Beloved, if our heart condemn us not, we have boldness towards God,
John writes to believers about a heart with nothing to accuse it, and the boldness toward God that follows. The questions are practical: what this confidence is, how a Christian loses it, and how he gets it back.
The boldness here is not the settled knowledge that sins are gone. The people John writes to already have that. Here he describes what a walk with God produces.
Now he looks at the effect of walking with God, as giving, not the knowledge of forgiveness, but confidence. He wrote to them because they were all forgiven; but if I want to have my heart assured before God, I must walk in this way. If I am not walking according to God, I must either get away from Him, or else stand in His presence with His Spirit constantly reproaching me. That is not confidence.
So nothing about a person's standing is at stake in this verse. What is at stake is the atmosphere between a child and his Father.
The question is not whether we are, or are not, children of God. The question is whether the children are on terms of happy confidence with their Father.
Sin still lives in a Christian. That alone does not cost him this confidence. The line falls elsewhere: between having a sinful nature and letting it act.
Practical confidence flows from a conscience that is completely pure. The existence of the flesh in us does not give a bad conscience; but if I let the flesh act, then my heart condemns me. I do not doubt the love of God, but my heart is not free. The heart is the whole inner man. The presence of God unveils to me the state of my soul. I am ill at ease if I have walked badly. God wants us to walk before Him without the least cloud, and for this we must be continually with Him.
A bad conscience also works backwards. It drives a person away from the one place where the trouble could be cleared.
Only in the light of His presence can we really see clearly. If the eye is turned from Him even for a moment, the result follows: things become dark to us. And if there is even the least self-will, a bad conscience carries us further from Him instead of bringing us to Him.
One picture makes it plain. It is the difference between a child who hides and a child who runs.
If a child has a bad conscience, he sneaks about when his father is coming. If not, he runs to meet him and throws himself into his arms. But he cannot have that kind of confidence if his heart reproaches him. That is what we always have to aim at: to be with God, in complete confidence with Him. There is no thought behind it that He may have something against us — not as to condemnation, but as to present confidence... It is not only a question of the day of judgment, but of the present dealing of the soul with God, and of God for the soul.
The confidence is not self-approval. One writer traces it to the Spirit instead.
If our heart does not condemn us, then we have boldness, or confidence, toward God. This boldness does not come from a sense of our own good condition. It comes because the Spirit of God is unhindered. He does not have to occupy us with ourselves at all. And God can identify Himself with those who honour Him in their walk and ways.
This same freedom shows itself in prayer. A guilty conscience keeps us busy with our own failure. A clear one leaves us free to ask.
God's heart responds to those who walk as they should before Him... He delights to see love made real. Where things go well in this way, He encourages love to act in prayer. Where the Spirit of God has to occupy us with our failure, we are not free to ask new favours... Where by His power there is quiet enjoyment of communion, our hearts can ask earnestly for more grace... We can freely have done with self to enjoy Christ.
When the heart does accuse, the way back is not to ignore it but to deal with it.
So where there has been failure or sin, self-judgment and confession are the necessary first steps to effective prayer. The psalmist says the same: "If I had cherished iniquity in my heart, the Lord would not have listened" (Psalm 66:18)... Walking in obedience is not only the path of holiness. Through the Holy Spirit it is also the source of understanding God's mind, and so of confidence in prayer.
- Not standing, but state. The verse does not ask whether you are God's child. It asks whether the child is at ease in the Father's presence right now.
- Not the flesh, but its acting. Having a sinful nature does not create a condemning heart — allowing it to work does.
- Not self-approval, but freedom. The boldness comes from the Spirit, unhindered in us. It does not come from a good opinion of our own condition.
- Not hiding, but running. A clear heart runs to the Father; a reproaching heart sneaks about and avoids Him.
- Not ignoring, but judging. When the heart accuses, confess and judge yourself. That restores the freedom to ask and to expect an answer.
and whatsoever we ask we receive from him, because we keep his commandments, and practise the things which are pleasing in his sight.
