesopotamia and for a time went down into Egypt. His son Jacob returned to Mesopotamia, then went down into Egypt and died there. But Isaac alone must never leave the land of Canaan, and never did. In this he is a striking picture of Christ after He died, rose and ascended. In that condition He becomes Head of the church, and the Bridegroom.
The oath binds the servant at both ends: where the bride may come from, and where the son must stay. One writer puts both rules together and names who does the work.
The servant must on no account take a wife for Isaac from the daughters of Canaan. He must look for her in the country and family that God had called Abraham out of. Angels are not called, whether fallen or unfallen: sovereign grace chooses from the world. But there is a second rule, pressed just as strongly: no one may bring the risen Son back to the world to call His bride. It is the Holy Spirit who accomplishes this work, not the Bridegroom. The Spirit is sent down from heaven to preach the gospel, and so to form the church. The risen Bridegroom stays in heaven, and nowhere else, while the call goes out.
Because the son stays where he is, the servant has one job only. One writer presses the same limit on the Spirit's work now, listing good things that are not the present errand.
He is not here to prosper the Christian in business, or to make us wealthy in this world, or to make the world a comfortable place for us. He is not here to remove the curse, or to hush creation's groan... He is not here to remove pain, and death, and sorrow, and tears. All this Christ will do in a day yet to come. Nor is He here to convert the world, as some think. He is here to bring to light a people who are suited to Christ, for the joy and satisfaction of His heart.
The verse records the servant's worry. One writer sets it beside the outcome.
To the question "Will you go with this man?" Rebekah replies without restraint or hesitation, "I will go." How touching this is! In verse 5 the servant had worried about whether the woman would be willing to return with him.
Her answer did not appear out of nowhere. The servant had passed his own longing on to her.
He longs to be away and reach Isaac, and he creates the same desires in the heart of Rebekah. He wills to go, and she is made willing to go... So her relatives call the young woman and ask her for her own answer. They discover how well the servant had done his work. His mind had been formed in her mind, so that if he was longing to go, she was ready to go.
- Sent. The servant travels with an angel's guidance and all his master's resources. Only one thing stays uncertain.
- Risk. That one point is a will — the errand fails only if the woman refuses to follow.
- Refused. The obvious fix is refused: the son does not travel. Isaac alone of his family never leaves Canaan. He pictures Christ risen and ascended.
- Narrowed. The servant's whole task is to bring home one bride. In the same way, the Spirit is here to bring to light a people suited to Christ, not to make the world comfortable.
- Answered. The "perhaps" ends in "I will go." The servant's own longing became hers, and the fear proved groundless.
And he said to me, Jehovah, before whom I have walked, will send his angel with thee, and prosper thy way, that thou mayest take a wife for my son of my family, and out of my father's house.
Abraham's servant is repeating his master's words in the house of Rebekah's family. He must explain why a stranger has come asking for their daughter, and his case rests on what Abraham said about God going before him.
Abraham names God as the One he has walked before. One writer traces that walk back to obedience rather than to Abraham's own will.
This is how Abraham, the friend of God, walked. Not after his own will — he believed in the Lord, and He "counted it to him as righteousness." He obeyed the voice of the Lord... Whenever he followed his own will it was only to go astray.
Abraham promises an angel, but the servant still has to find the woman and speak to her. Those are two different kinds of help.
By God's providence the angel would clear the way ahead of the servant. But the servant himself had to deal with the bride: "you shall take a wife for my son." Both the servant and the angel were wholly taken up with securing a bride for Isaac... we see the same difference between the providential work of angels and the personal work of the Spirit. The angel of the Lord guides Philip on his way to the desert of Gaza. The Spirit guides Philip in his personal dealing with the Ethiopian official (Acts 8:26, 29).
The servant in this story is called Eliezer. The promise covers the timing of his trip, not just its outcome.
If Eliezer's journey pictures the work of the Holy Spirit, there was a providential work going on at the same time. God would send His angel before the man to prepare the way, and when God prepares the way all goes well; everything happens at the right moment. We may notice, in all times, an outward and providential work that accompanies the inward action of the Holy Spirit.
A promise of success did not make the servant passive.
Abraham's servant gives us a lovely example in Genesis 24. He went abroad in the spirit of prayer to seek a wife for his master's son. Having found the right person, he bowed his head and worshipped the Lord, saying, "As for me, the LORD has led me in the way."
The promise comes with a limit, and the limit matters as much as the promise.
Abraham made his servant swear by the God of heaven and earth. He was not to take a wife for Isaac from the Canaanites, but from Abraham's own family. The bride of Christ, the Church, is not from the ungodly, Satan-energized world, but from the family of faith. On the other hand, Abraham tells the servant not to think of taking Isaac back to Mesopotamia. Instead he must bring the bride to Isaac.
The man Abraham sends is the servant who runs his whole household. One writer sees in him a picture of the Holy Spirit's work now.
So Abraham employs his trusted servant, the one "who had charge of all that he had." He is a fitting picture of the place of service that the Holy Spirit is pleased to take now, carrying out God's purpose for the church in this world... The risen Bridegroom stays exclusively in heaven while the call goes out.
His message in the house has only two subjects, and neither of them is himself.
He reveals the father and the son. Such was his testimony. He speaks of the father's vast wealth, and of the son receiving all of it because he is "the only-begotten" and the object of the father's love. With this testimony he seeks to win a bride for the son.
- Walk — Abraham names God as the One before whom he has lived. His assurance about the journey grows out of a life of obedience, not out of his own planning.
- Sent — Because Abraham walked that way, he can promise an angel sent ahead. God prepares the road before the servant sets out. Everything then arrives at the right moment.
- Prospered — The servant turns the promise into prayer, and turns the answer into worship. He asks God to guide him, then thanks God for guiding him.
- Sought — The bride must come from the family of faith, never from Canaan. The son does not go to her; the servant brings her to him.
- Told — The servant's message is not about himself. He tells of a father's wealth and a son who owns it all, and that testimony wins the bride.
Then shalt thou be quit of my oath, when thou shalt have come to my family. And if they give thee not [one], thou shalt be quit of my oath.
Abraham's servant has reached Rebekah's family. He repeats the charge his master gave him, word for word. It includes the clause that frees him if the family says no. That one clause shapes the whole errand: the bride is to be asked, never forced.
In a stranger's house, the servant does not argue or press. The family's answer would decide the errand, so he tells what happened and leaves the result with God.
This absorption in his master's glory makes him refuse to eat until he has done his errand. This is doing God's will. He tells Laban what happened, and how God had guided him. He uses no argument. He does not say it would be wise to act in this way or that. In simplicity he commits the outcome of the matter to God. Laban and Bethuel then answered that the thing came from the LORD. If we reasoned less, and were simpler and more obedient, and told things as the Holy Spirit tells them to us, the result would be better.
What filled his speech was not himself. He held up someone Rebekah had never seen.
Abraham's servant went to get a bride for Isaac. He set out all the dignity and wealth the father had given the son. He spoke of the father's love for the son. In short, he set out everything likely to affect the heart and draw it away from present things. He pointed Rebekah to someone far away. He set before her the blessedness and reality of becoming one with that dearly loved and highly favoured person.
The release clause is not a loophole for a lazy servant. The bride's own willingness was the point.
The willingness of the woman to travel to Isaac's country was a vital matter. If she was not willing, the oath no longer held the servant. What a lesson concerning the Church of God! No demand of law rests on her. Only the pure grace of God is to move her. That grace produces a willing response of devotion — a devotion ready to leave natural ties behind for a living relationship with the Lord Jesus in heavenly places.
The servant feared she might refuse. That fear raises a question for every reader.
"Perhaps the woman will not be willing to follow me!" So says the servant, just before he starts his all-important mission. My reader, is this your case? I have no doubt it is the case of thousands of people who will be in heaven. I do not say they are not converted. Their conversion is not the question. But they will not "go with" the ministry and leading of the Holy Spirit. They will not let the home of Mesopotamia and its attractions give way to the desert sands and untrodden paths. Those paths are known only to the Spirit of God, the stranger bound for Canaan.
The release only starts once the servant reaches the right family. Where he looked mattered as much as whether they said yes.
Abraham then tells the servant that the bride for Isaac must not come from the daughters of the Canaanites. She is to come from his own family. The Canaanites were under the curse and appointed to judgment. There can be no link between Christ in the glory and a world under judgment. Isaac's bride was not to be a stranger. She already belonged to Abraham's family. So the Church consists wholly of the family of faith. It does not consist of unbelievers, or of a mixture of believers and unbelievers.
The clause allowed for refusal. Yet the servant's errand did not fail.
He testified of the Father and the Son: how rich the father is, and that Isaac is the heir of all the riches. And so the Holy Spirit does not speak of Himself, but of the Father and of the Son. He makes known the eternal purposes of the Father. The servant's mission did not fail, and so the mission of the Holy Spirit in this age cannot fail.
- Sent. The servant carries a charge from the father. He tells the errand without argument and leaves the outcome with God.
- Told. His message is not about himself. He speaks of the father's wealth and of the son who is heir to it all — someone far off, held up to draw the heart.
- Free. The oath releases him if they refuse, because the bride must be willing; grace asks, it never compels.
- Kindred. The oath frees him only at the right family. The bride comes from the household of faith, never from a world under judgment.
- Certain. The oath allowed for refusal, yet none came. So the Spirit's mission in this age cannot fail.
And I came this day to the well, and said, Jehovah, God of my master Abraham, if now thou wilt prosper my way on which I go,
Abraham's servant stands in a stranger's house with his food untouched, retelling the day he reached the spring. At the heart of his report is a prayer, and it raises one question: what kind of praying gets an answer like this?
The servant repeats his prayer only because he refused to eat until he had told his story.
He came into the house, unharnessed the camels, and had straw and feed brought for them. They also brought water to wash his feet and the feet of those with him. But when food was set before him, he refused to eat until he told his story. This is not at all the usual way, especially in the East, and after such a long journey. His errand is all-absorbing. He would not allow his own comfort, or the customs of men, to come first or make way for what he had at heart. He was there for his master's sake. Word and oath bound him, as well as honour and love for his master's son.
His prayer hangs on a condition: if God is prospering his way. He leaves the outcome to God instead of steering it, and one writer notices a small detail at the well:
He clearly had no container to draw water with himself. Or he chose not to draw it himself, so that he could depend fully on God's guidance.
He was not seeking his own will, and that is why he could ask for something exact and expect it.
What sustains in prayer like singleness of eye? If it is our own will we are seeking, what confidence can we have? Here we find prayer that God answers to the letter. If Christ's interests are ours, how fully may we count on God glorifying His beloved Son! "Let her be the one whom You have appointed for Your servant Isaac." How blessed to be working towards an already predestined end!
He prays as "the God of my master Abraham" and introduces himself only as Abraham's servant. Writers see in this the pattern of a servant who disappears behind the one who sent him.
This pictures the mission of the Spirit: to find a bride for the risen Christ, the Father's heir, among the family of faith (Abraham's relatives). The story runs so long that it shows how much God's heart is taken up with it. It starts with the mission of the One who comes as a servant. We are never told the servant's name. He is content to speak only of his master. That is a striking lesson for everyone the Spirit of God works through.
That reading turns the servant's speech into a test we can apply to ourselves.
After a very short introduction he comes to the heart of the matter: Abraham's son, the heir of all things. "To him he has given all that he has" (v.36). Are you looking for evidence of the Spirit's working? Then look for hearts taken up with Christ.
In his retelling he adds that Rebekah appeared before he had finished speaking in his heart.
He did not have long to wait. "Before he had finished speaking," the young woman comes. He had asked freely; he had dared to be bold and detailed in what he asked. But this counting on God Himself is most pleasing to Him, even if unbelief calls it presumption. This was prayer of rare simplicity, of striking fitness, of complete confidence. The answer came at once. It pointed forward to the day when righteousness will reign, and the Lord will hear while His people are still speaking.
The servant prayed in his heart, and writers hold that up as a model. One writer asks the same about the prophet Elijah, sent to find one widow with no address given.
Did he speak to God in silent prayer, as Nehemiah did? (Neh. 2:4). This is a holy habit that we should all cultivate at every stage of our journey through the wilderness. (You will find a beautiful example of this in Gen. 24:42-48.)
- Errand first. He would not eat until he had spoken. His master's errand outranked his own hunger and the manners of the house.
- Prayer next. He asked God to prosper his way. He kept no way of forcing the result, so the guidance would be God's and not his own.
- A single eye. Prayer answered to the letter belongs to the one who is seeking his master's interests, not his own will.
- A nameless servant. He speaks only of his master and his master's son. Commentators call that the mark of the Spirit's own work: hearts taken up with Christ.
- A quick reply. The answer came before he finished speaking in his heart. Writers set that silent prayer before us as a habit for every stage of the journey.
behold, I stand by the well of water, and let it come to pass that the damsel who cometh forth to draw [water], and to whom I shall say, Give me, I pray thee, a little water out of thy pitcher to drink,
In this verse Abraham's servant is not at the well but standing in Rebekah's family home, repeating the prayer he had prayed there earlier that day. Why does Scripture give the same prayer twice, and what was the sign he asked for meant to prove?