John has just spoken of a heart that does not condemn us, and now that peace turns outward into prayer. The promise sounds unlimited, so does obedience buy answers from God, and what happens when no answer comes?
The scope of the promise is wide open, but the sentence itself names who may cash it.
The word "whatsoever" in verse 22 presents us with a blank cheque, leaving us to fill it in. But the words before and after it limit who this "we" is. They are those whose heart does not condemn them, who keep His commandment, and do the things that are pleasing in His sight. Such people can be trusted with the blank cheque. They are Christians who love in action and not just in word, marked by obedience that pleases God. Love and obedience bring a person's thoughts and desires into harmony with God's. So he asks according to His will, and receives what he desires.
The commandments in view are not abstract. Answered prayer is tied to how we treat other believers.
Scripture connects success in prayer with obedience, and especially with love for fellow believers. … John urges that this love be real, that is, "not in word or talk but in deed and in truth"; for in this way we shall assure our hearts before Him. If this kindness is missing, our hearts will condemn us, and this God knows. But if we are walking in true love for one another, then we have confidence toward God, and get answers to prayer.
The second half of the verse goes beyond bare duty. This obedience aims at a Person who is glad when we obey.
The passages we have quoted set before us, in the clearest and fullest way, the very highest motive for obedience: it is agreeable to the heart of our Lord Jesus Christ, and well pleasing to God. True, we owe a hearty obedience on every ground. "You are not your own, for you were bought with a price." We owe Him our life, our peace, our righteousness, our salvation, our everlasting happiness and glory. Nothing can outweigh His claim on us for a life of whole-hearted obedience. But one wonderful fact stands above and beyond His moral claims. Our keeping His commandments, and doing what pleases Him, gratifies His heart and refreshes His spirit.
The little word "because" is often misread. Treating it as a condition of being saved wrecks the gospel.
He assumes here that the heart does not condemn; that one has boldness toward God; that we are enjoying communion with Him. And what is the effect of communion? It excludes wrong petitions. … Some fail to see that this is a question of God's moral government of the Christian's state. They confuse it with the ground of salvation, and make it conditional. But this cancels sovereign grace in saving sinners. Here it is not grace, but government. And government is necessarily conditional.
What is at stake, then, is the atmosphere between a child and his Father, not the child's place in the family.
If there are matters between us and God, it is useless to ignore them. God is greater than our heart, and knows everything. … It is not a question of being, or not being, children of God; it is a question of the children being on terms of happy confidence with their Father.
Commentators differ on how to read a prayer that goes unanswered. One reads the verse as a principle of the new nature, not a guarantee for every situation.
This truth belongs to the absolute principles of the new man, for our prayers are not always answered. On one occasion Paul prayed three times and was not heard. But the prayer of the new man is always according to Christ. He could say to His Father: "You always hear me." Verse 22 assumes the prayer we bring to God while we walk in His ways. It does not mean the prayer that bursts from the heart in exceptional circumstances.
Another points the person whose prayer went unanswered back to his own walk.
Disobedience to God, ignoring personal conscience, is the one hindrance. … Our prayers will be in no spirit of mere selfish greed, but of confidence that God will answer them the best way for us. … And we shall receive: there is no doubt whatever about it: God has pledged His Word. If one should not receive, then it only follows that obedience is compromised somewhere.
- Confidence. The verse starts with a heart that does not condemn. Freedom to ask flows from a clear conscience before God.
- Conduct. The obedience meant is love in deed and in truth toward fellow believers, not warm words.
- Communion. Fellowship with God filters the asking, so the one in it never asks for what is foreign to His will.
- Conditions. The "because" belongs to God's government of His children, not to the ground of salvation. Grace saves without conditions; government has them.
- Confidence restored. An unanswered prayer never puts your place in God's family in doubt. It either falls outside the settled walk this verse assumes, or it points to obedience compromised somewhere.