The servant goes over the whole errand again in front of the bride's family. One writer sees the father's purpose for his son shining out in that retelling.
How striking is the way all the interest gathers on the trusty servant, and how taken up he is with caring for the father and the son! Here the whole ground is covered again in front of the bride's family. It brings out the father's purpose for the son as nowhere else in this book, or anywhere else of old. And it shows a devotion in the one sent to carry it out that is marked and exclusive.
What he repeats is a prayer. He asked nothing for himself; every part of it served his master's purpose.
Does this case not vividly show what it means to pray "in the Holy Spirit"? This is prayer that is not merely for this or that. It runs with what is for the Son's glory, and with what the Father purposes to give.
He asked for a small thing: a drink of water from a jar. The answer he watched for would mark out the one already appointed.
We see that the unmistakable sign of the appointed bride will be that she is marked by grace. From the words of the prayer it is clear that the servant was not sent to select a bride for Isaac from the daughters of men, but to find the appointed bride, and that grace would be her characteristic mark.
The size of what he asked her to offer is easy to miss.
This would be no small task, for camels drink a great deal of water. No ordinary young lady would be willing to take on a job like this without any promise of payment. But no ordinary young lady was to be satisfactory for Isaac, just as today a Christian man should make sure that his intended wife is a willing-hearted believer.
The word translated "virgin" here is the same word used where a woman's son is promised as a sign — and there its meaning was disputed. One commentator weighs how the early Greek translations handled both places.
In that passage the context requires the sense of virgin with the utmost precision. There is no sign or wonder in a young married woman bearing a son. So the Septuagint — a version made before the dispute arose — rightly gives "the virgin" there, as it does in Genesis 24:43, while Aquila and Symmachus chose "young woman". But it is plain that even "young woman" cannot get rid of the truth intended in the context.
Commentators differ on what the well pictures. One takes the water as a figure of truth, and Rebekah's generous answer as the proof the servant looked for.
This unknown servant, a figure of the Holy Spirit, finds Rebekah by the well of water. The well is a constant figure of truth as a living reality for the soul. In keeping with this, and acting in the spirit of grace, Rebekah goes far beyond the servant's request. She gives him and his camels the refreshment they need with a lavish hand that holds nothing back. This is what showed the servant that she was the one suitable to be Isaac's bride, and worthy to be adorned with the ring and bracelets.
Another takes the well as a picture of the Spirit and of the word He uses. Notice when the gift is given:
Rebekah is met at the well, a fresh picture of the Spirit and of the word which He uses. There, at that first meeting, she receives the gift — a foretaste of everything she will receive later.
Notice where the servant's speech goes. He says little about himself and spends his words on his master's son.
After a very brief introduction he comes to the heart of the matter: Abraham's son, the heir of all things. "To him he has given all that he has." Are you looking for evidence of the Spirit's working? Then the thing to look for is hearts taken up with Christ.
- Sent. The servant speaks for someone else. His whole interest is his master's purpose for the son, and his prayer at the spring runs along that line.
- Sign. He asks for a token he could not arrange himself: a drink offered, then water drawn for ten camels unasked. Grace — giving beyond what was asked — was to mark the appointed bride.
- Sought. He was not choosing a wife. He was finding the one already appointed, so the sign identified her and did not select her.
- Said again. This verse is that prayer said aloud again in the family's hearing. The whole errand is covered a second time, so the people who must let Rebekah go hear it all.
- Son. Strip the speech down and little remains but the heir who has everything. Hearts taken up with Christ are the evidence that the same work goes on now.
and she shall say to me, Both drink thou, and I will also draw for thy camels -- that she should be the woman whom Jehovah hath appointed for my master's son.
The servant has reached Rebekah's household. He will not eat until he has told his story. He repeats out loud the exact prayer he prayed at the well. Verse 44 is the heart of it: the young woman who offers water for the camels too is the one God has picked out for Isaac.
The wording matters. The servant does not ask God to help him choose well; he asks God to point out someone already chosen. The whole prayer turns on that difference.
His prayer shows that one aim fills his whole mind. He does not pray for himself; and though he mentions "the daughters of the men of the city," he does not pray for them. He prays that God will lead him to the one appointed for Isaac. Note that the servant is not there to pick a bride from the daughters of the men of the city and then make her fit for Isaac. He is there to find the one appointed for Isaac. And the sign that she is the appointed one will be that grace marks her… He will ask her to let him drink from her pitcher. If she not only says yes but offers to do more than he asks, that is the sign that the grace of God marks her. It shows there is a work of God in her, and that she is therefore of Isaac's kindred. For grace goes beyond our requests.
Abraham's one binding condition was family: the bride had to come from his own people. How he found that likeness is the striking part.
This is about fitness for the Bridegroom. It is not salvation, but fitness. The picture makes it plain. Abraham's steward had sworn to only one thing: kindred. You must be of His kindred. The flesh is not of Christ's kindred. It is very beautiful to see how he found out her kindred. How did he find it out? He asked the Lord that he might find her by her grace — the steward finds out her kindred by her grace. Many would have said, "I shall be very happy to give you a drink of water." But she says, "I will draw for your camels also." It was grace.
Notice what the servant did not come to do. His narrow errand is a picture of something larger.
He had only one thing before him. He had not come to make Bethuel's house rich, or to improve conditions in Mesopotamia. He came to take a bride for Isaac out of both. Here we see a striking type of the Holy Spirit and His mission. That mission is not to improve world conditions, but to take out of the Gentiles "a people for His Name" (Acts 15:14).
Rebekah was standing there while the servant repeated the sign. She had said those very words at the well hours earlier. She could match herself against the description without guessing.
How did Rebekah know she was the one Eliezer wanted for Isaac? She could have no doubt about it. She stood by as the servant (see verses 42-52) explained to Laban how he had prayed. He had asked the Lord to let him meet the "appointed" one at the well, and to know her by this sign: when he asked water for himself alone, she would not only say yes but offer water for the camels too. Now Rebekah knew that she matched the person he wanted, word for word. She had said and done just that. So she must be the one the servant was looking for.
Nothing here happens by chance, and nothing happens by force. God's choice and God's ordering of everyday events run on one track.
He was the father's servant, devoted to the son's honour. And God, in His covenant name, was before his heart from first to last… If election ruled in this way, God's merciful providence would control hearts and circumstances, as was clear throughout. This stirred up prayer, and the answer came at once. The young woman he wanted came before he had finished speaking in his heart. She met every test with the grace that belonged to her. She convinced him that she was none other than the woman whom Jehovah had appointed for his master's son.
- Appointed — The servant asks God to lead him to the woman already appointed, not to pick someone and then make her fit.
- Grace — The sign is grace: she offers more than the servant asked, which is how grace always behaves.
- Kindred — Family likeness was the one thing the servant had to find, and her grace revealed it.
- Errand — He tells this before he eats, because his single aim is not to make the household rich but to take a bride out of it.
- Assurance — Rebekah hears the sign repeated, knows her own words, and has no doubt that she is the one.
Before I ended speaking in my heart, behold, Rebecca came forth with her pitcher on her shoulder, and went down to the well, and drew [water]; and I said to her, Give me, I pray thee, to drink.
Abraham's servant is now in Rebekah's family home. He goes back over what happened at the spring and tells the story again to her family. Two details stand out — his prayer had been silent, made "in my heart," and the answer arrived before he had finished it.
The servant had asked God for a sign without saying a word out loud. One writer compares this to Nehemiah's silent prayer and calls it a habit to build.
Did he speak to God in silent prayer as Nehemiah did? (Neh. 2:4). This is a holy habit that we should all cultivate at every stage of our wilderness journey. (You will find a beautiful example of this godly practice in Gen. 24:42-48).
Another writer describes what that can feel like.
How often a person has felt deeply in his soul that God has heard his prayer, though he has not spoken a word, or even half a word. All at once he feels that the Lord has come in to answer.
The servant had asked for a very specific sign. One writer says that kind of bold trust pleases God rather than offending Him.
"Before he had finished speaking," the young woman comes. He had asked freely, and he had dared to set out in detail what he wanted. But God is most pleased when a man counts on Him like this, even if unbelief dares to call it presumptuous. It was prayer of rare simplicity, of striking fitness, of complete confidence. The answer came at once, and it pointed on to the day when righteousness will reign, and the Lord will hear while His people are still speaking.
The answer was not only fast. It matched every part of what he had asked for.
The answer came before he had finished speaking. Rebekah arrived and acted with all the grace he had specified... The answer was complete as well as immediate. She was of the right family and there was room in her father's house.
Chapter 24 tells the scene at the spring twice: once as it happened, and now again in the servant's own words. One writer notes where the second telling puts the attention.
Again, how striking is the way all the interest gathers on the trusty servant, and how taken up he is with caring for the father and the son! The whole ground is covered again before the bride's family. It brings out the father's purpose for his son as nowhere else in this book, or anywhere else in the old days. And the devotion of the man sent to carry it out is marked and undivided!
Rebekah herself was standing there, listening to all of this.
How did Rebekah know she was the one Eliezer wanted for Isaac? She could have no doubt about it. She stood by as the servant explained to Laban how he had prayed (see vv. 42-52). He had asked the Lord to let him meet the "appointed" one at the well, and to know her by this sign: when he asked for water for himself alone, she would not only give him a drink but would offer water for the camels too. Now Rebekah knew that she matched this in every point. She had said and done just that, to the letter, so she must be the one the servant was looking for.
Some writers read the servant as a picture of the Holy Spirit. On that reading, his delight in retelling the son's riches is part of the picture.
He does not work for Himself. As the Father sent His Son to be glorified by Him, so did He send His Holy Spirit to glorify His Son... it is the Spirit's delight to own and proclaim the rights of the Son, as Eliezer found his delight in retelling the riches and dignities of Abraham's son.
Commentators who take the chapter as a picture also warn against squeezing meaning out of every small detail.
We do not have the very image of the reality behind the type, only its shadow. Now a shadow gives us very little in the way of detail... Once we accept this limit in the types, we will not strain to force meanings into small details of the person or incident that forms the type. That effort so often ends in what is fanciful and imaginary.
- Heart — The servant prayed in silence, and one writer holds that habit up as one to build at every stage of the journey.
- Speed — Rebekah appeared before he had finished asking, and the answer was complete as well as immediate.
- Retelling — The servant covers the whole ground a second time before the bride's family, and the interest falls on him, his master and his master's son.
- Recognition — Rebekah listened, matched the sign to what she had done, and knew the servant was looking for her.
- Restraint — Read the chapter as a shadow, not a full picture. Forcing every detail ends in imagination, not truth.
And she hasted and let down her pitcher from her [shoulder], and said, Drink, and I will give thy camels drink also. And I drank; and she gave the camels drink also.
Abraham's servant sits in Bethuel's house with food in front of him, telling Rebekah's family what had just happened at the well. He repeats how he asked for a drink and how she watered his camels too — the exact sign he had asked God for.
The story is told a second time. One writer sees in this chapter a fullness found nowhere else in Scripture:
How striking it is that all the interest converges on the trusted servant, and that he is absorbed in caring for the father and the son! He goes over the whole ground again in front of the bride's family. This brings out the father's purpose for his son as nowhere else in this book, or anywhere else in ancient times. And it shows in the man sent to carry it out a devotion that is unmistakable and undivided! Where else in God's Word is there a picture that comes near to that personal presence and action of the Holy Spirit which marks the church?
Before Rebekah appeared, the servant had prayed for one exact response. He was watching for someone who would do more than he asked:
He will ask her to let him drink from her jar. If she not only gives him the drink, but offers more than he asks, that is the sign. She is marked by the grace of God. There is a work of God in her, and so she belongs to Isaac's family. For grace goes beyond what we ask (Matthew 5:38-42).
The same writer points out what the servant's job actually was:
These words make it clear that the servant was not sent to pick out a bride for Isaac from the daughters of men. He was sent to find the bride already appointed (v. 14).
Her offer sounds small. The work behind it was not:
She is not only willing to give Abraham's servant a drink. She also freely provides for his camels, without negotiating conditions or asking a price. That must have been hard work, given how much these animals can drink after a long journey. This is another sign that the church is marked by grace. Rebecca shows the same thing later, when the servant asks for room and she offers "plenty of both straw and fodder, and room to spare" for the night (v. 25).
The servant would not eat until he had told his story. One writer turns that into a rule for anyone who knows God's will:
Eliezer is taken up with this errand, so he does not accept the food offered to him. He does what he has to do. Here is one secret of the Christian's life. As soon as he knows God's will, he does his work and gives himself to it. He lets nothing delay it, not even the needs of his body. This is the effect and the sign of the Holy Spirit's work.
In Mesopotamia, the country he had travelled to, his report keeps one name in view and another out of view:
Eliezer shows the true marks of an evangelist. He always keeps the father's object in view. He is not there to improve Mesopotamia, but to bring away the bride, and to speak not of himself but of Isaac.
The retelling was not decoration. It produced a verdict from the family:
The servant had told them how great his master was — both father and son. Then he told them how God had opened and ordered his way. This was evidence that "the thing has come from the LORD," as both Laban and Bethuel recognized. So they agreed to let Rebekah go, and they left the final word to her, though they pleaded for delay.
One writer finds in the shape of that report a test anyone can apply:
The servant's report shows exactly how the Spirit works. After a very short introduction he comes to the heart of the matter: Abraham's son, the heir of all things — "to him he has given all that he has" (v. 36). Are you looking for evidence of the Spirit's working? Then the thing to look for is that hearts are being occupied with Christ.
- Prayer — The servant asked God for one exact answer at the well. The story he now retells is that prayer granted, point for point.
- Sign — The mark he watched for was simple: someone who gave more than he asked. Grace goes beyond what we ask.
- Appointed — He did not pick out a bride of his own choosing. He came to find the one already appointed, and grace was the evidence.
- Errand — He would not eat until he had told his errand. He spoke not of himself, but of the son to whom the father had given everything.
- Consent — The retold story did its work. The family saw that the whole thing had come from the LORD, and they let Rebekah go.
And I asked her, and said, Whose daughter art thou? And she said, The daughter of Bethuel, Nahor's son, whom Milcah bore to him. And I put the ring on her nose, and the bracelets on her hands.
The servant is now in Bethuel's house, retelling the whole story to Rebekah's family. Here he reaches the question he asked at the well, and the gifts he gave once she answered. Why does Scripture make us hear the same events twice, and what do a ring and two bracelets have to do with us?
The servant's own retelling fills much of Genesis 24. One writer sees design in that repetition.
How striking is the fullness of interest that gathers on the trusted servant, and his absorption in caring for the father and the son! The story goes over the whole ground again before the bride's family. It brings out the father's purpose for the son as nowhere else in this book, or anywhere else of old. And it brings out devotion that is most marked and exclusive in the man who was sent to carry that purpose out! Where else in God's Word is there a picture this close to the personal presence and action of the Holy Spirit, which marks out the church?
Commentators read this chapter as a picture. Each person in it stands for someone in God's purpose.
Isaac was the beloved son of his father. In chapter 22 he passed through death in picture. He foreshadowed Christ, the risen heavenly Man. Abraham set out to secure a suitable wife for his son. That told out the Father's purpose that Christ also should have a wife, made suitable to Himself in every way. The nameless servant travelled far to carry out his master's will and bring Rebekah to his master's son. He set forth the mission of the Holy Spirit, who is now in the world, gathering out of it the bride of the Lamb.
Rebekah's kindness at the well was striking, but the servant still asked about her family. She names her father Bethuel, her grandfather Nahor, and her grandmother Milcah. He is listening for one thing — whether that family is Abraham's own.
What Rebekah said fit fully and clearly inside what Abraham required in the bride he sought for his son Isaac. No doubt her character shone out even in this brief meeting. It showed in love and humility, in genuine respect and quick service — a fitting daughter-in-law for Abraham, a pure and gentle wife for Isaac. Yet this was not everything the servant sought. He was true to the son's interests and to the words laid down by the father. "Whose daughter are you?" Was she of Abraham's kindred? Her answer was exactly what he sought.
Only after her answer does he put the jewellery on her. Older translations call the first ornament an earring, where the ESV has a ring on her nose. Either way, the gold sits where everyone can see it.
Some have suggested that the first gifts in verse 22 stand for the redemption we receive in Christ (Eph. 1:7), while those in verse 53 illustrate that Christ has given gifts to men (Eph. 4:8)... But those first gifts — the earring and bracelets — clearly marked Rebekah out and set her apart from all others. As has been said: "The hand and face bear witness to the work of grace."
The servant gave the gold long before Rebekah ever saw Isaac. That timing carries its own meaning.
The final decision had not yet come, but it was certain to come. So the servant gave Rebekah gifts. They were a foretaste of the wealth she was going to inherit as Isaac's wife... All this was also a seal on her betrothal to Isaac. So we may see here a picture of the Holy Spirit as both Seal and Pledge. The Seal secures us for the divine calling and purpose. The Pledge guarantees the inheritance that will yet be ours in full in the coming age.
The gifts are more than decoration. Another writer draws out what the ear and the hand mean.
These were the bridegroom's love gifts. It is good to think of our blessings in that way. But the earring and the bracelets have a further meaning. They remind us that our Bridegroom has secured our ears and our hands for Himself. He has our ears, so that He may pour into them the story of His love. He has our hands, so that we may prove our grateful love to Him by being diligent in His interests.
- Sent. The servant crosses the desert on an errand that is not his own. He pictures the Spirit, sent into the world to gather a bride for the risen Son.
- Asked. "Whose daughter are you?" tests family, not charm. The bride must belong to the father's kindred before anything else follows.
- Adorned. Gold follows her answer: gifts that mark her out from everyone else and seal her as promised to a man she has not yet seen.
- Pledged. The jewellery is a foretaste, given in advance — a guarantee of an inheritance still to be entered.
- Claimed. The gold rests on face and hand. He claims our hearing for the story of His love, and our hands for His interests.
And I stooped, and bowed down before Jehovah; and I blessed Jehovah, God of my master Abraham, who has led me the right way to take my master's brother's daughter for his son.
In Bethuel's house, Abraham's servant retells his errand to Rebekah's family. The moment he picks out is not his own success. It is the moment he bowed down in worship at the well. His report raises two questions the chapter keeps circling. How does a person know that God is leading him? And what does the God of another man's covenant have to do with the one praying?
God answers the servant's prayer, and his first move is toward God Himself. One writer states it as a rule for anyone who walks with God.
Someone has rightly said that God is always the first thought of a person who walks with God. It was so long ago with the servant of Abraham. He had known God's clear guidance, and his first act was to worship the LORD.
What makes this verse different from the earlier account is that the servant now repeats the scene to an audience. The repetition is itself a signal.
Once he had heard Rebecca's answer, there was no doubt. God had indeed sent His angel to prepare the way and to lead Eliezer in the right way. His response is worship, at once. Scripture mentions this act of worship again in verse 48, so it was one of the important things that had happened.
The servant does not claim he found the way. He says God led him in it. Commentators tie that to where he stood when the leading came — inside the errand his master gave him.
It reminds us of Abraham's servant. Obedience placed him in the way, and then he says, "I being in the way, the Lord led me to the house of my master's brothers." He was in the way — the path of obedience. The Lord could come into that path too and lead him on in it. No other path can He approve by His presence.
(That quotation uses an older translation. It means the servant was on the road God had appointed.)
In this verse the servant names God as his master's God, never as his own. Commentators differ here. One sees humility — a man who refuses to claim ground God had not given him.
Eliezer says, "O Lord God of my master Abraham." He does not say "my God." God had made the promises to Abraham, and He had revealed Himself as the God of Abraham. Here the servant shows himself in complete dependence. We find him in the path of promise. He does not lift himself up. He acts according to the counsels of God in complete dependence, and he claims nothing except where God had placed the blessing.
Another treats the same wording as the point where the picture breaks down.
The way he addresses God shows that his knowledge of God was second-hand. He knew Him as Abraham's God, not as his own. In this he falls short as a type.
The servant names Rebekah as the daughter of his master's kinsman. That was no lucky meeting on the road. He is pointing to a choice made before he set out.
If election ruled in this way, then God's mercy in providence would control hearts and circumstances — and that is what we see all through. This stirred up prayer, and the answer came at once. The young woman he was looking for came before he finished speaking in his heart. She met every test with the grace that suited her, and so convinced him that she was none other than the woman Jehovah had appointed for his master's son.
Readers have long taken this chapter on two levels at once. It is a picture of something later, and a working model of service.
We can look at Abraham's servant as a type and as an example. As a type, he clearly sets out the work of the Holy Spirit. The Spirit came into this world after the death and resurrection of Christ, to gather out a bride for Christ and to bring her across the wilderness to the true Isaac. As an example, he shows what should always mark a servant of God… Only his master's instructions guide him; his own thoughts have no place or influence. And he acknowledges the Lord's guidance and intervention at every step.
Verse 48 is that acknowledgement. Rebekah's family asks him to explain himself, and his answer records God's leading, not his own skill.
- Obedience first. God led the servant because he was already on the road his master sent him down. Guidance meets a person inside the path of obedience, not outside it.
- Worship next. The answer to his prayer turned him at once to God. The first thought of someone walking with God is God Himself.
- Dependence throughout. He calls God "the God of my master Abraham," claiming nothing except where God had placed the blessing. Commentators differ on whether this shows humility or a limited, second-hand knowledge of God.
- Election behind it. The right way led to the appointed woman; prayer and providence were moving toward a choice already made.
- Testimony last. Asked to explain his errand, he retells the worship. His record is of God's leading, not his own success.
And now, if ye will deal kindly and truly with my master, tell me; and if not, tell me; and I will turn to the right hand or to the left.
Abraham's servant has just told Rebekah's family the whole story of his mission: the oath, the prayer at the well, and the answer God gave him there. Now he stops and asks for their decision. He wants a straight answer, yes or no.
The servant asks the family to show "steadfast love and faithfulness" to his master — older translations read "deal kindly and truly." He wants the answer now, and the way the family gives it shows what marriage should be:
The servant asks the fitting question of whether they "will deal kindly and truly" with his master. He wants an immediate answer, because if not, he would go elsewhere. It is good that Laban and Bethuel saw that the Lord had ordered this whole matter (v. 50). They realise they must not interfere with the Lord's working. They are willing to give Rebekah up without question. Later Laban was ready to bargain with Jacob, when Jacob wanted Laban's daughter. In Rebekah's case there is no suggestion of any such legal agreement. What we see instead is a true picture of the proper character of marriage. For marriage is a relationship of grace. "He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor (grace) from the LORD" (Prov. 18:22). To pay for a wife is therefore an insult to her and contrary to God's word.
This demand for an answer fits everything the servant has done since he arrived. He will not settle in, and nothing turns him aside. Commentators call him Eliezer, and one of them traces where that single-mindedness comes from:
We may notice how Eliezer acts with the decision that comes from a single eye. We do not only have prayer in the Spirit and worship. There is also a walk wholly devoted to the will and word of his master, who sent him on this mission for his son. On this he is exclusively set. It was quite outside the world and its objects. Eliezer will not turn aside from his errand. He lets no need of the body stop it from being the first thing before him. Every other claim must bend to it.
He has laid out the facts and asked his question. He adds nothing to persuade them. One writer draws a lesson from that:
This focus on his master's glory makes him refuse to take any food until his errand is done. This is doing God's will. He tells Laban about the matter, and how God had guided him. He uses no argument. He does not say it would be wise to act in one way or another. He simply leaves the outcome of the affair with God. "Then Laban and Bethuel answered and said, 'The thing has come from the LORD.'" We spend our time reasoning. If instead we were more simple and obedient, and presented things as the Holy Spirit tells them to us, the result would be better. But we often substitute our human wisdom for the commands of God. Often the things said most simply produce the greatest effect.
Commentators read the whole chapter as a picture. A father sends his trusted servant to a far country to win a bride for his son. In Laban's house the servant speaks for people who are not there:
Where else in Scripture do we find, so closely joined to the bride, the living representative of the Holy Spirit? He takes up the honour and the interests of the Father and the Son. He wins the bride, then guides and guards her through the dangers of the desert to the Bridegroom. How well he pleads for those who are absent, whose messenger he was! He lost not a moment in winning the young woman's heart for his master's son. In the same way, he will hear of no delay in telling his errand to those who might hold him back, if they did not refuse outright.
"If not, tell me," he says — he is ready to go elsewhere. The same is true of the One he pictures:
Lips without life will not suit Abraham's servant, and it will not suit the Holy Spirit. He is here with one definite object, and whether that object is reached in you and in me or not, He will not linger here. He will start His journey at once, for He must return to His master. He is here in grace, in the world as it is, but not to approve it, and certainly not to rest in it. No, neither of these; He is here to lead out of it.
- Errand. The servant's mission ruled everything. He would not eat, rest or turn aside until he had done his master's business.
- Witness. He told the facts and how God had guided him, adding no argument, leaving the outcome with God.
- Question. With the story told, he asked for steadfast love and faithfulness toward his master — and he wanted the answer at once.
- Grace. The family saw the Lord's hand and gave Rebekah without bargaining. Marriage is a relationship of grace, not something paid for.
- Journey. The servant pleaded for those who were not there, and he allowed no delay. He pictures the Spirit, who is here not to settle in the world but to lead out of it.
And Laban and Bethuel answered and said, The thing proceeds from Jehovah we cannot speak to thee bad or good.
Abraham's servant has just told Rebekah's family the whole story of his journey — the prayer at the well and the exact answer God gave. Now he waits for their reply. Their answer settles the matter without debate. It also raises a question: how do people with no real devotion to God still recognise His hand and step out of its way?
Their answer is a conclusion drawn from evidence. The servant had not argued for a favour. He had told them how God opened his path.
The servant told them how great his master was — both father and son. Then he told them how God had opened up his way and directed it. This was the evidence that "The thing has come from the LORD," as both Laban and Bethuel recognized. So they agreed to let Rebekah go, and left the final word to her, though they begged for a delay.
Notice what the servant did not do. He offered no persuasion and no case for why this arrangement would be sensible.
He tells Laban about the matter, and how God guided him. He uses no argument. He never says it would be wise to act in one way or another. He simply leaves the outcome of the affair with God. "Then Laban and Bethuel answered and said, 'The thing has come from the LORD.'" We spend our time reasoning. If instead we were more simple and obedient, and told things as the Holy Spirit tells them to us, the result would be better. But we often put our own wisdom in the place of God's commands. The things said most simply often produce the greatest effect.
Their words sound reverent. Yet nothing suggests these men cared about God's glory. Their quick agreement did not come from their own piety.
We can hardly miss how God controls hearts as well as circumstances to carry out the plan in hand. It was not that there were no difficulties or dangers… We have no reason to credit Laban and Bethuel with zeal for the divine glory. Yet they agreed at once with what was put before them. They confessed that the thing was from the Lord, and that left them with no word to say against it. They gave way at once. They saw that Abraham's word was the Lord's doing, and that drew fresh worship out of Eliezer.
To speak neither bad nor good is to have nothing at all to say against it. Writers draw a working principle from this for anyone who serves God.
Laban and Bethuel heard Abraham's servant tell what had happened. They acknowledge that the thing comes from the Lord, and say, "We cannot speak to you bad or good." So if we act in complete dependence on God in the circumstances of our Christian life, He will make our way plain. He will even soften our enemies, because of the dependence on Him in which we live.
The family gives Rebekah up with no price attached. Commentators contrast this with the same Laban years later, when Jacob came wanting a wife.
It is good that Laban and Bethuel saw that the Lord had ordered this whole matter (v. 50). They realize that they must not interfere with the Lord's working. They are willing to give Rebekah up without question. Later Laban was ready to bargain with Jacob, when Jacob wanted Laban's daughter. But there is no sign of any such legal agreement in the case of Rebekah. Instead we see a true picture of the proper character of marriage. For marriage is a relationship of grace.
The order of names is odd. The son speaks first and the father second. Writers note this without claiming to explain it.
Laban was the son of Bethuel and the brother of Rebekah. His quick welcome of Abraham's servant shows a heart the Lord had prepared in answer to prayer. But why he took the lead instead of his father Bethuel is not revealed.
- Told — the servant reported how God had ordered his way. He used no argument and no pressure, and the plainest telling had the strongest effect.
- Recognised — the family drew their conclusion from that evidence. The matter was from the Lord, so they had no word to say against it.
- Controlled — God governs hearts as well as circumstances. Men with no zeal for His glory still agreed at once with His purpose.
- Released — the family gave Rebekah up without question and without bargaining, and left the final word to her. Marriage here is a relationship of grace, not a bargain.
- Answered — when a believer lives in real dependence on God, He makes the way plain. He even softens those who might oppose.
Behold, Rebecca is before thee take [her], and go away; and let her be wife of thy master's son, as Jehovah has said.
Abraham's servant has finished his story, and the family must answer. Rebekah's brother and father say the matter is from the LORD, and they hand her over to marry a man she has never seen.
The servant had pressed for a straight answer, and what he got was a refusal to interfere. Commentators read their reply as an honest admission. This was not theirs to manage.
The servant asks the key question: will they "deal kindly and truly" with his master? He wants an immediate answer, because if not, he would go elsewhere. It is good that Laban and Bethuel saw that the Lord had ordered this whole matter (v.50). They realize that they must not interfere with the Lord's working. They are willing to give Rebekah up without question.
One writer draws out the practical lesson. This is how God treats people who depend on Him.
If we act in entire dependence on God through the circumstances of our Christian life, He will make our way plain. He will even soften our enemies, because we live in dependence on Him.
Rebekah stands before the servant. Her family names no price and sets no terms. Writers contrast this with what happened in the same family a generation later.
Later Laban was ready to bargain with Jacob, when Jacob wanted Laban's daughter. In Rebekah's case there is no hint of any such legal agreement. Instead we see a true picture of the proper character of marriage. For marriage is a relationship of grace. "He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor (grace) from the LORD" (Prov. 18:22). To pay for a wife therefore is an insult to her and contrary to God's word.
The family agreed fast, which raises a question about their motive. One writer answers it by looking past them to God.
We can hardly miss how God controls hearts as well as circumstances in carrying out His plan. It is not that difficulties or dangers were lacking. They were many and varied. They were there to exercise faith in Him who knows all beforehand, even when appearances say otherwise, and who works all things according to the counsel of His own will. We have no reason to credit Laban and Bethuel with any zeal for God's glory. Yet they agreed at once with what the servant set before them. They confessed that the thing was from the Lord, and that left them without a word to oppose.
The father and brother release her, but they do not close the matter by themselves. Their consent and her decision are two different things.
The servant had told them of the greatness of his master — both father and son. Then he related how God had opened up and ordered his way. This was evidence that "the thing proceeds from the Lord," as both Laban and Bethuel recognized. So they consented to Rebekah's departure and left the final word to her, though they pleaded for delay.
"Take her and go" is what the servant came for. He let nothing turn him aside from it.
We may observe how Eliezer acts with the decision given by a single eye. We do not only see prayer in the Spirit, and worship. We also see a walk remarkably devoted to the will and word of his master, who sent him on this mission for his son. He is set on this alone. It was quite outside the world and its objects. Eliezer will not turn aside from his errand. He lets no bodily need come between him and the task he must put first. All other claims must bend to it.
Writers read the whole chapter as a picture. A father sends his trusted servant to find a wife for his son, and the servant's work ends when he hands her over. One writer names the moment it points to.
It is the moment when the Divine Eliezer delivers up the true Rebekah to be the everlasting and beloved companion of the Son (Gen. 24). Many have pointed out that the word translated "shout" here means a call. It is not a general call, but a call to persons in relationship. His shout does not concern the world — at any rate, not just then; it is for His own. "The sheep hear His voice." "They know His voice" (John 10:3-4).
- Recognised — Laban and Bethuel saw that the Lord had ordered the matter. They knew better than to interfere.
- Released — the thing was from God, so they had nothing to say against it. They gave Rebekah up without question.
- Given — no price, no contract, no bargaining. Writers call this marriage as it should be: a relationship of grace.
- Ruled — God controls hearts as well as circumstances. Even men with no zeal for His glory fell in at once with His purpose.
- Received — the servant never turned aside from his errand. The story ends with the bride handed to the son.
And it came to pass, when Abraham's servant heard their words, that he bowed down to the earth before Jehovah.
The servant has told his story, and Rebekah's family answers that the matter comes from the Lord. The moment he hears it, he bows to the ground in worship — a response commentators read as the mark of a godly heart and as a picture of the Spirit gathering a bride for the Son.
The servant does not first enjoy the success, celebrate, or move on to business. One writer takes this reflex as the mark of real godliness wherever it appears:
In Scripture, everywhere and always, you will find the mark of true piety to be this. The first effect of blessing is turning back to God and owning it there. It is not the personal enjoyment of the blessing, which, without this turning back, turns us away from God. The love that gave it is more present than even the gift. See Eliezer at the well (Genesis 24), the healed Samaritan leper (Luke 17), and many other examples. The One who gives is more and more before us than the gift itself.
This is not his first act of homage. He had already bowed his head when he learned whose daughter Rebekah was. Now the family has agreed, and he bows lower — to the earth. The worship keeps step with what God keeps showing him:
If he was the father's servant and devoted to the son's honour, God in His covenant name was before his heart from first to last… Her reply to his question about her parentage settled the matter. So he could not hesitate to give her suitable ornaments. Once more he bowed down in worship of Jehovah. Those of the house agreed that the matter came from Him. They told the man to take Rebekah to be Isaac's wife. Again the servant bowed down to the earth before Jehovah, and the gifts flowed still more to the bride in particular, but in abundance to all the rest as well.
Readers often notice how much bowing and blessing of God this one chapter contains. One commentator asks why. He also draws a careful line: the servant's act is homage, a figure of something fuller that came later.
It was, no doubt, homage rather than worship in the proper Christian sense. That is, it was individual — not the praise of God's children or of the assembly. Still, it is the figure of worship. Did it ever strike you that there is more of such homage or worship in this chapter than in all the other chapters of Genesis put together? Why should this be so? Can anyone doubt that it is because God has now made the way for true worshippers? In Christ the Son, God has now revealed Himself, according to truth and according to love.
One writer turns the servant's action into a question for today, both alone and with others:
Do we still know worship in our personal as well as in our collective lives? It is not just a matter of emotion. It is a state of heart. Someone is so overwhelmed with what God has done, and with what God is, that he can only "bow" and worship.
What he heard was a family saying the outcome belonged to God. One writer looks back at how the servant got that answer:
He tells Laban about the matter, and how God has guided him. He uses no argument. He does not say it would be wise to act in such and such a way. He simply commits the outcome of the affair to God. "Then Laban and Bethuel answered and said, The thing proceeds from the LORD." Suppose we stopped spending our time reasoning. Suppose we were more simple and obedient, and presented things as the Holy Spirit tells them to us. The result would be better. But we often substitute our human wisdom for the commands of God.
Worship never loosens his grip on the errand. One writer notes what the servant had not come to do:
He had only one thing before him. He had not come to enrich Bethuel's house or to improve conditions in Mesopotamia, but to take a bride for Isaac out of both. Here we see a striking picture of the Holy Spirit and His mission. It is not to improve world conditions, but to take out of the Gentiles "a people for His name" (Acts 15:14).
- Heard — The trigger is words: a family owning that the matter came from the Lord. Plain testimony, left with God, does more than argument.
- Owned — The servant's first move is not enjoyment of the success but giving it back to God; the Giver stays larger than the gift.
- Bowed — This is his second act of homage, and a lower one. Worship rises as God keeps unveiling His hand.
- Figured — This is individual homage, a picture rather than the full thing. God opened the way for true worshippers later, in Christ.
- Sent — Worship does not distract him. He came for one thing only — a bride for the son — which is how the Spirit works still.
And the servant brought forth silver articles, and gold articles, and clothing, and he gave [them] to Rebecca; and he gave to her brother, and to her mother, precious things.
Abraham's servant has just heard the family agree, and he answers by opening his packs: silver, gold and clothing for Rebekah, with costly gifts for her brother and mother. Commentators read the scene as a picture of how God deals with the people He calls, and they ask what the three gifts mean and why the servant hands them over before Rebekah has said a word about leaving home.
The verse turns on one word: "gave." One writer draws God's whole message from it.
The gospel sent by the Holy Spirit is giving. Every other gospel is asking something from man, who finds he has nothing to give.
One writer reads the three gifts as pictures of three things every believer receives. All three arrive the same way.
The jewel of silver comes first. As we look at its beauty, we see one word engraved on it in sparkling letters: REDEMPTION. Gold is the symbol of DIVINE RIGHTEOUSNESS. The clothing tells of a suitable covering. So you see the believer has three things: redemption, righteousness, and clothing. They are all free gifts. You do not have to buy them; you are not to work for them. Eliezer gave to Rebekah, and she received.
Commentators differ on the silver. Another writer takes it as a picture of grace, and agrees about the gold:
Look at how symbols are used in Scripture — in the building of the tabernacle, for example. You will find that silver answers to divine grace, and gold answers to divine righteousness… No gifts were ever given that flowed so plainly from the grace of God in Christ, and rested on God's righteousness.
The gifts match a home Rebekah has never seen. They also reach her before anyone asks her to go.
The jewels of silver, jewels of gold, and clothing suited the glory of the place they came from, the place she was invited to. Once accepted and worn by Rebekah, they would make her fit for the scene and home she was called to. More than that: she receives and owns them before she has to decide whether or not she will accept the call to be Isaac's bride.
The same writer applies it: the fitting is God's work, not ours.
Do not let the question of unfitness hold you back. God does not invite you without setting before you the jewels and clothing that will fit you for His presence and for the place He calls you to. It is He who fits you — keep that in mind; you cannot fit yourself. Every attempt to fit yourself will only end in you being dressed in filthy rags.
The servant carried these gifts from his master's house. One writer sees the Spirit doing the same now.
Just as Abraham's servant brought from the treasury of Isaac "jewelry of silver and of gold, and garments, and… costly ornaments" (Gen. 24:53), so the Holy Spirit has come from where the true Isaac is, to show us all the things the Father has given into His hand.
Another writer sets out the order the Spirit follows with us: He shows Christ, love wakes, then the adorning comes.
He unfolds to us the mind of the Father concerning Christ: He takes of the things of Christ and shows them to us. So He awakens love to Christ, and then He adorns us with the beautiful things of Christ. He makes us witnesses of redeeming love — the jewels of silver. He makes us witnesses of divine righteousness — the gold. He makes us witnesses of practical sanctification — the clothing.
The servant gives costly things to her brother and mother too, yet they stay behind. One writer draws a warning from that.
Was not her family better off for the visit of Abraham's servant?… Yet the blessings offered to people in the gospel invitation of "today, if you hear his voice" are only taken up, realised and enjoyed by believing souls. The bulk of Christendom may go on content with only the outward appearance and trappings of religion, so called.
The jewels were real gain, but one writer insists they were not what moved her.
She takes the jewels, it is true; but the news the servant brought matters most to her… Rebekah was not choosing between Isaac with a share in Abraham's wealth and staying poor and lonely. The question was this. Would she take the portion the Lord was now bringing her, or the one her relatives and her circumstances in the world had provided?
- Given — the servant hands things over; every other message asks something from a person who has nothing to give.
- Given three things — silver, gold and clothing stand for redemption, divine righteousness and a suitable covering; commentators differ, and some read the silver as grace.
- Given first — Rebekah owns the bridal gifts before anyone asks her to go, so unfitness can never be her reason for staying.
- Given from elsewhere — the treasures come from the bridegroom's house. So the Spirit brings the things of Christ and makes us witnesses of them.
- Given, but not taken — the household took the costly gifts and stayed behind; only the one who answers the message enjoys the portion.
And they ate and drank, he and the men that were with him, and lodged. And they rose up in the morning; and he said, Send me away to my master.
Abraham's servant eats only after his errand is told, the family agrees, and the gifts are handed over. He stays one night, and his first words at sunrise ask to be sent home — so why the haste?
Three things happen before the servant will eat or sleep.
The servant is ready to eat and to stay overnight only after full consent has been received, after he has worshipped again, and after the gifts have been given. And he stays only one night (v.54). How many of us would travel for many days to stay somewhere for only one night?
The one night matched what he was.
Then they were able to enjoy sweet fellowship together as they ate their evening meal. He stayed only overnight. As a true servant, he intended to return to his master. He had finished his mission, so it was time to return (v. 54).
His request names the one thing he wants. He had not travelled all that way to make a home for himself where he had arrived, nor to leave Rebekah settled where she already was.
The servant says, "Send me away to my master." He had come to Mesopotamia to secure the bride. Having done that, he would gladly be away. He had not come to stay in Mesopotamia. … It was not to secure the bride and settle her in the old home, but to secure the bride and lead her to a new home. And very wonderfully he forms the same mind in Rebekah. … He wills to go, and she is made willing to go.
What drives the request is not impatience but attachment to the one who sent him.
We see Eliezer asking to be allowed to leave quickly. He must move fast in this business, so as to bring Rebekah to his master's son. … He does not trouble himself about Laban's house; he gives no thought to Laban's request and does not stop for it. His love for his master makes him put his orders before everything else.
Eliezer travelled the road Abraham had left behind, and he knew every step of it.
They might easily have retraced the road to Padan-aram — Eliezer did so. They had not forgotten the way, for he did not mistake a step nor did he have to ask it. … But Eliezer went there only to do a certain business and to return. In a moral sense, his visit to the land his master Abraham had come out of was no return to it. He did not linger there beyond the term of the appointed service. "Send me away to my master," was his word then, and no pleading or kindness could change it.
One writer sets his firmness beside another servant of God who could not say no to a host.
When Abraham's servant went to find a wife for Isaac (Gen. 24:55-56), he refused to be detained. But this Levite stayed the three days and planned to leave early on the fourth day. But the woman's father urged him to stay another day (v. 7) and he gave in to this. Then on the fifth day, instead of leaving early, he gave in to the urging to remain till afternoon! … This wavering indecision is a sad comment on the character of the Levite, one who had the place of the Lord's servant!
Commentators read Abraham's servant as a picture of the Holy Spirit, sent to bring a bride to the Son. On that reading his answer to their plea for delay — "Hinder me not" in older translations — carries a question for the reader.
When all is settled and the earnest is given, there is no lingering on the part of the messenger. "Send me away to my master," is his word. When they would detain him for a few days, he replies, "Hinder me not." The Spirit does not wish to be detained here; His word is always "Hinder me not." Is something holding you here — some "harmless thing" — some toying with this world's pleasures? Then you are hindering the Spirit of God.
The things that hinder are not always obvious ones.
For the church, there are always a thousand factors to hinder her in going (and the Spirit in drawing her). Natural relationships may be one of the most powerful influences. Yet the Spirit knows His mission. He does not rest until He reaches His aim and the bride is fully free of her old surroundings. What are the factors in our lives where the Spirit has to say "hinder me not"?
- Errand first. He ate only once the business was done — the meal followed the mission.
- One night. A journey of many days ended in one night's lodging. His purpose was to return, not to settle.
- One master. "Send me away to my master" names his whole aim. Love for the one who sent him outweighed every kindness offered on the way.
- One mind. The same desire he carried he formed in Rebekah — he willed to go, and she was made willing to go.
- One warning. One Levite gave in to delay after delay, a sad comment on his character; Eliezer refused to be detained at all.
And her brother and her mother said, Let the maiden abide with us [some] days, or [say] ten; after that she shall go.
The servant has finished his errand and asks to leave at once. Rebekah's brother and mother want to keep her at home a while longer. Their plea raises the question this chapter turns on: what happens when family love meets a mission that will not wait?
The servant had travelled many days and stayed only one night. Seen naturally, the family's plea makes sense.
How many of us would travel for many days to stay somewhere for only one night? Naturally speaking, it is easy to understand why Rebecca's brother and mother ask the servant to extend his stay — and Rebecca's — for ten days or so (v.55).
Writers see no ill will in the request. The family needed time to adjust.
However, her brother and her mother urged that they should wait some days, at least ten. No doubt they wanted time to get used to the thought of the young lady leaving home (v. 55).
The request is reasonable, and the servant still refuses it. What settles the matter for him is not the household's feelings but whose errand he is on.
We see Eliezer asking to leave quickly. He must be quick in this business, so as to bring Rebekah to his master's son. His mission is finished, and he says, "Do not hinder me." He does not trouble himself about Laban's house. He gives no thought to Laban's request, and he does not stop because of it. His love for his master makes him put his orders before everything else.
Most of us give way at this point. The reason is less noble than it looks.
This is usually where we show our weakness. We spare the flesh and neglect what we owe to God. In reality we are sparing ourselves, because we are afraid of not pleasing others. I have seen men who are faithful in what they have to say to others, and God blesses them when they speak simply and without hesitation.
Several writers hear in this verse the oldest excuse there is — not refusal, but "later." One writer turns the relatives' words straight onto the reader.
Her relatives want the moment of decision put off, and you want that too, don't you? "Some day," you say, "but not just now." You want to defer it. This is the plausible voice of the devil. If you are not turned to the Lord, your back is towards Him; you are still in your sins, and they will bring you to judgment. Those ten days are a quiet trap. Felix was a man of ten days. "Go away for the present. When I get an opportunity I will summon you." Ah, poor Felix, when did his opportunity ever come? He never had a better one. Oh, turn now to Jesus!
The same pull works on people who already belong to Christ.
How like this is to worldly believers! They put off complete surrender to Christ, and put off laying their lives fully at His blessed feet. In place of consecration to Him they take half measures and compromises with the flesh and the world — dishonouring to the Lord and disastrous for the believer. There is nothing like full surrender to the Lord's will.
Writers take the servant as a picture of the Holy Spirit. The family's plea pictures what slows His work in us.
If we allow the Holy Spirit to have His way with us — if we do not hinder Him — He will shape our minds to match His own. He will make us think as He thinks about Christ. He will detach our hearts from the things where Christ is not, and engage our affections with Christ where He is. Too often we hinder the work of the Spirit by clinging to the world, its politics, its pleasures, and its religion. But the world cannot hinder if our hearts are set upon reaching Christ in glory.
No argument breaks the deadlock. It passes to Rebekah, and she ends it in three words.
Rebekah's relatives pleaded for delay, and the relatives of believers today often do the same. If we have no relatives to do this, our own foolish hearts will do it even better. The servant, however, would allow no delay. So the question went to Rebekah, for the final decision rested with her — "Will you go with this man?" Was she ready to trust herself to the servant, who was acting for Isaac, and to do so at once? Her answer was simple and decisive — "I will go."
- The plea. Ten more days is a natural, even kind request — the family needed time to accept that Rebekah was leaving.
- The refusal. The servant puts his master's orders above the household's wishes. Love for his master decides it.
- The excuse. "At least ten days" is delay in its most believable form. Writers point to Felix, who put off the decision for a better moment that never came.
- The compromise. For believers the same delay shows up as half measures instead of full surrender. But the world cannot hold us if we set our hearts on Christ.
- The answer. Nobody could decide for Rebekah. Asked whether she would go, she said, "I will go" — and the delay was over.
And he said to them, Do not hinder me, seeing Jehovah has prospered my way send me away, and I will go to my master.
Abraham's servant has found the bride, told his errand, and seen the family agree, so he asks to leave at once. They offer ten days instead, and he refuses — which raises the question of this verse: why will he not wait?
One writer reads this servant in two ways at once. He lists the marks of a true servant, and the last one lands on this verse.
Abraham's servant can be seen as a picture and as an example. As a picture, he clearly shows the work of the Holy Spirit, who came into this world after the death and resurrection of Christ. He came to gather a bride for Christ, and to bring her across the wilderness to the true Isaac. As an example, he shows the marks that should always set apart a servant of God... He is also fully devoted to doing his master's will. He will not eat until he has told his errand. And he will not stay on once the Lord has prospered his way (vv. 33, 56).
The servant does not argue that ten days would be inconvenient. He argues from what God has already done — the way has been prospered, so the errand must be completed.
We see Eliezer asking to leave quickly. He must hurry in this business, so that he can bring Rebekah to his master's son. His mission is done, so he says, "Hinder me not." He does not trouble himself about Laban's house, and he pays no attention to his request. He does not stop because of it. His love for his master makes him put his orders before everything else.
The request from Rebekah's brother and mother sounds mild. Commentators read it as the very thing that softens a wholehearted response into a managed one.
Abraham's servant was keen to finish his task, so he urged them to let him leave without delay. The mother and brother, however, pressed for Rebekah to stay at home for at least ten days, and then she might go. How like this are worldly believers! They put off full surrender to Christ, and put off laying their lives at His blessed feet with a whole heart. In place of giving themselves to Him, they offer half measures and compromises with the flesh and the world. These dishonour the Lord, and they are disastrous for the believer.
Because the servant pictures the Spirit, his three words are heard as a plea addressed to Christians. One writer names the specific things that get in the way — and warns that respectable religion can obstruct more than open worldliness does.
HINDER ME NOT. This is what I want to stress. To me, the Spirit's voice sounds out in these words... Worldly ways and entanglements hinder the Spirit in His great work. Coldness towards Christ grieves Him deeply. Pride and self-satisfaction quench what He is doing, and no pride is more hateful to Him than religious pride. He cannot take the things of Christ and show them to us if we are indifferent, or inattentive, or self-centred. Worldliness is bad, very bad, and it shows a divided heart. But religious pretence is worse, for SELF is the beginning and the end of it, and Christ and His things are made to serve self.
Put positively, the same words show what the Spirit does when we let Him work.
The relatives wanted to keep Rebekah at least ten days. The servant wants to be away, and by his report of Isaac he forms the same mind in Rebekah. Suppose we let the Holy Spirit have His way with us, and do not hinder Him. Then He will shape our minds to match His own. We will think as He thinks about Christ. He will pull our hearts away from the things where Christ is not, and fix our affections on Christ where He is.
The family's delay collapses the moment Rebekah is asked. Her answer matches the servant's single-mindedness.
Natural feeling might plead to keep her a few days, at least ten. But she had only heard and believed the report, and her heart is made up, like the Christian toward Christ... Brother, mother, house, family, country all speak in vain. And the servant was true to his errand of love, to bring the bride home. This is the very pattern of the Spirit at work in the new man, making Christ the one absorbing object... The servant is not distracted — he has only "one thing" to do... When His love is truly known, it makes true love in return. Here, Rebekah's simple answer is, "I will go."
Another writer presses the ten days on anyone still undecided about Christ:
Rebekah hears the message one day and starts the next. Many have put off coming to Christ for ten days and have spent them in hell. I beg you to come now to Jesus.
- Errand. The servant pictures the Holy Spirit. He came to gather a bride for Christ and lead her across the wilderness to Him.
- Ground. His hurry rests on what God has done: the Lord prospered the way, so the journey must finish.
- Hindrance. Ten days sounds harmless. Writers read it as half measures taking the place of full surrender.
- Voice. "Hinder me not" becomes the Spirit's own appeal against coldness, worldliness, and religious pride.
- Answer. Unhindered, the Spirit forms Christ's mind in us — and the reply He waits for is Rebekah's: I will go.
And they said, Let us call the maiden and inquire at her mouth.
Abraham's servant had just turned down the family's plea for a ten-day delay. Their answer was to hand the matter to Rebekah herself, so the whole errand now waits on one person's reply.
Up to now, others have moved the story along. Here the weight shifts to Rebekah. Older translations render "ask her" as "inquire at her mouth" — the family must hear the answer from her. One writer sums up all that has led to this moment:
The decision must come from Rebekah's own lips. In a way, we reach the climax of the whole story here. We have seen the Father's plan, and the Spirit's mission, carried out with care and without tiring. The call has gone out, and it is clear beyond doubt (she would have to come, and Isaac would not go). What will the response be?
The question is not whether she approves of the plan. It is whether she will trust the messenger and go at once:
The servant, however, would allow no delay. So they put the question to Rebekah, for the final decision rested with her — "Will you go with this man?" Was she ready to trust herself to the servant, who was acting for Isaac, and to do so at once? Her answer was simple and decisive — "I will go."
The family's suggestion sounded modest — wait a while, at least ten days. One writer hears in it a voice we still hear today:
"Her brother and her mother said, Let the young woman remain with us a while, at least ten days; after that she may go" (v. 55). That was the delaying speech of that day, and many a soul solemnly echoes it today. Do you say, "I will decide for Christ in a few days at the least: at most, ten"? Ten days from now! Oh, no! It must be now if you want to be with Christ in glory.
Delay can also come from nearer at hand than a household. The same pressure appears in a family circle and in the heart itself:
Rebekah's relatives pleaded for delay, and so often do the relatives of believers today, and if we have no relatives to do this our own foolish hearts will do it even more effectively.
Her family expected the question to be open. It was not. The servant had already formed his own mind in her, and commentators read him as a picture of the Holy Spirit:
He longs to be away and reach Isaac, and he creates the same desires in the heart of Rebekah. He wills to go, and she is made willing to go. Her relatives can understand that the servant wants to be away to his master. But they would rather keep Rebekah a while — at least ten days. So they call the young woman and ask her. They only discover how well the servant had done his work. He had formed his own mind in her mind, so that if he was longing to go, she was ready to go.
Notice what the family gives away. By agreeing to ask her, they admit that their wish to keep her cannot settle the matter:
Whether we allow the world to hinder us or not depends not upon the world but upon ourselves. The brother and mother may seek to keep Rebekah back. They admit it themselves, for they say, "Let us call the young woman and ask her." If, like Rebekah, our answer is "I will go," the Spirit will so stir our hearts that nothing in the world can hold us back, however strong or attractive it is.
The same writer turns her question into one for every reader:
The great question for Rebekah — "Will you go with this man?" — is still the question for each one of us. Do we recognise the presence of the Holy Spirit, and are we ready at any cost to follow His leading?
Because the verse puts the question in her mouth, nobody around her could answer in her place:
Rebekah's answer to her relations was, "I will go." No one else can decide for you. You have a soul, and its eternal welfare depends on your answer. You have a soul to be saved or lost. Oh, will you let anyone, anything, come in between the Lord and your soul? Decide, decide now.
- Called — the family hands the question to Rebekah. Commentators call this the high point of the chapter: the Father's plan and the servant's errand now wait on one word.
- Asked — her question is not about the plan's merits. It is about trust and timing: will she go with this man, and go now?
- Prepared — the question only revealed what the servant's work had already done. He longed to reach Isaac, and she was ready to go.
- Hindered — her relatives asked for ten days, and writers hear that same delaying voice today. Yet by agreeing to ask her, the family admitted they could not hold her back.
- Answered — no one could reply for her, and no one can reply for us; the decision must come from a person's own lips.
And they called Rebecca and said to her, Wilt thou go with this man? And she said, I will go.
Abraham's servant has finished his errand and refuses to stay another day. The family, who had pleaded for delay, put the matter to Rebekah herself. Her answer takes three words. Commentators read the scene as a picture of how anyone is won to a person they have never seen.
The "man" in the question is the servant, not the bridegroom. The pressure to delay comes first from relatives, then from our own hearts.
Rebekah's relatives pleaded for delay. The relatives of believers today so often do the same. And if we have no relatives to do this, our own foolish hearts will do it even more effectively. The servant, however, would allow no delay. So they put the question to Rebekah, for the final decision rested with her — "Will you go with this man?" Was she ready to entrust herself at once to the servant, who was acting on behalf of Isaac? Her answer was simple and decisive — "I will go."
Nothing in her answer came from sight. She had only a report about a man who was not there, and it set her present work against a far greater place.
Rebecca's affection for the absent bridegroom decided the matter. She took a decision of faith. If the report about Isaac, about her future and her high destiny was true, then nothing would keep her where she was. What was her former work of looking after Laban's sheep compared with the place of the wife of the son who was the heir of all things?
The servant refused to wait even a day. One writer asks whom he pictures, and why Rebekah answered so fast.
Let us remember that he is a picture of the Spirit of God. The Spirit acts with positive decision, and produces firm decision in the hearts of those whom He influences. We see this again in Rebekah's reply without hesitation when they ask her, "Will you go with this man?" She answers at once, "I will go" (v. 58). Such is the response that the grace of God brings forth from the hearts of those who are drawn to the blessed person of the Lord Jesus. Natural relationships fade into the background when Christ becomes the Object of the heart. He must have first place.
Her answer was not the escape of someone with nothing to lose.
Rebekah was not a penniless orphan. She had a father and mother, a home in Mesopotamia, and prospects of wealth and possessions in the land of her birth. To enjoy all these blessings she had no need to leave her native land and face a wilderness journey. Yet she leaves it all. She forgets her own people and her father's house, and she faces a wilderness journey to reach a person whom she has never seen. Such is the mighty attractive power of a person when faith and affection for that person have been awakened.
A half-hearted yes would have left her stranded between two homes.
Suppose Rebekah had hesitated and had kept thinking about the country she had left. She would have been unhappy. She would have had neither Isaac's house nor her father Bethuel's. If she had left all and yet had neither one home nor the other, her heart would have been alone in the wilderness, in an impossible position. But she has left all. As she talks with Eliezer, the servant, she fills her mind with what interests her heart. That lifts her heart above the things she has now left for ever. And she journeys in peace towards the home of her bridegroom.
One writer turns the question on the reader.
What was Rebekah's answer when her relations said to her, "Will you go with this man?" She said, "I will go." No one else can decide for you. You have a soul, its eternal welfare depends on your answer. You have a soul to be saved or lost. Oh, will you let anyone, anything, come in between the Lord and your soul? Decide, decide now.
- Asked — the family could arrange the match, but the servant would not move until Rebekah answered. The final decision was hers.
- Won — she had never seen Isaac. A report about him had already captured her heart, so her yes was a decision of faith, not of sight.
- Decided — the servant refused delay, and the same decisiveness appeared in her. When Christ becomes the heart's object, natural ties fall into second place.
- Left — she had a home, family and prospects worth keeping. She left them all for a wilderness journey toward a person she had not met.
- Whole-hearted — a half yes would have left her with neither her old home nor her new one. Because she left all, she travelled in peace toward her bridegroom.
And they sent away Rebecca their sister, and her nurse, and Abraham's servant, and his men.
Rebekah's family had asked her to stay a while longer. Instead they send her off with a stranger, and commentators read this short travel list as a picture of the whole Christian life: a heart won, a home left, and a guide for the road.
The servant refused every delay, and his errand explains why.
The servant says, "Send me away to my master." He had come to Mesopotamia to secure the bride, and having done that he would gladly be away. He had not come to stay there. His mind was not to secure the bride and settle her in the old home, but to secure the bride and lead her to a new home. And very blessedly he forms the same mind in Rebekah.
The family's feelings had to give way, and the choice fell to Rebekah.
Rebekah now becomes the main figure, along with the trusted servant of the father and the son. Here the servant puts aside the family's natural feelings. His one thought is to carry out his mission. They would have her stay a while. But the better his errand goes, the less delay he will allow. The bride has to decide the matter.
The verse names her nurse, and nothing else she owned. One writer draws out how little she carried and why she needed nothing more.
Rebekah takes her nurse with her, but they had little time to pack their suitcases. She would not need the possessions she owned in Haran, for Isaac would certainly supply her with all she needed and much more. The things we leave behind in coming to Christ are nothing compared to the riches of the spiritual blessings that He has laid up for us.
What made the leaving costly is that she had a real life to lose by it.
Rebekah was not a penniless orphan; she had a father and mother, a home in Mesopotamia with prospects of wealth and possessions in the land of her birth. To enjoy all these blessings she had no need to leave her native land and face a wilderness journey. Still, all is left. She forgets her own people and her father's house, and travels through the wilderness to reach a person she has never seen. Such is the mighty power of a person to draw, once faith and affection for that person are awake.
The nurse gets one line here, and one more much later.
Rebekah's nurse: she went with her mistress when she left Padan-aram and remained with her till her death; she was buried under the "oak of weeping." Gen. 24:59; Gen. 35:8.
She left with the same man who had told her about Isaac, and his care did not end at the door.
She goes out to meet the bridegroom. The faithful servant who had won her heart to Isaac continues his care, and guides her across the desert. They send her away with abundant blessings, though those blessings fall short of her real position. But the picture is unmistakable. It is the bride, delivered out of the present evil age according to the will of God our Father, to belong to Him who is in heaven, soon to join Him there.
The journey was long and empty, but the cost of it was not hers.
Full provision for the way is made, not at her cost, and she can forget what is behind because of the prospect ahead of her. Empty wastes lie between the place she has left and her future home. It is a long journey. But a power not her own carries her. And no doubt her guide lightens the road as she learns more and more about the one she is going to. How simple it all is! The Spirit of God leads the willing heart on to meet the Lord.
From the moment she rode out, she belonged to neither place. Her comfort was the company of Eliezer, Abraham's servant, on the road.
Suppose Rebekah had hesitated and thought about the country she had left. She would have been unhappy. She would have had neither Isaac's house nor her father Bethuel's. She would have left all and had neither one thing nor the other. Her heart, alone in the wilderness, would have found that position impossible. But she has left all. As she talks with Eliezer, she fills her mind with what interests her heart, and that lifts her above the things she has now left for ever.
The servant's "Hinder me not" is turned into a searching question — not whether the Spirit is able, but whether we are in His way.
How is it, then, that we are so little attached in affection to Christ, and so little detached from things here? Is it not that we hinder? So the servant's word, "Hinder me not," should have a powerful voice for us... We can cling to the world — its politics, its religion, its pleasures. We may even be so taken up with right things — country, family, and father's house — that we hinder the Holy Spirit.
- Decision — the family would have kept her a while longer; the servant would not wait, and the choice fell to the bride herself.
- Departure — the errand was never to leave her in the old home, but to lead her to a new one.
- Company — she took her nurse, no possessions, and the man who had told her about Isaac. The road was provided for, and not at her cost.
- Desert — from that hour she had neither her father's house nor her husband's. Talk of the one she was going to kept the road bearable.
- Delay — the servant would not be hindered, and neither should the Spirit be. Even right and good ties can get in His way.
And they blessed Rebecca, and said to her, Thou art our sister; mayest thou become thousands of tens of thousands; and may thy seed possess the gate of their enemies!
Rebekah's family sends her off with a blessing. Their words echo what God had already sworn to Abraham, and they say more than the speakers knew.
Older translations read "thousands of millions," which sounds like poetic exaggeration. One writer gives a more exact number, and links the blessing coming true to Rebekah's journey to Isaac.
"Thousands of millions" sounds somewhat exaggerated, but we understand that "ten thousand" would be a more exact translation than "million." With that correction we have to admit that their blessing has come to pass, but only as the fruit of her going out to Isaac under the leadership of the servant.
These were ordinary relatives saying goodbye, not prophets. Yet history has matched their words, and the second half still waits.
Rebekah leaves home with the blessings of her family, desiring that she might be the mother of thousands of millions (v. 60). No doubt God put this language into their mouths, for it has been truly prophetic, just as is the second expression, "may your offspring possess the gate of those who hate him." Israel has been hated by many nations, but will take over authority in the gates of their enemies, the very place of governmental judgment.
The phrase about the gate repeats God's oath to Abraham in Genesis 22:17. One writer ties that promise to the seed as countless as the sand, and to Israel's power on earth.
When God speaks of the seed as many as the sand or the stars, He gives them a Jewish character of blessing. "Your offspring (that is, the many descendants) shall possess the gate of his enemies." God promises the final power and glory of Israel in the earth, putting down their foes, and so forth.
Commentators differ on where the weight falls. Others read that oath as pointing past the nation to Christ Himself, the promised Seed:
It is in Christ that all the nations of the earth shall be blessed; it is Christ who shall possess the gate of His enemies (Gen. 22:17-18).
Their blessing was generous, but it fell short of where she was going. One writer sets the send-off beside the picture the whole chapter paints.
"And they sent away Rebekah their sister, and her nurse, and Abraham's servant and his men," with rich blessings, though those blessings fell short of her real position. But the picture is unmistakable. It is the bride, delivered out of this present evil age according to the will of God our Father, to belong to Him who is in heaven and soon to join Him there. The chosen young woman pictures her, setting out on her long journey to meet the one she is promised to.
The family that blesses her is the family that lets her go. Once Rebekah decided, the parting followed at once.
The immediate result of her decision was that "they sent away Rebekah their sister, and her nurse, and Abraham's servant and his men." If we make it clear that we are forgetting the things behind and are set on heavenly things, it will not simply be a question of our giving up the world. Instead, the world will give us up; we shall be "sent away."
- Decision first. Rebekah chose to go. Her family's blessing came true as the fruit of that going, not apart from it.
- Then the number. "Thousands of millions" is better read as thousands of ten thousands. It is a huge number, and history has proved it a real promise.
- Then the seed. The words about the gate repeat God's oath to Abraham. Commentators differ: some tie them to Israel's countless descendants, others to Christ, the promised Seed.
- Then the gate. The gate is the place of judgment, so holding it means ruling over former enemies — still ahead, not behind.
- Then the bride. Their generous words still fell short of her real position: a bride sent out of her old world to meet the one she is promised to.
And Rebecca arose, and her maids, and they rode upon the camels, and followed the man. And the servant took Rebecca, and went away.
The servant's task is done, and Rebekah's journey begins: she leaves everything she has known and rides out behind a guide, toward a husband she has never seen. Commentators see in this one verse a picture of where believers stand now: between a home left behind and a home not yet reached.
One writer reads this verse, and the words "followed the man," as a picture of the church today.
Verse 61 gives a beautiful picture of the present situation of the church. Rebekah got up and "followed the man." So the church is on a journey, in a desert where she will find nothing of interest to her. Guidance on this journey is given by the Spirit of God (not, of course, against or even without the written Word of God). Like Rebekah, the church has never seen the One she is travelling to meet, but she follows the Spirit by faith. As long as she is occupied with the Lord Jesus the journey will not be hard; otherwise it would be unbearable. Returning to Mesopotamia was not an option for Rebekah. Going back was giving up Isaac.
Nothing in the verse describes her feelings. One writer reads her act as evidence of what filled her heart.
What simple faith, and confidence in love, and hope abounding in her heart! There is no such combination of fitting affections in any bride you could name in the entire Old Testament. Dependence on her guide along the dreary way was what sustained her heart. She looked on to the one who was about to bring her into the enjoyment of the most tender of all relationships. What full and trustworthy reports the wise and faithful servant must have told her! They turned her mind away from looking back at her old home. They filled her with worthy expectation of such a father and such a son as awaited her!
The moment she rode away, she belonged to neither place. One writer sees believers in the same position, and points to what the servant, Eliezer, talked about along the road.
Now let us look at Rebekah's position; she had neither the house of Laban nor that of Isaac. It is the same with us. We have neither the earth we are on, nor the heaven we are going to. Rebekah had left everything, and said, "I will go." Eliezer, a picture of the Holy Spirit, talks to Rebekah during the journey about what is in the house of her bridegroom's father. This is precious conversation for the soul that needs the encouragement of seeing these things. It helps the soul endure the tiredness and difficulties of the journey, and not think about the house and the country it came out of! For Rebekah was going across the desert, just as we are. Eliezer, the faithful servant leading her, took care to comfort her. He spoke to her of the precious things in the father's house.
Rebekah did not walk the desert. She rode, and one writer draws meaning even from the animal that carried her.
The camel is not a clean animal. It chews the cud, but it does not divide the hoof. The servant is a picture of the work of the Holy Spirit, leading the church through the wilderness to meet the Lord. We are like the camels — we have bodies that connect us with the earth, but we have a power with us that leads us onward.
In the second half of the verse, the servant takes the lead.
"The servant took Rebekah and went his way." He took charge of her. We do not know how long the journey lasted. Most likely she did not know the route, nor how soon she would meet Isaac. But the bridegroom Isaac must have been always in her heart and before her eyes. And so it is with God's called-out ones, who make up the church. On the journey they are in the charge and keeping of the Holy Spirit. We do not know how long the journey to the meeting place may last.
That silence about the length of the trip is itself treated as instruction.
Nothing is said about the length of the journey or how many days it took: faith could bear this without complaint. So too, when our expectation of seeing our heavenly Bridegroom is fresh and real in our hearts, we shall not complain about our present circumstances.
- Arose. She left everything and said, "I will go." Going back would have meant giving up Isaac.
- Followed. She follows a guide she can see, toward a bridegroom she has never seen. That is the church's place today: following the Spirit by faith.
- Carried. Our bodies tie us to the earth, but a power travels with us and leads us onward.
- Sustained. The servant comforted her with the precious things in the father's house. Being occupied with the Lord Jesus keeps the journey from becoming unbearable.
- Taken. The servant took charge of her. She did not know the route or how long the road would be, yet Isaac stayed before her eyes.
And Isaac had just returned from Beer-lahai-roi; for he was dwelling in the south country.
Genesis 24:62 is a quiet hinge in a long chapter. Rebekah is still crossing the desert with Abraham's servant, and the story turns back to the bridegroom. It tells us where he has been and where he lives. Both details matter to commentators: the well he came from, and the southern country where he lived.
The name of the place Isaac came from tells its own story. It goes back to an earlier scene in this same family.
This means "well of the living and seeing one." A well situated between Kadesh and Bered, "in the way to Shur," so in the south. Here the angel of the LORD met Hagar when she fled from Sarai. Her cry on that occasion — "You are a God of seeing" — gave the well its name (Genesis 16:14). Isaac lived near this same well, Lahai-roi.
For Isaac this well was more than a landmark on the map.
Isaac's well, the place he loved most of all, was this Lahai-roi. The well told him, as it once told Hagar, of the gracious watching care of an ever-living, ever-present God. What a world this is, where sin has made Him a stranger, and where it has become necessary to seek God at all!
The name of the well also carries a promise for anyone still on the road.
He comes from the well Lahairoi — a word of deep meaning, for it means "the well of Him that lives and sees" (Genesis 16:14). As we travel on our way, how good to know that at the end of the journey we shall find One who has not forgotten His people. He sees and He lives — yes, the word is "He always lives" (Hebrews 7:25).
One writer takes the thought further. Hagar spoke of a God who saw her; the believer now sees too.
The older Authorised Version reads, "You, God, see me." That carries a most solemn truth. But surely it is a much greater thought for me to see God in Christ. It is not only that He sees me, but that I see Him revealed in perfect grace. "Isaac had just returned from Beer-lahai-roi" when he met Rebekah. This is the true and proper setting for the saint of God: standing in the full daylight of God revealed in Christ, and feeding where the new nature grows and becomes very fruitful.
The second half of the verse gives his address. That region has another name, and its borders matter.
The "south country" is the Negev. It was part of Canaan — the southern district that borders on the nearby wilderness. There he went out to meditate in the field at evening.
Isaac does nothing active in the whole chapter. That is not the same as not caring.
The servant's mission in Mesopotamia always looked ahead to the great day when he would guide the bride across the desert and present her to Isaac. In all these scenes Isaac had taken no active part, nor had he left the land of Canaan. All was left in the hands of the servant. Still, Isaac was far from indifferent to the servant's mission and the coming of the bride.
Many writers read Isaac's movement out from Lahai-roi as a foreshadowing.
From the well of Lahai-roi (the living and the seeing one) Isaac came. Isaac and Rebekah met. The servant presented her to Isaac and gave his report. As Isaac came out from Lahai-roi, so our Lord will come out from the place where He now is. He will come into the air to meet His own (1 Thessalonians 4:15-18). No doubt Isaac waited for Rebekah. As she expected to meet him, so we are to wait for God's Son from heaven. Before night came, Isaac took her into his tent, and then came the marriage (Revelation 19).
Isaac walking out to meet Rebekah also shows his own state of heart.
The picture presents Isaac as one who is waiting for, and wanting, his bride. Our desire for Christ may often be weak, but He always longs for the moment when His bride is presented to Him.
- Named — Beer-lahai-roi means "the well of Him that lives and sees." Hagar gave it that name when she met God there while running away.
- Lived at — Isaac did not just pass the well. He loved to be there, near a daily reminder of an ever-living, ever-present God.
- Located — The "south country" is the Negeb. It is still inside Canaan, on the edge of the wilderness. Isaac never left the land while the servant sought his bride.
- Watched — The name assures the traveller that the One waiting at journey's end has not forgotten His people. And more than being seen, the believer now sees God revealed in Christ.
- Coming — Isaac came out from that well to meet Rebekah. Commentators see in this a picture of Christ coming out to meet His own — a bridegroom who wants His bride more than she wants Him.
And Isaac had gone out to meditate in the fields toward the beginning of evening. And he lifted up his eyes and saw, and behold, camels were coming.
The servant's long journey ends here, and the story turns to the man waiting at home. Isaac meets his bride on a quiet evening walk — a scene that pictures both the shape of his life and Christ waiting for His own.
Isaac's story has little drama in it. Two things define him, and this evening walk is one of them.
The leading characteristics, then, are submission (Genesis 22) and meditation (Genesis 24:63) — a calm life given to quiet thought... the main course of his life is bound to be unheroic and unnoticed.
That obscurity is part of the lesson. The good things of his life came to him while he was alone with God.
He was meditating in the field when he got his Rebekah, and he had prayed for the mercy when God gave him Esau and Jacob... we see in him a man who fell short of being a witness for God in public, though he was kind and devout at home.
The word is plainer than it sounds. But where you do it decides whether it does you any good.
In the passages quoted, the word means "to talk to one's self" about whatever is filling the mind. As those passages show, this would be done, as in David's case, in the presence of the Lord... If meditation is to be of value and for blessing, we must do it in the presence of God.
Isaac went out to a field, alone. The place he chose matters as much as the habit itself.
A Christian, when he goes to meditate, must lock himself away from the world. The world spoils meditation... "Isaac went out to meditate in the field" (Genesis 24:63). He went off on his own so that he could take a walk with God in meditation. The world's music will either play us to sleep or distract us in our meditations.
The verse just before says where Isaac had come from. The name of that place carries weight.
He comes from the well Lahai-roi — a word of deep significance, for it means "the well of Him that lives and sees" (Genesis 16:14). As we travel on our way, how good to know that at journey's end we will find One who has not forgotten His people. He sees and He lives.
The trip across the desert took time, yet the chapter compresses it into morning and evening. When evening comes, Isaac is not indoors.
Verse 54 speaks of "the morning," when the journey started. Verse 63 mentions "the evening," when the journey finished and Isaac met his bride. Note that he did not receive her sitting in state in his father's tent. He had gone out to meet her.
Commentators see Christ in this scene. He waits through the present age while the Spirit draws His bride to Him.
The servant was sent to find a bride for Isaac, and we read that at eventide Isaac was meditating in the field. The blessed Lord is waiting; He is waiting patiently in the evening of this present age... The test for this woman is whether she is ready to follow the servant's leading. The test for us is whether we are ready for the Holy Spirit to take up our affections with Christ alone.
L. M. Grant is careful here. He will not say for certain what filled Isaac's mind, yet he still draws out the larger picture.
Perhaps thoughts of getting a wife were the main subject of his meditation. Even so, it is a faint picture of something greater: the Lord Jesus Himself will come to meet His bride, the church, as she nears the end of her journey on earth... We too will be glad to be veiled, as it were, when we meet our Lord. We will want Him to be the real Object of attraction.
- Morning. The chapter tells a long desert journey as one day. It starts in the morning (v. 54) and ends at evening (v. 63), when the bride arrives.
- Meditation. The word means talking a matter over with yourself, in God's presence. Isaac's field shows the cost: you shut the world out first.
- Character. Meditation and submission define Isaac: a quiet life, unnoticed in public, devout at home.
- Memory. He comes from Beer-lahai-roi, "the well of Him that lives and sees." The One waiting at journey's end has watched every step of it.
- Meeting. He does not wait indoors in state; he walks out. Commentators read that evening as this present age: Christ waits, and comes out to meet His own. Like Rebekah under her veil, we will want Him, not ourselves, to be the Object of attraction.
And Rebecca lifted up her eyes and saw Isaac, and she sprang off the camel.
A long journey ends in a single glance. Rebekah crossed the desert on a servant's word, and one sight of Isaac in a field brings her down off the camel.
Isaac lifted up his eyes in the verse before. Rebekah lifts up hers here. One writer reads that mutual look as the church's meeting with Christ, and what she sees repays the whole journey.
Not only did Isaac 'lift up his eyes' (v.63), but so did Rebecca (v.64). And when she did, 'she saw Isaac' — the one she had longed to meet, the one for whom she answered the call and made the journey. This is the hope of the church, to see the Lord Jesus face to face: 'For we shall see him as he is' (1 John 3:2)... Rebecca sees Isaac and knows that the journey is over. She gets down from the camel and covers herself with her veil, showing that she keeps her beauty for him alone.
The camel had carried her across the desert. She leaves it the moment she sees him. The reason is that the road has ended.
When at last Rebekah lifted up her eyes and saw Isaac, she got down from the camel, for the journey was over. And when at last we see Him face to face, our journey will be over. It will not be long. The night is far gone; the day is at hand. When the moment comes, our being taken up will not take long — only the twinkling of an eye, and we shall be there.
Rebekah did not arrive to find Isaac sitting in his father's tent. She saw him because he had walked out into the open country toward her. One writer follows the day from its start to that evening meeting.
Many have pointed out that the account tells the journey across the desert, however long it really took, as though it all happened within one day. Verse 54 speaks of "the morning," when the journey started. Verse 63 mentions "the evening," when the journey finished and Isaac met his bride. It is worth noting that he did not receive her while sitting in grand style in his father's tent. He received her as one who had gone out to meet her.
Her first sight of Isaac raises a question, and the servant who has guided her the whole way answers it. That answer is his last act before he hands everything over.
But the time is not long. Soon the bride sees a man walking in the fields, and her guide tells her that it is his master. Before he gave his account of everything, this faithful servant's last act was to say, "It is my master." What joy it will be to the Spirit of God — not only to have told us of Christ all our journey here, but before long to say to us, "This is He."
One writer turns her promptness into a question for the reader. Does anything in us answer to what she did?
Are we as simple in faith, as prompt and unlagging? Our journey is nearly over now, and the cry has already gone out, "Behold the Bridegroom!" — for those to whom the Interpreter-Spirit has spoken. Should there not be something in us that answers to this beautiful action of Rebekah's, when "she dismounted from the camel" and "took her veil and covered herself"? It is He whose glory Isaiah saw, and before whom the seraphim cover themselves. He calls us to a place near Him, and the intimacy is already ours, if we enjoy it. Both will show themselves only in deeper and more self-abasing reverence.
Another writer weighs working for Christ against waiting for Him.
Yes, the Bridegroom is coming! and the Spirit crying, Come out to meet Him. It is good to work for Him; it is far better to wait for Him... We need this hope in a world that lures on one side and destroys on the other, so that we purify ourselves as He is pure... Nothing can make up for this hope if it is lacking or even feeble.
- Eyes up. He watched for her; she looked for him. The hope held out to believers is the same: to see Him as He is.
- Feet down. She leaves the camel because there is nothing left to travel toward. The sight of him ends the road.
- He came out. Isaac did not receive his bride seated at home. He walked into the field to meet her.
- Ears open. The servant's last service is to name the man — a picture of the Spirit, who has spoken of Christ all the way and will soon say, "This is He."
- Head bowed. The nearer the bride comes, the lower she bows. Closeness to Christ produces reverence, not familiarity, and waiting for Him keeps the hope from growing feeble.
And she had said to the servant, Who is the man that is walking in the fields to meet us? And the servant said, That is my master! Then she took the veil, and covered herself.
Rebekah's long ride does not end at a house. It ends with a man walking toward her in a field at evening. The servant names him — "It is my master" — and her first move is to cover herself.
She does not put on the veil at random. The servant names the man first, and the veil makes her ready to be brought to him.
Notice how he received her. He was not seated in state in his father's tent; he had gone out to meet her. The servant recognised the lonely man in the field, deep in thought, as his master. He passed that knowledge on to the bride, and she then veiled herself, so that, hidden from other eyes, she might be presented to him.
The veil hides her from everyone else. One writer takes that as the pattern the church has failed to keep.
All the varied beauties that mark the saints of God are for the eye of Christ alone. The moment we do anything to attract the eye of man, the true character and beauty of the spiritual life are gone. When Rebekah saw Isaac she veiled herself — a very precious sign that she was to be for Isaac alone. The church ought always to have worn her veil. She should have kept herself for Christ alone, instead of displaying herself before the world that has refused and rejected her Lord.
She gets down from the camel before she covers herself. One writer asks whether the end of our own journey should draw the same response from us.
Our journey is nearly over, and the cry has already gone out, "Behold, the bridegroom!" For those to whom the Spirit, our Interpreter, has spoken, should there not be something in us that answers to this beautiful action of Rebekah's? She got down from the camel, took a veil and covered herself. It is He whose glory Isaiah saw, before whom the seraphim cover themselves. We are called to a place near Him, and the intimacy is already ours, if we enjoy it. Both will only show themselves in deeper and more self-abasing reverence.
The veil says something about who she now belongs to. One writer connects it with the covered head in the letter to the Corinthians.
Second, we see the man uncovered and the woman covered. This tells us of the difference between them, understood spiritually. As we read here, "For man was not made from woman, but woman from man." These two things are true not only of Adam and Eve, but of Christ and the church. So in the assembly the woman is to carry the sign of subjection, the covered head, and the man is to appear without it, picturing "Christ and the church."
One writer looks past Isaac to the day the church meets her Lord.
Isaac going out into the field, and the camels coming to him, is a faint picture of what will happen: the Lord Jesus Himself will come to meet His bride, the church, as she nears the end of her journey on earth. Of course the servant had to tell Rebekah who Isaac was, and then she covered herself with a veil (v. 65). She had no wish to display her beauty at that first moment. We too shall be glad to be, as it were, veiled when we meet our Lord, for we shall want Him to be the real Object of attraction.
The veil is not the end of the story. The marriage follows it.
After the meeting, Rebekah took a veil and covered herself. The bride made herself ready and the marriage followed, for "Isaac took Rebekah … and she became his wife, and he loved her." So too, our wilderness journey will end, and the great meeting will come. For the first time we shall see Him face to face, and He will receive us to Himself. Then we read, "the marriage of the Lamb has come, and His Bride has made herself ready."
- Told. She veils only after the servant names the man. Recognition comes first, response second.
- Hidden. The veil hides her from every other eye. Her beauty was for Isaac alone, not for the road.
- Lowered. She comes down from the camel and covers herself. Nearness to a glorious person shows itself in deeper reverence, not in easy familiarity.
- Marked. The covering marks a relationship and an order. Writers carry it over to the covered head, and to Christ and the church.
- Married. The veil comes right before the wedding. She makes herself ready, and he receives her and loves her — the pattern of the meeting still ahead.
And the servant told Isaac all things that he had done.
The long journey is over, and the servant now gives his master a full account of the errand. Commentators call this short verse the close of a mission begun in Abraham's house, and a picture of the Spirit bringing a bride to Christ.
Commentators call this servant Eliezer. They tie his report to his single mind:
Eliezer set all his thoughts on carrying out the divine errand, and he could not rest until he had told Isaac all the things that he had done.
Another writer sees a man with one work, and a wish for all Christians:
Next comes complete and exclusive devotion to the service he had to perform. He would not eat until he had told his errand, and then there was no hesitation: he has one work and nothing else. If only it were so with all who are Christ's!
The errand had one destination, and the servant gives his report there. One writer follows the journey through to what fills the bride's heart at the end:
In the scene before us Eliezer conducts Rebekah to her bridegroom. So also the Holy Spirit conducts us to the end and the goal. What Rebekah first sees is Isaac; and Isaac takes his bride into his mother's tent. Now that she has the bridegroom, she takes no thought for anything else. She thinks no longer of the possessions, but of the bridegroom Himself. The important business was to bring the bride to the bridegroom.
One writer looks at how Isaac and Rebekah meet, and at what the servant's report may picture:
We see the most reverent love in her beautiful behaviour. And in his love and kindness we see the promises and testimonies of Eliezer fulfilled... This may be like the Holy Spirit delivering up His sacred charge to the Son of the Father, though He will dwell in the church for ever.
That handover does not mean the Spirit's presence with His people ends.
One writer describes the full range of what the Spirit puts before the souls He forms:
This is just how the Holy Spirit is pleased to form our renewed souls. He forms them with the love of Christ, and with the grace of His life and His death. He forms them with the glory that was His from eternity as a divine Person, and with His present exaltation as the risen Man and Head to the church over all things. He forms them with His coming appearing in glory, when He will make good His title and put all things under Him, having abolished all rule and all authority and power. Yet He never changes in that purpose, or in the nearness of love He has for His bride.
Not every writer presses the comparison the same way. One marks a limit:
Our Bridegroom has no need, as Isaac had, to hear what the servant had to tell. Yet no one can doubt this: in the communion of the Holy Spirit He takes every interest in her whom He loved as His own for heaven.
One writer applies the end of this journey to the church's own journey:
At the end of the church's pilgrimage the heavenly Bridegroom will come out into the air to meet her. He will then bring her into His Father's house... At the end of the journey the Bridegroom will be everything, and the present mission of the Holy Spirit will reach its perfect end.
- Errand. The servant had one work and nothing else; he could not rest until he had told his master everything.
- Errand's aim. Every step served one end: bringing the bride to the bridegroom.
- Errand told. Commentators read the servant as a picture of the Holy Spirit. He delivers up His sacred charge to the Son, yet still dwells with the church.
- Errand's content. The report covered all he had done. In the same way, the Spirit forms our souls with the love of Christ, His glory and His coming.
- Errand finished. Commentators differ on how far the comparison runs. Christ needs no report, as Isaac did. Still, at the end of the journey the Bridegroom will be everything.
And Isaac led her into his mother Sarah's tent; and he took Rebecca, and she became his wife, and he loved her. And Isaac was comforted after [the death of] his mother.
This verse closes the longest chapter in Genesis. The servant's journey ends, the bride arrives, and Sarah's empty tent has someone in it again. Commentators read the scene on two levels. It is a real marriage in Isaac's life, and it is a picture of Christ and those He calls to Himself.
One writer traces the servant's whole role and finds in him a picture of the Holy Spirit, whose work ends by handing the bride over.
Eliezer is a well-known type of the Holy Spirit "sent from heaven" on this gracious mission. He knows the mind of the father. He is in constant communication with God. He moves without hurry, straight to the point, and with dignity. He calls, wins, and adorns the bride. He carries and guards her through the wilderness until she is safely home. Then he hands her to the bridegroom, who goes out to meet her.
Isaac does not build Rebekah a new home. He brings her into his mother's tent, and his mother has just died.
The last verse of our chapter tells us that in gaining his bride Isaac forgot the sorrow caused by his mother's death. Sarah here is a type of Israel, out of whom Christ came as to the flesh. Right now Israel stands disowned as a nation. But the Spirit has filled that gap, and more than filled it, by calling out the church.
Commentators differ on the tent itself. Another writer keeps it for Israel's future and gives the church a different home:
Sarah's tent is, in type, for the bride on earth — Israel regathered. The Father's house is for the bride in heaven — the church — and for the friends of the Bridegroom.
"He loved her" is not the Bible's first mention of love. The order of the two mentions matters.
In Genesis 22 you have the story of the Father's love to the Son. Note that this is the first time Scripture mentions love. The next time we find it, it is the love of the Bridegroom for the bride (chapter 24). He loves her, and she comforts him. That is just what you would expect in Scripture: first the love of the Father for the Son, then the love of the Bridegroom for the bride, who comforts him. Yes, love is always personal, and mutual.
One writer lists the outward parallels first, then names the moral point that matters more.
Rebekah pictures the church in two main outward ways. She came out from among the Gentiles to be Isaac's bride, after his resurrection in figure. She entered Sarah's tent after Sarah's death. But the main moral point is that she believed without seeing… The mark that sets the church apart is this: faith in a message from her absent suitor wins her to betrothal. And so she receives the highest blessing and the closest affection.
The chapter ends with Isaac comforted. One writer reads the scene forward, to a meeting still ahead.
After the meeting Rebekah took a veil and covered herself. The bride made herself ready and the marriage followed… So too, our wilderness journey will end. Then comes the great meeting, when for the first time we see Him face to face and He receives us to Himself. Then we read, "the marriage of the Lamb has come, and his Bride has made herself ready." Christ will present the church to Himself all glorious, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing — "holy and without blemish." Then it will be clear that Christ has found an object suited to His love, and responsive to His love, and He will be satisfied.
- Sent. The servant calls the bride, wins her, adorns her, and guards her across the wilderness. His work ends only when he hands her to the bridegroom.
- Won. Rebekah believed without seeing. A message from a man she had never met carried her across the desert, and that faith draws the closest affection.
- Brought in. She takes the tent of Sarah, who has died. For one writer this pictures Israel set aside as a nation, with the gap more than filled by the calling out of the church. Others keep the tent for Israel regathered.
- Loved. This is the Bible's second mention of love. The first was the Father's love for the Son in chapter 22. Here love is personal and mutual: he loves her, she comforts him.
- Satisfied. Isaac is comforted after his mother's death. The same line runs on to the day the bride appears without blemish, and the One who loved her is satisfied.